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[–]bbmc7gm6fm13 points14 points15 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
is it advisable for me to visit her the next time I travel and explain how I've felt over the years, and see if this provides some sort of closure for me.
You are suffering from ONEITIS. We've been there. If you really want to fuck her, work on yourself, grab some books and read them. Go through the sidebar and The Rationale Male. Read The Book of Pook...
Remember that SHE DOESN'T LOVE YOU! She may find value in you and want to fuck you but in the end SHE CANNOT LOVE YOU THE WAY YOU EXPECT HER TO LIKE YOU AND UNDERSTAND YOU!
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[–]bbmc7gm6fm4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
ONEITIS : I didn't realise there was an exact word to describe what I felt.
It's a rule that one has to go through the sidebar before posting.
Good luck in your journey.
[–]nixon007 7 points8 points9 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Rip op, who was killed by oneitis cancer.
[–]BoerknTrigger 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Aw man god a solid laugh from this one. You made my day.
[–]1empatheticapathetic1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Like the top commenter said, it's just oneitis. Despite all logic and literature you may have read disproving the worth of such a concept, were still human and emotional and enjoy indulging in such blue pill ideas like a Disney film from childhood. It's literally how we're first taught the concept of love, so we never really drop it.
[–]1SeemedGood3 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I know how you feel, and actually still struggle with it myself from time to time (and more often than I'd like) with a particular woman that I managed to convince myself was really "different from the rest" despite all the evidence to the contrary.
Move on. Your whole deal with her was a complete fantasy of yours anyway - and nothing more. Only you can expel that.
As u/bbmc7gm6fm said, she did not love you and cannot love you the way that you imagined and desired anyway. If she had any feeling for you at all, it was only insofar as you were useful to her.
If you want to get a feel for who she truly is at heart, go to xhamster and watch some cuck vids. Yeah, that's her in reality.
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[–]1SeemedGood0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ha! Then don't get lost in xhamster. Only use it as a tool to observe the true inner nature of women when fully expressing hypergamy in a social scene that is completely subservient to the feminine imperative (ie stick with the amatuer cuck vids for study and disgust only - no fapping).
Seriously though, it can work wonders for ridding you of Oneitis foolishness.
[–]WillyWonka3210 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This shouldn't be here.You need to post this on asktrp. Women are like garbage cans.Only good for one thing.I'm not saying that as a bitter misogynist. Im saying that because its the harsh reality.All the actions they take are done to fulfill their hypergamous intentions.To think beyond this is only detrimental. The reason I'm saying this is because you some how believe that she will complete you and your life will be pure bliss.I'm sorry but no women will ever be able to complete you.You must be complete within yourself.Her job is to pair herself with a complete man.She is an accessory to your life not the entirety of it..Much like your car..For now find another girl.Your excuse WILL be there is no other girl like her.I know because that was my excuse until i started fooling around with another girl and discovered the redpill....Good day.
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