You have to let it all go. Fear. Doubt. Disbelief.

When a baby receives female attention and comfort, it stops shedding tears and calmly enjoys it as a reward in the event of discomfort, whatever the discomfort may be.

When a boy receives female attention at all, he enjoys it a little too much because of how he was as an infant. Sometimes even her mere presence is enough to change his once wild and disobedient demeanor into calm and accommodating behavior.

When a man is in the presence of a female, whether it is the first or fifty-first time doing so, an anticipatory reward is determined. Or it is not determined at all. This is one fundamental difference between the blue and the red pill. Outcome independence.

Here is a thought.

Why do you think that females have the desire to care at all about a man, who they generally view as tools for their own resource acquisition? They sacrifice because they enjoy being with a man who does not fall under her spell, her feminine charm. Her feminine charm includes her instinctual supportive nature towards infants, and this complicates their behavioral reward-system because of how adult men can display both emotional maturity or infancy. The point is that she can say "love" to both these adult men and mean completely different things. Simply put, sexual or non-sexual desire.

So what are you supposed to do? Quite simply, accept that you will never have what you want. She can never have what she wants either. Because both of you do not know what you really want. Man thinks long-term, while woman thinks short-term. Do our predictions and intentions really give us the complete, 100% desirable outcome in both instances? Man thinks it was a good idea to share Facebook, but look at how much more vanity has been created among women, and now the children are now suffering in a global social warzone that is mainly populated by suffocating blue pills. How the fuck are these future men, who are our sons, supposed to enforce truth against their bratty sisters when she has chosen to join the blue pill army that justifies her sporadic wickedness?

Let go of your fantasies, or happiness is always an asymptotic margin..never being obtained, no matter how much closer it is to the threshold. You don't know what you want. You think you know what you want. But who wants to put themselves in discomfort? Who wakes up every morning and says "I want to suffer and I'm so excited to start right now!" My point is that pain is what we would like to avoid if it meant the same gain in the end. But how else are we supposed to gain? Pain is the best teacher. It's like the universe sends you a secret message, just for you, to let you know not to do whatever you just did, again. And there is probably a good reason for you to remember it.

Fear, doubt, and disbelief. These are your teachers because they remind you of pain. They are part of your council, not the whole. Your conscious mind has a choice to bind your body to these advisory creations of your subconcious, or free your body with pure willpower. There is literally no alternative. The path is clear, and you must prepare yourself for obstacles.

So anytime a female gives you praise, assistance, advice, and any kind of support, do not enjoy it too much. In fact, it is best not to enjoy it at all, because the reward-seeking behavioral scripts that our brains like to make start digging a deep hole of pleasure dependence from females. We start to fear, doubt, and disbelieve that we will receive this reward whenever we want. And so, we fall. But do not worry! Everyone falls the first time!

When we let go of this, our spirit is calmly quelling the cold fire fueled by fear, doubt, and disbelief to say:

Let go of me, I'm fine.