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My experience with red pill

thethinker123
May 12, 2014
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Title My experience with red pill
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thethinker123
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Comments 6
Date May 12, 2014 6:28 AM UTC
(12 years ago)
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When it comes to making plans

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May 12, 2014
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[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

She's still shit-testing you because she doesn't believe you were busy. Turn down lunch and offer another time that's "convenient" to you. Tell her she can take you out for drinks or something.

[–]1PaulRivers10 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Interesting...I wrote up reply disagreeing with you, but at the end I realized I had misread your post slightly and my disagreement didn't make any sense.

Good: You can't do it tomorrow, but you can do it (another specific time). Bad: Saying you can't do it because you're busy, without making specific other plans.

It's just my experience, but I've made the mistake before when a girl contacted me wanting to get together of going with the "I'm busy" without making specific plans. They take it as you saying you don't want to hang out with them. But suggesting another specific time is ok, it doesn't resemble the "I'm making excuses because the truth is I don't want to hurt your feelings by directly telling you I don't want to talk to you" pattern they seemed to interpret what I was doing as.

I don't know enough about the context to say, but lunch strikes me as a bad venue choice. If I could, I would try to find a redirect to something that involves better opportunities for pushing the sexual/romantic envelope.

Whatever happens, be prepared that she's going to be asking you about this busy stuff that you're doing, so be ready to talk about it and have it sound interesting (something interesting to you).

[–]verygosuwow -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, I wouldn't tell the girl whatever is it that I was doing, even if she kept asking me. Unless you were going to skydive or something great like that, you don't need to tell her to seduce her. Plus, if she insist it will feel like she's pursuing you. I had a girl tell me I was mysterious and another tell me I was too "secret and mysterious and if you weren't I would have (i don't know the word in eng i'll just say fired) you off"

Make small talk. Talk about her. What is she doing today after this lunch ? Let her ask you what she wants, cutting the conversation, or she will not, and think about you all the time. Don't tell. Joke around "I was going to masturbate/see my girlfriend, she's 60 years old/whatever"

TL;DR : unless it's something greatly improving your value don't tell women what you are doing

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Congrats, but you could have had the same result just by asking her to join you for lunch.

[–]thethinker123[S] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

very true, I will say though at the time I had already asked to get together once already and I felt like it was her turn to ask me

[–]WhatsUpWithTheKnicks 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Part of why this works so strongly is female projection. Women swing from lane to lane, so they project this unto us. By negating her, you signal that you are swinging already, this in turn gives you social proof.

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