After lurking here for some time, I figured I would tell my story. A little about me first. I've been a single dad with hamster minded women in and out of the picture for years now. I've raised my daughter solo from since 1 ½ after her mother finally pushed me to the red pill years ago. Being a single dad I would revert time to time into blue pill thinking. Often bouncing back and forth. Until only recently finally able to understand what I was doing all along.
FFW to a few years ago. I started a relationship with a woman that was a common friend. Not your typical Hamster, at least on the surface. We dated for a while and eventually things progressed. Her mother passed right before I was going to put a ring on her finger. All this time I had red flags all over. Two sisters that were always a problem and needed their lives fixed in one way or another. Also, a mother that clearly had a hatred for men. She would wear the fact that she withheld sex as a badge and was lauded for it. I quickly found that my “bride to be” was quickly following her down the rabbit hole. I still maintained my White Knight persona. Doing what I thought was right, good, and expected. Her mother passed and in her deathbed I professed that I would care for her girls. My GF and her two teenage sisters. Some of the stupidest words I have ever spoken. As you can imagine this was translated into “meal ticket”.
So after the mother had passed I proposed. One small problem, her mother’s house and two teenage daughters. Well this put the brakes on any progress. Things quickly got worse and I found myself paying for a house that was not mine, two teenagers that I would truly understand their motives later, and a fiancé that wanted a baby as an accessory. I was stuck. At least I thought I was. My daughter was treated as a second class citizen in the house as well.
So we are having fight after fight on a regular basis. Things are only getting worse; gas lighting and bartering for sex was served on a regular basis. So what would any blue pill guy do? Let’s go to Vegas. That will fix it. FML. So after dinners, drinks, and shows; I figured I’d get some. Nope she withheld. This was the last straw. The next night we are on a plane home. Shortly after I pulled the eject handle and never looked back. Never had I found anything so liberating. At that point I made a promise to myself. Never again.
See, these three women are what has been warned about constantly here. They were the dark triad. My fiancé, the Macavellian. The pretty sister, the Narcissistic one. The ghetto sister, the psychopath. All three had their primary trait and would feed off each other in the traits they were lacking. This was especially destructive as you all can imagine.
If I could help any blue pill out there I would warn him of this. Watch for the family members of the one you are pursuing. They may complete the dark triad without you ever knowing.
Thanks all for the knowledge here and making my transition from White Knight to MRA to Alpha. It’s been a long road that I never intend to travel again.
TL:DR Read it, I’m not explaining shit in one sentence.
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