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Mystery's advice for men

dazed111

January 30, 2014
5 upvotes
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Can somebody explain what is going on in this video, has Mystery finally gone off the deep end?

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Title Mystery's advice for men
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dazed111

Upvotes 5
Comments 17
Date January 30, 2014 9:42 AM UTC
(12 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1wjnzz/mysterys_advice_for_men/
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Comments

[–]1Zackcid 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

He always had a way of speaking that very slightly bothered me. Listen to those first 15 seconds and you'll know what I mean. Almost patronizing, like if his audience were children.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

He models his speech patterns after some motivational speaker. The basic premise is that he... speaks.... with... a... lot... of.... pauses....

It actually does work. Especially with younger women. If they want to hear what you say, they have to shut the fuck up and let you speak which is a bit of a power dynamic thing.

That said, when speaking to other males, speed it up a bit.

[–]dazed111[S] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

He models his speech patterns after some motivational speaker.

i remember reading that he models his speech patterns after tony robbins

[–]648262 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I think every PUA have something that originally came from Tony Robbins.

[–]dirtboxchampion 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

I agree.

I have listened.

He speaks in sentences that are short.

And clipped.

It sounds odd.

But also slightly patronising.

Edit: that said, the payoff was OK at the end.

[–]heist_of_saint_graft 7 points8 points9 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'd love to get Mystery here to contribute or to do an AMA. Anybody have connections to him anymore? His take on RedPill would be fascinating. I have no doubt that Mystery is RedPill at heart.

[–]1Zackcid 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

LOL, he's either retired and lost his mind, or he's finally found TRP and understands that being a man is fundamentally the greatest foundations to successful picking up. Those questions from fans he mentioned...they're all newbie questions we get on TRP and they're usually dealt with by answers like "Spin Moar Plates!" or "If you want one girl to love you, you're gonna have to be good with all women".

"Man Up" implies that you're no longer dealing with canned routines, but expressing your masculinity.

[–]pwrfull 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

He qualifies himself at the beginning of the video by saying how he was shaped by numerous women. His short, broad generalizations are to establish a common platform, for which in the end, he delivers his simple, message, "Man the fuck up Son!" Without context, this falls on deaf ears, in whose conception of manhood? under what paradigm?

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I've been repeatedly told that to Man Up, I need to wife a postwall hamplanet.

[–]MockingDead 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

The great irony is that before his self-transformation he was a piss-ass beta. So he was "shaped" by women in his life, then manned up and shaped himself.

But he doesn't qualify his statements - he doesn't explain. To me, I get this as pure Red Pill secret "I was pussified by women until I manned up." To a BPer, it means man up and worship women.

Long and short: excellent use of frame, misdirection, expectation. Well done.

[–]heist_of_saint_graft 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Mystery IS the Poster Boy for RedPill. People on here should be ashamed to criticize him, really. He started out as big a loser as any Redditor. COMPLETELY transformed himself, figured out 95% of RedPill philosophy ON HIS OWN over a decade ago. Leveraged that entirely self-made worldview into being the subject of a bestselling book and got his own television show on cable for two years, presumably making a small fortune in the process.

And then fags on here can say he's "annoying". Wow.

[–]sadshark 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That was perfect. He goes into almost full beta-mode pedestalizing women that shaped him, and just about when I was about to lose all my respect for him, he drops the bomb "MAN THE FUCK UP, SON".

Make no mistake, his entire speech was perfectly choreographed specifically for that last line. Ignore everything he said prior to that, it's like a good joke with a long buildup just for the punchline to turn it all around.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't get it.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Yikes, he has not aged well. Glad to see he's still giving advice though. His style of game has always been too formulaic for my taste, but I still have respect for him as he was my first real exposure to game 4-5 years ago.

[–]1Zackcid 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I get the feeling he's evolved past that style of Game. I really do see it as beginner level material, but after a while you inevitably become a natural.

[–]General_Fear 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If you get rid of all the sentences and leave two sentences this make sense to me.

sentence 1 - I have a 6 year old daughter.

sentences 2 - Man up people.

My guess is that he does not like the turn Game has taken. He does not want his daughter to grow up in a pump and dump world. And if he has any influence at all he wants to change it.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

He sounds like Sheldon Cooper from Big Bang Theory. I abhor him now. As much as I like his method, I hate how he speaks.

Plus, the fucking fedora... Jeezus fuck this guy is annoying.

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