NAWALT and Nurture?

Redasshole · 2015-10-04T01:55:16+00:00

You can't overcome your nature. You may put it aside and ignore it for a while but you can't hold on and keep doing that effort for your whole life.

Plus, we are talking about women who would rather increase their capacity of deception rather than changing anything other than shallow in their personnality (IM has a maxim about that).

You are not purple pill for wanting sex. But you are blue pill for still hoping to find a unicorn. You will not find one. They don't exist. Or, rather, a few may exist but the probability that you find them and that they fall in love with you is so slim that it's safe to consider that they don't exist.

Finally, you can not fix a woman. Ever. Not a man either, for all that matters. You can not turn anyone into what you wish they were. It is unhealthy and typical of nice guys. Have you read NMMNG by Robert Glover? You have absolutely zero power over things like that so don't even bother thinking about it. I recommand Expictetus Manual to fully understand that point (only costs a few bucks or you can find it for free online).

Finally, no hate for asking a dumb question on the main sub but next time, please consider using asktrp.

Red_Swords · 2015-10-04T06:43:41+00:00

You really want to know my thought on this?

This might sound condescending, and that isn't my intention, but: I think you need to get laid.

Get your dick wet a few times, before you start dreaming about unicorns. If you seriously entertain these types of thoughts as a 19 year old, pseudo-MGTOW virgin, you're on a slippery slope to becoming born again BP bitch-boy, at best, INCEL at worst.

And again, I'm really not trying to be a dick here. I'm not saying functional LTRs aren't possible. I'm just telling you what I think you really, really need to hear.

mrmeyhemn · 2015-10-04T07:20:52+00:00

there are no unicorns. every woman is a prostitute on some level. don't look for a woman to be a nawalt, expect that awalt. use their hypergamous nature to your advantage = win (if getting pussy is what you want).

motivatedcat · 2015-10-04T02:37:56+00:00

AWALT( All Women Are Like That) doesn't mean literally all women are like that. Not all women will cheat on you the moment someone with higher SMV is in the vicinity.

AWALT is more of a mentality to keep yourself in check and to remember no one girl is special and unique. That beautiful "unicorn" can become the most vicious creature you have ever seen.

Redpillers take in account the nurture aspect. For example:

Are her parents still married?
Known history of sexual partners
Does she have a disproportional amount of male friends
History of substance abuse
Was a Strong Father figure present in her life.

For a LTR, it's crucial to find out about a women's upbringing because if the nurturing wasn't there, most likely nature takes over.

razorwan · 2015-10-04T04:59:17+00:00

People on this subreddit take it to the extreme, but they have a point. All women are hypergamous by their nature, unless they're an aberration like an asexual person. Many cultures put societal restrictions up to prevent female hypergamy from taking root, and women raised in such environments will be less likely to cheat than their counterparts in hypergamous, feminist cultures (like the US's).

As for "taming" a woman who has/is riding the cock carousel, good luck. It's not impossible, but a woman who has fucked several men has already demonstrated that she's nothing more than a wet cave with no control over her impulses, and one who cannot commit. You'd be wasting your time 99.99999% time.

oldredder · 2015-10-04T09:34:23+00:00

The only hope I have for a NAWALT is that I can find a woman who will accept my leadership and through effort, through nurture I can turn her into a NAWALT.

Any thoughts about this?

Won't happen, can't be done. The nature is too strong. If a father raises his daughter right there's a chance but the last chance ends at age 6. Children are pretty locked in then with their morals & social motivation. Everything else just flows from that

iLLprincipLeS · 2015-10-04T12:33:50+00:00

MGTOW/RedPiller

19 year old virgin.

bhuddist monks

Theres this good quote in a game called Skyrim

The only hope I have for a NAWALT

Any thoughts about this?

I have had red pill knowledge for almost a year now so I know lots.

what kind of redpill knowledge? you would know that what you described is a kind of unicorn, still not immune to AWALT term.

you can't have both, pick either video games and mgtow or trp and no virgin.

TeflonDon3000 · 2015-10-04T17:29:01+00:00

Keep hoping, keep dreaming of your unicorn.

The reason we use the term AWALT is for biological reasons, not emotional or rational reasons.

Being 19 and a virgin does not make you RP or MGTOW, it makes you inept with women.

Let's say you do find the unicorn, a bombshell with solid LTR potential, how in the world do you expect to nab her? You've never successfully done so before.

My advice is like many others, get a little experience with women under your belt before labeling yourself anything.

redpillcynic · 2015-10-05T09:28:22+00:00

20 yo. Keep dreaming and let me know when the unicorn shows up

Title	NAWALT and Nurture?
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Date	October 4, 2015 1:39 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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