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| 114 | Confess Your Beta Sins | Red Pill Theory | Red_Swords | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/15 04:27 PM |
| 10 | After reading No More Mr. Nice Guy | Red_Swords | /r/askTRP | 03/07/15 09:03 PM | |
| 4 | Recurring oneitis with strangers | Red_Swords | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/15 01:49 PM | |
| 2 | A moral dilemma: should I bang an old friend's ex? | Red_Swords | /r/askTRP | 22/02/16 08:07 AM |
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| 1 | Progress report with mixed feelingsDon't shit where you eat. If you want to cheat on your wife, don't do it with the hot chick at work - that's just asking for trouble. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/17 03:12 PM |
| 4 | Met a natural alpha and I was a beta again.In my experience, there are two good options for a course of action, when you're not the man with the highest SMV in the room. 1) If possible, befriend the alpha. General social rules still apply (don't be needy, use humor to your advantage, demonstrate value). If you can't be the chief of the tribe, then you should endear yourself to the chief, because that can be leveraged to your advantage. 2) If it's not possible to befriend the alpha while preserving your own dignity, then you should seek t… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/17 02:55 PM |
| 2 | Good Boys - how and why from the perspective of an ex-Good 'ol BoyAs someone who is naturally selfish, but discovered philanthropy in college, I've always been fascinated by the seemingly opposite archetypes of the cold, sociopathic CEO, and the warm, philanthropic CEO. Before I comment further, I should specify I'm referring more to career and social influence strategies, rather than explicitly sexual strategies. I've come to a personal conclusion that the difference between being Mr. Good-Boy, and being Mr. Alpha-but-does-good-deeds, is determined by two mai… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/17 01:32 PM |
| 2 | Bill Nye - "My Sex Junk" and the End of TimesScience persevered 1000 years ago, when it was a crime to discuss or promote theories that were contrary to the opinion of the church. The new church is PC culture, and science will persevere, as it always has. There may be signs of dark times in the future, but real science will continue, even if it must move briefly into the shadows, as it has in the past. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/17 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Bill Nye - "My Sex Junk" and the End of TimesYour point is valid, but that's an entirely different topic. My point was, Bill Nye isn't any type of leader in the scientific community, and he never has been. He's a mechanical engineer that found his niche as a children's entertainer, and a children's entertainer is still fundamentally who he is - the difference now, is that many of the children he's entertaining are legally considered adults, by age. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/17 12:59 PM |
| 11 | Bill Nye - "My Sex Junk" and the End of TimesBill Nye has a bachelor's degree in mechanical engineering - he knows about as much Biology as I do, as a chemist. He did some work for Boeing before beginning his career as a children's entertainer. Using him as a representative of science is a bad example, in my opinion. Not to say that science isn't under assault by the SJW machine, but I'm not too concerned about it until we have some prominent, real scientists such as neil degrasse-tyson, michio kaku, or stephen hawking start preaching this… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/17 10:55 AM |
| 1 | Guy with Micro-Penis Seeks Wisdom1) Anal 2) Eating pussy It might be demoralizing to know that your penis is below average, but that doesn't automatically mean that you can't satisfy a woman. Also, are you really fat? Because I have a fat BP cousin who complains about the same thing, and actually passed up opportunities for sex when he was younger, because he was so self-conscious about it. Now he's a 27 year old virgin (going on 28), and every year odds of swallowing the RP seem slimmer, and slimmer. Anyways, my point is that … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/17 02:28 PM |
| 105 | 10 things guys do to earn the title "fuckboy"Funny - switch the gender of every point made, and it describes 99% of women. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/16 11:01 PM |
| 9 | Google Doodle Proves Awesomeness of Third Reich Feminism.If Albert Einstein had a vagina, he'd still be as famous as Albert Einstein was (probably even more so, honestly). But some people (many of whom were, in fact, born with vaginas) want all the glory of great accomplishments, with none of the sacrifices it actually takes to achieve them. Wasn't it a great idea to give all those children participation trophies for everything?? | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/16 08:33 PM |
| 4 | Blue Pill Frameif something can be measured, it has no value. Is an over-simplification of what I said, making it the literal definition of a straw man. Plenty of things that can be measured have value; gold can be measured, oil can be measured, time can be measured. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/16 09:38 PM |
| 4 | Blue Pill FrameYour argument is a straw man. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/16 08:55 PM |
| 5 | Blue Pill FrameLove is a chemical reaction in the brain that fades over time. A combination dopamine, oxytocin, norepinephrine, and serotonin. Love can measured, quantified, and boiled down to it's constituent components. There's nothing special or magical about it. What is humanity, without this special, magical love that most people never question? It's the most disgusting, abhorrent thing that has ever existed. The 'values of humanity and love' are of no value at all. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/16 08:45 PM |
| 2 | Black Man From the Projects Tells Us How Western Cultural Dysfunction and Oppression Can Be Traced Back to Experimentation on Blacks in the 70'sThanks for the spoiler, asshole. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/16 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Influence The Psychology of PersuasionReciprocation - a favour for a favour works, so give them one. Sounds an awful lot like a covert contract. I'd be careful, with this one. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/16 05:27 PM |
| 2 | On the first day, he learned how to dressGood post overall, but one area I definitely disagree with, is the "no logos on T-shirts" rule. I've had more compliments on Slayer T-shirts than possibly any other article of clothing. I think the key is calibrating relative to your environment. There are a lot of places I wouldn't wear a band shirt, but there are a lot of other places I wouldn't want to be seen dressing formally, either. Perception is relative to environment, and people should dress according; you don't wear nice jeans and a b… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/16 01:48 AM |
| 8 | Girl At Work Tries Playing GamesI agree that you shouldn't have bothered with a girl that has a reputation for head games, and also with a girl at work. But the real reason I'm replying, is looking at the comment section, your hyper-sensitivity to criticism makes you come off as extremely insecure. You should work on your frame, set your ego aside, and be willing to listen to and learn from others. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/16 09:53 PM |
| 3 | Beta Chooses "Celibacy" after LTR breakup"Man with deteriorating condition and beta worldview willfully removes himself from the gene pool." Isn't natural selection fascinating? | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/16 06:31 PM |
| 7 | You're right. AWALTWhen she went to go talk to her Mom, I'd bet any amount of money she was making sure she had a place to stay before telling you the truth. Had she not had an alternative roof over her head, you can be damn sure that she would've wanted to "work things out," right up until she knew where she would be staying. Never forget, women are naturally Machiavellian. Things like guilt or empathy play absolutely zero role in their decision-making process. Good on you, for getting out of this with your head … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/16 04:32 PM |
| 1 | are men genetically superior to women?You have a point, but developed skill trumps natural talent in most circumstances. A man who has been taught social intelligence will often be superior to women, but if they're both purposefully taught about social intelligence, I would wager that woman's natural disposition for it would mean that she remains superior, if all other variables are made equal. I don't think it's accurate to use the fact that most leaders are men as evidence here either, because there's a lot more to good leadership… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/16 01:24 AM |
| -1 | are men genetically superior to women?Genetically different? Absolutely. Genetically superior? Debatable; it depends on what measure you base the term 'superior' on. If you're measuring superiority based on physical strength and logical reasoning, then men would likely come out on top in any study. If you're measuring superiority based on social intelligence, emotional intelligence, or natural affinity to cunning, then the opposite is true - women would likely be deemed superior in such a study. The world isn't black and white. Neit… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/16 08:11 PM |
| 4 | Long hair in the workplaceI've had long hair for a few years now, and I don't feel like it's held me back at all. A few quick notes based on personal experience... 1) Taking good care of it is key. If you can't/won't keep it from being a greasy, tangled, dandruff-speckled mess, then you shouldn't have long hair. 2) Like any other hair style, you need the right face and build for it. You might like the style, but if you look dopey with long hair, don't lie to yourself about it. 3) You'll get shit-tested for having long ha… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/16 03:43 PM |
| 1 | I cannot be loved [Passing last two phases] [FR]That's not true, actually. Energy, just like matter, has a finite quantity inside of our universe. Just saying. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/16 10:28 PM |
| 14 | Women will treat you like garbage if you are low SMVIn terms of Sexual Market Value, very debatable, indeed. In terms of Social Market Value, absolutely. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/16 12:37 PM |
| 2 | Why college is actually overrated when it comes to girls and hookup culture.Crack a 3.0?? You don't crack into a 3.0, you crack out of one; everyone essentially starts out at a 4.0, you only need to maintain it. I'm only speaking for American colleges, since I know some countries have different systems, but even if you're in STEM, you'll have a solid 1/4 of any bachelor's degree padded by the easy-as-pie general requirements you're forced to take, like English composition and humanities. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/16 04:00 AM |
| 2 | Why college is actually overrated when it comes to girls and hookup culture.I'm sure it varies depending on your major and the kind of job you're planning to go for, but personally, I think there's very few excuses to be any less than around 3.5. Professors tend to notice students who put in the extra effort to achieve excellence. Unless you come from a wealthy, well-connected family, college is the best opportunity you'll have to make professional connections for many, many years. If someone just wants to do the work and get paid, the should study the trades or certifi… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/16 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Why college is actually overrated when it comes to girls and hookup culture.If you're going to college for chicks, you're wasting your time and your money (or your parents money, if you're one of the lucky ones). Not that I'm encouraging abstinence in college or anything, but you should be dedicating those years to learning your field inside and out, and building connections with other students who are learning their field inside and out. People who pedestalize the 'college experience' as living out an American Pie movie have no business going to college in the first pl… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/16 04:35 AM |
| 1 | Has TRP made anyone else become atheist?That's fair to say, and it's one of the reasons I'm not a preachy type, and generally won't discuss my belief in god unless I'm asked about it. But the same could be said for atheism. The fact of the matter is, no matter what you believe (atheism, deism, organized religion), we just don't know yet. Is there a god? Is there an afterlife? It doesn't matter if you reply yes or no, but if you claim either with 100% certainty than you're either a zealot, or you probably have something to sell. So I c… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/16 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Has TRP made anyone else become atheist?To each his own I suppose, but I think basing your religious beliefs off of something like TRP is a little one-dimensional. I was on the precipice of deism and atheism for a while, but I've settled into a firm belief that there must be some sort of intelligent creator, that's so far above us in terms of form or cognition that it's beyond human comprehension. I came to believe that more and more the deeper I studied chemistry, and understood the fact that it's amazing anything is anything beyond … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/16 06:14 AM |
| 2 | I dodged a bulletHad a similar situation recently. I started hooking up with a girl that I was thinking about turning into a plate. She eventually let it out that she had one abortion, and was 'raped' twice (one sounded like it could have been legit, but I was especially doubtful because she all but admitted that the other was essentially just her getting shit-faced and passed around at a party), and had a bad history of dating the 'wrong guy' (otherwise known as getting pumped & dumped a lot). All this, by the … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/16 05:16 AM |
| 1 | Hi the redpill, I'm deeply depressed and I can't change what makes me depressed and can't talk about it IRL. So vent.Latin America. Maybe Mexico, depending on the direction it goes within the next decade. If not, Panama, Ecuador, and Colombia all have good potential. Cuba may also become promising, now that it's beginning to normalize relations with the US. The ability to speak Spanish and a bank full of US dollars with an investment portfolio accruing dividends will go a long way, in a place with a favorable exchange rate. It's true that many of these countries have major problems, but they're usually problem… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/16 04:40 AM |
| 0 | Hi the redpill, I'm deeply depressed and I can't change what makes me depressed and can't talk about it IRL. So vent.Do what people who have felt disconnected or discounted in their own countries have done for forever: migrate. Germany itself - although the German people have been around for much longer - has only existed as a nation for a few centuries. That's what happens in the world: nations are born, and nations can die. They can be crushed by warfare, collapse under their own weight, or simply become unrecognizably different from some other type of cultural change (if you don't believe me, look at Iran b… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/16 03:33 AM |
| 2 | Why are you here then??If you don't see how it was desperate, then you really need to read (or re-read) the side bar. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/16 03:06 AM |
| 12 | Why are you here then??1) Your text comes off as really desperate. Like, really, really desperate. 2) As others have said, movie dates are generally pretty awkward and a bad idea with girls you aren't really, really familiar with already. Try something more interesting/exciting, that doesn't involve silently sitting alone for two hours in public. If you aren't getting any in private, you probably won't be getting any in theaters. 3) If she ghosts you, fuck it. There are like 7 billion people in the world, and over 50%… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/16 02:49 AM |
| 24 | Hating white people- my storyif i had the same childhood as some of these guys i would be looking to be a fucking billionare Bullshit. If you had the same childhood as them, you'd be just as blissfully unaware of how the world works as they are. Embrace your hardships, and be thankful for them; they make us who we are. You should never desire an easy life, but desire the strength and determination needed to overcome the challenges you've been given. Good on you, for getting your shit in order. Respect. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/16 07:15 PM |
| 2 | Why don't I need to employ dread/general TRP ideology to keep my LTR ecstatic about seeing me?Of course it's opinion, I never said it wasn't. At the fundamental level, TRP is theoretical model of psychology - primarily on the psychology of relationships, and relationship dynamics. Different psychological models exist because the field of psychology itself is largely a matter of people's opinions. With that being said, you didn't deny any of my assumptions. You're a young guy with an insecure girl; come back when you get some experience. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/16 03:07 AM |
| 3 | Why don't I need to employ dread/general TRP ideology to keep my LTR ecstatic about seeing me?Is she ugly and insecure? I dated an ugly insecure chick a few years back, way before TRP. Sounds like a really similar situation. Enjoy it while you have it - I'll be the first to admit, it's a nice feeling. But eventually I wanted more for my life, and began self-improvement, and she didn't. Eventually, one of you will want more. You sound young, and I don't think anyone here will be able to talk sense into you until you develop more life experiences. I wish you the best, and sincerely hope yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/16 02:29 AM |
| 0 | Masculinity and the White Knight as a Perversion of MasculinityI still fail to see a logical connection of how that would somehow make him a beta white knight. Firstly, the dollar was a lot stronger back then; that's how inflation works. Second, low pay isn't such a bad thing in the military, because you have the option to essentially live an expense-free life in your youth. You can live in the barracks, eat at the barracks, and pocket virtually 100% of your money to do whatever you want with. You also get free healthcare, early retirement, and a lot of oth… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/16 05:45 AM |
| 6 | Masculinity and the White Knight as a Perversion of MasculinityBy modern definition your grandfather would be a beta white knight. How so? He was already in the military before the United States entered the war; there's a long history of military service in my family. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/16 11:26 PM |
| 5 | Masculinity and the White Knight as a Perversion of MasculinityI'm gonna have to disagree with you. My grandfather was a POW in Nazi Germany, and I remember as a child, he gave my grandmother shit all the time just to mess with her - then he would joke about how mad she was with my brothers and I. He was definitely old-school RP. I see what your train of thought is, but White Knight in this context is only a recent term, and it's certainly not a compliment on someone's character. I'm not saying beta white knights didn't go to war - I'm sure plenty of them d… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/16 10:32 PM |
| 1 | PregnantI might get called crazy for this, but if she ends up refusing to abort, maybe he should consider marriage? It sounds like she and her family are well established, so the odds of divorce rape (while obviously still present) might be somewhat mitigated. Of course it's still far from ideal. But if he wanted an ideal life, then he shouldn't have gotten her knocked up in the first place. I would push for the abortion first, but given his age, I'm assuming he doesn't have too much going for him in li… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/16 08:49 PM |
| 12 | Masculinity and the White Knight as a Perversion of MasculinityThe heart of masculinity is a man’s relationship with power; his efficiency in acquiring power, his comfort in holding power, and his ability to maintain power. I think this is probably the best definition of masculinity (or at least, my own perception of it) that I've ever read. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/16 08:40 PM |
| 2 | I'm so fucking beta it's patheticFind yourself a practice girl. One that's so far below your league, that you genuinely won't care if you fuck it up, because you know you're better than her, and you deserve better than her. Work your way up from there. Bed 5s until you're comfortable talking to a 6. Then bed 6s until you're comfortable talking to 7s. Lather, rinse, repeat. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/16 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Straight from the whores mouthI had an affair with an older married coworker while his wife was pregnant with their second child. She found out and it nearly destroyed her. I literally didnt care. This right here, is a tell-tale indicator of a psychopath. The defining characteristic is a lack of empathy, but the rest of her behavior fits the conventional model almost perfectly. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/16 05:56 AM |
| 1 | Comedy as strategyI don't think that they're mutually exclusive, but a good comedian tends to be a good public speaker, because they necessarily end up performing in front of an audience. You can be funny without being a good public speaker, and you can also be a good public speaker without being funny. But with that said, each one is capable of exponentially enhancing the other. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/16 01:04 AM |
| 2 | Comedy as strategyComedy is fucking great. My preferred methods are anecdotes/stories, one-liners, and sarcastic banter. I think sarcastic banter is the most difficult to do properly because sarcasm is usually more negative, thus it requires a certain level of calibration to tap into the listener's darker sense of humor, while not actually offending them. For that reason, I think it's best one-on-one, or small, familiar groups. One-liners are pretty versatile, so I use them speaking one-on-one and in small groups… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/16 04:08 AM |
| 3 | Theory Weekend - No Stupid Questions Thread Part IIAssuming you're in college, the golden question is: "so what's your major?" From that point, assuming they're interested in having a conversation, it's an easy transition to talk about your classes, goals, interests, and lots of other things. People love to talk about themselves, and if you're a good listener (use active listening), you can build rapport with people stupidly fast. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/16 01:19 AM |
| 5 | Theory Weekend - No Stupid Questions Thread Part III think the issue is that a lot of people, especially if they've been beta for years, decades - potentially their whole life - is that they apologize way too much. It isn't that apologizing itself is inherently bad, but an apology is essentially communicating "I submit to the fact that I'm in the wrong, and your forgiveness is important enough for me to request it outright." In some situations this is good. If you fuck up at work, for example, it's generally better to own your mistake, and do wh… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/16 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Why Women MudsharkWhat you think it means doesn't change the reality of what it actually means. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/16 05:31 AM |
| 7 | Why Women MudsharkI agree with this. I think the fact that she said 'nigger' instead of 'black guy' is a tell-tale sign that she probably just comes from a more racist family (pissing off daddy), or that she was intentionally trying to make it sound controversial (attention whore). Moreover, if whites as a collective choose not to reproduce at the same rates as other races, then ultimately, it will be our own fault for allowing the regressive development of our culture to eventually become our own demise. That's … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/16 03:28 PM |
| 5 | The candy experiment and you.I generally agree, but I wouldn't completely write off the potential benefits of work experience, either. Especially if you're going into a more competitive field, a good internship can be really useful to help get your foot in the door when you graduate. But the gist of your point is too true, such things should never come at the sacrifice of the purpose that you started going to school for to begin with (assuming you're in college with a real purpose, and not one of the drones that was herded … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/16 01:14 AM |
| 4 | Field Report: Keep to yourself at work. Landwhale gets me fired because I didn't kiss her ass like the other betas.Look for a job at your college. There are usually student positions open for tutors and supplemental instructors, if you perform well in more challenging classes (languages, math, science). If not, there's still usually student positions for office work, and other shit like that. Of course campus culture varies a lot based on school and geography, but I love working at my school. My bosses are chill, coworkers are cool, and students are appreciative. The only thing that sucks is the pay, but unt… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/16 01:04 AM |
| 1 | An RP Primer to Social MediaThen I suppose we simply have a fundamental difference of mindsets. In science, when you make a claim or present a theory, the burden of proof rests squarely upon your shoulders to prove why your theory is valid, and should be expected. Conversely, it's the duty of the scientific community to examine that theory for errors, inconsistencies, and other holes which would undermine it's validity. It is NOT the duty of the community to show why it isn't valid, because the default position is that it … | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/16 06:11 PM |
| 1 | An RP Primer to Social MediaNo need to get your panties in a bunch, I wasn't trying to shit on your opinion. You just shouldn't make a claim - especially one based in science or math - unless you're willing and able to back it up. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/16 05:31 PM |
| 2 | An RP Primer to Social MediaThere is a very direct and valid correlation between NOT being online all the time and being more alpha. Can you cite any sources for this claim? I'm not necessarily saying that it isn't true - personally, I lean way more to the 'social media is bad' kind of mindset, as well. But with that said, some of the most characteristically alpha men I've met have had quite a large, active social media presence, which was cultivated very deliberately, and clearly seemed to a have a positive effect on thei… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/16 05:21 PM |
| 9 | Social SkillsI don't think you had any malicious intent with that statement, I just think you don't understand it from an introvert's perspective. I had a lot of people, as a child, that would constantly criticize me for being quiet. Telling other adults and children I'm shy, in front of me, while I'm in the room. Telling me I should socialize more with kids my own age. We talk a lot about BP programming here, and in this case, I think those types of situations are exactly where a lot of the awkwardness and … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/16 05:21 AM |
| 3 | Leadership 101: STEP THE FUCK UP + Effective communication/listeningGlad to help. If you're going to community college, see if your school has a Phi Theta Kappa chapter. There's a one-time fee of around $100 to join (it varies by chapter), but they can hook you up with a lot of different scholarships that more than make up for it. They also have a lot of different professional development programs that make you look really good. Student government and any club related to your major would also be a good investment of your time. Student government executives often… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/16 05:03 AM |
| 8 | Social SkillsPretty good post overall, but I take issue with this generalization: Some people like to think they're introverts or that they just don't like small talk, but those are just excuses to not leave their comfort zone. I'm an introvert, and I also (generally speaking) dislike small talk. I'm perfectly capable of it when it benefits me, or when I'm in a more social mood, but most of the time I'm only interested in the more substantive things that are going on in my life. I'm assuming you're more of a… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/16 04:45 AM |
| 26 | Leadership 101: STEP THE FUCK UP + Effective communication/listeningIn college? You better be striving for an executive board position in your fraternity, student government, or club. I can't stress how much I agree with this enough. Even at community colleges, there are usually a handful of student clubs and organizations you can get involved with. Running for the executive board of couple large student organization (and becoming the president of one) was probably one of the best decisions I ever made, because it gave me the opportunity to - for like of a more … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/16 11:50 PM |
| 2 | This is why you need to accept your weaknesses once and for allI thought the FR parts functioned as a good example, personally. I like well written elaborations on theory, but if they're not necessary, then it's really just extra words. It's better to avoid extra words when your able to, and I thought he did a good job of doing that by referencing his past experience. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/16 05:12 PM |
| 6 | Why Height "Matters"I'm really confident that you're not getting attention because you're disproportionally skinny. It's kind of like how really short girls can be a little overweight, but look downright fat, because of how it looks on them, personally. I've known a couple really buff dudes around your height, and let me tell you: if you put on some muscle, and your face is even passable, you'll probably have chicks on you left and right. 6'4 is awkward as fuck if you're skinny, but if you're buff, you'll be a moun… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/16 04:57 PM |
| 3 | How I went from the biggest loser in school to the most popular kid in school overnight, just like the movies and you can too.Good post. I'll be honest, I was expecting something of a lower quality, with the infomercial-esque title. I can really relate though, and in my experience, what you say is absolutely true. It's hard to believe how stark the contrast can be unless you've experienced something like it yourself. I think this phenomena - I don't know if there's common term for it around here yet, but let's call it 'the stranger effect' - is another important reason why it's so beneficial to constantly be on the loo… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/16 05:20 AM |
| 2 | Major missing piece to dropping beta behavior is standing up to bullies. One remains. Please help, guys.Letting it go and having a good time is probably the most 'alpha' thing you could do. Of course if he starts fucking with you, you should stand up for yourself, but clinging on to the past (no matter who was right, or wrong) will only make you look like a petty, butt-hurt, little man. You know who clings on to past grudges all the time? Betas. It operates on the same functional premise as the male rationalization hamster, protecting the ego at all costs. Your ego doesn't want to you allow you to… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/16 02:29 PM |
| 6 | You've got a personal female fan club. Find them. Forget everyone else.Good post. I know lifting is standard advice here, and I'm not saying that shouldn't be done, but I think this also drives home a point that some people around TRP seem to have trouble accepting: you don't need to be jacked, to be seriously pulling women. Depending on the environment and the situation, some men you seriously wouldn't expect can carve out a serious fan club of adoring women. Social proof, niche visual cues (think Mystery-esque peacocking theories), and psychology all play a huge … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/16 03:56 AM |
| 4 | Tune-up Tuesday: What is your #1 issue you need help with the most?I have some misanthropic thoughts and tendencies that I find difficult to overcome. Objectively speaking, I understand that having wider pool of friends and acquaintances is beneficial, but from my subjective point of view, I either dislike, or feel neutral towards the majority of people that I meet. Worse still, if I'm especially stressed and running low on energy for the day, I have a difficult time putting up the friendly façade, and can sometimes be pretty cruel or derisive towards people, b… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/16 06:19 PM |
| 1 | What Jobs allow you to develop and improve as a person?If you're in college, you could try to get some kind of student teaching position. I do supplemental instruction, which essentially means I re-teach college-level material to classes of about 10-20 other students (sometimes more). It smashed my fear of public speaking, and taught me how to effectively engage a literal room full of people, from a relaxed position of dominance. The pay usually isn't too great, it's a student job. And it's a steep learning curve (especially if you're more introvert… | /r/askTRP | 22/02/16 09:26 AM |
| 1 | A moral dilemma: should I bang an old friend's ex?I appreciate the advice, but I worry you may have misunderstood some of the details, so let me clarify. if she starts getting weird or says no in any capacity she's found someone else and kick her the fuck out. Under no circumstances is she moving in with me, or EVER becoming more than a fuck buddy. My dilemma is just whether or not I should actually fuck her, or if I should try to be considerate of my friend's feelings and avoid the whole situation. There's no way I'm trying to turn this ho int… | /r/askTRP | 22/02/16 09:04 AM |
| 3 | Choosing a major.You shouldn't be going back to college UNTIL you a have a clear path. Ask yourself, what do you really want to do? The problem most people make when going to college (other than stumbling aimlessly into debt), is that they don't have a fucking clue what they actually want. And there are different levels to this, too: 1) You have people that that don't even have a major selected yet. 2) You have people that have narrowed it down to maybe one or two majors, but no career goals. 3) You have people … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/16 08:53 PM |
| 6 | [FR] Endless Second ChancesBased on the info presented, I see two potential realities. 1) She really, really wants to fuck, and you're too dense to make it happen. In which case, you should go read the sidebar. 2) You're her beta friend that she uses for emotional validation. In which case, you should go read the sidebar. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/16 08:37 PM |
| 1 | On The Male Mid-Life CrisisOh yeah, doubt would creep in all the time about my decision to just abruptly end it. Especially because I tried to stay friends with her, since the whole thing wasn't really her fault. But as most people here can probably attest, friendship with an ex just doesn't really work. I ended up having sex with her a few times during the weeks after we broke up, but we had both been so attached to each other (looking back on it now I can see that we had a really co-dependent relationship. I was really … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/16 08:30 PM |
| 2 | On The Male Mid-Life CrisisSame here. It definitely isn't as widely publicized (not yet, anyways), but some people have called this phenomena a quarter-life crisis; essentially the same thing, it just happens at a different age. My story was actually pretty similar to yours: I had a HB6 girlfriend for over a year who was really good to me, but I just wasn't satisfied about my life as a whole. I knew I wanted a family eventually, but I had no direction when we started dating, and eventually I realized what I really wanted … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/16 09:21 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Sharing an alpha, realization of BB statusFirst I want to give credit where it's due: It's really good that you own your mistakes, and acknowledge where you need to improve. That can be a huge problem for a lot of men. The male hamster is too real. Second: you're not obligated to buy these girls a fucking thing. Personally, I don't mind covering cheap shit when I invite a girl out. You can take five bucks and bounce around a few different cheap places, like an arcade, or dollar theater, or grab a cheap ice cream cone from McDonalds. Any… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/16 08:58 PM |
| 1 | How birth control is pussifying men.You probably should, but probably not for estrogen. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/16 03:56 AM |
| 23 | How birth control is pussifying men.It's technically true that there's more estrogen in our water supplies, but it's an extremely small amount (at the parts per billion level). It's also true that there's a correlation between the advent of the birth control pill, and the pussification of the typical first-world male, but there have been SO MANY other changes, both social, and environmental, that there's no way you could conclude that birth control is the cause. We wouldn't have even been testing drinking water with equipment that… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/16 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Girl ignores text for 10 hours, how should I RP this?Obviously, my post was the exact opposite of what he should do, which is get over it and find another woman, and let her come to him if/when the dread eats away at her. I guess the sarcasm wasn't as clear as I thought it was. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/16 12:39 PM |
| -6 | Girl ignores text for 10 hours, how should I RP this?This sounds like a pretty legit analysis. You should try to do something special for her soon, and apologize when you do it for not being able to read in between the lines to see what she really wanted. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/16 06:59 PM |
| 6 | What are the books that really had an impact on your life and changed your worldview?Mystery Method may be a little outdated now (I'm not sure if it is or not, it's been a long time since I've read it), but that's what first started to open my eyes towards the behavior of women, how they don't know what they really want, and how I had nobody to blame for my failures with women, except for myself. Niccolo Machiavelli's The Prince, although a lot of people may not care for it, really opened my eyes to the more cunning, deceptive, manipulative, schemes of people, in general. Of cou… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/16 01:13 AM |
| 2 | The LBI Scale - A way to rate people not just on looks.A valiant effort, but it seems a little complicated. I tend to agree with RP-Doctor about the fact you can never really have a completely universal rating system. With that being said, I tried to make myself a more comprehensive system a year or so ago, and I feel like it worked well (for me, anyways). Pick whatever number of physical features, personality traits, and extras (a wealthy family, a specific race - whatever you like), and give a pass-or-fail rating (1 or 0) to each category. For exa… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/16 05:40 PM |
| 1 | I dont understand how anyone can stay blue pilled once they get through collegeIf anything college is when all this BP crap is rammed down your throat. College campuses are by nature very liberal places where feminism has a stronghold. Even from the students side, the day you've graduated college, you havent sacrificed a single thing for anyone but yourself. You havent worked full time yet, you havent been responsible for other people, you havent even paid taxes. Your tuition and living expenses have typically been paid by others - either mommy and daddy or Big Brother. Th… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/16 11:01 PM |
| 0 | I dont understand how anyone can stay blue pilled once they get through collegeThis entirely dependent on the type of college you're talking about, because not everyone at college is some spoiled trust fund baby. That's true for a lot of middle/upper tier universities, but there are a lot young people working hard to put themselves through community college that transfer to finish their degrees, who haven't been handed anything freely in life. I think that's a really inaccurate, blanket statement to make about college students. And while we're talking about college - not e… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/16 06:57 PM |
| 45 | Buckets StoryI'm not a very emotional person, but this is a pretty touching story. Respect. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/16 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Why Every Man Should Spend A Year In Commissioned SalesInteresting. Thanks, I appreciate the info. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/16 05:38 PM |
| 2 | Why Every Man Should Spend A Year In Commissioned SalesGood post. About Guitar Center, I'm curious: How knowledgeable do they actually expect you to be on guitars, and general gear? Because I've had pretty mixed experiences there as a customer. I thought about trying to work there until I finish my degree, because I heard they give sales commissions. What did you normally take home a month there, if you don't mind me asking? Do they expect sales experience, or guitar experience? Is one preferred over the other? | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/16 06:13 AM |
| 3 | Men are violent, but that's a good thing.I more or less agree, but I think that's a mental health issue, by definition. Men are expected to suppress aggression, bravado, competitiveness, and any other emotional traits that are deemed threateningly masculine by our hypersensitive society. The rule of suppressing any emotion in Psychology is that eventually, something will make you snap, and everything that was pent up is released at once. It's the same as when people suddenly break down in depressive episodes, and others may have explos… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/16 05:51 AM |
| 2 | Your top 5 books for men - in reading order?Well, it's pretty clear while you're reading it that it was geared towards businessmen and entrepreneurs. It's also kind of old, so I can understand your apprehension. I would compare it to how much, much older texts, like the Art of War is considered by some people to be a great resource if you work in business. Just because it was written from a military perspective, doesn't mean it's lessons can't be applied to other aspects of life. Likewise, just because HTWFAIP was written from a business … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/16 05:28 AM |
| 2 | Your top 5 books for men - in reading order?No More Mr. Nice Guy How to Win Friends and Influence People The Prince 48 Laws of Power Might is Right Tons of other great books to choose from, but I think this is a decent flow. From unplugging and deciding what you truly want, to aggressively planning how to obtain it, to ruthlessly executing those plans no matter what stands in the way. I only wish I could fit The Art of War after The Prince, because I think they complement each other well. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/16 01:41 AM |
| 2 | An observation about red pilled men when it comes to politics.Well, I disagree. I just don't get the adoration. I don't consider it a matter of adoration to say he's the best candidate running for president, just a matter of opinion. I also don't consider it adoration to admit that he's been a successful businessman, because regardless of whether or not you like how he has conducted business, it's an undeniable fact. So he happened to have a successful father? Well you can't fault someone for being born into wealth any more than you can fault someone for b… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/16 01:10 AM |
| 2 | An observation about red pilled men when it comes to politics.Well personally, I think a major factor in people's opinion of Trump is where someone happens to fall on the 'realism V.S. idealism' spectrum of political thought. Like I said, I have a lot of friends and family that generally are pretty leftist, and I don't necessarily think less of them for their hatred of Trump. Even though I like him as a candidate, I'll be the first to admit that the man is a giant jackass, so for the people that actually have legitimate grievances against him as a candidat… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/16 08:08 PM |
| 5 | I need some help understanding TRPIf it works for you personally, why does it matter whether or not it's anecdotal? We aren't here to change the world, we're here to change ourselves. Take what works for you, and discard the rest. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/16 04:51 PM |
| 2 | MGTOW Doesn't Get The Respect It DeservesI don't even think the threshold is that much lower, honestly. I think it might be more precise to say that PUA, and TRP, applies game proactively. Someone who swallowed TRP may have a weekly bar night to pick up women, while the PUA may set a certain quota of approaches or closes for that particular week. And MGTOW applies game in a passive, or more reactive manner (which doesn't sound very alpha, but I think it's an accurate description of non-incel MGTOWs). While a MGTOW may not normally be p… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/16 08:34 AM |
| 6 | MGTOW Doesn't Get The Respect It DeservesI don't know why this is downvoted, this proof looks solid. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/16 05:54 PM |
| 31 | MGTOW Doesn't Get The Respect It DeservesI think it's different for each individual, but as I currently identify as someone who has decided to embrace MGTOW until I'm finished with my education, I'll explain my personal interpretation of MGTOW. Since 'going MGTOW,' I've had one FWB, and three other ONS/short-term sexual partners, so it's like I've embraced monkhood, or anything like that. To me, MGTOW is about not sacrificing your time or resources for a woman. I have my goals in life (right now, my education), and I've resolved not to… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/16 05:50 PM |
| 18 | An observation about red pilled men when it comes to politics.The most anti-trump men I know usually tend to be the stereotypical early 20s pseudo-intellectual beta males, who attack his personality (not his positions) with an air of moral superiority because he refuses to fall in line and the political-correctness pandering game. They generally don't know anything about politics, and if you debate the point with them, will quickly resort to calling him a bigot, or a sexist, and say that he's 'too mean' to be president (I don't care if you have a good reas… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/16 06:20 AM |
| 9 | Prone to negative thoughts? Acknowledge, Learn And Move On (ALAMO)Good post. As someone that's always leaned more towards a depressive personality, internal game/frame/self-sabotage has collectively been my biggest sticking point by far, and something that requires constant effort and focus. I'm not trying to fluff it up to sound harder than it is, but I really think that unless someone has personally had to deal with constant, long-term, pathological, negative thought patterns, that it's almost impossible to truly understand the difficulty in correcting it an… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/16 08:10 PM |
| 2 | PrioritizeGreat post. I've been on my longest dry spell since I was a virgin (about 7 months now).I'm not going to lie, I've been starting to feel 'the thirst' these past few weeks, but really need to buckle down and focus with finals coming up soon. This really helped me get my headspace back to where it needs to be. Thanks for posting. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/15 11:54 PM |
| 9 | Beta bucks: success in a respected career but living the alpha fucks life, doesn't seem like you can really have both in the United States.I think that's a big part of why lifting, eating right, and taking care of yourself physically is such an important thing. I've seen dudes in their late 30s/early 40s that can slay some serious pussy, because they're healthy, active, and built. That definitely isn't saying this isn't a real thing though. I became so disappointed in women in general, when I stopped selling pot and decided to buckle down, and pursue my education. I work so much harder, my future is so much brighter, and as a whole… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/15 08:55 AM |
| 1 | What are the dynamics of dealing with men?Hey, it's cool - text leaves a lot of room for miscommunication. My bad on not being a little more specific, in the first comment. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/15 02:24 AM |
| 2 | What are the dynamics of dealing with men?Whoa, relax. I think you might have misinterpreted the tone of my response. I wasn't trying to come off as condescending, or anything like that. I added that as more of a disclaimer, because a lot of people seem pretty dogmatic about the whole alpha/beta, sigma/omega stuff. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/15 02:14 AM |
| 1 | What are the dynamics of dealing with men?I just replied to pretty much the same question on FiveLions' reply, so check that out. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/15 01:35 AM |
| 5 | What are the dynamics of dealing with men?I could be mistaken with the manosphere lingo, but my idea of an omega-male is archetypal nerdy, obese-or-malnourished shut-in; out of shape, can't function socially, little/no practical skills, zero pride or self-esteem. Your description sounds more like what I've seen some people refer to as a sigma-male (which also seems to be the subject of some debate). I think it's important not to get too hung up on labels though. They're useful for discussing theory, but remember that the world isn't so … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/15 01:33 AM |
| 3 | What are the dynamics of dealing with men?Leadership is more about trust and respect than fear and manipulation. This is a true statement, and I never said anything contrary to it. But even in your own words, right here: Leadership is more about trust and respect than fear and manipulation. You admit that fear and manipulation is at least partially an aspect of leadership. Does an employee fear losing his job if he doesn't do his duties? That's a fear-based incentive. And as for manipulation - anything that's done indirectly to influenc… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/15 01:21 AM |
| 76 | What are the dynamics of dealing with men?As someone that's risen to a few different student leadership positions at my college, I'll add my 2 cents. Group dynamics may be different outside of academia, but at least for the other 20-somethings here in school, maybe this will be helpful. First and foremost, whatever group you want to lead, you need to identify the hierarchy. Generally you'll be dealing with a small number of alphas, lots of betas, occasionally a few omegas, and women with a variety of SMV values. So more or less, usually… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/15 04:42 PM |
| 3 | *Help*Men in love/Sidebar/Theory ReadingLove is our evolutionary programming - it's literally a chemical reaction - a real, physical thing that exists in the material world. The trouble many men run into, is that instead of having this rationally explained to them, they're sold a bill of false goods that tells them love is inevitable, undefinable, and forever - which is totally false. This grandiose cultural lie about love is probably the single largest factor (in my opinion) that contributes to the prevalence of the 'anger phase' her… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/15 10:07 PM |
| 2 | "Let Us make man…” Does no one see that the value of womankind is going to plummet to oblivion in the near future? They are going to be extinct.If you assume that the top 20% of men are the ones getting sex regularly with multiple women, then the status quo probably won't change that much, honestly. The ridiculous demand-aspect of women's SMV could drop, but since it will mostly be sexless betas adopting this technology, the actual state of modern relationships may not change much, at all. It will be hard to know for sure until the technology becomes easily available to the general public. But yeah: I would place 1000x more trust in hav… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/15 12:27 PM |
| 16 | Preselection: First club experience 6 months after pillI was at a weekend conference out-of-state a while back, having breakfast the morning after it had wrapped up. I was sitting next a girl that seemed kind of flirty the whole weekend, but I decided not to pursue her because she was engaged (I don't make the first move, if I know a girl is already taken). We hung out, but nothing remotely sexual had taken place between us. Another girl I met at the conference happened to be leaving the same restaurant when we got there, wearing a tight shirt, appa… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/15 04:40 AM |
| 6 | 22 years old, 20 menShe's the town bike, dude. 20 men by 22?? Consider all the common exceptions that women hamster for themselves about their number, and acknowledge that her real body count is probably higher (because women lie about this all the time), but let's be conservative, assume the minimum, and go with 20: If she started having sex at 16 (which is also becoming a relatively conservative assumption), that's a new dick inside of her about every 4 months. Do you really think she still has the ability to gen… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/15 03:37 PM |
| 1 | A short story from my college days - alpha and beta are relativeIn some other relationships, I was the beta chump, but in this one I was Chad Thundercock - and with a girl I didn't give a shit about. You can only be the Chad Thundercock with a girl you don't give a shit about. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/15 01:53 AM |
| 1 | How far is it worth changing yourself?You worry that changing yourself in order to reach a specific goal is a bad thing, but that's the type of logic people talk about here when they refer to things such as 'bluepill conditioning.' Change is a natural part of life, and the catalyst of all human progress in the world. Our society largely tells you that intentional, personal change is bad. We tell you that it's good. Ultimately, it's up to you to decide for yourself; 'bad' and 'good' are subjective - there's no right or wrong answer. … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/15 01:46 AM |
| 1 | "Some are not ready to be unplugged."I'm not saying that prostituting yourself (whether for money, or other benefits) is the same for a man as it is a woman. I'm only trying to understand the logic behind your comparison of the dick-sucking secretary and the fake Christian who attends services to game the sheep. It seems like you're comparing apples and oranges to me, but I wanted to ask in the event that maybe you've noticed some key underlying similarity that I've missed. Curiously though, you didn't actually answer my question: … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/15 08:42 PM |
| 1 | "Some are not ready to be unplugged."Would you eat out a female boss's pussy for some sort of benefit or advantage, if the opportunity presented itself? I sure would. Why do you have zero respect for such people? I'm just curious because I had the same mindset regarding religion before TRP, but now, I see it more or less as just playing the game of life. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/15 03:42 PM |
| 3 | "Some are not ready to be unplugged."How would you categorize the people that, more or less, fake being religious, for social benefits (more networking opportunities, more credibility with locals/religious people, etc). I'm from the south, and most successful people here attend religious services relatively often and identify themselves as some type of christian, regardless of how much they actually seem to believe or practice in their private lives. Of course I'm sure some are genuine, but I'd bet plenty of others are simply going… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/15 12:41 PM |
| -2 | Feminist hypocrisy in action (in college class)College isn't high school; it doesn't work like that. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/15 06:05 AM |
| 1 | Cussing.I agree with OP, to a certain extent. I don't believe any man should forbid himself from using profanity, but young men in particular (13-25) often seem to cuss all day, every day, for no particular reason. Profane words, like any other words, specific instances in which they're useful, but here's the thing: if you throw around fucks and shits and bitches all the time, then the impact of those is lost. That's the key to a lot of word choices, in my opinion: The impact of any particular word is i… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/15 01:35 PM |
| 3 | Advice for a high schoolerHere's what I would do, if I were in your position: 1) Don't fixate on girls, or getting laid - not yet, anyways. If you aren't Chad Thundercock at your high school already, you won't be in the near future. That isn't to say you need a hard Monk Mode, because it sounds like you're doing really well for a boy in high school these days, but you're still in the time where developing yourself should be your absolute priority. 2) If you don't already, start working out. Get a serious plan, eat well, … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/15 01:03 PM |
| 3 | My game with new people is good, except I'm having a hard time rekindling the flame in my on-and-off relationshipI couldn't even finish the whole thing, but from reading the beginning, and skimming through the rest of it, you're doing it all wrong. You lack abundance mentality, and she's placing you into her orbit. I'm no psychologist, but it seems like this girl is probably histrionic/borderline, or has some other type of issue, and is probably psychologically toxic to be involved with. Take a step back and read the sidebar. Love isn't real, it's a chemical illusion that happens in our brains for the purp… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/15 08:08 PM |
| 1 | The Triggerpocolypse!My school's first Feminist club just formed, so honestly, I would freaking LOVE to be a part of this campaign. I know at least one it's members personally, so I might even get a chance to watch the shit begin to stir, first-hand. Will you be sending out these stickers free of charge to people who want to stick them around college campuses, and the general public? | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/15 09:18 PM |
| 3 | Teaching can make you more of a man.Great post. I've been able to work as a peer tutor and supplemental instruction leader at my college, and I have to say that at my age (early 20s), it's probably been the most challenging, as well as the most enjoyable work I've ever had. I've also noticed a pretty sharp increase in my communication abilities - especially when it comes to speaking with groups, speaking with authority (without being a try-hard), and better relating to people on their own wavelength. Even if you never plan to go i… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/15 08:06 AM |
| 4 | Focus on yourself, not others.The fact that you need to resort to insults shows how weak your argument actually is (and makes you sound even more like a woman). | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/15 07:37 PM |
| 7 | Focus on yourself, not others.You sound like a woman. Generalizations are made everywhere. Common sense dictates some inevitable statistical outliers, no matter what the data you're looking at is. Hypothetically, if 1 out of 100 women are NAWALT, does that mean AWALT is invalid? What about 1 out of 1,000? 1 out of 10,000? If you would genuinely attempt to use a few outliers as a basis for disregarding AWALT, then I suggest you take a statistics class; If 99 out of 100 woman validate AWALT, then AWALT is statistically valid. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/15 06:11 PM |
| 7 | Time spent with women you aren't going to bed with is time wasted.Actually, I read somewhere that the taboo of incest likely originated in primitive tribes alongside marriage. The logic being that marriage, as a practical contract between two parties, yielded little benefit if, for example, a brother and sister decided to marry. No families would be joined together, no families would share mutual interest in the other's well-being, and over long periods of time, the growth and unity of the tribe as a whole would be stunted as a result. Of course it's just spec… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/15 05:47 PM |
| 6 | NAWALT and Nurture?You really want to know my thought on this? This might sound condescending, and that isn't my intention, but: I think you need to get laid. Get your dick wet a few times, before you start dreaming about unicorns. If you seriously entertain these types of thoughts as a 19 year old, pseudo-MGTOW virgin, you're on a slippery slope to becoming born again BP bitch-boy, at best, INCEL at worst. And again, I'm really not trying to be a dick here. I'm not saying functional LTRs aren't possible. I'm just… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/15 06:43 AM |
| 6 | The Feminization of boys is almost complete.Love it or hate it, it seems like metal has become one of the last bastions of unapologetic masculinity in western culture. I wonder how long it will be before feminism moves against it. Hopefully the saying is true; metal never dies. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/15 11:58 AM |
| 3 | Change your actions, and your thoughts will follow.Very helpful post. I've done really well in college so far, both academically, and also in terms of setting myself up for success after I graduate. That said, I've had two or three serious moments of imposter syndrome this past year, and its reassuring to able to give that feeling a name, and know where it's coming from. When I started going to college I was extremely self-conscious academically, because I dropped out of school at an unusually young age. Now I can stop trying to analyze it, and … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/15 02:18 AM |
| 38 | Anita Sarkeesian and Friends Lobbying To Censor The Internet Via the UN; or Cunning Female Machiavellianism on Blatant Display"First they came for the Socialists, and I did not speak out— Because I was not a Socialist. Then they came for the Trade Unionists, and I did not speak out— Because I was not a Trade Unionist. Then they came for the Jews, and I did not speak out— Because I was not a Jew. Then they came for me—and there was no one left to speak for me" Be careful which ideas you choose to implicitly support with your silent acceptance. Protecting your personal power is an act of futility, if you set the stage fo… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/15 10:55 PM |
| 1 | UN report, This is how they will try to muzzle these type of forums.Cyber violence...? What a load of shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/15 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Redpill's opinon on drugsDepends on the individual. Some people are better at moderating their habits, and others may have very addictive personalities. I still drink on rare occasions, but it's not uncommon for me to smoke a bowl of weed at the end of my day, because why not? It's the end of my day. But some people I've known, if they have it, they smoke it. They'll stay high pretty much all day, every day, until they run out and buy some more. Weak willpower makes drug habits MUCH easier to pick up - and it doesn't ne… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/15 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Instant Gratification is a Poison - Advanced Monk Mode TheoryGreat post. I especially appreciate the fact that you included your sources. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/15 11:46 PM |
| 9 | UK Government Mental Health Expert is also a Feminist who is now pushing to ban male teens from gyms. /// Also: The Misandry Bubble's Pendulum at half-motionDamn. And here I thought the US was bad. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/15 08:16 PM |
| 4 | Cut Video Games out of your Life. As Soon As Possible.Oh, please - you sound like one of those born-again "marijuana addicts" that turn their life around after their sophomore year of high school. "...Evidence suggests that video games – when used as a reasonable recreational activity – actually have a positive effect on the brain. A study conducted by Queen Mary University of London and University College London found that participants who played video games for less than two hours a week were “quicker and more accurate in performing cognitive fle… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/15 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Respect and male social hierarchies.Good post. I wonder if this type of disrespect is related to the degradation of male spaces, in general. Anything that looks evenly remotely like hazing has been demonized over the last decade or so. I'm a firm believer that new males in a group are like dogs - they have to go at AMOGing each other at least once, and establish an internal hierarchy, or else the group won't function well - most people won't be sure of their place or purpose, or their relative amount of power in the group dynamic.… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/15 01:31 PM |
| 2 | Escape from Compulsive EscapismI think you might be overthinking it a little bit. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/15 04:32 AM |
| 11 | Escape from Compulsive EscapismHow do you boil a frog? If you put a frog into a pot of boiling water, he'll jump out of it immediately - a rational course of action for self-preservation. If you place the frog into a pot of water at room temperature, and slowly begin to heat it, then the frog will continually adjust to the change in his environment, rather than leaving the situation outright. By the time the frog is able to grasp his perilous situation, it's too late to escape the pot. I don't remember where I first heard thi… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/15 02:49 PM |
| 9 | "Self Handicapping" and establishing excuses to lay claim to Future UtilityI realize that you never specified gender in your post, but I just want to say that from personal experience, this is equally as common in lesser betas and omegas, as it is in women. My opinion, is that it serves a dual-function of validating and reinforcing their own self-imposed limits (lying to themselves, that they can't do any better), as well as a public attempt at lowering other people's expectations of them, to try and reduce/eliminate the consequences of future failure. The key point in… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/15 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Recurring oneitis with strangersI'm still relatively new to Reddit in general, I thought that I did. My bad. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/15 01:16 AM |
| 1 | I've finally cut her off.I know people tend to handle their drugs differently, but speaking from personal experience, I'd say that this is very true. I'm coming off of a solid 4-5 years of daily weed smoking - often several times a day (I used to sell it, so the cost of my habit was never a major hurdle in preventing it). I'm still strongly in favor of legalization, for a number of reasons, but I would suggest to any marijuana smoker: be very careful not to overdo it. There really are a lot of great things about cannabi… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/15 11:54 AM |
| 2 | I've finally cut her off.Welcome to reality, brother. (minus the rose-colored glasses) If you haven't already, roll yourself a fatty and start reading the sidebar. (and then cut that shit out, except for special occasions - as a young adult male, your time is simply too valuable to be getting high all the time). It takes longer to fully accept than you might think. Focus on yourself, and aim to constantly be improving and striving for dominance in every sphere of your life. Forget about women - they're a byproduct of su… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/15 10:38 AM |
| 2 | The two layers of saying sorry; why an apology may not mean what you think it does.Back in my BP days, my first girlfriend was the exact same way. It was a shame too, because other than white lies (which was the main issue; I won't tolerate a woman that lies to me, regardless of what the lies are about), she was actually a decent girlfriend. Submissive personality, sex whenever I wanted, always making me sandwiches and giving me little gifts. I was still BP, but was already a point or two ahead of her in SMV. I also fulfilled two very specific fetish that she had in men (long … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/15 02:32 PM |
| 1 | On StrategyI disagree with you on chess(and probably the value of strategy games in general). It's true that any strategies for a game will nearly impossible to implement in everyday life, but they help reinforce the same type of thought processes that lead to the ability to more quickly develop effective strategies in general. There hasn't been a tremendous amount of research done on the topic (to my knowledge, anyways), but there have been multiple, relatively small-scale studies that suggests a small to… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/15 04:08 PM |
| -1 | Confess Your Beta SinsIs it not objectively bad for you, to be used by someone else? To be bad with women (or people in general)? To procrastinate? It wasn't my intention to ridicule beta males, or beta traits - that's part of the reason I used myself as an example. But regardless of whether or not men have been mislead, objectively speaking, beta traits are (generally) a weakness that a man should try to rid himself of. If that wasn't case, why would people come here and advocate change and self-improvement? | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/15 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Confess Your Beta SinsThanks for the tip. Where do I change the title? | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/15 05:18 PM |
| 1 | After reading No More Mr. Nice GuyI'll make it a point to try to re-read it and let it sink in a little more, thanks. I never actually had a problem with most the people-pleasing tendencies though, to be honest. I think my desire for approval was more in my work towards school. Granted, at least it's been productive, but doing well in school is doing nothing to actually address this issue that I think I've pretty much grown numb to people. That's the only way I can think of to describe it. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/15 11:33 PM |
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