I understand that this sub has originated from a distaste in the feminization of culture, and the power that is being handed over to women not only in marriage, but also in social situations. I understand that it is logical and reasonable to fight against this, and I understand that the majority of this sub (me included) believes that the pendulum of feminism is swinging too far, and is focused more on putting women above men, rather than equal to them.

However, the pendulum of this sub itself sometimes swings too far. I understand the substance of this sub is about manipulating people in social situations, and I neither endorse nor denounce this idea. But when people here start referring to women as cattle and objects, they are just as radical against women as the white knights and the beta defenders are when fighting for women.

I know this sub focuses on how all women are supposedly manipulative and how cruel this is inherently, but if being manipulative is cruel, then you are NOT better when you do the same thing yourself. Why not treat people as PEOPLE, as living breathing human beings. Why not treat women as people with desires and hates, hopes and worries, strengths and weaknesses, on an individual basis? When this sub endorses ideas like AWALT, you generalize a group. You approach women assuming that they are stupid cattle only to be fucked. If a woman is manipulative in anyway, then I understand treating them as they treat others, but why judge right away? Why not reserve judgement?

Why not focus on yourself? Especially considering the fact that you are the only constant in your life.