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Need a help with a chick! Really strange situation and my awkwardness at its best

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December 29, 2014
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Title Need a help with a chick! Really strange situation and my awkwardness at its best
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Upvotes 0
Comments 14
Date December 29, 2014 4:17 AM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2qoi5h/need_a_help_with_a_chick_really_strange_situation/
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[–]CDBaller2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

1) Read the Sidebar!

2) post this crap to /r/asktrp

3) sounds like you've got the oneitis pretty bad.

4) why are you texting about anything other than logistics?

[–]jbza2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

oneitis, next

also, this should be in /r/asktrp

[–]pcadrian 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Homie, you are getting the oneitis. Talk to other girls ASAP.

[–]ModRedSovereign0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Post questions to /r/asktrp. And read the damn sidebar.

[–]crossrocker94 -2 points-2 points-2 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Idk how to read the sidebar on the app. And yeah I plan on leaver her alone, but as of now I've fucked up because of drunk texting. I just need to save it so I have a possible future. I'm the pedestal kind of guy but I only reserve that for the special ones.

[–]1-drukpa-kunley-3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago [recovered] (8 children) | Copy Link

You sound really young.

  • Find a way to read the sidebar.
  • There are no special ones.
  • Most likely there is no way to save it.
  • Man up and learn how to write. "Idk" makes you sound like a 14 year old girl.

[–]crossrocker94-3 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Woahhh dude relax. You're way to serious. But ok, I'll just leave it alone.

[–]crossrocker94 -4 points-4 points-4 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Since you seem to be a know it all, tell me- how can I save it so at least it's not awkward when I see her?

[–]MaxJukage 1 points1 points1 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Lose the attitude if you want real help

judging from your situation, you're extremely young, shutup and read

[–]crossrocker94 0 points0 points0 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Judging from your response, you need to shut the fuck up.

[–]MaxJukage1 point 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

pettiness and anger aside... just read man, there is literally the answer to your post in more than two or three stickies

I remember reading that the golden rule here is to lurk/read for at least a month before posting... couldn't agree with that more

[–]1-drukpa-kunley-0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link

Dude, the fact that you're trying to save it means you know nothing and have not read any of the sidebar and are just looking for quick answers.

You're in the right place to learn, and it's good that you're asking questions, but you're trying to take shortcuts.

There are no quick answers. And you're asking the wrong questions.

But since I'm feeling magnanimous, here is the answer to your question: The best way for it to not be awkward when you see her is to not give a shit what the fuck she thinks about you.

Now my challenge to you is for you to tell me why my statement is true.

[–]crossrocker94 1 points1 points1 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

You're right, I'm wrong. I was making way to big of a deal out of this, saying she was special and shit. But I'll be honest man some girls just get to me. This is the 2nd girl in the past 3 years that's like this. Not saying anything was definitely one of my options; I'm realizing it more and more that that's what I'm gonna have to do. And you're right in saying it's better when you don't give a fuck. That's when I've had the most luck with girls. My bad guys, I honestly thought my situation was unique and needed attention. And hey thanks for not being a douche, and instead a helpful dick ;)

[–]1-drukpa-kunley-1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago* [recovered] (0 children) | Copy Link

Good job dude!

When girls get to you, you give yourself oneitis. Then you behave differently and lose the girl. You always need to think of yourself first.

Just remember this: Dating a woman is like owning an exotic pet. Like a cougar or a tiger or an alligator. If you let your guard down for one second, you're dead. You always have to be on top of your game. And no, it never gets any better.

Seriously, read everything on the side bar.

Go on youtube and listen to the Black Phillip show. https://www.youtube.com/user/CultOfBlackPhillip

There's also Beige Phillip http://beigephillip.com/

Remember, you are going to have to work HARD at this shit to make it pay off.

Otherwise you'll just become another guy who's girlfriend I can steal in one night.

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