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[–]TRP VanguardJP_Whoregan 14 points15 points16 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You never respond to a shit-test with your own shit-test. It looks petty and childish. There's really nothing you can do "in the moment" when she's doing this. The worst thing you can do is let her know it bothers you. What I'd do is take her out to dinner or a bar that night, and flirt fucking HARD with the waitress or bartender, right in front of her. If and when your girl asks what you're doing, flip it back on her and ask her why she's so insecure. Watch the hamster run.
[–]gideonrakthor5 points 11 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
No, and no. You obviously showed her that you were upset, and that's what she wanted.
"The less invested person in a relationship is the owner of said relationship"
She proved herself less invested by acting as if she had more options to choose from than you.
Whats more, is you did a woman-esque move by trying to reverse it using Victoria's secret models. I'm still a newbie as well, but I know you should not have let her sense you're jimmies were rustled.
[–]Its_toasty 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I see... Thanks for the input.
[–]Gabe6678 4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't show that it bothers you. Just nod and smile, but go do something else like sleep or work out. Someone correct me if this is the wrong thing to do, but try to agree and amplify. "Yeah, he's pretty buff. Those veins pop." "I like his hair." "His teeth are so white."
[–]ModMachiavellianRed[M] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Repost this on /r/asktrp this is the wrong forum for it.
[–]1 Endorsed Contributormordanus 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
At this point you need a whole new mind set. Get more abundance mentality for starters. This will help you not care that much when she pulls this shit and not caring is the proper response and I don't mean not caring as in pretending that it doesn't bother you. Seriously don't care. Tell her to go get those other guys if she thinks she has a chance. Be willing to toss the relationship and show her that you are the one that has more value.
[–]Subtletorious 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Because I'm really tired of that shit.
Why? What insecurity is it triggering?
Besides, she can fuck those guys - text+cab=cock. You can't fuck Victoria Secret models - De Caprio got that harem locked tight. In this game she is holding the aces. If you can't win, don't play.
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