So as of yesterday I hung out with my friend Tim. Haven't seen him in a while. I know he has been hanging around with a mutual friend lets call her Jen. She basically got out of a long relationship a while back. Now when I hung out with them it was at another friend's house. Lets call him Jon. Now I didn't know she was going to be there. We aren't in the best of terms lately. So from what I first saw. Either Tim just hitting her telling her to come over time to time and hang out. Or Jon is sleeping with her. I say this because Tim isn't really smooth with the ladies and tends to be an idiot. Now Jon is a loser. No direction and pretty much an alcoholic. Doesn't do anything living off his father's social security checks. And just basically trying to get drunk everyday. Tim a hard worker and getting his bachelors pretty soon. So it's pretty a no brainer who is the better person. As the night progresses I see that she is basically just begging Jon. A lot of flirtation well one sides. Jon is basically hammers and can't even function right. But she is trying to keep the conversation going. Tim ends up passing out very early. So he doesn't see that basically Jen and Jon were pretty much going at it next to him.

When I told him this he was pretty much shocked about the whole thing. He didn't realize what was going on. And didn't think they will end up sleeping together. He was pretty much mad about the whole situation because apparently he wanted to make her his girlfriend. And also he was the one hitting her up all the time going out together drinking. He been telling me how he tried but she rejected him one night. And he even said there were some girls who seemed interested in him. Or least that what his brother said to him. But he was saving himself for Jen sadly. Now he is mad at both Jen and Jon even though not basically a big deal. He wasn't dating Jen or even doing anything with her.

Now he basically doesn't even want to talk to Jen. Obviously a bit hurt about it but just trying to play it off. He is basically having this dumb mentality of if she isn't giving me pussy ain't worth my time. Which I say is kinda of right but wrong still.

What I took away from it was that

  1. Girls don't really care where you at in life.
  2. Just because you're treating a girl , going out with her doesn't mean anything if there is no sexual tension. Basically he thought if he was nice enough she will eventually.
  3. Doesn't matter if you're a complete idiot half of the time. If she wants you it is going to happen.
  4. Never pass up a chance with some girl because you're pining over someone else.