New here, could use some advice.

juchanaut · 2013-05-14T23:21:56+00:00

Best advice I could give you, as one 20 year old to another, is read widely. The generic advice to people as young as us is "Work out, Eat well, Sleep well, Practise good hygeine, Wear stylish clothes, Read a lot, Disregard females, Acquire currency". This generic advice is all you need to get started.

Check out the blogs on the sidebar, Rational Male's summary page The Best of Rational Male - Year One is a great place to start.

Some good books to read in no particular order:

The Manipulated Man by Esther Vilar
Sperm Wars: Infidelity, Sexual Conflict, and Other Bedroom Battles by Robin Baker
The Way of Men by Jack Donovan
The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire by David Deida
Mindfulness in Plain English by Bhante Gunaratana
The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene
The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene

(Truth is power, and truth comes from knowledge, never underestimate the change a single book can do to your life.)

Meditation is great. It allows you to observe your thought patterns objectively, you can also master your emotions. Try meditating 20 minutes a day. You could do this on the train even.

Build good social relationships. There's a huge amount of beautiful women out there, a good way to meet them is by being introduced by someone who can vouch for your character.

juchanaut · 2013-05-15T00:01:33+00:00

Oh and another thing

I am certain if i continue subscribing to this sub-reddit and following the guidelines set up here and the advice you guys give, I can change that and become a better person and be happier about myself and my overall life.

Practice critical thinking at all times, never do something you don't agree with or feel comfortable doing; just because someone told you to. Think for yourself and do what you want. Go for your goals and live your life.

RedSunBlue · 2013-05-15T01:15:02+00:00

Step 1:

Buy Starting Strength.

Do the program. This includes cramming +3000 calories down your gullet daily.

Step 2:

Learn how to dress yourself. /r/malefashionadvice can help you with that.

Step 3:

Stack bills.

Step 4:

Approach females. Run game.

All steps can be carried out concurrently. Steps 1, 2, and 3 make step 4 exponentially easier, but are not prerequisites. Consider acquiring a game guide to accelerate progress in step 4.

This also assumes you are already good at making male friends. If not, consider that Step 1b.

kukul · 2013-05-14T23:14:04+00:00

Read the source material, Roissy is my personal favourite, but RoK might be easier to digest for a newbie.

2013-05-15T00:48:44+00:00

First step: deadlifts and squats ~

Get in the gym =]

Title	New here, could use some advice.
Author	manatrees
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Comments	28
Date	May 14, 2013 10:52 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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