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| 6 | domestic discipline and submissionwaaaay back in the day there was a site called Taken In Hand that was alright. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/05/22 07:18 PM |
| 44 | Daily Show spends entire segment making fun of woman who advocates that women marry when they are youngWhat we are seeing is the world's inability to face up to hard truth. The women won't face up to it because it would mean sex with betas. (If only they knew the betas' potential!) The men won't face up to it because they're scared stiff of offending women (if only they knew what lay down that road!) The media won't face up to it because they don't want to lose ratings and advertising dollars (and yet the more they dance around the truth, the more they lose relevance. I spend way more time say, h… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/14 07:04 PM |
| 5 | Swallowing the Red pill but still plugged in.It's funny; as an RP man, I generally place more blame on the dude in the situation you described on TV. This puts us in the place of two genders blaming themselves, which is certainly better than blaming each other. Much of the time, by the way, women are right about what their men should do. TRP isn't about women being stupid---it's about respecting their men and letting them lead. I think women have a hard time appreciating how good this feels for men, because it doesn't feel the same for wom… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/14 03:08 AM |
| 2 | When guys talk about "long hair", how long are they talking?It is hotter if it's butt-length, frankly. Long hair is just...really, really attractive. But there are a ton of caveats: can it be cared for in a reasonable time at that length? Does it interfere with, say, exercise? Or sex, for that matter? Will you get resentful about whatever extra hassle it causes? On balance, I suspect the gain in attractiveness might not be worth it past bra/blades. But there is a gain usually. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/14 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Venkatesh Rao on information & power exchange within organizations: Posturetalk, Babytalk, Gametalk & PowertalkI highly recommend this for anyone who can get through it all. In particular, Rao's "Curse of Development" is a partial explanation for why smart guys fail. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/14 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Ideas on how to cope with the fact that TRP is a long process?It's better than being dead. Which you have no guarantee won't happen tomorrow. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/14 12:26 AM |
| 14 | I disappeared on him. He wasn't the father? NoThe problem with the phrase "manning up" is not manning up. Manning up is wonderful. Most of what we talk about on this board could be summarized as "man up." The problem is that it's a phrase, and phrases are spoken or written, and the chattering class that does most of the speaking and writing (women, or men who want to please women) only use the phrase "manning up" when the specific action gets approval from females. But "manning up" will not always get approval from women. In fact, in our ba… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/14 07:01 PM |
| 5 | The Plight of BoysThis is a mistake men make about women often: assuming a hidden ulterior motive where there is none. It's a specific case of the general error, which is thinking that women think like men. This error leads you to conclude that they are unbelievably shitty people, or that they're angels. Both of these are wrong. Never attribute to malice what can be explained by emotionality. And be careful attributing to kindness what can be explained by reflexive empathy. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/14 06:51 PM |
| 3 | Has anyone ever gotten out of the friend zone? Can dread game get you out of the friend zone? Wondering from a theory perspectiveWhatever you want, but keep in mind: "My dick's brain is nearly the size of mine" is what got us into this mess. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/14 01:43 AM |
| 1 | 24 Signs He's a BetaFor the record, the same is true of slutitude. Every woman is a slut inside, just like every guy was born a beta. Civilization is the process of disciplining our natures. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/03/14 01:52 AM |
| 44 | Who said women can't write comedy? Ah well, maybe it isn't intentional."What are you saying, Tim, that I'm a dangerous creature? Are you saying that Tim? Because you better watch yourself." | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/14 01:49 AM |
| 4 | When you post red pill stuff on other subs, if you just manage to avoid most of our terminology, you'll almost certainly get upvoted.I think there's a bit more love in the phrase "fucking retards" than you think. In their idealist heart-of-hearts, most RP men wish all guys would clue in, man up, and end this shithole situation we'very collectively landed ourselves in. Attempts to evangelize, however, have (somewhat surprisingly, depending on your level of cynicism) met with rebuff, rejection, insults, and abuse. "If only they could understand!" the RP man bewails of his fallen beta brothers. He knows the intentions of most of… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/14 05:33 PM |
| 3 | If you want to understand frats, talk to the women who party at them (paging Caitlin Flanagan)This is silly. The type of guy to join a fraternity is going to get plenty of pussy either way. It's not like I only got laid at parties. I think you're vastly underestimating the power of social proof. The term "aging fratboy" refers specifically to a guy who blossomed in a frat setting, but couldn't get the same results once out of college. I do agree, however, that guys are not just led around by their dicks all day. The way to know this is to change the question: "If majoring in CS made you … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/14 06:40 PM |
| 18 | Asian girl considers getting married to her older alpha boyfriend, and goes to r/askmen for advice. Top commenters tell her to break it off and start riding the carousel.I was baffled by this comment as well. Have we really grown so impatient that we can't tolerate momentary discomfort? It's laundry, not slaving away in the coal mines. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/14 06:29 PM |
| 2 | Radishmag on The Red PillNo, it really could. Everything we cite as "Red Pill Thinking" was common knowledge in 1920. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/14 01:25 AM |
| 1 | And this is why we're here, gentlemen.I have a field day every day. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/14 11:27 PM |
| 3 | Introducing /r/AsianMasculinity for the Asian guys hereSemi-elephant in the room: where are the black dudes? I'm just a white guy on the internet, so yeah, I don't know shit about being black. But they have been getting HAMMERED over the last fifty years by feminism and etc. I thought I had a hard time in my upper-middle class high school because I liked math, but at least no one gave me crap like "acting white." Beats me. But nothing would make me happier than finding out there's a Blackosphere on the internet along these lines. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/14 06:33 AM |
| 16 | True SMV vs. Perceived SMVSo, this is true. The "M" in SMV stands for "Market," and that means other people. They only know what they can perceive, so yeah, perceived SMV is the only SMV. That said: you are more than your SMV. I've been in situations where I was, hands-down, the most attractive dude around, and I knew it, and I knew that women knew it---but I was empty inside. Not because "being attractive makes you soulless" or any other sour-grapes crap like that, but because I wasn't meeting my expectations for myself… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/14 06:18 AM |
| 20 | What is your #1 rule when it comes to women?Don't bet more than you can afford to lose. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/14 03:08 AM |
| 6 | The imperfect but honest image of a woman's body - The Guardian tries to paint a cancer-infected woman's body as normal, praising this woman for "bravery"I feel bad for women. Feminism has removed "kindness" as a reason for women to value themselves. And that really is what most women have to offer: sex, and kindness. Without kindness, they're left hamstering that they're offering beauty when they're not (fat acceptance, etc.), or achievement when they're not (I have a career! I am a certfified HR professional! I am empowered!) | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/14 01:53 PM |
| 1 | "no one hits on me" - supermodelAww. Sad. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/14 07:15 AM |
| 1 | So... What's the endgame?Basically: be beta. Treat guys how you'd want to be treated. Everything you do with chicks, don't do with dudes. Acting like this all the time is why I a) still hang out with my friends from high school and college, and b) was failing so hard w/girls that I found TRP. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/14 07:10 AM |
| 11 | So... What's the endgame?This is very important to understand. To be female is to be short-sighted. Surprisingly, this is one of the best things about women. People who adapt to the present environment without worrying about the future can be very pleasant. For a more PC example, look at children. They may have terrible tantrums, but who doesn't like kids? What this should mean to you is: don't automatically assume women are evil, despite what you see. Feral is a better word. They don't know any better. And yes, this me… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/14 03:34 AM |
| 24 | "no one hits on me" - supermodelThe Sexual Revolution has made things much worse for extremely beautiful women. All the guys she would consider in her league have an army of sluts at their beck and call. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/14 09:19 PM |
| 5 | If a man wants to get married, have a family, isn't it in his best option to settle into an LTR rather early in his life?Well, uh, duh. If this works out for you, more power to you. Why do you think this sub exists? Hint: it is not because men suddenly decided that your described scenario is a bad idea. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/14 04:35 AM |
| 11 | Are we going back to the law of the jungle? This is not good for society...In that case, my thesis is: we have way fewer betas than we used to, as they have turned, are turning, and will turn omega. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/14 02:42 AM |
| 2 | More women in tech failures. UK woman in charge of the 3M pound "Learn to Code" Initiative has no idea how to code.While I don't doubt your experience, I very much doubt that it was you coding that attracted attention. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/14 02:13 AM |
| 43 | Are we going back to the law of the jungle? This is not good for society...You've got it right. We are well and truly fucked. All men should: spend less than they make, know their neighbors, have some food and water stored in their house, and know how to use a gun. And then---don't obsess over it. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/14 01:42 AM |
| 8 | Are we going back to the law of the jungle? This is not good for society...We have empirical evidence that this is not true. Some may not have the grit to take control of their lives, true. But they don't just sit around doing science---they spend their time masturbating and gaming. All they have to offer are facebook likes, not dollars. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/14 01:40 AM |
| 16 | For the new guys: Goals, relationships, being yourself, and the path of least resistance.Corollary of "Women are attracted to jerks": You should not imitate every dude who gets laid a lot. Unless, that is, you want to. My point is: compromising your values (whatever those are) because you think it will make you more attractive is supplicating to the platonic form of Woman in your head. Women really are attracted to jerks. I'm not trying to stop some nice young beta from standing up for himself, but I won't lie and say that women don't find themselves spellbound by guys who beat the … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/14 01:11 AM |
| 4 | New here, intrigued.Glad to hear it. Just something to keep in mind: if you keep reading, going down rabbit holes, over months, etc., the conclusion you'll arrive at is: I should study hard and be awesome. (Ironically, this is what Bluepill me thought, and what RP me thinks. The difference is that RP me doesn't expect women to be attracted to it.) The thing to remember is: women are not attracted to sensible things. They're really not. The next thing to remember is: sensible things are still sensible! Justin Bieber… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/14 06:49 PM |
| 3 | New here, intrigued.Actually, if you're awake again: keep up with your studies. This will all be here later. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/14 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Why does STEM contain the highest consentrations of SMP losers?Ha! | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/14 01:07 AM |
| 26 | Why does STEM contain the highest consentrations of SMP losers?It's because STEM is no fun. Women are highly adaptive to short-term stimuli. This is both their blessing and curse. Their sensations are more important to them than men. This is why there are brands of chocolate and ice cream marketed specifically to women, and none to men. STEM in general is about abstraction. Women are much more focused on the here, the now, the practical. There's an old joke: "My husband and I have got our marriage figured out," the wife said to her friend. "He makes the big… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/14 04:18 AM |
| 178 | Serious question as a 1st gen American from AfricaWe're rich enough to buy our own reality, so we've forgotten the one that actually exists. We'll end up remembering it, or we'll be forced to. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/14 03:47 AM |
| 6 | Is the rise in divorce result of the rise in post modern feminism?The two feed each other. Lately the only reason the divorce rate has stopped climbing is because the marriage rate has tanked so hard. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/14 03:28 PM |
| 8 | [Field report] Still in shock at how accurate TRP theory is. Can't believe how blind I was before...Stop expecting women to think like you do. They don't. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/14 07:31 AM |
| -1 | Biggest Czech Newspaper: Czech teachers favors girls. New study oppose feminists.Feminism having originated in the U.S., it has a looser grip outside of it. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/14 08:07 PM |
| 2 | Jack Baruth finds the red pillThere is no ad campaign that will make women fuck betas, and even if there was it would be about as successful as one encouraging men to fuck obese 35 - year old nags. Bingo. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/14 05:54 PM |
| 2 | What is TRP's criteria for getting married?Keep in mind that you're volunteering to give up your freedom. You're volunteering to give up your financial independence. You're volunteering to give up a large part of your BRAIN – in terms of the attention that she will require for many years, whether or not you get divorced. These are all true. However: if that's a price you're willing to pay, do it. If you're not willing to take the risk, don't do it. EDIT: I would also think carefully about what you want the marriage to be like before you … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/14 03:52 PM |
| 1 | If I had a gf, I would be bored to death. What do you think about this? (details INSIDE)They're not fun the way guys are fun. They need way more management. But they're fun. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/14 07:16 AM |
| 1 | Dominance helped my relationshipGood. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/14 07:09 AM |
| 7 | The [Musician/Actor/XYZ] StandardI've done this. It works. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/14 05:47 PM |
| 2 | I was amazed tonight at the female centric nature of a lot of the commercials. But it makes sense because marketers know that it is women who spend the most money.The Butterfinger one in particular...ugh. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/14 07:29 AM |
| 2 | My son just told me to "have fun dying alone"Not too devout, apparently. She's her own worst enemy. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/14 06:40 AM |
| 2 | Be a good person if you want but it won't attract womenProbably. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/14 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Be a good person if you want but it won't attract womenI like you. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/14 07:54 PM |
| 7 | Be a good person if you want but it won't attract womenPerhaps, but you are close to the (also popular) mistake of equating the good with the pleasant (for the doer). The two are often incompatible. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/14 07:43 PM |
| -1 | Be a good person if you want but it won't attract womenThis should be stickied. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/14 07:41 PM |
| 5 | Apparently women loving criminals is a form of mental instability.The catchword is "hybristophilia" if anyone's intent on buzzwording it. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/14 11:55 PM |
| 5 | How to deal with being unattractive for now?http://www.jack-donovan.com/axis/2012/07/everyone-a-harlot/ read read read read read that. You're a freaking man, why do you give a shit about what you look like? You have about 50 years and then you die, and you want to spend it worrying about what retards think of you at first glance? This is where the zen part comes in, because it seems ridiculous to you that an "Endorsed Contributor" is saying "don't worry about being attractive" on a subreddit that acknowledges the main driver is attractive… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/14 06:54 PM |
| 3 | RedPillWomen Mods AMA! ASK THEM ALMOST ANYTHING!The reason, btw, that I ask, is that the hardest feminists to deal with are the ones who are convinced they're not feminists. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/14 11:32 PM |
| 3 | RedPillWomen Mods AMA! ASK THEM ALMOST ANYTHING!Excellent, thank you. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/14 11:30 PM |
| 3 | RedPillWomen Mods AMA! ASK THEM ALMOST ANYTHING!Is this where I tease you about already having the pick of the litter? ;) I knew you were going to say that, ha. I'm not in Utah anymore, and you of all people should know that it's possible to be feminist there and in the associated cultural milieu. What do you mean by examples? Did you notice women that you would now describe as more RP, and they made an impression on you? | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/14 11:23 PM |
| 5 | RedPillWomen Mods AMA! ASK THEM ALMOST ANYTHING!*ahem* http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1whvrw/redpillwomen_mods_ama_ask_them_almost_anything/cf26x3i | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/14 11:09 PM |
| 5 | RedPillWomen Mods AMA! ASK THEM ALMOST ANYTHING!seriouslypleasedropit | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/14 11:04 PM |
| 6 | RedPillWomen Mods AMA! ASK THEM ALMOST ANYTHING!The thing about the pill for women, interestingly, is that they suddenly realize they have something of value. I know it sounds stupid because here at TRP we talk about young women being the rockstars of the sexual market, but women generally don't want to be on the sexual market. Often they're just pursuing a retarded strategy for committment---NSA sex w/alphas. TRP raises mens' standards for women. It also raises womens' standards for men (yes, really). So they're just not going to fuck around… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/14 11:00 PM |
| 14 | RedPillWomen Mods AMA! ASK THEM ALMOST ANYTHING!They like to send us numbers to abuse hotlines. hahahahahhaa I'm sorry I love this. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/14 10:54 PM |
| 5 | RedPillWomen Mods AMA! ASK THEM ALMOST ANYTHING!I've got one, actually: How would you recommend "awakening" a girl while there's still time? Schadenfreude is great and all, but some TRP members do indeed have a heart. All of the posters from RPW went through this transition at some point. Is there any way a guy could spark it or speed it up? I'm looking for impressions and feelings more than a straight-up "method." | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/14 10:53 PM |
| 9 | RedPillWomen Mods AMA! ASK THEM ALMOST ANYTHING!World, this is what a "battered doormat afraid to speak up for herself" looks like. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/14 10:46 PM |
| 18 | RedPillWomen Mods AMA! ASK THEM ALMOST ANYTHING!The nature of most men is to sit at home and masturbate all day. Surely we can all do better than our nature. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/14 10:41 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Ignored HB9, drove her crazy as she looked for my validation.Is this one bot denouncing another? | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/14 07:37 AM |
| 0 | How to pick a Girl (West vs East)Ha! Not bad. Upvoted. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/14 08:50 PM |
| 6 | How to pick a Girl (West vs East)I downvoted you for begging the question: by what criteria do the parents judge? Are they asking their parents? | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/14 08:13 PM |
| 7 | What is the deal with TRP and socialism?If there's socialism, frankly, it won't be the kind you want. It will be "Citizen 57426, here are your food barcodes, please deposit DNA sample here," socialism, rather than Northern Europe "We're all hot and blond and oil-rich, let's make sure no one starves" socialism. If things continue on their current track...well, they won't. Either we'll have huge riots, or we'll get the Bad Socialist Future; it's anyone's guess as to which would come first. As always: spend less than you earn, slowly bui… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/14 08:08 PM |
| 8 | Does The Manosphere Really Want A Solution?I recommend that all men have savings, zero debt, own their place of residence, know their neighbors, and have buddies. This is good advice for a collapse, and it is also good advice for everyday life. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/14 10:21 PM |
| 56 | Update to man whose wife cheated on him with 25 people. TRP was right again.hahaha but fuck those misogynist redpillers amirite? | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/14 08:38 PM |
| 2 | One woman's story of spitting out the blue pillFirst of all marriage is a transactional agreement. Always has been historically always will be. I call bullshit. Divorce was extremely hard to get approved prior to no-fault divorce. The ideal has been "'til death do you part." That's something to be strived for, not something that magically happens. In practice, of course, it's as transactional as both parties want it to be. It will be its best when both parties actively decide that it won't be transactional. Yes, yes, no unicorns, I know. But… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/14 08:20 PM |
| 0 | How I fucked a "lesbian" this weekend.link? | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/14 06:50 PM |
| 2 | How I fucked a "lesbian" this weekend.http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Erotic_plasticity | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/14 05:20 PM |
| 5 | "As a 'Red-Piller' I am sorry." or why we need to keep the language strongIt's not just genes, it's also survival. Remember that women basically don't count in physical fights (slow, weak, greater sensitivity to pain, light, short reach), and you'll see why it would be advantageous to go with survival and redneck genes over probable death and a shot at engineer genes or whatever. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/14 05:13 PM |
| 3 | The red pill mentioned in Ask Reddit again. Brace for subscribers.As always, don't argue expecting a fair fight. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/14 05:05 PM |
| 21 | The red pill mentioned in Ask Reddit again. Brace for subscribers.That's because you've been fed a lie about "love," too. The standard conception is some specific mix of feelings, but a much better one is: action for the benefit of its object. No feelings required. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/14 05:00 PM |
| 3 | Stop looking for the fucking unicorn.Stop working out, purposely maintain a shitty frame, but always have the best intentions and be a nice person. And there we have the contradiction. Because does wanting a girl stuck with a fat wimp sound like the best of intentions? | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/14 05:43 AM |
| 3 | One woman's story of spitting out the blue pillOh, I know. I was piling on with you :) | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/14 05:42 AM |
| 8 | After seeing the response to a topic I made on r/askwomen, I think I'm ready to join you guys.how will I come to terms with my inner hopeless romantic? It feels like a parasite that I cannot conquer. "Parasite" is debateable, but "conquer" is spot on. "and he that ruleth his spirit [is better] than he that taketh a city." If you think of "falling in love" as chemical madness---which, frankly, it is---then you can deromanticize the feeling and think of the actions that lead to it instead. One thing that TRP is big on is self-discipline, and rightly so. A core part of being a man is master… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/14 04:59 AM |
| 3 | One woman's story of spitting out the blue pillI was miserably unfulfilled... "Unfulfilled" is a good reason to leave a transactional relationship such as: a job, a school, a weekly book club, etc. "Unfulfilled" is code for "whatever, just not feeling it." It is a terrible reason for leaving a nontransactional relationship like a marriage. One should enter a marriage looking to fulfill a spouse, not be fulfilled by one. People say romantic relationships take compromise. But compromise shouldn’t mean giving up what you want for your life in f… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/14 04:45 AM |
| 4 | What are some of the best ways to improve my future SMV as a young man?Maintain a good work ethic but don't overdo it. "Don't overdo it" applies to pretty much everything on this list. If you feel yourself getting bitter about the work you're putting in, either harden the fuck up(preferable) or slow down a bit. Don't be the Adonis who hates his life. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/14 09:47 PM |
| 1 | The guy seems maybe Beta, but his plan is pure geniushttps://canecaldo.wordpress.com/2013/12/11/neither-saved-nor-spent-but-invested/ | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/14 05:34 PM |
| 1 | I've got a first date with a very cute girl in an hour, quick, I need tips!I want to make sure my attraction to her doesn't kill my chances. I have been in your shoes, and failed. This is the only thing that will do it: accept that whatever you're hoping for (your chances of...what?) probably won't happen. Be perfectly OK with that. If that would unhinge you, cancel the date. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/14 02:07 AM |
| 2 | Woman Dresses to Please Her Man and Her Friends are LividYou are hamstering. The point of this post is to be willing to do things to please your man, even if it requires some sacrifice. It is not to "only do things that prevent diabetes, and if men like some of them well I guess that's OK, AS LONG AS EVERYONE KNOWS I'M DOING IT FOR MYSELF." When did selfishness become a virtue? | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/01/14 01:26 AM |
| 0 | Woman Dresses to Please Her Man and Her Friends are LividBelieve it or not---my college roommate had a thing for girls with medical issues (he was a cancer survivor so the shared experience, etc). He had a crush on a girl we knew with no arm below he elbow. Caveat: growing hair out for men is OK. Cutting parts of your arm off is not. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/01/14 01:24 AM |
| 3 | Quite possibly the best article I've read on the fundamentals of red pill philosophy. As a new member this blew me away and I finally understand the workings of this place.The most important part of your body is literally your dick and nuts If you're going to take this view, count the cost. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/14 05:31 PM |
| 26 | How can women be better?Will respond to this later, please don't delete your comment. Okay, for now, here's my incomplete list: Stop getting suckered by "sex-positive" feminism. Women today have less sex, and less satisfying sex, than their grandmothers did. Further, they have it with more partners, which drastically increases their divorce risk (yes, the study controlled for religion and conservative values). Stop getting suckered into slave labor by corporations. I love women, but I really must shake my head---they l… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/14 03:40 AM |
| 9 | What would happen if every man was alpha?"Alpha" is a relative term. By definition, not all men can be at the top of their local social hierarchies. What you really need is for all men to have self-respect and not be controlled by their dicks. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/14 09:12 PM |
| 2 | Get a load of this shit. Guy finds out his wife has cheated with at least 25 male and female Craigslist hookups. r/relationships responds by lighting up the Knight Signal and rushing to the Chivalrymobile.I honestly do not see a problem or 'damaged goods' with a woman who consciously decides to be a whore and is completely honest with herself about it. I honestly don't think it's possible for a woman to be completely honest with herself about it. This chart shows the divorce risk for a woman relative to her # of sexual partners. Do prostitutes look at their chart before they start whoring? Do sluts look at it before they start slutting? No, I don't think they do. I think they're misled by society… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/14 09:10 PM |
| 3 | Get a load of this shit. Guy finds out his wife has cheated with at least 25 male and female Craigslist hookups. r/relationships responds by lighting up the Knight Signal and rushing to the Chivalrymobile.If she's just cheating on you physically she's still faithful to you, you judgmental asshole. If your girlfriend is "faithful" in this manner, please send her my way. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/14 09:04 PM |
| 1 | On NerdsThere is a positive side. Change the environment a bit and you'll see: Husband comes home from work. He just got fired. He's distant, mind racing. What to do? What to do? She tells him dinner is ready. He sits down. He's silent. She can tell something's up, but waits for him to make the first move. He stirs. "Honey, I got fired." They both try to keep it together. They talk it over. He says something about another job he heard about, but inside, he's not as confident as he sounds. They finish di… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/14 05:34 PM |
| 1 | On NerdsAs in implausible, or painful? | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/14 05:06 PM |
| 1 | On NerdsI spent about two hours on the phone last night talking to my little brother about his girlfriend. He wants to marry her, she wants to go study abroad for a few years. They argue about this. She told him this while he was getting dinner with her family. After dinner, she and he get in my brother's car to drive to wherever next. She leans over the center console, wanting to make out. My brother is stunned and offended---didn't they just have a conversation that amounts to them basically breaking … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/14 03:31 PM |
| 13 | On NerdsHonestly, what you should really read is the post that came before it. It's kind of long, but I really think it explains a lot. Since you're all fags (aren't we all?) and won't read it(but you really should), I'll give the executive summary: Feelings are the definitive example of short-term thinking. As we all know, women's feelings can get in the way of their rational thinking. But the feelings are rational too, just short-sighted. Feelings are fun, but not particularly effective. As such, wome… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/14 04:46 PM |
| 5 | Remember: It's all about how you make her feelPeople need to stop treating LTR's like they mean anything. An LTR lasts until either party decides it doesn't last. There is no moral force holding people to promises they never made! And yet guys will think, "Well, we're in a relationship, and I did Y for her, so she owes me X..." Did she ever promise X? Probably not, you just want to hold her to you by whining. "Therefore when thou [do nice things for chicks], do not [recount them while whining], as the [betas] do [on their forums], that they… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/14 05:23 AM |
| 8 | NoFap?Also I usually can't keep my frame when I'm using porn regularly, I'm a lot more anxious and my feelings affect me a lot more. This is because porn is a womanly thing, and will make you more womanly. The essence of being a man is self-discipline, and being unaffected by one's environment. The essence of being a woman is: a weak frame (which is actually a good thing, in women) and sensitivity to one's environment. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/14 05:00 PM |
| 3 | Are there any libertarians and anarcho-capitalists at The Red Pill?But I think that we can do that. Please understand. We likely agree much more than you think on how to run a government. Where we disagree is whether what you and I think matters in the slightest. Do you honestly think, in a world that gives Jezebel enough page views to survive, that there will be a Grand Revolt of the Populace in favor of libertarian ideals? They don't even need to revolt. All they have to do is check the right box. With a pencil. The problem with libertarians (and conservative… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/14 06:34 PM |
| 3 | Are there any libertarians and anarcho-capitalists at The Red Pill?Mr. Rothbard has made his decision. Now let him enforce it. I say that the rights come from God and from nature. Both God and nature favor the side with the best artillery. Perhaps the meek shall inherit the earth, but for now it belongs to the guy with the gun. It is possible to find justifications for many other arrangements---the problem is that they all get you shot. We libertarians have suggested many strategies for liberty, including education, activism, and non-compliance with government.… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/14 04:42 PM |
| 6 | Are there any libertarians and anarcho-capitalists at The Red Pill?(takes off "TRP ENDORSED" hat) I would say that libertarianism subscribes to the non-aggression principle, that no one has the right to commit aggression or violence against another person's rights to life, liberty and private property. That's cool. Who publishes the non-aggression principle? If rights like life and liberty can be violated, do they really exist? Head to Somalia and you will find that it is mysteriously a no-rights zone. Here is the problem: While the State certainly engages in v… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/14 03:49 PM |
| 2 | Male feminist launches workshop to create more beta males in Vancouver.http://instantrimshot.com/ | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/14 04:00 AM |
| 3 | Does the term: Happy Wife, Happy Life have any value?Exactly. The horrible thing about the original is that it manages to be both true and misleading at the same time. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/14 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Christianity and the Red PillCouldn't it just as well be any woman? No. It's a myth that "Game" is the answer to conniving bitches. It can attract them, but it can't civilize them. An analogy that should hopefully communicate the meaning quickly is that no matter how hot you are, some guys will always be dicks. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/01/14 03:04 PM |
| 4 | Conversation I had with one of my female friendsYou should obfuscate her picture/name if you can. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/14 07:19 AM |
| 1 | Why I just can't get thereWould you ever give any guy that advice? But I am not giving a guy that advice. And one of the main tenets of TRP is that men and women are different. RP guys of all people should understand why I am telling her this. Day in, day out, we repeat the line, "No rings for sluts." "We don't hate sluts! We love sluts! We love banging them!" "Wow, the sexual revolution sure has ruined women. How many cocks have you had in you, babe?" So, I am telling her what she can do to gain respect. No one here is … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/14 06:44 AM |
| 2 | Why I just can't get thereMy advice: stop giving it up until you're married. I'm completely serious. Fairy tales are awesome. I like them myself (how do you think I ended up here?), but dreaming is not enough. You have to make them come true. And for women, this is one of the major ways to do that. There are a million objections, but if you want a fairy tale to come true, this is the way to do it. The sad truth is: your motivations for sleeping with a bunch of guys don't matter. They can be pure as the driven snow, and i… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/14 04:12 AM |
| 2 | I don't think RedPillWomen share my views after all.They...[want] to be part of the guys. Exactly. So why are you so butthurt about this? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/14 04:03 AM |
| -1 | I don't think RedPillWomen share my views after all.You care too much. Please understand: I'm sure /r/rpw is full of some lovely ladies who are whip-smart and understand things better than you or I do. They're hotter than me, people like them more, they're smarter than me, and they are actually managing to eat paleo, where I keep slipping. It doesn't matter. This train doesn't need women on it. They are certainly welcome, are great company, and some contribute original thought. I even internet-know some of them and trust them more than I do, say,… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/14 03:46 AM |
| 4 | Growth rate of TheRedPill subredditPaul Graham has written a bit about this: http://paulgraham.com/hackernews.html (see "Dilution") | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/14 02:46 AM |
| 27 | I'm the doctor from r/askwomen, was told to come here. Show me around the place.Yes! This is the answer to men asking questions that reduce down to: "My wife is a conniving bitch. How do I Game her into not being one?" The answer is: You can't. Don't marry conniving bitches. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/14 11:03 PM |
| 2 | Why Children should be raised with their biological father.If the man doesn't like this, he shouldn't have entered the contract in the first place. Indeed. You may be interested in a new and growing subreddit advising men not to marry, or at least be extremely cautious about it. First, men are usually willing to allow the woman and child to stay in the home because they want the child to maintain that stability. I agree. But this is way off from single mothers being forced to raise kids alone because their ex-husbands are fucking off and refusing to par… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/14 08:14 PM |
| 15 | I'm the doctor from r/askwomen, was told to come here. Show me around the place.How to read these: I know it's kind of frustrating that we don't actually have an easy answer to your perfectly understandable problem. The best we've been able to find is: marry a young woman who shares your religion, and approach marriage in the right way. Even as an RP dude, I can imagine a scenario in which a guy forks over all the money he earns to his wife. The scenario is: He doesn't want to deal with finances, or she'd be more competent with them. The key distinction is that this is happ… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/14 07:38 PM |
| 0 | Why Children should be raised with their biological father.First of all, let me just say I took a closer look at those stats and they look like bullshit anyways. We should just drop them. I suggest we don't. The data are so clear that scientists are no longer studying whether women file more, but why they file more. I am not pulling this out of my ass here. My real point is that bio-dads who don't get custody usually didn't fight for custody, regardless of what their relationship is to the mother. If the father isn't willing to do what needs to be done … | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/14 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Why Children should be raised with their biological father.Usually the woman has to initiate the divorce to get away from the husband, Well, yes. Being married to someone means that they will have a habit of being around. This doesn't mean bio-dad has no choice, it means bio-dad consistently chooses to fuck off rather than parent their child. Ah, so when a guy marries a woman, it's because he's planning to stay married to her and fuck off? In that case, why even marry her? All of your moral rage is directed at dudes who get women pregnant and don't marr… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/14 06:04 PM |
| 4 | Why Children should be raised with their biological father.Oh, you! See Table 12, Page 15, "Monthly Vital Statistics Report," NHCS, May 1991 ...which, btw, Wikipedia cited. Also of interest is Table 1 in Margaret F. Brinig and Douglas W. Allen's "These Boots Are Made For Walking: Why Most Divorce Filers Are Women." And no, I have no idea what was going on in Dade County, Florida, 1972. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/14 05:36 PM |
| 3 | Why Children should be raised with their biological father.Thanks wikibot! | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/14 08:32 AM |
| 4 | Why Children should be raised with their biological father.Intent is meaningless. It's the effects that you should be watching. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/14 08:30 AM |
| 7 | Why Children should be raised with their biological father.https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Divorce_in_the_United_States#Initiation | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/14 08:27 AM |
| 12 | Male spaces are good for male health. "MEN now have the perfect excuse to sneak off for a crafty pint with their mates – research has found that going down the pub can be good for their mental health."If they need an "excuse" to "sneak off," then no wonder their mental health is in trouble. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/14 01:48 AM |
| 3 | Ultimate Beta Movie --- Herit was pretty obvious she was desperate for an emotional connection. You're swallowing the lie that women will feed you: that feelings are somehow more important or "higher" than raw animal sex. Sex is just chemicals, but so are feelings. You're right---she was desperate for an emotional connection. That's just like saying a beta dude is desperate to get his dick wet. The thing that makes relationships holy---whether you believe in a God or not---is commitment. Human will, against both cold calc… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/14 07:11 PM |
| 3 | Ultimate Beta Movie --- HerIt was all around that there is coming out this new wave of romantic/romantic-comedy about guys that are missing something in their lives We wanted men that acted more like women. We got them, | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/14 07:00 PM |
| 6 | Ultimate Beta Movie --- HerWow, I take a totally different tack. After watching the movie, I would hardly call him successful. Also, don't knock secretaries. Secretaries are awesome. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/14 02:39 PM |
| 8 | It really clicked for me today, and I don't need to be convinced anymore. I've swallowed the Redpill. But what now?What does successful mean to you? Look, I know it feels like you're getting a lot of non-committal Zen crap. But that's because that's the way the world is---we say anything else and we'll be lying. When you figure out what you want out of women, you'll find it. The only thing you won't get from them is direction. You're the guy steering the ship. That's your blessing. That's your curse. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/14 07:18 AM |
| 2 | RP Career Advice - Oil Fields Vs Office jobsWeb > "application" because: you get to use whatever language you want on the server upgrades are a snap you only have to write it once (as opposed to native mobile apps, which must be written in Objective-C [iPhone] AND java [Android]) customer feedback is instant and easy to analyze aside from gaming, pretty much anything you'd write for desktop can be done in the browser | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/14 09:31 PM |
| 1 | RP Career Advice - Oil Fields Vs Office jobsSoftware != cube EDIT: Also, if you want a bit more of a blue-collar, artisan feel, Tim Ewald gave a great talk on this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ShEez0JkOFw | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/14 09:27 PM |
| 5 | Read "The Short Happy Life of Francis Macomber" by Ernest Hemingway.It really is a great read. PDF here. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/14 05:18 PM |
| 6 | OP asks why men are attracted to asian women; TRP truth ensues; Bluepillers start a downvote brigadeThe image to keep in mind is that of a hamster furiously running on its wheel, akin to the effort involved in rationalization of atrocious proportions. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/14 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Why is building value/inner game so valued?So what else is there? The $64,000 question. It's hard to answer---but now at least now you know you need an answer. Hint: If there's one thing TRP is absolutely clear about, it's that women are not that answer. http://no-maam.blogspot.com/2012/05/empty-vessels-and-relative-truth.html | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/14 04:23 AM |
| 11 | I'm sitting in a Women's and Gender Studies Class RIGHT NOW#nicetrypatriarchy I think it has legs. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/14 03:18 AM |
| 2 | “Art Of Manliness” Is Poisoning The Concept Of Masculinity With Disney Lifestyle AdviceMy experience with AoM is exactly the same. No idea what I was looking for, but found AoM, went, "Ah ha!" and then interest dropped off because it didn't go deep enough. I can't speak to its recent material, though, and AoM has redeemed itself in my mind since for its excellent series on honor, and because Brett seems aware of the larger sphere. Hence, "PR wing." | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/14 12:23 AM |
| 22 | “Art Of Manliness” Is Poisoning The Concept Of Masculinity With Disney Lifestyle AdviceMeh. I see AoM as the PR wing of the manosphere. I get that it's not hardcore enough for some, but...planting seeds. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/14 10:03 PM |
| 9 | What should I teach my female cousins?http://donalgraeme.wordpress.com/2013/11/24/the-shrinking-gap-the-conundrum-of-female-smv-and-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-3896 I left a comment at a friend's blog that attempted to formalize the "so what" of TRP for women. That might help. Also I cautiously recommend the book "Unprotected," about how cowardly and politically correct advice to young women ("slut it up! Don't let anyone tell you what to do! Ignore that those two statements contradict each other!") is harming them. My sister i… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/14 05:41 PM |
| 8 | Why is this sub causing so much butthurt across reddit and why is it mentioned so much all the time?http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/2009_Collier_Township_shooting | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/14 08:10 AM |
| 99 | Why is this sub causing so much butthurt across reddit and why is it mentioned so much all the time?TRP is just one manifestation of reality reasserting itself from under the feminist paradise built on top of it. The mods are great, and there are some great posters, but no one should be fooling themselves. It's growing because it's onto something real, not because we're social media specialists or something. Close the subreddit down, hunt down and imprison everyone who's heard of it, and wait a few years. It or something like it will reappear. The subreddit is surfing/amplifying a wave, not cr… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/14 04:51 AM |
| 6 | Does Honor Exist?In the spirit of truth, bloviating analysis, and no sacred cows, I humbly offer what I think of as the Red Pill take on honor: First. It's important to note that people mean different things with the same word. Some people mean personal integrity, or keeping one's word and living up to one's ideals. This is the understanding a Boy Scout has. Another meaning is adulation, or awards. "I'm honored to be invited to speak tonight on..." Finally, there's the fame/badassery meaning, ascribed to samurai… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/13 08:12 AM |
| 3 | All the pain of years of betahood unloaded on my dad. I feel terrible (drunk, sorry for grammatical errors)We are not without modern myth here. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/13 07:33 AM |
| 0 | Female teachers give boys lower marks, does this match your experiences?Meh...maybe. How would I know? I only knew my own grades. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/13 08:06 AM |
| 2 | Finding your tribeIt's not admitting loneliness that drives people away, it's the expectation that anyone saying they're lonely is asking others to help. For instance: no one here is driven away, because we know that OP isn't going to latch on to us and want to hang out all the time. Empathy will take you far. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/13 07:27 AM |
| 0 | Finding your tribeThis should be voted higher. I know it sounds stupid, but there is a lot of value in finding people with interests similar to yours. These are admittedly short-term, transactional relationships, but that's the only building material that stronger ties can be built from. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/13 07:22 AM |
| 3 | how to be more interesting over text?No one is interesting over text. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/13 05:58 AM |
| 76 | Questions about expectations as a RedPill girl...OP, google "wife goggles." All the hate that goes toward older women here? It's to 35-yr-old sluts looking to get married, not 35-yr-old wives. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/13 05:50 AM |
| 3 | I have (basically) given up. (Warning: wall of text)Where is the tipping point between benevolent alpha and beta chump? Knowledge. Chumps do their partners no favors. Women need men, not houses or alimony. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/13 05:42 AM |
| 1 | Being Female or Being FeminineI agree that what she wants is simply not possible---you're spot on that sexual access (or lack thereof) will prevent men from trying what she suggests. To really make that work would require a change in what women are attracted to, which just isn't going to happen. Just as today's legions of HR directors wail that men don't seem to be attracted by a master's degrees and a private office, the relationship-focused men she wishes could exist would wail that women don't appreciate their nice-guy tr… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/13 03:33 PM |
| 0 | How do I date without drinking?Do what you have to, but I suspect a proper spin on it could make it be a positive rather than a negative. Addiction sucks and it can break a man. You've stared the monster in the face and beaten it. That's a huge positive. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/13 09:06 AM |
| 7 | Is there an Extensive Guide to becoming the Man that Red Pill talks about?Honestly, what you really need is a rare bird in the wild. What you need is a pack. Pre-modernity, there existed: town bowling alleys, mens' lodges, gentlemen's clubs that were actually clubs for gentlemen to hang out in, barbershops, neighborhoods ("those still exist, dropit!" Not like the block-party-throwers of old, they don't), etc., etc. But, here we are, in the present, where men don't have friends. I have no suggestions, just diagnoses. This guy and this guy are also thinking about the is… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/13 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Should girls go to college to get their MRS degrees?I used to say the same thing. What I realized is that a dumb girl can't date me, in the same way that you say you couldn't date a dumb girl. It's not that I consider myself too good for her, it's that I have no value to her. Where's the attraction to a guy who keeps talking about weird stuff and talks like a fag? | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/13 12:58 AM |
| 3 | Father wants to encourage his daughter to spend his college years to finding a husband instead of sleeping around.You may want to reconsider your opinion---the oft-cited Teachman study shows a link between sexual partners before marriage and divorce risk. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/13 06:17 PM |
| 23 | Should girls go to college to get their MRS degrees?I wrote it as a comment on the actual post, but I think it's useful and rarely stated, so I'll repost it: From what I can tell, women like to date up in terms of intelligence, or at least not down. This makes life harder for smart girls, because their dating pool has been shrunk to smart-or-really-smart guys. So they’ll be forced to make some sacrifices when choosing guys. Quarterback Joe may be more attractive, but once he opens his mouth she just can’t stand it, so she’ll date the hottest phys… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/13 06:17 PM |
| 3 | I don't know how my Life turned around so quickly, but I wanted to thank everyone here.Sorry. Going His Own Way. * *There are many different reactions to the red pill; some men, upon understanding the true nature of women, just say "Fuck it," and stay voluntarily celibate, finding meaning in something besides their romantic relationships. They are referred to as MGTOWs, Men Going Their Own Way. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/13 05:22 AM |
| 11 | I don't know how my Life turned around so quickly, but I wanted to thank everyone here.We must be talking past each other. Do you mean that women aren't attracted to financially independent men just because they're financially independent, and will fuck a loser living with his parents if he comes off cool enough? When I said independence, I meant the whole shebang---emotional, financial, physical. Women are attracted to that. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/13 02:30 AM |
| 15 | I don't know how my Life turned around so quickly, but I wanted to thank everyone here.Sure. What I had in mind in particular was: We tell loveless beta losers to focus on something besides women. Usually that is self-improvement because they need it (they are losers after all). But guys rolling in strange hear this advice less. Part of the reason is that they aren't asking for advice; perhaps they don't need to hear it. But it remains true: don't be obsessed with women when they're not into you, and don't be obsessed with women when they are into you. Every man should be GHOW on … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/13 01:51 AM |
| 22 | I don't know how my Life turned around so quickly, but I wanted to thank everyone here.Both wealth and poverty show you who a man really is. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/13 11:33 PM |
| 14 | [Humor] Remember that feminist programming language satire? It has taken off...I can't begin to describe how much I love this. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/13 07:09 PM |
| 2 | The Taming/Betaification/Faggotization of Western MalesThe default mode of male-male relationships is actually pretty great. I've been on all-male sports teams, in all-male missionary units, worked at all-male companies (well, five of us), and men and boys tend to get along pretty well in isolation. To take an extreme example: early in high school I tried out for and baaaaarely made the basketball team. I was the worst or second-worst on a team of fifteen. To make things worse, I was a nerd who hung with nerds, on a team full of jocks who hung out w… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/13 03:33 PM |
| 2 | I want to write a book, where do I start?I'm a person, and I read multiple blogs. "Ideas getting stolen" is not a worry at all. Far more likely is "Oh, I read this dude's blog at awesomeblog.BratanBaran.com and he said..." I would definitely chime in with gohammer. From an administrative standpoint, blogs have a lot to offer---easy distribution (it's just a URL), the ability to categorize posts with tags, the ability to see where your traffic is coming from---very nice if you intend to take writing seriously. Also, you should look into… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/13 07:55 PM |
| 1 | A question for The Red Pill from a feminist dude.Consent's relationship with morality is tenuous at best, particularly when the (non-) consenting party has a flawed model of reality. You are a doctor. Your patient is due for some important vaccines. However, in the last few days, your patient has become a rabid anti-vaccone zealot. Even in the exam room, the patient won't shut up about how much they don't want a vaccination. Should you give them one, against their will? Twist: the patient is three years old. If your answer changed after the tw… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/13 06:39 AM |
| 1 | Bruce Charlton's Miscellany: How much stronger are men than women? (In terms of maximum muscular strength)I believe the best target archers in the world are women---apparently lower blood pressure makes for steadier aim. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/13 08:18 PM |
| 5 | How do you feel about r/PurplePillDebate?"Bad ROI" is the best way I can phrase it. There really are reasonable people on PPD. And were I a better person, I would spend more time trying to open their eyes. But I'm not, and a lot of this stuff is triage. Better to work on my friend who a)I care about and b) trusts me, than an internet stranger, who sees ME as an internet stranger. I wish them the best, and they're welcome to visit my blog at any time. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/13 04:20 PM |
| 21 | Why is r/theredpill so loathed?I agree with you 100% but it isn't just feminists that criticize this subreddit. 95% of U.S. citizens are feminists by 1920's standards. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/13 06:00 PM |
| 2 | RP Woman to other women considering the red pill out there; if you want a real man then you should be a real woman for him in return.I have. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/13 12:55 AM |
| 1 | A gay man's take on the friend zoneDespite my name, I don't know that you should drop it. It would certainly be easier to just be big happy herbivores. That this is impossible is very distressing. However, it does not mean an end to cooperation, camraderie, human warmth, and even love. Those have existed for thousands of years and humans are still around, so apparently they're adaptive. The trick is figuring out how, and how that's applicable in the modern era. What is particularly lacking, IMO, is the idea of honor. This is sort… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/13 05:48 AM |
| 2 | A gay man's take on the friend zoneThe "state of nature" isn't just predator-prey. There are also symbionts (word?), and pack cooperation. The Patriarchy is an advanced wolfpack, also known as "Civilization." | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/13 03:39 AM |
| 1 | I made a strawpoll for your political alignment; curious as to where this community stands.I have no interest in being an empty ideologue. I've edited the original post to remove the portion in question, and I'm off to do some research. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/13 03:12 AM |
| 2 | I made a strawpoll for your political alignment; curious as to where this community stands."Far right" implies a relative position (far right of what?). The problem is that the benchmark against which "far right" is measured has been moving left for centuries. Now you might say that even if short-term goals are similar, the theoretical foundations of the parties are very different; but this only goes to show how doomed and bankrupt any sort of "conservatism" is, if it's lost so much ground that it counts "roll them back 50 years" as a victory. The important thing is that this relentle… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/13 09:34 PM |
| 7 | I made a strawpoll for your political alignment; curious as to where this community stands.You forgot neoreaction, the party for people who don't vote! | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/13 05:56 PM |
| 5 | How does the red pill work in high school/ university?Don't worry about girls when you're 15-18. You haven't hit your peak value yet. 16-year-old girls are dating college guys. College girls are dating older men with jobs. You can get laid in school if you really try, but it's a lot more effort at a time in your life when you really ought to be focusing on you. This is an example of how forced androgyny has hurt men and boys. Women have been harmed by being told they can have sex "just like men!" (i. e. string of short-term lovers), men have been h… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/13 06:35 AM |
| 2 | Why do sensitive, sweet singers such as those in boybands appeal to women so much?The...uh...Beatles? | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/13 10:15 PM |
| 5 | How much gender Bias exists in TRP?How much gender bias exists in TRP? Answer: a lot. Scientific experiments try the best they can to remove bias because they are seeking purely to ascertain truth, while they don't care about the actual outcome of the experiment. A thousand rats can die, as long as something is learned. This is good---this is Science. Newsflash: your life is not a fucking experiment. There is more to life than being right about things. It's not that being stupid is cool, it's that some things are too expensive or… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/13 12:35 AM |
| 5 | Why do sensitive, sweet singers such as those in boybands appeal to women so much?This is a question that deserves a thoughtful, complete answer. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/13 12:23 AM |
| 22 | Request in Finding a Historical Study: Results show that across history 4 out of 10 men reproduce and 8 out of 10 women reproduce. conclusion: Men are the "weed out" gender.You may want to email Roy F. Baumeister, who is quoted as saying such: http://denisdutton.com/baumeister.htm "The first big, basic difference has to do with what I consider to be the most underappreciated fact about gender. Consider this question: What percent of our ancestors were women? It’s not a trick question, and it’s not 50%. True, about half the people who ever lived were women, but that’s not the question. We’re asking about all the people who ever lived who have a descendant living tod… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/13 12:37 AM |
| 18 | Becoming a ManTwo things: use345 is absolutely correct. There should be some personal pride involved here. that said, finding other guys similarly committed is very strengthening. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/13 05:32 PM |
| 1 | How does this board stay up?They don't advocate any specifics (They'd say "don't be a douche would be a good start," but even they admit that's nothing near to a strategy), nor do they really represent an alternative. I think they'd say they're just trying to satirize TRP. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/13 07:12 PM |
| 2 | In what way do you differ from the majority of Red Pillers?This is an interesting one. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/13 05:20 AM |
| 6 | Obesity in the Military; America is Going to Get RapedI think everyone would agree that we've seen a general decline in "the manly virtues." I'm skeptical that we can predict a specific outcome or time. But I think the post is right in predicting events like this in places we think they can't happen. The first step, of course, is them changing into places where they can happen. As men wake up to the fact that their chances of tranquil family life are less than they thought, they will economically disengage at the margins. As all the single mommy ch… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/13 05:06 AM |
| 10 | In what way do you differ from the majority of Red Pillers?Yeah, although a "pre-marital sex skeptic" movement akin to global warming would be hilarious. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/13 01:48 AM |
| 2 | In what way do you differ from the majority of Red Pillers?I find it hard to believe that the majority here does. If so, I'm in the wrong community. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/13 09:43 PM |
| 9 | In what way do you differ from the majority of Red Pillers?Well, I mean, he asked. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/13 09:42 PM |
| 26 | In what way do you differ from the majority of Red Pillers?I don't believe in premarital sex. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/13 07:37 PM |
| 4 | College isn't necessarily the best career advice.One benefit of college that isn't talked about as much is that it gives a pseudo-professional network. If you skip on college, make sure you find another entry point into your industry's community---subscribe to mailing lists, go to meetups, the works. This is good advice for those in college too, of course. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/13 03:51 PM |
| 2 | On Halloween ALL Men are RapistsWe're on the same page, I'm just failing to be clear. Sorry. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/13 03:09 AM |
| 2 | On Halloween ALL Men are RapistsI believe you about yourself and countless other individuals. But it's not enough to convince me of your innocence---she's making a choice about her safety, which requires a lot more people to be so harmless. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/13 12:47 AM |
| 7 | The Dutch Don't Care About MarriageWhat a kind, enlightened, evolved, empathetic, caring, sensitive, warm, compassionate, wise, tolerant, touching, romantic portrait of national suicide (see "Births and Deaths"). | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/13 09:55 PM |
| 1 | On Halloween ALL Men are Rapists"The campaign is indicating that all men are just rapists waiting for an opportunity. Real rapists are violent criminals, whereas most men are not." No, it's the other way around. Guys are rapists in waiting if you: get them drunk put scantily clad young women around them, who are also drunk (Even just that, without our bro-righteous anger about expanded definitions of rape, would increase the number of rapes from guys who would never do anything like that sober) Don't want to get shot? Don't go… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/13 09:43 PM |
| 3 | Spot Pricing (ONS) vs Forward Contracts (marriage) in the Sexual MarketIt's not "fake data," it's a better way to communicate the non-data of "women are most sexually desirable from their late teens to their late 20's." The sentence is no more or less based on data than the graph. You could make the case that Rollo created the graph to hoodwink through its visual similarity to how real data is often presented, or that others have appropriated it and done so, but Rollo goes out of his way to say it's his approximate impression, not "One weird trick to tell how desir… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/13 09:17 PM |
| 19 | Aren't we shit-testing them now?Yes, in the way you mean. A common objection to TRP is "They sure seem to talk a lot about getting women to act like sluts considering they say they hate sluts." The way men think of it is described in Frost's post Two Games---sluts are for short-term sluttery, non-sluts are wife material. This is why you might hear, "I hate sluts" and "I love sluts" from the same person: it depends on context. "Aren't we just brothers and sisters in self-delusion then?" Well, sort of. But life will almost certa… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/13 08:44 PM |
| 2 | this seems like a relevant link. not too familiar with flair thoughYou have to remember that "safety from crime" is a resource, and an artificially produced one at that. We pay real money in the form of police and military salaries, and they produce a constant stream of this resource. (The analogy isn't perfect, but good enough for this). Now, police and the military are public forms of security, in that they are paid for and implemented by the public. Unfortunately, like all collective resources, this public utility is subject to the tragedy of the commons , i… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/13 08:02 PM |
| 3 | Spot Pricing (ONS) vs Forward Contracts (marriage) in the Sexual MarketAbsolutely, but which came first? Detroit has long had a lower marriage rate than the rest of the U.S.: "The marriage rate for the U.S. has consistently remained higher per 1,000 people than the rates in Michigan and the Metro-Detroit area (Wayne County, Macomb County, and Oakland County)." http://drawingdetroit.wordpress.com/2013/05/13/michigans-marriage-rate-consistently-falls-under-u-s-half-of-detroits-population-has-never-been-married/ And we're "next," to the extent that we follow the same … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/13 06:24 PM |
| 3 | Spot Pricing (ONS) vs Forward Contracts (marriage) in the Sexual MarketA question worth asking. Marriage 2.0 really can't be defended so I won't even try. But marriage 1.0, I'd contend, was the bedrock of society. And I'm not just saying that rhetorically. Take it away, and you get: poverty, crime, depression, social isolation, demographic decline, and even war. Detroit is a picture of what you get when the government alpha "obsoletes" men by replacing them as providers. So I'm biased. I'm in favor of marriage. Not as it is, but as it was. I recognize the huge syst… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/13 06:04 PM |
| 2 | Spot Pricing (ONS) vs Forward Contracts (marriage) in the Sexual MarketWhy get married at all then? | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/13 05:39 PM |
| 2 | The Guiness ad for beta malesI agree that men no longer owe anything to the ruins in which they live. My motivations are part religious ("Do unto others..."), part pride ("Civilization is cool, and I'll be damned if I let these bastards ruin it"), and part survivalist ("After the Collapse, I'll need allies.") I guess I just hate the idea of Somalia so much that I'm willing to work against it. BUT, I completely understand the urge to go rogue. Society deserves it. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/13 05:19 PM |
| 2 | Feminism is about Population ControlI acknowledge the decay you speak of, but I'm uncertain that an awakened race consciousness is the cure---in other words, it's one of the few red pills I wish I could un-take. I'm also Mormon, and we're already big on large families. Basically, white + Mormon + rejects rabid multiculturalism = white nationalist wet dream, even though the two would disagree with each other. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/13 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Used TRP on FB with a girl, need advice (Sex involved)Well, listen to them! | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/13 04:18 PM |
| 4 | Spot Pricing (ONS) vs Forward Contracts (marriage) in the Sexual MarketThere is an element of chose-this-because-I-had-to. Some MGTOWs would marry if they liked their options---they don't have an ideological commitment against marriage so much as they don't like what marriage would look like for them. I suspect the same is true for some non-trivial portion of career women. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/13 03:48 PM |
| 6 | Spot Pricing (ONS) vs Forward Contracts (marriage) in the Sexual MarketI may have exaggerated a bit with "gonna have a bad time." What I really mean is "a harder time than if they'd married in their early 20's." "Harder," for the exceptionally beautiful, may very well mean "not that hard." The point that Frost makes that impressed me was the idea that current beauty is not all there is to the story. Given two comparable spots on Rollo's female SMV curve,(say 20 and 26---neither at Rollo's peak of 23, but still pretty darn high), both will be equivalent for one-nigh… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/13 03:23 PM |
| 2 | Feminism is about Population ControlHa! Well played. I don't think the two map to each other very well, though: TRP doesn't posit a conspiracy of a few so much as eminently natural human behavior by the many. A conspiracy would be preferable, because then it could be removed by exposing it to a bit of sunlight. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/13 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Used TRP on FB with a girl, need advice (Sex involved)Ok then, whatever if I fuck it up, but I won't go after pussy like I needed it. Good. Do you have any examples I could use as inspirations? If you're looking for examples, I guess biographies might be a good start. But more than examples, I would just stay in the same constant learning mode that presumably got you to TRP. Just learn about everything---human psychology in all its forms, health/fitness, some math (helps to learn everything else), some history, some biology---everything. I realize … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/13 10:04 AM |
| 3 | Used TRP on FB with a girl, need advice (Sex involved)You're an idiot. I don't actually mean you're an idiot. But you are ignorant. Here's the information you don't have: We know nothing about you. We know nothing about the girl. For short-term advice, all we can really say is, "Don't fuck it up." But you, uh, already know that part. You place too much importance on this particular girl. The fact that you're posting, asking for advice, shows that. This doesn't mean that if you magically act confident and don't ask for advice everything will work ou… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/13 09:41 AM |
| 2 | Why does TRP get so much hate from other men? You would think they would be grateful that there are groups who are standing up for their rights...This is a valid criticism, and the banner does not tell the whole story. What addictedtowheat means by "open/non-censored", is that it doesn't censor a sentence like, well, take addictedtowheat's sentence above about housebreaking. You may find that offensive, and that's the point---in other fora that would be regarded as, if not hate speech, leading in a direction the forum doesn't want to be associated with. TRP has zero problem with it. That's what addictedtowheat means when he says "open/non… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/13 06:52 AM |
| 2 | Feminism is about Population ControlThis is red zone territory for me (as in: anti-semites disgust me. I'm not saying that rhetorically, but to be candid so you can understand the rest of the comment in context), but one needn't be a ridiculous anti-semite to imagine a conspiracy of a few bankers. What I mean is: a conspiracy theory about a few bankers is by definition not a conspiracy theory about an entire people. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/13 06:37 AM |
| 12 | Man throws away $500K in gold to spite ex-wife: A Colorado man was so angry at his ex-wife for divorcing him that he had the couple’s life savings of $500,000 converted to gold — then tossed it in a dumpster so she couldn’t have any of itA good thought experiment, but: divorce is filed by women 2/3 of the time, if the dude were the one divorcing he'd have realized beforehand that he needed a way to protect the money and wouldn't have had to resort to this | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/13 06:04 AM |
| 4 | Tyler's Redpill "Secret Society" frameSo this is the kind of thing that seddit is actually good for, because they've been around longer and have taken the time to write about mechanics. So all of the following should be qualified with: seddit probably has a sticky/sidebar post on a lot of this. Otherwise (wow it's been a while), check out Savoy's Magic Bullets. Ignore the kitschy feel and read it, then take from it what you can. But, tidbits off the top of my head: emotion is fun, but not very safe. As such, women feel free to be mo… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/13 05:18 AM |
| 4 | The Guiness ad for beta malesAlpha has been used in biology and PUA to mean something very specific for many years. Alpha, in this definition, is not some sort of value judgement. It simply is. You guys have to get over that. But that's the thing---it's been twisted by the PUA culture. In biology, it gets its intellectual heritage from wolfpacks, where the alpha is the male ideal, as far as wolves go. It's the leader, and it's the leader because it's the male ideal. But we no longer live in wolfpacks. Now we have a postindu… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/13 04:20 AM |
| 4 | The Guiness ad for beta malesBut yes, diamond commercials are...terrible. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/13 12:40 AM |
| 3 | The Guiness ad for beta malesI didn't downvote you, but I think you're missing a big point: to the extent that "alpha" is "good," and we define it by how women's vaginas feel around it, we place women over us as status arbiters. The dissolute Casanova prettyboy is not the superior of the special forces guy whose wife left him for his long deployments. Women cannot magically assess the worth of a man; if they could, this subreddit likely wouldn't exist. Don't let the tail wag the dog. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/13 12:40 AM |
| 11 | Why does TRP get so much hate from other men? You would think they would be grateful that there are groups who are standing up for their rights...Don't forget that some of it is "show" hate, intended for the benefit of any women watching. "Off the Internets with ye, foul misogynists!" ("Fair maidens, canst thou not see thy Knight has come?") | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/13 05:38 PM |
| 1 | I'm getting frustrated with other communities, particularly with /r/subredditdrama.(It's for people with bad vision) | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/13 03:00 AM |
| 13 | Redpill and FitnessThat's not gonna happen. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/13 11:58 AM |
| 2 | TRP ExtremistsI agree completely that the individual men would do better for themselves and TRP's image to never get angry at all, or to get over it quickly. It brings down the level of discussion, doesn't present a good image, etc. But I think given the anonymous, decentralized nature of reddit, TRP will stay that way. What I would suggest, if your hankering for RP-aware discussion must be satisfied (it really is somewhat addictive isn't it?), is to venture out into the blogosphere. Identities, while still a… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/13 03:04 PM |
| 2 | TRP ExtremistsTRP isn't going anywhere. This subreddit has about tripled in size over the last 8 months or so. A newspaper article that was basically about "Some mean guys on the Internet are writing things!" made it to the top of Hacker News the other day. And most importantly, the stuff we talk about is real---it affects guys every day, and when they get frustrated/confused, they get on the internet, and find an entry point to the Sphere. So don't worry too much about the sub disappearing into obscurity. Fi… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/13 02:36 PM |
| 26 | What...Why? How did we get here in the first place?Put yourself in the place of a woman in some barbarian tribe. Every man wants to fuck you (because they want to fuck everyone), but you can only risk being impregnated by the strongest---first because those genes get you the best buck for your bang, second because you can probably expect some measure of protection from that man. How do you figure out which is the strongest? You pick a fight with one. If you win, then good thing you didn't have sex with him, because he's weak! If he wins, he like… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/13 06:31 AM |
| 3 | Have any of you found an exception to all this?I'll certainly grant you that not all marriages that stay together are happy, and that merely staying married is not the goal. It's closer to the mark than we think, though; one study showed that 2/3 of couples contemplating divorce, who did not divorce, rated themselves "happy" or "very happy" with their marriages 5 years later. Counterintuitively, simply staying married can improve your marriage. This is all the more reason to condemn the just-not-haaaaaaappy crowd. As for "what TRP is," we co… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/13 11:17 PM |
| 2 | I've got two sisters who's life stories are relevant to this sub.Why is morality an excluded motive? That seems to be the argument the OP is using for not telling the guy ("it wouldn't be right to destroy the lives of three innocent kids"). You can make the case that the welfare of the kids should outweigh the welfare of the dad, and that's not an insane thought to have; but pretending that it is the only consideration is insane. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/13 10:26 PM |
| 13 | Have any of you found an exception to all this?Whoa whoa whoa, TRP isn't that gloomy. In fact, it should be a comfort, as it tells you how to have a good marriage. Read some of dalrock's blog, or sunshinemary, or Athol Kay, or Stingray. 50% of marriages end in divorce. 50% don't. It should make you wary about marriage "just because," or to a carousel veteran, or to a spoiled princess who expects the sky. But to some sweet girl who loves you? Yeah, go to town. Now, that was the feel-good part. Here's the direct advice part: Do not have a girl… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/13 10:31 AM |
| 6 | Had my awakening and need guidance2.You are the problem. You're a pussy. This really is true for the vast majority of men. The trick is to avoid taking it personally. It's equivalent to: "You have no idea how to grow crops and live off the land." Well, yeah, no shit. That describes most everybody. Doesn't mean it's not true. But it's definitely fixable. Babies in the 1800's weren't born farmers. And there are no born alphas (Quiet HBD folk, you know what I mean). | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/13 08:52 AM |
| 3 | I'm honestly curious..You've behaved civilly so far and deserve an honest reply, so: In the reproduction race, women have a better starting hand, but men have more potential. How many kids will Terrence the IT guy have? Likely zero. How many did Genghis Khan have? Some estimates put it at around 10,000. Reproductively, the lowest female on the totem pole can still find some loser to knock her up; the highest will never have 10,000 kids. We are the descendants of women who played it safe, and men who didn't. As such, … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/13 02:32 AM |
| 2 | I'm not going to lie - as a female, I'm afraid to ask this question for fear of being flamed and vehemently downvoted. Have any of you ever watched the documentary "Miss Representation" in full? If so, what did you think of the topics presented?They do indeed. They also invent more things and take more business risks. The general rule is: if it's out of the ordinary, good or bad, men do it more. (As an aside: While I don't argue with you that men commit more crimes, they also receive harsher sentences for the same crimes.) | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/13 12:58 AM |
| 11 | I'm not going to lie - as a female, I'm afraid to ask this question for fear of being flamed and vehemently downvoted. Have any of you ever watched the documentary "Miss Representation" in full? If so, what did you think of the topics presented?It really is not on my shortlist of films to see. You may have better luck with /r/redpillwomen | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/13 04:25 AM |
| 2 | Sociopolitical Typology and The Red PillIt isn't necessary for one person to administer the entire population. The U.S. executive branch handles this with a variety of federal departments. There can be quite a lot of freedom even in the presence of a dictator---especially a humble one. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/13 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Sociopolitical Typology and The Red PillYou're right, I could have been more exact. What I guess we're actually talking about is virtue, weighted by power. Civilization doesn't fall if all two-year-olds are maniacs (which is fortunate, because they are). I also agree that given the possible consequences, diversification of power is probably a good idea. But we have to be honest with ourselves and acknowledge that we're consciously accepting something less than the best possible. However, there are some collective action problems that … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/13 07:57 PM |
| 2 | Sociopolitical Typology and The Red PillSo, this is a good read. I'm not sure I have a coherent response to all of it, but: Reputation Your point about enduring/non-enduring reputation in smaller or larger societies rings true. When we think of the word "honor," we think of personal integrity or a code of morals. That's a bastardization of the term. What it used to mean was reputation: specifically, reputation for being a badass (if a man), or for sexual fidelity (if a woman). This is why you could defend your honor by challenging an … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/13 03:14 PM |
| 2 | Societal impact as RP scalesIt depends a lot on what you mean by "RP...holistically in every aspect of our lives." You have to remember that TRP, taken literally, is not a strategy, but a realization. The behaviors you see are characteristic of men who've taken the pill in a society so messed up that blindingly obvious truth is called "taking the Red Pill." They would act differently if people didn't think they were crazy for their views. Frost did a good job of enumerating some rational responses to the pill (which could … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/13 03:25 PM |
| 2 | The fact that I was being desired by the most famous and powerful man in America only amplified my feelings to the point where resistance was out of the question. That’s why I didn’t say no to the president.That poor, idiotic, lovesick fool of a husband. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/13 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Fewer Men Graduate College: Obama says it’s a “Great Accomplishment.”Better than unskilled laborers? No. Humans are great. Better than unskilled laborers at specific tasks? Maybe. Depends on the task. Are not "machines" per se, but tools that increase the efficiency of unskilled laborers by 100%? Absolutely. Imagine you have a 1.5 ft x 1.5 ft. cube of butter. Your job is to cut ten pounds off of it. You have: a knife, and a scale. Twist: the butter came out of the freezer an indeterminate time ago. Obviously your workflow is going to suck. Here's how they do it: … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/13 12:18 AM |
| 2 | RedPillWomen vs TRP. What aspects of feminism do we reject?My theory is that feminism's "Problem With No Name" wasn't being stuck at home, but being stuck at home alone with kids. Only after the 50's housing boom (suburbia=your neighbors are that much farther away from you) did feminism really begin to gain steam. As such, I sometimes consider buying a huge plot of land with some friends+wives and creating a "cul-de-sac of cool people." | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/13 10:51 PM |
| 2 | Fewer Men Graduate College: Obama says it’s a “Great Accomplishment.”there simply isn't enough room in the market for every man to start up his own company. Then where's my flying car? My Ironman suit? Why am I not telepathic from genetic engineering yet? Now, there certainly isn't enough room in the market for an infinite amount of "marketing experiments that happen to use technology," a.k.a. facebook/groupon/twitter, but these aren't really technology companies. They use technology to scale, but "Twitter" existed on the old UNIX systems of the 60's and 70's wit… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/13 03:53 AM |
| 2 | Fewer Men Graduate College: Obama says it’s a “Great Accomplishment.”I upvoted both you and the grandparent because a) I am one of the guys Serres describes---we do indeed exist---and b) I tested extremely well, but agree with I_R that that willpower, self-discipline, and a safety net (rich parents in my case, but could also just get a job as a developer somewhere) are pretty much mandatory. Re: coursera stuff: I recommend every man get as much technical education (science, math, engineering, some trades, basic managerial accounting) as possible, and coursera is … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/13 03:32 AM |
| 12 | Thanks TRPI want to thank TRP community for providing that same "brotherhood" that every man needs from time to time. TRP is a place to share, learn and grow. The community can indeed serve that purpose to an extent, but make sure you have male friendships in real life. The average person has far fewer relationships with people in whom they feel they can confide, then they had 50 years ago, and this is linked to all sorts of negative life outcomes. Feminism is one disease of modernity; social atomization … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/13 07:23 AM |
| 7 | Sex As Be-All and End-All of Relationshipsbut I don't at the same time simply because I haven't met too many bad women. Or men for that matter. You have to be careful with this statement, because you're injecting your own meaning for "bad." That doesn't necessarily make it wrong, but it should give you some pause. In countries ruled by a theocratic Islamic government, there are men who've murdered their daughters for sleeping around. They too might say, "I don't really know any bad people." Except, of course, those sexual libertines in … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/13 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Sex As Be-All and End-All of RelationshipsHow would you reconcile this with the submitted text at the top of the post? And I understand chemistry and physical attraction is important, and is sex, but I have been frequently seeing comments that a married man having sex once a month has a "bleak" existence or that a man should not stick around if the girl isn't willing to put out. Now, I am one of the freaks on this board that believes premarital sex is a bad idea, and that divorce should be illegal. So it seems like I would share your di… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/13 04:22 AM |
| 8 | Sex As Be-All and End-All of RelationshipsIs it so odd for men to leave unhealthy relationships? | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/13 04:04 AM |
| 9 | Sex As Be-All and End-All of Relationships, sex isn't the main focus anymore, the companionship is and sex is just an added perk You don't understand. Sex is companionship for men. There's no separation. There's a phrase I've heard a few times that rings true to me: At all times, men are either fighting or fucking (this is why I think nofap is a good idea, btw). I think it applies to how men bond, as well: they bond with their comrades in arms (even if we're just talking about Call of Duty or something), and with women they have sex wit… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/13 04:02 AM |
| 7 | Sex As Be-All and End-All of Relationshipsof course it does in a relationship You'd be surprised. /r/deadbedrooms | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/13 03:51 AM |
| 11 | “It’s the same male chauvinistic thinking. The fact that they went to the I.P.O. without a single woman on the board, how dare they?”For that matter, the sewage treatment business. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/13 08:15 PM |
| 20 | “It’s the same male chauvinistic thinking. The fact that they went to the I.P.O. without a single woman on the board, how dare they?”Amazingly, the relatively low social status of the programming profession is what may save it from the fate law suffered: too many lawyers. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/13 07:51 AM |
| 3 | Confessions of a liberated man. "By women demanding 'liberation' what they have achieved is to turn many men like me, ones who took commitments seriously, into men who say 'no commitment ever'."Indeed. There's enough legit science that this sort of thing is actively harmful. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/13 01:40 AM |
| 3 | Did I get shit-tested by Jesus/how to deal with religious girls/my own male hamster/red pill thoughtsPeople don't take it seriously, but "different religions" is a risk factor for divorce. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/13 02:26 AM |
| 2 | TRP Talk: "Frame = Work"Thinking back on HTWFAIP, I'd categorize the portions as such: Many people, possibly even through no fault of their own, have weak frame and fail at life, and will be incredibly grateful for whatever scraps are thrown at them by others who appear to have it together. Notable concepts from the book: Call people by their names, care about them as people. Note that this advice is incredibly sensitive to relative value: it works only from the strong to the weak. If you do this as CEO to your employe… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/13 07:46 PM |
| 3 | Spinning plates becomes addictive!My advice is to move on - it's easier to find and attract another woman than it is to repair what you've done with her. Isn't it weird that that's true? And yet, it is. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/13 08:34 PM |
| 4 | Prostitutes > Nightclubs"What? No!" (wrinkle nose with slight smirk, subcommunicating "Don't be ridiculous, what is your problem?") and then (most important part) move on in conversation: "Anyway..." | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/13 11:09 PM |
| 2 | On noticing Facebook photo comment trends...ding ding ding ding ding! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cqggW08BWO0 | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/13 08:15 PM |
| 1 | A question for redpillers: how would you reduce rape in countries where rape is commonplace?I upvoted you. I was unclear when I said no one cares about reducing rape in general. What I meant was that very few people will be willing to sacrifice to reduce it in general. And I think that's what it would take. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/13 07:46 AM |
| 10 | Good guy friendsIt is entirely possible, as well as fit (in an evolutionary sense) to not compete with your friends over women. Women may try to break this, and of course individual guys can be assholes, but "bros before hos" is sound strategy, not just a nice sentiment. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/13 02:54 AM |
| 6 | A question for redpillers: how would you reduce rape in countries where rape is commonplace?| I don't see where it's "our problem". This is the correct answer. Further, it cannot be "our problem," because we literally do not have the power to fix it. This is the American messiah complex on steroids. It is extremely arrogant to start with the premise that we are The Anointed, sent to accomplish the White Woman's Burden in $COUNTRY. Seriously, what exactly is the plan? Invade South Africa? Invade India? OK, I'm reaching. How about we put up posters "telling men not to rape?" That might e… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/13 12:21 AM |
| 7 | Woman walks out on a man after finding out he's a virgin"you just fucked a loser" alarm Beautiful. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/13 01:47 AM |
| 5 | "I miss you terribly" need TRP input on how to proceed"I absolutely adore you." ~dropit's first girlfriend, the day before cheating on him. Watch what they do, not what they say. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/13 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Alleged "STEM crisis" is a myth intended to over-supply STEM job market and suppress American wagesThought: H-1B visas are intended to help U.S. companies adapt quickly, as opposed to waiting 4 years for students to sense demand/change majors/graduate. Be adaptable yourself: learn how to learn. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/13 10:35 PM |
| 4 | So apparently this bot exists. I knew other subs could be anti-TRP, but, seriously?Good. You have to understand, all things work in favor of the truth, eventually. Some people will see that and conclude that this subreddit is concentrated evil. Others will get curious, look around, and think, "Hey, this is a pretty good idea." But given enough centuries, truth comes out. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/13 07:57 PM |
| 6 | Women are driving the doctor shortage because few wish to work full time. Pushing women into medicine wastes public funds by generating human capital in people who won't use it productively.WHY ARE THEY CALLED GARBAGEMEN? WHY NOT GARBAGEWOMEN? | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/13 06:52 PM |
| 4 | Why there cannot be equalityI gotta say, you really nailed it in /MR. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/13 06:49 PM |
| 2 | The female pick-up artist, Arden Leigh - but she's still missing theredpill.This is kind of sad. I actually had a bit of online interaction with Arden years ago, when I was more into pickup. She was pleasant as punch. I hope things work out for her. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/08/13 08:07 PM |
| 2 | Girl game outside of relationships?Dude here, wanted to echo this. It's hot. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/08/13 07:59 PM |
| 5 | My issue with this subreddit since finding it and where I think a lot of the men here are going wrongYou're an arrogant little shit whose only saving grace is that you probably don't fully realize it. Even being generally spot-on in your personal outlook doesn't redeem your method of selling it, nor does it make more palatable your assumptions about TRP subscribers. http://www.thumotic.com/2013/05/09/argumentum-ad-amog/ Also, though it is entirely unfair, it is shaming women that will be most effective in restoring order. https://dalrock.wordpress.com/2011/11/18/we-are-trapped-on-slut-island-an… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/13 06:08 AM |
| 2 | Surprisingly thoughtful article about the timing of kids, marriage and careers for women. Goes against everything feminism taught them.Where would I find these quality alpha men interested in marriage and kids and won't care about wifey's employment status that you speak of? You know, as I think about it, they're actually hard to find. It's not that they're necessarily rare, more that they're snapped up quickly when they become available. However, the situation is not as bad as it sounds. There are raw materials all over the place---the doesn't-know-he's-handsome chill guy who isn't a player but hasn't really thought about marr… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/13 08:04 AM |
| 5 | Surprisingly thoughtful article about the timing of kids, marriage and careers for women. Goes against everything feminism taught them.This is an honest inquiry and I think I saw you around r/fpua, so I'll do my best here. Just as you write, one of the first things I ask someone, male or female, is the what school/what did you study thing. I've been trying to wean myself of this, precisely because of the message it sends to girls like you. The important thing to know is that I am not asking this because I care. I mean, of course I care as a conversational partner, but I might as well be asking what your favorite food is. It doe… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/13 04:50 PM |
| 2 | Confessions of A Reformed Incel from theRedPill sidebar. I'm interested in Feminist/ Blue pillers reaction to this.You do understand that the rational response to this is "Go die in a fire!", right? Seriously, put yourself in this guy's position. Pretend he's a horrible asshole neckbeard basement brony, all as a result of his own actions. But whatever the cause, that's how he is right now. On the one hand, we have: "1. Too bad. 2. Not that hard, brah. Style and stuff. 3. You're wrong, and also kind of pathetic. 4. You're shallow." On the other hand, we have, "You're right, something's up. Here is a boatload … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/13 02:34 PM |
| 31 | Wife With Zero Interest in Sex (Got it Out of Her System Before Marriage)"First relationship with zero red flags...because of how my exes reacted...29M 34F...squirm away when I'm touched..." Young men, are you reading this? For that matter, young women, are you reading this? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/13 02:08 PM |
| 3 | [Mod] Discussing RP ideas with our detractors.Flying Spaghetti Monster. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/13 06:10 PM |
| 2 | [Mod] Discussing RP ideas with our detractors.I have a post coming up about this. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/13 06:10 PM |
| 2 | Redpillers, which parts of TRP do you believe to be false? Bluepillers (or non redpillers) which parts of TRP do you believe to be true?Don't take my word for it. Former 14-yr-old girl Taylor Swift and her legions of current 14-yr-old girl fans would seem to agree with me that when you're 15 and somebody tells you they love you, you're gonna believe them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/13 05:12 PM |
| 2 | Becoming the renaissance man.If you liked this post, you may like Legionnaire's post on similar | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/13 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Redpillers, which parts of TRP do you believe to be false? Bluepillers (or non redpillers) which parts of TRP do you believe to be true?Nothing at all, but /r/TRP would contend that in a contest of "hyperbolic falsehood," society wins it by a mile by whitewashing female sexuality and character. There's a gaslighting effect that needs to be broken, and if that's achieved by letting a guy spout hyperbole on the internet, well, I'm entirely comfortable with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/13 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Redpillers, which parts of TRP do you believe to be false? Bluepillers (or non redpillers) which parts of TRP do you believe to be true?Maybe so, but having been a dude of many ages with many 14-yr-old girl friends, sisters, and cousins, I think I have a fairly complete picture. Can we stop the off-hand condescension now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/13 04:06 PM |
| 3 | Getting called "obnoxcious and loud " by a feminist and not reacting simply because im uneducated.I can't speak to the feeling around it, but the word itself isn't that derogatory. I seem to remember calling a girl "foul-mouthed and loud" or similar at some point. I didn't mean it as an insult, and she didn't take it as one. But I can't speak to your situation. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/13 05:12 AM |
| 2 | I think this is kinda cool, so I'll start. What do you think about the 3/2 ratio for affection from the 16 Commandments? If you implement it, has it enhanced your relationship?For the same reason that measurement is better than survey. Which do you trust more, the scale, or how much someone tells you they weigh? They don't even need to be dishonest or stupid for you to prefer the scale, just human. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/13 01:54 AM |
| 3 | I think this is kinda cool, so I'll start. What do you think about the 3/2 ratio for affection from the 16 Commandments? If you implement it, has it enhanced your relationship?If we're talking about games, both men and women have incentives to defect and make it an oppositional game. It is possible to build a loving, mutually beneficial relationship on top of this; see Tit for Tat. But you have to build on realistic foundations, and accept that a relationship is about exposing vulnerability and is therefore dangerous. Just because you approach relationships hoping to benefit all parties does not guarantee that your partner is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/13 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Would it be beneficial to come up with rules, agreed upon definitions, etc.?As a TRP dude, I'd contend that the standard definition doesn't quite cover it, whether through malice or (more likely) myopia. It needs to be judged for its effects as well as its ideals. ED: which is easy to say, but it's not like I've offered an alternative definition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/13 01:28 AM |
| 6 | Redpillers, which parts of TRP do you believe to be false? Bluepillers (or non redpillers) which parts of TRP do you believe to be true?There's a lot of RP stuff that is generalized, over-the-top, and motivated by emotion. "All women are conniving bitches," etc. This is obviously ridiculous. That said, statements like this may be useful, equivalent to a mother advising her daughter that "All men are dogs." Men are not sex-crazed maniacs, but they are way more into sex than your average wilting-violet fourteen-year-old girl can really understand. Just as the 14-yr-old won't really get it for years, a lot of what you see on /r/TRP… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/13 01:21 AM |
| 6 | I think this is kinda cool, so I'll start. What do you think about the 3/2 ratio for affection from the 16 Commandments? If you implement it, has it enhanced your relationship?It's a self-referential term, just like price on any market. The value of a can of oatmeal is whatever people pay for it in dollars, which are worth whatever people will give for that number of dollars, which is worth whatever people will pay for it in dollars, which... Same with SMV, but replace dollars with: exclusivity, gifts, resources, sex. Unless you're married, you're on the market. If you are married, the ideal is that both you and your spouse have made their choice and are now off the m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/13 12:50 AM |
| 1 | A wise woman discusses how she feels about being "the most mature teenager in the house".and share that youthful vitality with them so that, once in a while, they can remember what it's like to be a kid too. Bingo. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/13 11:27 PM |
| 2 | Is it possible to embrace the philosophy of TRP without getting into the "seduction" aspect of it?This really is something you need to shed eventually. It doesn't mean you have to have sex tomorrow because TRP said so (now you're looking to an Internet community to define you, which would be even worse), nor does it mean you have to change immediately. But hanging on to a self-definition of "outcast" is still defining yourself in terms of changeable human beings. What happens when you meet some dude who's smart and musically talented like you, but fucks a new girl every week? I guarantee he'… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/13 05:21 PM |
| 8 | Red Pill Media? What is worth watching for doses of TRP ideology?First Knight is very red pill, and does a good job illustrating some of the same issues that people are struggling with. The Last Samurai is not about women, which, oddly, makes it extremely red pill. It also provides a possible answer to the existential question any thinking RP guy asks himself: if women aren't The Good, what is? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/13 09:29 PM |
| 5 | Trying to help a man in /r/Christianity. Criticisms? Anything I missed?Christianity's, not Christians'. A widespread phrase in the Christosphere/orthosphere (whatever you want to call it) is "Churchianity," alluding to the idea that many modern churches are just feel-good community centers that change their doctrine to appease the most shriekingest of their congregants (no prizes for guessing who that is). | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/13 08:20 PM |
| 2 | Regarding the college degree post, don't fall for it. Take the red pill, you're not going to get a good career making a lot of money: How Gen Y is Completely, Hopelessly and Totally Screwed.Is there any reason to think that oil will be in short supply suddenly? Won't the price just go upwards to adjust? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/13 07:12 PM |
| 15 | Why are so many men dropping out of society?This is fantastic. Note: you have to mean it when you stop chasing. It can't be a bluff or an act. That doesn't mean you have to be a full-on under-no-circumstances-will-I-talk-to-you MGHOW, but whatever conditions you set on coming back, don't fudge. Especially not if it's because you're horny. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/13 05:57 AM |
| 5 | Trying to help a man in /r/Christianity. Criticisms? Anything I missed?Excellent. My only criticism is that you neglected to link to the (substantial) Christian red pill community. It's a network of blogs rather than a subreddit, so it's less cut-and-dry, but there's been some excellent stuff happening that Christians will find relevant. Some choice articles from dalrock would likely be best; "She didn't feel loved" is a good one, as well as selected posts from traditionalchristianity.wordpress.com, and Sunshine Mary's. Athol is good for practical stuff, but findin… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/13 02:52 AM |
| 2 | Who here is generally happy with their relationships (present and past) with women?Men do this too, btw, but their preferences are sufficiently static that everyone sees through it. Examples: "Dude, wouldn't it be sweet if your girlfriend played CoD with you?" "Chicks that get math are hot." Same as women, guys who say this kind of thing aren't lying, they just aren't telling the whole story. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/13 11:28 PM |
| 28 | Heartbreaking tale from Relationships. Just a reminder, some women will turn on you in a heartbeat the second you cease to be useful.As the OP who presumably found it through a source other than /r/TRP, he should probably be exempt. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/13 04:15 AM |
| 9 | Heartbreaking tale from Relationships. Just a reminder, some women will turn on you in a heartbeat the second you cease to be useful.The comments make me want to claw my eyes out. The best they can do is to tell him he needs some babying. That is the closest the hivemind can get to "This woman has no idea what marriage means." "Richer or poorer, in sickness and health..." | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/13 04:13 AM |
| 2 | A Red Pill towards removing labels from all relationships.All societies are always in time of scarcity: if they stop running, another society will outbreed them and take their land/customers/resources. This is the fate Rome suffered, and modern first-world societies will too if current trends continue.* *This is admittedly quite a caveat, but current trends probably will continue. It's hard to put the sexual revolution jack back in the box. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/13 12:26 AM |
| 7 | A Red Pill towards removing labels from all relationships.This is true, but it is not enough. Look, Nietzsche and the death of God is cool and all, but after the Sacred No (morality is merely a construct) comes the Sacred Yes (I'll make my own construct). Just because something's artificial doesn't mean it's bad. Civilization is literally built on marriage: it's the only thing keeping single young men from rioting (until, that is, WoW. I prefer the way marriage did the job). Now, this may convince you of the benefits to society, but not to you. Underst… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/13 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Women Reach For Red And Pink Clothes During OvulationGood point: perhaps my conclusion was too hasty. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/13 02:52 PM |
| 3 | Women Reach For Red And Pink Clothes During OvulationHa, good point on caution. But yes, it's easier: game as we talk about it will be most attractive to women who are ovulating, and the way it is attractive leads To ONS's. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/13 11:30 AM |
| 6 | Women Reach For Red And Pink Clothes During OvulationThis is mildly interesting but ultimately trivial by itself, but combined with the research on sexual preferences at different stages of the cycle, it becomes practical: if you're looking for a one-night stand, go for the girl in pink or red first. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/13 01:09 AM |
| 11 | Curious woman here... Does TRP believe in love?This really is the key point. A great deal of misery for both genders has come about because of the conflation of falling in love---a biochemical phenomenon---with love the virtue, as described in 1 Corinthians 13. Examples of this deep linguistic confusion: "I love you, but I'm not in love with you." "I love beer!" "I love my children." "I love my parents." "I love my country." "I love my dog." I believe in all these loves. I do not, however, believe that they are the same as each other. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/13 06:39 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with the fact that adopting the redpill makes me hate women and not want to be around them?A period of withdrawal can be healthy and constructive. Your anger is caused by a mismatch of expectations and reality. The problem (as always) is the expectations: the reality, we can do nothing about. Lower your expectations. See women for what they are: flawed creatures fed a bunch of lies (like you, in that respect). They're stuck in the Matrix too, you know. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/13 12:57 PM |
| 2 | Alot of comments here lately are making their way on feminist subreddits.Like as point-and-laugh material? Whatever. Important note: the intelligence or stupidity of posts on a subreddit has no bearing on the coherence of a philosophy that subreddit espouses. Everyone here is learning, so mistakes will be made. First-graders don't know a lot of math, but that doesn't mean the teacher is lying to them. So of course there's a lot of retarded crap here. I've seen it, and some of it I've posted. The important question is not, "Is everyone on TRP a supergenius alpha who b… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/13 05:05 AM |
| 2 | Open for discussionThe problem becomes that even though we may have outgrown these problems as a species... I predict that we haven't. Technologically, we've progressed fantastically in the last hundred years. As a society, though, we've gone backwards. I don't know how and I'm not much for prophecy, but I suspect that a lot of guys will find their balls at some point in the future because they have to, not for self-actualization or whatever. http://unqualified-reservations.blogspot.com/2013/03/sam-altman-is-not-b… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/13 03:09 AM |
| 3 | Post in r/askwomen asks if any woman has ever dated a RP guy. Hilarity ensues as all top responses are NOT women who dated a RP guy; woman who did date RP guys and doesn't regret it or commenters who defend TRP are downvoted.FleetingWish, IIRC, is a mod at /r/fpua. She has her head on straight. It's frustrating that what RP community there is usually has to have a woman speak for it (Dr. Helen comes to mind), but there it is. Women should not be expected to do this (we can fight our own battles), nor worshipped when they do, but for those who want to, it is a good thing, I think. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/13 06:48 AM |
| 0 | Banned from /r/AskWomen. Here were the three posts which made that happen.True, but frankly, that's something I value about the sub. I don't want half the front page taken up by "Red Pill Disproven: My BF Bought Me Dinner on our First Date" posts. The ENTIRE WORLD is out there if you want to hear another opinion. The restriction here allows for deeper discussion, because I don't get called a misogynist every five seconds. Free speech is a good thing. So are "spaces" "safe" from certain types of speech. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/13 04:24 AM |
| 4 | Field Report (With screenshots of shit tests!)There's no real benefit from showing them, and there is a real cost: it looks bad to admins. The mods are very conscientious about obeying Reddit's CoC, so as to provide no excuse to close the subrrddit. I'm sure you can appreciate how we might be at a greater risk for that than normal. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/13 04:09 AM |
| 5 | I'm a Gay Guy but Agree with Red Pill; here's Why, and also I ask for AdviceI don't know what I'm asking. I just don't know much about gay dudes, so I was curious. Thanks and welcome to TRP. EDIT: You may want to check out Jack Donovan, a very Red-Pill writer who happens to be gay. The Way of Men in particular is excellent. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/13 02:44 AM |
| 1 | I'm a Gay Guy but Agree with Red Pill; here's Why, and also I ask for AdviceOut of curiosity, do you seek the same masculinity in women? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/13 02:20 AM |
| 6 | Field Report (With screenshots of shit tests!)In the future, obscure faces in images. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/13 12:29 AM |
| 1 | ask/women is trying to figure out what redpill isThis is actually a very good point. Women are attracted (even if not romantically) to success, so she gets a lot of upvotes from other women, confirming her Awesomeness®. She might be getting a lot of upvotes from men, too, because accomplishing all that is indeed admirable. However, the key RP insight is: it does not make her more attractive. Put her back on the market, and she would struggle. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/13 10:56 PM |
| 2 | Intrasexual Competition and the Strong and Independent Woman(Thanks for the flair mods!) So, to add some context: the post rings true to me. Women do seek after a status that only men can provide. However, I'm not quite clear why. Why do the opinions of other women matter so much to them? Thanks in advance for any thoughts. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/13 07:28 PM |
| 2 | Have you guys noticed the reactions you get from outside the sub?Yes...that's why he said we've applied it to our lives. Look. TRP is not a political party. We don't need converts. Oh, sure, we get excited when the sub hits x number of subscribers or whatever, but it doesn't really matter. Any guy who expects the Grand Redpill Renaissance should head over to /r/mensrights, where they're still awaiting the male reincarnation of Mary Wollstonecraft* to bring on the Masculine Rapture or whatever. We've accepted that (s)he (or whatever) isn't coming. We can't cha… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/13 07:17 PM |
| 1 | On game, NAWALT, displaying value and other thoughtsIf you want to abandon hard-won knowledge for a better soundbite, go for it. Phrases like "game" and "state" may sound cheesy, but they allow us to converse efficiently about important concepts. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/13 03:51 AM |
| 7 | Career strategies for the red pill manYou are looking for this, I believe. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/13 04:52 PM |
| 2 | "Don't Marry Any Woman Over 25": Remember, no matter what she looks like, she wasted her prettier years on other men.If you were talking to 21-yr-old girls, like laidnyc is talking to 18-35-yr-old guys, then no, not at all. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/13 12:08 AM |
| 2 | Why not both?Start acting "alpha" to your boss or professor, then come ask again. So that was tongue-in-cheek, because the two are not mutually exclusive. But they often are. As /u/redpillschool is fond of saying, this is a stochastic (probability-driven) rather than deterministic (hard-rule) process. One great way to be a good provider is to study something in STEM. This requires a lot of time investment, and gains you basically nothing but money in terms of attractiveness to women. Worse, preselection mean… | /r/askTRP | 07/08/13 10:13 PM |
| 9 | There was a post about domestic discipline in /r/relationships last week, which was responded to with expected white knighting "omg it's abuse." Wondering what you guys think.I'm strongly considering it. Frankly, it used to be the norm a few centuries ago. Morally---the objectors have no idea what they're talking about. I was shocked as anyone when I came across the idea, but reading enough articles by women to the effect that they felt more loved and respected when being punished, convinced me. If shit tests are cries for security, spanking is an answer to those cries. We're all aware how much your balls are in a vise your wife controls if you hit her. Even if we we… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/13 01:44 AM |
| 5 | I'm not part of the Manosphere am I?True, true. But while feminists aim (at least nominally) for a sort of United Women's Sisterhood, the brighter bulbs in the 'sphere have acknowledged that there will not (and should not, as it would be co-opted) be a cohesive movement. If anything, there's a call for a thousand mini-movements. I posted an example of one a while ago. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/13 10:12 PM |
| 2 | What's the point?I don't think the RP party line is "Get in the kitchen!" Likely. It mostly served as a strawman. Also, in this specific case, "Get in the kitchen!" is rather ambiguous advice, since her dream is to be a financially successful food entrepreneur. Ha! | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/13 06:24 AM |
| 8 | Bronycon(Sons should watch The Lion King, though) | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/13 12:04 AM |
| 7 | What's the point?a) there is a point to life b)hard choices. No one here can make them for you. What do you want to hear? An RP party line of "Get in the kitchen!"? A pragmatic but ultimately unsatisfactory explanation of how to juggle it all? (Kids working in bakeries their mothers own is hardly the worst thing that could happen to them. Also, kids are limited by your fertility, while baking is not) Someone to point out that no human being is able to do all of these, and that that's why splitting the workload b… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/13 11:33 PM |
| 13 | I present: the most beta man in the world."He apologizes for assuming he has the right to pay for dinner. He repeats constantly how glad he is that your relationship is "based on friendship." After walking in on you with another man, he asks if you want any snacks for afterward. He is...the most beta man in the world." | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/13 04:52 PM |
| 21 | Danish woman calls out to IT nerds: Dress hotter and cut down on the lingo so we can date you(relevant link: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=4353302) Better advice for IT folk: charge more, work less. Learn basic accounting and marketing. These guys aren't stupid. They fully appreciate the value of dress. They just have other things on their minds. Hard programming problems are a 24-hr-occupation. They do, however, make one critical mistake: they expect employers and women (neither of which have been noted for their discernment) to value them for how smart they are, or (more tragic… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/13 02:38 PM |
| 1 | I like betas, is there something wrong with me?'I am not speaking in an angry or "look at how fucking little I want" tone...' I understand the sentiment completely, but consider what you're asking for---the "committment" and emotional support of a dating relationship, without the main driver for guys in such relationships: the sex. That doesn't mean he doesn't value you as a person---he values his friend Steve as a person too, but he's not dating Steve. chaste girl who hasn't had sex because I want to wait for someone I love... Your use of t… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/13 01:32 AM |
| 4 | How am I supposed to react to this?Straight up tell her. "Hey, if you wanna grab a drink with me...I'm your man. But I'm honestly not interested in how Ron & Harry potter are having gay sex at Hogwarts, okay? You got "friends" for that. I'm a man...I'm not a friend". I like the sentiment, but this shouldn't be communicated overtly. Act according to it, don't say it. Meaning: don't waste your time on the fanfic or whatever; if she asks about it, be honest that "I'm sure it's great, I just wasn't that interested." | /r/askTRP | 03/08/13 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Is it beta to fall in love with a woman or show her that you care? If not, what is the alpha way to do that?There's so much context in your question that needs to be unpacked. "Fall in love." Husky_nihilist pointed out that this has a name, and it's called limerance. It's not love. As any number of girls with beta orbiters have pointed out, having someone "in love with you" is not always a walk in the park. As any number of dudes have found out, there is a difference between someone loving you and someone being in love with you, as evidenced by the statement, "I love you, but I'm not in love with you.… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/13 08:05 PM |
| 3 | Trying to swallow the red pillSuccess is not measured by her reaction. Don't let the tail wag the dog. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/13 03:45 PM |
| 6 | Trying to swallow the red pillNot necessarily. You can coolly and rationally decide that there are certain things you won't accept. Communicating this is not losing your cool. Now, communicating it and then doing nothing---that's the mistake you mustn't make. There must be a punishment, or she'll feel blindsided when you dump her after she does it consistently for two months. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/13 06:54 AM |
| 2 | Revenge of the NerdsI think that the way we understand people and relationships is probably similar, and that the root of our disagreement is using words to mean different things. Likely. I'm at fault for this, as I'd rather provoke disagreement than do the work of laying out a dictionary everywhere I go. Thank you for meeting my laziness with patience. Also, note that I can disagree with you without "reacting"- it's convenient but somewhat narcissistic to assume that the only reason someone would disagree with you… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/13 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Alpha BehaviorThis needs to be voted higher. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/13 10:50 PM |
| 2 | Revenge of the NerdsCertainly, a student must respect and defer to his teacher's judgement in order to learn effectively, but there's a possible dynamic of cooperation between peers in order to achieve a mutual goal which you're completely overlooking. Almost like, oh, I don't know, a captain and first officer relationship. We have a (understandably) knee-jerk reaction against the term "beta." "I must be the alpha at ALL TIMES," we think. "I must be the most powerful party in all relationships. To be otherwise is t… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/13 02:30 PM |
| 5 | How do I become a better woman?Try http://girlsbeinggirls.wordpress.com/ The mods of /r/redpillwomen are counted among its contributors. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/13 01:54 PM |
| 2 | How do I become a better woman?Upvoted and commented here just for emphasis. "Good at being a woman" is the right way to think about it. That's what the OP is going for, which is wise, admirable, and completely neglected in our androgynous society. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/13 01:51 PM |
| 4 | Postsecret confession postcards. Perfect & succinct examples of Hamsters rationalizing their fat hate, slutty behavior, rape fantasies, alpha widowry, hatred & jealousy of other women, blaming of others, desire to be submissive, and willingness to do ANYTHING for attention [more in comments]Nor does a fish consider itself a creature of water. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/13 01:27 AM |
| 3 | Revenge of the NerdsAuthor here. I agree that the Trump dynamic you describe is possible, and hopefully every RP reader dude in school will take the approach you describe. However, that is not the approach encouraged by the current school system. Admittedly there is a lot of hoopla about self-directed learning, but in practice universities cave to the demands of students (who in turn are caving to the demands of employers) and tend, at least for underclassmen, to take a relatively factoryesque approach, which deman… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/13 01:15 AM |
| 4 | Robert Heinlein makes a good point. From the book Starship Troopers.I recommend every guy on this sub read Starship Troopers, if only for the portions where the protagonist is in "History and Moral Philosophy" class. If I had faith that everyone would read it the whole way through, I'd even advocate putting it on the sidebar. To whet your appetite, note that some of the earlier quotes in the link sound like they could be on the sidebar: "The universe is what it is, not what we want it to be." | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/13 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Meditations on Privilege, Creepiness, and SuperweaponsAgreed. Didn't expect much, but wow! | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/13 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Want to hear TRP opinions/thoughts on this - how to handle the bill on a 1st date. All advice welcomeThis is great. The answer is so much more nuanced than either "of course, be a gentleman!" or "no, only beta fags pay for bitches." This story helps illuminate the issue. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/13 03:38 PM |
| 21 | Need some help on something a girl said last night while trying to get her number.Too reactive. Drop the "your loss" and you're good. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/13 03:24 PM |
| 2 | World's biggest shit-test: Pregnancy outside of marriage is a poor-life choice by many women.With religion in its death throes, we've ceded the role of moral arbiter to those who screech tthe loudest. No surprise who that is. TRP is a rejection of female-centric morality, as emotion-based and meaningless. But those who destroy must provide something in its place. If a man has no morals, he is a subhuman beast, because he's acting like one. TRP, the information, is amoral. Sexual strategy is not amoral, because it's what you do. Moral reactions to amoral facts is the gold standard. Reaso… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/13 09:28 PM |
| 6 | Heartiste: ''The myth of effortful game''It can, but when you've got it down, it feels much more like (ready for this one, TBP?) playing a video game, as opposed to setting up your router. It's fun. No one was born natural (alternately, everyone is, because they're born male). It takes effort to learn, to analyze past interactions, etc., but once you're there, it's something you are. A lot of game is just aping the (natural) behaviors of (naturally or unnaturally) powerful men. Once you're there, "Be yourself" actually works. The key i… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/13 09:14 PM |
| 5 | A Letter From JP Morgan CEO to Gold DiggersWasn't from the CEO, was likely not from a JP guy at all: http://www.snopes.com/love/dating/golddigger.asp | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/13 09:06 PM |
| 1 | US Marriage Rate plummeting: Blue Pill article but comment section RP goldmineBut we didn't "double the work force." We had a work force mainly comprised of men; then we added a lot of women to it. Women were now in the career world, free from serving men, free to work at their jobs, which mostly consisted of...serving men. Most of the jobs women do are jobs they were already doing---only now they do them for $8/hr instead of lifetime provision. The corporate boyfriend may like you honey, but he treats most girls like cheap whores. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/13 09:01 PM |
| 0 | How does TRP apply to non-heterosexuals?There has been very little thinking (at least in this world) on homo relationships. There was one gay guy whose name I don't remember, who mostly found value in navigating a feminized society. So this will less useful to you than the average hetero dude, but will still hold some value for you. Jack Donovan (jack-donovan.com) has done a lot of writing on masculinity in modern society. He's also gay. Highly recommended, esp. The Way of Men. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/13 03:34 AM |
| 16 | World's biggest shit-test: Pregnancy outside of marriage is a poor-life choice by many women.While I share your opinion of those who get pregnant outside of marriage, this is not strictly a "shit test." A shit test is bad behaviour toward someone a woman is somewhat attracted to, to see his reaction. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/13 01:21 AM |
| 6 | Rabidly anti-marriage Manosphere personality gets... engaged?!What? The Mark Minter? "Never marry."-as-a-complete-sentence Mark Minter? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/13 11:34 PM |
| 26 | Do any of you preach about the truths of TRP?I wrote a lot, then deleted it all. What it all came down to: the higher your SMV, the more people will listen to you, male or female. Don't be the nerd in the basement with misogynistic crap he got from the Internet. Be the guy all the girls want because "he just gets me." | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/13 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Try to watch this video without crying. The taste of this redpill might make you suicidalI think we just Godwin's lawed ourselves. If you can manage his writing style, I highly recommend Moldbug's essay on camouflaged predation. I am a historical ignoramus (and that, Moldbug would chide, is the problem), but "brainwashing" does not sufficiently account for the German public's overwhelming support of Hitler. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/13 12:50 AM |
| 21 | Hey TRP, wanna see something really funny?Everyone likes a comeback kid. Keep it up. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/13 11:45 PM |
| -32 | An experience of mine (fb deletion=phone #s)You're getting a lot of hate here, but look at the result. You definitely took a risk, but we weren't there. Man in the arena, etc. Glad it worked out. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/13 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Tips for being a Man amongst Boys?Order is important here: you want to be the kind of person that enters most relationships as a leader, but you should rarely strive to be the leader in any particular relationship. I just say stuff, btw; none of this is a comment on you. And since I can't read your mind, if I seem to be disagreeing while actually agreeing, well, there we are then! | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/13 07:20 AM |
| 5 | Considering taking the red pill, but...Don't assign hyperagency to women. Just because a lion would eat you on the savannah doesn't mean lions are evil---it means you should be careful out there. Lions are great---in zoos or or from the safety of a truck. Women actually mean it when they seemingly ignore a man's point of view. They're not ignoring it, it literally doesn't cross their minds. This is something to be aware of and take into account, not judge them as horrible people because of. Women are generally quite nice, like most p… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/13 07:14 AM |
| 1 | Tips for being a Man amongst Boys?You misunderstand leadership if you think it's the strong taking from the weak. That's predation, not leadership. If your understanding is "I should try to be the leader because that's what gets the bitchez," then no one will want to follow you (using the hypothetical "you" as I don't know you from Adam). Enter friendships as friends. Hierarchical relationships reflect natural hierarchy, they don't impose it. Let things develop. The last thing you want is to be acting "alpha" around your betters… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/13 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Tips for being a Man amongst Boys?Having been a teller amongst showers: they know it, and it's good for them. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/13 03:45 AM |
| 3 | Might is Right, Chapter VI: Love and Women and War - Redbeard, 1896 - The original RedPillIf it's banned, you should probably read it. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/13 02:05 AM |
| 0 | Interesting video of unattractive geek girls saying they have nothing to prove - Strong HamsteringGeek culture and its relationship with women is a giant clusterfuck. On the one hand, you have what you could call "legitimate" geek culture: people who like non-mainstream (esp. non-physical) activities or whatever. Gravy. Sometimes, though, you get a subculture that at least unconsciously defines itself as outcasts. Girls are caught in a double bind when wanting to be a member of this culture: if attractive, they can never truly be a member of a culture that defines itself as unattractive; if … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/13 11:15 PM |
| 14 | Beta is mystified when his wall-slammer girlfriend of six months (who's about to move in) demands that he pay all her living expenses.While the "replaced for a younger model" version may or may not be true for LTRs, it is false in marriage; women file for divorce at twice the rate that men do. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/13 07:34 AM |
| 1 | How has the red pill affected your family relationships?I argue less and do more. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/13 03:29 AM |
| 3 | The red pill still has a bitter aftertaste long after I took itTaking the redpill almost certainly means that at that moment, you are a beta. And, oddly; that's OK. We're all for beta-shaming here; but there's an unspoken message behind it: Come on, buddy, you can do better than this. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/13 06:08 PM |
| -2 | All My Exes Live in Texts: Why the Social Media Generation Never Really Breaks UpYou likely assume too much. You're unaffected, and so you know that the article doesn't apply to everyone; why should it apply to your exes any more than you? | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/13 05:52 PM |
| 1 | How do you replace the feeling of being cared for?God. Brothers (blood or otherwise). | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/13 06:10 AM |
| 15 | How to have relationships with absolutely zero drama.Becoming a boyfriend or husband essentially tells her "I'm not going to end the relationship without communicating," This is why marriage is a sham in today's society. What is the qualitative difference between marriage and an LTR? Government sanction (for personal relationships? WTF?) and money. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/13 01:20 AM |
| 3 | Would you have any advice for a woman approaching the wall who has NOT ridden the carousel?It may be worthwhile to ask the ladies of Traditional Christianity (don't be scared off by the name; it's basically a group blog by a bunch of redpill women, at least two of which are a) black and b) smart as whips). | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/13 11:27 PM |
| 3 | What the mods don't want you to seeI saw it, read the whole thing, started a reply, then stopped. It was something complaining about being banned for questionable reasons, questioning whether the ban was justified, bla, bla... Who gives a shit? The mods are human, not God. We happen to have relatively strict mods. Some people will be banned "unfairly," whatever that means. You have no rights. This is not a community. These are not your friends. If you get mugged in a strange city, no one here will drop everything to come help you… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/13 04:13 PM |
| 1 | A crack in the narrative: Hacker NewsYes, I was aware. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/13 03:28 PM |
| 9 | I'm a girl with BPD that is interested in hearing your experiencesOn phone so forgive for being terse, had a gorgeous ex with BPD, I'm convinced BPD could also be called "Insufficient Alpha." My theory is that BPD girls are pretty, smart, funny, and kind, but are aware that they're not perfect. The problem is that no one around them provides actual limits, because they're so hot/charming/devious that they can circumvent them. What do you do if you're an insane goddess, and you know it? Understand this is not a comment on you---never met you, and my theory abou… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/13 04:09 AM |
| 11 | Exploration of RedPill IdeasCdm is right, but also: don't flatter yourself. Male attraction tends to be be less fickle, and we tend to project that onto women. If we liked her yesterday, we'll like her today, so guys are taken off guard when they learn they need to maintain attraction. She can just as easily flip to not giving a shit about you. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/13 05:41 PM |
| 1 | The Gender Equality ParadoxThe other thing that strikes me lately w/reference to "it's old-fashioned"---it's just an appeal to force. "Fashion" means "things the cool kids like," so calling something old-fashioned carries a subtle threat: "Abandon coolness all ye who enter here." While "old-fashioned" warns of the wrath of the Fashionable, there's another version: "It's 2013!" This is the equivalent of "When your father gets home..." but "Father" in this case is the God of Progress, who, as we all know, is carefully guidi… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/13 07:15 AM |
| 1 | Tips for a younger red-piller?But the problem was, the chicks understood what I was doing. They saw through it, they knew I was not that kind of person. It was embarrassing, but over they forgot, and it just went back to me being a beta, and not being the type of man I wanted to be. Like blush_limbaugh said, the reason you failed was because you were faking it. The right way to do it is to have nothing to see through. I have some bad news for you: you won't "be alpha" for a long time. You're a 13-yr-old kid. You don't know s… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/13 10:52 PM |
| 24 | What do the men of redpill think of female virgins?Only kind of girl I'd marry. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/13 07:35 PM |
| 3 | Men - The New Second Class Citizenshttp://dalrock.wordpress.com/?s=venker She's admittedly an ally in her general direction, but I get the sense she's trying to build a better beta. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/13 07:23 PM |
| 0 | Men - The New Second Class CitizensIt's Venker. Look at it as race-solipsism. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/13 03:52 PM |
| 5 | "[S]he won’t complain about the death of courtship or men who won’t commit. Instead, she’ll talk about “cost-benefit” analyses and the “low risk and low investment costs” of hooking up."Re: hookup culture and fuzziness of consent: Trying to shame drunk frat guys into being responsible is a lost cause. If they were "responsible," they wouldn't be there in the first place, hammered out of their minds. Outlaw sex, and only outlaws will have sex. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/13 08:48 AM |
| 4 | Alright lads, lets take the long view...I've been around for about a year. I think I googled something like "girlfriend doesn't respect me." I found Dalrock and branched out from there. I think at least some number will start thinking about implications the pill leads you to. Frost wrote an article that concluded that rationally thinking through the implications of the red pill leads you to ethnonationalism, planned hedonism, or religion. Jack Donovan has written about the importance of "gangs of men," and I posted a link earlier to a… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/13 07:33 AM |
| 1 | Why feminists need to shame men into dating feministsI'm a right-winger, and there is plenty of feminist dick-sucking going on. It mostly manifests in appeals to man up and marry those sluts. The tradcons hold them, feminists hit them. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/13 01:46 AM |
| 5 | How modernity misunderstands sexualityThey don't understand that they of course sexualize men too, because male sex is power, and power is male sex. They don't understand that Rambo with the machine gun or Superman striking the victor pose, a power pose or for something actually historical and much older, the statue of Duke Rollo are the essence of male sexuality embodied, that of conquest, power and heroism. Excellent. I never made this connection. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/13 08:31 PM |
| 14 | Author of "5 Reasons to be a Feminist Man" u/HairyJonathanNathan is actively commenting on TRP and has posted his responses to his website. Engage in civil debate.If you have time, knock yourself out, but I won't waste my time. What differentiates this guy from a troll, except that you invited him? | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/13 03:48 PM |
| 3 | In need of assistanceDelete facebook. I used to be similar. Guess what? I'm not missing out. Neither will you. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/13 03:44 PM |
| 8 | When and how often do you personally feel it is ok to do something nice for her?Whenever you want. It's not the giving of gifts that screws you over, it's the attitude that makes you worry about the "right" time to give gifts. There are guys giving their wives jaguars, and their wives will never leave them. There are guys whose sole contribution to the relationship is a dick and a bag of skittles. Both can work. The trick is to mean it when you give gifts. If you don't feel like giving one, don't. If you feel like it, do. If you're trying to "deepen your relationship," then… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/13 12:13 AM |
| 6 | Is The Red Pill compatible with Liberalism?Talking about "Liberalism" and setting it in opposition to "Conservatism" unnecessarily narrows the scope. For any who thought it was just about sex, Mencius Moldbug is worth reading. He takes the position that what we really need is a king. Spend enough time here and you may come to the conclusion that women can't be trusted to order their own society. Spend some time there and you may come to the conclusion that men can't either. The U.S. focus on presidential elections, when it is really on t… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/13 10:57 PM |
| 1 | What is Alpha at its very core?It's really just power. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/13 10:27 PM |
| 7 | The different kinds of love to expect from a woman.Think about most brother-sister relationships you know. They're one of three things: a)brother protects sister b)sister mothers brother c)not particularly close. (There is the case of siblings close in age---fraternal twins, for instance---having the same friends, etc. This is only a temporary circumstance, however, esp. when the girl starts dating up and the guy starts dating down.) Equality can exist. It just doesn't bond people. The rise of feminism and the atomization of society are not unre… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/13 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Question about values, not sure if this is the best place to ask, if not then point me elsewhere...Honor is a social virtue. When we use it today we usually mean something like "personal integrity," but it used to mean something closer to "reputation." Reputation for what? For worthiness to be a member of the hypothetical tribe of badass men. Check out Bret McKay's series on honor over at Art of Manliness, as well as Jef Costello's review of Jack Donovan's The Way of Men. Also note that in past ages, a woman's "honor" was not her reputation for badassness, but her reputation for chastity. Why… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/13 04:23 PM |
| 21 | Time to stock up on Cuban heels, boys? 70% of women say a man 'wouldn't stand a chance' if he was under 6ft.This shouldn't be taken too seriously. Women say they want nice guys too. Look how that's played out. There are short men everywhere getting laid. Treat this as a shit test. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/13 05:00 PM |
| 4 | Need insight and others point of viewsThere's a whole world out there for you: http://societyofphineas.wordpress.com http://canecaldo.wordpress.com (grad-level for the redpill-aware Christian man) http://donalgraeme.wordpress.com http://dalrock.wordpress.com http://traditionalchristianity.wordpress.com http://verusconditio.wordpress.com http://calculatedbravery.wordpress.com (yours truly) http://freenortherner.wordpress.com http://sunshinemaryandthedragon.wordpress.com http://haleyshalo.wordpress.com http://empathological.wordpress.… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/13 03:04 AM |
| 2 | How do you deal with red pill truths?www.freedomtwentyfive.com/2013/03/where-does-it-end/ | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/13 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Switching to red pill mentality - negative consequences ?somedickcream: I thought of you when I read this: http://sunshinemaryandthedragon.wordpress.com/2013/07/03/creating-a-tribal-culture-an-update-from-joseph-of-jackson/ In particular note JoJ's comment (identified by plugging in "This actually all started" into Ctrl-F). Best of luck. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/13 04:21 PM |
| 9 | girl says "intelligence is super sexy", then defines intelligent to mean "feeling empathy and social skills".The problem is that nerdy betas don't value intelligence for its own sake either. They valued it because it got them praise from adults; then they valued it because they thought they thought it would make women attracted to them. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/13 05:31 PM |
| 18 | "There are few things more scary, yet attractive to a woman than a 30 year old man who's managed to stay single." - Nic KrauserI expect it's similar to TRP's love/hate relationship with women 18-25: it's generally the most attractive age for the gender. A 30-yr-old guy may be going after 22-yr-olds because he's "creepy" and can't get anyone his age, and a 22-yr-old girl may be a golddigger just looking for deep pockets if she likes older guys who have their lives together---but in most cases, it's because 30-yr-old men are generally more attractive than 22-yr-old dudes, and 22-yr-old women are generally more attractive … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/13 12:23 AM |
| 11 | So... after my post about withdrawing attention from my GF, I got warned about you guys :^)"How dare you pursue sex! Don't you know it's a choice a woman makes in a vacuum that you cannot influence, and (yet) if you don't turn from your misogynistic ways you'll never get any?" | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/13 01:48 PM |
| 17 | The King Beta Has Been Found!Since we're apparently women on the inside, you should call him out on his violence against women. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/13 10:59 PM |
| 10 | Getting with another man's woman?You're making the mistake of thinking this is all conscious. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/13 03:02 PM |
| 0 | [Mod] Official TRP series of threads.This is probably outside the scope of this subreddit, but TRP at least weakly predicts some sort of societal collapse; some links to relevant Moldbug or Vox posts might be in order. I appreciate that that's not a primary topic of the subreddit, though, so maybe not. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/13 10:58 PM |
| 8 | I'd like some input on a certain "game" women play.It's miniscule and not not worth overreacting over. At most it's worth an arched eyebrow. Remember that most women have no inner game, and that those who do will be less prone to this sort of thing. This sort of thing is the equivalent of an omega who read Strauss's The Game "trying out this neg thing" for the first time. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/13 12:31 AM |
| 5 | Serious question, asking for honest TRP answershttp://rationalmale.wordpress.com http://marriedmansexlife.com http://dalrock.wordpress.com http://alphagameplan.com All of the above are relatively popular, and the authors are all married. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/13 09:38 PM |
| 29 | Switching to red pill mentality - negative consequences ?Here's the interesting thing: while it's easier to be actual friends with guys, it's harder to be a leader of them. Sometimes I'll be talking to a girl---even if I'm not interested in her, in fact, especially if I'm not interested in her---and I'll go full beast-mode game. When you can a) see the matrix, and b) you're not distracted by how much you want her, it's absurdly easy to keep a girl laughing non-stop. And invariably, when I do this, I'm left feeling kind of bored, disconnected. Because … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/13 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Thanks blue pill!I'm so glad someone gave me a reason to go back to sleep.Paradoxically, it could help him. Part of being a man is being enemies with a great number of other men. Thinking "those TRP motherfuckers are full of it, I'm attractive without their tricks," for instance, would probably be a benefit to him. ...but only for the short term. You can't relax and expect things to go well. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/13 03:20 AM |
| 9 | How do I truly believe in red pill theory?Don't believe it. This isn't a religion. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/13 10:32 PM |
| 4 | Just started the pill but i have one question./r/seduction might be what you're looking for. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/13 06:22 AM |
| 2 | The most 'beautiful' debutante of 1938I feel you. One theory I've heard is that the fashion industry is dominated by gay men, so the female ideal has come to resemble a pre-pubescent boy: stick-thin and hard-bodied. I don't know if there's anything to it. I too am usually not that impressed looking at old pictures. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/13 05:00 AM |
| 2 | What's the point if women are going to hit the wall anyway?Your knowledge of finance is admirable, but you're so eager to show it off that you're missing the point, which has nothing to do with finance. The company analogy is just that: an analogy. Having sex with a bunch of sexually-valuable men with no promise of investment on their part is a bad sexual strategy for women: if an analogy points to it being a good strategy, then the analogy is no longer useful. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/06/13 04:39 AM |
| 2 | What's the point if women are going to hit the wall anyway?The problem with this strategy is that it breaks the analogy: in financial investment, investment and return are tightly coupled: investing in GE won't help you if McDonald's does great, but it will help you if McDonald's does well. This is not true for random hookups. If you have sex with a dude and he wins the lottery tomorrow, congratulations, you are entitled to...nothing. If you're going to invest in a dude, you should be sure you're protected: marriage is the way to do that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/06/13 04:05 AM |
| 13 | My wife wants her friends to watch... what would TRP do?Ask yourself this, then, because it could very well happen: post-BJ, one of her friends says, "My turn!" and starts walking over. Your wife doesn't react one way or another. What do you do? It's a very real possibility, and if you proceed, make sure you have a plan for that, one way or another. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/13 10:35 PM |
| 25 | My wife wants her friends to watch... what would TRP do?This sounds like a bad idea. Here's what's running through my head: "Status/success object," in the Warren Farrell sense disrespectful to the other men. That may not bother you, but it should---you don't want your wife hanging around women who hold their husbands in contempt. you're not there to put on a show. You're there to fuck her. she should care more about what you think of her than what her "friends"(who are apparently in competition w/her) think of her | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/13 10:22 PM |
| 0 | What's the point if women are going to hit the wall anyway?Do you agree that you stopped maturing emotionally at 11? (Did you mean 18? I couldn't find anything about 11 in the link.) | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/06/13 07:29 PM |
| 4 | [Mod] Announcement: New Subreddit: RedPillWomen - Red Pill discussion for women. Ladies, subscribe now! -Hosted by RedPillWifey and TempestTcupI hope this works, and have nothing but respect for all the mods, but I see it suffering from the same problem as /r/fpua: not enough female appetite for brutal reality. Taking the pill kind of sucks. I mean, it's a weight off when you figure out the why to the stuff you've seen, but it does mean you have a lot of work ahead of you. It's weird and fringe (read: socially unacceptable, shun-worthy) to think about this stuff. Guys will generally be more comfortable with that. But all that said: I w… | /r/askTRP | 17/06/13 07:17 PM |
| 37 | NoFap: If you are having a hard time avoiding PMO go to r/feminismProtip---you don't get respect by asking for it. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/13 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Another obvious setup by feminists/srs to call out theredpill and mra's.I'll grant you that, but I have a hard time believing that a bunch of whiners that constantly guilt-trip their steadily-declining pool of platonic friends is what people have in mind when they say TRP "scares the shit out of" them. What's that phrase with which victims are counseled? "They have no power over you but what you give them." Now in some cases, particularly physical abuse, thus is demonstrably untrue, but in the case you're talking about, it's entirely true. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/13 03:13 PM |
| 5 | "The Western World has quietly become a civilization that undervalues men and overvalues women, where male nature is vilified but female nature is celebrated." -The Misandry BubbleSeek out male fellowship. Google the following: "freedom twenty-five getting the gang back together", "Jef Costello way of men review." Then read the Art of Manliness series on honor. Then (don't argue, you were just going to jack off during this time, weren't you?) watch The Last Samurai, and First Knight. (The second, through redpill eyes, is fascinating). Your life can have meaning, even without women. And funny how it works---when you decide that, they show up. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/13 04:42 AM |
| 2 | "The Western World has quietly become a civilization that undervalues men and overvalues women, where male nature is vilified but female nature is celebrated." -The Misandry BubbleI'd like to believe this, but don't. I'm willing to be persuaded; could you elaborate? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/13 04:20 AM |
| 2 | A word of gratitude and seeking for help.Make sure you have something you are invested in that's not women. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/13 08:12 AM |
| 1 | under 21 scene?In the context of the linked post, beta loses the perjorative meaning we usually give it here. Robin is not Batman, but he's still Robin, and that's pretty awesome. In a healthy male group, it's not necessarily "better" to be the leader. What's important is that the group is led by the person who will serve the interests of the group best. An uberdouche may succeed in intimidating everyone there, but he'll face rebellion and/or desertion as the group members realize he doesn't care about them. O… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/13 08:37 PM |
| 1 | under 21 scene?I notice your handle is "throwawayoneitis," and I read your other thread you started here. You're approaching this wrong. The answer is not more or less women, or "the right" woman, because women are not the problem. You are the problem. A better question would be: "How should a dude under 21 become more attractive?" Answer: by becoming more masculine. Go find some dudes you admire, hang out with them, learn from them. The answer to "where do I meet women?" is everywhere, as long as you're attra… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/13 05:08 PM |
| 2 | What Does Your Price Imply About Your Value?This is a good thing to understand intellectually, but if you're trying to apply it to make women attracted to you, you still have a ways to go. It's better if it arises naturally from you actually believing your time has value, and acting in accordance with that. In other words, be awesome, and then "just act naturally". | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/13 04:21 PM |
| 2 | Rant/Advice? I went from Red->Blue tonightThinking about this girl is distracting you from what you should be thinking about, whether that's school, career, exercise, diet, investment...which is it? You're neglecting it. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/13 07:19 AM |
| 3 | Great advice about my favourite type of girls.I've never met better or worse people than in my sojourn through the manosphere. But that's how it is. Morally deficient or no, at least the author of the article isn't living in a dreamworld. The children of this world are in their generation wiser than the children of light. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/13 10:48 PM |
| 1 | "And, of course, Bond is never in love with a girl and that helps. He always does what he wants, and women like that. It explains why so many women are crazy about men who don't give a rap for them."Highly recommended---not that I agree with everything in either of these, but they make you think: http://www.counter-currents.com/2012/11/the-importance-of-james-bond/ http://www.counter-currents.com/2012/11/skyfall/ | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/13 10:04 PM |
| 2 | Guy and girl go on a "break" so she can hook up with her hot roommate. He is going to propose. /facepalmfaithpalm Ha! Never heard that one before. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/13 07:40 PM |
| 1 | First professional interview tomorrow, any TRP based advice?I have no tips for the interview in particular. But for a redpill-type worldview of the work world, I highly recommend michaelochurch.wordpress.com. The "McLeod" series is what you're looking for. Bookmark it, don't read it all right now (it's 25 parts...yeah. But how much reading have you done for TRP?) | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/13 06:31 PM |
| 9 | Does the substance of a hobby matter, or just the passion with which you pursue it?Don't make the mistake that women make of confusing cause and effect, signal for the real thing. The idea of game offends many women because it suggests they're worse judges of character than they'd like to think; by overvaluing what women are attracted to, you fall for your own bullshit. Classical is the result of meticulous practice, control, and requires finesse; an attractive alpha is impulsive and spontaneous. Impulsivity and spontaneity are negative survival traits, akin to a peacock's tai… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/13 05:13 AM |
| 11 | Guy and girl go on a "break" so she can hook up with her hot roommate. He is going to propose. /facepalmpaging /u/TheUltimateBeta, paging /u/TheUltimateBeta. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/13 01:57 AM |
| 4 | "Men grow up at 43 - 11 years later than women""Three in ten women have ended a relationship because they lost patience with the guy being too immature." ---translates to: "At least three in ten women have started relationships with immature guys. An unknown number are still in relationships with immature guys." Well now, that certainly puts a different spin on things, doesn't it? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/13 01:04 AM |
| 12 | Rollo on how betas game: "I'm not like other guys..."One thing I remind myself of, which seems like it should be blindingly obvious but is easy to forget: "You are not unique for finding her attractive." | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/13 10:55 PM |
| 21 | Shit test or not?It's not so much a shit test (though it is) as a basic lack of respect. The specific response will vary depending on the situation (for instance, your wife's parents are not responsible for what your wife did, so kicking them out wasn't an option), but what should be constant is the clarity that that doesn't fly. An intense conversation after her parents left, perhaps, and (most importantly) a reduced amount of trust on your end. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/13 08:20 PM |
| 2 | Mannerbund: This is what a feminist looks AT (mentions theredpill)http://www.the-spearhead.com/2011/03/28/the-soft-shutdown/ ---that's probably the JD article you're looking for. Also worth looking at: freedom twenty-five "getting the gang back together" (Google it) | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/13 07:03 AM |
| 14 | A Critique of Red Pill teachings + Some QuestionsWomen are utterly incapable of loving a man in the way that a man expects to be loved. I know, this is a hard pill to swallow. But it's true. This doesn't make women bad people. It doesn't make them psychopaths. It doesn't make them mentally ill (or at least, any more than all of us are). It just makes them women, and we should be glad for it. There is a lot wrong with feminism, but women are just dandy. This is entirely sexist, yet not misogynistic. Is it misandric to say men have no idea what … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/13 04:48 AM |
| 8 | So having a vagina and not towing the line on other subs gets me banned?I suspect this is a reason there are fewer female redpillers. The herd does not take kindly to those perceived as "gender traitors." Men don't either, of course, but we don't really take kindly to most dudes anyway, so it's less of a jump. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/13 11:41 PM |
| 3 | middle income betas are no longer neededThere is in fact a sizeable Christian section of the manosphere, with its hub probably at dalrock's. Swallowing the red pill was a trial of faith for me, but frankly, it's strengthened it on the other side. Suddenly Genesis, Ephesians 5:22-3, and other things made sense. Truth, it seems, is stranger than fiction. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/13 01:01 AM |
| 3 | middle income betas are no longer neededThe betas might not win, but if they lose, so does their entire culture. The Japanese aren't breeding. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/13 11:43 PM |
| 1 | middle income betas are no longer neededshameless plug; if you're LDS, you might be interested in my blog as well as goodstrongman's. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/13 11:41 PM |
| 3 | Hypergamy and Black WomenNevertheless I will not be surprised if one day we get a prominent black red pill blogger that specifically discusses game that is tailored to picking up black women and men's issues in the black community. Maybe I'll start one. Please do. I'd read it. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/13 07:41 PM |
| 0 | Supersonic hamstering: "All men in the Seattle dating scene are shy, timid and undateable. There's no way it could be something wrong with me.""Criminally offensive?" You're talking like they do. Don't. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/13 02:37 PM |
| 3 | Child RearingI don't know. I'm not a parent. Do what you want. But, well, yes, "Because I said so" is a valid answer. There's no arguing with two-year-olds. A family is not and should not be a democracy. Obviously you should start treating your kids more like adults as they become such, but it's a huge mistake to do so prematurely: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZP2NpFC5P48 | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/13 12:25 AM |
| 2 | Got cheated on by my girlfriend, don't know what to do (18M)It's not. Trickle-truthing is opening yourself up to massive downside (getting caught out for lying again) for small upside(temporary peace). It's cowardly and stupid. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/13 11:03 PM |
| 12 | Child RearingThis is on the fringe of TRP, but it seems consistent to me. TRP is basically the realization that women can't be completely trusted not to defect. As such, rather than hoping to win approval through supplication, a TRP guy will constrain the choices of women around him to be more favorable to him. "Leave" and "do what I want" were already choices, but "keep me around and treat me like shit" is now off the menu. It's important to note that this is enforced by, well, force---you don't ask a girl … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/13 10:59 PM |
| 4 | Do you want all of society to swallow the red pill? Wouldn't it be more beneficial to members of TRP to be a minority? What do you want the world to look like?A society that has collectively taken the pill, and responded appropriately, will annihilate a society that has not, even if only by outbreeding them. I mean, sure, I do basically zero work on behalf of "society,"---I'm not trying to ascribe noble motives to myself here---but it's kind of sad to contemplate the oncoming demographic collapse. Also it's worth pointing out that the iterated prisoner's dilemma is iterated, that is, there are second chances. This has not always been the case; for a l… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/13 10:44 PM |
| 22 | Post red pill, is 'the game' still worth it?For me, it's drastically reduced the amount of time I care to spend with women, as well as how much I listen to what they say. Fun to be around, but if you want to get something done, well... They'll be around when I want. Maybe not any particular one, but we're fooling ourselves if we believe one person has something irreplaceable. Have friends (but real friends). Life is still good. It's just different than you thought. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/06/13 05:16 PM |
| 23 | Guy finds out his girlfriend of two years, who was supposedly a virgin when they met and made him wait six months for sex, has been lying about it the whole time.http://socialpathology.blogspot.com/2010/09/sexual-partner-divorce-risk.html Executive summary: Marriages in which the woman has had no other sexual partners are far more likely to stay together. EDIT: I'm pretty much gonna post this chart habitually from now on, I think. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/06/13 05:55 AM |
| 7 | r/AskMen discuss a plethora of redpill issuesThere are more beauty products available today than there have ever been in history, and the average woman is uglier than she has ever been in history. ...ugh. You're right. Not that men have been doing fantastically either. But, still, wow. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/06/13 02:22 AM |
| 12 | r/AskMen discuss a plethora of redpill issuesI suspect we might have another fast-growth period coming. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/13 09:44 PM |
| 8 | "I usually have more guy friends/I prefer the company of guys"This echoes my experience. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/13 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Women are the "shoppers" of Evolution we are the articlesI suspect in such conditions the high IQ male had a greater advantage over the dumb musclehead than perhaps exists today.... Maaaaaaaybe. Be careful of assigning moral value to intelligence. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/13 02:03 AM |
| 8 | I'm a 33F who has completely fallen out of love with her 32M husband. Not sure what steps to take next. : relationshipsHere's an interesting topic of discussion: Pretend you're this woman. Pretend you'd like to fall back in to love with your husband. Assuming you'd swallowed the pill, how would you do it? | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/13 01:49 AM |
| 1 | TRP men in a LTR, do you talk to your women about TRP movement? Do you think it would/does help or hurt for them to know about TRP?The first is self-explanatory. For the second, you're right. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/13 12:20 AM |
| 1 | The base, animalistic nature of women's sexuality. Xpost from trueredditWomen have much more autonomy and choice than they did, and their happiness has been declining for decades. I'd make the case that autonomy and freedom are not magic happiness potions. Were no-fault divorce abolished, the husband might have less freedom in that he was stuck with the lady, but he'd be freed from the sword of Damocles over his head. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/13 11:08 PM |
| 24 | The base, animalistic nature of women's sexuality. Xpost from trueredditI have to disagree strongly here. While I think marriage 2.0 is a joke, unrestrained pursuit of sexual pleasure will doom us all. If a society can harness the energy of young men it will go far; marriage 1.0 was a very good way to do that. Society as a whole (not just women) benefit from beta bucks, and we should all be interested in keeping the bargain worth it for betas, however well we may be doing individually. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/13 07:05 PM |
| 3 | The Red Pill and religious beliefs?The common thread I've seen in the RP community is not any particular religion or lack thereof, but rather a rejection of the secular religion of feminism. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/13 07:01 PM |
| 2 | TRP men in a LTR, do you talk to your women about TRP movement? Do you think it would/does help or hurt for them to know about TRP?It's not the what, it's the why. Are you doing it to impress? To gain validation? Perhaps hoping she'll do some of the work herself, so you don't have to? Then you'll fail. Are you doing it to let her know that it's totally normal that she's not viscerally attracted to nice guys, and she is in fact, not crazy (well, she is, but no more than her peers)? Then go for it. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/13 05:31 PM |
| 10 | The Red Pill, Boozing, and GameDo what you have to. Self-direction is the fountain from which all other blessings flow. /zen | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/13 05:26 PM |
| 7 | Tips on a new lifestyle?So, this is weird, but why not. I'd advise just about anyone with a week to kill to learn how to code. I just entered a new social circle that has a facebook group. I wrote a python script to download every person's picture, then create flashcards of names/faces. There is a free program called Anki that then quizzes me on names at the optimal time. I'm not advocating this specific thing, nor do I think everyone should be a baller like soyanon and get a master's. But learning just enough can take… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/13 05:30 AM |
| 2 | Prime example of postmodern discourse and it's inability to cope with rational debate. This is why we talk right past our detractors.Gosh, I wonder how marriage can exist in cultures without contract law, as an aside. It is a mystery! Actually, this is a question worth asking. How does marriage exist in cultures without a well-developed system of contract law? What prevents, say, one man from raping all the women? What stops a man from getting a woman pregnant and abandoning her? What stops a woman from walking out? | /r/askTRP | 01/06/13 07:11 AM |
| 5 | Prime example of postmodern discourse and it's inability to cope with rational debate. This is why we talk right past our detractors.But he wasn't the one talking about it. cojoco brought it up by saying "the RedPillers" (there is no such thing) "advocate what most people would see as rape." RPS simply corrected him, pointing out that the other mod had only talked about facts. Your fishing expedition for opinions is an attempt to turn cojoco's lie into truth. Even I'm close-mouthed on the issue: do I really seem like I'm trying to convince you? | /r/askTRP | 01/06/13 06:38 AM |
| 2 | Prime example of postmodern discourse and it's inability to cope with rational debate. This is why we talk right past our detractors.| Would you like to elaborate... No, I wouldn't. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/13 04:01 AM |
| -1 | Prime example of postmodern discourse and it's inability to cope with rational debate. This is why we talk right past our detractors.I'm suspicious about your good faith. I suspect that rather than learning, you're more interested in shaming the members of this sub. But the proof is in the pudding, so here goes. I'm not redpillschool, but I'm a relatively prolific poster here, so I should serve as a suitable effigy to internet-burn, if you so choose. Yes, yes, no, yes, yes, respectively. It should be noted that these are my views, and are not representative of the sub, its mods, or its subscribers. In fact, contrary to the co… | /r/askTRP | 01/06/13 02:58 AM |
| 3 | Where do I begin with TRP game?It's funny, we actually don't talk a lot about game here; it's assumed to be sort of background knowledge. One thing you should absolutely do is figure out what you want. Do you want a girlfriend? A wife? A harem? A bunch of one-night stands? A string of short-term relationships? You might say, "Well, I don't know, depends on the local woman environment." The funny thing about TRP is that you find out your environment matters a lot less than you think it does, because women are more adaptable th… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/13 11:19 PM |
| 21 | Is female-dominant sex inherently un-redpill?There is no redpill orthodoxy. If you enjoy being a submissive dude in sex, then go for it. However, be aware that it will cause most women to lose attraction to you. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/13 07:41 PM |
| 1 | "[i] rather be a m.i.l.f. than a fat, loser woman."Fields is hot. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/13 07:39 PM |
| 7 | Prime example of postmodern discourse and it's inability to cope with rational debate. This is why we talk right past our detractors.Yes, and that's my point. Everything they're saying about you is actually true about me, and I suspect you might disagree with me about those things. I feel like a bank robber watching a security guard get pilloried for thinking vault security sucks. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/13 06:30 PM |
| 6 | Prime example of postmodern discourse and it's inability to cope with rational debate. This is why we talk right past our detractors.So, I'm actually one of the nutjobs that would assert that old-style spousal-rape-has-no-meaning marriage was morally better than the current version. I would take a huge bite out of every piece of bait you were offered. I take that position based on the teachings of my religion (though the vast majority of members of my religion would disagree with me). So to me, you're fighting the good fight. But I can see how someone would disagree with my opinion. But if I understand correctly, that's not h… | /r/askTRP | 31/05/13 06:14 PM |
| 10 | After 1 year of TRP, My Marriage is the best it has every been, Last night was a huge jump forward."...you need to accept that they are emotional and illogical" That right there is the red pill. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/13 03:47 PM |
| 34 | Married Man with 10 years of Red PillIt's the state. Go to the foundations, and what men are scared of is the state. Alimony, rape accusations, welfare undercutting men's value as providers, pro-female affirmative action undercutting men's value as providers, and the triple threat of child support, no-fault divorce, and female-biased abuse laws. Men's responses to this will vary, but make no mistake: the state is at the root. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/13 05:05 AM |
| 5 | Subconcious Beta?We understand. It sucks. Some find the pill through sheer inquisitiveness, but most are driven to it by personal tragedy. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/13 04:50 AM |
| 1 | Subconcious Beta?What Purp said is true; any meaning in the relationship is meaning you put in it. That doesn't mean it wasn't real, it means that you can bring the same meaning to another relationship in the future. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/13 04:45 AM |
| 3 | Jimmy the InternCan we make "Jimmy the Intern" a thing? Edit: http://www.shutterstock.com/pic-116468758/stock-photo-portrait-of-an-attractive-young-businessman-smiling.html | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/13 04:35 AM |
| 3 | The Atlantic: When Men Experience SexismMost of anything is perpetuated by men. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/13 07:15 AM |
| 1 | How long for these pills to really kick inGuys who hang out with a girl hoping to have sex with her, but too chicken to state such directly. Rather than straightforwardly approach (and then leave if they strike out) they remain in a sort of eternal limbo around the girl, hoping she'll do the hard work of approaching them. Such cowardice is unattractive, and so they fail. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/13 05:35 AM |
| 2 | How long for these pills to really kick in"they have orbiters because even the best ones are insecure." This is spot-on. The hottest girl I ever met had zero orbiters. She actively deflected them. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/13 12:48 AM |
| 6 | the number of single mothers is increasing, and fewer people find children being raised by single mothers to be problematicFathers in the home is a huge benefit, both statistically and anecdotally. I'm a really smart guy, but sometimes I can't see through my own bullshit. My dad can, and more importantly, he calls me on it. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/13 12:30 AM |
| 2 | Violence against women—it's a men's issueMr. Katz has made his decision, now let him enforce it. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/13 09:03 PM |
| 6 | I need some sexual advice from men and this subreddit seems like an interesting place to askSo, there is a red pill for women to take, and it's about as fun (as in: not fun at all) and helpful (as in: extremely helpful) as the red pill for men. One way to throw it into sharp relief is with the chart in this blog post: http://socialpathology.blogspot.com/2010/09/sexual-partner-divorce-risk.html To be blunt: if you can possibly conceive of the idea of getting married in the future---even 22 years from now, when you're 40---you greatly reduce your chances of getting divorced by abstaining… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/13 11:23 PM |
| 15 | Dating Site "Plenty of Fish" imposes ban on messages between users with a 14 year age gap. And other things. What does TRP think?This part of TRP (a.k.a. me) thinks older men AND younger women would be better served at a site that lets the market decide. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/13 12:25 AM |
| 4 | Pardon me if already asked and answered, but can women be Red Pill? What are the characteristics? Does it manifest as enhanced femininity without the bullshit damseling and pearl clutching crap? How can you spot one?This seems idiotic. Marriage is a very good deal for women. Women do need marriage, and more than men. Taking the red pill is realizing that, not denying it. Were society to collapse, I would much rather be a married woman than a strongandindependent. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/13 10:14 PM |
| 5 | How does TRP view the Alpha social life? Is it formulaic or about your own choices?TRP can create a sort of existential crisis. When you realize most of the advice you've received has been lies (rare) or ignorance (much more common), you look around with the scales fallen from your eyes, and think, "Well, shit...what do I do now?" In your case, I think working for the well-being of your own might be a good goal around which to orient yourself. Friends are good. Male friends are generally (though not always) better. Do what you can to lead them to the good things you've found. … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/13 06:01 PM |
| 2 | We Are All Born Into A Sex CultExcellent post. Much of my game lately has been almost woman-agnostic: look around at the guys, be better than all of them (sounds hard; made much easier because you know what game you're playing), notice all the women are into you. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/13 06:44 AM |
| 2 | Is the current sexual and intergender negative climate a symptom of the decline of the Western World?"Weaponized female nature" --- I'll have to remember that one. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/13 09:20 PM |
| 5 | Red pill tips for fathers?So, candidly... nothing you send over the internet is even remotely comparable to you actually being there. The best thing, for your daughter, would be if you returned and took your role as her father. How possible that is, I don't know, but that's the ideal by which you should orient yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/13 02:50 PM |
| 23 | A gentleman died last nightAdd "gentleman" to the long train of words ruined in modernity. Similar to "creep," it is now relegated as an indicator of female sentiment, devoid of objective meaning. The word gentleman originally meant something recognisable; one who had a coat of arms and some landed property. When you called someone "a gentleman" you were not paying him a compliment, but merely stating a fact. If you said he was not "a gentleman" you were not insulting him, but giving information. There was no contradictio… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/13 02:43 PM |
| 5 | Why Women Run The WorldThat sentence right there was facepalm-worthy. That crap like this is paid for and published under the name "elitedaily," while incisive-as-hell Dalrock and Rollo remain underground, should tell you all you need to know. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/13 09:52 PM |
| 7 | Still trying to understand The Red Pill. Some things I need cleared up.The big difference: Seddit exists to help men get women to like them. TRP pushes the idea that women are a terrible moral compass. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/13 05:57 AM |
| 2 | New social structure emergingThis is awesome, and hilarious. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/13 07:45 PM |
| 2 | TRP help me, what should I do?Focus on the weight for now. Godspeed. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/13 07:43 PM |
| 1 | You could always not take a pill, just be yourself.Bluepill me was worried about what women thought of him. Redpill me is not. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/13 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Should I be honorable with women?I think the answer would be to make consent something that is easier to interpret for everyone. It seems cheesy but the posters in the girls' bathrooms at school showing that "Consent is Sexy" are a tragic necessity if you've heard any stories in college. The problem with consent is that it forces women to accept responsibility that they do not want. I know, that sounds like I'm ascribing romance to rape. But pretend there was this guy you'd been hanging out with for a while. And you've got a th… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/13 07:26 PM |
| 1 | How should I handle this?And attractive. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/13 06:59 PM |
| 14 | Is TheRedPill™ JUST about sexual dynamics?That's just the basics. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/13 06:44 PM |
| 8 | Young adults and a hookup cultureDating really has no purpose without marriage as the end goal. Alpha men don't need to take a woman out to dinner to get sex, and beta men won't manage it whatever they do. It's alright for women, of course: free food and entertainment, while still having access to alpha dick. But even betas are dropping out if not wising up, and the gravy train is coming to an end---only now, marriage (which women need more than men) isn't even remotely on the table anymore, except for hail-mary ultimatums when… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/13 04:16 AM |
| 1 | Men's Health - Just Confirming Beta Acceptance/r/BetaAcceptance/ | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/13 10:41 PM |
| 8 | Woman in Dr. Phil's audience tries to clown male chauvinist, gets destroyed (old).What's amazing is how no one tries to actually disagree with him. The woman in the video immediately jumps to shaming. He's shouted down until he just shames back. It's purely a contest of frames, not a rational discussion. What does whether he can get a date have to do with anything? What does her weight have to do with anything? Nothing in both cases, but the audience response is clear. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/13 05:45 PM |
| 3 | What it Is Like to Approach WomenThe "point" is whatever you want it to be. Cypher, for instance, willingly tried to forget what he'd learned. I'm not saying that's a good idea (I don't think it is), but I can see the appeal. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/13 05:43 PM |
| 4 | What it Is Like to Approach WomenJust like the red pill is not about morality, it is also not about ability. To go back to the Matrix analogy, everyone in that movie has taken the pill. Their reactions to it, and their abilities within the Matrix, are nonetheless varied. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/13 05:31 PM |
| 3 | What are you guys doing here?The red pill is to some extent inherently divisive. This is a strength, not a weakness. I have written about this here. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/13 12:38 PM |
| 1 | I'm a 26-year-old virgin in need of redpill adviceProbably. Why do you need to explain it at all though? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/13 01:46 AM |
| 11 | I'm a 26-year-old virgin in need of redpill adviceI open up to her This is a bad idea. Well, sort of. What women mean when they say "open up" is to emote vulnerably, because it's how they relate to each other. You can be totally honest and open and do fine. What you can't do is expect women to let you lean on them. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/13 11:49 PM |
| 25 | Assuming no "baggage" is associated with it, how many of you care how many sex partners your girl had in the past?First: Regarding marriage, you should be insecure. In most Western societies, your life can go from hero to zero very quickly if your wife blows the detonator. So it makes sense to minimize the risk of divorce. So the question is: does # of former partners have an impact on likelihood of divorce? Yes: http://socialpathology.blogspot.com/2012/03/promiscuity-data-guest-post.html | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/13 10:24 PM |
| 3 | New here, could use some advice.The funny thing is that redpill advice isn't actually that different from mainstream advice. "Work out, Eat well, Sleep well, Practise good hygiene, Wear stylish clothes, Read a lot, Disregard females, Acquire currency." /r/relationships would probably give you the same list. The distinguishing factor of the red pill is, "No, seriously. Don't sacrifice any of this for a woman, whatever she says. Don't let yourself go just because she says you can so she won't feel guilty for doing the same. Don'… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/13 02:22 AM |
| 1 | The tale of Johannes the Seducer or when Atlas Shrugged.So much bravery here. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/13 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Should I be honorable with women?At the time of writing, I'd make the case that women were, as a general rule, less responsible than most men. One grows into responsibility, and for better or for worse, the opportunities for that weren't really there. Men were forced into responsibility in a way they're not today. Kay Hymowitz's Peter Pan manboys are the natural fruit of 40 years of "ladies first." It looks like I misunderstood what you meant earlier in reference to domination; you indeed did not bring it up. But there's a disc… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/13 04:35 PM |
| 0 | A little something for those of you who have the feeling that women are no good and can't be trusted.Depends on your location. I suspect if you're in a rural area it would be easier to find, in an urban area it would he easier to train. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/13 02:39 AM |
| -1 | A little something for those of you who have the feeling that women are no good and can't be trusted.Then good, hang on to her. That said, if you are that alpha, you can probably get most girls to behave like this. Your 1st and 20th girlfriend could be the same person, but #20 will seem better because she is better, because you're better. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/13 02:36 AM |
| 17 | Has anyone else concluded that woman simply are no longer worth pursuing?Many. Google "MGTOW." | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/13 01:22 AM |
| -2 | A little something for those of you who have the feeling that women are no good and can't be trusted.Particularly because what would you do if you found one? You have now identified some alpha's new girlfriend. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/13 10:19 PM |
| -1 | Stop trying to be a lone wolf alphaRule of thumb: befriend guys, ignore girls, build teams. Gangs of men gangs of men gangs of men gangs of men. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/13 06:07 PM |
| 1 | AskWomen finally notices people talking about the hamster. Contributor makes whole thread devoted to hamsterizing how there is no hamster.Good on her. That kind of introspection is difficult. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/13 03:06 AM |
| 24 | why does r/thebluepill mock TRP's ideas and posts but does not actually create valid arguments to defend other ways of thinking? (if that makes sense?)This is a natural, but stupid question. I don't mean you're stupid. But asking it shows that you still have things to learn. Why do you care what /r/thebluepill thinks of you? What are they going to do, take away your imaginary internet points? Few things affect your life as little as what internet strangers think of you. So does it matter why? Now, if you asked them directly, they'd probably say something like, "Because you guys are so pathetically deluded that it's just too easy. How could we … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/13 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Should I be honorable with women?Women are not children and you're not their parents so the children and vaccines analogy is not pertinent, here. This is...well, not a binary thing, anyway. Note the link on the sidebar: "Women, the most responsible teenager in the house." I think you're wrong to dismiss the vaccine analogy out of hand. I like having someone call me out on my BS. There's a spectrum here. Irresponsible child vs. completely independent adult is too binary a classification. As for taxes, and traffic tickets, these … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/13 05:14 PM |
| 11 | Female on AskMen: "Where do I go to find guys to sleep with without spending a ton of money (if any)?"http://www.np.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1e58ta/im_a_f_who_just_got_out_of_a_shitty_relationship/ Might want to use the no-participation link | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/13 02:39 AM |
| 3 | Should I be honorable with women?Worth pointing out: I anticipate someone might react to my remark about the Romans with something like, "Well, they were obviously absurdly soft on rape back then, the barbarians! The Patriarchy has held sway for thousands of years, and we're only just now finally getting tough on rape!" Except, back then, rape was a capital crime. So who exactly is soft on rape? | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/13 07:49 PM |
| 1 | "In an area known for geeks and not for game, there's no shortage of eager customers."Ha, touche. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/13 06:40 PM |
| 0 | Should I be honorable with women?Doesn't it? What about children and vaccines? Do you think people pay taxes against their will? Traffic tickets? Attend 3rd grade? Get arrested? Refrain from polluting? Pay alimony? We all advocate forcing people to do things against their will. Violence is Golden | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/13 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Should I be honorable with women?That's an excellent read by Rollo. Thanks. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/13 05:37 PM |
| 9 | Should I be honorable with women?A couple things: Honor is exclusively the realm of those who have power. Is a five-year-old honorable or dishonorable? No one really cares, because the worst a dishonorable five-year-old could do, and the best an honorable five-year-old could do, are not that different. Self-control is only valuable if there's something worth controlling. This is why it's so important in the military, because those guys really do have power. People care very much about your personal ethics when you have a gun in… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/13 04:23 PM |
| 1 | My lack of will is killing.You wouldn't be Steve Kamb, would you? ...I guess there's no way you'd say if you were. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/13 04:44 AM |
| 1 | My lack of will is killing.If you don't have the energy/will/balls/whatever to do the active parts, just do the passive parts. Go MGTOW for a few months. You'd be surprised how good it can be for you, and how freeing it feels. It sucks at first because you think, "Well, if not girls, then what?" But when you find the answer to that and commit to it, you'll start getting annoyed by a) watching men supplicate to women and b) girls coming onto you. When the second happens, go on a hike and think for a few hours. edit: Ha, so… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/13 02:30 AM |
| 3 | "In an area known for geeks and not for game, there's no shortage of eager customers."I live here. Same story as ever. Money's useless w/o some game. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/13 10:02 PM |
| 5 | Should a man be modest?Is it just me, or does "amused mastery" sound like sound-bite bullshit to anyone else? I mean, I know what it is, and I get why the attitude is attractive, but it sounds like people are advocating just putting it on. "I struck out dude. She didn't like me." "No worries bro, just channel your inner Amused Master." You can't fake amusement or mastery, and I imagine the same would hold true for the combo. Is there a memo I didn't get? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/13 02:05 PM |
| 5 | 14 Impossible Things To Believe Before BreakfastI read it all. There are some interesting parts. What stood out to me was the very end: 1970 would come to be synonymous with the onset of feminism, wherein the black man found his Civil Rights usurped by those who hold, instead, these poisonous, fairy-tale “truths” to be self-evident: that black men are interchangeable with black women and white women, that black men are interchangeable with homosexualists; that black men are interchangeable with children and with infants, that black men are in… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/13 01:43 PM |
| 2 | Controlling Social StatusI am finding this interesting reading and will bookmark it to read again later. Thanks. edit: these sort of things are more interesting to read about when you're aware of game. Double edit: If you haven't read it, the social pathologist wrote a good piece with similar leanings. http://socialpathology.blogspot.com/2013/04/taking-on-cathedral.html | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/13 07:36 PM |
| 3 | Wishful thinking?http://redpillwifery.wordpress.com http://judgybitch.wordpress.com Others exist. But these are proof that they can exist. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/13 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Rights Don't ExistI think you're right that I misinterpreted your meaning. The argument I was making was the second: rights don't exist outside of society's constructions. I would disagree that that's irrelevant to modern society though:those constructions must be continually maintained and protected, sometimes by force. Some, myself included, would argue that they haven't been. Edit/p.s.---what I meant w/ref to police/soldiers was that they maintain the constructions, and that duty is a de facto acknowledgment t… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/13 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Recommended BooksBelieve it or not, Starship Troopers. Read with a redpill eye, and it's chock full of wisdom. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/13 04:57 PM |
| 13 | Blue Pill DadRather than trying to out-alpha your dad, I would go extreme beta toward him. What do I mean by this? I do NOT mean adopt lame beta traits. Everything anyone here says in terms of self-direction, exercise, etc. is spot-on. What I mean, I guess, is to start treating your dad as alpha, rather than trying to become beta. Start addressing him as "Sir" (don't be weird about it). Refrain from laughing if your mom makes a joke at his expense. Be particularly observant to do what he says. Basically, ado… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/13 04:40 PM |
| 3 | The Future Of The ManosphereThanks for this. As I am wont to do, I will advise anyone and everyone that if they're interested in male-male bonds, to check out the Art of Manliness series on honor (Google it), and to read Jef Costello's review of Jack Donovan's The Way of Men. This is also why I advocate waking up other dudes you know to the red pill. Your brother, buddy, colleague, or neighbor is infinitely more important to you than this entire subreddit, because he's a real person. (People on this subreddit are real peop… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/13 03:39 PM |
| 3 | Advice for a married guy, in an open relationship ?It has to be asked, but are you certain your wife is asexual, and not a-Clauderoughly? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/13 05:04 AM |
| 1 | Rights Don't ExistTrue, but a world where "rights" mean something can only exist when maintained by those who accept that they don't. Rights aren't driven by faith. Believing in rights won't protect them. They are constructed and protected by force of violence, and must be maintained. Cars exist to ensure that we can go faster than our legs will carry us, but that doesn't mean they appear/work without effort. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/13 05:02 AM |
| 12 | First time dealing with ex since TRP, critique?Learn the art of the fade. Don't just go complete radio silence; answer a "Hi how are you doing?" text with "Good" and then stop responding. This gives you plausible deniability, while still getting 90% of the way there. I had a BPD oneitis who would call me every time she was in the dumps, and I finally got sick of it. This is how I handled it. Still facebook friends, and haven't heard from her in two years. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/13 02:16 AM |
| 1 | The World is Focusing on Women's Issues While Happily Ignoring Men'sOn Huffpo of all places. Interesting. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/13 12:52 AM |
| 6 | I came here expecting to think you're all insane but everything I read makes so much sense.Ha, I was literally in the middle of linking to that paper, then saw yours. Have an upvote. OP: the linked paper goes into sex as a market resource in some detail, and is definitely worth a read. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/13 12:47 AM |
| 9 | Red Pill Proof?Get out of the "proof" frame. People don't shy away from rp ideas for a lack of evidence, but because of shaming and internalized beliefs. This is not a debate you can win, because your opponent is allowed to metaphorically flash her tits, and the judges are (as bluepill as) 14-yr-old boys. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/13 04:27 PM |
| 3 | Jezebel can't figure out why males have evolved to refuse pair bonding with promiscuous females.By distracting women from the truth, Jezebel is looking pretty misogynistic from where I'm standing. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/13 03:07 PM |
| 2 | [Mod] On vote brigadingMeh...defaults matter. Google finds it worth a bundle of money to pay Mozilla to make Google the default search for Firefox. Asking people to click a minus sign every time seems...unempathetic, I guess. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/13 02:42 PM |
| 3 | Field Report: Random call and meetup with a girl I knowEven if you don't write the rest for us to read, write. It helps you get sorted. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/13 05:17 AM |
| 3 | I would appreciate your thoughts on me/my sexual situationActually, along these lines: do you have close male friends? One of the diseases of modernity is searching for a partner who fulfils all your needs. It was not always this way; same-gender friendships were counted as necessary as romantic ones are today. http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Damon_and_Pythias | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/13 03:57 AM |
| 7 | I would appreciate your thoughts on me/my sexual situation"Alpha" and "Beta" aren't necessarily hard classifiers. If a man is alone in a forest, is he alpha or beta? Neither. They only gain meaning in groups. Usually the group of your competition is the Dunbar's Number(150-ish) of people that the girl in question knows. But as an illustration, put yourself in a room w/Kobe Bryant, and you'd be beta. Random high school kid, and you'd be alpha. It's relative. It sounds like you're a pretty attractive dude, though, so good on you. It's also good that you … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/13 02:44 AM |
| 2 | The Great Gatsby: Is he Alpha or Beta?I recall seeing a thread on "How to Get Her Back" on some pickup forum a few years ago. One of the options (not advised for...obvious reasons) was to disappear for a while, become amazing, and then reappear. This was referred to as "pulling a Gatsby." So, advice to all: Go see the movie. It was a great book, it'll probably be a good movie. And then never do what he does. EDIT: Noticed on fb that a oneitis of ages past is extremely excited to see it. That should tell you all you need to know. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/13 02:29 AM |
| 7 | Women who say they are "waiting" ?Haha, true, but as dalrock has noted, they do so only because they assume that marriage will be there for the taking at the end. Women very much still want to get married; however, they've been misled to think that their peak SMV from 18-23 lasts forever. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/13 01:46 AM |
| 6 | Women who say they are "waiting" ?It doesn't necessarily increase SMV, but it does increase MMV, which they care about. While the times they are a-changin' against marriage for men these days, that is not nearly true for women. There is no WGTOW phenomenon. Strength of commitment will vary, as socal83 says. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/13 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Teach them while they're young, or they'll be tagged as stalkers and rapists on the elementary school playground.This is a good point. Back when they segregated elementary school like that, it was also a much safer time to be a man. No putting the genie back in the bottle, I guess. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/13 09:33 PM |
| 0 | My wife is fat and it makes me unhappy.Do you think she'd be committed if the roles were reversed? No. Some women really would be, despite their natural hypergamic urges. We're animals, but we're not just animals. The problem is that society paints a picture that pretends women are incapable of cheating. "Don't worry about staying faithful," is the message. "You're a woman, you're naturally monogamous." And so they are---serially monogamous. This is coupled with a morality play in which divorce based on women's arousal or lack thereo… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/13 09:22 PM |
| 6 | An askmen thread that talks about sexual attraction and the emotional repercussions that come from it. I just really want your opinion on it.If looking western was attractive to women in Asia then I'll assume it's attractive to men in Asia. Unfortunately, I highly doubt it is. Not necessarily for looks, but for status. Mono-race cultures tend to be pretty darn racist---I was asked a few times if I was scared living in the U.S. b/c of all the black people, and the two black guys I knew there weren't treated very well. In Asia, for some reason, being white gives you a lot of status. In China you can literally be a "professional white m… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/13 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Beta DisambiguationYou can't, though, b/c you're not just competing against other individual men, but against "exploring myself" and "becoming more human." Women have to compete with porn for your attention; men have to compete with non-men things as well as other men. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/13 07:26 PM |
| 2 | Teach them while they're young, or they'll be tagged as stalkers and rapists on the elementary school playground.They used to segregate the sexes in elementary school. Still a good idea. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/13 07:24 PM |
| 4 | An askmen thread that talks about sexual attraction and the emotional repercussions that come from it. I just really want your opinion on it.I used to live in Asia, as a 6'2" blue-eyed white guy. I got a lot of attention. If anything, I'd advise her to get out of Asia. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/13 07:21 PM |
| 9 | An askmen thread that talks about sexual attraction and the emotional repercussions that come from it. I just really want your opinion on it.We obv. can't give a definitive answer on what she should do, but we can provide a good lens through which to see her situation. First: One of the main lessons of the red pill (and you'd be surprised how earth-shattering this is to a lot of guys, self included) is that you can't make a guy do anything. Few subreddits are as hated as /r/theredpill, and few subreddits care as little about it. If the dude in the thread is serious, no amount of...well, anything, will change his mind. So if she can't… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/13 07:10 PM |
| 3 | My wife is fat and it makes me unhappy.I didn't fully read your answer before, and I find I agree with it more now upon second reading. I still disagree though. Don't get me wrong, I like your method of handling it as well. However, I'll explain the thinking behind my answer, and you can judge for yourself. I agree that a question like that is not usually asked when seeking honest criticism. But it often is framed that way, which is deceptive. It's exactly the kind of bad behavior that we don't want to reward. That's why I advocate h… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/13 06:48 PM |
| 9 | My wife is fat and it makes me unhappy.Really want to plug this response in particular. If you're committed to the marriage (and I think you should be) then dread game won't be congruent and won't work. Rather than "shape up or else" (because you don't really have an "or else") your frame should simply be "Shape up." A couple things: Ideally, she should want to be thin, both for her sake and for yours. I don't know if that's the case or not, so I'll just stop there. If (1) is so, and it's just random insecurities or other factors pre… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/13 05:52 PM |
| 3 | My wife is fat and it makes me unhappy.Do not evade the question. Answer it honestly, then maintain frame. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/13 05:43 PM |
| 3 | Right thing to do? User "the_mig" banned. Apparently for making thoughtful comments and providing a mirror that made the admin (and/or other users) feel self-concious and uncomfortable.Fairness is a standard to which the mods hold themselves, not something for which they have to answer to us. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/13 04:57 PM |
| 3 | so, redpill, not sure i completely understand this here but, i think i like it. now i want to know what you'd think of me. honest, but, please, no malice.http://verusconditio.wordpress.com/2012/06/26/a-guide-to-entering-the-manosphere-for-women/ | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/13 03:03 PM |
| 4 | so, redpill, not sure i completely understand this here but, i think i like it. now i want to know what you'd think of me. honest, but, please, no malice.seek her out. That's why. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/13 06:20 AM |
| 5 | Was told to put this here.The guy who sent you maybe shouldn't have. This is one of those high-investment subreddits. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/13 05:55 AM |
| 18 | so, redpill, not sure i completely understand this here but, i think i like it. now i want to know what you'd think of me. honest, but, please, no malice.I can promise you two things if you stick around: The first is that you'll run into a lot more stuff like this that will discourage you. The second is that you will learn a lot which, if you put it to good use, can help you. It is not just men that have been sold a load of crap as to what the opposite sex finds attractive. I wouldn't underestimate that first though. Existential crisis is a common theme here. Also, I cannot stress this enough, don't take things personally. This is the internet on… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/13 05:29 AM |
| 6 | A Challenge to those are having trouble "swallowing the pill" / think the stuff here "doesn't really work"You have also not understood this subreddit at all. Have you heard of the term MGTOW? Do you know what it means? I'll wait while you find it in the glossary on the side. Under "New Here?" Actually, while you're there, how about you read all the links under that "New Here?" section? Since, you know, you're new here. Found it? Seriously, I'm not going to post it here. Look at the glossary. MGTOW. Now why, in a subreddit that (according to you) is only concerned with the # of notches on a man's bel… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/13 11:22 PM |
| 7 | A Challenge to those are having trouble "swallowing the pill" / think the stuff here "doesn't really work"All I'll say is that you have not understood this subreddit at all. Read the sidebar. If you find anyone with more than five posts on /r/theredpill advocating video game mastery, I'll send $50 in Bitcoin to any account you desire. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/13 10:49 PM |
| 3 | I'm a disgusting incel and hopelessDitto on the pic. Was going to write the most understanding reply ever, thought better of it until more info, come back, WHAT your face is fine. OP:what to do? THE BASICS, same as everyone else. Read the sidebar. Go to /r/becomeaman, read the whole subreddit, and do the whole thing. There was an excuse to complain when the best advice around was "Be yourself." Not anymore. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/13 09:09 PM |
| 3 | I'm a disgusting incel and hopelessDude, hate to break it to you, but you're just a whiny bitch beta with no game. Break it to him? This is great news! Whiny beta bitches are exactly what TRP can fix. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/13 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Please help me understandLikely they do, but if the culture is to survive, war must be some component of that conception. You may be interested in Jack Donovan's work on this: http://www.jack-donovan.com/axis/no-mans-land/iii-misrepresenting-masculinity/ http://www.jack-donovan.com/axis/2011/03/violence-is-golden/ | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/13 08:29 PM |
| 8 | The Red PillAlright, here's a straight answer: the male sex drive. It's really high. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/13 05:54 PM |
| 25 | The Red PillDescribing it as a model is probably the best description I've heard. Like any model. Is it exact reality? No, of course not, we don't know everything, it'd be hubris to claim so. Is it the best representation we have? Absolutely. Nothing else comes close. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/13 03:17 PM |
| 8 | Women's suffrage is the worst thing to happen to Western civilization: Allowing women voting privilege. We were warnedThe irony is that the vote is available to more people yet means less. It was seen as a sacred duty; now it's a joke. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/13 05:19 PM |
| 4 | PUA/Getting laid is a worthless pursuit.What is our purpose here, anyway? TRP will tell you what is, not what ought to be. There will be no scientific study that can tell you that. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/13 03:30 PM |
| 3 | Reminder: Don't be ResponsiveDon't worry about showing you're uninterested. Be uninterested. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/13 02:51 AM |
| 2 | How do you handle your tasks?You have to believe the tasks actually mean something. I think, for many young men in the West, that's harder than it sounds. The red pill can lead to feelings of isolation, because you see the world differently from everyone else. Imagine you became the most Alpha McAlpha Bruce Wayne ever. The problem is that Bruce Wayne is seriously messed up, because he has no one in whom to confide. Other men. I keep hammering this point, but it's neglected in our society. SWPL's forget this, while inner-cit… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/13 01:24 AM |
| 2 | There is no Red Pill MovementI think we're basically on the same page. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/13 09:08 PM |
| 5 | There is no Red Pill MovementAs a Christian, how would you reconcile this? Candidly, I'm not entirely sure. I don't pretend to have all the answers. There are things I take on faith or just assume I don't understand. Whether you see this as admirable piety or delusional thinking or something in between is up to you. (Purely to satisfy your curiosity, because I'm not trolling for converts: I think Free Northerner hit on an interesting possibility that evo psych and the Fall are one and the same I see it as "humans are animal… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/13 09:01 PM |
| 6 | There is no Red Pill MovementThis illustrates my point exactly. Athol Kay of marriedmansexlife is an atheist. Dalrock is a biblical Christian of some variety. I know dalrock's religion informs his views (that's an understatement, actually). This is a good thing. Somewhere on the internet is a place for atheist redpillers(I don't know where, because I haven't looked) where you'll feel much more at home than here with guys like me. Somewhere on the internet is a place for guys like me. This subreddit is for neither of us. And… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/13 06:45 PM |
| 4 | Would it make sense to emphasize that Red Pill or Game has a light side or white hat version and a dark side or black hat version?I am kind of uncomfortable with the idea that people may think... There's your problem. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/13 04:13 PM |
| 6 | Warren Buffett is bullish ... on women"Fellow males, get onboard. The closer that America comes to fully employing the talents of all its citizens, the greater its output of goods and services will be." This is the carrot? This is what we're willing to throw our children under the bus for? Goods and services! Party on, bro! Enjoy the decline. (Note, also, the denigration of the family implied. Is mothering a waste of time? It wasn't wasted on me.) | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/13 07:15 AM |
| 3 | Are we the bad guys but we don't get it?Do you honestly think he's lying? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/13 09:46 PM |
| 19 | User /u/J2501 suggests that women should be more proactive in dating, and pay on dates- is immediately torn apart and shamed repeatedly by others, without missing a beat.What's notable to me is that J2501 never once uses the words "I," "me," or "my,"---yet every response is in the form of "You..." (with the exception of "This dude..."---passive-aggressive ftw). This is how the feminine imperative works. There is no absolute truth. Ideas are meaningless. Before it will engage, everything absolutely must be framed with reference to a specific person. The political must be made to be personal, if you will. This is why it's doubly important that "pickup is pathetic … | /r/askTRP | 02/05/13 08:37 PM |
| 5 | Red Pill Demographics + A Few General QuestionsI think you have the wrong subreddit. "Hostility for the female sex" can be found at /r/beatingwomen. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/13 04:03 AM |
| 8 | Can "the awakening" do you more harm than good?Waking up feels like a bad thing, because it is usually accompanied by bad events and/or feelings, but it really is the best thing that can happen to you. Anything prior is akin to dancing on a volcano: you might get away with it for a while, but you will get burned. So it would have come anyway---be glad of the extra time you now have. On the bright side, with the ability to see the bad comes a renewed appreciation for the good. Read good books. Find others willing to improve themselves. The ma… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/13 05:30 AM |
| 18 | "Sex is all men want."Sex is all blue-pill men want. If you're to last after taking the red pill, you have to find something else, whether you're aiming for MGTOW or spinning plates. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/13 01:52 AM |
| -26 | Daily reminder that I don't believe in spousal rapeYou're right, and it's disingenuous for me to just post like that. What zionController means (at least I think, and he'll correct me if I'm wrong) is that the definitions of marriage and rape have been changed by government force, and under the old definitions, spousal rape was impossible, as rape was treated as a property crime more than anything. "But forced sex is rape and evil!" Who told you that? Is forced sex always wrong? And before you answer, are you aware that society's answer to that … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/13 05:55 PM |
| -18 | Daily reminder that I don't believe in spousal rapeThe confusion comes from the definition of marriage: http://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1bw6c6/what_on_earth_is_rtheredpill/c9blkzt | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/13 05:17 AM |
| -5 | Daily reminder that I don't believe in spousal rapeFor those considering marriage: make sure this is clear before you make the jump. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/13 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Hypergamy Doesn't CareUpvoted for clarity of thought, but for the record, I disagree. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/13 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Do Your HomeworkThe "Required Reading" section on the right is a good place to start. As for the "most important," the "good links" section on the right are links to some of the heavy lifters of the 'sphere. This is where most of the real action is happening---blogs, rather than the subreddit. Many bloggers will link to each other, so you may build up a sort of reading list. It can and should be unique to you---there are some with a Christian bent, others with an economic bent, others with a survivalist bent, e… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/13 06:13 AM |
| 6 | No Kidding: My 30 Dating Dealbreakers Mean I'll Be Single Forever. Oh CafeMom, the hypocrisy!Mormon here. Would still stay away. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/13 04:30 AM |
| 27 | Anyone else experienced beta trait conditioning by women?"Systematic" implies intent. There's no conspiracy. What there is is solipsism, which leads to selfishness and short-sightedness. Solipsism means that when you talk about "that whore in class," she immediately applies it to herself and thinks, "I don't want anyone to call me a whore," and then says "How dare you call her a whore!" Halfway through that sentence, the hamster has come up with a "reason": "That's offensive to women!" (Note that she is insinuating that she speaks for "women," which i… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/13 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Are you bitter and jealous of women because you know that no matter what you do you'll always be less desirable than 90% of them?/r/shitredditsays | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/13 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Bluepill hamster answers question about first dates: "I don't want to be told where we're going, I want to be asked...I'd want to have a look at their menu first to make sure there's something I can eat, and ideally to plan my other meals of the day around it." Gets tons of upvotes.It's also the diet. I knew an American dude who was grossly obese when he got to Korea. When I left (year later) he was a new man. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/13 05:05 PM |
| 6 | Game, Game, Why Hast Thou Forsaken Me?I'm a squeaky-clean Mormon who believes premarital sex is a sin. My aim is exactly the family life described here. I think you should pursue it too. But I can't in good conscience recommend that you pursue it in society's current frame. Supplication, kneeling before your new master to propose---we all know that's a terrible way to get laid, but it is also a terrible way to raise a family. Don't let player burnout turn you off to what you learn here. Manginas and harpies will tell you that pursui… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/13 04:45 PM |
| 2 | Are you bitter and jealous of women because you know that no matter what you do you'll always be less desirable than 90% of them?Why do you need me to admit it? Is all of SRS insufficient? | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/13 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Women are attracted to guys that they believe other women want?An article on "mate copying" in:female guppies, female undergraduates, and male undergraduates. http://www.scienceblog.com/community/older/2000/D/200003128.html | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/13 07:45 PM |
| 2 | Serious question: Are we ruining ourselves with overindulgence?This is worth thinking through. It's tough, because this is very similar to what some 30-yr-old has-been sorority girl will screech in an attempt to shame you into wifing her up, and part of the red pill is learning that just because someone says it, or just because everyone says it, doesn't mean it's not bullshit. At the same time, neither should you let yourself be shamed by more-alpha-than-thou "marriage is for suckers" talk. Marriage was instituted by men, and there was a reason for that. Do… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/13 05:00 PM |
| 2 | Are you bitter and jealous of women because you know that no matter what you do you'll always be less desirable than 90% of them?If womens' "superior reasoning skills" involve making and breaking vows, then they deserve everything this sub has to offer. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/13 04:05 PM |
| 3 | Game's credibility is shattered right here. Psychological sex differences are weaker than assumed.I wouldn't be overly concerned with "proving" the efficacy of all this, btw. Certainly you should investigate thoroughly to find out for yourself, and I admire your intellectual honesty in trumpeting this study. Thank you for bringing it to everyone's attention. That said, the reason people are so resistant to the red pill is not for a lack of evidence, but because it's in the world's best interest that men stay in the dark. The world has attempted to make it in men's best interest (at least in … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/13 06:09 AM |
| 9 | Game's credibility is shattered right here. Psychological sex differences are weaker than assumed.(Unfavorable) commentary on the methodology can be found here. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/13 05:48 AM |
| 3 | Are you bitter and jealous of women because you know that no matter what you do you'll always be less desirable than 90% of them?I'm shocked that you're suggesting a woman would use a man for money. That is misogyny and we do not permit that around here. Good day sir. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/13 05:38 AM |
| 4 | Are you bitter and jealous of women because you know that no matter what you do you'll always be less desirable than 90% of them?Yeah, actually, I do. http://www.quora.com/Divorce/How-does-marriage-age-gap-correlate-with-likelihood-of-divorce For someone named justthefactssir, you don't seem to be bringing a lot of facts. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/13 01:40 AM |
| 3 | Are you bitter and jealous of women because you know that no matter what you do you'll always be less desirable than 90% of them?Best of luck with that | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/13 01:27 AM |
| 3 | In which Maleness is determined to be Evil.Worth a read: http://www.jack-donovan.com/axis/2013/01/from-patriots-to-traitors/ | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/13 01:10 AM |
| 2 | Another obvious setup by feminists/srs to call out theredpill and mra's.Gosh, you haven't said anything. People accuse TRP of internet tough-guy posturing, but it's often the opposite. Look at what you've said: Haha Okay, so you're laughing. So you're defining "emotional abuse" as meaning "leading somebody on?" No, I'm not. I'm not accusing anyone of emotional abuse; I mention above that others accuse /r/TRP of it. Use whatever definition you like. But in any case, you haven't said anything, just repeated something similar to what I said, with a question mark at the… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/13 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Another obvious setup by feminists/srs to call out theredpill and mra's.No, but I am telling you I actually believe only attractive people can be emotional abusers. It was Ch1stoph3r that dropped the qualifier. And why not? Abuse comes from power. Can a five-year-old physically abuse her twenty-five-year-old brother? Can an unemployed teenager threaten to cut off his banker father financially? Are you worried about an unattractive person leading you on? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/13 12:39 AM |
| 2 | Another obvious setup by feminists/srs to call out theredpill and mra's.He didn't "refute" it, he just put a TIL in front of it. Observe: TIL only dense items sink. TIL people can only read when not in complete darkness. Putting a "TIL" in front of something doesn't falsify it. It is Chr1stoph3r that didn't address the point. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/13 12:21 AM |
| 4 | This is why nobody here takes our critics seriously. Feminists take note.In their defense, trgpulr has been pretty reasonable on his thread. I still owe him some responses. EDIT: airfresh, though, yeah. trolololol DOUBLE EDIT: I did like the finale there. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/13 08:57 PM |
| 2 | Another obvious setup by feminists/srs to call out theredpill and mra's.They're scared of a world where your ideas gain any traction Eh, I wouldn't worry about that. Everyone knows /r/theRedPill is composed of angry neckbeards who can't get laid. I like to go into their threads and troll them sometimes, they're so sadly deluded. The level of butthurt there is insane. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/13 04:25 PM |
| 3 | Another obvious setup by feminists/srs to call out theredpill and mra's.I'd say that's definitely true, and you needn't worry, citizen. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/13 03:05 PM |
| 2 | PUA is Male Make-UpNo. If you think this, you're still in the matrix, you've just learned a few tricks. Women wear makeup. Are you a woman? "Our feminist, globalist handlers would love nothing more than to keep young men — the most dangerous and potentially revolutionary group in any civilization – completely distracted by tang. And while it may feel like asserting dominance (in conveniently the most harmless way possible), if everything you do is designed to make you more appealing to women, you’re an eager vibra… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/13 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Super-liberal Iceland aims to ban pornography. Or, what happens when the feminists take over.Full stop. Guns > servers. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/13 06:35 AM |
| 4 | How many of you are "functioning sociopaths"?Just to reassure those who've newly taken the pill and are thinking, "Hmm, maybe I'm in the wrong subreddit:" I'm not a sociopath, and I'm still here. ...of course, I could be just saying that. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/13 06:17 AM |
| 18 | Another obvious setup by feminists/srs to call out theredpill and mra's.Worth mentioning: It's always "scare the shit out of" or "bitter neckbeard losers." But try putting those two together: "Those bitter neckbeard losers scare the shit out of me!" It doesn't work. Of course, I don't mean to say that people are lying when they say either of these things. They're being completely honest. The question to ask is: when people say /r/TRP "scares the shit out of" them, what are they scared of? Answer: That it might have some people who don't go crying in the corner when … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/13 11:40 PM |
| 12 | Another obvious setup by feminists/srs to call out theredpill and mra's.Since you mentioned it: No, no one who's been around for a while actually thinks there's a femspiracy. Rather, it's an emergent effect, made up of the thousands of little reactions men have to women, and vice versa. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/13 11:24 PM |
| 15 | Another obvious setup by feminists/srs to call out theredpill and mra's.Let them. This subreddit has grown 19% in the last seven days. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/13 10:55 PM |
| 6 | How does RedPill address these statistics and this line of research?A guy being a firearms trainer for the military doesn't change the fact that he's just giving advice on how to kill people. What's your point? This stuff isn't moral, it isn't immoral, it's amoral. Women do not have magic powers that test the moral character of the men they sleep with. The morality of any of this is in how you use it, not the knowledge itself. I prefer knowing to not knowing. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/13 09:21 PM |
| 8 | How does RedPill address these statistics and this line of research?True, not everyone here is aiming for Leave-It-to-Beaver style monogamy. But many are---look at the sidebar. Rollo Tomassi (penname of the man behind rationalmale.wordpress.com) is happily married. Dalrock (penname of the man behind, err, dalrock.wordpress.com) is a conservative Christian father. Vox Day, penname of the man behind alphagameplan.blogspot.com, is a married Christian. I'm Mormon(and not the polygamous kind). If you look in my comment history, I just linked a new subscriber to marri… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/13 09:06 PM |
| 7 | How does RedPill address these statistics and this line of research?Gosh, this is such self-righteous bullshit. Turns out, sexual satisfaction of husbands is highly correlated to likelihood of divorce. Divorce wreaks havoc on kids. Unironically, this stuff matters for the sake of the children. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/13 08:56 PM |
| 4 | How does RedPill address these statistics and this line of research?Says who? You? Do you have any research to back up this claim[that men care less about relative mate quality]? Even as far as unsubstantiated claims go it doesn't sound right. The (probably PUA-named) phenomenon of preselection (and its gendered nature) is a good place to start. A good definition would be: The communication of a man’s SMV based on his ability to provide evidence of already having women in his life, thereby being “pre-selected” by females. A 2000 study aimed to test for "mate cop… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/13 08:19 PM |
| 9 | How does RedPill address these statistics and this line of research?If you come in here wanting to win, then fuck you. We're here searching for truth. True, for a highly selfish purpose---but that's why we care so much about avoiding bullshit. We welcome the kind of questioning trglpur is doing, but passive-aggressive one-liners like this do not help anyone get laid. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/13 06:50 PM |
| 6 | How does RedPill address these statistics and this line of research?Every girl I've been with has been better looking than me by far, so no not really. Yes, me too. Better looking than me, sure, but possessing better sexual market value?* As trglpur notes, men are more often swayed by looks, women by...other factors. 7(dude) may be butt ugly, but he may be funny, confident, kind, smart, and that will take him far. The sad truth is that this is not the case for women. "You're a shallow asshole!" Yes, exactly. But name-calling does not get him to call. *I realize … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/13 06:38 PM |
| 13 | So now what?...advice or suggestions pleasemarriedmansexlife.com is the first place you should go. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/13 05:18 PM |
| 8 | This is what we're supposed to find attractive?Agreed. This sort of thing absolutely filters down. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/13 11:51 AM |
| 13 | How does RedPill address these statistics and this line of research?Relating to hypergamy, two points: ---The reason it's a big deal is because (you're right, it seems obvious, women are looking for the best man) men are NOT necessarily looking for the best woman. Of course, if they had the choice they'd take her, but if not, they'll take what's left. To use the crude parlance, a 7(dude) will have sex with a 4(girl), but a 7(girl) will not have sex with a 4(dude). Even more extreme, a 7(woman) might prefer a covert (and thus weakly invested) relationship with a … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/13 11:37 AM |
| 5 | How does RedPill address these statistics and this line of research?First, thank you for coming in like a baller with numbers and questions rather than accusations. Re: cheating, others here are correct to point to divorce rather than cheating during the marriage interval. I would disagree that women being more tilted toward emotional OR physical infidelity has any bearing on the concept of hypergamy---the real question is, when infidelity (or heck, a legitimate relationship/marriage) happens, how does the male compare to the female? As for John Gottman, I basic… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/13 10:55 AM |
| 7 | Wow, I can't believe I finally found people who've took the red pill. How can I find irl like-minded men?I'm a broken record, but read some Jack Donovan. [1]. You are right to reach out for male support when you realize the true nature of women. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/13 01:28 AM |
| 10 | Common Critiques of The Red PillHonestly, we're probably best off not publicizing this place. It's already growing like gangbusters. I think it's jumped by a thousand in a month?! | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/13 09:26 PM |
| 3 | How to Find Your Own Sugar Daddy (Like I Did)Seriously, can we put that on the sidebar or something? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/13 07:27 PM |
| 9 | SedditFrom Rollo: If this were the only extent of Game it would understandably be very short sighted and limited in scope. In the beginning Game had a utility in that it helped a majority of men lacking the social intelligence to approach and develop a real, intimate rapport with women they fundamentally lacked. The problem was that beyond Game’s “in-field” uses it wasn’t really developed past the point of ‘getting the girl’, and left even the most socially adept PUAs unprepared to deal with the real … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/13 06:49 PM |
| 9 | Women have no game at all.It's sad. There is such a thing as "girl game," and it's beautiful (in the classic sense) to behold when you see it. It's not as much of a "thing" though. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/13 06:29 PM |
| 2 | When “Nice Guys” Aren’t: The Sexism of the “Friend Zone”That was beautiful and I wish to subscribe to your newsletter. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/13 06:21 AM |
| 4 | Why bother chasing women?Finally, I will anticipate the meat-headed bluster that is imminent: I don't give a dead rat's dying shit about any business about getting "laid". In passing, people who use the word "bro" are about as dim-witted as they come, and one would do well to first consider the opposite of what they advise. Here at /r/theredpill, we're all about stereotypes, but you have to allow for some irony, bro. But seriously, MGTOW is completely respectable. It neatly avoids many of the problems we discuss here. D… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/13 05:49 AM |
| 6 | Recommended RedPill-esque movies?Annoyingly meta, and skips a useful question, but answers a more useful question. This advice is more important than movies. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/13 05:46 AM |
| 5 | MRA=PUA=POS=DUMBMALESLUT=LULZI'm not redpillschool, so I don't have ego invested in this. ...but you're still wrong. Boiling down complex human relationships to 'mating strategies' as if you were sitting and watching a nature documentary on the breeding habits of the Gazelle. We do the best we can, which is better than can be said of the conventional dogma (yes, I said dogma) of studious ignorance. Look around TRP, and in addition to all the "hate," you'll find links to peer-reviewed (i.e., reviewed by people not us, who wo… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/13 11:59 PM |
| -1 | Bunch of betas try to call out TheRedPillNot a TalesofPrivilege reader. Don't plan to become one because of time. But I was on the floor for that too. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/13 05:16 AM |
| 1 | Turning alpha and how ones friends deal with it.As I look back on it, that was too simplistic. What I should have said is that your "feel" for what men will appreciate is better calibrated than your feel for what women are attracted to. Put another way, the reason TRP exists is because guys have a hard time putting themselves in the shoes of a woman. But you shouldn't really have a problem putting yourself in the shoes of a dude. So it actually is as simple as "be a friend to have a friend," because you have a really easy time knowing what ki… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/13 03:58 AM |
| 2 | The three words I love to hear most...upvote for ick. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/13 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Thinking of getting married?Downvotes are similar to most relationship advice given by women---i.e., not worth paying attention to. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/13 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Redpill long-distance relationship?A couple things: First, just as a general rule, you do want to be with a girl with less than your income: http://www.denverfamilylawyerblog.com/2010/09/study-women-who-are-primary-wage-earners-more-likely-to-divorce.shtml Yes, it's sexist, but as SRS never fails to remind us, that's what we're all about! Well, that and statistics. Second, even speaking as a guy who also likes smart girls, do not overvalue intelligence. Women almost universally find greater intelligence attractive in men, so smar… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/13 11:13 PM |
| 2 | Redpill long-distance relationship?Understand that your sentimental feelings are just that---sentimental feelings. Is there anything moral about them? Why should waiting around on one girl be more moral than dating another? It's not like you guys are committed or anything... Because, you must face it, you're not---or at any rate, she isn't. Real love means sacrifice, and she has not demonstrated the capacity for that. What you have is limerance, not love. Calling that love is a chick thing to do, and we should not take it serious… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/13 10:02 PM |
| 0 | Redpill long-distance relationship?||I didn't make her choose between me and medical school. Well, you should, because 4 years at distance is not going to happen. This is not a comment on the trustworthiness of either of you, because no one has made any promises. As for meeting chicks, it depends much more on who is meeting them (you) and how you are meeting them (game) than where. How did you meet this girl? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/13 03:00 AM |
| -1 | Redpill long-distance relationship?Marry her, or say goodbye. Anything else is fooling yourself. EDIT: If, given the choice between you and med school, she chooses med school, you do not want to marry her. By which I mean, do NOT marry her and follow her to WA. There SO MANY other girls out there that will not require this, every bit as awesome as this chick. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/13 01:25 AM |
| 22 | Results?Tangible results? kukul is a newbie but already has one more cigarette than he would have without the pill! Let's give him a hand! | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/13 06:58 PM |
| 3 | Why is “The Manosphere” Obsessed with Christianity?Christians are focused on worship, and are concerned when it turns to pussy. PUA's are focused on pussy, and are concerned when it turns into worship. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/13 06:45 PM |
| 3 | Dating a traditional girl with an eye towards marriage.I'd be interested to hear about your relationship with her father if/as this progresses. Feel free to message me for a redpill ear. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/13 02:50 AM |
| 3 | Dating a traditional girl with an eye towards marriage.I'm Mormon. Pro: We're not as different as you might think. Con:we're not as different as you might think. Feminism has made some inroads. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/13 01:46 AM |
| 7 | Dating a traditional girl with an eye towards marriage.The traditional mindset absolutely exists, and comprises a noticeable section of the manosphere, viz. Dalrock,Sunshine Mary, Good Strong Men. It seriously is the weirdest alliance ever (pickup artists and conservative Christians?), but there has been some absolutely awesome stuff going on at dalrock's lately. Even if you're not Christian, I would highly recommend adding at least dalrock to your reading list. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/13 01:01 AM |
| 16 | Dating a traditional girl with an eye towards marriage.As a Christian, if she's worried about being slutty WITHIN marriage, she's not living her religion. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/13 12:54 AM |
| 3 | Is first time sex that big of a deal?Did not expect to find this, but http://theredpillroom.blogspot.ca/2013/03/your-c-card.html | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/13 10:53 PM |
| 7 | Is first time sex that big of a deal?One thing I've been wondering about--- I think it's clear that sex is generally not as big a deal for men. While there is undoubtedly some hamsterizing going on, the girl who refuses to do certain things with her boring beta husband because she was "traumatized" is not being completely dishonest, I think. That won't happen to a guy just from sex. And then we all read Heartiste's excellent piece on how five minutes of alpha ruined a woman for life and destroyed her marriage to a beta. But, back w… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/13 04:42 PM |
| 5 | Don't go where they girls are plentiful, go where the men are weakEven as a huge nerd, I would not advise making it a regular "thing" to hit these locations, looking for women. They generally do nothing to improve you as a man. Your time is better spent (in terms of value to yourself, not necessarily in terms of meeting women) on activities that add value to yourself, be they exercise, education, or entrepreneurship. Sure, if you want a relaxer, keep your Tuesday night (ending before midnight) D&D group. But don't be the guy who justifies 4 hours of SC2 every … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/13 05:22 AM |
| 2 | Honest question: Did any of you consider that you might just be the last hold-outs of sexism, just like there were the final crusaders for racism and slavery?I know what you meant, and you referred to it in a context that raised the possibility that what we call evidence is "just pseudoscience bunk and poorly written philosophy." Don't get me wrong, this is the internet:we certainly have our share of pseudoscience bunk and poorly written philosophy. But why did we seek it out? How did we get from there to here? Men aren't imagining their wives divorcing them. Innocent-as-lambs "nice guys" are not walking around with blinders that cause them to fail t… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/13 10:03 PM |
| 9 | Sexual Attention vs. Romantic AttentionThis distinction is the reason the word "slut" is useful. And you're right, I suspect this mental attitude will be helpful for me as well. Thanks. Also, "pique," not "peak." Wouldn't be a true redditor otherwise. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/13 05:16 PM |
| 13 | Honest question: Did any of you consider that you might just be the last hold-outs of sexism, just like there were the final crusaders for racism and slavery?Of course it has. How could any person grow up in this society and not have, in metaphorical flaming letters emblazoned in every headline, school workshop, and afterschool special, the idea that the sexes are completely equal in every way (or, even if they weren't identical, it was socially mandated to never talk about this ever in polite company)? There's a reason the name of this subreddit refers to a 1999 movie about a false reality the characters have believed since birth. No one here wanted… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/13 07:58 AM |
| 1 | Turning alpha and how ones friends deal with it.I'm 26. I've found two new groups of friends since I was 24. I am not ridiculously charming, I'm just a nice guy. Everything you learned that doesn't work with women, usually does work with men. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/13 01:54 AM |
| 9 | Severe depression as a result of reading Red Pill material.One thing you should absolutely do is reach out to male friends. They needn't necessarily be redpilled. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/13 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Is he beyond hope of ever changing?Taken in Hand is a site that draws mostly female readers, and is close to the redpill ideas. A common theme is wives or girlfriends asking how they can encourage their partners to start leading---but with the catch-22 that you can't lead someone to lead you. I hope the small female contingent of the community works on ways to attack this problem, though a man who knew the right women to talk to might be able to lead the charge and provide a central place for such theory. There is likely some of … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/13 02:32 AM |
| 2 | How to rebuild patriarchy in two easy stepsFine, if you're in Congress and can get that passed. How do we get there from here? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/13 02:04 AM |
| 4 | TRP goes mainstream. How would you explain the red pill ideology on prime time tv?I'd be careful with the term "offensive." What does it mean to be offensive? That some people will be offended? By that measure, everything redpill counts. How about "unnecessarily hostile?" That's also subjective, but comes closer to the point, I think. First---anything redpill that primetime TV is willing to air is almost certainly watered down. Second---the manosphere is disparate and fragmented, with some advocating marriage strike/mgtow, others advocating marriage but with a different legal… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/13 05:44 AM |
| 3 | Single, smart, over 40 - and frustrated: The Hamster is strong in this article.Ditto on forgetting women. Not necessarily in a MGTOW way, but you have to admire yourself first. "Be yourself," maligned as it is, is actually fairly redpill in its advocacy of distrusting what women like. Before I discovered pickup I wanted to be an engineer. Then I realized that wasn't "cool" and became a pickup douchebag. Then I fully choked down the red pill (beyond "get women into bed!") and want to be an engineer again. Robots are cool, fuck anyone who says otherwise. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/13 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Fiction books with red pill attitudes.Just read last night: "Leiningen versus the Ants." One money quote:"Critical situations become crises when women or oxen get excited." That's the only red-pill thing about it, but a fun read (short story) | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/13 12:32 AM |
| 3 | The Cowering Bad Boys of Game - Is anonyminity ruining our credibility?Also, the the same weakness that prevents MRA from making much progress (I.e. there is no Team Man) lowers the bar for what needs to be achieved. You personally don't need everything misandrist repealed---you just need your local environment's culture to change. There will be no "Wave of Masculism" or "Masculist Moment" in the same way feminism saw broad, nationwide changes. What will happen is the internet manosphere will remain, grow, and develop, and isolated pockets of allied men will pop up… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/13 12:17 AM |
| 2 | Intelligence won't help you with girlsI concur completely, this is absolutely the way to spin it. The distinction is that with a more "normal" story, he teller obtains some catharsis telling the story. A story of a crazy customer at a restaurant can both elicit validation ("the customer was crazy, you handled it fine!") and demonstrate value. A story like mine can either elicit validation (which requires context), or demonstrate value (which, as you said, requires "context-lite.") Is it foolish to seek validation from females? Yes, … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/13 10:07 PM |
| 3 | The problem with making being Alpha the ideal...Also something to be said for having a Jack-Donovan-style "gang." This has several benefits: it provides an outlet for men's natural altruism, it will make most members "more alpha" than they'd be individually, and it creates a zone of trust normally destroyed (as OP commented) by individualistic striving. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/13 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Intelligence won't help you with girlsI agree with you that it makes certain tasks, (even figuring out women) easier, but there are side effects that I don't think you're taking into account. Intelligence makes "cool but too hard" tasks "cool and achievable," and smart guys (like every guy) try to develop talents in something they're good (read: better than most guys) at. There are intangible ego benefits ("wow I get this, I must be smart!") that are attractive as well. The problem is (and this sounds butthurt and beta, but I think … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/13 02:59 AM |
| 6 | Intelligence won't help you with girlsOne thing no one has mentioned is that intelligence makes it hard for others to relate to you, because you're often doing things at the boundaries of human knowledge. I'm doing AI research. It's fucking fascinating. Neural networks---computer systems working like the human brain---are awesome. I could (and, uh, have) talk about them for hours. You can do some seriously cool stuff with programs that can emulate human-like behaviors---I've made a squirrel-targeting Super Soaker, for instance, and … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/13 10:01 PM |
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