Long story short, we were each others firsts (sex wise) and met during orientation week of University (no alcohol involved). I started out alpha with a mix of beta, but eventually resigned to beta with a mix of alpha. I essentially let her be the leader in the relationship. After 3 years she went on Vacation with her sister, got drunk, grinded face to face with a guy and bit his ear/kissed him. I respected the fact that she told me and said I would give her another chance. 5 months later she meets some new guy (Polish - she's Polish too, has a motorbike) in her classes and they start hanging out a lot. I ask about the guy - "oh don't worry, I think he's gay anyway." Anyway, I decide to break up with her and surprise surprise a month after we break up she's with the "gay guy."

Wow that was therapeutic. So she is technologically inept, and keeps asking me for help over texts/the phone. Normally I would, but then I realize...why the fuck should I? It's definitely not a big deal to me (takes me 5 minutes to fix her problems over the phone with google/my knowledge), but the fact that she thinks she can still call me up whenever to help her while she's off fucking that other guy...no dice. So we spoke on the phone and I was aloof but kind of an asshole. It got to a point where she called me mean, but I could tell she was receptive. However, I ended up saying something that implied I was superior to her intellectually regarded the MCAT (med school admissions test) and she shut down (read: sad). I sensed it and ended the conversation there. I honestly feel like an ass. I caved and texted her "you can do the MCAT if you really try and focus."

My question is, did I handle it...right? I mean, I've used TRP philosophy before in the sense that I have a confident frame all the time and make sure girls are aware that I am leading the interactions. But this is the first time I've actually tread into asshole territory. When I think of my prior rapport with her I get the feels. When I think about her fucking the other guy I feel like what I did was just fine.

Thanks.