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Women are naturally submissive. Unfortunately, women also think in language, and like all monkeys that think in language, they quickly build up concepts of who they are that are deeply, deeply at odds with nature. Woman qua woman is always at odds with woman qua rational being, which is why bitches be crazy. This is the smartest thing I've ever read.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/14 08:22 PM
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but the act of seeking attention and validation from men, even for personal gain, impacts the woman’s commitment-worthiness. I'd argue it's not "seeking" because if she's attractive she's got the attention, it's just using what you've got to get yours. Everyone's entitled to put the line for acceptable behavior wherever they want. I personally keep my women in a harem guarded by enuchs, but not everyone can afford such things, and some people will just have to make do with their wife giving an o…
/r/askTRP07/10/14 08:19 PM
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So if she leaves me for one of them, then her value is shit and I don't have time for that. :) That's kind of bitter. If she leaves you for a millionaire, good for you. You had her first and you left her better off.
/r/askTRP07/10/14 05:57 PM
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Women worth commitment don't seek out jobs where flirting with men and basking in the attention and validation is a matter of course.
/r/askTRP07/10/14 05:56 PM
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You're saying girls aren't smart enough to use their charm to make money?
/r/askTRP07/10/14 10:41 AM
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Dread game.
/r/askTRP07/10/14 10:39 AM
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Think of it as a sort of sonar. They're using the response they get back to figure out the shape of their environment and their place in it. Not everything is malicious.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 04:37 PM
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do you hate your dog for eating the sandwich you left unattended?
/r/askTRP02/10/14 03:44 PM
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If you want to be a capable fighter then get in lots of real fights. The art you practice matters less than the intensity. The class hi-ya-ing their way through drills is going to get dismantled by the 4 guys who just lift and trade lumps in the yard. None of that matters if you get caught outside the boundaries of self defense, snapping necks and stomping people on the ground.
/r/askTRP30/08/14 06:00 PM
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She looks to the side and down to show you a profile when you hold eye contact. Guaranteed ioi
/r/askTRP21/08/14 09:16 PM
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Honestly, this isnt a time to be calculating and winning. If this is gonna be your chick long term her opinion must have some weight. First mate//captain yo
/r/askTRP18/07/14 07:06 PM
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get older, be more dominant.
/r/askTRP06/07/14 04:09 PM
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Taking women's advice about what women think is exactly the opposite of what redpill is about.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 11:38 PM
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Girls love guys who call them on their crap. It's just a shit test.
/r/askTRP02/06/14 10:11 PM
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You have all the power in the negotiation, yet you are negotiating from a place of equality or even inferiority. Its your money. Buy what you want.
/r/askTRP22/05/14 06:40 PM
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I wouldn't call myself alpha just yet, but I'm definitely far ahead of the curve in this scenario alpha means first in a set. you are alpha to her, so don't sweat it too much. she wants to help you change that virgin thing anyway. also sound less like a faggot when you talk about where you're sticking what pill.
/r/askTRP16/05/14 08:41 AM
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The Way of Men. Understanding trp in a solitary context (to get laid) misses a hefty part of the picture. It's about nature, it's about hierarchy, and it is most importantly about men and their values.
/r/askTRP16/05/14 08:26 AM
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Redpill is understanding the sociosexual hierarchy. Being stronger, richer and more well connected all serve to improve your standing. There is plenty of info out there for you. Read the faq
/r/askTRP07/05/14 04:20 PM
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That is a game you will never win. Girls strive to control men. Men strive to control first themselves, then the world around them. Girls are a minute, unimportant part of that world. There are groupies for every field a man can excel in.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 01:10 AM
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Today I even walked away from our table group and I felt her gaze on me as I was walking. I will not be satisfied until hear the words from her mouth. sounds like you're spending a lot of time in your head...
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 12:43 AM
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Boom. She got her chance and used it to fuck some other dude. Hos are like condoms, you dont reuse them.
/r/askTRP05/04/14 03:13 PM
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The people who enjoy her show but don't enjoy her body?
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 09:23 PM
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Bushy eyebrows and a manjaw "isn't too bad"? God we have sunk so low.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 09:22 PM
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This community has always intrigued me, but I never imagined it would be giving my self-doubt about the things I have pride in. Some of the traits you take pride in are unattractive to men. As long as you are self and situationally aware enough to know when to express them and when to repress them, ie. don't argue and annoy me to take you out if I just finished a double at work, don't get wasted in public, etc. you can be a perfectly fine red pill woman. I've never had a knack for cooking. Insta…
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/14 03:16 PM
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its fun for you and your friends... when you make everything about being "alpha" it makes it clear you are not.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 03:05 PM
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spoken like a man who has never had post-spanking sex
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 02:59 PM
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how would understanding that she's wasted her value make it better? ignorance is bliss.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/14 12:16 AM
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what opinions could she have to make it better? be realistic.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/13 04:03 PM
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This should be the top comment. I doubt most people in here have any basis to talk about violence. Zen master uses judo and always gets the girl.
/r/askTRP31/12/13 07:33 AM
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bang any girls from the class make sure that you get video taped consent, along with her performing a sobriety test and affirmations that she is not being coerced and doing this of free will. tape the whole thing. no better evidence for consent than getting blown to completion.
/r/askTRP31/12/13 07:20 AM
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what he's saying is that the opinions exist to make the shitty situation a wee bit more tolerable. Something I need to work on myself is letting the pretty lies live a little, especially when it doesn't effect me in the least.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/13 07:17 AM
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pick the sport that has the most following/is in season and watch all the games. frequent the relevant subs and read what other people write. read the local beat writers for your teams. you will know as much about sports as you choose to learn, so get to studying or just parrot Sportscenter and most people won't know the difference.
/r/becomeaman30/12/13 08:07 AM
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your madonna/whore complex is showing.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/13 12:03 AM
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she frames the interaction with her friend as a choice, rather than a manipulation. Buddy boy...ain't no man alive or in history ever seduced a woman who didn't want to be seduced.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/13 07:27 PM
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You already know the answers. You're here seeking the motivation to act on them.
/r/askTRP21/12/13 06:50 AM
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But what are you referring to that becomes subconscious and innate? The Alpha aping? This is a great question. Is what we're calling "alpha" like guitar hero? Is there a substantial divide between "acting like a boss" and "being a boss"? Is there some inborn trait beyond external genitalia that qualifies a man to compete for the top spot? Are some guys really just bitch-made? This is something to think about for sure.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 10:40 PM
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and do not make the mistake of thinking that all men are Alphas turned Betas Of course there is no substitute for the real thing, but there is a line of thought that with enough aping, it eventually becomes subconscious and innate.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 10:00 PM
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In any static group This is a pretty important distinction. Here the "group" is "guys this girl is seeing". They're a population that doesn't interact, so "alpha" is relative to how the girl perceives them. maybe you guys came up with a better version that I'm unaware of A lot of times you're right, alpha is used on TRP to mean "aping alpha characteristics". But given any reasonable amount of time for men to interact and, if there is an Alpha, he will emerge This is an always thing? Really smart…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 08:14 PM
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Yeah being a fit guy surrounded by fit women is TOTALLY gay. A lot of the time something is "gay" is because the person saying so doesn't have a lot of self-confidence and needs a catch-all excuse.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 05:29 PM
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As long as you have balls intact there is testosterone in your blood telling you to dominate your surroundings. How you handle that is what shapes you as a man. My bottom bitch is a pit. She's easygoing and not the least bit aggressive. When smaller dogs encounter her they almost always go straight to challenger mode, barking and getting in her face, being loud and trying to see if she reacts. This is how the lap dog acts when it feels safe enough to lash out. The real power is in my dog being n…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 05:19 PM
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Also he had it right when he called her on her cowardice for not being honest about why she wasn't attracted to him. Nobody in this world owes you honesty. Crying and yelling about anything certainly isn't "getting it right".
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 05:10 PM
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Some people prefer openness to falsehood...different strokes really.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 05:08 PM
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Boom. Its really scary how people take "carry yourself like a king" to mean "you are a king and everything is about you".
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 05:06 PM
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Uncontrolled rage is beta. Uncontrolled anything is beta. Sometimes showing a glimpse of that rage, especially contrasted with your usual stoicism, is just what the doctor ordered.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 04:59 PM
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it is ok to have a human relationship with someone...
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 04:58 PM
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you act like "THE ALPHA" in a group isn't a fluid thing...
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 04:57 PM
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porn =/= masturbation
/r/TheRedPill14/12/13 04:18 PM
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I'd suggest to all people just realizing TRP to NOT focus on pickup. Focus instead on understand the dynamic of the relationships you have and finding small ways to shape them. Focus on the internal; the posture and body language, the tone of voice and the words you use, even the clothes you wear. Find the people who take most advantage of "beta" you and start taking small measures to reform those relationships. You WILL get blowback if you (even could) suddenly flip the switch from sniveling be…
/r/askTRP14/12/13 03:09 PM
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None of what you listed under "Blue Pill" has anything to do with it...Deception is inherent in the human condition, so learning to use it isn't immoral. Would the world really be a better place if we were all completely honest?...Things like drinking hot chocolate and building cool shit out of legos are simple. Sex complicates things. Do the simple stuff with the people you don't have sex with.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 03:52 AM
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read the sidebar
/r/askTRP13/12/13 03:44 AM
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dance.
/r/askTRP13/12/13 03:01 AM
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Extended Edition: Me: I gtg work on a deal with my PA, you should send me another hot pic :P Her: Is that so ? Me: Yes, Send me one thats gonna make me want to meet you again ;) Her: You should anyway :) Me: Hah call me tonight and we'll see. This part in particular is fuckin cringe. It's so ham-handed, there's no style, subtlety or flair. It the difference between rote memorization of the answer key and actually understanding the subject. I'll break you down for the sake of science. Look at let…
/r/askTRP13/12/13 02:59 AM
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2/3 rule. you are failing it. girls chase. if she's not chasing, you're wasting time. "confronting" her about some other guy via text is certainly wasting time. you sound like a plate.
/r/askTRP13/12/13 02:40 AM
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I like seeing stuff like this on the sub. The Post is still a rag, but that was interesting.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/13 07:21 PM
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This is TRP not "bitch and moan"
/r/TheRedPill29/11/13 08:44 PM
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Go post this to mens rights or something...
/r/TheRedPill29/11/13 07:43 PM
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Absence of evidence =/= evidence of absence. Show me a study that has had men get off 3x a day for a month and studied their T levels throughout. If you can't find it, do the study and break ground. You can thank me in your dissertation titled "Testosterone, Masturbation and the end of Viagra"
/r/askTRP27/11/13 12:24 AM
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Get off 3x a day for a week and tell me how you feel. Your body adapts its chemistry based on what you demand of it. I really doubt you know enough on the subject to speak definitively in any regard.
/r/askTRP27/11/13 12:03 AM
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I'd assume its a feedback loop.
/r/askTRP26/11/13 09:35 PM
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nofap - more sexually motivated, more likely to approach and escalate, and girls can smell it. fap - frequent ejaculation leads to higher testosterone, and if you're always walking around sexually satisfied, girls sense that too. psychological downside of "if I don't get the girl I can just go jack it" Having tried both I think either extreme is the way to go. Middle ground gives you no benefits. Nofap is for someone who needs self-control and discipline, megafap (3x a day like Jamie Lewis on ch…
/r/askTRP26/11/13 06:46 PM
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why didn't you?
/r/askTRP26/11/13 06:36 PM
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You don't have to be tough to be powerful, you don't have to be "better" to be more attractive, and you don't have to fight to be assertive. You do have to be calm, cool and collected. The people I know who are dangerous for a living are all decent and polite because they know what the cost of the alternative can be. It's called diplomacy and if you're good at it you'll win all your fights without ever going to war.
/r/askTRP23/11/13 05:16 PM
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I think the problem is that a lot of people gloss over the nuance in explaining it, preferring to simplify and generalize it. Another problem is that alpha means a host of different things to different people. Really I think it comes down to "perturbed" vs "unperturbed". Like a sailor vs a landlubber, you can tell who is who by how they act when the boat rocks. Most EVERYONE yelling about "alpha this beta that" is a landlubber trying to make themselves feel like a sailor because there's someone …
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 04:44 PM
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Book of Five rings or Art of War most likely
/r/TheRedPill16/11/13 12:33 AM
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I wonder what is more cavernous, the gaping hole in her soul or her actual holes.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 05:21 PM
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I care what my family thinks most of the time. I care what my friends think most of the time. If I didn't, they wouldn't love and support me when I need them. Humans are best in groups and "genuinely not caring what other people thing" doesn't benefit any group.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/13 04:14 PM
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kudos for reading it, I really wish it were sidebar material.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/13 04:10 PM
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Delve. that's Marc "Animal" MacYoung's hub on Alpha behavior. There is a TON of real world information in there that you want to assimilate before you even attempt to sum up the subject. "me me me" is flat out wrong. "Alpha" simple means first, and the first guy in the group is going to be acting in the group's best interest, otherwise the group will replace him. Most people are NOT alpha, don't have a group to be first in, and wouldn't act in the best interest of whatever group they're in anywa…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/13 06:02 PM
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calling 12 times when she leaves?
/r/askTRP03/11/13 12:23 AM
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Jordan was a shit coach/owner.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 02:38 AM
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This is not ironic or recent. What you observe is a fundamental proof of TRP. If it didn't exist neither would we. As to your question, you should do whatever you want and not feel the need to explain yourself to everyone.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/13 04:49 PM
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actually there are studies that show game is more effective on well-educated women.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/13 04:29 PM
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http://restauranttipsfromaserialdater.tumblr.com/post/57915463116/can-i-get-some-good-conversation-for-dessert
/r/TheRedPill24/10/13 09:34 PM
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already almost happened. scroll down.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/13 06:53 PM
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A hypergamous female can be forgiven for not being aware of her evolutionary history and allowing her baser instincts to make her decisions for her. Don't kid yourself, they know exactly what they do.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/13 03:31 AM
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I closed it as soon as I heard the hyphenated last name.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/13 09:45 PM
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TL;DR - I mean after all the guy who sacraficed his own hopes and dreams to finance yours probably isn't worthy of some respect, admiration, and god forbid occasional sex.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/13 02:40 PM
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I think we're saying the same thing. "hacking away the ego" isn't worth the effort.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/13 02:57 AM
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I was thinking along the lines of trimming a rose bush or a bonsai tree. Hacking out roots is hard work and not worth it unless you've got a good reason. Hopping in the lambo and saying "peace" might be the cold wind that makes her leaves fall off.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/13 10:52 PM
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...hacking away at the female ego. You don't cultivate anything with a machete. edit: if its a jungle I suppose you'd have to first clear the land.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/13 06:44 PM
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I figure you shame someone for failing to meet expectations. Why would you expect anything but hypergamy?
/r/TheRedPill15/10/13 05:31 PM
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Read more and talk less. Missed opportunities are a scarcity mentality. Let it go
/r/askTRP13/10/13 01:49 AM
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the shells that miss still count as attacks.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/13 01:04 PM
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"an alpha" doesn't exist. Characteristics are alpha or beta. TRP is about figuring out which are which and why. There's lots of examples of beta on reddit, and while they may lack teachable moments I think its important to put the evidence out there. The "alpha" thing to do if you have a problem with it (and still want to be part of the group) would be to take action and change it to better suit you. Link Alpha examples at every opportunity. Make a post analyzing a video of a guy being alpha as …
/r/TheRedPill07/10/13 06:36 PM
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this is how you blue pill.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/13 04:02 PM
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you blew your throaway, but whatever I feel like there's some dynamic I fundamentally don't understand here That's because you haven't taken the red pill yet. In a sentence "Feelings are mostly post hoc justification for instincts". You came here ultimately driven by the reproductive instinct telling you you should do better. With this in mind, theredpill examines those reproductive instincts and the justification process itself. The tips you receive here won't help you until you further your un…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/13 06:05 PM
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Transcribed but not read. this is how you alpha.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/13 05:43 PM
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I think a big aspect of finding your niche is having realistic expectations. There's a local cover band made up mostly of 40+ professionals. The lead singer isn't great, isn't tall or handsome or even in possession of more than half his hair, but he is the guy dancing on the bar with the microphone. For this he cleans house among the middle-aged divorcee and housewife crowd. Self-identity is going to point you in the direction of your niche. There is a groupie for everything dude. If your heart …
/r/TheRedPill06/10/13 03:38 AM
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unless we're assuming there is a large number of males out there who aren't in the sexual marketplace are we not assuming that, all of a sudden?
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 06:11 PM
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Considering how frequent the order of events is "two-hand shove > overhand right" I'd say it is very instinctual.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/13 09:07 PM
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Punching is shit when it comes to hurting people. That is why men do it naturally.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/13 09:00 PM
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he sounds pretty bitter.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/13 04:52 PM
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I have no chance of landing a chick in a nightclub. I never really did. Can't see how you're having so much trouble with a stellar attitude like that.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/13 05:34 PM
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To me, giving up and simply paying for sex rather than investing in your own personal skills is as beta blue pill as it gets. "picking up club girls" is only one personal skill. Just because OP isn't trying to work on that doesn't mean he's not improving other areas of his life. I'd argue that saying "I know what I want women for and this is the most efficient way of getting that" is about as red pill as you can get. I'm not taking sides, but using "beta blue pill" to dismiss what's being said i…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/13 05:32 PM
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They need a figure of strength. When you "game" her you are acting like that figure of strength, and making her less likely to seek it elsewhere.
/r/askTRP28/09/13 12:53 AM
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Those venting shouldn't be the ones giving advice.
/r/askTRP25/09/13 04:41 PM
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zipcar homie
/r/askTRP22/09/13 02:18 AM
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Cars and guitars emit a low frequency vibration that resonates the clitoris. It's science.
/r/askTRP22/09/13 02:17 AM
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thank you for making me smile like a fool. that was great.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/13 08:00 PM
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I think that her overly inflated narcissistic view of her own SMV was hilarious. As much as sex is the underpinning of everything, there is still a very real power dynamic at play that I think you ignore.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/13 07:55 PM
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Is it truly humiliating if you make millions of dollars doing it on your own terms?
/r/TheRedPill21/09/13 07:54 PM
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The kid failed her shit test the second she made him repeat himself. All he had to do was ask a question and makes her the one who has to explain themselves. To make a chess analogy, he loses tempo every time he repeats and winds up cowering behind his pawns until the clip ends. He only survives because the girls think he's cute. Better lesson: the look on Simon's face here is bemused mastery at its finest. You can tell by the way cheetah print has her arm on his chair in the next shot that he l…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/13 07:48 PM
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content doesn't matter. its just attitude.
/r/askTRP19/09/13 08:19 PM
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They all want to bang her so they buy her drinks and give her rides, then she calls me for the D. What's not to like?
/r/TheRedPill19/09/13 05:27 PM
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I'm a romantic at heart. There's a low-value female out there for every low-value male. The problem is that most women overrate themselves and most men underrate.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/13 11:01 PM
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I usually point out to her the possibility that they might "like" her, and that to exploit that for attention and favors is being cruel to them. Is it though?
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/13 04:28 AM
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I was having fun, and then I put on this stupid condom...
/r/TheRedPill16/09/13 05:33 AM
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Approaching has never been my cup of tea that's always the hardest part at first. and i hate night game so much that I refuse to do it. pussy I usually end up in the Cafeteria, drinking a nice cup of earl gray with a cookie, back straight and gazing all about "amusing myself". you think this looks cool, but it's probably just strange I get lots of IOIs from the 6-7s and from a few 8s. dump this shit. 0 you wouldn't, 1 you would, 2 you would wife on looks alone. it's just a better scale. even gir…
/r/askTRP16/09/13 04:54 AM
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way too much talking.
/r/askTRP12/09/13 06:03 PM
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I'm certain it's a shit test. How to pass it same as any... agree and amplify - "maybe some spanks" change the subject - "what good movies are out?" ignore - "k"
/r/askTRP12/09/13 06:01 PM
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Should I continue on my current tatic which is just work out and look pretty? That is never a bad plan. I don't know your particular limitations, but I can't imagine the knowledge wouldn't be useful. Remember, Redpill is just "why we fuck who we fuck". Everyone leverages that information differently.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/13 04:47 PM
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Let me start with an example: Imagine a man who gets all the sex he wants, but lives in his mom's basement and works at McDonalds. Would you consider this man alpha? I sure as hell wouldn't. Alphas have abundant resources. Game or social prowess is a resource, and one people will trade other resources for. I'll argue that the hypothetical guy doesn't exist because he can trade his social resources for others. A man who makes $250K per year, but is a weak little bitch isn't alpha either, by most …
/r/TheRedPill11/09/13 05:16 PM
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Those moments exist only as long as you bring them into the present. Meditate on it.
/r/askTRP08/09/13 05:33 AM
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The strength of the neg should be proportionate to the strength of the bitch shield. Super bitchy girls deserve nuclear negs.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/13 10:56 PM
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Negs are for defusing bitchy/entitled girls. Being mean spirited when it isn't warranted is tool behavior.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/13 10:54 PM
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Sounds more like an escort mission.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/13 07:22 PM
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When they talk you want to shift between making eye contact and taking looks around for something more interesting.
/r/askTRP04/09/13 05:21 PM
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I don't really see a problem with anything you posted. She needs both beta and alpha attention. Maybe you should be happy someone else is putting miles on the bitch boots so to speak.
/r/askTRP04/09/13 04:42 PM
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while critics have slammed the song's lyrics, which allude to the "blurred lines" between consensual and non-consensual sex. lol wut?
/r/TheRedPill03/09/13 02:26 PM
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none of this is advice on how to behave like an alpha male, which is what OP is looking for.
/r/askTRP22/08/13 02:23 PM
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"Be yourself" is shit advice.
/r/askTRP22/08/13 02:20 PM
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First off, "alpha" is a social thing. I'm not trying to talk you out of a workout plan (unless it's p90x. that shit is for the birds), but realize it isn't a magic bullet by any means. How you behave is the foundation upon which you erect the statue of hunkness for the ladies to come flock to. With that in mind, read my woefully underappreciated post on the subject, then read the source material to understand what to DO. For DONT, Heartiste just had a series about this. The 3 basic rules: Don't …
/r/askTRP22/08/13 02:18 PM
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You don't have to be perfect. But you do have to be exceptional. Well said.
/r/askTRP22/08/13 04:28 AM
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LTR, talk about it before or during, not after. Non-LTR, if it was good for me it was good for her. Leave the room. Make yourself scarce for a few minutes and come back with a fresh frame.
/r/askTRP22/08/13 04:26 AM
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If you're going to shut her out for being a little sarcastic you're going to seriously limit your pool.
/r/askTRP13/08/13 08:32 PM
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I guess it's just that time of month. Did you see Breaking Bad?
/r/askTRP13/08/13 08:28 PM
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There's no debate over how to handle shit tests in this community. Agree and amplify: "110%, actually" Change the subject: "Look at that homeless guy!" Ignore. That's it. Stop asking questions that are answered very consistently in the sidebar material.
/r/askTRP13/08/13 01:23 PM
1

Think of it as a pussy club, and you're either in or out. If you're out and your friend is in it creates awkwardness, which is the opposite of the good feelings that fuel the pussy club.
/r/askTRP13/08/13 01:18 PM
1

you sound like you have a lot of issues beyond not getting enough kinky sex from the wife.
/r/askTRP12/08/13 02:12 PM
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She moved back in a month ago (after you publicly humiliated her by cheating) and you're busting out ball-gags and shit and wondering why she's hesitant? You're a sick fuck. She isn't doing all the dirty shit because you don't make her vagina tingle. What she does now she does out of fear, recalling the social death that was your previous affair. As other posts have said, trust is the bedrock of all relationships and yours is shaky. Ask yourself why she should trust you again...
/r/askTRP12/08/13 01:00 PM
3

trying to keep my hands clean...
/r/TheRedPill05/08/13 03:38 AM
10

brofist easy now...
/r/TheRedPill05/08/13 01:27 AM
1

That's the trust part. Sigma is someone who is able to ape alpha characteristics without the social group to back it up, IMO.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/13 05:06 PM
3

Ryan Callahan is the captain of the New York Rangers. Rick Nash or Henrik Lundqvist is the best player. Cally is one of the most respected captains in the league because he constantly pushes himself to improve and hustles every second he's on the ice. Attitude trumps skill. It is not uncommon for betas to believe in simplistic solutions. In other words they commonly believe that if they become the 'best' at something they feel everything else will fall into line (e.g. the idea that becoming the …
/r/TheRedPill02/08/13 12:19 AM
1

so you didn't read it at all. fuck it.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/13 09:54 PM
1

read this, please
/r/TheRedPill01/08/13 09:45 PM
1

did you read the full article? at any time I can revoke your power by simply deciding I won't do what you ask of me. You can kill me or imprison me but it doesn't get me doing what you asked.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/13 09:34 PM
1

You should read the whole article and understand it in the context it was originally intended. Alpha comes from evolved social structure, and understanding WHY asserting dominance works, and how it works outside of the narrow spectrum we discuss can certainly be useful. I defer to people because it makes my life better.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/13 08:12 PM
1

There's also a great section on knives in Meditations on Violence by Rory Miller. The point he makes is that the idea of a kali/escrima/whatever knife fight, two opponents squaring off armed equally is very rare, and often a kind of "monkey dance" social ritual rather than a real attempt to kill. The person who wants to kill you with a knife won't let you see it until it is inside you. I'd also recommend you check out Knife Fighting Lessons From Folsom Prison for a study on actual knife violence…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/13 08:03 PM
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Point a gun at my head and tell me what to do. I'll probably do it, but what power do you have over me that I haven't given you? I make the choice to listen because the alternative is shitty.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/13 07:59 PM
1

That makes me feel better. You had me thinking you'd shoot someone running away with your car or something.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/13 05:01 AM
1

Asian, the other white race... I think this is mostly me being passive-aggressive about our disagreement over acceptable use of force. You're entitled to your own opinions on morality, though I might remind you that scumbag degenerate thief you say you would put down like you an animal is in fact, a human being too, and generally humans show an innate unwillingness to take another human life.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/13 04:41 AM
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Call it what you'd like. Insecure Alphas is a term we picked up from the Dog Whisperer Caesar Millan. (Who, if you want some really good insights into how alpha/beta behavior works in pack animals, we highly recommend that you watch his TV show). Basically Caesar's summation of an insecure alpha is a beta dog that is thrust into a leadership position. This dog lacks alpha attributes. Most of all it doesn't have the calm assurance of a true alpha. As such it is unstable and overly aggressive. An …
/r/TheRedPill01/08/13 03:49 AM
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I assume you're white because, at least in America (assuming again) you're probably not so confident about taking your chances with the legal system unless you are.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/13 03:47 AM
3

Exactly. If omen1078 on reddit thinks I'm a coward because I'd rather let someone talk shit about my mother than start something and wind up comatose from a bat to the back of the head that's fine. Might is that bat.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/13 03:18 AM
-7

good for you. not everyone is white with a good lawyer.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/13 03:13 AM
14

You've made a strategic error if you find yourself in a fight.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/13 02:23 AM
1

If your pride is worth more than your life, maybe you should do more with your life.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/13 02:19 AM
-2

congratulations on your new murder 2 charge. Please read this before you go to jail.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/13 02:17 AM
-1

You leave your car running while you hop out for a minute. I hop in and start driving away. For argument's sake there is no chance of you hitting any bystanders or causing property damage. You shoot?
/r/TheRedPill01/08/13 01:03 AM
1

tell that to a judge.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/13 12:43 AM
2

more excellent advice.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/13 12:43 AM
0

blah blah blah tough guy bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/13 12:42 AM
2

another excellent answer. whoever downvoted you is a tool.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/13 12:42 AM
5

Your soke is an idiot teaching you some very dangerous bullshit. Take your business elsewhere.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/13 12:40 AM
1

best answer in the thread. I'm linking relevant pages throughout.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/13 12:38 AM
2

your guru should read this so should you.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/13 12:37 AM
1

fuck that mentality. running is the best self defense after diplomacy. fights are stupid and pride is death in the real world.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/13 12:35 AM
3

Use of force is acceptable only as a means to escape a situation that will otherwise result in loss of life or limb. That is called SELF-DEFENSE and is a very different thing from FIGHTING, which is stupid. Marc MacYoung runs a very extensive website dedicated to explaining the realities of self defense. I recommend it highly. This is a subject that a reddit thread will not even scratch the surface of, so do yourself a solid and delve. Here is the page titled "BEST weapon for self-defense?" Unde…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/13 12:30 AM
-3

You'll use that pistol to defend your property?
/r/TheRedPill01/08/13 12:20 AM
2

Frame it better. You're working your way out of a bad habit. Just like someone who quits smoking it has a hold on you and doing the right thing isn't always comfortable or easy, but you push yourself to become better.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/13 01:54 PM
2

While you're thinking, think of this: You've got 1000000 generations of evolutionary success guiding you to do the right thing. TRP only exists because society conditions us to believe we don't know what we're doing and teaches us ass-backward ways of doing it.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/13 12:49 AM
-1

might as well kill yourself in that case.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/13 10:01 PM
2

only if you are unattractive.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/13 09:43 PM
2

hives of women will collectively shit test you to break your frame. If you can keep your cool and hold frame these are great fun.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 06:27 PM
6

Because in the real world you aren't entitled to anything. You are entitled to whatever you can take and keep. This is why it is wise to be polite to people who can fuck you up.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/13 08:20 PM
3

What feminist is reading Fox news?
/r/TheRedPill13/07/13 02:38 PM
2

You base a whole bunch of assumptions off that fact, I'm sure.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/13 03:42 PM
9

If things like this prompted true rage, none of us would ever be very productive.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/13 01:33 PM
1

A woman who makes stone cold emotionless logical decisions is what this sub wants, right? If such a thing existed, this sub wouldn't.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/13 04:38 PM
3

It seems to be working for you, just not on the time-frame you expect, so change your expectations. Maybe don't go calling them for a 2nd date right away?
/r/TheRedPill23/06/13 03:32 PM
4

At some point they are other human beings we're talking about and you are not entitled to snap your fingers and have them heel. It's wonderful when they do it by choice, but getting butthurt when they don't immediately respond to you pulling their sleeve while they're in the middle of a conversation is childish and self-centered.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/13 03:38 PM
2

the fuck is this, /seddit? Pouting is ALWAYS childish. It's basic loss of state control, giving in to the blue pill mentality, and it is neither masculine nor attractive.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/13 03:48 AM
1

What ever happened to "leave her better than you found her"?
/r/TheRedPill09/06/13 05:20 PM
8

You're the man, you're the value. Leverage that value to your benefit. So many men take the red pill and then resent women because they act in accordance with their nature. Don't do this. Understand that even if you find their nature despicable and cruel you can still benefit from associating with them. If your game is tight and your frame is strong you probably won't have to worry about HR unless you start shitting where you eat.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/13 03:52 AM
2

Make them all love you. If you understand their true nature this shouldn't be too difficult. The idea of a soft harem includes women who you don't sleep with but are basically under your influence. Game > Sex.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/13 03:24 AM
1

They were testing your new frame. Needless to say you failed by giving a fuck.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/13 11:42 PM
2

Cry about it all you want, but (according to studies) men are the sexual initiators/pursuers and thus the onus for a successful relationship rests squarely on their shoulders. If your girl cheats, hits you, or seeks a divorce it's because you're not holding her down.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/13 11:13 PM
2

No matter what you're telling yourself, you are trying to prove your new you is good enough for her/better than your old you. You're putting the power in her hands, and not at all being a pimp about it.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/13 04:23 AM
3

but I want to understand why she thinks feels that way. ftfy.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/13 03:01 PM
1

3 plates is a beginner level deadlift. Athletic men will pull 315 the day they are taught the motion. Maybe your gym has those new post-modernist plates that are twice as heavy for men.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/13 03:44 AM
3

you got bitter and viewed her as an equal re: MCATs. That's where you lost it
/r/TheRedPill09/05/13 01:32 AM
2

I recently met a girl, went out on a few dates, and things started to get physical Don't date before things get physical. Not a rule but a helpful guideline. which was awesome. Rocketships and top-fuel dragsters are awesome. Hurricanes are awesome. The Grand Canyon is awesome. God is awesome. Sex/hooking up is every day shit. Treat it as such. What's the line from star wars? Great shot kid but don't get cocky. You're probably an asshole in her eyes, but what fuckin' ever. You've set your boundar…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/13 12:30 AM
2

not strictly true. I wish the best on my fellow man, and perishing to the power of the pussy is not the best.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/13 03:58 PM
2

I'm in there with you, fighting through the deluge of downvotes. Rest assured that there will be some submitters who see your advice and are thankful. You are doing gods work.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/13 03:57 PM
4

Looks like someone discovered TRP!
/r/TheRedPill04/05/13 07:32 AM
1

Both. TRP is about learning to interact with women on your terms.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/13 10:57 PM
2

I'm still whittling down to the crux of the issue, and you hinted at it The difference is that most people don't like to lead, they want to follow your lead. Leadership IS alpha. Humans today might organize in far more complex and fluid social groups than what our instincts evolved for, but at the end of the day the human instinct either to be the lead or to follow him. I'll rephrase the question again; is a leader still a leader with nobody following him? Why or why not?
/r/TheRedPill30/04/13 04:12 PM
1

If I thought it came across full-douche I would say so ;) This is now getting interesting. I understand there are many ways to skin a cat. What would you say are the pillar character traits of social dominance? Off the top of my head composure, self-respect, and status.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/13 02:17 PM
1

Alpha is social dominance, best I can tell. Your last line comes across kind of douchey.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/13 03:45 AM
1

Can you even be a general without an army? See why the question bugs me?
/r/TheRedPill30/04/13 03:39 AM
3

If you're trying to achieve social dominance and status the way to go probably isn't putting on the jersey of some other man who already has those things.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/13 08:29 PM
7

great point
/r/TheRedPill28/04/13 11:31 PM
5

Isn't mate guarding inherently beta?
/r/TheRedPill28/04/13 04:14 PM
2

Would you say you truly excel at seduction SatanicBoner?
/r/seduction24/04/13 03:33 AM
0

wits =/= social dominance
/r/TheRedPill21/04/13 04:44 AM
1

wits without wealth is like funny without cocky, it gets you nowhere.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/13 01:15 PM
10

thats what the wallet represents
/r/TheRedPill20/04/13 01:17 AM
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