So I have been working as an after school education leader with kids ranging from kindergarten to fifth grade, including those with special needs. I have rarely posted to TRP but need to get this across to all of you before it slips my mind.

Arguing is an art.

When it comes to relating this to the red pill, it comes to the talks about how to handle shit tests and handle a mouthy significant other. But when it comes to the situation I have at home and what I have seen in my work is that: "grown" women act as if they are in first grade than they make themselves out to be as grown mature adults. Now I do not speak for all, but the majority have the same rationale when it comes to arguing their little hearts out.

  1. They become irrational very quickly - Arguing with women can be exhausting and TRP states that instead of taking the time and energy to deal with them, I will have to disagree because there comes a time where the kids/mouthy partner needs to be put down, to show your authority. Do not ever use past events to justify why you are showing your discipline. Use wise points of their misbehavior. If your partner is being a bitch and a brat, give me the stare, and keep composure and simply tell them with out edification "I do not like what you are doing, stop now." situation by situation the words will be different, but just like kids, women will try to twist words that come out your mouth to make you mean something else and can eventually be used as ammunition against you in the future, so be clear and concise. Also, be poised and collected before speaking because you will sound like the little bastards I take care of if you are stumbling in your words. Once someone finds a loop hold in your argument, then you are finished. Do not allow any room for misinterpretation.

  2. Dialogue examples - TRP provides many posts that are good but no one seems to answer when it comes to giving clear examples, and if you post any if the comments I will be more than likely to answers your specific answers.

  • Me : "I do not appreciate you acting like this, you need to stop"
  • Her: "Or what"
  • Me: *Say nothing, threats mean reputation destruction"
  • Me: "Please pick this up, I have asked you to help me all multiple times"
  • Her: "I will do it in a bit/later"
  • Me: "No, get up, and do what I have asked of you" Make sure you have developed a stare and a form of stance
  1. Know how to punish when it comes to bad behavior - Now TRP says it is better to leave the bitch and focus on yourself, but what happens when the person actually wants to be with this person for a long time, sit the fuck down and handle her. Whenever my students have repeatedly been bad and have done anything correct after multiple warning then the biggest blow you can do to that single case is: exclude. Nothing hurts a child and a mouthy bitch more than excluding her from all of the things you could be doing on your own. This is the passive form of punishment. Not picking up after herself after coloring in books? Guess she will not be in the next art project then. She apologizes, but apologies mean nothing because words mean shit when actions last forever. You go to jail for stabbing someone, not for saying you stab someone. This principles can be carried to your "grown" woman. If she is not behaving correctly, go outside and work on yourself. Wash your car. Make dinner for you. Maintain your silence until she speaks. Silence can kill.

Now what is the active form of punishment? Tell her when she is behaving badly to sit the fuck down, and to face you because you have things to say. Give her the spill of why you are angry and if she breaks eye contact or doses off, stop your fucking mouth and wait for her to see you. Cross your arms, give the stare, shit do what you have to do in order to show you are not fucking around.

  • "I have been very frustrated with how you have been acting and I am telling you to stop, now."
  • "Well you have been mean and ignoring me recently"
  • "And why do you think I have been ignoring you and going about my day, because of your ridiculous behavior"
  • "I am sorry, I just have not been feeling good lately"
  • "Well you feeling bad has nothing to do with this behavior, and instead of apologizing, I need you to change your behavior. Show me that you mean your apology"

Never let her go off topic. Always maintain eye contact and never allow yourself to break frame. Now here is an example of me with kids, read the similarities:

  • "I just saw you push down Clyde, go to him and apologize."
  • "But he was calling me names"
  • "Well it shows you are not responsible enough to come to me if he calling you names, but instead you think it is okay to push someone down"
  • *Child starts crying*
  • "Stop crying at this moment, I will wait here until you apologize because right now you are holding my class here for your irresponsible actions"

Now this post has small examples of the similarities of how women can act in relation to first graders. My words are scrambled but more specific explanations can be given if you ask in the comments regarding your particular cases. most women are like kids, irrational, and masters of twisting your words because women use words such as rape or molestation in order to fuel their main form of attack: reputation destruction, while kids use the form of going to other educators and telling on your ass to do the same, reputation destruction. Let that sink in. Do you want you reputation and sanity as a man or a collected adult to be compromised because of someone who is irrational? Sometimes the beasts need to be put down. There are reasons the kids who do not get the belt end up talking back to their mothers and fathers. Let. That. Sink. In

Cheers