Was about to comment on a thread but thought this would be better suited to a post.

TL;DR Version -

Be Better Than Average

Between hearing friends talk / complain, talking with family and religiously listening to and watching interviews with Kevin Hart and Eric Thomas, something clicked with me.

You Must Be Better Than Average. This goes Ten Fold if you are Not Average in one aspect or another

For whatever it matters, those who care, whatever; Was born 5'0" on a bad day, 5'3" on a good day. Essentially, the less famous version of Kevin Hart. (One day we'll meet and build a Mini Golf Empire, one day.) Height has never bothered me. Hell, not much bothers me.

However, what Does bother me is when I see people be A-O-K with being Average. I understand - most people don't mind because they have the Luxury to afford to be Average. Look it here, I don't have enough credit to afford the Luxury of Average. Wish I could sometimes. Who can blame them - It's Easier, Takes Less Work, Is comfortable

However;

If you're short, you must be Better than Average.

If your GPA isn't there in college, you must do Better than your current Average.

Don't like your job / want a promotion? Be Better than Average.

Working on a career or a hobby you enjoy? M8, you better Be Better than Average.

No luck with Dating? Be Better Than Average.

As Eric Thomas says - You Need To Be Allergic To Average.

What I noticed in myself, and in many many others, we aren't Allergic to Average, We're Allergic To Hard Work. We think WORK is the ENEMY. No. No no no. Work is the ally. Average is the Enemy.

This isn't necessarily sexual strategy in itself I suppose... But it could be. It definitely could be.