Right so I've been focusing heavily on building value lately and leveraging my value to improve my social status, I've been very Machiavellian. Now, this weekend I went to a private party hosted by one of the 'in' crowd at my college. The vast majority of the guys here are in the 20% of the 'pareto principle' you guys talk about.

Anyways, the downside is that this creates competition and being high status most of the girls think their hot shit, they do put out allot though, but thats because they are surrounded by lots of high value males.

Unfortunately, it does seem that most people there realize that they are high status and that others around are to, so there is a natural inclination for people to try and sustain the relationships, for that reason and not neccesairly because you genuinely like someone's company (not to say that they are bad company, they are fine) but it is to say that its easier and wiser to form superficial relationships, as lots of relationships within upper social echaleons are quite superficial. Which is fine with me, as I avoid close attachment.