Here's something I've realized after taking this pill. Women set boundaries, not men. Women are the gatekeepers, not men.

A man will do whatever a woman consistently lets him do. This outlines a perfect situation in that the man is never afraid of going the extra step, and where the women must signal that she is not ok with this step. If a woman lets a guy who she is not dating have a replicate key to her apartment walk in, grab a beer, fuck her, and leave, he will do this. Consistently.

And there is the case in point. For me, I was the same way many people on this sub were and most likely still are. I wouldn't be the guy to walk in and grab what I want, take what I want, and leave. I would be the guy who would consider what the girl thought or felt, or what was fair to her before even considering entering, taking, and leaving.

The fact of the matter is, and something I've come to realize, is it's not my place to draw boundaries for women. They are fully capable of doing so on their own, uninhibited, as adults. It's not my place to say when she is being "taken advantage of" or if I'm "being a dick". That's her job. And it's my job to look out for me, first and foremost.