I read some comments by guys that say how OKCupid is a POS wasteland, and I just don't get it.

I was born and raised in Toronto - which seems to have a reputation for being the worst SJW hellhole in the Americas - and yet I scored dozens of women (admittedly, across the board from 4s to 9s) off of OKC.

I now live in China and OKC is my number one choice (but Date In Asia fills in the blanks.

Has North America and Toronto in particular become a complete HazMat zone for dating?

I will refer you to BlackDragon who exclusively runs internet game.

He has no problems gaming girls half his age.

IMHO, here is how to do OKC (or where ever)

You are master of your destiny and king of your castle but you leave one door open. Girls need that sliver of hope that they can lock you down.

Play straight with what you are doing with your life. However, your opener has to be tight.

There are two theories about what you like in terms of music, movies and food. Theory one is that you can turn her off by being too specific; theory two is that you turn her on with what she likes. I buy into version 2, but this is dealer's choice.

Be very specific but DO NOT PUT IN YOUR PROFILE THAT YOU PLAY DUNGEONS AND DRAGONS.

Unless you are on Tinder, your prolife pic only has to be "passable": girls will qualify you by what your write.

Play of their profile to get a convo going and then meet that weekend.