If you go on random seduction-related internet forum, the most frequent advices are probably going to be along the lines of "don't be needy, don't put girls on pedestal, be assertive and have respect to yourself, then girls will love you". And to a big extent I agree with this.

But the way a lot of guys see it, they try to ACT non-needy, and then they expect the result to be girl(s) being attracted to them. If this is the reason, you have a needy mindset.

The way I see it, I choose to be assertive and treat myself with respect just because that's the psychologically healthy way of living. That's more than enough reason to be non-needy. It's just the way I am right now. At this point I don't really give a fuck whether or not girls will be aroused by this.

That non-needy assertive behaviour isn't magical pill that attracts every girl. There's a lot of girls who rejected me despite me actually being non-needy (or maybe because of it lol).

So please guys, don't throw yourself back into needy ocean, expecting girls to reward you with sex.

Trying to emulate non-needy behaviour might work a little bit in a short run. But non-needy mindset is the long term solution.