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On oneitis and post-ltr bitterness.

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March 16, 2014
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Title On oneitis and post-ltr bitterness.
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Upvotes 6
Comments 4
Date March 16, 2014 1:29 AM UTC
(12 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/20isn8/on_oneitis_and_postltr_bitterness/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/on-oneitis-and-post-ltr-bitterness.12652
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[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Come to terms with losing her.

If you have came to these terms, shouldn't you realize that most of LTR's are just labels.

[–]ghost622 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, you should have. I've noticed truly accepting TRP implies giving up LTRs entirely, generally an extremely difficult thing to do, so most people here tend to soften it down by believing putting RP values in your LTR will still be sufficient. This is a possibility, but I don't really support this watered down version of TRP.

tl;dr yes, but with the influx of new members, very few are willing to outright accept this without detaching themselves over time

[–]LiftTakeCopulate1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Women are not bound by honour - it is a male abstraction.

You are completely disposable to women.

A man is always truly alone, there is nobody "higher up" for you to depend upon, you're the end of the line.

[–]IllogicalPhallacy2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's interesting and something I've noticed more and more in life. When you can truly reach a point where you don't allow yourself to get attached, you have the totality of power in the relationship. It's like a state of zen - you can be in love with someone but truly knowing that if she left the next day you wouldn't be devastated is incredibly empowering. It's a very hard place to get to, especially with someone you have strong interest in - like trying to stand on the tip of a needle on top of Everest, but when you get there....nothing can topple you. It's also the reason why women you don't give a shit about chase you while those you do avoid you like the plague. The whole Jedi/Sith stuff of Star Wars and that quote makes a lot of sense from a TRP perspective.

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