One step to eliminating my nice guy behavior

ekjohnson9 · 2013-06-20T18:25:58+00:00

You don't have to qualify your answers. Just say no.

Nutz76 · 2013-06-21T17:31:18+00:00

You need to be mindful of what the motivation is for her shit test. Women actually have pretty bad game in the grand scheme of things and shit test as a way of breaking rapport, which on a meta level is simply flirting. They expect a rapport break in return which is a tit for tat way of showing you're on their level. IOI for IOI, IOD for IOD. Aka "mirroring". The thing is that you're not supposed to break rapport until you're comfortable with each other, otherwise you're going to come across as being an asshole (eg opening with a neg). That said, women break this rule all the time, and just like how women view guys who break this rule as an asshole, guys mistake them for being bitchy.

Don't get me wrong, some women are doing it because they are just bitchy people, but shit tests themselves are often times this really bad way of flirting for them. This is why it's so important to recognize shit tests and know how to handle them. Turning around that typical negative and making it into a positive is a pretty big deal, and soemthing a lot of guys simply can't manage.

[deleted] · 2013-06-20T20:36:53+00:00

yea you said too much.

keep it simple, stupid. KISS

[deleted] · 2013-06-21T11:42:07+00:00

You are just leaving out the most important part, the joke, the tease. This just sounds boring. "Agree and amplify."

"Buy me a drink." "Sure, you want the PIN code to my ATM card as well?"

Title	One step to eliminating my nice guy behavior
Author	yankeetiger
Upvotes	6
Comments	8
Date	June 20, 2013 6:04 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1gqou4/one_step_to_eliminating_my_nice_guy_behavior/
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