Our Biggest Hurdle

ConnorGracie · 2015-09-11T17:58:44+00:00

Society used to have a hegemony that shaped women into unicorns and men into BB and it worked out but now women have been set free from that hegemony and men are chasing to catch up in their fuck-upedness.

always-be-closing · 2015-09-11T17:50:42+00:00

But there will be high SMV girls out there that will take you seriously, and not ruin a thing with a good, strong man for someone else.

This is rare, even in generality.

Leaving their SMV qualified only as "high" is what you have to do because it allows you an out.

What man in the 1950s would have married a woman who sucked and fucked from the age of 16-22: her hs boyfriend, a freshman year hookup, a college boyfriend? A woman who is supposed to bear him children, keep his home, be his companion?

This is just the sexual aspect:

We haven't even talked about the behavior/respect he deserves, the way a home should be kept (cooking and cleaning are unthinkable to the modern college girl - there's seamless and handy for that), how a child should be raised, etc.

Leaving all of that aside, just on the basis of age (22-25) and a sexual maturity and potential history before this man meets this woman:

What man would have tolerated that? To this day in immigrant communities in the United States, across disparate religious communities, sex before marriage is sinful.

At the very core, the distinguishing relationship of a man and woman from being family members, from being friends, from being co-workers, from being strangers - - is the sexual relationship.

It is on the basis of this relationship that the species continues and adapts. Union of chromosomal pairs, sperm and egg, sexual organs, man and wife, family to family - - the powerful once even bound entire nations on this basis.

And today, it is not preserved for the worthy. It is given freely during the reproductive prime, and price-tagged with a store repossession policy during the waning years.

high SMV girls

How many other men should they have fucked before they're low SMV?

How few years of beauty (not the soft, warm charm of a 30 year old woman in good shape despite her crow's eyes) remaining until they're low SMV?

How few years of healthy fertility?

How much demand on one's income, before they're low SMV?

There have been so many posts recently that endeavor to say NAWALT.

Go look for all the 18-22 year old, peak fertility, employee but not long term career driven, cooking and cleaning skilled, looking forward to being mothers, virgin (oh, too much?), one partner count (oh, still too much?), women.

Go look for all of them, and realize that every man spinning plates (which you absolutely must keep yourself in a position to do) is still getting second place to his fathers and grandfathers and greatgrandfathers.

All womenhave always been somewhat like that, and 40+ years of birth control, feminism, relaxed sexual attitudes, divorce and abortion laws and male shaming mean that effectively AWALT.

The species is stronger when only the strong, and powerful men reproduce. When the weak die alone and childless. And women compete for the strong men, excluding the weak ones, while men are capable of sex with a huge spectrum of women. r/K within a single species.

AWALT, and if you think otherwise, you're either compromising heavily on standards that were once just that, or fooling yourself about not having plates if not both.

our biggest hurdle is finding a world where our commitment is to ourselves

McLarenX · 2015-09-11T19:09:15+00:00

Doesn't matter who does or doesn't swallow the pill. This sub is about looking out for ourselves and acting in our best interest with the knowledge we have gained of evolutionary psychology and female mating habits.

stonepimpletilists · 2015-09-11T19:52:54+00:00

Speak for yourself, my toughest challenge is making sure I own my shit, every single day. God knows I get 'false alarms' from everyone I talk to, and have to give it a quick self-assessment.

as for the unicorn... your girl is a reflection of your boundries, and your standards. If she's shit, theres a good reason

Title	Our Biggest Hurdle
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Date	September 11, 2015 5:24 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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