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| 300 | Man takes his daughter's phone away in an act of parenting - Estranged wife remarried to a cop has police department arrest him in an act of ultimate cuckoldry. | always-be-closing | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/16 06:51 PM | |
| 119 | Sexual history matters. | always-be-closing | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/15 01:05 AM | |
| 103 | An object lesson in masculinity: Soldiers of the 2/1 Royal New Zealand Infantry Regiment sending off a fallen comrade with a Maori haka. | Red Pill Example | always-be-closing | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/15 11:17 PM |
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| 47 | Fact: Women really do want to be dominated in bed.You have to be a bit of a gentleman and ask, but if you are disarmingly explicit then odds are she will say yes to being held down, tied up, choked, smacked around and treated like a fuck toy. And ain't no askin' like no pussy, neither. See Uncle Vasya's guide to submissive women, and for bondage A lot of the "But I was too afraid to say no!" that you see in cases of "sexual abuse" (particularly when the "abuser" is a husband or boyfriend with whom they often had consensual sex) is post-facto ra… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/16 08:24 PM |
| 2 | The Sexodus in action: millennials are having less sex.Women have simply become less tolerable. There are few redeeming qualities to women any more. It's important to note, this is an observation that plenty of men come to when they have absolutely no horse in the race. Plenty of happily married traditional older men, plenty of younger guys who are getting sex all the time as AFs, and plenty of chump virgin missed the boat types who are out of the game will all notice the same things about modern Western women, even when the context of a social inte… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/16 07:40 PM |
| 1 | The Sexodus in action: millennials are having less sex.if there is a good ending to this There isn't, and it doesn't matter. You're just one person. Look out for yourself and no one else unless you bring them into the world. I guarantee you it'll mean you have more control over your life and will be happier than if you don't. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/16 07:36 PM |
| 3 | Are women less desirable the more dates they have been on?Just dates where you chat, eat dinner, no flirting and no second dates These are still social appointments a woman has made in order to see whether or not a guy is worth it after he asks. Think about what I as a guy who wants to work somewhere worthwhile might believe about a company that had a lot of interviews, but for some reason, never quite attracted anyone who would become a hire. Maybe it means the entire applicant pool sucks. But maybe there's something wrong with the company. There's a … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/16 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Finally heard something anti-TRP that I must say stumped me . . .Look into surrogacy; the prices are higher for men who want both a surrogate womb and a surrogate egg, but it can be done. No legal claim but your own to your own child. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/16 03:11 PM |
| 4 | Finally heard something anti-TRP that I must say stumped me . . .The fear of loneliness is an interesting one. It weaponises something that both sexes feel, but to different levels. Different motifs; male and female insecurities are attainment insecurity and loss insecurity, respectively. When men feel alone, it's because they feel like women do not validate them - - - take the example of the incel, who has pinned his self worth on women, doesn't get laid (because of everything else in his life having been left unattended to) despite making attempt after misg… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/16 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Virgin GirlfriendNot to grow a huge vagina on you, but It's not your job to make her feel comfortable and secure with her own choices as an adult, and suffer through dissatisfaction and frustration in a relationship. That's just doing a disservice to yourself. She either gets there with coaxing, or doesn't. You have to do you, girl #empowerment #goals I'm jerking your chain now, but, yeah. Keep escalating, keeping getting into that situation, and if she won't respond to a conversation where you basically say you… | /r/askTRP | 03/06/16 04:01 AM |
| 2 | Virgin GirlfriendI have even come close to forcing it in when she says stop, but I can't do that. Is that what you're telling me to do? No, because that can come bite you in the ass. If she's telling you to stop, just keep bringing her back to that point where you're both naked after she's blown you or before. Keeping going back to the situation; don't force her to do anything. How hard is it to penetrate the first time? It's not. Also, she's shit testing you. The next time you're intimate and she tells you not … | /r/askTRP | 02/06/16 11:09 PM |
| 3 | Tips to stay groundedI promised myself I would maintain this mentality Don't make a promise you can't keep. a few days later I feel like its gone and I feel weak You created a mental burden that would inevitably make you buckle. Don't do that: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/James_Stockdale#Prisoner_of_war In a business book by James C. Collins called Good to Great, Collins writes about a conversation he had with Stockdale regarding his coping strategy during his period in the Vietnamese POW camp. I never lost faith i… | /r/askTRP | 02/06/16 11:03 PM |
| 2 | Virgin GirlfriendShe is a virgin (I have felt her hymen) Irrelevant. That she hasn't physically been penetrated roughly enough to ensure her hymen doesn't persist is hardly what anyone could principally seek under the premise of a girl being a 'virgin'. Don't let this mindfuck you. Says she is afraid of the pain She's saying that because she wants to have some level of "reasonable" thinking that is not you-centric which gives her plausible 'reasons' to not fuck. losing value to me and in her own eyes Coo softly … | /r/askTRP | 02/06/16 10:59 PM |
| 17 | RPW (RedPillWomen) is more important than TRP. RPW is the endgameThis is confusing for a lot of younger TRPers, many of whom see the existence of RPW and the like as a glimmer of hope for a return to Marriage 1.0 (they'll look at senior members like /u/Archwinger or others being married and get the same idea in their heads, too) Fundamentally marriage is a promise made by a man to permanently close off his reproductive options and remove himself as the primary beneficiary of his material earning. It is a promise, by a man, to a woman and her family (in nearly… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/16 10:41 PM |
| 3 | The Red Pill and Morality.As far as I am concerned, TRP is all about masculine self-improvement and becoming an overall independent male. Once you get to that point, it's your decision to behave morally or not. Moralität ist Herden-Instinkt im Individuum. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/16 10:32 PM |
| 38 | Still Thinking About Marriage? Think of It Like a No Benefit Sports Bet.It's a pity, because so many younger TRP members will be confused by this, because our school system has raped their mind into only thinking in a dialectical way - - - they'll see this as us rejecting the primitives of woman in the cave with the berries and young ones, man outside with the club taking down a Mammoth. It makes perfect sense when viewed within a framework of female loss-insecurity (as opposed to male attainment-insecurity) because there's a net material negative, and the focus of … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/16 06:29 PM |
| 101 | Still Thinking About Marriage? Think of It Like a No Benefit Sports Bet.That almost sounds Red-Pill-ideal, doesn't it? But the lawyer in me told her no. /u/Archwinger is in a tough spot, and he's handled it well. But consider that even if his wife has a heart of gold now....not working would do what exactly, to her? Just recently, my wife has been saying that she wants to quit her job. She says she'll do more around the house to save us money on the maid service, after school care for our kid, and freeing up my time to work more hours and help us maintain our total … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/16 06:18 PM |
| 6 | Maximizing Sexual Selection as Female Sexual StrategyIt's the other way around; globalists exploit basic female tendencies to push their policies - - effectively cuckolding entire nations, much more than women choosing globalism. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/16 02:34 AM |
| 16 | Maximizing Sexual Selection as Female Sexual StrategyYep. The difference between Woman and Man is that man is the gender that performs out in the world and invests, woman is the gender that is performed on and receives investment. Women have to be choosy and choose men, Men have to be doers and be chosen. Thus, men face attainment insecurity, while women face loss insecurity. Men have to earn their position, women are afraid of losing their position. Men are afraid they will not be good enough by their effort, to break through. Women are afraid th… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/16 02:33 AM |
| 5 | SJW reaction to an anti-PC event co-hosted by Milo Yiannopoulos at my universityHow could the SJW's go after gay men? Gay men now have: Media legitimacy; Anderson Cooper is mainstream. The sass-culture, the bears, the twinks, etc. All of it is now accepted by society at large. They are no longer subversive. Marriage; gay men can now become property owners of legal bondage to one another, have children (even genetic offspring), and engage in the socioeconomic system of the West as equals Sex-Sexuality Linkage; "Gay" "Man" - - this is a man, with cock and balls, who likes oth… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/16 09:47 PM |
| 21 | [FR]: On "Unicorns", Nice Guys, and the feminine-masculine dynamicEven near-unicorns don’t want feminine pussy-men. They want a dominant, stoic, masculine man to bring out their femininity, and be the emotional rock to contrast their emotional volatility. There are no unicorns; be a masculine man. Especially, not even. Those few (very few, so few as to be inherently non-existent for the vast majority of men, even those who don't have delusions of the marital institution being intact) who are in fact raised traditionally, and were made aware of the pitfalls of … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/16 07:11 PM |
| 6 | Don't you just laugh when slutty women cry about being objectified and not getting respect?The funny thing is most women do this to themselves. It would be funny if they did. They don't, and it makes it a little sad. Most women have been born after the Sexual Revolution. After Sex and the Single Girl, after Sex and the City, after Debbie Does Dallas, after Deepthroat, after Rosie the Riveter, after Judith Butler, after Gloria Steinem, after Critical Theory, after no-fault divorce, after the Duluth Model, after the Second Wave of Feminism, after The Pill. It is the nature of women to w… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/16 02:18 AM |
| 5 | Complimenting women, yes or no?Tl;DR - - don't compliment them. Largely, women are constantly complimented. Everyone, everyone is telling them how special and wonderful and great they are. The vast majority of them know they aren't hot shit. If she's not a 22 year old virgin by choice, 9.5 out of 10, cooking, cleaning, teacher with an IRA who doesn't drink that often, and wants to find a good man to marry after her father approves - - - (add in your own unicorn conditions) - - - then she's just a woman. A girl. She knows she … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/16 11:49 PM |
| 9 | "Communication is the key to a healthy relationship"How would you suggest to handle a "we need to talk conversation?" One of the things that frame is so important for, besides letting you navigate the world when you're deciding things for yourself, is engaging with other people without a plan or with flexibility when a plan breaks, because you have a strong frame. The US government has extraordinary frame - - it will do everything from drone strikes without warrant to kill US citizens abroad who are Muslim terrorists, to negotiating with Muslim t… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/16 11:39 PM |
| 5 | /r/theredpill is SUBREDDIT OF THE DAY!It doesn't hurt that new members will see specifically the sort of content we're looking to expand on, Without fail, on the rest of reddit and in real life, dropping RP observations wins plaudits from men and women, so long as they aren't personally being criticized. I don't know how much 'back to basics' work it'll take, but in the long run, it'll mean more people get helped if they can be kept from just dismissing everything out of hand. Dunno if your inbox is swamped right now: should I messa… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/16 06:24 PM |
| 2 | Women’s morphing need for male investment. - DalrockIt's generally true, I think, that women's fundamental desire for commitment is ever present, but drastically heightened with the aging of the father, and their own biological clock ticking more loudly. Their basic desire for enjoyment and entertainment, though, massively supersedes their deeper drive for security, particularly when they're young (and often supported by a non-sexual set of males: the fathers and orbiters) leaving little 'commitment' of material investment and emotional outlet la… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/16 09:37 AM |
| 2 | She's a filthy whore, and you both know it.And the right man dominates them. Forces them, even. The bodice ripper novellas of old (of old, well before the 1950's halcyon days) were all about women being ravished - not raped; rape is vulgar and criminal. A low class low status man defiling a pure woman. Ravishment, where some member of the gentry is so besotted by an eligible young woman that he simply must have her; his virtue and virility defeated and drawn out by her singularly captivating beauty. He cannot help himself! And she puts u… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/16 06:27 AM |
| 117 | TRP spilling out in TwoXhttp://archive.is/9arZj http://archive.is/Yq6N1 "If it's no longer there, it's like it never happened!" Women treat thoughts and extra-cock the same way. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/16 12:27 AM |
| 3 | What's more important to SMV: Should I dress to emphasize sexiness or youthfulness more?I'm working on such a post at the moment for both RP and RPW. It's mostly about male attainment insecurity vs female loss insecurity, but the upshot is that men have to push and try to acquire value, while women have to screen out and discriminate to retain value. I'll message the mod teams when it's completed; I think it's something that ought hit both subs simultaneously - I don't want to spam anything. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/16 10:17 PM |
| 8 | We (TRP) lost that one.The Roman Empire was doomed as soon as it was no longer the Roman Republic. When it 'fell', it 'fell' because the elites finally felt the same pains the regular people had been subject to for centuries. Saving the West isn't my job, I'm in it for me. Everyone can mourn whatever nation they want, but not everyone will put in the work to secure their own future. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/16 10:04 PM |
| 1 | What's more important to SMV: Should I dress to emphasize sexiness or youthfulness more?Given the recent shakeup, it might be worth spelling out that female sexual strategy for screening out men so as to find those who want LTRs, isn't going to be a perfect analogue to male sexual strategy on TRP. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/16 02:00 AM |
| 4 | How to deal with the fact that my SMV will decrease so soon?You have to be proactive about meeting, them, though. somewhere somehow there will be a guy who is willing to be with me and love me for who I am. Which means, you need to come into contact with him. How will you marry him if you don't ever meet him? Both sexes, regardless of their sexual strategy, are playing a numbers game. Men have to try, women have to test, but both need a high volume of effort -- men approaching a lot of women, women being approached by a lot of men. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/16 01:58 AM |
| 13 | College freshman confused on girls these days, Please Help!1) post on asktrp next time 2) " Which way should I go about this? " We can't tell you. TRP is just knowledge about humanity's two flavors; masculinity and femininity. There are simply tendencies of each other that reinforce one another, that attract one another, and that bring out the best in one another, which modern culture has subverted and perverted. All TRP is doing, is telling you what primitive, earthy, native masculinity and femininity look like. What you do with it is up to you. If you… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/16 11:20 PM |
| 3 | The "I'm waiting until marriage" shittestI would love to have a family, but at what point is the cost too high? Has to be something you figure out for yourself. Married red pill exists for a reason, but so do surrogacy services. So do divorce courts. I do understand RP theory to the extent that it's helped my interactions with women, but I live a sexually conservative lifestyle. RP knowledge is just knowledge about how women are and how men have to be. What you do with it is always up to you. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/16 10:18 PM |
| 7 | The "I'm waiting until marriage" shittestThey're either super sweet, with zero experience talking to guys. No games/shit tests, but not putting out either. Nothing you're interested in. They're the only possible exception I can see to the "never marry" rule - - they're also exactly the kind of girls that can give a man a full rewarding lifetime of no sex in the marriage, getting fat after having kids, and pedestalizing themselves for you. And I'm sure more than a few have still divorce raped guys. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/16 07:34 PM |
| 27 | The "She's trying to put me on a leash" threadThis is why we don't dip pens in the company ink, fellas. To put things in perspective; we no longer work together That is the best possible resolution. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/16 07:28 PM |
| 5 | The "I'm waiting until marriage" shittestIf she's had sex before Then anyone who would marry her in order to have sex with her is absolutely lost. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/16 07:22 PM |
| 15 | Amy Schumer blasts Glamour magazine for including her in plus-size edition (I'm not FAT!!!)The internet didn't allow rampant fatty feminism anymore than chemistry created the sexual revolution. Internet shaming, the birth control pill - - these were built by men, first of all, but more importantly; it is weak supplicating men who allow bad female behavior, because they so often reward it. How many millions and millions and millions of men have married post-wall or near-wall sluts because they are too afraid to live life on their own terms, and then resent their choice to marry until t… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/16 11:57 PM |
| 6 | "You know, maybe we should stop seeing each other. I have another guy that has been asking me out, maybe I should let him." I agree. The tears fall and I get a clean house and home cooked meal in the interim.How long until they catch on that you know how to play them? Shorter than the amount of time it takes to find another, I guarantee you. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/16 11:53 PM |
| 22 | "You know, maybe we should stop seeing each other. I have another guy that has been asking me out, maybe I should let him." I agree. The tears fall and I get a clean house and home cooked meal in the interim.From anger, to sadness, to being called a "worthless" POS. I lol'd at that one. I'm a pretty productive SOB, so she is really grasping at straws now Gotta love that shit. Because the subtext, of course, is that you only have worth as a human being insofar as you serve her. Too fucking close to home. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/16 11:52 PM |
| 26 | My (41m) Plate (22f HB7) confirming RP TruthsI'm 34 and am drifting towards MGTOW. Is there any hope in your opinion? Is it truely worth it? Hope of what? Worth what? Here are reasons to be in shape: 1) Being fat makes you look disgusting to everyone 2) Being athletic will give you more energy, more focus, and more drive 3) You'll live longer, and have a higher quality of life during a longer 'youth' by being in shape ETC. MGTOW or not, you should always be doing what's best for you. What is there to hope for, but more time to do more of w… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/16 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Working out consistently and ResultsAs I approach my thirties, I realize that stepping back into the saddle does not entice ideas of athleticism once possessed Never Look Back and Always Move Forward This is the great, enduring advantage of being male. We always have a way to move forward given more time. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/16 07:04 PM |
| 50 | I'm 6'8". It's true what they say. It's gravity.I have a lot of coworkers who are Asian/minorities. They were all born here in the US, two of them are South Asian; one's Indian one's Bangladeshi. They're clean cut, conservative, American accented, they work out, they have hobbies, talk loud and aren't the beta-stereotype equity analysts that a lot of others in their demographic category are - they're just fun guys. (met in Phi Gam, they still go to parties with fiji girls) They do not go out with one another. They'll hang out, and as coworker… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/16 06:58 PM |
| 22 | [X-post] "My BF fullfills all the qualities the female narrative tells me are important but I still prefer a 'manly man'"Hard to continuously be mad at the nature of women if you're out there taking advantage of it. It's not even taking advantage of it - - it's accepting it and doing right by it. Women want men, just as men want women. To deprive each of the other is to deprive them of their own humanity and alienate them; men need to be masculine because their masculinity evokes femininity in women who need to be feminine. For a male, being human is being masculine. For a female, being human is being feminine. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/16 06:52 PM |
| 2 | Do I have a responsibility to nip this in the bud?If you give him the book, I'd frame it as a tool for self improvement and claim that you've heard some buzz about it and thought he may enjoy it. Happy graduation and good luck. Ah, that's basically what I intended - - I'll edit my comment so there's no confusion. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/04/16 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Do I have a responsibility to nip this in the bud?could easily fall into a BB role (math major, finance minor + orbiter/door mat personality + clearly has no idea about his SMV). He's a super sweet kid. Ahh, goddamn, yeah. Poor bastard. I've actually considered giving him NMMNG as a going away present, of sorts. Good or bad idea? Well, tell you what. Since it's obvious you're committed to your relationship, and just want to look out for this boy who doesn't know any better; I'd say it is a good idea. Perhaps, though it depends on how you commun… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/04/16 04:57 AM |
| 6 | Do I have a responsibility to nip this in the bud?he seems to have some sort of puppy love attraction to me. I thought being kind but aloof would send the hint that I'm not interested. Not gonna cut it. I have discussed my SO with him and to others in his presence. Nothing. He wants a friend, and he wants feminine kindness in that friend. It's an underdeveloped male desire, basically, and his objective shouldn't be to demand it of you, but to build himself up as a man instead of staying a boy, so that he can be someone who commands that. You ca… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/04/16 10:26 PM |
| 8 | I'm 20, almost 21, and Black, living in NYC. Where do I find a LTR with a high value man?I just don't want to have sex until I'm married. That was my original plan, I deviated from it, now I'm dedicating myself back to that goal. If you're not a virgin, expecting a man to wait until you two are married to have sex is literally saying "I'm going to charge you more than someone else, and give you less than they got" in a massive way. What about you improved? And improved so much that someone should pursue you for marriage? If it's love, he probably shouldn't care... What makes you lov… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/04/16 05:40 PM |
| 4 | I'm 20, almost 21, and Black, living in NYC. Where do I find a LTR with a high value man?Hopefully someone will love me enough to wait. If you want the commitment of a high quality man, one who is masculine, a doer, who will marry you, and will accept a pledge of your sexual loyalty over having sex with you in the context of building a relationship that's headed towards a marriage, that's fine. If you want this without working on literally everything that isn't sex, you're not going to get it. https://www.forums.red/p/RedPillWomen/1711/when_asking_for_advice_answer_these_questions S… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/04/16 05:38 PM |
| 2 | TRP opening the eyes of an Indian immigrant.American women can often have had sex with 50 guys by the time they are 22. Not trying to downplay what you're saying, but the number is more like 5 to 10 (with weight towards the low end of that number depending on what kind of family they come from) at 22. Where it really explodes are in larger cities, particularly when women are working, not pressured to marry, and are out of college and nowhere near 30. Then from 23 to 29, then it can get insane. Still way too high to consider putting a ring… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/16 03:53 PM |
| 6 | TRP opening the eyes of an Indian immigrant.They are extremely traditional oldschool Indians who tell me to get an arranged marriage at 25 (this sounds crazy to me now), and having kids by 28 and pursuing a good degree (currently doing computer science in college). I work with a lot of Asians (all kinds of Asians, Koreans, Indians, Chinese, Bangladeshis) and I see the same thing. Here's the deal: They're all first-gen/new immigrants. Their parents were all born in their homelands in the 50s, which were far more conservative than even the … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/16 03:50 PM |
| 3 | Are there potential benefits of choosing to be just a friend with a HB7 or higher?Yes, astonishingly, attractive women can still be useful as human beings even if you aren't fucking them. The real problem are the legions of betas who won't and can't (but want to worm into it somehow) that then "become friends" with these women and orbit them, and men who become distracted from their journey into manhood by not closing, but just 'being friends' with them (ending up beta) Everything from social proof, second opinions about other women (women are great slutshamers and critics of… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/16 01:59 PM |
| 36 | Damaged GoodsBut what if you meet her in her mid 20s after she already had 2-3 relationships, as it's the norm these days? My father, grandfather, great-grandfather, etc. wouldn't have married them. Why should I settle for that? Granted, they all only slept with their wives - - - but I wasn't the one who started the Sexual Revolution. Yeah, the whole risks of N>0 still apply The risks being losing hard earned wealth, and potentially my own children. It's not just the "other guys fucked my wife" thing. the wh… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/16 01:39 PM |
| 77 | Damaged GoodsI'm no moralist, and I'm hardly perfect (left the church a while ago), but that most men would marry a non-virgin woman: age, femininity, domesticity, looks, etc. All that aside - that so many men would say "Sure, I'll never have sex with anyone else, and I'll commit the rest of my life and earnings to you, as literally not your first choice" blows my mind. Don't marry, and don't sexlessly MGTOW, and heaven help Tebow (poor SOB) - - - but goddamn does it seem like all the faults of women come fr… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/16 11:27 AM |
| 5 | Why Being Aloof Is so Highly Praised by High-Level RedpillersI've noticed experienced women tend to avoid a man who obviously knows the game better than they do. Just don't bother with them past 25, and you'll avoid the used up women and the weirdos. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/16 11:52 PM |
| 28 | Youtube Girl Tells her 170k Subs how She Skipped taking BC to get Pregnant Without BF Knowing. Then doesn't let BF be with His Son. Wear a condom.You'd think her options have decreased considerably - there are literally millions of men who would still orbit her, many hundreds of thousands who would have sex with her, and many thousands who would marry her and raise their new wife's son, even after having seen this video. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/16 08:00 PM |
| 2 | Woman creates Podshare, the co-living space for orbiters, to never be lonely. Sex prohibited!Because easy VC capital is the dream of weak people. It's literally like people who want to win the lottery: something for nothing. Even better if it's not just a singular high prestige persons validation, but many people - - it's social validation and buckz all in one. Plenty of betas like this path as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/16 04:00 PM |
| 2 | [Rant/Venting] Male Height DiscriminationI won't lie; not all of the time. Much of the time, maybe even most of the time (given how beta most men are), but not all of the time. It's still worth it. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/16 03:22 AM |
| 39 | Youtube personality meets a Chad from Tinder. Complains about fuck boys. Gets pumped and dumped anyway. Red Pill theory shows throughout the entire video.Take everything she says about this man completely seriously. Then keep in mind everything she chose to do. Then remember some chump is going to marry her. Don't be that guy. If you put a ring on it, don't come bitching to us once you're miserable. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/16 03:14 AM |
| 3 | "I'm not perfect but I'm not afraid of telling people I'm a slut."I'm working on such a post. Suffice to say; there's a lot of disparate research, some of it relying on hard physiology, some of it evo-psych; very little of it written and published in peer review journals with the intent of painting a useful picture of human sexuality, and RP ideas, but it does anyway. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/16 08:09 PM |
| 4 | How to dominate her in bed.Why deny it? The same reason you have to deny anything that pleases her unless it's your decision to reward her and she knows you're controlling whether or not it happens. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/16 07:51 PM |
| 21 | [Rant/Venting] Male Height DiscriminationListen, and listen well. You can't change your height. And height matters, a lot. All else being equal, the taller the guy is, the better his life will be, from jobs, to women, to physical prowess. So don't let all else be equal. You simply cannot afford to. If you're not 6 feet tall, or appear to be so when you're wearing shoes and can say so, you have to work harder to get the same results. It is unfair. It is completely, entirely, unfair. It is not your fault. Neither is being born a Yazidi a… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/16 03:34 PM |
| 5 | "I'm not perfect but I'm not afraid of telling people I'm a slut."Sex at Dawn's been debunked. Hypergamy's return is one thing, but think about the natural checks on it. Think about the reality, in those days, of male vs female resource acquisition, birth control, and pregnancy and birth. What we're getting is a hybridization of modern removals of all natural checks on hypergamy, and a return to primal hypergamy and social order. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/16 03:16 PM |
| 18 | "I'm not perfect but I'm not afraid of telling people I'm a slut."The end is nigh. Nope. This is actually a return to how things were before civilizations instituted slut shaming, instituted young marriage, didn't institute divorces, required all men to work, all women to raise children, and paired them off to allocate sexual resources evenly in order to harness greater productive effort. The sexual revolution actually marks, by breaking only somewhat old traditions, a return to primal order. It was a sexual return. The end isn't nigh. We're well past the end … | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/16 01:53 AM |
| 15 | Are unicorns real? Or is this just a fairy tale?AWALT and all the business about unicorns not being real is there to remind you that in fact most women, are not venal, not slutty, not awfully selfish, and bitchy. Most women, are not the worst of all women. Some women, are in fact, by dint of simply being top quality human beings, paragons of womanhood. But as we say, all women are like that. All women have the same insecurities, all women have the same impulses of femininity, all women (well, again, most) have the same chemical pendulum of ho… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/16 01:50 AM |
| 15 | Treating women badly -- because they deserve itBeing a good mother to a man's children as his wife is absolutely something plenty of RP men value. And you know what? the 28 year old plate with 20 sexual partners who can't cook, goes into histrionics, spends too much, drinks too much, and is one nag away from getting a hard next isn't the kind of woman who makes a good wife or mother RP condescension to the sort of women who routinely stay single and unmarried beyond 25 is on the basis of exactly those attributes that make them unsuitable for… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/16 01:43 AM |
| 94 | Treating women badly -- because they deserve itWomen have fought long and hard for the right to no longer be honored and privileged. To have to work jobs like everybody else. To stigmatize homemaking and motherhood. To shame feminine behaviors. To normalize a level of sluttiness that would make the trashiest whores of fifty years ago blush, and make promiscuity not just an option but practically an obligation. To engineer a society where bored wives can cash out of marriages with minimum fuss and maximum gain, and cheating sluts can point a … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/16 04:00 PM |
| 16 | Ghomeshi's defence lawyer gets grilled by CBC for "Betraying Sisterhood"This sort of thing makes me fear for the Republic..... The government doesn't love us. I will never stop loving 'America', and the ideals that I grew up with. I will always be 'American'. But saving America isn't my job - - and America's government and society at large would only resent and disrespect any attempt I could make as an individual. The entire Western civilization, not just the Republic of these United States, is going to be broken into something else, just like Marriage 1.0 The fall … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/16 03:57 PM |
| 3 | Do not view cheating as standard or normalI can't violate promises I haven't made, and I don't recognize covert contracts. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/16 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Elon Musk is FuckedGet your egg and surrogate fund started. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/16 10:59 PM |
| 14 | Elon Musk is FuckedHigh class escorts are often sweethearts. Plenty of them, especially the younger ones just trying to make some cash, are actually just girls who realize there's a monetary value to their pussy and are far more upfront about it. You'd be amazed at how not bitchy and actually nice young girls who don't feel financially insecure because you've paid them and who aren't looking for commitment are in comparison to the run of the mill 25+ year old woman with just as much sexual baggage going husband hu… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/16 10:56 PM |
| 21 | Self Sacrifice is SuicideCertain people thrive on losing... let them lose... It's cruel to be kind in these situations. Unless they are confronted with loss, with no escape, will these kinds of people pull themselves together and buckle down. I have a theory that all people simply have a delay in executive function - - - ADHD people are the extreme end of this, but everyone has some kind of time delay in when they have processed information, and when they act on it. People who are successful are also reacting to a set o… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/16 01:21 AM |
| 46 | Once again, AskWomen accidentally confirms TRP. "When I see a tall guy, like over 6'3, my vagina automatically flexes and gets wet. I'm not even exaggerating."I don't loathe fat women though. I do. I don't loathe ugly women. If a woman's face is unfortunate, mannish, not my ethnic preference, injured, etc. I do not loathe them for it. I'm not going to bother with them beyond social pleasantries (most people won't), but it doesn't mean I shouldn't be socially pleasant. Fat women? Disgusting. Ever so slightly worse than fat men, because at least there aren't fat men who want everyone to pretend they aren't disgusting. Women often literally hate short gu… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/16 09:10 PM |
| 37 | Once again, AskWomen accidentally confirms TRP. "When I see a tall guy, like over 6'3, my vagina automatically flexes and gets wet. I'm not even exaggerating."what can a 5'5 guy do to make himself more desirable? Improve literally everything that isn't related to your height. Broadly: 1)Physical fitness and appearance - - you need muscle, low bodyfat. You need to have a haircut that suits you. You need facial hair (or lack of it) that suits you. You need to make sure your skin is good. You need to make sure your teeth are good. You need to wear clothing that fits, and is fashionable and age appropriate. Most people fail miserably and this is just the … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/16 09:06 PM |
| 30 | "Are you gay?""Oh my god, you're such an asshole!" "What, are you gay?!" They say the first one (along with a lot of smiling and light hitting) when they can't admit they want sex, and you're interested. They say the second (with a lot of face wrinkling and the like) when they can't admit they want sex, and you're not interested. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/16 04:45 PM |
| 2 | Journey towards r-selected end of the r|K spectrumIf times were to change... say a world economic collapse and governments are overthrown... then things revert back to nature and masculine polarity will return. Some of my French friends have gone from hoping Alain Juppe gets a decade younger in physique to run instead of Marine Le Pen, to saying things like "No more refugees, no more Muslims, no more Algerians" etc. Their girlfriends and plates have never been happier. Might be a coincidence. I don't think so. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/16 10:26 PM |
| 3 | "My husband [33M] is depressed and I'm [33F] fucking over it"If someone broke their leg, you wouldn't call them a loser or a pussy for not being able to walk, right? No, but if they had a cast and painkillers and reacted to an offer of physical therapy and crutches with "But I'm afraid to get out of bed! I want to stay here where it is safe!" , they'd be a fucking pussy loser, and heaven help whoever is paying their hospital bill. Depression is as clinical as any physical ailment Yeah, and its a pathology. This guy might be depressed, but I think it's a l… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/16 02:01 AM |
| 3 | "My husband [33M] is depressed and I'm [33F] fucking over it"Most people live paycheck to paycheck and only a small percent have even $10k saved up. And most Americans are overweight or obese | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/16 01:57 AM |
| 50 | "My husband [33M] is depressed and I'm [33F] fucking over it"Seriously, the woman even says she's not going to consider divorcing him, but is simply appalled he's dropping the ball so badly. A First Mate fed up with her totally absent and shitty Captain who won't go to the wheel house. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/16 01:56 AM |
| 2 | Jian Ghomeshi trial: History & Judge's verdict today.All of two, and they're only subscribed to makeupaddiction and aww. Just how it is. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/16 01:51 AM |
| 6 | Approaching Wall Feminist says the housing crisis is so much crueler for single women - says it's so much worse for a woman to share a house. Special snowflake!I meet a LOT of bitter post wall women. There's a lot of talk of these women always being able to cash out. Nah they can't. They complain that guys won't commit to them and say that they only want to have fun. They're talking about the not-insane men who aren't complete betas. Top men don't bother with them, men who have even an ounce of self respect merely string them along, and all the men who would commit to them are the lowest quality men they don't even bother with. However, nearly all of t… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/16 10:06 PM |
| 3 | Wife wants to support her family and siblingsYeah, the flip side of this is some nice Asian chick recently made Mrs. Thundercock talking to her girlfriends about Chad J. and how he was so kind in the past, but he wants to be able to fuck around in the relationship and she just can't understand why being the dutiful and quiet housewife like she was told isn't working. You're being played like a balalaika. Go ask in married RP, because you're in for some shit if you keep being indecisive. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/16 08:37 PM |
| 4 | Wife wants to support her family and siblingsI have an egg and surrogate fund in addition to the vanguard ira for this reason. Yeah, maybe I'll find a unicorn to have my sons with. But money is real and I can measure it. I've looked into the pricing, it'll probably take me until I'm around 35 to have enough for two eggs and a surrogate, and most agencies are really wary of single men (and sperm selection comes with the same hassle), but I will have my boys, wife or not. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/16 08:33 PM |
| 16 | Jian Ghomeshi trial: History & Judge's verdict today.They're almost all fat and ugly chicks, though It's like when neckbeards get angry about "assholes" and "jerks" fucking all the girls so that they're stuck with nothing but high partner count near 30s. Angry on behalf of a situation they'd have had nothing to do with anyhow. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/16 08:28 PM |
| 16 | Small realization of The Red PillThink about social media as ad-space for pussy. Imagine if you had no product and threw all your money into advertising. Imagine if you had great product and spent nothing on advertising. If you're trying to get eyeballs, indulge in a little self promotion. But don't saturate, and don't repeat content. Don't oversell, and leave them wanting more. Most importantly you cannot under any circumstances neglect the product. If you aren't successful; focus on the product. If you are successful; focus o… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/16 04:24 PM |
| 14 | Jian Ghomeshi trial: History & Judge's verdict today.chick wanted to tame the alpha This is why near and post wall women can be dangerous. Younger women who are just looking for thrills and to be made to feel don't have power-delusions and don't try going full on Wyf of Bath on strong men in order to validate themselves. Their attraction to strong men, young and older, is almost pure in intention. It's just hypergamy. It's just play-act branch swinging. They aren't trying to spermjack or rent-seek by alimony. Older women do - a HS gf fucking aroun… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/16 04:18 PM |
| 26 | Jian Ghomeshi trial: History & Judge's verdict today.That judge is going to be socially crucified. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/16 04:16 PM |
| 2 | A letter from India...You're not in a position to be giving anyone advice in this forum until you learn how to read and write in English. This post could've been written in English that would've made William Safire and Derek Walcott retire early, and it would still be awful. What a beaut of a shitpost, though. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/16 01:14 PM |
| 16 | People don't care about you. I study in Brussels and only a few people asked me if I was okayOP' situation is the extreme end of this truth, but it's a core RP truth: The only other people who are in any way, at all, obligated to love and care about you, are your parents. Not your siblings. Not your spouses. (hah, or 'significant others') Not your children - - though many people feel redeemed through their children who love them as easily and sweetly and without preconditions as does a pet. Not your pet, either; stop feeding it, see what happens. Not co-workers, not roommates, not store… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/16 08:14 PM |
| 9 | Why Women Hate Weak MenIt's also why they love gossip, and tend to adopt group, collectivist, conformist opinions - - being obsessed with standing and popularity. Their place isn't the physical or material hierarchy; it's the social one. Being cast out of the monkey troupe, or exiled from the tribe is death. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/16 07:59 PM |
| 3 | Why Women Hate Weak MenIs there any writings on what humanity might be like in another 100,00 years? Nope. The exciting evolutionary biology research is in genomics and proteomics, using big data methods on genetic networks to figure out things like how we can grow rice that thrives in heavy metal polluted soil, or figuring out new drug targets based on what some highly conserved genome in a fungus codes for to keep it alive in bacteria rich Amazonian soil. There's no grant money of any kind in investigating "Hey, wha… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/16 07:57 PM |
| 43 | Why Women Hate Weak MenWhy Women Hate Weak Men Because even before we made the transition to walking upright, weakness in men, lesser masculinity, meant death of her offspring and of herself. Corollary; weaker animals? Didn't keep themselves alive in the environment, or against stronger animals which reproduced with the females instead. Nothing about this basic paradigm has ever, ever changed. The metrics of success, some of the features of our anatomy, the means of extracting value from the world, of raising ones' yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/16 06:29 PM |
| 6 | It's only creepy if your SMV is low!Some PUA guys can cultivate a massive, completely un-deserved ego complex just because they've "approached hundreds of sets" but their success rate is piss-poor. I just don't think that spending upwards of 5+ hours a day approaching 30+ sets, getting maybe 15 numbers, having 10 or so of those be flakes, and closing 2 of the 5 women you have left to be worth my time and effort. Now imagine someone realizing this in their mid 30s scrubbing off black nail polish, taking off a furry top hat, and sha… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/16 06:22 PM |
| 11 | It's only creepy if your SMV is low!But a server who's 30 and STILL lives with his parents? No. He needs to keep his head down and keep it real with himself. But he can do pretty well with flings on Tinder if he simply conceals that and has a great physique and fashion sense. Don't underestimate how powerful most women's short time horizon for attraction can be. There are a lot of guys who can bang out a pitchbook in a weekend, a lot of guys who can absolutely deliver to clients, who kill it at work and will go far in industry who… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/16 06:18 PM |
| 22 | there's a lot of hate for fat women, but let's have an honest conversation about fat men...The reason everyone is so quick to judge people on their appearance, particularly the physical condition of their body, is because it matters. The body is the only thing you own. It is your only possession. It is your only home. It is the only vessel for your only mind. We are more than our bodies, but our bodies are us. Nothing else is. If a person cannot cultivate their own body, treat it with respect, hone it and make it skilled and strong, what can they do with the rest of their lives? ow, y… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/16 10:59 PM |
| 17 | What if unicorns were realIf you found the perfect loyal woman would you settle down, be exclusive, treat her like a queen, have kids and tell her you love her KNOWING that she will never betray you and her brain only wants for you? Plenty of men, including almost all of the men in my family did this. Including the grandfathers and great grandfathers, etc. of most men's families in the West, and certainly in Middle Eastern, South and East Asian countries. You know what those societies had? Shame and guilt and no laws rew… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/16 05:20 AM |
| 7 | CMV: Men should be sexually selective, just like women. Treat your penis like a Yves Saint Laurent jacket.I am talking about men who manipulate women into thinking they want a LTR only to have sex with a woman, who wouldn't do that if she knew there wouldn't be a LTR. Manipulate her into thinking something? Hypnosis? Mind control? Love potions? Subliminal messages? "No, I meant, abc, you just seemed like a really great guy and we were talking about plans for like six months from now and you said we were exclusive, but I guess that just meant you weren't having sex with anyone else, not that I was th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/16 03:17 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men should be sexually selective, just like women. Treat your penis like a Yves Saint Laurent jacket.I am saying that many men nowadays pretend to care about a girl, making her think she found the right guy, only to have sex with her and then dump her later. Oh, yes. Us big bad scary men are tricking all these wholesome good girls who lose their head and just couldn't say no! Men aren't commitment vending machines where you put in sex coins and a relationship plonks out into a tray, let alone bait and switching. I'm sure there are a great deal of men who promise the moon to dimmer women and the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/16 02:14 AM |
| 25 | FR: CaliforniaI got 4/6 nights in a bed for free, when originally I would’ve only had the couch to sleep on. I got invited to social events in SF for St. Patrick’s day and the night before. I got free stuff too (aside from sex). Can’t complain. This is an underrated and overlooked part of TRP. If you've not yet internalized RP ; once you stop (over) paying for sex (money or emotional effort or time) you'll find that along with free sex, you somehow happen to get other stuff for free Food, lodging during trips… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/16 02:09 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Men should be sexually selective, just like women. Treat your penis like a Yves Saint Laurent jacket.Many men nowadays pretend to care about a girl, making her think she found the right guy, only to have sex with her and then dump her later. Nope. Most women will try to pretend their standard for sleeping around wasn't low, that they are amazing and interesting beyond their physical attractiveness and "out on Friday" personality, and then, when a man who finds nothing more attractive about them leaves after sex, they then guard their ego against any self criticism by shaming and blaming men. Do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/16 01:38 AM |
| 56 | Woman on OKCupid subreddit gets pumped-and-dumped by Chad yet again, after ignoring red flags and being a willing slut for him. Who's surprised?I agree, I think waiting to have sex will help me keep a clear head about things. Now actually implementing this will take some time and practice... Oh look. The female strategy of withholding sex to verify long term commitment. Amazing how it's a transformative, hard won hidden gem of life experience and wisdom when it comes out of the mouth of woman who isn't interesting beyond her sex appeal. ....and patriarchal antiquarian degrading slut shaming when it comes from any number of civilization'… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/16 10:46 PM |
| 16 | More men are waking up - software millionaire wonders where all the good men are (but has his suspicions)He knows what the problem is. He is powerless to do anything about it. Look at his industry. Look at the institution page this is posted on. He's an inmate wondering aloud why the prisoners are so thin, hoping the journalist interviewing him about workout routines in the jail thinks about what the warden is feeding them. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/16 09:13 PM |
| 2 | Resist The Lowering of Barriers To EntryThey couldn't wait to say "Waaah! What about the 'Mom Bod'? It's sexy, too!" like we were ever going to fall for that shit. Up next; farmers trying to plant in spent harvest soil. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/16 06:24 PM |
| 18 | More men are waking up - software millionaire wonders where all the good men are (but has his suspicions)I disagree. Any excess production that isn't taken from me, and which I don't require to live comfortably, is going to be stored for me and me alone. If I end up having sons by sperm selection and surrogacy, then those material results, as best I can manage, will be going to them. With the exception of my own, only if there is an acceptable return to me, shall I give. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/16 05:56 PM |
| 3 | Got drunk on date... Scared and don't know what to do (21)I am really scared now that he thinks I am an easy girl, and won't build a serious relationship with me. You don't think you are? He also kept trying to touch me in the morning (over clothes) and I let him. I didn't know if it is okay or not okay. You weren't drunk at this point. I already know I am not getting drunk ever again, or visiting his house again. You might never get drunk around him ever again, or do those things with him again. But once the shyness wore off, I acted exactly like RPW … | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/03/16 05:44 PM |
| 65 | More men are waking up - software millionaire wonders where all the good men are (but has his suspicions)Emphatically, no. It is not my job to save the West's economies; I'm not the state. It is not my job to go around developing some kind of moral framework for people to follow; I am not the church. It is not my job to save women from themselves and turn them into suitable wives and mothers; I am not every woman's father. I'm just one guy. And furthermore, if I attempted to do any of these things, the interests of the state - - which has destroyed the institutions of church and fatherhood precisel… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/16 05:25 PM |
| 20 | Learn about female psychology without any of the bullshithates it when guys are being nice to her for the sake of being nice For the sake of getting pussy. It reminds them that even though they can be an evil catty bitch the most salient feature of their worth is the hole between their legs. That's a pretty rough thing to have subtly internalized from 14 to 28 for a lot of women, and it gets internalized pretty deeply. In some sense, it's a little nicer to know that you have no inherent worth (and have to build it), rather than know you have inherent … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/16 12:16 AM |
| 1 | [advice] How should I support my boyfriend in this situation?I'm turning 19 You're an 18 year old girl His coworkers are giving him shade because he has a girlfriend. Temping at an female-dominated accounting firm, he is surrounded by many female coworkers and bosses that he will have to talk to. Hahahahaha, buncha hags giving a fella shit because they know he wouldn't ever choose them. /u/StingrayVC is right; don't fret about this. Keep being his soft place to land, sounds like Jason is surrounded by Harpies. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/16 02:12 PM |
| 35 | Trump could accuse Clinton of being anti-male for his next linguistic kill-shot- Scott Adams"Hillary, what a Man-Basher, I tell you, I've dealt with some tough women. Believe me. I've built a great company, I've got a great company and - you know, a lot of my people were women over the years. I had women in my company before anyone else - great women, real tough cookies, believe me. But Hillary? She's just such a Man-Basher. She can't get things done. Sad!" Especially with how his accent is, "maaan baaasher" is going to stick to her. I hope he goes with it. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/16 04:37 AM |
| 8 | Men want us to embrace traditional femininity AND pay for dates? Confused.Different men want different things. It can depend on the woman. There are women I would never expect to pay for a date, because I won't take them out on dates. There are women I would never expect to pay for a date, because they're still students and broke as hell. There are women I would never expect to pay for a date because they have princess-mentality. ETC. There are women I would expect to pay for a date (though I'd never take them on a real one) because I know they're the type to insist t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/03/16 06:48 PM |
| 3 | Hey everyone, beware the forum shills who have come to do no good!It's okay. Some of them aren't as anonymous as they hoped they'd remain. Don't worry about it. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/16 06:45 PM |
| 20 | How do I stop being so angry all the time? It's ruining my life.I'm 21 -- I should be out having fun and living life, not worrying about things I can't control, Yes. I agree entirely, and it's good for you to understand this at 21 while you are so young. Many men only figure it out at 40, divorced, penniless, with children they never get to see and a bleak future. Consider yourself lucky Think of all the people who will never have the awareness you do at your age, the young male age of 21. There are 22 year olds who are envious of you. 23 year olds. 24 year … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/16 09:58 AM |
| 10 | The rise of the NUCLEAR DIVORCE.Spin plates Juggle balls Irons in the fire | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/16 06:22 PM |
| 4 | Plan BLoyal also covers more than just sexual fidelity- a loyal woman has her man's back, never speaks badly about him, and is always supportive of him. Absolutely, I agree - - I actually think they mutually cultivate one another. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/03/16 04:29 PM |
| 11 | Tune-up Tuesday is back! What is your #1 issue you need help with the most?Fear - - visualize the consequences of failure (the repeated choice not to defend your time) and visualize it well and thoroughly. Be able to call upon it. Balance it against the reward of short term deviation from your mission, and be mindful about it. Be sure to visualize the reward of maintaining your mission. Simple, not dramatic example: If you mission is putting your pants on, and deviation would be staying in bed, think about how retarded you'd look walking out of the house without pants … | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/16 04:28 PM |
| 3 | Tune-up Tuesday is back! What is your #1 issue you need help with the most?This is mine as well; currently I'm taking one mg of melatonin, I might step it up. I (unfortunately) can't limit how long I look at artificial light until I'm truly done with work. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/16 04:24 PM |
| 5 | Women want an assurance of Hypergamous optimization. Whether it’s on the personal scale of socially engineering generations of men to accommodate this, or [...] of legislating those assurances into common law, the .. imperative is making that optimization .. for the largest number of women. - RolloThus the 80% of men with the most investment and most to lose in the conflict of women’s sexual strategy (Hypergamy) establish social conventions to develop assurances of their own. This is partly why globalists are the ultimate bulls - -they want to cuckold entire societies. It doesn't make them alphas, it makes them leeches. Do you think they'll stop owning land? Live in rented apartments? Stop getting married and raising children in nuclear families? Degrading the institutions of ennobling an… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/16 04:23 PM |
| 5 | Plan BNot faithful, not "not a slut"/"not promiscuous" - loyal. Maybe it has to do with the rap culture/that song (these hoes ain't loyal) but that is their favorite word. "Good family" is also up there as well. That's because "loyal" and "good family" heavily imply low to no partner counts, and devotedness instead of selfishness, and are socially acceptable ways to say it to any audience, including one's 'bros' who might otherwise give one shit if concern about sexual fidelity is voiced. Men are disc… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/03/16 03:29 PM |
| 2 | Plan BEven in a condition of committed monogamy that background sense of sexual abundance simmers in women’s subconscious. We laud women with the guts to pursue that abundance after divorce or even reward them with popularity and movie opportunities when they write books about pursuing it while married. For instance: Henrik Ibsen could've never written A Doll's House about a man who feels trapped by his obligations. A Wallet's Pocket would never, ever fly then, and wouldn't fly now. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/03/16 03:26 PM |
| 51 | [27m] There is a part of me that wants to try to cheat on my girlfriend [28f] to send a message that she cannot hear otherwise.STOP BEING A BIG FUCKING PUSSY Apply this maxim to your life: "I will stop being a big fucking pussy". If she isn't adding value, and isn't doing what you want after you've told her what to do, THEN WALK But she is happy in this weird distant relationship. So are you. That's why you're sticking around and trying to emotionally manipulate someone into doing what you want. Fuck or walk. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/16 02:19 PM |
| 13 | "We need guys like you to stay the way you are."Like almost every society that invented the ideas of dowry and chastity and inheritance and brideprice and punishments for adultery. All of these ideas are ritualistic solutions to a biological problem. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/16 11:56 PM |
| 5 | "We need guys like you to stay the way you are."It brings to mind the larger question of whether TRP is for an elite group to slay countless pussy or whether it is something for the masses, to free their minds so their ass (dick) will follow? Like an escort with a newly padded bank account, TRP is whatever you want it to be. Seriously, it's just knowledge about how men and woman are. What you want out of it is up to you. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/16 10:22 PM |
| 20 | Why humor doesn't make them wetRelationships are where humor will score you points though, but that stage is only an option to those who passed the first test. Relationships are for nice girls with a low to no partner count, feminine behavior, and self-awareness. Kindness can be extended to plates, but not relationships. Humor scores points with all women. Women love to laugh, for the same reason so many women are "into music" - they like being entertained and feeling something instead of nothing. Humor, and pointing out some… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/16 07:15 PM |
| 29 | Captain of Yale Basketball team is expelled after his plate claims that their 4th sexual encounter was not "consensual."Considering that he was almost close to graduation, he likely had no long term plans for this girl. Smarter sluts realize they can't ask for a man to pay for a broken off engagement any more (like in the old days of a man needing to wed them to fuck them), and can see that their Father-surrogate (the collegiate institution that's there to provide for them) has basically paid this guy a dowry (his graduation prospects without them) and so they raaaaaaage and try taking men down. They know they ca… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/16 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Feminist says that submissive wives are "going to be domestically abused."Tolkein called this a long time ago (if not Juvenal) http://glim.ru/personal/jrr_tolkien_42-45.html Much though modern conditions have changed feminine circumstances, and the detail of what is considered propriety, they have not changed natural instinct. A man has a life-work, a career, (and male friends), all of which could (and do where he has any guts) survive the shipwreck of 'love'. A young woman, even one 'economically independent', as they say now (it usually really means economic subserv… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/03/16 07:04 PM |
| 5 | Compatibility with Betasit seems curious that RPW and TRP claim to be partners Absolutely not. This is the accusation of RPW being an ideological 'harem' for TRP that feminists love making. RP men might be traditional in some cases, but the vast majority absolutely disavow the idea of long term commitment to any particular woman, including myself. This is entirely at odds with the pursued sexual strategy of RPW. It just happens that the knowledge base is the same; male and female responses (sex seeking, commitment seek… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/03/16 07:01 PM |
| 4 | What is "Team Women" and why is it bad/wrongTeam Woman is wrong because you could be giving approval, support or validation where it isn't deserved, and because it often leads to bashing men, which we want no part of. At RPW we keep the focus on giving advice, and helping women see where they are going wrong. Crucial It's the difference between RPW and almost all other female-oriented sources of relationship advice and aid. http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2652577/ Co-rumination (Rose, 2002) is defined as excessive discussion o… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/03/16 11:57 PM |
| 3 | Sideline cry babiesNothing wrong with a guy admitting he's an omega I'm not as old as some RPers (like say, VZ) so I don't have the Father-Son view of it, but I do have a little brother. We're both adults, but he'll always be my little bro. If he's hurting himself long term, I might be harsh with him, but it comes from a place of wanting him to do well. If he's deluding himself, if he's not doing what he wants, if he's missing out and missing big - - what kind of big brother am I if I shame him? If I tease him? If… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/16 10:33 PM |
| 49 | To Implement Positive Habits that Last, You Must Develop a Life-Affirming Mentality. Also, Stop Being a Pussy.Accountability is painful. But account - - the sum, the result, the output, the holistic picture. Call it whatever you want. The end-point of everything is only known when you look at it. Otherwise you're flying through life blind, treating your decades on this earth like you might if you poured milk into your cereal bowl blindfolded. The basic condition of any weak person is that they avoid all pain and seek only pleasure. The truth is that by pursuing beyond immediate reward, we can find thing… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/16 10:28 PM |
| 117 | To Implement Positive Habits that Last, You Must Develop a Life-Affirming Mentality. Also, Stop Being a Pussy.A Note on Thoughts Stop taking your thoughts so seriously. No one else can hear them, they are wildly biased, and have little or nothing to do with objective reality. Let the manifested world be your guide. If good things are showing up in your life, then you are doing something right. If you keep finding yourself in adverse situations, then you have more learning to do. Your gaze should be outwards at the ‘real world,’ not turned inwards on your feelings and baggage. You do not have the power t… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/16 06:12 PM |
| 3 | Sideline cry babiesI don't think it's even unhealthy for omegas to rant and rave about women. One of the nice things about TRP is that it offers a broad spectrum of outlet for men, and that's something which is lacking in the rest of society. Without that kind of outlet, they'll never improve, so, eh, what's the harm. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/16 06:08 PM |
| 17 | Sideline cry babiesI've noticed this is true regardless of what the work is. "Oh my god, do you work out?" Nah, not really, I just play [sport] with my friends sometimes. "Wow, you must've busted your ass to afford that!" Nah, not really, I just invest wisely "Wow, you must've studied hard to get into that program!" Nah, not really, I just did the problems in the book and took the test. It doesn't matter what it is, it really does not. The one for whom things come easily and naturally and 'just because' is who the… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/16 06:06 PM |
| 2 | Freedom vs Access/u/NeoreactionSafe the OP of this post calls what you're talking about polarity I see it as a Yin Yang thing too, but I think besides just the masculine and feminine complementing and drawing each other out, there's the resolution of insecurity in humans that has a male and female path - - attainment in men, staving off loss in women. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/16 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Mom cheated on DadYou are being as weak, and as craven, and as selfish as your mother by not resolving to tell your father. You are taking the easy way out, you are balancing another's misery against your own self-interest, you are refusing to confront the truth for the sake of your own comfort. Your dad might be a weak pussy beta whose wife has cuckolded him, but a son who will not be honest to his father and honor his own family is no son at all. This is the only father you have. Think about what he's done for … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/16 04:48 PM |
| 14 | Freedom vs AccessThe balance is delicate It's why cheerleaders are necessary. The football jock, cheerleader, prom king, prom queen, etc. dynamic is what is best for men and women. Too many angry nerds want to believe the jock is stupid, and don't see that he's simply putting in the work to do the best he can with his natural talent. It is the purest and most primitive story of masculinity and femininity - deviations just make women from it deeply unhappy. What cheerleader wants to go head to head with linebacke… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/16 04:40 PM |
| 15 | Sideline cry babiesTRP is where omegas go to fantasize This is what I think motivates a substantial amount of the glee over The Wall and the male 'hamstering' about "Oh when I'm older everything will be easier"; as though it's just the passage of time that matters, and not more and more opportunities to do more and more work. It's also why TRP has caught such a bad rap on misogyny. So many bitter omegas with FOMO penetrating them to their core. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/16 04:35 PM |
| 14 | Married, pregnant... And being hit on?I am almost 3.5 months pregnant and am showing more and more day by day. I'm 27, two kids, married for six and a half years. "But I decide to have outside of work fraternization with other men! especially those whom I notice are attractive! Also, this is just hilarious: he's brand new, 23, just graduated last June from school. He's a good looking kid, takes care of himself physically. Oh lord. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/03/16 04:28 PM |
| 2 | He doesn't believe I'm a virgin because I got an STD testEver is a long time. Just work on screening men better, and have rules. Intimacy, even without sex is a good thing. Sexual intimacy (and not manipulation) is a good thing. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/03/16 01:20 PM |
| 1 | He doesn't believe I'm a virgin because I got an STD testhttp://www.jstor.org/stable/3600089?seq=1#page_scan_tab_contents Premarital Sex, Premarital Cohabitation, and the Risk of Subsequent Marital Dissolution among Women, Jay Teachman, Journal of Marriage and Family, Vol. 65, No. 2 (May, 2003), pp. 444-455 Along with much else in the literature: Generally, the willingness to break a first sexual relationship is correlated with having an increased number of sexual partners, and having more than one sexual partner (or simply not being a virgin bride) i… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/03/16 04:04 AM |
| 10 | She's not yours, it's just your turn. The glass is already broken.Many women above a certain age aren't going to outright cheat or branch swing if you have your ducks in a row in terms of manhood. Only because after a certain age, they cannot risk a man leaving, because their ability to just find another has dropped. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/16 03:46 AM |
| 3 | She's not yours, it's just your turn. The glass is already broken."she is not yours, just your turn" is just sickening. its saying that you are accepting to be knowingly cucked in advance. Meet a lot of virgin girls, eh? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/16 03:43 AM |
| 24 | She's not yours, it's just your turn. The glass is already broken.A relationship (a real one) is where both parties actively fight against their natures That's because relationships, as you understand them, are a subset of civilization, and civilizations across cultures and timespans all developed sexual pairing rituals to overcome the scarcity and competition of nature in order to create artificial and productive abundance. Every beta wedded to a nice-enough virgin girl who can cook while he's a young man, given a kid on the way to be responsible for, and dri… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/16 11:13 PM |
| 3 | In defense of validation: Why sometimes chasing it is not a bad thing at all and why my life is amazing because of it.It's the problem of inadequacy - this is just the human condition, because we are animals intelligent enough to see our own deaths and wonder about survival in the world. When do I know I am adequate? If I do not know I am adequate, then am I not inadequate? If I am inadequate and I seek to become adequate, will I not be permanently chasing adequacy? Whatever fullness I want, if my nature is to want, isn't my nature unfulfilled? The journey everyone has to go on is that which shows them what the… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/16 11:07 PM |
| 1 | He doesn't believe I'm a virgin because I got an STD testThe saddest truth for modern women: Grandma didn't study evolutionary psychology, but grandma was right | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/16 10:56 PM |
| 5 | She's not yours, it's just your turn. The glass is already broken.http://webarchive.nationalarchives.gov.uk/20160105160709/http://www.ons.gov.uk/ons/resources/divorcechart1_tcm77-305165.png That's just one variable, in terms of a lifelong relationship even existing between two people as time goes on. The blue line is the ideal; 'til death do us part. The grey line is the messy reality; 'til boredom or infidelity or psychosis does she stay. Just for the one variable; staying together in a marriage. Not happiness, not fulfillment, not a life of material security… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/16 10:52 PM |
| 33 | She's not yours, it's just your turn. The glass is already broken.Depends on each individuals relationship philosophy and/or whether they are manipulative or not. No, because men and women are hilariously identical. You see, for men, their faithfulness depends on the individual guy and his circumstances. And for women, their faithfulness depends on the individual guy and his circumstances. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/16 10:48 PM |
| 6 | He doesn't believe I'm a virgin because I got an STD testI haven't had sex yet, because I've been waiting for the right person. ... started seeing this guy a few weeks after my physical, and we were together for six or seven months. ... I loved him, and we were going to get more physical ... He...freaked out, and left. It's been a few weeks, and I still am in shock. Congratulations, you just got a lesson about your standards for sex being lower than you want them to be, without paying a huge amount of SMV tuition. Now, you learn from this, or you don'… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/16 06:26 PM |
| 0 | The creation of the white cuckold cultureWe are all connected by society. No, society values you as a man only for what you can give it in terms of your work. Do as much as you can to take as much from this great "society" you live in as possible - or be left with whatever you think it owes you. give them permission to enslave us and take aways our jobs and turn our sisters and sons into cucks both economically and socially. I'm not advocating for that. Teach your own people whatever you can. Don't bother so much with society. Family i… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/16 06:19 PM |
| 3 | The creation of the white cuckold cultureYOU CANNOT SAVE THE WEST THE WEST CANNOT BE SAVED Direct your efforts towards your own advancement, and your own life, and your own people, whomever you choose them to be. Measure how much wealth and security you have brought yourself in however much time it took you to do so. Whatever metrics you please. Whatever integer value you want to end up with. But quantify it. That's with a denominator of one. Now go ahead, and tell me how many people in the West you intend to save? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/16 03:18 PM |
| 1 | New Approach to Tinder Gets More Attractive Women with a Few Pitfallscasual sex If they weren't married while they were fucking, then I don't think you should marry them in order to fuck'em, all I'm saying. Don't pay more than what it last sold for, because it doesn't get fresher on the shelf, and you don't get change at the register. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/16 12:50 AM |
| 11 | "Are there really that many guys under 6 feet tall?" Four female coworkers ask meAnd do you think any of those girls gave a crap that he's 5'8? Nope. Conor McGregor, I believe, is all of 5'9'' "Oh, I suppose he would have so much trouble with women if you took away his fame No physical fitness, no charm, no confidence! I bet he was awful with women before he was well known" - - BPers everywhere | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/16 08:34 PM |
| 1 | OP pumps and dumps a girl on Tinder. She contacts him again, saying she's now engaged but wishes she could be with him instead.AF/BB is caused by female hypergamy, and exists universally. Child support laws enforce AF/BB and enable women to do it... but don't cause it. Our chemical and social and legal changes in terms of birth control, the sexual revolution, and alimony-no fault divorce-child support laws do however, mean that AF BB is a bifurcated search for women, instead of being something they synthesize. Instead of looking for the best optimizations of both qualities in a single man, they look for the best of both… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/16 08:27 PM |
| 2 | OP pumps and dumps a girl on Tinder. She contacts him again, saying she's now engaged but wishes she could be with him instead.Look, I'm not saying that it's entirely possible women of your mothers generation, including your mother, were largely virgins at marriage and never cheated. In fact, I posit that this was often the truth for most cultures prior to the sexual revolution, among those socioeconomic classes that didn't live in cities and which relied on agrarian, martial, or industrial male labor for survival. Like, maybe even more than half of all marriages! It's 2016 - - do you think that's still true at all? Don… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/16 08:24 PM |
| 55 | New Approach to Tinder Gets More Attractive Women with a Few Pitfalls1) have good photos 2) be bold Good photos: flaunt your physique (genes), your friends (social status), and your wealth (....your wealth), and are high resolution and easily visually assimilated by the picture-book raised 18-23 year old woman-child looking for dick. Past about 23 (i.e. no longer "students" supported by their Daddy), there are definitely still women looking for Tinder cock, but they're "higher quality" in their own heads - - which is to say their needs have exploded and they dema… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/16 08:19 PM |
| 3 | The day my blue-pill mind finally snapped due to anger. Be aware, MANY blue-pill beta's only need one moment; not gradual learningIs there morality here? And why do you think your life is different? You will be the lion or you will be the gazelle. Forget just this issue of your (and it is your) problem of perceiving yourself as sexually inadequate - - - this extends to everything else in your life Will you be the lion, or the gazelle? There was a time when that lion hadn't killed a single thing it its life. Do you think it made a big deal about the first time it pursued a gazelle? Do you think it wondered whether it was su… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/16 08:14 PM |
| 8 | I Can't Believe Its Not AlphaThe point of rhetorical speech, in fact, is that you have to do more to emotionally persuade people than merely presenting logical truths, to convince them that you're correct. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/16 08:09 PM |
| 67 | OP pumps and dumps a girl on Tinder. She contacts him again, saying she's now engaged but wishes she could be with him instead.To clarify: Almost all of the cars worth driving, are used cars Doesn't matter if it's had three owners, doesn't matter if it's a rental - - don't pay new for used. Sure, you could walk to work, but that's awful. Just keep finding the nicest cars for the least expensive lease arrangements. Who knows, maybe you'll still be able to buy a new car when they start making them like they used to a decade from now. Maybe you'll find a brand new import. But don't buy used new. You can just rent! | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/16 02:11 AM |
| 3 | Missing out... ?It's paralyzingly terrifying to me that I might choose wrong, where do people get the self- confidence to know that they chose the right life for themselves? Knowing that you have far less time than you do options. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/03/16 03:16 PM |
| 3 | Polish women may be among the greatest LTR material in the Western world, and genetic markers of prenatal testosterone exposure prove itBlue Pill suppression is a bigger factor than biology. (in my opinion) Agreed - - - I would point out to those who disagree, that a tremendous amount of the misfits between intention and action in men and women that we bemoan in TRP comes down to the fact that our biological instincts and preferences and routines do not actually comport with our current past 50 or so years of social programming. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/16 02:47 AM |
| 18 | Polish women may be among the greatest LTR material in the Western world, and genetic markers of prenatal testosterone exposure prove itA lot of it comes down to materialism. Don't go looking for biotroofs for every last thing - - the sociologists aren't always totally wrong; post-post-transcriptional stuff like culture really does matter Y'ever heard of the "Jewish American Princess"? Good luck finding any Hebrew or Semite girls like that in Sderot. It's not the ethnicity, it's not the blood - - it's whether or not they were raised by distant fathers who were working all the time and Moms that got whatever they wanted materiall… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/16 02:42 AM |
| 11 | Guy asks to Bill Burr about his 10 years older, twice divorced, single mom girlfriend.His SMV relative to an older black woman who is a loud feminist is still way higher, in the sense that hers degrades waaaaay faster than his. She can't leave him, without facing her own prospect of dying alone, a situation far harder for her to repair than him. Case in point: the fuck is her name? .... me neither Bill will be okay. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/16 02:34 AM |
| 22 | Why are you here? Is it more about sex or the self?There is no inherent purpose to the Red Pill. I actually find the name, the terminology (half invented, half taken from the pickup artist community), and the persistent reference to a (mediocre, not original) sci-fi movie of the 90's to be kind of cornball, bordering on tedious. A lot of this, and what we talk about, is written in the Wyfe of Bath, is written in the Satires of Juvenal, is contained in the writings of everyone from Schopenhauer to Tolkein. This isn't new material, this isn't game… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/16 09:35 PM |
| 29 | Dating an Alpha Widow- My 2 year journey from BluePill to RedPill and the things I learned.... A women who is pursuing a long-term strategy should make every guy wait a little while. In fact, a woman of high SMV who is specifically pursuing a long term relationship would even go so far as to hold out entirely on sex - - she might even require something like a financial token of commitment and public request to only be with her in a formalized proposition before she'd be willing to have sex. Nah, I bet no culture ever developed that kind of ritual, though. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/16 09:27 PM |
| 60 | Dating an Alpha Widow- My 2 year journey from BluePill to RedPill and the things I learned...Sexual History Matters It matters so much women do their utmost not to talk about it. It matters so much human females evolved hidden ovulation. Patterns matter, priors matter, causality is, as it turns out, a real verifiable thing, and correlations indicate it. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/16 06:49 PM |
| 37 | Millennial women are burning out by 30 in the work place"They don’t know what they are striving for, which makes it really hard to move forward." That's because the elites tricked them into laboring for the man called the employer, for the man called the shareholder, instead of the man called Husband, or the man called Son. Just the same as the Father is replaced by the State. Then their bodies start producing more testosterone, they become more sexually aggressive (almost as horny as when they were young, almost as horny as a guy in their 20s) becau… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/16 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Experience with age, SMV, and the red pill narrative as a guy that is not white.It's because the passing years and unfulfillment have cued them into their strategy being awful. So they change it up and do things like demand commitment and refuse to have sex so easily and even learn to pretend to cook and clean and become much more choosy about men. Imagine if they did this at 18 and went husband hunting for men in their mid-20s, and brought low-to-no partner counts, talk about family, and domesticity to the dating table. They'd do incredibly well. The most important thing f… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/16 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Outside opinion, and appropriate ways to indicate interest, please?A man, seriously interested in a relationship with the intention of getting married, won't mind, especially if It's otherwise obvious he's not talking to a psycho. No one minds the stereotypical blushing bride. The virgin wife is the ideal in countless cultures. What any man, red pill, blue pill, looking for plates, looking for a girlfriend, looking for a wife, wants to avoid, is a woman who cannot get along with people. So long as someone isn't that and isn't otherwise undesirable (think: low S… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/03/16 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Outside opinion, and appropriate ways to indicate interest, please?The reasons why matter almost as much as the how. The Teachman studies on virginity and marital dissolution risk found that non-virigin, serially cohabiting women presented a far greater risk of divorce than virgin women. But women who only engaged in sex and lived with men who ended up being their spouse and therefore had only had sex and lived with their spouse (in effect) had almost no greater risk of marital dissolution. If a woman hasn't ever dated or ever tried forming a relationship, that… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/03/16 11:26 PM |
| 11 | Mic.com: Inside the Subreddit /r/RedPillWomen, the Community for Female Men's Rights ActivistsWhen a group of people aren't your allies and are those of some other group you don't like, call them collaborators. But if they're too close in identity to the group of people you claim to represent and fight for, then you have to insinuate that they've been taken in, and duped. That comes with the risk of calling them (and by extension, the group you claim to fight for) stupid. So, you have to specifically denigrate their worth, and assign to them a moral deficiency and self-hatred - - then yo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/03/16 11:12 PM |
| 7 | UPDATE: help me do what's best for him.These are all good things to do, but if you're doing them in general to win over a specific man, instead of making yourself specifically a woman whom men generally will want to pursue, you are setting yourself up for failure, disappointment, and falling off the wagon. Live deliberately, and live for yourself, no one else will do it for you. Don't go looking for congratulations on an internet forum, don't go looking to please people, please any individual man, etc. Start respecting yourself, and … | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/03/16 08:23 PM |
| 14 | The price of settling is too highThe issue with women is that they believe that their value as human beings that exist is worthwhile to men. They think that their mere companionship -- in the complete absence of sex, income, housework, or any other function they perform for you -- is valuable. The issue with most men is that they readily reward and confirm this strategy. For all we say about women, fundamentally, men are the stronger sex, physically, in emotional fortitude, in competitive spirit - - - it's elite encouragement o… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/16 08:17 PM |
| 15 | What sucks about getting older is the feeling that you're playing harder for a consolation prize.The hamster is always about time utilization, as far as I can tell: what was done and what it is too late to do. The female hamster is what tells a pre-wall girl that 10 different dicks and not being able to cook and being a 28 single woman in the marriage market doesn't imply at all that she was using her time poorly, or that it is too late to improve things. The male hamster is what tells a guy who is a 28 year old virgin that his notions about marriage and fidelity and love and inexperience w… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/16 03:25 PM |
| 8 | Donald Trumps Treatment of his wife is more offensive than his politics: A hack piece with unintentional Red Pill truths galoreFurthermore, what do the majority of men actually want out of a long term relationship that they can't get otherwise? Sex? Another person paying the rent? Cleaning? Laundry? It's basically just that, but heaven help the man who dares say his girlfriend is being a bitch. That's "abusive". | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/16 03:08 PM |
| 28 | Donald Trumps Treatment of his wife is more offensive than his politics: A hack piece with unintentional Red Pill truths galoreJust take every complaint women have about their husbands and imagine how it would be received if a man were voicing them to a group of women about his wife. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/16 11:21 PM |
| 176 | Article about how Women in their 30s from around the world are judged reveals RP truthsThe problem is that no one tells them otherwise when they are younger. When I was a 16 year old who thought girls at that age would fall for sensitive, caring guys who respected them and wanted to cuddle, I wasn't about to speak my mind about their choices in dating - - what if I offended them?! When I was a 22 year old in a "relationship", how could I ever speak ill of my girlfriend's past? It might upset her! I'm not yet 30, but I don't bother with women older than 30 if I have the option. It'… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/16 09:39 PM |
| 16 | Revealed: the 30-year *social* betrayal dragging down Generation Y’s income. Exclusive new data shows how victimization, feminism and lack of agency have combined to stop millennials taking their share of western wealth.http://economix.blogs.nytimes.com/2009/08/10/the-mancession/ Millennials need to take responsiblity. I would encourage any man who is otherwise like a millennial (without a legal wife, without children) to do everything in their power to accumulate wealth and property, shield it from taxes, and enjoy a materialist existence on one's own term as greatly as possible. For a millennial to thrive in the current days is going to require working smart and definitely postponing gratification If you mean… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/16 08:32 PM |
| 8 | Women "Smelling" AlphaWhen I was younger, I read the exchange between Mr. and Mrs. Bennet to be the husband being irreparably dim and his wife much more cunning. Now I understand, he was just looking out for a brother and trolling his wife. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/16 08:23 PM |
| 2 | Dating in a Technological AgeIf you're not close to the Wall, feel free to hold on to a bit of that 'soul mate' magic. It's not a bad thing. Pull the parachute earlier than later is all I'm saying. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/16 08:18 PM |
| 2 | Dating in a Technological AgeMy ultimate goal is a stable happy loving rpw marriage. So you say I am scared to let go of my notion that my soul mate will swoop in and sweep me off my feet someday (I watched too many Disney movies as a child). I'm going to go ahead and assume you were born somewhere between 1985 and 1995 (closer to '95), and are also fortunate enough to have living memory of your mother's marriage and your grandmother's marriage (and some similarly aged aunts and grand aunts), and the kinds of men they marri… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/16 03:01 AM |
| 89 | Ireland: 16 year old boy gets statutory rape charge for having sex with a girl the game age as him.And people say there is no point of a MRM? There might be, to you. I'm just one person, and my job description isn't "Trying to push back against the tides of degeneracy to save the West from itself" The State and Academia and Corporate interests have what they want out of feminism and the sexual revolution. Why shouldn't I have what I want? http://www.amazon.com/Enjoy-Decline-Accepting-Living-United/dp/1480284769 Don't be so invested in the government and in society; the government doesn't love… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/16 02:42 AM |
| 56 | [Paternity test]: Lawyers advise doctors that it's ok to lie to the "father" for the good of the pat.. cough state."I don't want to pay for a kid that isn't mine" ^ irredeemably evil man "I want to physically terminate this child choose." ^ brave hero woman | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/16 02:36 AM |
| 5 | Dating in a Technological AgeI went on a double date last week with my best friend, her husband, and her husband's best friend (we'll call him Jeremy) and I had a great time. I've known Jeremy for a few years and he's always expressed interest in me but I was never in the right place to date. So, right about now he thinks "Oh boy! She's available!" Anyway, we had a great time last week and Jeremy has asked me on a second date. "Oh boy oh boy oh boy oh boy!" But he won't stop texting me. , because, I respond consistently bac… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/16 02:29 AM |
| 2 | Should you give up on a good relationship if you don't feel you truly love your partner?You're in a tough place, and I empathize; realistically though, if you don't cut out your divided loyalties right now, you're very unlikely to have your pick of age ranges next time you go looking. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/16 02:21 AM |
| 3 | Should you give up on a good relationship if you don't feel you truly love your partner?100 bucks says this 31 year old dating a 23 year old wouldn't dream of dating a guy over 40. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/03/16 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Hookup Culture Statistics are... SurprisingWomen's but not men's degree of depressive symptoms increased with number of previous sex partners within the last year (Welsh et al., 2006). r-strategists and K-strategists literally biologically different, news at 11. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/16 04:00 AM |
| 2 | Red Pill truths straight from the horses' mouth- Main PlateThis in turn got me thinking, can a man be the on the middle ground between BB and AF, with certain traits and characteristics of each but still being able to hold your head high and live a RP life? In fact, women used to be admonished from menarche onwards by their mothers, sisters, aunts and grandmother to find exactly this kind of man, not sleep around, and pursue material excellence and fidelity from a single man, instead of bifurcating their search. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/16 06:09 PM |
| 11 | Go figure... traditional roles leads to less divorce.Female virginity and marital stability: http://www.jstor.org/stable/3600089?seq=1#fndtn-page_scan_tab_contents http://www.jstor.org/stable/352992?seq=1#page_scan_tab_contents http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/17307304 Male vs Female mate preference around fertility and money: http://www.psy.cmu.edu/~rakison/BussSexDifferencesinHuman.pdf http://home.uchicago.edu/~ghitsch/Hitsch-Research/Guenter_Hitsch_files/Mate-Preferences.pdf You can keep going: it's not accidental or coincidental that almost … | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/03/16 05:48 PM |
| 15 | Okay can someone please explain to me what this sub is aboutI saw so many guys just flat out woman hating, so what the fuck? It's raining really hard outside. If a bunch of people come out from under the rain, they'll still be wet and miserable. It'd be silly to blame the warm, dry roof and room they're in for making them like that. Worse still to not let them dry off. I mean straight up saying how women are inferior, women are useless but besides for sex, ALL men's primary purpose to to have sex and this should be your primary goal in life. Like serious… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/16 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Use sunscreen to help delay the wall.This doesn't make any sense. Protein has nitrogen but also has carbon and hydrogen as part of the amino acid structure. Yes, proteins have a carboxyl terminus, but I'm drawing a distinction between high glycemic index and load foods and foods which are not. This is why I made sure to clarify: your carbs should come from having eaten things with fiber, lots of it; vegetables, whole grains (but mostly vegetables) I didn't mention healthy fats and oils, which people should also eat more of. Are you… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/03/16 10:03 PM |
| 19 | Trying to incorporate RPW into my life but I keep regressing to my insecure ways. How do I STFU and let my SO lead our relationship?If you were my sister, or something, I'd tell you this - this is coming from a place of imagined well-intentioned correction: Stop thinking his purpose in life is to please and validate you. That's not a male-female thing, or a relationship thing, that's a just a human thing. I'd tell a guy who chose an LTR with a woman the same thing. Also: Stop thinking you can determine what's strong enough to support you and protect you, by throwing shit at it. That's how you break it. SO is getting tired of… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/03/16 07:40 PM |
| 13 | Is #Slack Joining the SJW Bandwagon?The Tech bubble is going to pop. Real value will remain, and that real value will come from the use of technology (everything from front end design-pretties to the DBAs who care a lot about the difference between what Microsoft calls SQL and Mongo) to create new markets, bring new products to market, better advertise products, and deliver sales. That real value is going to come from people of value, whoever they are - - and the bubble's pop will not tolerate the non-economic priorities of 'diver… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/16 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Use sunscreen to help delay the wall.Plural of anecdote isn't data, but the data is also easy enough to google for (use google scholar) There's plenty of evidence to indicate that heritage vegetarian/health conscious vegetarians who choose the lifestyle tend to have reduced incidence of a lot of diseases and age better - - - but there are lots of vegetarians who simply load up on processed foods, too many carbs, too much sugar, and lack protein. That'll age you worse no matter what your source of (too little) protein is, meat or le… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/03/16 07:11 PM |
| 9 | Use sunscreen to help delay the wall.1) drink. water. Throughout the day, and with all your meals. Drink water and wait before eating. You're probably less hungry than you think. Chilled, room temperature, ice, whatever you like. 2) stop eating so many carbons and hydrogens, eat more nitrogens; more protein, fewer carbohydrates. your carbs should come from having eaten things with fiber, lots of it; vegetables, whole grains (but mostly vegetables) 3) If you can't name at least five different types of beans and vegetables and recipe… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/03/16 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Lena Dunham publicly shames magazine for Photoshopping her, gets proven wrong, starts the back-pedallingWhen you do, they do stuff like this... The burqa wasn't accidental. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/16 11:01 PM |
| 14 | Women are fighting to get paid 'period leave' off work to cope with period pain.Wait, but let's take this further. They'll get lonely. They'll want some dick every now and again. Legalize male prostitution! Their fathers will likely desire that some of those male prostitutes who've figured out how to make extra cash by playing women stick around. Maybe he can pay them to simply stick with his daughter? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/16 04:55 PM |
| 8 | What is an Alpha Male. The Ugly TruthThe ability to force the world into giving you want you want, and the discretion to not employ violence needlessly (or manipulation, for that matter), is what women desire. That's why they love the kinds of men who could absolutely go out and cheat on them, but yet won't cheat on them. (added bonus: it subtly validates her) Same thing with violence; if a man is capable of destroying anyone whom he pleases and yet is judicious, that's a panty-dropper. cue buzzfeed/pinterest style: "Pictures of ma… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/02/16 05:37 PM |
| 8 | Young Men are Denied Any Sense of Context in this Society. Alienation and Atomization Ensues. Let's Unify.As much as TRP bashes women, there is no doubt that a child needs a mother. I accept that this is true. I came from a traditional family with a married mother and father, lots of kids, father worked outside the home, mom worked inside the home, always had each other's back, always were united in providing and protecting and educating us. I know the value of a good wife, and a good mom. The overwhelming majority of women are not women my father would ever have associated with, my grandfather woul… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/16 08:28 PM |
| 26 | Young Men are Denied Any Sense of Context in this Society. Alienation and Atomization Ensues. Let's Unify.The ideal case is finding a woman whom I can ceremonially and socially wed, and not legally wed, who is RP to the core and understands that women and men are different and have different roles. Having biological children with such a woman the old fashioned way would be great. I don't think that's too likely, and her biological ownership of the kids could still mean a loss of custody even if she can't divorce rape me. Assuming I can't find a girl like that, I'm keeping the option open to simply h… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/16 11:07 PM |
| 4 | Escaping Nihilism: You have a purposeEver had a job you didn't like that much? | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/16 07:46 PM |
| 26 | Young Men are Denied Any Sense of Context in this Society. Alienation and Atomization Ensues. Let's Unify.This past month, I've put more money towards my egg/surrogate fund (I want to go the GS/ED route, and be gender selective) than my IRA. I'll work 'til I'm dead, I'm sure the State will see to that - but I'll gladly support my Sons on their journey to becoming Men. Personal wealth, land ownership, a comfortable retirement, entertainment and hobbies - - these are all goals of mine, but I have my own mission. My mission is my Sons; I don't have them yet, but I will, and I reserve all of my love and… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/16 07:43 PM |
| 4 | In defense of arranged marriagesI work with a lot of South Asian/East Asian people - born here, but from those cultures. Most of the time, it's not even about destroying the choice of partner in marriage, but about destroying the choice not to marry and stay married. This is a distinction which seems like a slight nuance, but it's actually everything - - - both boys and girls are raised with the expectation, that by a certain age, they will be married and will die married, too. They all seem to view marriage as the union of fa… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/02/16 07:25 PM |
| 2 | Don't believe the Tech Startup Hype; Play it SafeNo, I'm specifically including Uber as the kind of company that will be around for a long, long time | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/16 07:20 PM |
| 5 | I feel like I'm wasting my youth in college1) If you're not married, it's not a relationship around which you can actually plan this out. An engagement is, a marriage is - - a dating relationship where each partner can walk is not something you can plan to lead to children unless that's both of yours' plans. 2) Biology doesn't care about the post-Sexual Revolution World of the last 60 years. Your fertility is peak right now. It will start to decline in a few years, and remain viable until around 30, where it starts rapidly declining. Aft… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/02/16 12:22 AM |
| 6 | A thought I had about women in the workplaceI don't imply that the majority of society is anything but corrupt. Men who are men, and women who are women are rare - - and you'll know them when you meet them. Wonderful people. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/16 12:12 AM |
| 12 | Don't believe the Tech Startup Hype; Play it SafeThe startup bubble will die - just like the dotcom bubble Internet technologies won't. Imagine someone during the midst of the dotcom bust telling everyone that the job sectors of everything from LAMP stack development to online vendors' DBAs to IT professionals were dead and never to return. There's a massive amount of frothiness in VC capital that is going to subside and subside fast, and a lot of places that hire on runway money and which are pre-revenue and have no business plan are going to… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/16 12:10 AM |
| 20 | A thought I had about women in the workplaceJ.R.R. Tolkien: "You may meet in life (as in literature1) women who are flighty, or even plain wanton — I don't refer to mere flirtatiousness, the sparring practice for the real combat, but to women who are too silly to take even love seriously, or are actually so depraved as to enjoy 'conquests', or even enjoy the giving of pain – but these are abnormalities, even though false teaching, bad upbringing, and corrupt fashions may encourage them. Much though modern conditions have changed feminine … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/16 04:25 PM |
| 6 | Why complaining is literally killing youhttp://www.nytimes.com/2008/09/11/fashion/11talk.html?_r=0 For boys, such intense emotional conversations, which tend to occur less often, did not contribute to heightened anxiety or depressive moods, according to research by Amanda J. Rose, an assistant professor of psychological sciences at the University of Missouri, Columbia. When girls are talking about these problems, it probably feels good to get that level of support and validation,” said Dr. Rose, whose latest study on co-rumination was… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/02/16 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Read and live TRP, but keep a level head. Don't deny your male hamster.As a girl, thinking "Am I good enough to ask him out" just feels.. foreign and wrong. It's very uncomfortable. Wow. Right, but now put it back to the native impulse of a woman: "Is this guy what I want?" Much more natural! This is the basis of PUA's encouraging men to cultivate an air of mystery about them, because it inspires the female need to discern and discriminate and evaluate, and why TRP tells men to abjure being familiar and boring (or at least not novel) to women; it's exactly the wron… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/16 02:19 AM |
| 10 | [FR] On Yoga, Semi-sobriety, and Shutting UpBut the best thing of all - the thing that has made yoga the most valuable thing I could have done for myself - is the ability to shut up. Yoga - and honestly, I'm not sure of how this happened, maybe I learned this on my own and am falsely attributing it to yoga because it happened around the same time as all the other positive aspects - has helped me truly look at the stupid hamster in my mind, question the reasons that little asshole is running himself into oblivion, and realize those are rea… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/02/16 02:15 AM |
| 3 | The fundamental reason why women love RP behaviour but hate TRPBecause the worst thing that can happen to a woman is that she discovers that she has given her pussy to an "unfit" male (i.e. weakling/loser), thus if she suspects that her Alpha Stud Guy started out "unfit" might he not secretly really be unfit? This is also why so many women are completely on-board with regretting sex = having been raped. "Uh oh, not the Alpha Bucks I thought he was - - - RAPE!" For their hindbrain, this is exactly what happened. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/16 02:09 AM |
| 6 | Advice on how to flirt as a 19 year old girl.I get so nervous and shy when I see him that I often just ignore him! When we do talk, I smile a lot and am friendly Talk to him even when you are nervous - push through it and remember you have worth Don't even be afraid at how you might seem nervous to talk to him, don't fight feeling nervous, and just keep trying to be sweet and pleasant while you are nervous. Playful, shy, giggly femininity brings out masculinity in men like nothing else. I think he finds me attractive- I sometimes catch him… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/02/16 09:28 PM |
| 2 | [FR] How to tell if she wants attention or if she wants the D: the story of my neighborIf you’re not sure of her intentions, maintain plausible deniability for both of you. Literally the entire premise of 'Netflix and Chill' | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/16 09:16 PM |
| 14 | Supporting him through residencyFood (ready, tasty to delicious, any time) Bed, Bath (fresh sheets, covers, towels, bathmat, clean counter, new soap, razors) Laundry (clothes ironed, folded, put away and put out) Sex (even if you don't feel 100%, to make him feel desirable, to give him an outlet) That's task stuff. As for emotional and conversational stuff, be his "soft place to land". The world is going to be shitting on him constantly when he steps out the door or his pager goes off. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/02/16 01:15 AM |
| 41 | My Father See's The Light, Considers Ending Marriage (FR)Why can't women do a better job of explaining what they want to men? Why doesn't a baby girl, aged 6 tell her Daddy "I am scared and I want to know that you can differentiate real danger and false danger because I am too weak to handle real danger and you have finite resources of dealing with danger for me" ? She doesn't realize what's she's doing, but she's evolved an instinct to scream at the sight of bug when she's not that afraid, so that her father can smirk and say "Oh, the grasshopper is … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/16 01:06 AM |
| 92 | Read and live TRP, but keep a level head. Don't deny your male hamster.No idea why this is the case, but would love to hear theories Women who have inherent value face loss insecurity - they have inherent value that has to be perpetuated; because it is supported materially by the Father, by the Husband, because it is propagated through her Sons, and so she faces extreme loss insecurity over the role of Men in her life. She "loses" her virginity, after all. This is why unhealthy women so often become nags and control freaks, trying to bully and shame and essentially… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/16 06:00 AM |
| 19 | "she felt that it was okay to omit the one that she had slept with because she considered it a mistake" [X-post]Because women have a means of production in between their legs, which they elect to use in order to attain the best material resources for (in every sense) because we labor has no other real choice if we don't want to suffer alienation. /half joking Materialist readings of the world is one thing I'll give Marx. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/16 05:00 PM |
| 106 | "she felt that it was okay to omit the one that she had slept with because she considered it a mistake" [X-post]When the market is saturated with rental-grade used products, lease. Don't buy | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/16 04:50 PM |
| 45 | From a skinny kid to a muscular men - My 2 years natural body transformationHey, if you don't mind the possibility of doxxing and what some hamplanet in HR might try doing, then all the best wishes to you. If you'd like to conceal your thoughts from the vast majority of feminized society around you while pushing forward.... | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/16 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Bill Burr made a bad choice...It's a cumulative percentage. Take 100 couples. At year 50, 40% of those 100 couples will have divorced at some point in the prior half century. 20% will have divorced by year 10. Marriage is possibly the dumbest bet any thinking man could make. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/16 01:28 PM |
| 35 | From a skinny kid to a muscular men - My 2 years natural body transformation1) Excellent gains, keep it up 2) Great diet advice 3) Love your attitude 4) Maybe don't link to something that has your real name, stills and videos of your face and appearance. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/16 01:19 PM |
| 9 | "I want a man with balls" An articlePretty much saying men... please be men! An important thing for women, particularly RP women, to keep in mind, is that the last 50 years have been an ever increasing set of norms which punish men for being men. It wasn't as bad in the 1970s, but it was there. It's just blatantly obvious in 2016, but it's not new. Ultimately, one of the chief benefits of both men adopting RP ways and women adopting RPW ways is that it isn't just a reclamation of masculinity, a reclamation of femininity - - - masc… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/02/16 01:16 PM |
| 88 | Bill Burr made a bad choice...Let's explore What happens when you "Die Alone", as a man? What does dying alone as a man - - a man who never marries, never has children - - mean? Here's what happens in the Blue Pill fantasy land: You gracefully age, requiring no medical care or attention from your children who are all supportive and always available to see you and whom your deteriorating health causes little stress because your still elegantly beautiful wife and you raised them so well. She dotes over you in your failing heal… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/16 09:13 AM |
| 2 | Ample research confirms redpill truthsshe should be responsible for her reproductive health She should, but women who are plates are overgrown children. The best case would be their bodies staying Age-Of-Consent years old forever, because that's where their head is at. The PPACA subsidizing birth control is the Federal fucking government recognizing even women past 26 can't be responsible for their own reproductive health. Be careful, is all I'm saying. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/16 10:40 PM |
| 44 | Women don't want to win - they just want to be conquered and to think they put up a fight.Corollary: women want to be that which is won. Almost all women have the attitude that they are the prize, and that's why they expect effortless flawless victory. The trophy wants to be grasped and put on a shelf so goddamn hard - - but only by winners. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/16 10:37 PM |
| 27 | Sluts Are Great For a TRP Man.Horses don't lay eggs. Chickens can't pull plows. Sluts have a purpose, and so long as they are only used for that purpose, there's no issue - - they fulfill it well. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/16 06:49 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Feel nothingWhat are your long term goals? What are your short term goals that those require? What are your shorter term goals? Last night I turned 41. So 42 is one year away. What are your objectives for tomorrow (Monday)? And Tuesday? What stuff do you have to do that has no definite time-frame on it, but needs to be done eventually? Just the laundry? How about six months from now; what needs to be done that isn't part of your routine? What about by when you're 42? What about by when you're 50? ETC. If yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/16 01:54 AM |
| 28 | [FR] Feel nothingYou obtained women after improving yourself, but obtaining women was still your goal and how you validate yourself. You slayed the dragon, you became King. Now you're depressed again because you have no goals. Get some. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/16 07:20 PM |
| 4 | The sexual market place - The last major obstacle for minorities, you can either cry or pave the way!Better performance in the SMV always comes from having a higher SMV. There is no answer that will not be 'build up your SMV'. There will have to be different brandings on alpha for men who can't occupy traditionally white alpha brands; Chad Thundercock-esque bros in college, Captains of Industry, Masters of the Universe in finance, 'country' boys, etc. Those aren't accessible to minorities. But they're all typified by high SMV, and different optimizations and methods of physique, wealth, emotion… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/16 05:51 PM |
| 47 | Women Never Really (Need To) Change.Never take a chance on a girl who doesn't have or never has had a good relationship with her father, her male partners, etc. Just like staying away from single mothers, be wary of girls with Daddy Issues (they're almost uniformly fuck and chuck territory). There are exceptions; maybe her father died, but she had a great relationship with him and was raised traditionally and her father married a damn good woman who raised her with her extended family. Maybe her father remarried, but loves his chi… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/16 05:46 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Don't wait for approval - Escalate, Escalate, Escalate"No, no, it's just an arbitrary shape! No beautiful virgin princess bride of mine would ever have sex with multiple men before me! There's no way women could have evolved to be venal! They're wonderful and no man has ever raised another's son!" - BPers everywhere | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/16 03:48 AM |
| 8 | "You can let go with me CQ" or how to remind me to STFUBetter to get it now than later. Women can turn into control freaks/nags for the same reason men can turn into ambitious-less schlubs. If a woman has deep loss insecurity, they'll try to control everyone and everything and any kind of disorder or suggestion of deprivation of their wants becomes too much to handle. When they're healthy, they should be willing to defer and trust and indeed 'let go'. In men, it's attainment insecurity, and the anxiety there manifests as an unwillingness to do or tr… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/02/16 07:44 PM |
| 20 | Never, ever be a hero, and disassociate yourself from the party life at all costs.AWALT means that all women are like 'that'. There's no inherent impulse towards monogamy in women, only self interest. If properly guided and policed by the father, then by the husband, women can be behaving monogamously, but they are themselves not monogamous. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/16 07:32 PM |
| 10 | Denying the importance of money is male rationalizingHow do you avoid instantly becoming "boyfriend/husband" material in the women's eyes if they realize you make really good money? Require sex, and if they don't put out, next. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/16 07:29 PM |
| 76 | FR - "I accidentally slept with a guy"That's why it's better for them to have those illusions killed earlier rather than later. Like jumping into a pool instead of tortuously dipping into cold water slowly. I'm convinced most "beta"-ness is simply just a lack of respect for themselves and over respect for women. I believe most betas should simply fuck prostitutes and go to strip clubs if they can't find good clean escorts - anything to understand that women, even good looking, nice seeming women, put a price on their pussy and most … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/16 04:15 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Don't wait for approval - Escalate, Escalate, EscalateI'm not claiming it's a perfect seal, that it cannot persist after sex, that all women have them to begin with, or that it's a perfect marker of virginity. I'm just pointing out that it has an evolutionary function, one which is conserved across mammals, because a male's paternity is an inference while maternity is an anatomical fact. Evolutionary pressures don't favor the retention of useless features, not across species, and certainly not so proximally to the actual reproductive function. What… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/16 04:08 PM |
| 20 | [FR] Don't wait for approval - Escalate, Escalate, EscalateFor a girl to have sex the first time, she has to have her hymen perforated. For a woman to give birth, she has to endure labor pains. Female orgasm aids, but is not required for, pregnancy like male orgasm. "But I'm sure that's all coincidental and women's comfort should always be the most important thing outside of all other concerns for a man!" - - BP thinkers everywhere | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/16 08:48 PM |
| 14 | Thoughts and Statistics About the Young American MaleThe Sexual Revolution and Work Revolution for women were founded on the birth control pill. Unless there was a hard chemical change to what their pregnancy reality was, condoms alone couldn't have kept up workforce changes after WW2, to the point that sexual 'liberation' was viable. Imagine if there were no birth control pills, just for a moment: Keep condoms, keep alimony laws, keep child support laws, etc. Even keep no fault divorce. Technology is what better fulfills or separates us from our … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/16 05:04 AM |
| 4 | We're being playedYou mean you haven't bought your Super-Alpha-T-Shirt, yet? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/16 03:08 AM |
| 9 | When is it not One-Itis?The reason it's "one-itis", is to draw an analogy with various pathologies of inflammation that are characterized by inflammation: arthritis bronchitis sinusitis, etc. The point of calling it "one-itis" is to point out that it's an affliction that a man is suffering - - - just as not every inflammation is desirable though it is a natural response with a purpose, not every feeling of emotional attachment to a woman is desirable even though there's a biological basis for it. Suppose for a moment i… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/16 02:21 AM |
| 14 | Oneitis...a powerful force that you need to guard against.Acted "like" a couple? Did you fuck? Hey where do you think all the husbands for sexless marriages come from? | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/16 04:18 PM |
| 18 | Ohlala, An Uber For Escorts, Launches Its ‘Paid Dating’ Service In NYCYes; escorts are simply exchanging money for time they spend with you - in a very real sense, they're better than a lot of girls who bring nothing but a tight body, nice face, and warm holes to the table. I'm not kidding, the dollars and time spent to pussy enjoyed conversion (which you should evaluate in terms of a frustration to pussy ratio) is much cheaper and faster for many escorts than plenty of entitled American princesses, especially in new york Even if they advertise their naked bodies … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/16 12:56 AM |
| 6 | [LTR] Women would rather share alpha than be with a faithful loserSure, it absolutely can. If someone's a horseback rider or gymnast, it can, and if they've only had sex with men who have very small penises/aren't forceful, an incompletely perforated hymen or a hymen that wasn't large as a membrane to begin with can persist. But this is much like any other anatomical feature; they're imperfect biological structures coded for in our DNA and they exist along a spectrum. What's important is their biological function and persistence against evolutionary pressures … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/16 11:23 PM |
| 71 | The War Brides of EuropeFurthermore, until men en masse start prioritizing themselves and requiring women to prove themselves worthy of access to: 1) Genetic 2) Financial 3) Emotional resources, women will never behave. Alpha Fucks - Beta Bucks isn't really so dualistic as it is two edge cases of a singular basic female paradigm: Extract From Men That's it. That's what women do; they extract from men, they take from men, they are invested into by men, etc. Men extract from the world, women extract from men. Men are the… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/16 09:57 PM |
| 7 | [LTR] Women would rather share alpha than be with a faithful loserAn old professor of mine put it thus, (I paraphrase): 'There's no male hymen, and the female's hymen has persisted in the anatomy while there have been changes in her hair distribution, color, skin tone, breast size, spinal curvature, and pelvic shape.' Reliably reversible male vasectomies and cheaper IVF + surrogate eggs. These cannot come soon enough. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/16 06:43 PM |
| 6 | Perfect example of post wall woman changing the script to suit fem centric realityYeah, goes like this: Women aren't responsible for companies doing badly as CEOs Women aren't responsible for lower productivity as workers Women aren't responsible for HR ineptitude (HR's all women!) ETC. Keep finding problems where women are, and notice what society and the female imperative and the elite inadvertently tell you: Women aren't responsible. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/16 04:26 PM |
| 3 | [LTR] Women would rather share alpha than be with a faithful loserThe real question here is why you're dabbling in other women when you're in a LTR Because mistresses are fun, and LTRs grow older faster than most men's appetite for young women wanes. Why do you go to restaurants when you have a kitchen? | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/16 04:21 PM |
| 6 | Woman gets complemented, complains on facebook, goes viral.Oh my god, the horror she suffered! And in England.... This woman has almost certainly made up her story, which is completely on the nose, in order to win sympathy and attention for her incredibly conveniently related non-profit that she's a founder of and which probably isn't doing so hot. edit: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/She%27s_the_First#Finances She's the First uses simple fundraising ideas to add up to larger sums. They have organized fundraisers like bake sales and poker nights. In its … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/16 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Five Reasons to Make Him Wait For SexI flip flop on whether or not I will encourage my (future unborn) daughters to wait until marriage/engagement or to instead wait until a trustworthy commitment. Look at what the change of the Sexual Revolution and Pill did to marriage and dating and partner count and the fertility rate. It shouldn't be too much of a choice, but who knows what will happen in a few decades. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/02/16 08:55 PM |
| 4 | CLOSURE UPDATE: UPDATE: Am I making a mountain out of a molehill and overreacting to my bf helping out his mentally unstable ex?Well, it depends why they won't commit. Any woman who wants my commitment has to prove she's worth committing to - that can happen even without any sex on her part (in fact, I'd suspect it would have to at this point.) But lots of women covert contract themselves into unhappiness with men who have a lot of value in the sexual market place and who may occasionally be men who would be good relationship material - - but have no plans to commit. By this I mean, sex gets used to audition for girlfrie… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/02/16 08:51 PM |
| 2 | Five Reasons to Make Him Wait For Sexvirgins waiting for sex was for when girls married at 16, not 26. everything we do now is out of whack That age is clustered around 20 more so than 15 from some historical reading I've done, and it also seems to be different in Anglo nations versus other ones (Anglo being important; Irish and Italians seem to have had even stricter purity policing in social rituals because of their Catholicism, and South and East Asia even more so - to the extent their STD profile is still completely different, … | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/02/16 05:17 PM |
| 4 | CLOSURE UPDATE: UPDATE: Am I making a mountain out of a molehill and overreacting to my bf helping out his mentally unstable ex?Staying firm in the breakup has absolutely established me among our friends and mutual friends as a girl who will not be messed around with. I am hoping that continuing to be a good RPW and keeping my feminine demeanor will help me to avoid the "strong, independent, entitled" reputation and more just the "won't take sh!t" reputation. As it turns out, a woman who will break off a relationship with a low quality guy is one that gets the attention of high quality men who are wary of partners who on… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/02/16 05:05 PM |
| 12 | [LTR]When you think you cannot live without her anymore, you have to leave her.Hey man, I agree, but consider editing the massive spoilers out of your comment! | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/16 01:42 AM |
| 2 | As standards erode, even Barbie gets fatI don't know where this fucking nonsense idea that they're "bad for you" came from. That's not what I'm saying. TRP has to get the fuck away from this "Science is bad because its hard and I don't understand it" shit. I .... have a science degree with honors in chemistry. I was just pointing out the ease of preparing processed foods in great quantity with home appliances being something that's lead to overconsumption in analogy with other instances of 'overdoing' our solutions to basic biological… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/16 11:28 PM |
| 4 | [Video] The 14 Red Flags of Dating (for men) and a Cautionary Video for Women!Harumph https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6lPQe39Oj2g#t=5m34s The 1950's PSA this modern one makes allusions to is much cooler. So many 'Gollys' and 'gees' and all that; they're so earnest and simple. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/01/16 10:57 PM |
| 18 | [LTR]When you think you cannot live without her anymore, you have to leave her.Central premise of the movie Heat Spoiler Alert: The movie resolves different scenes and suplots (and the main one) based on whether this advice is heeded or not. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/16 08:40 PM |
| 27 | Trolls, concern trolls, and the way we weed you out.Also because even if you didn't read it, there was a very helpful, bolded sentence: The Red Pill is a tool box without specific purpose. YOUR GOALS are the purpose, and you use tools to fulfill it. If context clues and reading single sentences are beyond someone....hoo-boy. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/16 06:16 PM |
| 4 | TRP is a place for losersBut imagine if you didn't know about your flaws, and didn't know what it took to change? It doesn't matter when someone stops being abused. The important thing is that they break out from it. What would be better? A lifetime of servility and enslavement and comfort at the heels of a master? Or struggle and pain and freedom? This is what distinguishes men from children - - we're willing to accept the pain that agency brings us. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/16 04:30 PM |
| 4 | As standards erode, even Barbie gets fatI agree, it's a discipline. The difference is, today it's a discipline. Back then it was simply normal eating. If they had to put as much effort into what they ate as we do today, we'd have more fatties back then too. I think many social problems simply come from technological excess. As we've "solved" more and more of our evolutionary "problems", we've paid the price. Agriculture and husbandry the deliberate curation of the world in order to have an easier time than hunter-gatherers, isn't a ba… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/16 04:26 PM |
| 48 | As standards erode, even Barbie gets fathttp://www.amazon.com/Enjoy-Decline-Accepting-Living-United/dp/1480284769 ^ Only half joking. Spin plates, look into surrogacy and vasectomies, don't just build your SMV, build up your financial assets - and take steps to protect them. I'd say be prepared to cultivate abundance about more than just pussy: Don't be so invested in your nation. The government doesn't love you. Society doesn't love you. Look at how (ugly + jobless) men are treated in a nation; that will tell you how conditional the … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/16 03:25 AM |
| 99 | As standards erode, even Barbie gets fatIf this 'big girl' stuff becomes the norm Fatties are the norm. Men and women have just been giving up en masse in the West Complacency, Laziness, Sloth - - whatever you want to ascribe it to, degeneracy runs rampant. You can't save the world; you simply can't. You're just one person. The sluts will be sluts, fat women are more and more accepted, women become less and less feminine, a man is lucky now to have a lover with less than 10 prior dicks in her, marriage is firmly dead and taxes will on… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/16 03:13 AM |
| 12 | [FR] Abundance after LTR’s – exists for older guys too.It's hilarious, because a lot of them seem to employ precisely the mating strategy they should've used when their SMV was highest (Age of Consent - About 25); holding out on sex, promising sex, deferring, looking for guys with their shit together, optimizing for a single man who combines Alpha Fucks and Beta Bucks into a single package, etc. Instead you get some 30 year old projects manager with a partner count higher than the years she's been on this planet telling some unfortunate SOB over a d… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/16 03:10 AM |
| 26 | Divorce the Government: Guide to Financial IndependenceAnything can be "viable". The fact of the matter is, unless this woman is also as Christian as you are, potentially even more so, and understands the role of a wife and mother in the way Abrahamic religion prescribes, she's still a woman living in a culture with laws and norms that incentivize cheating, incentivize divorce, incentivize taking your kids (that can happen without a divorce and alimony; child support is basically just money for her), etc. Unless you know what you're 'getting into', … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/16 06:34 PM |
| 60 | Divorce the Government: Guide to Financial IndependenceSurrogacy and hookers. Reserve all your love for your sons. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/16 06:31 PM |
| 48 | Man takes his daughter's phone away in an act of parenting - Estranged wife remarried to a cop has police department arrest him in an act of ultimate cuckoldry.Also if he gave the phone back to the ex-wife who wants to bet daughter dearest would have it back in about 5 minutes. I'm amazed at how many people have decided that this cunt of a woman having bought their shared daughter a phone with her money means she has total rights to employing armed agents of the State to retrieve her property all for the sake of subverting his authority as the daughter's Father. Unbelievable how deeply the programming runs. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/16 10:33 PM |
| 4 | Feminism's Role in the Global Power StrategyI am fully aware that there are elements of Jewry which are wholly self interested and poisonous to all whom they do not view as Chosen. I am not convinced that this is the full totality of the people, or that there can be no allies in virile struggle among them, and I reject this could be inherent to any Semitic character that transcends ideology. Notions are held in the head, not the genes. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/16 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Feminism's Role in the Global Power StrategyIt's not all Jews. If you get to know them, there are actual people for whom whether or not you are a Levi or a Cohen matters in the hierarchy. The existing framework of Judaism and Jewish solidarity is simply being used, nor is it the only one. Whether or not you were Sicilian and had a complete family lineage wasn't a predictor of you being a criminal - but organized crime in the US whose doers were Sicilian greatly endeavored to use such deep existing family ties to access and enforce extra-l… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/16 05:05 PM |
| 7 | Don't be so afraid of us/u/_wingnut_ still scares the shit out of me (I love her) Same dynamic as redpillschool on TRP. It's basically like having a grandparent. Intimidating if you're doing something wrong (and they have pretty clarified ideas about the matter) | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/16 04:02 PM |
| 9 | Feminism's Role in the Global Power StrategyIt is a cabal. Look at the language used by those who gather in Davos about the migrants and now "refugees". Look at the bien pensant friends of theirs in the media writing about Latin American dangers (hinting about inherited moral responsibility for America) and why they're all fleeing into the US. Nigh identical to the sob stories for the "Syrians" the elites want reproducing and building a new tax base (but not to own lots of land per family!) In Europe. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/16 03:52 PM |
| 8 | Feminism's Role in the Global Power StrategyMarriage 1.0 let the elite harness male doership by linking it to the only socially sanctioned way to own property and have offspring (really own the result of sex) and let each man build his own legacy and be his own king - to produce wealth for the "common" society. The new decision in the post-Sexual Revolution is that feminism/critical theory prescriptions of social order can be maintained to have twice as much income! Twice as much a tax base! It's not working because it means vastly reduce… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/16 03:50 PM |
| 12 | Even when you lose 10 times, don't stop trying.A mentor friend of mine met Arnold in person (well before he was governor of California; in his heyday) - - everything about his warmth and personal desire to encourage excellence held true even then. He was struggling with a business he had started at the time, and working at a hotel Arnold was staying at: "Every time I lift a weight, and I don't have the body I want, I have failed. I fail thousands of times, and then I succeed. Don't quit." | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/16 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Don't let external ideas poison your relationship's harmonySome women think they are doing you a service by offering "advice" or "girl days" away from your SO, but often times, they're just uncomfortable with the level of comfort or harmony you have in your relationship because it makes THEM uncomfortable. I see it even now. My friends kept "cautioning" me be certain about my relationship before jumping in, given his age and things. Men do this too - on both ends of the spectrum. "Don't leave her! Your girlfriend loves you, she's only human. She made a … | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/01/16 02:21 PM |
| 5 | CorporateLand: Restaurant Lockdown for Sales GuysSales isn't for everyone - - but every industry relies on sales. Every. Industry. If what is being done involves a choice to buy or not buy, and is within a market, the work relies on sales. Most industries where you see "real careers" outside of sales are ones in which the work being done demands such an investment of time outside of actually selling the result of the work that some people just aren't doing sales. The farmer who takes his own produce to market is an example of sales and labor a… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/16 02:17 PM |
| 103 | In a relationship? Keylog the bitch and meet your girl. It won't be pretty.There are no unicorns, but not every woman is the worst of all women. All women simply have the same tendencies. Those come from their biology. Testing men, having standards for men, being a little choosy about men, is a result of evolution favoring the survival and reproduction of those females who set high bars for reproductive access to high quality men. It's a burden they bear, they're K not r in the reproductive paradigm. Expressed poorly and unpoliced, healthy discrimination and discerning… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/16 05:26 AM |
| 0 | Poor communicator trying to come back from repeat conflict avoidanceI haven't taken any steps yet. I plan to soon, which is why I'm writing here. It doesn't matter what the problem is. Take steps now Start now. It doesn't have to be snatching someone from what they're doing, sitting them down, and having the marriage and baby talk. But it should involve you figuring out your priorities. I am also very afraid of the answers I will get and whether I will be prepared to respond to them in a way I won't regret later. You can either choose to figure out what you want… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/01/16 05:41 PM |
| 8 | Coffee shop situation yesterday! What should I have done as a single RPW? Mildly silly questionYou ever read The Adventures of Tom Sawyer ? Tom Sawyer is late to a school day in one vignette, and his school master inquires about his absence. He boasts/confesses that he's been talking with a layabout called Huckleberry Finn. The schoolmaster thrashes him in front of the class, and makes him go sit with the girls to humiliate him. The titter that rippled around the room appeared to abash the boy, but in reality that result was caused rather more by his worshipful awe of his unknown idol and… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/01/16 04:18 AM |
| 1 | Whether to next or tryPost it in askTRP, follow the link in the sidebar. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/01/16 08:38 PM |
| 12 | Small town dynamics: "all valuable men are taken."I sense high SMV girls judging me and some other guys who share my habits. They say we'll end up alone because no woman will want us. That's because high SMV girls who are in a small town and not in the panoply of dicks and social status of a city might be wary of pump-and-dumps. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/16 05:14 PM |
| 2 | Sexual Reality and How We Dismiss ItIs your Sunday so filled full that you can't take the time to read the whole thing? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/16 04:27 PM |
| 9 | Sexual Reality and How We Dismiss ItBut, as I discussed earlier, when people are asked what sex is for, they don't say anything about it being a test of adequacy or a performance. They say that sex is for procreation, release, or the expression of love and closeness. Yet these are the same people who, when they are not being asked what sex is for, will unapologetically speak of sexual prowess This to me is a crucial passage, but the author is missing something. of course, Sex-As-Test is still about procreation. Whether you reprodu… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/16 03:02 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Everyone starts somewhere.We had banter about the kind of statistical analysis that lets Amazon send you advertisements for diapers and cribs before you know you're pregnant, just by tracking your browsing habits and correlating data. Pro-tip Don't put all your eggs in one basket. Plenty of girls out there who can keep up in a conversation about data science. There's a caveman 40,000 years ago telling his friends about how this girl from another clan actually got how difficult it is to keep leather stretched on a drying … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/16 08:08 PM |
| 1 | An Empty Victory for a man fighting a court battle against a feminist false-accuser. [The first Twitter court case]It's this kind of 'atheism' about the State-God of progressives that they sacrifice to in their temples of legislature and offer catechism on in their Sunday schools of the university and rave about in the adhan of news media that I want to encourage. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/16 05:29 PM |
| 16 | Female dating advisor shares why women can't find a Good Guy.I used to baby-sit my little primary school aged cousins (because for some reason, none of their female relatives who were older than me, who were single, and who didn't have full time employment, could be bothered to do so): This woman talks like how eight year olds talk. It's completely degenerate. Even if it's employed as part of a larger rhetorical style -- what self respecting adult would do that? What kind of audience responds to it? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/16 05:00 PM |
| 42 | Female dating advisor shares why women can't find a Good Guy.Don't be fooled by the personality. YouTube channels that do well all have extreme over the top personalities because it sells. This new day and age is all about the cult of personality. Right, but it's still clearly intellectual and social degeneracy. She, and other people, speaking exactly how eight year olds speak, as grownups who can vote, is degeneracy. It's psychological atavism, is what it is. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/16 04:57 PM |
| 2 | Men vs. Women when it comes to having a "racial preference".Plenty of women have sex out side of the racial boundaries they set for long term commitment; it's just AF - BB I'm not saying that literally every single white girl is getting railed by mandingoes in college and then trying to find a milquetoast white boy to get married to when she graduates. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/16 11:20 PM |
| 0 | Men vs. Women when it comes to having a "racial preference".Racial preference is just where hypergamy becomes salient because of the visible difference in outcome (race is noticeable) and the obvious social mantra of equality that it undermines (differential racial success is supposed to be singularly evil). It's really just the same phenomenon of women attempting to use truly coercive structures (like the State enforcing welfare payments/alimony/child support to single moms on top of subsidizing abortion indirectly and birth control directly) or sociall… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/16 10:06 PM |
| 11 | Carousel rider in approaching the wall makes a relationships post complaining about her inability to find a decent guy. Apparently men are the problem.What would the RP advice be for this person in this case? Nothing. There's no point pumping medicine into a corpse. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/16 04:25 PM |
| 2 | "...Because Men Have No Balls"It not only needs to rupture the family unit, it needs to break the elite's ability to build any more tax farms - what they really see families as and why they want to import migrants in Europe and the US. The Davos types are shit scared of Trump for this reason. Men need to stop producing wealth except for themselves, and hoard as much of their money as they legally can. Once men do this, once they hold out on women unless women behave, the need of women to be provided for and to be protected t… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/16 01:53 PM |
| 16 | Ugly girls are not nice.I believe it's the same reason girls like tall guys and short girls really like tall guys. If you're deficient, you damn well better get the best genes you can for your offspring. They know they will pass on inferior genes without recombining with a high quality mate. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/16 10:42 PM |
| 19 | "...Because Men Have No Balls"The marriage rate needs to get to zero, or severely close to it. Almost no sluts getting (chosen, non court ordered) commitment of any kind, few women getting more than a months-few years long LTR. It has to happen, for the same reason dogs have to be put in a kennel when they've misbehaved. A generation of spinsters, a generation of pumped and dumped to become spinsters, and intense male competition for the third cohort of young women from men across the whole spectrum of age and wealth; to the… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/16 10:40 PM |
| 12 | "LTR RP men gaming other women: What is the RPW standpoint?"This is why both TRP and RPW advises its respective users to 'protect' their highest assets. For men, that means holding off on exclusivity until the woman proves to be worthy of that commitment. For women, that means holding off on sex until exclusivity/commitment has been established. It's called the 'war of the sexes' for a reason. Both sides want certain things, and the goals are often at odds with each other. It astounds me how almost all cultures came to develop rituals solving these compl… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/01/16 06:15 PM |
| 2 | What is your approach with men you find desirable but have had significant amount of sexual partners 40+?I've noticed this crops on on TRP (when it should be in askTRP...) a lot. Many people seem to want their priorities and goals defined for them. I'm not sure how they can actually be helped out. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/01/16 03:56 PM |
| 5 | What is your approach with men you find desirable but have had significant amount of sexual partners 40+?Aka yourself what you want. Do you want a marriage? A five year relationship that ends? A longer than six month relationship .... with no definite end point that just goes somewhere, but without any initial mutually agreed upon timeline because it seems like asking about commitment upfront will scare off a guy you might be able to persuade that you're worth committing to if only he sees how wonderful you are? You can go for the covert contract if you like, but about 40+ other women did, too. Fig… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/01/16 12:31 PM |
| 7 | Never Apologize, Never ExplainYour point is well-taken, however, to be clear, I did limit the discussion in the initial discussion to when one finds oneself under siege by SJWs. Well taken as well! Bringing it back to Rutledge, by apologizing, etc., he comes off as a craven dick, whereas if he stuck to his guns, he'd have lost his business--he did anyway--but there would be individuals, including women, who would have respected him for standing on principle. Absolutely, absolutely. Consider the case of Chik-fil-A! http://www… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/16 10:25 PM |
| 58 | Never Apologize, Never ExplainIn case younger (highschool-20s) TRPers think this is license to be a dickhead; not really. Living assertively isn't being an asshole (I mean, that can be fun, but your default condition shouldn't be "unpleasant" - - even if being the loudest chimp in the room works from time to time) Fundamentally, to apologize is to do two things: 1) Accept another's evaluation of the world 2) Submit to being their inferior in it This doesn't rule out all apologies, especially if you're actually wrong. If you'… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/16 09:58 PM |
| 13 | Intro and please teach me how to be a morning person!Since he leaves early to go to work in the morning, this means we often have minimal interaction in the morning. And I'm embarrassed to admit how often I text him an hour or so later (once the coffee has kicked in) to apologize for being grouchy. You have to go to sleep earlier, sleep better, and wake up with him. Adjust to his sleep schedule. Get some melatonin, limit artificial light (particularly displays on phones, computers, etc.) to no later than 30 minutes before bedtime. Same with any br… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/01/16 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Women are too intimidated to look me in the eyesYou sure about that? Have you given thought to them not making eye contact with people they aren't specifically interacting with, and that they don't interact with people unless there's a reason for it? This is a problem for me because I take eye contact as a necessary IOI before I choose to invest further interest. Sounds like it really is your problem without any other information. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/01/16 06:34 PM |
| 1 | "Guys we fucked, the anti slut-shaming podcast"if i happen to have a daughter in the future Let other men have daughters for you to enjoy, and for your sons to enjoy. Don't have children unless they are sons. Don't have children unless you're willing to risk your own life for the sake of marriage (possibly, you can arrange to have a surrogate child; in that case, select for the male sex). | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/16 06:19 PM |
| 3 | Nagging boyfriendWhat did I do wrong that was worthy of a ban? I'm not a mod, and I don't think you're banned. Your comment was probably removed because its tone was inappropriate (your other comments, including where a mod is talking to you) are still here. This is just a discussion forum, with a very specific purpose (over in the sidebar) and because so many others are contrary to that purpose, I'd imagine a moderator removed your comment because it seemed like you were derailing that purpose. I dunno. This is… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/16 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Nagging boyfriendI already know that you shouldn't control or manipulate a man. I'm asking why it doesn't work. Because the default condition of our lives is struggle in order to make anything out of ourselves. If we can't earn, we're homeless. If we can't fight, we're dead. If we can't learn, we're dropouts. If we can't succeed, we fail and society will not care. Women cannot be a part of a man's self fulfillment if their actions are in any way centered around simply fulfilling themselves. Les cimetières sont p… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/16 02:12 AM |
| 5 | Ex and I are very close, but too close. How can I add space and fix this problem?...I met a great guy online and we hit it off right away. You still think he's 'great' and thought he was 'great' then, too. We dated for a short time but I called it off for a few reasons, but mostly because I couldn't see a future. For whatever reason, you called it off in the past, because you could not 'see a future'. Although we aren't together, we act like we are and that includes being physical. I don't mean sex but pretty much anything else. In the present, which was the 'future' you antici… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/01/16 06:04 PM |
| 9 | AWALT, but what now? are we all going to remain single and childless forever?What would you think about finding a cute infertile woman to help you raise what she could never have? Once you start multiplying by the percentages each quality introduces in the population; from halving (approximately) the population of humans I will meet in my lifetime to get the women, quartering that to get the women who are in the right age range, etc. It just looks very much like there's no point to go unicorn hunting, as it were. Easier to just build SMV for its own sake, be in as many m… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/16 07:14 PM |
| 6 | AWALT, but what now? are we all going to remain single and childless forever?If you're seeking " feminine " women There are so many women from the age of 22/post college to about 28 (29 is a lethal year) who are willing to make a cosplay of femininity, who are willing to 'play house' - not just be sexual plates. They are as the Confederate-descendants in South American enclaves - - racially degenerate according to the ideology of their forebears, unable to speak English, or if they do, with an accent. But by golly do they preserve the dress and traditions and make a grea… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/16 04:28 PM |
| 199 | AWALT, but what now? are we all going to remain single and childless forever?TRP isn't a social movement. It's an internet community stating, in modern terms, the reality of the sexes that was forgotten by a lot of communities in the modern age, and is furthermore informed by post-Sexual revolution legal realities of birth control, no fault divorce and vestigial institutional woman-prioritization. TRP isn't there to tell you what to do or achieve or think - it's just there to tell you how women are, what the consequences can be of ignoring our biological drives and how t… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/16 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Here is the truth about race and game.you aren't getting hot girls as an Indian guy in Kentucky. I'm not going to dox a friend of mine, but I know an Indian origin guy from Lexington, KY who went on to be the coxswain of his elite school's heavyweight crew team (yes, he was a short skinny dude then, and a short skinny dude now), graduated with honors, and now works as a financial analyst. He's been getting hot chicks since highschool - and he went to highschool in the deep south for a few years. You know why? Because he was constant… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/16 03:38 PM |
| 33 | Here is the truth about race and game.The race thing is a broken record. So is height. So is balding. So is [insert - attribute that isn't changeable and deviates from the current standard that women want in terms of maximized physical, social, and material quality for them to own - here] 1) Own what it is if you can't improve it 2) Raise your SMV in every other way you can 3) Don't wallow about life not being fair; you're one second closer to death every second - use your time wisely. That's it That's all there is to it. Anyone can… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/16 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Is the ultimate goal to secure a life partner?There is no ultimate goal. There is no universal purpose. There is no meaning or morality except that which is created and enforced. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/16 08:58 PM |
| 5 | A woman hires a male escort to a dinner party and is universally priaisedI can only feel bad for the cuck that will marry this shameless whore Considering she used her real name and a photograph of her face in published autobiographical piece, whatever cuck marries her has it coming. edit look at her posting history holy fuck loooooooool | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/16 03:03 AM |
| 1 | In A Relationship for 1 Year And Have No Clue What I'm DoingThat's awesome! I've just gotta ask; how do you type so well? Does it all go through a text to voice processor? And do you use that type responses? | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/01/16 11:18 PM |
| 11 | Your top 5 books for men - in reading order?Things Fall Apart, Chinua Achebe Brave New World, Aldous Huxley Hadji Murat, Leo Tolstoy Moby-Dick, Herman Melville Citizen Soldiers; Band of Brothers, Stephen Ambrose Break whatever delusions you have, understand how the elite manipulate men through women and 'duty', feel miserable for the death of goodness and the all the beautiful lies savaged by ugly facts, mourn masculinity's passing, do all of that. Then remember that in the face of defeat, you can still move forward for yourself and fello… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/16 10:49 PM |
| 2 | In A Relationship for 1 Year And Have No Clue What I'm DoingI do want to get married young so I don't have years of other relationships complicated things and because I'm in my prime. Congratulations on realizing a tough truth other women get to about a decade later. Because of this, I plan to because a teacher so I'll have a flexible schedule for raising children. Not the only reason for being a teacher, and teachers aren't the only people with those schedules, but I think it's good for younger people to get into education. America needs good teachers -… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/01/16 10:35 PM |
| 5 | In A Relationship for 1 Year And Have No Clue What I'm DoingSo, no one can tell you what to do entirely, really. We're not you, and can't live your life for you. Plenty of people will try do that, and if you go along with it, you'll regret it, by the way. I'm not talking down to you, and I'm not trying to say your feelings are invalid, but you're 17. Right now, your body doesn't realize the last 15,000 or so years of human civilization, everything from formalized agricultural schedules to city planning to legislatures and taxes and educational programs, … | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/01/16 08:26 PM |
| 15 | Why Every Man Should Spend A Year In Commissioned SalesSlap your chest and howl louder, eh? We're here to educate and help out men, not put them down or engage in puffery. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/16 06:23 PM |
| 56 | Why Every Man Should Spend A Year In Commissioned SalesI can only heartily second this - but consider a sales job especially if you're planning on moving from simply working to building a career, especially if you're young, and be especially grateful if you find you don't like sales so much. I don't think anyone can really develop abundance mentality unless they have options, but also recognize how precious their investment of time is if they want to have options. Sales forced me to measure my performance in time, not just dollars - what a precious … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/16 05:57 PM |
| 3 | Under The Rainbow: The Inevitability of the Modern WorldDespite increasingly atheist sensibilities, the Progressive comes across like a fatalist. That amongst the stars there is a plan written for the historical progression of the world, and we would be sitting here with cell phones and lattes no matter what course of action was taken to get there. This makes the modern progressive look more religious than any of their reviled Christians. Francis Fukuyama (what a name!) called it The End of History. The truth is closer to Clash of Civilizations and i… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/16 05:55 PM |
| 1 | She thinks I'm too "old."Care about the age difference less than they do, tease them a little, give them what they want; the knowledge that you're rock solid, experienced, interesting, capable. That you've developed what younger men haven't had the time to develop Short men have to do the same thing, minority men have to do the same thing, etc. "Oh, you see a potential deficiency? That's fine, take as long as you want, I can walk because another woman will be there" ^ Communicating that is what they want to hear | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/16 02:27 AM |
| 2 | In the Beginning: How to start off on the right foot?Take time in the evening to reflect on what the day was like, take time in the morning to reflect on what you want the day to be. If you don't meditate, look into it. Even something small like casually planning out your day, being mindful of how you can react to something before it comes, etc. can make all the difference. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/01/16 10:06 PM |
| 2 | The Joy of HypergamyThe mistake men make is in thinking that you can capture the universal love and direct it so that she only feels it towards you. Also that it can be unconditional. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/16 10:01 PM |
| 2 | She thinks I'm too "old."A girl telling you you're too old to fuck her when she's old enough to be fucked is nothing but a shit test. You didn't pass, best you can do is find another one. There are plenty of 18 year old girls on Tinder. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/16 09:58 PM |
| 3 | "If you made more money, we would have more sex"Make the change. You can do it, and live better, and you're the only one who can do it for yourself. You only live once. None of us get a second shot in our single life unless we decide to take it. TRP can help, but even if you never want to see this sub again because of how some of the comments went, all I'd say is take away the mindset that you want to be happy, and happiness isn't accidental - you have to pursue it. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/16 03:12 AM |
| 3 | "If you made more money, we would have more sex"That your fiance said "If you made more money, we would have more sex" isn't what would make you break up? She literally just told you she is a whore, a prostitute, and views you as an ATM. Someone who expects you to make more money for her, got you to book a honeymoon trip to Europe, and who you're planning on giving the rest of your life and earnings to exclusively, just reacted to your desire for more sex and the need to feel wanted in a relationship with: "If you made more money, we would ha… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/16 02:47 AM |
| 6 | Need some advice1) You broke up with your boyfriend 2) You then started having sex with another guy, purely because you didn't want to be alone, and rationalized yourself into starting a sexual relationship without any real planned emotional foundation 3) "i felt disgusted and stopped it like 10 seconds after so i dont count it.." <- You didn't and still don't take responsibility for it 4) Your ex-boyfriend is not 'over' the fact you slept with another guy 5) The other guy isn't even a high quality guy in your … | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/01/16 11:23 PM |
| 6 | Twitter's newest trend #wastehistime2016It's not all women who do this, right? AWALT means "all women are like that" Like 'that'. Not exactly that. Not every single woman is the worst case scenario of women. But all women, as a result of having a female genome, a female biology, and a female psychology, have certain behaviors and outlooks that are peculiar to their sex. There are simply certain modes of being a human that are inherently connected with being a female, and these instances of femininity that TRP seeks to educate men abou… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/16 10:49 PM |
| 15 | Saw an ex co-worker and had an epiphany: Former betas/omegas, be grateful it didn't happen.If you want to keep a slave, you have to give him enough food to do work, but not enough that he can become strong. If you give him too little food, he could die, or worse, rebel and take food. If you give him too much food, he can build up strength and escape. Give him just a small amount of food - his reward for labor you take, and fuel to do more. This is how women employ sex worldwide when hypergamy is not kept in check, and men don't figure out they can leave the plantation. But women are s… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/16 07:14 PM |
| 18 | Why Asian women hate it when Asian men go interracial.For people doubting this: What are the two stereotypes we have of Asian women in the West? The China Doll, Madam Butterfly, the submissive, silent, passive woman, sexually docile and sweethearted... and the Dragon lady the Tiger Mom, the angry, ambitious, cunning and cuttthroat woman who is a nymphomaniac, a ball buster, a terror to all.... Simultaneously These were historically written into Western literature from the earliest contact with the Orient and persist into modern times, and not accid… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/16 03:44 AM |
| 24 | Why Asian women hate it when Asian men go interracial.Also: "Why women hate the men they want to be provider betas not acting like provider betas for them, but alphas for other girls!" To all the Asians/Indians/non-whites: It's all the same shit, the color just makes it obvious that women are cock gobbling their way up the dick-totem pole in order to get the best genes and the most money. Alpha Fucks v Beta Bucks is a whole lot easier to see when it's not just frame and stature and income (though those can be obvious, too) but the actual phenotypic… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/16 03:39 AM |
| 3 | Meeting the Parents/Family of your SOI think if you've vetted someone properly it can happen pretty quickly. Much like whether or not someone is an expert musician, my suspicion is total time spent on familiarization matters much more than 'absolute time'. A 'couple' who see each other once a week and have conflicting work schedules for two years and never travel or struggle together will know each other far less well than a couple that spend six months with each other, helping each other, etc. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/01/16 08:20 PM |
| 2 | Meeting the Parents/Family of your SOShe said "Wow, that's really soon!" and was super surprised. Bet she hasn't dated guys like your fella because she's not the kind of girl those fellas date. Keep it up OP. Is meeting the families of your SOs still as significant nowadays than in the past as adult children become more and more independent of their families? Not everyone is fortunate enough to have a real Mother and a real Father. No one will ever, ever, ever care as much about you as much as they do. Not a spouse, not your own ch… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/01/16 08:18 PM |
| 32 | Women need encouragement. Men plow ahead.Men don't need encouragement? What do you think fathers are for? Coaches? Officers? Male drive has to be encouraged in a different way than female drive, in different simulacra of the Father-Son dynamic, but it's there. Brotherhood too, is a concept that extends beyond one's siblings; what civilization or people haven't referred to those men who stand together in trials of combat as 'brothers'? The rest of this post is fine - Men need just what women are getting in spades. But I would also offer… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/16 01:31 PM |
| 3 | Work, study and housework - how to manage time?Keep a timepiece of some kind, and a physical planner. It can just be a small notepad with your schedule written out clearly on one page in ink. On the other pages, write the date at the top of each page in the morning when you wake up. Write out what you need to do that day in a list. On the back of the page, before you go to bed, write down what you accomplished. Look at that page in the morning when you wake for the next day. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/01/16 12:10 AM |
| 5 | I am just terrible at doing nice things/giving giftsDon't be so rough on yourself. This is something that's hard enough. But he genuinely seems sad that I am bad at this, and I want to become better because I want to make him happy, I love seeing him smile and I want to make his life better, not just exist in it. Let him know this. If you're not comfortable saying things like "I love you and I love seeing you smile, and I know I messed up with the gift. I feel so dumb because you got me exactly what you wanted and I was oblivious. My family never… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/12/15 04:34 AM |
| 92 | Some tips and ideas from a former Chad: Sluts, vs. Low-N Count Girls for LTR game instead of ONSBetween Teachman, Kahn and London, Maul, et al. it should be clear to any man who intends to have a long term relationship that low partner count, young, feminine women whose singular attention greatly simplifies your life via their domesticity are the only reason to become exclusive to any woman for some amount of time, and that there are effectively no suitable women for marriage, unless you have a habit of running into late teen, early 20s virgins raised by a mother and a father who emotional… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/15 04:28 AM |
| -9 | What a rape fantasy looks like: Woman writes about intentionally getting raped 28 times.Female orgasms result in different physiological treatment of the sperm that are ejaculated into the womb - the acidic environment the sperm (with a basic pH from seminal fluid) are in will destroy them unless they are transported by the suction of the uterine contractions. When women orgasm, they effectively help sperm along to where they need to be to actually fertilize an egg. Wealthy men who are high status solely on the basis of having lots of money literally more often give women orgasms f… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/15 04:22 AM |
| 3 | Do not engage the other side in debate. They're not interested in a dialogue of ideas. They're interested in strawmanning, shaming, and censoring.Most westerners do not see the Asian alphas who run things. They keep themselves hidden. But it is almost like two different species of animals. The Asian alpha has the Asian beta brainwashed into thinking the system is a good one. Which it is if you are the alpha I suppose the West had reached that point in many ways already. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/15 02:03 AM |
| 10 | What a rape fantasy looks like: Woman writes about intentionally getting raped 28 times.this is what rape fantasies in women come from: http://psycnet.apa.org/journals/psp/38/3/399/ Sexual responsiveness of college students to rape depictions: Inhibitory and disinhibitory effects. Malamuth, Neil M.; Heim, Maggie; Feshbach, Seymour Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, Vol 38(3), Mar 1980, 399-408. Conducted 2 experiments with a total of 436 undergraduates to identify the specific dimensions in portrayals of sexual violence that inhibit or disinhibit the sexual responsivenes… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/15 02:00 AM |
| 3 | AWALT: These hoes ain't loyal.You're doing them a favor. You're not the one that stands to divorce-rape them or lure them into a marriage. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/15 01:56 AM |
| 4 | Incorporating TRP principles into current LTRwondering how TRP would be beneficial and how to incorporate it The female wants a high quality male: Good genes for her young, an emotional rock to cling to in a storm, a protector, a guide for her life, a benefactor for her desires. This is what inspires their fitness testing (shit tests), this is what makes them pout and assail you with problems, etc. She doesn't want to be the leader, she wants to follow. She doesn't want to be strong and brave, she wants to be safe. She doesn't want to be m… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/15 12:51 AM |
| 4 | What a rape fantasy looks like: Woman writes about intentionally getting raped 28 times.being a male in 21st century society. Means being subject to rape accusations without redress. This post is effectively warning you. Do you think Emma Sulkowicz was the first girl to say what she said, or turn it into a performance art piece? | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/15 12:30 AM |
| -3 | What a rape fantasy looks like: Woman writes about intentionally getting raped 28 times.Just to argue the counterpoint Oh lordy. the intelligent feminist lens would advocate that rape fantasies completely abdicate any responsibility for sexual behavior from the woman What on earth does this sentence mean? The "cock carousel" is a prime example of cutting down any expression of female sexuality that is intimidating to men who predicate their self worth on sexual primacy. Intimidating? It is revolting, like seeing milk curdled. You've no idea what you're prattling on about. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/15 12:28 AM |
| 6 | Do not engage the other side in debate. They're not interested in a dialogue of ideas. They're interested in strawmanning, shaming, and censoring.Judge a woman for her personality, traits, accomplishments, and who she is, not what she does or (who she) has sex with Did Momma always put paint chips in your cereal, Timmy? | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/15 12:24 AM |
| 6 | Do not engage the other side in debate. They're not interested in a dialogue of ideas. They're interested in strawmanning, shaming, and censoring.It's collectivist vs individualist culture. You see the same things play out in Asian society in peculiar ways. "Good" families of a certain stock (in my experience) will impute harsh, almost unfeeling judgement about the world and their own children from a very early age - comparison with other children, goading them, shaming them, etc. My Korean friends are as American as it gets, right up until I visited and saw the difference between how a WASP-y family treats its grown children visiting hom… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/15 12:23 AM |
| 3 | What a rape fantasy looks like: Woman writes about intentionally getting raped 28 times.I do think feminists in general have intentionally redefined the concept of "rape" to the point of absurdity because they desperatly WANT to be able to claim that we live in a "rape culture"; feminists are using rape politics as a weapon and that is disturbing. If there isn't any hysteria (heh) over rape-danger, young white women in North America and Western Europe have literally nothing to complain about They (those elements of the transgressive left who are rent seeking) are aware of concern-f… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/15 12:07 AM |
| 16 | What a rape fantasy looks like: Woman writes about intentionally getting raped 28 times.Oh, it gets crazier. http://psycnet.apa.org/journals/psp/38/3/399/ Sexual responsiveness of college students to rape depictions: Inhibitory and disinhibitory effects. Malamuth, Neil M.; Heim, Maggie; Feshbach, Seymour Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, Vol 38(3), Mar 1980, 399-408. Conducted 2 experiments with a total of 436 undergraduates to identify the specific dimensions in portrayals of sexual violence that inhibit or disinhibit the sexual responsiveness of male and female colleg… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/15 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Is it ever appropriate to share redpill info offline?Also, considering I was a young boy when the movie with a skintight blackleather clad Carrie Ann Moss was machinegunning robots, no, I really wasn't watching it for the allegories about consciousness and self determination and AI. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/12/15 08:40 PM |
| 154 | What a rape fantasy looks like: Woman writes about intentionally getting raped 28 times.It's funny, because for all the English majors and literary studies types that perpetuate and adopt feminism, they never quite picked up on how women had always previously written about and spoken about the desire for high quality men to take them: "Ravish" They want to be ravished, because it means they are (as a consequence) so high quality themselves as vessels that a high quality man cannot help but tear their clothes off and perpetuate his genetic legacy. They don't want to be raped by a le… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/15 08:32 PM |
| 15 | There is no easy mode. I was a built college football player at a major university, but still couldn't get women because I behaved like a beta. Why acting the part is more important than looking the part.NRS replied to a comment of mine about dowry before by bringing up the notion of woman as an 'immobile asset' when I pointed out how almost all civilizations of note came up with the dowry, alluding to the basic nature of male commitment to a single woman logistically tying him down as a resource provider, also alluding to a much larger post about the history of the dowry. This leads me to think he's doing a fair bit of research on dowry, brideprice, and dower, and a very large post is in the wo… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/15 04:55 AM |
| 5 | Is it ever appropriate to share redpill info offline?It was an okay movie, nothing great, and the others were totally cornball. But it's just unseemly that it has to be so closely linked to what is ultimately an alternative-reactionary stance on traditional gender roles in light of the sexual revolution. That's really what the corniness comes from. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/12/15 04:51 AM |
| 9 | Learn to Change Your Oil, You Fucking Sally.but also that one can't do the work. Can you darn your socks, mend your own clothes with a needle? I'd say that's woman's work, but fuck me if I can find any woman who isn't a grandmother to know how to repair a tear in a favorite flannel. Can you grow your own food? Hunt it? Hunting is indisputably a man's work - - does every man who enjoys eating meat have to eat game meat he's killed and dressed himself? Do you have a shower? Do you use electricity? I'd bet you're not nearly as handy as an ac… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/15 12:49 AM |
| 7 | Is it ever appropriate to share redpill info offline?Don't use the name 1) It's a corny name. It really is. It's unfortunate that the metaphor is permanently tied to a subpar scifi movie. 2) the TRP subreddit has too much weird internet culture, as does reddit 3) Most of this is basically just traditional gender roles. Depending on the ethnic background and place of residence, this is all the stuff someone's grandfather or grandmother, or father or mother, would've heard from the men and women of their family when they were growing up about women … | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/12/15 12:35 AM |
| 36 | Learn to Change Your Oil, You Fucking Sally.DO NOT PAY PEOPLE TO DO YOUR BITCH WORK. It's bitch work, and that's precisely why I pay people to do it. I don't want to have to deal with my laundry. It doesn't serve me to have to sort it, do it, fold it, press and iron what needs that, etc. It's boring, I don't like doing it, and I want to do other things. If I had a wife, I'd expect her to do it as part of simplifying my life in return for access to material wealth and security for our young, but marriage 1.0 is dead, and I've had a plate r… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/15 12:31 AM |
| 3 | Once again...DO NOT GET MARRIED...DO NOT HAVE KIDS...DO NOT LIVE WITH A WOMAN.Oh for sure. I love using the car analogy, it puts everything in perspective. Test drive, never pay new for used, don't buy a rental, if it's got a lot of miles, don't think you'll improve it with a new coat of paint, assume any used car is a lemon, and if you're really set on buying over leasing....get a new one, from a reputable dealer and maker, and kick the tires. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/15 12:21 AM |
| 113 | There is no easy mode. I was a built college football player at a major university, but still couldn't get women because I behaved like a beta. Why acting the part is more important than looking the part.They come for the genes. They stay for the feels. They leave if they think they can do better. A good physique and appearance and demeanor are the initials, the attractors, the entry-ticket, the foot in the door. A good frame and self worth and laying the pipe right are the performance. Very rarely can someone put on a presentation without getting their foot in the door. Very rarely are men who cannot perform likely to stay that way if they keep getting their feet in doors. Build a good body. If… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/15 12:19 AM |
| 11 | Once again...DO NOT GET MARRIED...DO NOT HAVE KIDS...DO NOT LIVE WITH A WOMAN.AWALT, but 'like' is crucial. All women (well, ones without developmental pathology or surgical reassignment..) have a female biology and a female psychology. They'll all have an innate desire to fitness test males, an innate drive to secure top quality genes and top quality material investment, an innate ability to manipulate and be selectively honest, etc. Whether they're a barslut trying to knock back a plan B tablet in the uber they made their beta bucks send for them on their way home from … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/15 08:54 PM |
| 27 | Once again...DO NOT GET MARRIED...DO NOT HAVE KIDS...DO NOT LIVE WITH A WOMAN.Guys, don't buy cars! I've been driving this piece of shit for six years! It's a piece of shit! I'm not saying you're wrong about marriage/children (they stand in the way of a man living his own life, laws and society being what they've become), but why do/ did you subject yourself to all of this? This person sounds miserable. Go get more than one plate and be done with her. It's good for the male soul. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/15 08:40 PM |
| 0 | Red pill advice from Oprah WinfryAbout the only difference between a bargirl and a "high quality" woman is a bargirl is honest Women raised conservatively before the Sexual Revolution and mindfully raised by those women after are leagues better than common women, though their biology gives them the same tendencies. I'd greatly dispute you could point to the typical user of redpillwomen, and see a person who did no just confirm AWALT, but was the worst case scenario of women. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/15 11:37 AM |
| 4 | Your Shitty Life is Your Own FaultJust look at the difference between this post and the one by /u/ProtoPill about planning. One is puffery that finds it easy to berate without guidance, the other is honest, but constructive in its (subtle) criticism of sloth and lack of focus. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/15 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Is 'Marrying Up' Losing Its Appeal?"If you are a CFO and are the master of the universe at work, that can often bleed into your home life. It makes you entitled, spoiled, and controlling http://articles.economictimes.indiatimes.com/2007-02-07/news/28471801_1_indra-nooyi-nandan-nilekani-personal-side She's probably one of the biggest ball busters in the corporate world, and she gets told at home that her primary duty is that of the wife and mother - - sent to go buy milk. Seven years on from that article: http://www.forbes.com/site… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/12/15 05:53 PM |
| 2 | Men are like microwaves, women are like ovens.r vs K, over and over and over again, explains so much of how the collective social and individual psychological dimorphism of the sexes comes to be. Seeking vs. evaluating, trying vs. testing, etc. This is just that same paradigm, as goes sexual readiness. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/15 05:48 PM |
| 8 | Is 'Marrying Up' Losing Its Appeal?"You're absolutely correct about the attitude to circumstances being much more powerful than I gave credit for. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/12/15 11:45 PM |
| 17 | Is 'Marrying Up' Losing Its Appeal?"Men don't want to marry up. Women don't really want men who want to marry up, either. http://www.npr.org/2015/02/08/384695833/what-happens-when-wives-earn-more-than-husbands Men don't really prioritize female acquisition of masculine roles or attributes ("Experience", "Career", "Hardness", etc) - these are what women find attractive in wiser, older, wealthy, stronger men, and women attaining them price themselves out of the market (collegiate women and career women finding fewer and fewer suitab… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/12/15 02:29 AM |
| 9 | The Power of Positive Thinking and Simulated CuckoldryOh lordy. Yeah, now go marry a slut and pretend you'll pulling a fast one on 30 different guys, big man. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/15 02:07 AM |
| 7 | Some can't be saved.Emotion/inspiration Almost everyone who has programming or habits or perspective undone or changed or upended doesn't arrive to that new state through deliberate reasoning and logic (that's how you reinforce and explore a viewpoint) - - they're simply confronted with something that doesn't fit into their priors, is indisputable, and contradicts whatever theory of the world they had before. That's why it's not so easy to sit a guy down and explain evolution and sexual selection and the difference… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/15 01:59 AM |
| 41 | Reddit kind of wakes up to the injustices involved in child support paymentsRonaldo specifically had his surrogate womb and egg donors sign over complete custodial rights before he contracted with them - - he didn't sign marriage papers; he wrote up business contracts. Only way to go, I think. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/15 03:53 AM |
| 12 | Tips on dating in a (very!) small town? Good or bad idea?I'll be 25 soon and I ideally want to begin having children by 30 The most recent scientific studies show that ovarian reserve is 90% depleted by thirty years of age. The highest quality eggs and the most regular ovulation to release them isn't happening at 28, 29, 30 - certainly not after. If you want to have a kid by 30, plan on being married first. Almost all literature indicates (rather unambiguously) that a married mother and father who nurture the child and materially provide for it in a s… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/12/15 02:42 AM |
| 73 | Reddit kind of wakes up to the injustices involved in child support paymentsThat's why almost all Western goverments are so panicky about marriage rates plummeting, children not being born to women who earn more, and so happy to get more illegal immigrants and refugees in. They need lots of animals working on the farm in order to extract wealth from them. If men won't marry/won't work hard to generate taxable income, and the women won't have kids...what can you do but import foreign populations? Ultimately, those populations will have their ability to produce level off … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/15 02:33 AM |
| 2 | I got laid last night, even though I didn't kiss her till she was in my bed [FR]keep her at top plate at says, Nothing wrong with that. potentially agree to be exclusive if that's what she wants Wants and requires? What do you get in return if you go exclusive? What do you miss out on? What do you put at risk? Ask yourself that if she starts talking about exclusivity. only around this city till mid 2017 so it would end then obviously Tread carefully, brother. Don't let her change your own plans and your own life for what came cheap and easy and ought have an expiry date. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/15 12:42 AM |
| 1 | I got laid last night, even though I didn't kiss her till she was in my bed [FR]When you fulfill your role as a human (and since you're male); being as excellent in your masculinity as possible, people open up to you in ways that less men do not enjoy. Marriage 1.0 with its strictures on female hypergamy, with its shunning of women who weren't loyal, weren't exclusive to men, etc. created much of the promised emotional sharing and security that blue pill men think they're getting from girlfriends or wives today. They're not - - plates are giving that to assholes like me. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/15 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Condoms BreakWomen hate that. Having to stick their fingers inside to fetch a condom that slipped off is something that women find really annoying because it implies that you were sort of bored during sex and your erection went down a little and this reduction in size allowed it to slip off. Well, also because it's a hassle for them. There's a lot about the physicality of sex that is derivative of the psychology of partners, for sure, but that's just a hassle in and of itself. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/15 08:19 PM |
| 3 | Advice, please: Dating a PUA, how to get him to ask me out?Dating for women who are traditional is not easy. Look for older established men who want wives. Your virginity will not be an issue. If the rest of your life as a woman (and what you can give him as his woman) is in order, it will be a plus. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/12/15 08:15 PM |
| 1 | I got laid last night, even though I didn't kiss her till she was in my bed [FR]My plates have shared more emotional intimacy with me than any women I've ever dated. They've just also shown me how easy it is to connect in a significant way with a sexual partner and social companion, and how deeply below the standard of marriage 1.0 that actually is. Before they would've been 'girlfriend--->fiancee--->wife' track. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/15 08:12 PM |
| 1 | I got laid last night, even though I didn't kiss her till she was in my bed [FR]post-TRP, none of your girlfriends have ever put out on the first date? We'd be idiots to turn those into girlfriends, if we bothered having exclusivity with women who (it turns out) don't even demand exclusivity when it comes to sex and social company. this one has a stable job Her material wellbeing shouldn't be your concern unless: 1) You're going to be taking off from improving your own for a while for education and you're in a long term relationship where both of you are committed for the l… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/15 08:08 PM |
| 3 | I got laid last night, even though I didn't kiss her till she was in my bed [FR]I'm already noticing that I'm catching oneitis and this girl is flooding my thoughts - partly due to the fact that in my opinion, she truly is a catch No 1) Tinder girl 2) Fucks a guy on the first date 3) Not committed to the guy she's fucking She is a plate She is not suitable for a long term relationship, or your exclusivity. She is worth keeping as a plate, and nothing more. She is not LTR material in any way. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/15 08:04 PM |
| 3 | I got laid last night, even though I didn't kiss her till she was in my bed [FR]as any sexual advance simply feels "weird" to me. This is internalized shaming. Imagine the ultra-Bluepill fantasy world for a moment: Man gets a degree, job, buys a house, proposes with an expensive rock, to a virginal (virginal because he was such a great guy he could overlook her highschool boyfriend pounding it in the back of his Mom's Chevy Caprice) woman who loves him for him and definitely wasn't swayed by how expensive the house was and how much money the guy is earning all for her. Is h… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/15 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Rule Zero: The MissionWealthy men have more sexual options. Simple as that. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/15 02:40 AM |
| 2 | Rule Zero: The MissionJust a suggestion, something like a terms-dictionary with examples (real life, FR, and simplified hypotheticals) would be helpful for newcomers. AF v BB, hypergamy, AWALT, AMOG, unicorn, etc. I have some preliminary writing on this that I'll be submitting as posts, but regardless, besides just sorting by top/time and reading through posts, I think a set of simple primers from the standpoint of gender reality and sexual strategy would do almost all newcomers (particularly those shackled young men… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/15 02:39 AM |
| 3 | Advice, please: Dating a PUA, how to get him to ask me out?I am older than 25, but unfortunately, very inexperienced due to a super religious upbringing that condoned/shunned any contact with the opposite sex. No worries. If it's an Abrahamic religion, realize that it's a culture wherein the societal solution to this basic problem of male material resources and female reproductive resources was simplified, tough, and worked really well for millennia - - that's what leads to the hardnosed and unnuanced/unthinking condemnation of sex without explanation. … | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/12/15 02:32 AM |
| 6 | Advice, please: Dating a PUA, how to get him to ask me out?Your situation is textbook disaster in waiting if you don't next him. It'd be like someone asking the personalfinance subreddit "Should I sign a 50 year fixed mortgage I got offered, I don't want to rent, by the way I work part time" It's not like you're dumb or anything (just inexperienced; I'd bet money you're under 25) - it's just that this is so clear a situation for us to assess that it raises some eyebrows. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/12/15 12:16 AM |
| 3 | Advice, please: Dating a PUA, how to get him to ask me out?That she's trying to manipulate him into spending time with her? "he's a PUA and definitely a master of the game. I know this because he's used PUA terms like "soft no/hard no", "escalating", I googled his pick up line and it's from a PUA forum, and he sleeps around a lot. We have messed around with a few times, but he doesn't ask me out on dates." "How do I get him to continue to meet me outside of the bedroom and take me out on a fun (not only drinks) date? " I mean, yes. This guy wants sex, n… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/12/15 12:10 AM |
| 8 | Advice, please: Dating a PUA, how to get him to ask me out?Isn't him asking to come over without giving me any emotion and not taking me out also wanting something for nothing? Yes. 100% correct. So think about what that means in the perspective of a high quality man who wants a wife to marry if you keep spending time with this kind of guy. You'll either give him "something" (I'll be frank: your virginity) which is something high quality men who want a wife and have options will prize (really), and give him that for nothing, or he will simply move on an… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/12/15 12:08 AM |
| 2 | You do not know your potential until you have achieved it.if you work your ass off and fall short, you will at least be able to say you lived up to your potential. Disappointment that you weren't good enough and there was nothing you could do about it is fleeting. Disappointment that you didn't do enough and there was something you could have done? That's infinite. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/15 10:55 PM |
| 6 | Advice, please: Dating a PUA, how to get him to ask me out?Even if she weren't a virgin already, and had a low partner count that were solely in committed relationships, any man with options would look at a sentiment like this: How do I get him to continue to meet me outside of the bedroom and take me out on a fun (not only drinks) date? And see "Oh, she wants something for nothing." Traditional and non-traditional men, those willing to wait for sex because they're investing in a relationship and those not willing to wait for sex because they don't care… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/12/15 10:38 PM |
| 4 | Advice, please: Dating a PUA, how to get him to ask me out?PUA's: Literally only want sex, not relationships, and want to get sex by spending as little of their own time and money on any woman in particular in order to get sex. You: Are a virgin (who is presumably young, and not ugly) with a high SMV (I assume youth also because of this question, BTW) , who is interested only in time and material investment from a man and not sex without emotional commitment. Him spending time and money on you without getting sex and then moving on would be a waste from… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/12/15 10:35 PM |
| 4 | What is the point of AWALT?How does society see men as "fodder"? What does fodder mean? Disposable? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vp8tToFv-bA Karen Straughan explaining male disposability. You could also look up divorce rates, which gender initiates, alimony laws, child support and custody laws, criminal convictions, time served, etc. What are these fantasies exactly? The idea that they get sex in return for kindness, instead of being sexy. What social contract? Men work and provide for women materially, women provide f… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/12/15 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Where has the Mental Support in The Red Pill GoneI highly recommend his book Warrior's Way and Warrior's Soul Every man will have to fight and master himself in order to fight and master something else in the world. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/15 07:39 PM |
| 9 | Where has the Mental Support in The Red Pill GoneDecades of male abuse by the elites of society prioritizing women over them in order to control their economic fates is only just now starting to be woken up to by men en masse. It annoys me, but the male response of stoicism also has with it the male response of policing our emotions. This, and the loss of male-only spaces has been a horrible thing for men because it's also led a lot of men to internalize and act out the same shaming that the rest of the world wants to inflict on men even when … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/15 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Why did you have children? /Is childbearing selfish and is that okay?Look at how parents who see their own children become parents themselves generally react. It's selfish if you do it to make yourself happy. It's not selfish if you do it to perpetuate your ability and wisdom in making yourself happy....by transmitting that to another person born of yourself and a partner who give that person the ability to better make themselves happy. Selfishness is if your actions as a parent are seeking only immortality and another life of your own vicariously. Selflessness i… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/12/15 10:01 AM |
| 5 | Partner Count and Why it Matters.The notion isn't that the oxytocin becomes less potent over time, that less is released over time, that the receptor morphology changes, that some agonist is produced, etc. Just that the slut who fucks a lot of guys will train themselves into just seeking that bonding through sex, and the psychological ability to invest in any one guy on particular and the pain of leaving him will be gone. You know it's true about puppies and dogs: they're attention whores! They'll go for belly rubs and good fro… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/15 09:44 AM |
| 2 | Partner Count and Why it Matters.No, what's being claimed is that partner count for women is effectively: the number of other men that have found her fuckable, and unlovable. And that because sex produces bonding chemicals, and because with each new person whom she breaks a partnership with (a sexual one) will result in her getting really good at overcoming that loss despite producing those chemicals, she'll simply become really good at leaving sexual relationships and entering new ones. Think of it this way: imagine you got sl… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/15 09:40 AM |
| 5 | Partner Count and Why it Matters.Evidence shows the exact opposite; Young Women make up the Highest Divorce Risk Group by a wide margin! Post sexual revolution, I'm sure they do. There's a difference between a 19 year old conservatively raised virgin and a 19 year old with an absent father and a single mother who raised her with five sexual partners. There's a difference between a 25 year old Christian girl with no relationship history desperate to get married and with no understanding of maintaining a healthy partnership and a… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/15 05:20 AM |
| 6 | (FR) Went to a prospects house. Netflix no chill. ft. Fluffy Comedian, Sensual Country music & Cockblock little sister.Anyways we go upstairs and we go to her room. We sit on her bed and talk about horses because her room is literally a shrine to horses. It's the cutest thing ever in the sense that shes really passionate about it. 1) Don't get into a relationship with her, the horse-girl stereotype is real 2) Every single time you got her alone, whether on her bed or not, you should have escalated. 3) I swear to god, pre-20s girls are something else. Maybe it's a fetish, maybe it's not, but it's just a whole dif… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/15 03:42 AM |
| 38 | Dooble's guide to taking women off of a pedestal. Part 1: being hot is not impressive.The instinct people have to treat attractive women well comes from nothing but the fact that their physical attractiveness is an indication and material result of them being good reproductive material; the slim waist, wide hips, firm butt, large breasts, etc. all scream "can bear and nourish children" and that's why we want to fuck it. Daddy will treat her nice because she's his little girl to protect from the world and find a good husband for. Mommy will treat her nice because she's the little … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/15 03:38 AM |
| 5 | Partner Count and Why it Matters.And the data Teachman studied shows that even low count women do not provide stable marriages nearly as well as no count women and medium count (whatever that means) women are useless for marriages. Also, this is just awful: women of lower or medium N count can and will form durable pair-bonds later in life past their sexual peak and ability to branch swing provided: She's at a point in life when she wants to form a long-term bond knows she can't walk and find another man after getting your shit… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/15 03:30 AM |
| 8 | Partner Count and Why it Matters.Plenty of ways to avoid/ameliorate this problem: No pursuing LTRs until you're nearing your likely peak SMV No mysterious, friendless, acquaintance-less women with no history for you to look at No tolerance for red flags (lots of drinking, lots of travel, lots of male friends, lacking domesticity, etc.) And otherwise; flat asks and no tolerance for hesitation in answering, about partner count. Besides, none of these LTRs should ever, ever be legally binding marriages anyway. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/15 02:45 AM |
| 3 | Partner Count and Why it Matters.Oh, I'm not attempting to flesh out the entirety of the mechanism from the macroscopic acquisition of a new sexual partner, to the psychosomatic effects of a breakup, and a woman's subsequent infidelity risk. I merely state that it is clearly true that oxytocin release during and after sex has the function of pair boding, that diminished release/receptor binding (for whatever reason) seems to be indicative of reduced monogamy and increased promiscuity (either as a tendency wherein it is sought, … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/15 02:42 AM |
| 2 | Partner Count and Why it Matters.Go read /u/Whisper 's posts about the redefinition of marriage as well; absolutely required reading for any straight man born after 1950. The rest of his submissions are good too, but specifically look for "the redefinition" of marriage. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/15 02:10 AM |
| 3 | Partner Count and Why it Matters.Sluts are disgusting because they're disobedient and diseased and have poor impulse control There's a genetic basis for both poor impulse control in general, and as it relates to sexual promiscuity, and the genetic profile of the production of hormones oxytocin and vasopressin are implicated in explaining variance in human infidelity, as well as other mammals with monogamous/promiscuous mating, and beyond mating just in human pair-bonding in general. http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/16289323 h… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/15 02:00 AM |
| 3 | Partner Count and Why it Matters.No where does that state that partner number decreases oxytocin production. It just notes that some people have stronger or weaker receptors for the neurotransmitter and therefore some people develop stronger bonds than others. Okay, really hard task ahead: Knowing what the literature says about pair bonding and oxytocin action following sex, and knowing what the literature says about partner count and divorce risk (you know, where people stop being partners), what do you think the implication i… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/15 01:51 AM |
| 9 | Partner Count and Why it Matters.I what I'd like to see a source for your assertion women release less oxytocin with each subsequent partner. Been done essentially : (copy and pasting from this into Google search will take you right to the publication) Brendan P. Zietsch, a psychologist at the University of Queensland, Australia, has tried to determine whether some people are just more inclined toward infidelity. In a study of nearly 7,400 Finnish twins and their siblings who had all been in a relationship for at least one year… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/15 01:00 AM |
| 8 | Partner Count and Why it Matters.http://www.jstor.org/stable/3600089?seq=1#page_scan_tab_contents http://www.jstor.org/stable/352992?seq=1#page_scan_tab_contents http://jfi.sagepub.com/content/23/3/392.short http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/17307304 The literature is frankly, pretty conclusive, and in the face of what every single society has generally done (jealously guarded female virginity, slut shamed, paired people off early, required men to work and provide for young, etc.) should hardly be surprising. A young virgin wo… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/15 12:51 AM |
| 25 | Partner Count and Why it Matters.First of all, almost no one coming to TRP should be pursuing any kind of long term relationship to invest in, except the one they have with themselves. But, if you want children, and you want a family, you're only going to do them a disservice if you can't have a good wife and mother, and if you grow tired of plate spinning and want serial monogamy, then in those cases: Sexual History Matters Low to No is the rule, for LTRs and Marriage (which, again, the vast majority of us should never conside… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/15 12:20 AM |
| 2 | Politics: A difference I've noticed between men that go Democrat vs Republican this election cycle, could potentially have to do with more than just politics.The Republican rallies tend to have different types of supporters. Former and current military guys, a lot more of the "Chad" types, lots of family men/married people, and I have noticed that the women tend to be a lot more attractive at these rallies as well. The older ones. In terms of younger women, well... I attended lots of College Democrat mixers and parties back in the day, because the birth control-abortion issue really cuts the wheat from the chaff. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/15 08:45 PM |
| 1 | RedpillHow do you put on your clothes and fasten them together and stay on your body? Do you use your hands? Do you have a set of best practices (one pant leg at a time, shirt on after pants, etc?) that you consistently use to most efficiently dress your self? Do you let aside things like buttons and zippers and simply hold your clothes in place, or do you take advantage of the design of the clothes and use them to your benefit? Because the psychology and physiology of women (and men) have been tailore… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/15 06:41 PM |
| 39 | Milo Yiannopoulos: The Sexodous, Parts 1 & 2, Reposted For Newbie DigestGenerally, once you start having to construct any kind of hope-fantasy for them, it's because they're getting older and their biology is making them increasingly aware of how foolish they're being by staying on the cock carousel. Next them, find a younger one, or a less frustrating one. If they wanted to be good girls that found a great guy for the only long term relationship that matters for a woman who want a family of their own, they wouldn't have fucked you before there was a ring on it - - … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/15 08:25 AM |
| 59 | The Perks of Pissing on A WallflowerBeing a man, as a consequence of our biology and psychology, means we are blessed with greater physical strength and endurance, greater mental prowess and fortitude. I'm not so sure men, largely, are any noticeably more intelligent than women. I suspect in many ways, they are profoundly better at us than having an intuitive grasp of social dynamics from an evolutionary standpoint where they must attach themselves to the best mates, know where they stand in the hierarchy and manipulate a superior… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/15 03:06 AM |
| 1 | The Red Pill in Other Cultures?I'd bet they had their share of diversity of cultures, too. They have something like 30 different languages in one country as it is now. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/15 02:49 AM |
| 5 | Taking Social Psychology Class and Professor Mentions The Red PillBecause if Elliot Roger had done anything with all of his advantages: Being wealthy, in shape, handsome, educated, white, etc. He would've been fine. Instead he spent his last days of existence screaming about how unfair it was Indian guys were fucking blonde chicks. All the lame shit Indian guys and Chinese guys are famous for doing about white dudes "stealing" their women? Yeah, he was going bonkers when he saw Indian dudes in California dating white girls, then murdered people and died a virg… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/15 04:49 PM |
| 4 | Taking Social Psychology Class and Professor Mentions The Red PillIsn't there hypocrisy in shaming men for being virgins and at the same time condemning them when they actually find a way to fix the problem? It's essentially how I feel about fat people. If someone doesn't mind being fat/having extra weight/looking like that. Whatever. If they complain? Well, then they're asking for help right? Time to help them. If they know what to do to not be fat and don't take control of their lives? Then I just can't stand them, and I will make fun of them. A content fatt… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/15 04:43 PM |
| 2 | The Red Pill in Other Cultures?Some, not all. The Mohawk were a pretty intense tribe with a blatant war culture, but the Haudenosaunee/Iroquois were not. There's as much (and more) diversity among them as there were in the "Greeks"; the Spartans and Athenians and Knossos simply weren't all the same. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/15 03:56 PM |
| 13 | Don't be fooled by the marketing, getting more women into STEM is about wage pressures, not feminismThey become the perma-adjuncts who run the same assays and do the same lab grunt work on other people's papers for years and teach the laboratory courses for undergraduate students. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/15 03:38 AM |
| 62 | The Middle Eastern Wars are a source of humour for white women now.Tina Fey is going to be satirizing Eat, Pray, Love, and is acutely aware of The Wall and how her success has largely been in spite of it. She's a reasonably smart lady. I haven't seen the movie, and you haven't either. It's premature to say that it is inherently an example of female solipsism about male disposability. That honor goes to Hillary "Women have always been the primary victims of war" Clinton. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/15 02:42 AM |
| 16 | Don't be fooled by the marketing, getting more women into STEM is about wage pressures, not feminism, there is no fucking way someone can bullshit their way through a PHD in Biochemistry. Oh yes there is. I've worked with postdocs that were third authors on their PhD thesis papers, who graduated back when we still called their schools R1 institutions. All women and minorities. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/15 02:34 AM |
| 41 | Don't be fooled by the marketing, getting more women into STEM is about wage pressures, not feminismSame as the rest of the labor market. Getting the female gender in is just "give us twice as many competent workers so we can pay half wages!". If gender equality in all male dominated professions was the real goal, garbagemen would be focused on so we could have garbagepersons, miners and seamen and oil rig workers and truck drivers, etc. Professions of toil and little material reward are almost all dominated by men. No pushes for women to become garbage collectors, I notice! And it isn't about… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/15 02:20 AM |
| 9 | The tyranny of the birth control pillAbsolutely it does. http://www.scientificamerican.com/article/birth-control-pills-affect-womens-taste/ http://www.livescience.com/46937-the-pill-perception-other-women.html http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/health-and-families/health-news/why-women-cant-sniff-out-mr-right-when-they-take-the-pill-ndash-and-how-it-affects-us-all-892862.html The immense changes in women's MHC preference alters normal pair preference: http://newsroom.ucla.edu/releases/what-do-women-want-depends-on-249813 http:… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/15 01:28 AM |
| 44 | [FR] Well you guys, it happened to me.OP this is now a legal matter, and you will only win by escalating and having the best representation you can. Do not handle it through the school, hire a lawyer. Talk to your parents and hire a good lawyer. Delete your post. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/15 10:43 PM |
| 17 | American men are getting played by their women and most of them don't realize it at all.Curiously, despite this egalitarian and non-traditional approach, the Catholicism and traditionalism of the Poles has endured (in some amount) and 20something girls in Poland are way less bitchy than American girls. It's not even the sex thing; the Czech Republic is far more relaxed about sex than the US and girls there are still leagues better than most city-living American girls. Also slimmer, also clearer complexions, also those central European features......... also the beer is better. I re… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/15 10:41 PM |
| 19 | Hungarian governments response to PCthey are alpha as fuck. They knew they were going to lose in 1956 from the first Russian response to the student protests, and they still fought because fuck it, why not take some Soviets down? Also, they were conducting guerrilla war with AK47s before it was cool | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/15 08:16 PM |
| 1 | I am obsessed with my one itisAlcohol helps with this, when it's appropriate to have some. Don't get caught up in analysis paralysis and feeling like you need to overthink and scrutinize all social rituals. It'll just make you come off as weird: "Oh hello, fellow humans! I will put inhibition lowering toxins my mouth-hole and gyrate my body to show motor control and muscle tone, related to do my physical suitability, in time to rhythms associated with sexual intercourse!" Don't be like that, you know? | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/15 07:45 PM |
| 1 | I found out I'm most likely the other woman...or one of the other women. Should I confront him?I'd have to agree with that entirely. Gonna make a quick edit. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/12/15 07:41 PM |
| 4 | I'm Milo Yiannopoulos, AMAMany thanks for stopping by. What do you think the long term impact of gay marriage being legalized in the US as heterosexual marriages (largely initiated by men) are declining and at an all time low will be on marriage laws in general? Do you think economic and technologival factors like women in the workforce and no fault divorces and birth control mostly cause modern sexual dynamics, or are simply enablers of what could exist on its own with cultural forces like third wave feminism? Is it pos… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/15 05:43 PM |
| 1 | I am obsessed with my one itisWhen you're older, there will be asinine Christmas parties at work you don't want to go to; but you'll go to them because it'll be a good way to interact with your coworkers and superiors while their guard is down. Social rituals are neverending and will feel artificial and uncomfortable if you don't immerse yourself in them, you either sit out on them and look weird, or participate and use them to your benefit - just how it is. The girl that told me this wanted to fuck me real bad, but I fucked… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/15 03:31 PM |
| 1 | I found out I'm most likely the other woman...or one of the other women. Should I confront him?He is not spinning plates he is having affairs. What he is doing is not comparable to an unattached man seeing multiple women at the same time in a non exclusive, casual way. I suppose I never considered those exclusive before; more of a distinction on the type of man that does this more than the sort of women who go for it. Don't act like his actions are perfectly justifiable. You're correct - I consider marriage a legal contract, one that comes with duties of faithfulness. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/12/15 03:24 PM |
| 1 | I found out I'm most likely the other woman...or one of the other women. Should I confront him?Honesty incoming, buckle up: I have known this man for 2 years. We were not in the place to start a relationship when we first met, but as of the beginning of summer-ish, he started pursuing me and told me that he wants an exclusive relationship with me. He said "I love you" already, telling me that he hopes to marry me and talking about how badly he wanted to be a father. He at first claimed to be completely single. About 3 or 4 months ago, he told me that he was really a widower, broken-hearte… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/12/15 02:26 PM |
| 27 | Video dripping with RP truths sitting on the front page.https://archive.is/u7QAJ Being a plate who thinks sexual availability turns into commitment is the female version of being a beta-orbiter male who thinks emotional availability will result in sex. Men aren't commitment vending machines where you put in sex tokens and a relationship drops into a little tray. It's an old as dirt analogy - - men can't pay women in commitment and try to get sex, and women can't pay men in sex and get commitment. If anything, giving it up for free means they don't wa… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/15 02:19 PM |
| 3 | I am obsessed with my one itisI just can't explain why she has all this control over me. Your genome's hardwiring of your brain is making it give you instructions to have sex with her and then be so invested in her that you guard her from all other men who would like to have sex with her, and do so often enough that you're guaranteed to inseminate her and protect and raise the young you have together, perpetuating your genes. But your social conditioning tells you you're supposed to be respectful and polite and abide by rule… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/15 01:43 PM |
| 4 | Struggling to put my mind on the correct course to deal with slutty sister.There's nothing you can do for her unless she's willing to accept she needs to change. No personal trainer can help a fat person who says they want to be skinny, who also will not accept changes to their diet. She chooses to cheat. She chooses to be manipulative. She chooses to make people enablers of her lying. She's possibly - very possibly - been abused at some point. Sure. But she's chosen to abuse people herself, including you. The hurt you're feeling is something millions and millions of s… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/12/15 06:22 AM |
| 0 | I have no hope left now that I can't even get a fucking blowjob on my birthdayDon't immediately divorce her and put half your life up for sale just because she won't suck your dick or do her duty as your wife. Now is when you have to begin dread game, hard. Now is when you need to stop treating her like she's a sexual being, stop talking to her about sex, stop interacting with her in any sexual way. She decided to be your adult roommate, that's how you're going to treat her. Live like she's your female roommate with a boyfriend who is also your friend and you're single an… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/15 03:17 AM |
| 2 | Why You Should Try Sleeping With Hookers, and How to Do ItYou're right. I was more or less broke my early adult life, and I can sympathize. Don't spend that kind of money if you don't have it, and don't think you can earn it, sure. But I'd say the vast majority of men should look at sex as transactional however, and should look at women as transaction partners. If they, or your investments/time-spends aren't serving you, find better ones. If they don't give you anything, spend that money and time on you. The same advice OP is giving still applies: Spen… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/15 11:21 PM |
| 6 | Why You Should Try Sleeping With Hookers, and How to Do ItIf you think a hooker is a vending machine you're wrong though. They're a pain in the ass to deal with They aren't if you spend money on good ones. They're literally pleasure servants who know what they are and what they're worth. Girlfriends are frustrating. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/15 10:07 PM |
| 4 | Marco Rubio Is Blue Pill As FuckReagan married a woman who'd been fucked by half of Hollywood And you only sleep with virgins, right? Ronald Reagan was a governor and two term president of the United States and if he cared to, who knows if he did or not, as an actor and perhaps one of the most famous and powerful politicians of all time, had sex with way more women and had much more power than you. It's a key tenet of Red Pill. You either disagree with that or haven't grasped it. ^ Cut this out. Internet arguments shouldn't af… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/15 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Why You Should Try Sleeping With Hookers, and How to Do ItAll I'm saying is you have a choice, and it's a real one. I have a sneaking suspicion many RP posters simply have not been to a 'real' city like New York or LA or London and aren't aware of how much depraved fun is available to a man willing to spend a modest amount of money like 5 grand in treating himself to single weekend of fun. Fellas! - - 5000, just once or twice a year is enough to have a really great time, eat wonderful food, see wonderful performances, stay in a comfortable place, and l… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/15 09:45 PM |
| 16 | Why You Should Try Sleeping With Hookers, and How to Do ItPaying for sex is pure BP. You're always paying for it. You're paying for it with a gym membership, time spent in a career, etc. There's no free lunch The guys who get pussy 'for free' are the same guys women hamster about by saying "IT JUST HAPPENED!" It never just happened - - they put in the work and time, often spending money to increase their efficiency in doing so, before they were able to step up their game. You're always paying for pussy. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/15 09:36 PM |
| 5 | Why You Should Try Sleeping With Hookers, and How to Do ItIt's a sticky trap to fall into and it's not like hookers can't get pregnant or falsely accuse you of DV or Rape. Their employment situation and their career ambitions means they're far less likely to, and the transactional nature of the sexual relationship being upfront and stated pre-selects a much more self aware and less frustrating kind of woman. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/15 09:35 PM |
| 3 | Pursuing women for the wrong reasons.Pursue anything only because it will get you what you want. It doesn't matter what the reason anyone pursues women is, so long as they're doing it for their own gain. Same with all else. Don't seek validation from anything but yourself, and you'll be fine. So long as you are true to yourself, and prioritize yourself over everything else, you will achieve much and find the validation you want - in yourself, not in anything or anyone else. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/15 08:38 PM |
| 4 | Marco Rubio Is Blue Pill As FuckI'm glad Trump is running, if only because he's demonstrating that actual power and confidence and doership really do 'trump' everything else. Balls out self belief is the only thing that can really push a person to excel. his ideas are all hardcore Blue Pill stuff that seems better matched with a Progressive. I'm not sure we could look at Rubio's stance on gun control or taxes or foreign policy and say they're 'matched' with say, Bernie Sanders - an actual progressive (whose published ideas abo… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/15 08:35 PM |
| 12 | Marco Rubio Is Blue Pill As FuckMarco Rubio is a United States senator, currently backed by at least three billionaire donors (Sheldon Adelson, Ken Griffin, and Paul Singer) outright over a former governor, son and brother to a president, running for the presidency of the United States of America. His position is respectable in a national party campaign, and several pundits think he has a shot. I don't know what you do for a living, but you aren't one of the most powerful 100 lawmakers in the Western world, determining the for… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/15 08:08 PM |
| 6 | Living a Red Life, and The Male HamsterYes. Plenty of men who were raised by men from very traditional parts of the US, or in immigrant cultures, along with women, are quite "redpill" about the world. Anyone that's spent time around first gen Russian immigrants, Muslims, etc. knows what I'm talking about. Strictly enforced and understood gender roles, male upbringing of males, female upbringing of females, pushes for excellence and unforgiving scorn heaped on the weak, etc. Every civilization that reached accomplishments of note did … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/15 12:36 AM |
| 83 | Recently diagnosed with Muscle Wasting disease which will cripple me eventually, here is my plan, need red pill perspective.I know I cannot live a life like a normal man, but i'll be dead before I start acting like a bitch. Most normal men would have already been broken in your position. You aren't a normal man. Whatever you set out to do, do it exceptionally well. Another poster has said, essentially, to consult a physicians about steroid treatments and to focus on earning as much money as you possibly can. Taking care of your health, and constantly increasing your financial wellbeing is the same advice we give ever… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/15 07:12 AM |
| 1 | After TRP, I realize how Beta I really was..Go pick up a copy of Dubliners if you have to, but you should read the short story Araby by James Joyce. I think you'll appreciate it a lot. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/15 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Attracting menReading's always been hard for me. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/12/15 01:25 AM |
| 3 | MILO Y AMA Rescheduled - THU DEC 17th at 5pm (London) / 12PM ESTKeep those cellphones charged, fellas. (Also, use your data - no reason to let your place of work see you accessing TRP) | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/15 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Attracting menshit-filled twinkie FWIW I linked them to the excellent /u/_wingnut_ post about Femininity Cosplay, which is basically what they're doing (along with yours about 'soft places to land') I think it's fundamentally easier for a person whose situation is good to change their outlook, that for a person whose situation is garbage and whose outlook is garbage to change both. A wealthy and educated younger, but totally beta man is in a better position to grow into his own masculinity than a relatively o… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/12/15 12:39 AM |
| 9 | TwoXChromosomes confirms another RedPill observation - women love being dominated and violated by Alpha males.>Well you certainly shouldn't judge yourself for wanting sex/"acting like a slut," but you should judge him for not respecting your boundaries about leaving marks and the anal sex. That's it, fellas. That's literally all you need to know about these women. Protect yourselves, physically and legally, and enjoy the decline. Notice, her discomfort is mostly about how at the time her boundaries were being 'disrespected' she was totally okay with it, and she's currently still considering on going out… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/15 12:05 AM |
| 9 | 'THE NEW NORM' -- A nation of cucksLook at white America in the 70s and black America in the 70s Look at the trajectories each went on. We already had the two tier society that was on racial and economic grounds; now it's just pervading everywhere else! | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/15 12:00 AM |
| 2 | Attracting menI'm looking to get into new hobbies and go to new places, and I mentioned that before, but lose my virginity just because some guy suggested I should? No. Reading over this board, I think something might be unclear. No one (well, one person apparently) was suggesting you have to have sex to grow as a person - - just that you can't grow as a person if a significant amount of your identity comes from your sexual life. A woman whose only asset is their virginity is making the same kind (though not … | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/12/15 11:50 PM |
| 3 | Attracting menI wear dresses and make up. I'm in shape. I'm 22, so I think I am young enough (maybe I hit the wall?). I smile a lot in public and am pleasant to be around. I make small talk with people I see around, but it never leads to them giving me their number or anything. In my personal life, I have just gotten a decent paying job (financially independent). I'm smart with my money (I have a lot saved up). My main hobbies include volunteering, church activities, and being part of a choir (all female). I'… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/12/15 09:45 PM |
| 4 | I managed to get a HB8 round my place for a first date, was hilarious! (FR)she tells me that “I’ve never had a ONE night stand, I’ve only slept with 3 guys all were my bfs” true or not, not a bad sign. It was actually a date with quite a nice decent woman Only banged three other guys huh? Close within two dates or next. She wants a traditional LTR, she's getting older, and you'll be No. 4 paying for 26->divorce/death if you let her guilt you into exclusivity. A closed plate, or a next. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/15 05:30 PM |
| 26 | Do not fall in the "entitlement" argument that feminists make, despite what they say, you ARE entitled.Truthfully, is there anything sadder than a girl that wants to be appreciated for her beauty that is completely ignored? A guy that wants to be appreciated for how nice he is. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/15 01:19 AM |
| 1 | A question on AF/BB. Should a wealthy RP-aware man conceal his assets if his aim is to spin multiple plates?Absolutely, you should never tell a woman the entirety of your financial status, endeavor, and holdings. It tempts almost all of them to think of that as theirs, if only they can convince you to part with it or invest it in them (which, BTW, in an evolutionary and traditional sense, is what they're supposed to do and why it comes so easily to them, but unless we're talking about a young conservatively raised virgin girl with a strong religious aversion to divorce and extramarital sex, forget abo… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/15 01:14 AM |
| 8 | A Man of MysteryMmm, I don't know if I would go so far as to say that "blue pill" or rather, feminized, politically correct, anti-masculine ideology creates certainty of belief, while "red pill" or traditional, pro-masculine, 'straight shooting' talk necessarily causes chaos. There have been entire civilizations built around what an internet community less than a decade old in the 'manosphere' started talking about after a lot of introspection by a few men with vocabulary and symbolism drawn from the Matrix mov… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/15 03:34 PM |
| 4 | I was identified as 'Red Pill', out of the blue by a friend at work.She mentioned that being away from her woman, she's concerned that her girlfriend back home will leave her, and return to the husband (yep, my coworker stole a dude's wife). I told her That I don't really discuss personal stuff at work or with my co-workers. Right? OP, wtf are you doing, son? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/15 02:21 PM |
| 5 | Blame the Brahmins for South Asian BetasI have no idea what you're on about, but if your point is that the problems of beta adult men lie with anyone but those adult men who choose to remain beta, you're missing the point completely. The caste system puts the brahmins on top So there's a rigorous system of social worth? And there are 'better' and 'worse' men and people? Never heard that before. Go read the sidebar, and stop trying to blame the problems of huge groups on other huge groups. Worry about you. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/15 02:16 PM |
| 8 | AWALT and AMALTMale and female reproductive desires are both non-monogamous but not in the same way. We are rate, they are capacity. The male animal wants 1000 different female to have sex with so that they can have as many reproductive opportunities to ensure his immortality. His efforts must be distributed, rapid, and constant. The female animal wants only the best, and better male so that she can have the best reproductive opportunity to ensure her immortality. Her efforts must be calculated, singular, and … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/15 11:01 PM |
| 5 | I am 5'4. I'm going bald. I'll never be a model. I'm not rich - not even close. But I'm that guy with that girl that makes guys say "why the hell is she with him?" and sometimes are even openly hostile because they just don't get it. Don't be that guy. Be like me. Get TRP.An excellent reminder, OP. Elliot Roger; a wealthy, young, in shape, handsome, average height, straight white male with a new car and an education living as a native born US citizen in North America..... spent his last days on earth whining about being a virgin on the bodybuilding.com forums about the Indian guys dating blondes that made him mad before he went on a murder spree and offed himself. He had everything and refused to do anything. There is not a single facet of his life that was not a… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/15 05:29 PM |
| 33 | Questions to Red Pill Women about a Red Pill societyA plate just cancelled on brunch after not texting me to tell me she was late, and I let my overpriced eggs get cold, so this might be sort of long and off the cuff. Mods if it's too much, feel free to nuke it. My mother consistently put my dad and us kids before herself all the while I was growing up, giving up on her job and being a stay-at-home mum so that she could support my father's career as we travelled across the country. He's in a very senior corporate position, which is something I do… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/12/15 04:21 PM |
| 1 | The decline of South Africa post Apartheid and parallels in western societyI wouldn't disagree with that at all, but it's not like stuff was just dandy for black people in North America late 1600s-1865, and 1865-1965. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/15 06:48 AM |
| 15 | Being a dark triad god to womenHey fellas, I'm just saying - a little alcohol and dancing close to rhythmic music also works. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/15 04:38 AM |
| 2 | Goat CurryI'm going to end no matter what. Entropy guarantees I'm a dead man; I was a dead man the moment I was conceived. I fear pain in dying, and I would not like to see my family hurt by my absence, and there is much of the world I have not seen - but death is certain for me. I am going to die. Yet, I have choice - - I always have choice to build and improve and push while I am not yet in biological senescence, to create and plant value. Perhaps because I don't know what it is like to be a woman, I am… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/15 09:06 PM |
| 1 | A few questions for red pill women.Marriage is declining but it's still considered the norm. Mmm, I dunno. http://www.prb.org/Publications/Articles/2010/usmarriagedecline.aspx http://www.pewsocialtrends.org/2014/09/24/chapter-2-trends-in-the-share-of-never-married-americans-and-a-look-forward/ http://time.com/3422624/report-millennials-marriage/ http://www.citylab.com/work/2014/09/not-married-the-odds-that-you-never-will-be-are-higher-than-ever/380686/ http://www.nytimes.com/2015/05/09/upshot/out-of-wedlock-births-are-falling-exc… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/12/15 09:00 PM |
| 10 | Goat CurryWomen essentially start out rich at 15 and become broke by 45 in the SMV sense. Men start out poor at 15 and peak at 35-45 if they improved themselves. Or: Why I will never regret being born a man. Having the task of authoring my own fate, even if it means the condition of my life is struggle, is still a far better existence than the condition of life being seeking, because the task in life is to secure the results of another's struggle. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/15 06:09 PM |
| 1 | A few questions for red pill women.I think the bar is set SO LOW for quality commitment-seeking women in today's marketplace, that the effort required is lower than ever in human history. Ah, the bar is lower for quality commitment-seeking women, but only sexually. Sex is cheaper than ever but intimacy is the most expensive it's ever been. Exactly! The mass change in female sexual decision making enabled chemically by the Pill and societally by third wave feminism/workforce entrance has largely lowered the bar on sex, and greatly… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/12/15 03:33 PM |
| 12 | A few questions for red pill women.Redpill women are the sort of women not interested in being plates, and interested in being high quality women who have permanent partnerships with high quality men. Plenty of RPers would be happy to see pre-Sexual Revolution sex and marriage norms for women return, and advise men to spin plates and never marry because those norms are not present for almost all societies in total. RP is just information on how men and women are, and how men should react to a sexual marketplace that doesn't favor… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/12/15 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Girls will protect their own image above all elseEvery girl is a virgin until you can prove otherwise .....other way around, and, barring concomitant pluses, probably not even if 'proven' | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/15 06:15 AM |
| 21 | The decline of South Africa post Apartheid and parallels in western societyThe number of RPers who cannot see how exactly what has happened to mainstream white America via the destruction of positive masculinity, intact families, and controlled female hypergamy due to the Sexual Revolution and the Pill being precisely what was done to blacks in America for centuries through slavery, forced deprivation of information, forced servitude, ingrained worthlessness, broken families via literal physical repossession, rampant enforced cuckoldry, etc. astounds me. We have such a… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/15 10:01 PM |
| 5 | Boyfriend doesn't want to get married until he's older, I don't want to waste too much time...That's great - you're clearly a great girlfriend. Sounds like, furthermore, you're putting a lot of effort into making yourself physically attractive and domestic and being a full time student (which adds to your personal potential, which matters) But you can't even talk to this guy about commitment? Don't string yourself along. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/12/15 06:11 PM |
| 7 | Boyfriend doesn't want to get married until he's older, I don't want to waste too much time...We have never explicitly talked about marriage Considering you want to get married and can't see yourself with someone other than this guy, is that a good thing? We've talked about our future together and how we want to be together. What does that mean? Together "for now" while circumstances are as they are? I mean, being content with the present is one thing, assuming it continues into the future is another. I wouldn't discuss further commitment for at least another year Why? I mean, yeah, don'… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/12/15 06:04 PM |
| 10 | Boyfriend doesn't want to get married until he's older, I don't want to waste too much time...She needs to express her expectations and then make a decision based on his answer, to stay or go. Couldn't agree more. Anything less is covert contract. Men orbit by throwing out commitment, without voicing they're really doing it to get sex (even lying to themselves), and then get pissed it didn't work out like women are vending machines where you put in kindness tokens and sex comes out. Women orbit by being plates; as though male commitment gets earned by sexual availability. Men will accept… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/12/15 06:31 AM |
| 36 | Boyfriend doesn't want to get married until he's older, I don't want to waste too much time...Sounds like he knows what he wants and has his reasons for it. He's not attempting any kind of covert contract. He's not chaining you down. If you believe he is the man you want to marry, and you believe your current relationship should lead to marriage, then you should tell him that's your expectation out of the relationship. Why hide it and waste time and be dishonest? If he's not okay with that, and does not agree that any sex, loyalty, or commitment you give to him merits marriage and a life… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/12/15 04:09 AM |
| 2 | 30 is NOT the new 20: Top psychologist says 20-somethings are damaging future career and relationships by treating decade as 'downtime' before real life beginsI'm not disputing what you're saying. I don't think Millennials have more stress or strife to complain about (no Japanese Zeros bombed anyone yesterday!) I wasn't talking about the person you were directly responding to, but the notions you and that person were responding to, which the Millenial aged posters were writing about - that's who I meant by 'they' Not that the Millennials have any material issues greater in severity (I think things are quite a bit better), but they've inherited a compl… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/12/15 01:39 PM |
| 5 | All my life, I was the "Gay BFF" never the "best friend." Tips for undoing this trauma?Then again, this is terrific perspective. It's not even what genitals you like: when a gender is viewed as a disposable utility, it will make the other gender act that way to all of them even if they aren't sexually linked in anyway, and not prioritizing oneself will always result in coming second place to someone else's priorities. It comes to the core of what RP often says "even though" it's a gay man saying it. I'm glad it's here. Though, I would not like it to be the norm, or commonplace. Th… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/15 06:59 AM |
| 6 | 30 is NOT the new 20: Top psychologist says 20-somethings are damaging future career and relationships by treating decade as 'downtime' before real life beginsThey have a point, though. The Boomer generation commercialized and desanctified everything, including love, sex, and marriage, cutting them all up into purchasable, separate commodities. Trade them in, rent, mortgage them to get another on credit. So with a huge economic downturn, of course young adults are investing less in relationships. This is the generation that's grown up in a world where they're commodities in a marketplace anyway without price controls and systems of guaranteed transact… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/12/15 06:49 AM |
| 1 | 30 is NOT the new 20: Top psychologist says 20-somethings are damaging future career and relationships by treating decade as 'downtime' before real life beginsAs someone who leans far right wing, but will always be glad he took Marxist literature courses to understand material readings of history, I'd largely agree with the schema they have there. I can't wait to explore that writing further. My personal vocabulary for what they talk about is a little different, but they're really coherently presenting things. However, absent massive economic change: either in excess or scarcity (which I think psychologically or actually in terms of resources, taps in… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/12/15 06:39 AM |
| 5 | 30 is NOT the new 20: Top psychologist says 20-somethings are damaging future career and relationships by treating decade as 'downtime' before real life beginsA great many of them will not be single, though they probably also will not be as satisfied with their long term or married partners, as they might have been if they had identified a man to settle down with earlier on. Decades and decades on from the Sexual Revolution (rather, the Women's Sexual Revolution, which was of and by women via the Pill and a chance in women's sexual direction and concomitant material independence as they entered the higher ed and workforce space in greater numbers), we… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/12/15 02:58 AM |
| 2 | [Field Report] Got Humbled by my BF during DebateI think the external validating in getting debates right comes from my work experience. i was trained as a policy advocate and lobbyist early in my career so i think i now approach most debates like that."you're on the wrong side of history" blah blah. Consider, that even if you were totally right about the AUMF funding debacle and the mid 40s Naval officer wasn't (not saying he was sure to be correct, but. I mean....), look at what it would've won you: Not much in terms of a healthy relationshi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/12/15 11:39 PM |
| 3 | Dreading the plateYou made more money at 14 than I did annually until I was 21, so, there's that. I'm confused and I'm trying to figure things out. Everyone is in some way or another. I fundamentally believe though, that there are basic 'universal' tendencies. In engineering, system complexity is always related to probability of system failure, in chemistry, the more mathematically distinct (and you can rigorously define it via group theoretic notions) arrangements, microstates, there are for molecule to assume, … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/15 10:27 PM |
| 26 | Dreading the plateI am reminded of the Chris Rock sketch. "Well, I take care of my kids!" "You're supposed to take care of your goddamn kids! What do you want? A cookie!" I have nothing but admiration (well, and a healthy amount of envy, and interest in lifestyle and habit choices) when I see men who: earn more, are in better shape, plate more, have simpler lives, etc. But I notice none of them admire themselves too much; they look forward to, either their own potential or to their children's potential. What they… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/15 03:09 AM |
| 14 | [Mod Warning: Temp Ban Policy] Posting Shit That Belongs in /r/askTRP in the main /r/TheRedPill Subreddityep Same style of writing, same appearance of alt accounts doing the same shit over and over as soon as the previous one stops posting. It's really sad, but it's also kind of textbook instructive - - even weak men with a horrible frame can still summon intensity and persistence. The great shame is that they don't direct it towards keeping their body fit, learning, performing at work, developing pursuits and interests, etc. Men really need masculine spaces when they're young so older men can let … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/15 10:16 PM |
| 12 | [Mod Warning: Temp Ban Policy] Posting Shit That Belongs in /r/askTRP in the main /r/TheRedPill SubredditIt's like that cunt who doesn't stop making threads about being an indian/asian in America trying to get blonde white girls. How many accounts has that dude gone through now? And he's persisted for like what, a year? It's fucking pathetic. On the other hand, all the Indian and Asian origin guys on TRP breathed a sigh of relief that it's just that buy beta-ing like there's no tomorrow, and it's not "them". | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/15 06:17 PM |
| 2 | How can I be attracted to my (wonderful & attractive) husband?Thanks; much appreciated! | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/12/15 05:51 AM |
| 7 | How can I be attracted to my (wonderful & attractive) husband?He is also not a very sexual guy (even though when we first got married I did catch him looking at porn multiple times) - in the sense that he never seemed interested in experimenting sexually, being adventurous etc especially compared with my past relationships (I haven't had many but enough to tell the difference). 1) "Catch" him looking at porn over and over? Why was he going to the Burger King? Maybe there wasn't food at home? 2) It's not like he gets to be the first guy, or even the best gu… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/12/15 01:19 AM |
| 3 | Proving you are a virgin?/u/TempestTcup has said exactly what I feel on what RPW does: https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/3vb4td/proving_you_are_a_virgin/cxnob1i And TT knows much more than I do, so I would defer to their judgement. That said: Right, it's the qualities that make a virgin a virgin that are more important than virginity itself. I mean, that's taking it a bit far. It is in fact hamstering. Because if you presented someone who has "the qualities that would make a virgin a virgin" and who had a p… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/12/15 03:22 PM |
| 2 | Y'all Need to Watch Bill Burr.It happens, but you're correct, it's unicorn territory, and no matter what; AWALT. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/15 06:00 PM |
| 9 | How do I compliment my man?I can't formulate my thoughts into words... You could tell him this. he showers me with compliments any time and when I least expect it--not just to compliment my looks or my body but he tells me how happy I make him etc etc. And I just get tongue-tied when he does that! Real Fact: Men love it when they make the women they love flustered. They do this because your smile or embarrassment or inability to continue on like they're not head over heels for you is deeply satisfying to them. Just go ahe… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/15 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Downsides of High-Paying White Collar JobsBetter now until 35, than from 40 to 50. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/15 06:55 AM |
| 8 | Proving you are a virgin?My greatest asset in SMV would be my virginity, but I feel like I'm making it more difficult for a man to believe. Work on having other redeeming qualities. Thought I'd point it out: While a young woman being a virgin definitely increases her SMV for a man who seeks a relationship or even (gasp!) a marital, final relationship..... .....this poster has gotten so down on herself that she thinks "being a virgin" can stand all by itself as the best thing she brings to the table. She would be, if she… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/15 06:50 AM |
| 5 | Proving you are a virgin?It is not an RP idea that a woman's virginity is her chief asset on the smp or mmp. That's correct, but it is a red pill idea that a woman's sexual loyalty and exclusivity is of profound gravity in determining her suitability in every kind of relationship: 1) Will she have sex with you? 2) and only you? And fundamentally, virgin women who marry young, as plenty of data shows, are a much better choice for LTRs than any other situation. Every society hit upon this in terms of what kind of women we… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/15 06:45 AM |
| 2 | Is it normal to feel embarrassed by your significant other? How much should I ignore those feelings?I want a beta who knows how to put on an alpha face. That in itself, is not unreasonable.... (and is the basic tension of female desire; Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks - - it's a dialectic that's present in much else besides just "genetic quality" vs "material contribution", as you've noticed with "social status" and "individual interaction". Don't worry; men have their own dialectical sexuality to deal with as well) ....but choosing to allow society to dictate your life, choosing to think poorly of th… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/15 05:54 AM |
| 48 | Y'all Need to Watch Bill Burr.Yes and no. If you're getting married to a: under the age of 25, feminine, deferring, knows how to cook, wants kids, understands that men have shit to do and her job is to support her man, loyal, virgin (oh, this is actually important), conservatively raised, normal family, decent woman. Phew! Then you're still marrying someone who could get bored, feel dissatisfied a decade down the road, and cheat on you. And not only cheat on you; take any kids away, take half your shit (especially if it's th… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/15 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Woman doesn't understand why her boyfriend wouldn't want his future daughter to be a slut because she found it 'empowering' to have threesomes in her 20's.It's infuriating to know that HE'S the one breaking up with me in his eyes, because I don't respect him ^ From the update, and all you need to know about how women view alpha men doing shit on their terms, hahahahaha; good on that guy. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/15 04:22 PM |
| 5 | Man spends half a paycheck to propose to his girlfriend. Gf is disappointed because she wanted it to be done in front of all her friends. She "apologize" by sending him pizza. From TIFUShould we send him a link to TRP ? I know we're not supposed to... Think about why you're not supposed to for just a moment. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/15 04:19 PM |
| 14 | Is it normal to feel embarrassed by your significant other? How much should I ignore those feelings?I can't seem to get close to any other type. I've gone on dates with more outgoing guys, but I don't have much in common with them and most of the things they talk about bore me. And does this reflect negatively on your boyfriend? Negatively on you? With my current guy we can talk for hours about anything, he just doesn't know how to hold his own in a group or around other guys. Maybe that's because a lot of the personality he cultivated is one that is more withdrawn, less boisterous, and less o… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/12/15 04:17 PM |
| 8 | Is it normal to feel embarrassed by your significant other? How much should I ignore those feelings?I've been told by multiple people that I could date up more 'Woman in 2015 told to branch swing on her caring introverted boyfriend she can relate to, but who doesn't have awesome social skills' I mean, OP, you know what's happening, right? | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/12/15 04:13 PM |
| 24 | Downsides of High-Paying White Collar JobsSometimes it seems like a lower paying job with regular hours and less travel may be better for someone who wants to spin plates, hit the gym, and get enough sleep regularly. No, keep as good a sleep schedule as possible, work out as often as possible, eat the best food you can, and work like crazy while you're young, and save/intelligently invest your money. The body is capable of taking abuse and staying healthy at 20-35ish that it simply isn't later on. Furthermore, your body after 35, certai… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/15 05:49 AM |
| 1 | This story: glorified female virginity, 12 months relationships without sex, men found balls and broke up, "but I do want sex now, how do I get him back?"Yes, that is precisely in line with what I am saying. Agriculture and Marriage (1.0) are both civilized refinements of gathering nuts and berries and sexual competition, in order to create systems of guaranteed resources, so that people are happier and more productive. No we have obesity epidemics instead of just guaranteed food, and cheating sluts, and expensive divorces instead of happily married women and working men. We have become gluttonous, in almost all spheres. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/15 04:19 PM |
| 1 | The return of patriarchyChina is expanding into every resource rich place on the planet, buying up property and resource rights from the US to Africa. Their wealthy exploit the 14th Amendment in droves, giving their elite children US birth citizenship, just also Chinese citizenship by parentage, raided in China. Their people are widely seen as aggressive, coarse, pushy and self centered when they go out as tourists, when they conduct business with non-Chinese non-Westerners, their military and government as bullies by … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/15 04:16 PM |
| 3 | RPW in a NutshellIt may not be entirely picking and choosing what to accept about RPW. I think a lot of the problem 'blue pill' styled men have is that they commit to poorly chosen women. You know what I mean; the orbiters, the guys who think the High N Count 30 Something has changed, etc. In that same way, I think a lot of girls are willing to defer, absolutely, but identifying 'good men' is simply not something easy in this day and age because the the culture is so pervasively sexual and rotten about it. They'… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/15 04:09 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with men running off after finding out I make more money than them?Men can get sex, emotional stability, food prep, and love from unmarried women. The last stand in the modern world is children. That's the one thing they can't get from a girlfriend http://abcnews.go.com/Entertainment/cristiano-ronaldo-soccer-star-single-dad-surrogate/story?id=11095236 This always struck me as the epitome of RP realities about the socioeconomics of the home and dating. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/12/15 06:42 PM |
| 2 | New Jack Donovan essay: All they have is fear.the way a lot of people my age (at least the people I associate with) see a lot of the wars that have gone on in the last 30 or 40 years, is that they're actually more about resources and not conflicting ideologies. When wars are about 'resources', they're still about ideology, namely, how and to whom those resources should be allocated based on benefit, deservingness, etc. all of which are determined on ideological grounds. Then again, there's plenty of reason to suspect ideological grounds are… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/15 08:49 PM |
| 2 | New Jack Donovan essay: All they have is fear.^ this guy is correct, and I've commingled disease etiologies and how humanity beat them carelessly in my post. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/15 08:45 PM |
| 0 | The return of patriarchyAnd if western civilization was going to remain a superpower forever, that would be true, but I'm sure there's got to be some group out there we can think of that is strongly patriarchal, has a large sense of duty to the group, has members who aren't afraid to die for that group, probably considered backwater and maybe a little violent (but hey, being the underdog is an advantage anyway). If we really, and I mean really, comb our brains to think of any people who might fit that definition, then … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/15 10:42 AM |
| 2 | The RedPill lens: Miss USA dumps Tim Tebow due to "lack of sex"I just have to wonder what a society would look like were it secularized from a Muslim starting point in the same way Christendom got mellowed out. It's a much more masculinity acknowledging tradition than I think Christianity ever had as part of doctrine. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/15 09:22 AM |
| 5 | Men must prove a woman said Yes under tough new rape lawsThere are already plenty of ways for the State to imprison minorities. Using women's liberation to round out being able to lock up straight white men is just the final piece of the puzzle. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/15 02:40 AM |
| 5 | New Jack Donovan essay: All they have is fear.As a rational position you arrived at through observation and emotional reaction to the world around you, I agree you and plenty others are anti-war. As a dogmatic virtue/in-group-signalling ideological meme? In that sense, you are not anti-war and anti-military and anti-US hegemony in the way almost an entire younger generation is. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/15 02:11 AM |
| 7 | New Jack Donovan essay: All they have is fear.I should clarify: The American Peace is one secured for Americans, Europeans, and Southeast Asia. I wouldn't ever claim it's been for Middle Easterners, South Asians, or Africans. Post WW2 for a large part of the world, and post USSR breakup for much else of it, war simply hasn't happened. The defense budgets of our NATO partners, for instance, is entirely a product of complacency - just as much as the lackadaisical to suspicious nature of some Americans towards vaccines. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/15 02:09 AM |
| 108 | New Jack Donovan essay: All they have is fear.The problem always corrects itself. It's the children born from 1980 to about 1999, who developed as children and young adults before 9/11, but after the fall of the Soviet Union (with allowances for varying maturity and awareness of the world around them), who are the most opposed to war, the most opposed to defense spending, the most opposed to martial values reflected in foreign policy. For them, the normal condition of the world is peace and plenty and the policies of the distant, unremember… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/15 12:18 AM |
| 15 | The RedPill lens: Miss USA dumps Tim Tebow due to "lack of sex"But did he fail? She's making it sound like she's dumping him because he won't have sex, but I'd bet she demanded he compromise on his choices, and he just said "No." That she's breaking up with him for this reason, where it would've been easy enough for him to just bang her, makes me think he's the party walking away, she's just the one doing it publicly. He has options. (I'm not sure he does, as an older virgin male in a society that's really just not religious at all, but, he probably thinks … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/15 11:43 PM |
| 48 | The RedPill lens: Miss USA dumps Tim Tebow due to "lack of sex"I used to think this, but I've met a few people who are literally chaste. Hell, TRP has a post on its front page right now by some guy that waited until he was 27 to have sex, and is asking for advice on laying the pipe right with his wife. Tebow being willing to be open and proud about his choice to wait until marriage, when it's clear he has never had to as an NFL player, especially after this, will drastically boost his 'brand' of alpha in certain social swathes of the U.S. Whether it means h… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/15 11:41 PM |
| 2 | Starting Fresh w/ RPW ValuesAny tips or advice to be a better RPW in general? This is just a human advice thing, not a woman or man advice thing: You have to care about you. When you prioritize yourself, you will find yourself putting in lots of effort to better yourself; physically, financially, emotionally. You will find yourself putting in the effort to better your relationships (or ending them, if the guy sucks and isn't worth you....or improving them if the guy is great and should have a better version of you to match… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/11/15 07:34 PM |
| 17 | Porn Actor James Deen Accused Of Rape By Ex-Girlfriend StoyaShe was being a loud mouth whore Probably, but that doesn't give someone license to do this: annihilated her face maul her face Doing this to someone for being a mouthy bitch is totally unwarranted, weak-frame, shitty behavior from a man who ought be in control of himself. Probably Christy Mack was being useless. She is a whore, a slut who fucks for money. Whatever; it's a reason to not respect her. It's not a reason to beat the shit out of her when she's doing or saying whore things. There's no… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/15 04:22 PM |
| 6 | Man refuses blind set up date, every women who knows the people involved take the girls sidestay the fuck out of his love life Modern women don't even want to stay out of the military's special units, out of the all male golf club or bar, out of the boy scouts. Their own relative's sexual conduct? They probably already think they own that. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/15 03:33 PM |
| 1 | "My birthday should be a happy thing..." The blame-game...She's 33?! Anyone with whom you do not have to deal, male or female, who behaves like this past 18 is not worth enduring longterm. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/15 02:27 PM |
| 79 | Man refuses blind set up date, every women who knows the people involved take the girls sideEven - - or perhaps especially - - if a man is not perceived as having a high SMV, rejection is verboten for the female mind. Male analogue: A job application rejection from Renaissance Tech or Brown Brothers Harriman after interview rounds will hurt - doesn't matter if you're high quality material, and you know how competitive the process is and you have great prospects at some other financial services job lined up. There'll be a sting. But imagine if your application to a smaller tier boutique… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/15 07:21 PM |
| 2 | This story: glorified female virginity, 12 months relationships without sex, men found balls and broke up, "but I do want sex now, how do I get him back?"Any guy worth dating will dump her ass if she's not going to put out. I dunno; I think plenty of RPers, if they were dating a fit, healthy, 18-25 year old girl who cooked for them, could keep their home, and conformed to gender roles, articulating her desire for a Captain to her First Mate (as the analogy goes), and from a family that didn't have a history of divorce, and had been involved in raising her to be a good woman, would be fine not immediately banging her. Furthermore, I'm not one for … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/15 04:30 PM |
| 4 | My SO does exciting things with his friends but would rather stay in if it's just the two of us. I feel bad about that. Help?he will probably say "well let me know when you're done with whatever and come sleep over..." and then it might be weird if I just say no. Well, don't immediately text back and say "NEVARRRR!!!11", but no need to cut off communication entirely. Healthy relationships - - - - look at this, a redpiller talking about relationships - - - happen when each party mutually puts the other's happiness ahead of their own, and makes that the objective of their relationship. By each party looking out for the … | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/11/15 02:57 AM |
| 13 | This story: glorified female virginity, 12 months relationships without sex, men found balls and broke up, "but I do want sex now, how do I get him back?"I'm a virgin and always told him I wanted to take it a bit slower until we had sex. No particular reason - it's just a big deal for me and I wanted to make it special. If she's not a virgin until marriage, she's not worth it. I can respect (and frankly, it'd be a way better strategy for most women to follow) a younger girl who truly does not want to accept the biggest all in one hit to her sexual marketplace value that she can possible take on, until she has secured from a man, his own commitmen… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/15 02:50 AM |
| 3 | My SO does exciting things with his friends but would rather stay in if it's just the two of us. I feel bad about that. Help?What do you and your partner do when it's just you two?? So....I'm going to preface this with the disclaimer that I would love to meet the kind of girl I'd be in a long term relationship with, and I'm not, I like to think, a completely awful human being: ... I generally don't take plates out to dinner or go out on 'dates' as it is. ... I will occasionally if I'm not spending a lot of time, or else a lot of money, because I do enjoy making them happy. I don't think, from what I've read, that you … | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/11/15 02:41 AM |
| 11 | My SO does exciting things with his friends but would rather stay in if it's just the two of us. I feel bad about that. Help?You need to understand male friendship and bonding. You're absolutely correct in that you do deserve to be a full part of your SO's life, but he's correct in that he wants to have space of his own that doesn't always involve you. when I try to communicate to him that I think it'd be fun to do something else or that my feelings get hurt if he rejects me for happy hour but does it with his friends, he gets really offended and says I'm not giving him space with his friends Essentially: When you tel… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/11/15 12:11 AM |
| 15 | Show Me The Ho Facts!Usually, before two people begin any long term relationship there is an inquiry into the past. Creditors run credit checks. Employers ask for references. Leasers ask about past evictions. In contrast, there is a certain stigma about doing this with regard to sexual relationships. Many men feel uneasy listening to their wife or girlfriend talk about how she got skeeted up by a parade of dudes. Even if there weren't overwhelming evidence that as animals whose physiology and psychology are products… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/15 10:16 PM |
| 1 | What you say and what she hearsRemember, communication is only 7% verbal. The words you say are trivial. I might not go that far, but there's a reason people will pay lots of money to watch Cirque du Soleil and not so much to buy books. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/15 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on Doing Web Development for Rest of Career Or Entering Medical School @ 30. Money now versus job security, status, higher income, and ability to work into old age. What would you do?It's a far more conservative option than being a programmer. In terms of time spent, debt incurred, and stress endured? I'm not so sure - - - the (unquestionable and unmatched) benefit of a medical career is cashflow and job security. You will always have income, it will always be 150k+, and you're never going to look for a job unless you specifically to change job location, and will be effectively guaranteed to find one. That and that alone, may or may not be worth it to someone depending on wh… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/15 06:30 PM |
| 9 | Thoughts on Doing Web Development for Rest of Career Or Entering Medical School @ 30. Money now versus job security, status, higher income, and ability to work into old age. What would you do?Going to medical school to strike it rich is dumber. Even pre PPACA: To have any actual career: 4 years med school + 3 years residency + 3 years fellowship, MCAT, USMLE3, 250K to 450k in debt. If you're "in" medical school at 22, you'll be more than a GP doc with a board certification, a residency match, and a speciality (i.e. making *actual money) at 32. And then there's all the bullshit of working as a physician who isn't an attending/department head, wherein you're still ultimately labor, you… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/15 05:21 AM |
| -1 | Should we break up?I am definitely more attractive than him, and by far his hottest girlfriend. For now. 24-25. 27-28 34-35 36-37 Life keeps happening after he's 35; and he knows it. I did not give the best years of my life to someone else. In terms of physical attraction, sexual history, and the quality of the genes in your remaining ovarian reserves oocytes to eggs pipeline, which determines the fidelity of protein coding written for and executed by the genes you'll contribute to half-way of all offspring you co… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/11/15 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Self improvement before moving in togetherStart small, work up. Going to bee each day at a regular time, waking up on time, and cleaning yourself and your room is part of many cultures religious rituals for a reason: it will make you a healthier human. They saw ritual purity and moral cleanliness in it. Whatever the case is, it will help. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/11/15 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Should we break up?That guy was told I didn't want kids "I told that guy I didn't want kids" - you didn't write it like that so that you could write "and he decided..." So that your agency is diminished. You told him that you don't want kids. That guy was told I didn't want kids and he decided that he wanted me more than kids and that was okay with him. It's unclear when it came up because I was 17 and wasn't considering that. However it did come up. My ex bought a ring and would have proposed I presume but he was… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/11/15 02:46 PM |
| 2 | Should we break up?We aren't disputing that the guy is excellent, you see. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/11/15 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Should we break up?when we first started hanging out it was causal and on my terms because I said the next person that I date will likely be my husband because I dated someone for six years from 17-23 so I'm not wasting anytime dating if it's not leading to something Okay, so, from your boyfriend's perspective, you willingly gave your 17year old, 18 year old, 19year old, 20year old, 21 year old, 22year old, and 23year old : Body, appearance, experiences, youth, and time to some other guy. Did that guy get ultimatu… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/11/15 02:16 PM |
| 3 | Experiences of an Indian guy in the western world that took the pill - My success story and observations.There's nothing wrong with some intermixing (most of my girlfriends have been of non-European or mixed ancestry) but if some want to preserve their ethnicity Then they should marry someone of their ethnicity, learn the heritage language, speak it to the many children they have, and raise their kids around others of that ethnicity. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/15 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Would you honestly be ok if someone played your daughter or sister?The fun thing about RP styled cultures is that they don't raise useless women, just as they don't raise beta men. They don't raise girls to be sluts or plate women. They don't raise boys to be poor or weak men. They raise people who achieve, and by performing as boys and girls, the rituals and actions of men and women, become excellent men and women. The RP father doesn't want his daughter to never have sex. He wants her only having sex in a marriage, a committed relationship wherein her literal… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/15 11:28 PM |
| 3 | Should we break up?my desire to have his kids is possibly insincere Isn't it? If you were comfortable thinking and saying for the longest time that you don't want kids, and now you're saying you do want kids, I mean - what's he to think? You're not a 20 year old girl with no prior sexual partners and the option to become a career woman professing a desire to have kids. You need to talk to him about what he wants, and you need to articulate what you want, and you both have to see if you can each deliver on that. On… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/11/15 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Self improvement before moving in togethergetting up earlier (I'm definitely not a morning person!) Sleep earlier, and set a regular sleep schedule. Even just lying in bed in the dark with a fan on under a blanket after 'bed time' with no electronics/artificial light 30 minutes before 'bed time'. Give it two weeks, and let some natural light hit your face in the bedroom. You'll be amazed at how much of a morning person you can be. making sure I keep up going to the gym despite a busy timetable This is actually where being a morning pers… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/11/15 04:20 PM |
| 4 | Jezebel reader takes the red pillEverything's a gamble. He probably wants to have children, and there's very little you can do not to be married, and still successfully raise children. Legally speaking, it's just a terrible idea to get married, but, it's generally risky to try and start your own business, too. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/15 04:08 PM |
| 2 | What Do NonSluts Got That Sluts Don't Got?He is referring to genuine sluts. Not just some girl who sucked 4 or 5 cocks in college and slutted it up on the CC for a while. Boy oh boy, there's probably a great deal of heterogeneity in what's a 'slut', then. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/15 01:38 PM |
| 5 | Odd question... but I'm pretty sure the dog likes me more and it's bumming out my bf.One of my closest friends has a GSD. I was picking him up to go shooting, and Major perked up when I came to the door. My friend said "Hey, sit down", and Major complied. Didn't take his eyes off me, though, and didn't lie back down. As we were leaving "Hey Major - - Momma"; Major went and curled up in front of my buddy's girlfriend. Dogs know. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/11/15 09:57 PM |
| 55 | Found a quick way to shut down a shit-testeris negging pretty much the same thing as shit-testing? Different. 'Negging' is there to bring someone with an inflated opinion down to earth, to make them feel like or at least understand that you can walk and they better step it up and cut the princess act. Shit testing - - while we resent it - - is just as necessary and crucial, and it's seeing whether or not the male is a weakling whose confidence is put on or inbuilt. While it's basic 'stress testing', the negging is a strategy meant to inst… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/15 09:49 PM |
| 6 | The End of Betadom.The future belongs to women The future belongs to the organizations they buy from, whose votes they'll win, and whose societal structures they'll populate. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/15 03:04 AM |
| 7 | Financial help. How to receive it from fiancé.Anyway, we are talking about how we both want to be debt free before the wedding. He told me that he is planning to write a check for the remaining balance of my student loans this week. His justification is "pay it now, or pay more later" Don't you see what's happening, OP? My fiancé and I are getting married next october. I am having a hard time not feeling like a failure or loser. I feel like I failed at my goal to pay it off. He sees it as his goal to pay off your debt, too. Your goal is his… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/11/15 03:00 AM |
| 5 | Noticing the harsh realities of life after taking the pillYou can definitely have children without getting married. Right, and I clarified it's only largely true, as technology and society still haven't made it impossible to have kids without being married -and there are plenty of arrangements that aren't the legal marriage that exists in Western nations. But there's basically such a narrow set of circumstances in which this is financially/socially/logistically possible that it's pretty much just not true for most men. You'd as well hope to be able to … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/15 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Curious what redpill thinksIf you were born in the United States nothing you have written would make any sense. It would if he came from a strict, religious family. There are plenty of places in the US where OP is like hay on a farm - - there aren't that many women to go along with it, however, because modernity's reach is far and permanent. Degeneracy of culture is an entropy favored condition. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/15 12:12 AM |
| 47 | Noticing the harsh realities of life after taking the pillYou'll always receive suboptimal results from not knowing how a system works, as opposed to knowing how it works - - even if what that system delivers is revealed to be different from what you imagined it did. You are much more lucky to be dissatisfied in a world whose flaws you see, than dissatisfied without a clue. But the point you raise about dissatisfaction is genuine. There is much about the world, especially when it comes to sex, relationships, stability, and security, between men and wom… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/15 12:09 AM |
| 5 | Is Texting Important to a Relationship?My boyfriend will text if he's running late but says texting "isn't real communication." He says that if I need to talk, I should call him. Knowing that he doesn't place the same kind of value on texts other people do: When he doesn't respond or grudgingly responds a day later, I get more and more hurt and angry and want to break up with him. I know he cares about me. Am I being unreasonable? Her problem is bigger than the texting. This is basically 'I like this, and derive validation from it. H… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/11/15 06:15 PM |
| 0 | Honest question for this communityMen are different than women? They are indeed. This is why I don't try to pursue women by being sweet, and quiet, and demure. This is why women who interest me aren't aggressive, loud, and brawny. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/15 06:46 AM |
| 4 | Girl on OKCupid subreddit keeps telling herself that she's attracted to betas - and then learns that her "perfect, amazing" boyfriend is a RedPiller.unless it's obvious to her you're teasing her by letting her win. Thus my great clarifications of the kind of girl you do this for. They know what the societal ritual is - - and even if they do, talking about courtship etiquette is itself a violation of courtship etiquette. Again; small corollary (unless of course you're doing it in a teasing way) | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/15 03:11 AM |
| 6 | Honest question for this communitydo you see your mom and/or sisters in this same view point? Yes; then again, they each come from a much more old-fashioned upbringing, so my Father is a very masculine man, my mother a very feminine woman. The Old Man is like a grizzled lion now, and my Mama like the Matriarch of the family. King and Queen. Marriage of 40 years. Since women don't hold much value outside of simply the ability to carry a man's seed First of all, that's possibly the most valuable possible thing in a man's life; his… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/15 12:25 AM |
| 36 | Girl on OKCupid subreddit keeps telling herself that she's attracted to betas - and then learns that her "perfect, amazing" boyfriend is a RedPiller.You know, letting a girl from a nice family who you take on dinner dates and who is sweet and LTR material... win the friendly game of badminton you're playing, isn't a terrible idea. Letting her know you did because you want her to feel good about herself when she's with you so you can do anything from have sex with her to marry her will come off as manipulative even though it's a perfectly normal and completely vanilla thing to do. This harpy's boyfriend basically just had that happen to him b… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/15 12:13 AM |
| 4 | I feel like I'm doing it all wrong. Constructive criticism?Learn to meditate, and live deliberately. This isn't just "be a better woman! learn how to cook and clean and be sweet!" (though, I hope it's obvious to you that quality men who want long term relationships and wives adore women that will simplify their lives and give them comfort, food, and nice surroundings) This is basic 'person' advice: If you aren't satisfied with your life, do the uncomfortable thing and spend some time thinking about it. Don't ruminate, and don't wallow. But think, when y… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/11/15 10:27 PM |
| 29 | LTRs: Even when you win you are still losing (or why the fuck do I do this)Last night my girlfriend decided that the last hour of our evening would best be spent making sure I was fully aware of her displeasure with something that I had done earlier in the day. It was the kind of thing that an adult with a fully developed emotional center would not have thought twice about, but how dare I make a small mistake and create a tiny inconvenience in her day. I'm very aware that there are girls who don't act as childish as mine, but this is the type of female bullshit that ev… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/15 10:08 PM |
| 5 | The 1950's was a much more RP friendly society.On this sub it really doesn't matter what men were like back then and what they're like now. I think any RP woman and man ought look towards different societies and time periods where femininity and masculinity are well defined as examples - even incentives. It's not the high SMV men who have to marry large-N, heavyweight, kitchen incapable, princesses, or high SMV women who have to settle for low earning, fat, ambition bereft manchildren. We focus on how we can improve ourselves to attract that… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/11/15 02:20 PM |
| 6 | How do Women Deal with Each Other? - A Thought ExperimentIt's a male response to want to solve problems; we want solutions, advice. The condition of our sex is doership in the face of conflict. It's the female desire to have empathy, support, comfort. These are not at odds with each other - - but men have to learn that women are not men, and want empathy, not fixes. This is a case of male solipsism often rearing its head among younger dudes, wherein they get frustrated that their genuine attempts to solve the emotional problems with practical solution… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/15 03:52 AM |
| 3 | Is love real?There isn't any kind of universal. There is the love a Father feels for his son; the boy that will grow up to be a man someday, a little version of himself. There is the love the father feels for his daughter, his little girl, his princess, no matter how old she is - she is always his daughter. There is the love a young man feels for his girlfriend, there is the love he feels for the girlfriend he wants to make his wife, there is the love he feels for the woman who has borne him children, etc. L… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/15 03:32 AM |
| 63 | The 1950's was a much more RP friendly society.Yeah, men today should be a little more like men back then, too. You know what men aged 20-30 in the years of 1950 through 1960 largely were? Gainfully employed, property owning, military veterans with excellent physiques, literal battle hardened psyches, excellent grooming standards, who didn't pity themselves and worked like crazy. Very few women bother being worthwhile women, but very few men bother being successful men. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/11/15 03:20 AM |
| 3 | Describe Mr. RightRealize, first of all, that coming to an internet forum to ask women how to make yourself a more attractive man is pretty fucking beta. Secondly; TRP and askTRP exist - - go west there, young man. Thirdly; Self improvement - improving the control you have over your life; your fitness, your health, your emotional stability, your earning, your education, your appearance, your personability - - this could not be more obvious. All of it, for the rest of your life, is something you have to continuall… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/11/15 08:36 PM |
| 62 | I turned 24 last week and I don't know what to do with my lifedropping the partying is just not possible for me. Not because I'm an alcoholic or anything, but because i'm an extrovert Okay, well, realize that there are plenty of high SMV men; men aged 25-30, in excellent shape, who want a family, therefore want a wife to bear children and raise them, who earn a lot, who will be totally justified in writing you off for this. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/11/15 06:56 PM |
| 6 | "To continue to ensure that the University of Missouri campus remains safe, the MU Police Department (MUPD) is asking individuals who witness incidents of hateful and/or hurtful speech or actions to: Call the police immediately"If we have real hardships like we used to, we wouldn't see this. Remember what the Gilded Age was followed by. Remember what the Depression was followed by. It is the nature of nature to change; that which is put together falls apart, life comes from death just as a rotting corpse fertilizes a field. This too will pass. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/15 06:50 PM |
| 9 | Complaining. Don't do it.This is, crucially, distinct from clarifying to yourself and others, why you are unhappy - - being clear about what you want and don't want is very necessary. Just don't complain. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/11/15 09:46 PM |
| 7 | Be His Soft Place to LandYin and Yang. Women adore men for their strength and resolve and eschew men who are weak and unsure. Men adore women for their sweetness and softness and eschew women who are bitter and hardened. Male womanlyness and female manliness are detestable because they are never useful - they are each poor copies of femininity and masculinity, directed at the gender looking for something else. Feminine men are little use to women, masculine women are little use to men. Woman is the soil of the human for… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/11/15 03:39 PM |
| 5 | Things like hypergamy and women not dating down continue to be picked up by mainstream newspapers (Telegraph)Hypergamy is fundamentally the command for male excellence. We fuck, impregnate, and provide for our young, our our genes do not survive. Only by maximizing the women you fuck, impregnate, and have provided for, are your genes more present in the subsequent pool of humanity when you die than some other guy. ^ this was the entirety of human civilization before the creation of (and every society that mattered did it) marital contract which ensured almost any man could spend his productive labor on… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/15 03:43 PM |
| 187 | Feminism is actually hedonismThe basic condition of any weak person is that they avoid all pain and seek only pleasure. The truth is that by pursuing beyond immediate reward, we can find things of great pleasure, build things of greater pleasure, and ensure less painful conditions in the future for ourselves and those we care about just by enduring a little pain. This is why the beta man jerks it to porn and plays Xbox instead of feeling the sting of a few date rejections and unreturned cover letters. This is why the slut t… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/15 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Police woman killed unarmed man (surrendered on the floor and being tazered) by shooting him in the back: She is the victim.there's a male cop doing the same thing every week and getting off just as easily It is the lack of personal accountability and confusion over duty that results in sluts and beta orbiters, too. It is clarity of duty (or else goals) and personal responsibility to fulfill it that TRP espouses. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/11/15 06:37 PM |
| 26 | The Sex Cartel: Puritanism and Prudery as Price-fixing Among ProstitutesThe distinguishing feature of prostitutes isn’t that they have sex for money – it’s that they provide such excellent value for money. With so little frustration. Modern women have destroyed everything the investment of men into a marriage was supposed to be for; her youth, beauty, sexual fidelity and exclusivity, her innocence and sweetness - - all of this is thrown away, as the marriage field becomes filled with 25+ wrinkling, jaded, nearing or past double digit sexual partners, career women wh… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/15 02:55 PM |
| 2 | Any tips on being a better woman?Could you please explain what you mean by being introspective? Introspection is living deliberately. It's examining your own thought processes and why you do what you do. A lot of people just live moment to moment, never letting their minds be quiet, never really spending time with themselves. This isn't just a 'be a better woman thing' - - this is how we grow as people. Reflecting on who you are, how you came to be where you are, what you value, what you do to get more that you value, what your… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/11/15 04:38 AM |
| 2 | Interesting article in the NYTimes: Why Women Compete With Each OtherWe (human animals) are actually more hardwired to cooperate With our own. Altruism is an evolutionary response to wanting to see similar genes (or those members of a society psychologically close to you) to perpetuate competitively. That's why it's nepotism when the uncle helps the nephew out even if it's not his own kid - - and not "stranger favor!" where the uncle goes and helps some rando out over his own nephew. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/11/15 04:15 AM |
| 10 | Is a man with zero ambition (self-proclaimed) a red flag?Then find a man who wants to win bread. Doesn't have to be a man who has made it now. But a man who declares they have 'no ambition' (and to a woman!) likely does truly have no ambitions. This isn't difficult. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/11/15 04:12 AM |
| 40 | Hooking Up When You’re an Anti-Rape Activist - Comedy GoldI swear half of what we think of as feminism is click-bait. Camille Paglia (you know, one of those feminists no one has heard about like they have mattress girl) famously obscurely remarked: "feminism has become a catch-all vegetable drawer where bunches of clingy sob sisters can store their moldy neuroses." | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/15 04:00 AM |
| 1 | So long RP... err I mean PUA. New rules, get ready to get cucked!The Red Pill is men's sexual strategy. I don't know why you're so confused, OP. If 70/100 possible cars would occasionally combust with you in it within 1-10 years of ownership, but potentially at any time, and the alternative was riding a lot of bikes, taking a bus, or else walking to work - - why on earth would anyone advocate buying a car? I mean, especially if the cars available for purchase were not nearly as nice as the way cars used to be built, were all greatly used cars, some outright f… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/15 06:49 PM |
| 3 | Military types - Don't commit.Educating them about the realities of women is what we have to do, along with younger men. Once men at every spectrum see how much bullshit is going on, only then, when there is a defined cost to themselves, do they act. Bluepill thinking is the equivalent of a guy knowing he's spending too much money on takeout and restaurants, but never really looking at his bank balance over time and seeing how much he'd have saved if only he cooked once in a while. Not even blissful ignorance; shitty partial… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/15 04:36 PM |
| 22 | Military types - Don't commit.Military culture of legal import is determined by brass and basically the same version of why older conservative men will oppose birth control and abortion access (because they intuitively understand hypergamy) but not understand a man dumping girlfriend after girlfriend and actually hate him for being a 'rake' - - - they simply cannot comprehend the extent to which hypergamy has come unchecked. When they think of women, they think of women when they were young, their mothers, their sisters, and… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/15 11:49 PM |
| 11 | Betas on AskMen willfully act as doormats for entitled hot women. This is what "love" looks like in a bluepill world.I get that heterosexual relationships have undercurrents of prostitution in them No! The truth is much more piercing. Prostitution is simply a simulacra of the heterosexual relationship. Have you ever thought about why there are so few gay prostitutes? There's hardly any need for them. The inherent dualistic now-and-then costs born by women and men for sex and sexual commitment comes with it an inherent trading relationship of sex/feminine comfort for material provision/masculine comfort. It's n… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/15 06:49 PM |
| 7 | Race to the Top 2: Electric Boogaloo (The Red Pill Guide for Minorities)Native American/German/East Indian mix, I've never had a woman get my nationality correct. You know, that's partly because you and the: Japanese Italian scotsman in this thread have sort of unusual backgrounds | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/15 03:24 PM |
| 0 | Meatless Man Foodbut we eat much more to his preference than to mine almost all of the time This is a not an entirely dismiss-able thing, but it would be good for you to let him know you're trying to find neat things you both can eat and enjoy for this reason. Otherwise it might feel like "Oh boy, now on Mondays I don't get actual food anymore" | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/11/15 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Meatless Man FoodI want to clarify that I'm not trying to change him or anything--I just want to cut meat one dinner a week and would like to introduce him to the idea by making him an absolutely bomb meatless dinner tonight. You sure about that? When I cook for myself, it's often vegetarian, but the SO doesn't seem to feel like I'm feeding him unless an animal died lol. I can sympathize with someone who feels like their dietary choices aren't shared, but why do you want him to eat as you eat? Does he make you e… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/11/15 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Confidence. Please help!Showering him with love when he is down will more likely create a soft bodied mamas boy. Not what I'm saying she should do. You don't want to be his mother by reinforcing that when others are meanies he can run home and get a cookie. Very much not what she would do! A man who feel success, just a tiny bit, gets hungry for more and will pursue it with eager. I don't think she needs to psychologically trick him, just remind him that she is 100% behind his own pursuit of success: Support him, hug h… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/11/15 07:50 PM |
| 6 | Confidence. Please help!my boyfriend is in college right now and whenever he does poorly on a test or feels like he understudied he gets very upset and feels like a failure, not just at that particular subject, but at life This is a very typical male reaction. Doership defines men; their suicide rates spike in economic depressions, they all have boyhood dreams of slaying dragons, and they all react to hearing women talk about problems with the (sometimes badly misplaced) impulse to ask a bunch of questions and try fixi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/11/15 04:35 AM |
| 2 | My Career is InterferingPhysical rituals help. It's not a female thing or a male thing. There is a cognitive load each person is capable of bearing, and a cost to our mental processes when we 'switch' what we're thinking about. http://dwb4.unl.edu/Diss/Cooper/UNSW.htm http://www.apa.org/research/action/multitask.aspx This isn't new age mumbo jumbo, nor is it someone telling you the man is supposed to be big and strong in the home while you are docile - - you're a human being with a brain, and your brain's capacity is s… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/11/15 09:48 PM |
| 31 | The Harvard Business Review suddenly discovers that dark triad men experience more career success and satisfactionYou're an animal. You're an animal who by dint of its genetic history, was born with a massively developed faculty of language, memory, and physical manipulation, whose hormones and pheremones are greatly suppressed, and who is capable of learning patterns without direct experience. But you're still an animal, and the evolutionary dictum of in-group out-group, and altruism and morality that guide the survival of your own genes (through reproduction and mutual defense/obligation of those to whom … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/15 09:40 PM |
| 3 | Heuristics and youI mean, don't let your computer take up half your SSD for the sake of the pagefile, but don't believe you'll serve yourself by fucking around with the registry unless you know what you're doing. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/15 07:08 PM |
| 7 | Heuristics and youThe real issue is that the natural impulse of hypergamy had checks - - the natural revulsion men feel when they know a woman has slept with other men, or already has children from unaccounted men, the natural scorn other women feel for a slut, the basic fact that using your reproductive organs with another results quite often in reproduction - - and these checks have been chemically, and socially, taken away. Our bodies also have a innate tendency to store fat as an energy reserve. It makes perf… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/15 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Woman in early 20s goes on sex spree; hamsters praise her for "finding herself" and having more "experience."No. You do and I do. Go and lurk or - if you feel confident enough in your expertise - even comment over in r.asktrp and you will see that AWALT isn't internalized by all of our subscribers. Many bemoan "Eternal September", but every single person, male or female, who decides there is an unspoken wrong with the modern sexual culture, and a weakness of theirs they want to eradicate, who comes to TRP style thinking, and sees example after example of what not to do is a human being who will not so … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/15 06:33 PM |
| 34 | The Harvard Business Review suddenly discovers that dark triad men experience more career success and satisfactionFind me a father with a strict moral code and a beloved child, and I will show you a man who when pressed sufficiently is capable of brutal savagery. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/15 06:22 PM |
| 2 | What do you think about women getting technical degrees and having jobs?I'm REALLY passionate about it and I am enormously talented at what I do. Then do it. at the same time I want to get married and have children Then do it. Which will take priority? Think about what it takes to accomplish each one, the time invested, the uncertainty, how much aging and failure influence future success in each, how much success in one costs you in the other (or helps). No man who loves his children would rather go to work than play with his kids. But they will all push themselves … | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/11/15 06:16 PM |
| 1 | How can I calm down when having a discussion and I feel offended? And what do women really want?1) Men whom sleep around with women ( that they may not necessarily always like) are desired by women. Actually sleeping with lots of women is not desired by women. The kind of man who can sleep with many women if he chose to do so is almost uniformly desired by women. It's much like physical prowess; very few women want their long term partner to kill someone or have to kill someone or make a habit of getting in fights. But boy do women seem to be attracted to tall, masculine, athletic men. I w… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/10/15 10:44 PM |
| 9 | The "half night stand" for the modern millennial woman: Just when you thought the CC wasn't enough!The Coolidge Effect is something real and documented. so is this: http://www.scientificamerican.com/article/how-a-new-father-s-brain-changes/ The natural order was civilized and made better by marriage, just like agriculture took us from being hunter gatherers to city dwelling and well nourished people. Like the microwave tv dinner and fastfood chain has made us obese however, complete sexual freedom is an excess of civilization that has undercut our progress. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/15 03:34 PM |
| 14 | Female nature is necessary for male excellence.** Yet birth control has totally unhinged hypergamy from its purpose** Without a reproductive check or eventuality on female style resource and genes seeking when it interacts with fundamental male promiscuity (a check which was refined by the civilizing force of marriage), there is almost no labor incentive at all. The economic unproductivity of the xbox/jerkoff generation is the result; the juice isn't worth the squeeze. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/15 06:12 PM |
| 38 | UMichigan girl sleeps with star football player. Gets Chlamydia. Decides to sleep with him again. Gets Chlamydia.I highly recommend you get a vasectomy over attempting to contract an STD. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/15 03:38 AM |
| 2 | Derek Jeter (41) with his 25 y/o model female: Hollywood/Sports Players confirm TRP despite pretending to be FEMINISTIt's the only choice for anyone who wants to have a job that deals with large institutional power and isn't done anonymously. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/15 05:46 PM |
| 14 | [Repost] What If Women Treated Jobs Like The Treat Marriages And Other Long Term Relationships?What do you mean by 'high quality men set a high sex price on their commitment'? Men with lots of sexual options have those options because they are: in great shape, with developed physiques and obvious signs of fitness, materially wealthy, with futures of financial plenty and obvious signs of security, or else they have confidence/game born of those two in some kind of combination. The younger the woman, usually the easier it is to impress her (not least because she's yet seen/been with/banged/… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/10/15 11:57 PM |
| 5 | [Repost] What If Women Treated Jobs Like The Treat Marriages And Other Long Term Relationships?It's because it isn't (though it should be, and once was, prior to the social norms around sex and the laws around marriage being greatly distorted) entirely obvious that women are the interviewer screening applicants when it comes to sex, but men are the interviewers screening applicants when it comes to marriage - - oooh, maybe just 'long term' commitment in 2015. Women do (and ought) screen out men for which men they'll have sex with. Even after the advent of the birth control pill, the overw… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/10/15 10:30 PM |
| 14 | Watch out for energy drains - they are probably also confidence drains.A lack of discipline is the only failing. What discredit for an unwanted outcome is there to a person who had no say in the matter? What reward is due someone who had no hand in authoring a great result? We are nothing but the sum of our actions, given our priors. Our priors are not in our control, but to the extent we control ourselves, we are responsible for our actions. We are nothing more than what we choose to do, we are nothing less. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/15 10:02 PM |
| 2 | An Endless Debate for Me: Female Friends are Uselessbut to see if he can be friends with a girl he isn't fucking. Which is entirely possible. However, these tend to be women who are not Westernized/modernized, constantly catered to, useless women whose only hobbies and pursuits are netflix, alcohol, and cock. There's significant overlap with the kind of woman you'd want for an LTR (or is in a real LTR) and the kind of woman who makes a decent friend. Frankly, of the female friends I have, the entirety are either very much like a sister, or simply… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/15 05:05 PM |
| 7 | When you stop putting women on a pedestal, not only will your life improve, you also quickly realize how boring they really are.I don't see how men could ever marry a woman. Women were not always like most women are now. Even now, most women are not the most venal of women, but someone like Amy Schumer wouldn't have been celebrated by a sitting Senator pressing for gun control. She would have been a family shame and not paraded as a social icon - much less someone whose opinion is considered in any way relevant on lawmaking. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/15 03:43 PM |
| 8 | The Decline has made us the poorest men in historyWas this always a realistic option or just a dream? Around the world, in different times and places, it has been this way. Look up the differential in STDs based on religion, look up the differential in premarital sex and extramarital sex based on religion. Look up the US's marriage rates and average first marriage age and divorce rates over time. We talk about the 'decline' because what's happened has been a devolution; a fall from grace. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/15 02:44 AM |
| 7 | The Decline has made us the poorest men in history^ This is why having actual Fathers and actual Mothers is a necessity for young boys and young girls. It is the only way you turn them into Men, into Women. Otherwise they become the vast sea of betas and sluts we have now. Failure always comes from weakness. Insufficiency always derives from insufficiency. Only when the choice is obvious; when it is clear that continued weakness will lead to destruction, is there a change. Wait for it patiently –annihilation or metamorphosis | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/15 02:41 AM |
| 3 | Can I prevent an Alpha Widow situation?Go post in asktrp | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/10/15 02:34 AM |
| 2 | PatienceI catch myself doing it because I become very worn out, paranoid, and stressed out a lot. Take time to meditate in the morning, even if it means waking up a little bit earlier. Take some time to sit with yourself after you've showered and dressed, and quiet your mind. Think about what you have to do that day, and how you'll do it. Think about what you want to be sure you do before the day is done, and what you'll need to do to do it. If you start to feel overwhelmed again, take a moment to just … | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/10/15 02:33 AM |
| 5 | I'm 24. Never dated. Now guys are attracted to me. What now?i dont know what i want anymore Spend some time thinking about this - don't ruminate and make yourself feel bad, but take some time without a cellphone, without other people around, without distractions, and think about your life, your values, your priorities, what you want to have in your life in one year, five years, ten years. If it's all blank, it means you have a lot of thinking to do - a good way to start would be to think about what you wish was different or better now in regards to yours… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/10/15 02:22 AM |
| 13 | I'm 24. Never dated. Now guys are attracted to me. What now?I haven't a clue how to choose or pick a guy I don't believe this. I think you have preferences; whether those preferences align with your long term goals, or are realistic in terms of satiability and keeping your SMV high, you have preferences. know to know if he is worthy to go forward and date and eventually marry? If you want to find a husband, you have to find a man who wants to be a husband: A man who wants sexual exclusivity and loyalty, who wants femininity and softness from his wife, wh… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/10/15 11:19 PM |
| 4 | Is there any way..?I'd like to attract a farmer mate Attraction is not negotiable; if you want to be attractive to the kind of man who is a farmer, a mechanic, an oil rig worker, a carpenter, a construction worker, etc. who toils. Think about how you can add value. Think of all of the things he has to do in his life outside of the work that puts money in his pocket (many of which also take money out of his pocket in order for him to go to work) All the food he has to eat, the laundry he has to do, the home he has … | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/10/15 08:59 PM |
| 11 | Why You're Not Marriedstop fooling yourselves I think my favorite part is where she advised women who want a baby to 'get one' and that the husband would be along 'shortly'. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/10/15 08:54 PM |
| 2 | The collapse of the meritocracy in the UKThis is true - - however, look at the solution that every society came upon; not state of nature single alpha males procreating with all the females (and certainly not our sad state of birth control and emotional turmoil for women during their prime years, and resentful divorce and non economic production for men during their later years, with only a few men seeing sexual bounty). They all paired off people as quickly as possible so that the productive labor output of as many men as possible was… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/15 08:48 PM |
| 10 | The collapse of the meritocracy in the UKsex is not required to sustain an individual's life, It is, however, literally required to sustain life, and we meet a genetic and biological dead end if we cannot engage in it | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/15 06:39 PM |
| 22 | Woman doesn't understand why her white boyfriend has a problem with the fact all her exes are black.Doesn't matter that black men are lower in the totem pole of the western world - this can happen in reverse, too. (cf. all the examples of Asian women suddenly finding Asian men good enough to marry when they want to settle down and have babies/a stable provider - -even if they weren't as good as tall white guys to fuck all throughout their younger and more beautiful years) The constant, however, is a woman 'trading up' (branch swinging) or at least laterally, when she's decided she's had her fi… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/15 06:36 PM |
| 27 | Alpha males with gay beta friends?You're the beta-orbiter. You're driven by lust (which won't be reciprocated, though your body still desires it) to materially please and serve. Weak beta men generally become this way to women who enjoy them, and enjoy the power they have over them, getting material benefits for the manipulative use of sex appeal (the covert contract of the beta's behavior being to hope he gets sex). Typically, we disdain betas for this kind of behavior (as it is a mirror of a woman being slutty for alpha men, h… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/15 05:34 PM |
| 16 | The collapse of the meritocracy in the UKA fun question to ask everyone who defends redistributive schemes: Are men entitled to sex? Shouldn't everyone feel the comfort of human touch and sexual pleasure? Once they say no, ask them to justify it, and they will construct argument after sophisticated argument brilliantly explaining why no (woman) should have to have sex with any (man) if they don't want to do so. The argument is so easily transposed into a critique of redistribution of the fruits of labor (and so quickly underlines the r… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/15 05:20 PM |
| 7 | [FR] First night trying TRPthis thing really breaks my confidence Then die http://i.imgur.com/4zzDb.jpg Read that parable of Bruce Lee. It is what you must do: always be closing. Be working out, be sleeping, be eating well, be drinking water, be dressing right, be studying, be working, be interviewing, be putting out resumes, be looking for investment opportunities, etc. No matter what level of success you attain, always attempt more - - it is the only way to even keep what you have, let alone get more. Are you eating pro… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/15 04:22 PM |
| 15 | What will the end of the decline actually look like?Severe economic depression as consumer economies no longer have cheap cash, and productive labor's absence from all those betas not being happy with their lives and all the non-children coming to pay for the older people/into the tax system (what do you think decades of abortions and birth control did?) result in a complete economic shortage. Of labor, of liquid cash, of credit. The powers that be are trying in the US and Europe to import lots of immigrants (illegal and otherwise) precisely to s… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/15 04:17 PM |
| 26 | [FR] First night trying TRPwe kissed and I cycled home. If you cycle more often, drink more water, eat more protein, and cut out carbs and sugar, you'll be fucking and not going home more often. 'No man has the right to be an amateur in the matter of physical training. It is a shame for a man to grow old without seeing the beauty and strength of which his body is capable.' You're 18. Do you know how many men would love to be 18 again and know what you know? Don't throw your time away; get in shape. Eat correctly, exercise… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/15 03:40 AM |
| 6 | Globe and Mail Article: "Why are young feminists so clueless about sex?"Agreed. One corpse is more or less like another, but that's why gross anatomy has you dissect them completely at least once. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/15 08:37 PM |
| 5 | What goes on in a LTR woman's mind when..Yeah, women in LTRs (actual healthy ones) are generally mature and matured by the whole thing (same thing for men, really) - and one of the things they like to do is play matchmaker now that they're 'out of the game'. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/15 08:33 PM |
| 5 | What goes on in a LTR woman's mind when..It can be either. Traditional, conservative women do this too, particularly if they notice a male friend of theirs is otherwise eligible, but hopeless with courtship. It's almost maternal. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/15 02:34 PM |
| 7 | How do you guys filter out sluts when looking for one night stands on dating sites?"How do you guys filter out used cars when you're looking for rentals?" OP, are you retarded? I don't want them to be a slut... mainly because I'm afraid of getting a disease Yeah, so, literally sexually transmitted diseases are transmitted by sexual intercourse. The reason there's a high risk of a slut having an STD is because she's fucking a lot. You know what kind of girl is up for a one night stand or being a fuck buddy? I usually go for girls that stand out as wholesome.... ? This may sound… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/15 02:30 PM |
| 35 | First "Date" after swallowing TRP. Shit test, after shit test, after shit test.^ This is why walk and talk is so crucial. You can literally walk away. I mean, really, physically walk away. The kinetics of the whole thing as you lead and she must follow (she must choose to follow or else you are walking away) is a physical reinforcement of the mentality you have to go in with. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/15 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Please help me understand [19/F]I thought he was kind of full of himself.. And, not to speak down to you - - but as a woman (who I am now certain is a heterosexual young woman), you subconsciously started thinking about why he was so full of himself. But then he seemed like a nice person ; ) we had tons of fun. I don't know what you guys did; it could've been anything from a game of frisbee in a park, to exploring a section of a city and some bars you'd never been to, to a three hour sex marathon, but he made you feel fun. Do … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/15 10:59 PM |
| 2 | Please help me understand [19/F]I'm scared that someone will read all this that you guys are typing on this subreddits into hating women and attacking them Actually this is something we often talk about. The kinds of men who do that are the men who feel their situation is so hopeless and without recourse that the rage they feel can't go in to self improvement and changing their strategy, but lashing out. It's such a bourgeoisie, privileged impulse of yours to believe the less well informed should stay so, for fear of their age… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/15 10:54 PM |
| 2 | Please help me understand [19/F]Do you think it's a coincidence you enjoyed male confidence and don't know if it was his stereotypical American (masculine/loud/confident) demeanor, or that it was redpill? Food for thought: Think about the Anglo-Saxon world centuries on as it is now - what stereotypes still exist about Scandinavians and Vikings? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/15 10:47 PM |
| 3 | Please help me understand [19/F]TL;DR - - if you as a woman go into the men's locker room shower and see a guy's hairy balls, don't tell him to cover up. You're the one that walked into the locker room shower, and locker room showers aren't for being covered up in clothing This post from RedPillWomen is something you should consider reading. You're very potentially part of its audience, seeing as you're self aware enough to appreciate that this is in fact a sub meant as sexual strategy/pro-masculinity and isn't inherently wron… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/15 10:34 PM |
| 2 | Woman Don't Give A Fuck About A Sensitive Man.But if you're a powerful, stoic, successful leader who is always holding frame, and she catches a glimpse of your teary eye after you watched Ryan finding out about his killed brothers in "Saving Private Ryan" you bet there'll be niagra falls down there. Same reason women (particularly ones who want kids), love it when guys are great with kids and willing to show emotion around them. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/15 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Coding Academy in NYC makes tuition for women FREE to address gender gapIn ten years, they will. For now, if you have a strong portfolio of projects and some work history, you're competitive. Skill is still not totally nailed down by the credentials industry (like FINRA has done for finance jobs) so there's actually a low barrier to entry. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/15 05:58 PM |
| 40 | Dailymail article confirms the wall: Women over 40 who have become "celibate" because no man will commit to them: Of course its men's fault as the conclusion!What is the age after which - barring severe religious constitution, physical or mental disability, or personal tragedy - it becomes not just unfortunate that a man is a virgin, but...weird? And no longer 'boyish' and sweet - but weird? 18? 21? 25? 30? Whatever it is - - and the ages people, male and female, will give all vary. Whatever it is though, hugely dependent on their kind of social circle, economic status and culture as it may be.... ....It's also very much anchored around 21-25, with v… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/15 05:17 AM |
| 5 | Women in their 30s who are unable to get beta bucks commitment require covering up the causes for riding the CC to serve the female imperative. One of the MAIN reasons for feminism.Oh, absolutely. A girl who graduates college as a virgin, is in shape, attractive, etc - - - she is incredibly high on the SMV market, and likely not by coincidence. Almost uniformly come out of good homes; strong fathers and devoted mothers, almost uniformly religious and socially conservative and smarter than the average girl. They're as rare, however, as they are high quality. Unicorns might exist, but there's just a sea of horses, you know what I mean? It's unrealistic to think we can all, o… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/15 12:34 AM |
| 9 | Women in their 30s who are unable to get beta bucks commitment require covering up the causes for riding the CC to serve the female imperative. One of the MAIN reasons for feminism.A necessary, but not sufficient condition. Every slut started out as a virgin; unless you're marrying a virgin with a lot of other qualities who isn't just a virgin of circumstance, you could still get burned. AWALT. Most women aren't the absolute worst of women, but AWALT. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/15 07:33 PM |
| 4 | Never Take a Woman Fishing^ This is why competitive sports are so vital for the male psyche. It isn't just friends, it isn't just effort; tribes have conquest and it rolls it all up into one. It's the simulacrum of going to war, and it is so vital that we should do it recreationally for our minds and bodies. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/15 05:21 PM |
| 5 | Stop lying to yourself and living in denial, you want that validation that comes from being a high SMV man.How old is the OP? OP isn't immature, he just has a different values set, because he has different priorities. Someone who knows the nature of men and the nature of women could react to it by turning into a high SMV man through deliberate effort, and life out the lifestyle they desired once they were willing to put in the work (the significant physical and mental and career work it takes) and maintain that level of effort. They could react to it by 'going their own way' and simply doing without … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/15 04:09 AM |
| 2 | "A Plate is the Equivalent of a Female Beta Orbiter" [Article] This really knocked some sense into me, along with the advice from the wonderful people in this sub. Found myself simultaneously relating and cringing. This might be old news to a lot of you, but it could help some younger users.CONSTANT AVAILABILITY for the hope of something more. The male who wants sex and misunderstands his role, will create constant relationship availability for any woman, hoping by covert contract, it will lead to sex. The female who wants a relationship and misunderstands her role, will create constant sexual availability for men (well, only some men), hoping by covert contract, it will lead to committment. __ If women would not sleep with men who could not prove first their commitment, they would… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/10/15 05:29 PM |
| -4 | Cops are the ultimate white knights.Islam here we come! Does a much better job of checking female hypergamy and asserting masculinity than the pathetic weakness Westernity has allowed itself to devolve into. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/15 05:19 PM |
| 24 | Cops are the ultimate white knights.Men in the public and service industries will always trip over themselves to help a woman in need ^ Men who couldn't get jobs of earning based on producing, and men who couldn't get jobs of building wealth, but those of serving people who have wealth. They're always, always, supplicative to women as a default setting. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/15 05:18 PM |
| 3 | In a rare moment of insight, feminist author notices the lack of an objective existence of "Patriarchy" in the western world. Other feminists are disturbed by this."No you worthless man, go and work and support your family. Get your briefcase, heave the plow, pick up that rifle and get going you worthless sack of shit - do, provide, protect, you're worthless if you don't!" I believe only a few countries have yet attempted extending female privileges to men. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/15 01:51 PM |
| 0 | The little girl inside all womenEhhh. I work with quite a few female PhDs, across the natural sciences, math, and statistics. They aren't the majority of any department (yes, there are more biochem ones than Math ones), but I wouldn't be surprised if by some metric of raw Intelligence, they crushed me or other men with PhDs. However, all of them play the female power game exactly the same way, in a pronounced way, in fact, Because of the dearth of strong men in their field. Only a few PIs and fellows can put up with them. Wome… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/15 01:41 PM |
| 1 | The little girl inside all womena permanent child waiting to be metaphorically smacked down and put in her place by an organically grown or self-forged alpha. Real life once did this to women, real life does this to men. Neither sex is inferior in terms of its ability to engage with reality and fulfill its role - - - it's just that modernity has completely lost the plot on how most women are socialized. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/15 01:15 AM |
| 2 | SMV truths also apply if you become seriously illI'm sure the soldier fighting the nazis took comfort in that his wife back home only had 1 extra dick, and not 20. Many, many had none. Don't you realize the hugeness of this? Many, many men and women did not have sexual baggage. Many men had wives who didn't fuck other men in the past. You think your grandfather and his father and his father had a pool of women who'd sucked and fucked half a dozen before them when they were trying to find a girl to marry? You think they spent nearly as much eff… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/15 07:12 PM |
| 2 | SMV truths also apply if you become seriously illLook up the average lifetime sexual partner count of the Greatest Generation vs their Baby Boomer children. Sexual culture has changed dramatically, enabled by technology. Obesity has skyrocketed in prevalence for the same reason; the abuse of plenty. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/15 06:49 PM |
| 4 | SMV truths also apply if you become seriously illeven twenty years ago we found women staying by the side of men who were dying from wasting diseases like cancer and emphysema I believe the sexual culture of humanity was forever broken by the birth control pill. It is a fundamentally disruptive, paradigm breaking development that operates at the basic level of our reproductive pattern, the determination of our species fitness. From its advent (forget condoms; a thing that men still largely had to purchase, and during a time when premarital and… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/15 06:27 PM |
| 4 | A man's role in modern society, and a healthy dose of MGTOWI've found it's pretty instructive to make people look animations of xray crystallographic structures of the F1/F0 ATP-Synthase. Everyone understands mechanical failure's inevitability. The nature of things put together is to fall apart. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/15 06:18 PM |
| 2 | Having trouble agreeing on a shared future. I'm uncertain if I'm being unreasonable or if this is a boundary issue.My boyfriend hates that they let themselves in to his place when he is not home, and has addressed it with them multiple times. Hm, this and the emphasis wasn't there in your original post. Reiterate this point when you're bringing up that you'd like a house and home together as a 'real' family (as you want to be engaged) | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/10/15 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Having trouble agreeing on a shared future. I'm uncertain if I'm being unreasonable or if this is a boundary issue.Oh, they're definitely baggage. But baggage sticks around - children even more so. She knew he had kids. I'm amazed she doesn't see them as his priority. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/10/15 05:36 PM |
| 10 | SMV truths also apply if you become seriously illIt sucks that when you need someone the most, that's when they vanish It sucks, but that's because it's true. The man is not supposed to be needy. The man is not supposed to require maintenance. The man is not supposed to be un-able. He is supposed to be giving, he is supposed to have endurance, he is supposed to be competent. Women pursue that which completes them, protects them, supports them, and gives them what they have not. Yin and Yang. Even in IndoEuropean grammar (and I imagine others; … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/15 05:32 PM |
| 5 | Having trouble agreeing on a shared future. I'm uncertain if I'm being unreasonable or if this is a boundary issue.Hell, part of the 'baggage' are his own children. What is any parent worth the name going to love more? | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/10/15 05:17 PM |
| 7 | A man's role in modern society, and a healthy dose of MGTOWBetter be better than the same or worse. You can move forwards, stagnate where you are and die, or move backwards. Forward, no matter how slowly, no matter how small the distance, is the only direction for me - how about you? | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/15 04:51 PM |
| 9 | A man's role in modern society, and a healthy dose of MGTOWEntropy increase won't be violated. Even if there's some biochemical magic that produces perfect bond making and breaking fidelity for the trillions and trillions of reactions that drive genetic and phyiological processes so that infinite cell reproduction for the human body doesn't result in cell death or cancer somehow.....well, humans will still be differentiated by ability and earning and look and there will still be resolution on which we can be judged. It's just like debt instruments; you … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/15 04:31 PM |
| 4 | Can you commit violence ?I feel like "Can you be assertive?" would be a more fitting title It is not. It is the capacity to commit violence that matters. It is the capcity for physical aggression that women want to see in their man, just as they want to see his capacity for sexual prowess. Women don't want a man to cheat on them. It is a loss of attention, a loss of commitment, a loss of his resources. They want AF over BB, but they also don't want to be pumped and dumped. They'll tolerate a certain amount of infidelity… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/15 04:27 PM |
| 2 | Women's advice on women, it's complete shitI debate this point. When selecting a dog in the box of puppies always look for the one that is the scraper. You can see this behaviour when the puppy is only a week old. This will determine if the dog will win fights. Genes matter, absolutely. But humanity's genetic selection is the reason that if the strongest animal in the world tries to tangle with a human weakling, that human weakling can pull a tab on a metal tool and punch holes straight through its brawn at a rate of 600 rounds per minut… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/15 03:47 PM |
| 66 | A man's role in modern society, and a healthy dose of MGTOWThere are some things no man should forget: You are going to die. There is nothing you can do about it. Your parents are the only people who were obligated to love you, protect you, and provide for you. Even your siblings are not. Perhaps you didn't have good parents, or both parents. That cannot be remade. No one else gives a fuck about you. Everyone else cares about you only insofar as you can give them something. There is no justice; there is only power. There is no balancing of the books. Ev… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/15 03:35 PM |
| 2 | Dating culture sucks; make your own.If a woman was made a high quality woman before she started fucking, you're only ever going to be the most recent guy she's able to fuck Why would they any abide by these rules if they're a slut? A cheat (just a fast slut)? Why would a plate be turned into an LTR from this? And what actually kind of high quality woman is giving up sex without a requirement of commitment? These are rules that apply neither to the the whores you should always wrap it up with, the plates you should spin, nor the in… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/15 01:42 PM |
| 40 | It's a Waste Land Out There, GentlemenA mixture of disinterest and confusion. Most people who have spent some time thinking about how society came to be like it is already know this sort of thing. Plenty else are mostly just interested in the sexual strategy side of things, and don't care much for broader social critique. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/15 12:49 AM |
| 8 | Men don't take women on "dinner" dates because women don't want to go on them, and also unattractive people have different experiences than attractive onesPeople doubt this for the same reason the upper middle class guy trying to get a loan officer to listen to him about a mortgage will doubt the lifestyles of the Saudi and Russian and Chinese upper class actually exist outside of movies. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/15 12:46 AM |
| 2 | NPR story today - For Students Accused Of Campus Rape, Legal Victories Win Back RightsI'd dig up Michael Brown and pop him again if I could pay for the privilege. Fuck him, and fuck the people who defended him. This guy's store who he robbed and later got trashed is the victim along with the officer who had to cease his duty. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sKVV3XRjT5U ^ But there's plenty of absolute shit the State perpetrates against black folks, and it actually intersects really heavily with anti-male law. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/15 03:34 PM |
| 1 | I animated some RedPill side-bar content. Hypergamy, Shit-Tests, AWALT.It's pretty, isn't it? Your piece reminded me of it instantly, particularly with the animation in progress stop-motioned in the video itself. Not saying you need to do pen and white pencil and light on brown paper just like them, but modern audiences eat more when they can slurp things up and digest them easily, you know? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/15 03:32 PM |
| 16 | Chanakya's Quotes - Great Truths to SwallowSame reason most don't know about Marcus Aurelius in the West. Most Indians would not be able to tell you about Chanakya, either. Most Chinese, though they could still tell you about Lao-Tzu, would be hard pressed to relate his aphorisms. Go pick up Meditations. The modern world, globally, has forgotten or disregarded all of the ancient wisdom and dictate of the societies that built their respective people's prosperity. Only a harsh and unignorable scarcity for all will underline the dangers of … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/15 03:26 PM |
| 16 | Chanakya's Quotes - Great Truths to Swallowhttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dowry#Historical_practices Every single culture that succeeded in artificially removing their people from a state of nature sexual competition, came up with marriage and dowries and institutional fidelity and werman-wyfman (literally: the male and female were both 'mankind', but with dual nature) style notions of complementary role....every single one of them became a people wherein the great majority of man's baser urges of propagation and contest and consumption, … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/15 03:24 PM |
| 16 | [On the anger phase, and your view of women] This pill of red.Women are fucking weird. They're their own worst enemies...yet they blame everyone but themselves. So do beta men! Sluts/Plates, whatever - - - they're basically just the same failures that Betas/Orbiters are. They can't take responsibility and do what they're supposed to and it's someone else's fault. "Where are all the good men?!" Is only matched in solipsistic hamstering by "Why don't women date nice guys/only date jerks?" When we use words like "jerk" to describe masculine behavior, we are d… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/15 03:02 AM |
| 13 | Front page of NY Times today - Sex Ed Lesson: "Yes Means Yes," but It’s TrickyAnd if god forbid while having sex you forget to ask her "may I please insert my cock into your ass" before you do anal Fun Fact: Emma Sulcowicz who lied about being raped and carried around a mattress at Columbia winning course credit and accolades from liberal rags to Senator Kirsten Gillibrand asked in a Facebook message to be 'butt fucked' And then turned around and said that her alleged rapist having anal sex with her was rape because she didn't ask for it then. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/15 02:59 AM |
| 0 | Ride The Rapids: riding the tough times outYou don't know how a criticism of no fault divorce related to the article that was posted about relationship maintenance? Looking at your other comment, I guess I've done something to get you bent out of shape. I'm not sure what it is, but if you're upset, let's talk about it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/10/15 02:55 AM |
| 3 | Ride The Rapids: riding the tough times outNo fault divorce = instead of solving/resolving an issue, just dispose of the relationship Societal sanction/Chemical enabling of sex before marriage + not being procreative = love making isn't there to sustain the marital union or even distinguish it from literally any other sexual relation. Only the divorce risk (made easy! kept expensive - for them!) and an expensive ceremony distinguish it in material delivery of conditions. A society without clean drinking water isn't a healthy one, a socie… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/10/15 07:13 PM |
| 6 | NPR story today - For Students Accused Of Campus Rape, Legal Victories Win Back RightsIf young white North American/Western European girls/women who are being sent to expensive universities to get cushy office jobs, after years of partying and attention and gender based initiatives to help them succeed, etc don't have the ability to scream about rape.... ...they cannot be victims. And in today's society, victimhood is the ultimate ticket to largesse. Unarmed black men shot by police? Immigrant field workers? Gays in the south? Where will all the money and attention go?! Women nee… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/15 06:36 PM |
| 34 | A deeper analysis of men's and women's N countPeople don't understand partner count, fundamentally because they think men and woman are the same - - they are not; they are complementary. Knives and forks are simply not the same, either. It doesn't mean one is better than the other; in fact, they must work in tandem! Deep in our decision making process is the knowledge that certain patterns fit others, that patterns repeat, and that prior conditions lead to future results absent some other influence. Balance, yin and yang, Manichean notions … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/15 05:20 PM |
| 3 | I was sexually assaulted a year before I met my boyfriend. Should I tell him about this?I've noticed men are actually far more understanding (though not necessarily tender) about it. They ask a lot of questions (presumably trying to determine your role in it, form a logical picture of what happened, etc) Much like our desire to immediately start fixing problems instead of empathizing when women tell us about things, it's just a typical male reaction. We want to help, we want to go fight and do and fix. Sometimes it's really boorish (as you said; not tender - - what sexual assault v… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/10/15 05:08 PM |
| 6 | I was sexually assaulted a year before I met my boyfriend. Should I tell him about this?I don't consider the forced stuff that happened with the other guy to be sex It was not. An outcome that is not chosen carries no culpability. Partner count is just a heuristic for "chose to give away sexual availability without commitment" This, btw, is also why a female virgin entirely of circumstance simply isn't inherently more impressive than a woman with a partner count of two or something. I feel like he will be upset and won't know how to handle, and I also feel like he will think that I… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/10/15 05:05 PM |
| 7 | Being demanding will not help me get into a serious relationship. I know what I've done wrong in the past with this guy, but is there anything I can do RIGHT from here forward so things go the way he wants? Is there any way I could get what I want as a byproduct?Yep - - teach your daughters differently. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/10/15 10:27 PM |
| 3 | Being demanding will not help me get into a serious relationship. I know what I've done wrong in the past with this guy, but is there anything I can do RIGHT from here forward so things go the way he wants? Is there any way I could get what I want as a byproduct?Patrice O'Neal (God rest his soul) articulated it much this way with his "Time Ho" bit. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/10/15 10:26 PM |
| 41 | I animated some RedPill side-bar content. Hypergamy, Shit-Tests, AWALT.Yes, an unfortunate tendency among conservatives, be they conservative by upbringing or the era they came of age, is that they do not understand sluttiness and how pervasive and normalized it has become, and still hold on to the notion that most women "aren't like that". it suggested women colluding to increase the price of sex, but didn't talk about men colluding to increase the price of commitment Indeed - - often social conservatives will be able to see "Oh, women shouldn't put out so easily"… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/15 10:24 PM |
| 71 | I animated some RedPill side-bar content. Hypergamy, Shit-Tests, AWALT.I think this kind of video whose import is obvious: The bifurcation of female behavior, AF | BB, the cost of sex, the difference between men and women in value over time, the Wall, etc. and which conveys sophistication while plainly laying the facts down, would go a long way in advocating for TRP styled thinking, whether marriage 1.0 returning, or ending hypergamy, or whatever is the goal, so long as the truth can be conveyed. Obviously, that video is written by people who want to see lots of me… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/15 09:40 PM |
| 8 | Being demanding will not help me get into a serious relationship. I know what I've done wrong in the past with this guy, but is there anything I can do RIGHT from here forward so things go the way he wants? Is there any way I could get what I want as a byproduct?Stole it myself. Women not being sex vending machines where beta-orbiters put in kindness tokens and fucks plonk out is another truth too many young men don't understand. "Why doesn't she like me! I'm such a nice guy!" etc. Sluts/Plates and Orbiters/Betas are essentially the same failure to strive for excellence and perform the biological role their gender gives them. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/10/15 08:28 PM |
| 18 | Being demanding will not help me get into a serious relationship. I know what I've done wrong in the past with this guy, but is there anything I can do RIGHT from here forward so things go the way he wants? Is there any way I could get what I want as a byproduct?I'm not even sure what I want at this point. Think really fucking hard about that. Because any quality guy who sees this will never, ever want you for a committed relationship if you can't respect yourself enough to not chase a feeling but be pragmatic. No one wants to be second choice for the girl who pines after a guy who'd hookup with her but not date her. You're turning yourself into someone who is fuckable but unloveable the longer you let this happen. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/10/15 07:50 PM |
| 31 | Being demanding will not help me get into a serious relationship. I know what I've done wrong in the past with this guy, but is there anything I can do RIGHT from here forward so things go the way he wants? Is there any way I could get what I want as a byproduct?Being a plate who thinks sexual availability turns into commitment is the female version of being a beta-orbiter male who thinks emotional availability will result in sex. Men aren't commitment vending machines where you put in sex tokens and a relationship drops into a little tray. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/10/15 07:48 PM |
| 3 | In The Spirit of Introspection: Our Partner CountsMen and women are not the same They're complementary, often fulfilling inverse roles. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/15 07:41 PM |
| 3 | Hi ladies, I have a (possibly stupid) question for youThat's totally fair, but it's two sides of the same coin. Plenty of men don't want children, either - - RP knowledge is just there to show people what constitutes putting actual effort into being better (and therefore being desirable and having a high SMV) It's gender agnostic that making yourself desirable for a broad number of paths means you're high value overall. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/10/15 03:48 AM |
| 0 | Lame cliché platitude: DO IT FOR YOURSELF.Pattern propagation, pattern halt. A signal which changes in time alone isn't stagnant, but this itself means it has a beginning and ends in time. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/15 08:18 PM |
| 3 | Hi ladies, I have a (possibly stupid) question for youTRP knowledge is just there so people can understand the realities of what makes each gender happy. Largely, it's about what straight men want out of straight women, and what they want out of themselves, and what straight women want out of straight men, and what they want out of themselves. While marriage is a good way to secure and raise children (the best way, in fact), and children and reproduction is a huge portion of what heterosexual animals want, it's not the end all be all for everyone. … | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/10/15 08:16 PM |
| 1 | I'm a 19 years old redpill woman needing advices as i'm entering the dating world for the first time.after browsing the relationships sub and everyone there talking about sexual compatibility etc... That's the hamster in full rationalization. Sex is like anything else in a relationship - - both partners need to work beyond the bare minimum to satisfy each other's desires before their own. It is this mutual surrender, in sex, and everything else about a relationship, that best ensures needs being met. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/10/15 08:11 PM |
| 2 | I'm a 19 years old redpill woman needing advices as i'm entering the dating world for the first time.i'm wondering how long is too long for making him wait? Until you're married isn't unreasonable. High quality men will respect that, from those who have had no parters, to those who have had many, because they will realize the quality you are bringing to the table. Men who only want a casual relationship with an expiry date of their choosing (and society has produced many who can now execute on this, compliments of feminism) won't tolerate this. Men who only want sex won't tolerate this. I'm not… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/10/15 08:09 PM |
| 2 | I'm a 19 years old redpill woman needing advices as i'm entering the dating world for the first time.I'd rather aim for a slightly older man who's ready to settle down who already has the mix of alpha and beta I'm looking for rather than risk it on a young guy. This is also a reasonable strategy - - particularly if an 'older' (let's say post-college, but not 40) man is religious or socially conservative and is himself looking for a traditional relationship. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/10/15 08:05 PM |
| 22 | Girl asks if guys would look past her 60+ partners by age 23 and accept her for a long term relationship, or is she should lie about her body count.Wouldn't be an issue, but birth control bifurcated their mating strategy. Instead of a thesis and anti-thesis resolving into the synthesis of finding a good man while he's young and encouraging his potential as his committed partner, the drive of finding top quality genes (hawwwwt) and top quality material support (stable provider) have been split into two seperate part of women's lives. Instead of an optimization of a singular pursuit, there is an attempt to go in two different directions. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/15 07:59 PM |
| 4 | I'm a 19 years old redpill woman needing advices as i'm entering the dating world for the first time.That's very true. I suppose what I should've clarified is that she wants a strong alpha man eventually My premise is that good women effectively develop good men. One obvious way this is done is by requiring significant investment and commitment for sex. Everything else women can do for men in terms of simplifying their lives outside of work and duty are the other various huge ones, and it's these men prize. Being choosy about sex is simple: it doesn't require to do, just to not do. The other st… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/10/15 09:46 PM |
| 6 | I'm a 19 years old redpill woman needing advices as i'm entering the dating world for the first time.A solid TRP male won't care if you aren't putting out because sex isn't his primary motivation: he'll be too busy being awesome. Plenty of TRP's longtime users and high quality posters reiterate they'd love for marriage 1.0 to return. Very often, older ones talk about wanting an LTR. Everyone on TRP knows plate spinning is second place to what high quality men of their grandfather's generation found in high quality women of their grandmother's generation. They way they speak about women and marr… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/10/15 05:03 PM |
| 30 | I'm a 19 years old redpill woman needing advices as i'm entering the dating world for the first time.This sub motivated me to become a better version of myself and as a result i lost 30 pounds and started learning how to cook and bake and it really became a hobby for me. I want to start knitting in the future. I wear mostly dresses and i don't feel bad about it anymore, it's freeing. Most importantly: always increase your value as a person, and find people to invest it in, not spend it on. Spending your value (male or female) is for your children and family so they can invest it. Everyone else … | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/10/15 04:49 PM |
| 6 | The Vetting ProcessIt's okay; marriage as the providing force for women is disintegrating too, and the economic plenty that allows the State to supplant the husband will also collapse as men continue to lag behind women in education, career, income and earning, on average because of the constant promotion of feminine success at all costs. The oroborous stops eating eventually. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/15 08:39 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Fundamentalist religion is a C-BlockAn important thing to realize is that OP is acting out one version of being a high quality man, and this woman a version of being a high quality woman. Neither party here is unworthy, they just don't satisfy each other's personally chosen role. Assuming she acted just as OP told us, and was clearly sexually attracted to him, but unwilling to sleep with someone on the first date by being aware of her own sexual nature and making a conscious choice to wait... I mean, then this presumably attractiv… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/15 06:39 AM |
| 5 | Article about divorce rape written by a woman, not that profound but lots of redpill truthsAu contraire Those homosexuals who want to marry are far and away better spouses to each other than most heterosexual people who do: cf. military marriages that are straight and those gay service members who get married One is an absolute cesspool, the other? Kind of charming and sweet, even. Straight women will effectively have no excuse once gay marriages fail and there's no gender assignment for wealth. They'll also likely have much less to go on when it becomes visibly true how much easier t… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/15 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Article about divorce rape written by a woman, not that profound but lots of redpill truthsThey'd do what they always do: Bitch and moan and scream about things being unreasonable, when the entirety of almost every civilization of note relied on women being taught by their mothers and grand mothers to be high quality women in order to secure a high quality man and create an incentive for male excellence in the whole society | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/15 11:46 PM |
| 47 | Woman discovers her engagement ring is fake, makes him homeless and takes his dog. Another sub celebrates. What if you flipped the script?It made me think about how the actual process of marriage starts with a massive, useless transfer of money from the man to the woman. Then, I started to wonder if you "flipped the script," and an engagement meant a similar flippant transfer of devalued wealth from a woman to a man, how fun an engagement would be for a man. Once again; traditional societies the world over figured this shit out. Almost always; the parents (or especially the father; the protector and provider of the daughter) givin… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/15 08:57 PM |
| 2 | Article about divorce rape written by a woman, not that profound but lots of redpill truthsPoF or Match.com? ^ why would I ever use those? The women who even remotely correspond to that list aren't on those websites, and aren't in nightclubs, and frankly, are such a dwindling cultural phenomenon that almost no man should bother. The legal risk of marriage is just too much. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/15 08:45 PM |
| 2 | "The Mastery of Love" by Don Miguel RuizYep. Pretty much the same thing for men on trp: https://archive.is/9e8wl External validation doesn't work, and relationships ultimately have power dynamics. Whether they're mutually beneficial is what determines their success, and Captain/First Mate is a damned good model. Everything else is pathetic guys and awful women, alphas plating and plates spun | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/10/15 08:43 PM |
| 9 | What's the outcome of the Western society? How can I as a 19 year old prepare for it?'Fuck the rest' indeed, because only by 'you doing you' will you ever make yourself happy. And once you are happy? Then you can give without end, because once you are validated, you do not require from others. We can only be happy and validated when we do it ourselves! No one can make us that way; things from outside ourselves will never make us happy. It will only suppress pain; pain that will come back when the external source of distraction is gone. The smoker is not 'calmed' by nicotine. Nic… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/15 06:01 PM |
| 1 | The world keeps on spinning....I feel that when I think I am being rationale/level-headed about things like finances, future plans... He begins to say things like "I don't know if we are going to work out in the long run". That's when you should say: "Let's talk about the long run" Because you don't get younger, less sexually beholden to him, more fertile (yah, I know you don't want kids: fertility correlates with sexual attractiveness and a youthful appearance), or become more desirable to other men for those reasons, with t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/10/15 05:50 PM |
| 18 | Article about divorce rape written by a woman, not that profound but lots of redpill truthsOne of the (besides the residual sappiness about love and equality) reasons I was firmly for gay marriage equality before Obergefell: Gay marriages across the US over the next few decades are going to destroy heterosexual women's bullshit. Because gay divorces without gender role assignment pre-baked by biological sex are going to be a very visible phenomenon. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/15 05:39 PM |
| 11 | Article about divorce rape written by a woman, not that profound but lots of redpill truthsYeah I am only 23 and still young enough that I believe their are lots of unicorns out there waiting for me. The unicorns that weren't sucking dick and fucking their boyfriend in highschool? Or maybe, you mean the ones who have graduated from college after being in a college town or large city full of bars and clubs and who have had plenty of one night stands, hookups, and have had at least one boyfriend whom they invested in and left them to be single now that they're your age and out in the wo… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/15 05:32 PM |
| 9 | Sharing a story - I apparently owe this subreddit more than I ever imagined. I met my current boyfriend right here. On RPW.The good news is that RPW women are the least likely to entertain the massively beta strategy of any putative trp subreddit reader hoping and pining for a gurl on the internets to love them for who they are. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/10/15 04:08 PM |
| 3 | Young male shooters and a solution western media doesn't want you to considerI will not dismiss your problems, but: You want to build yourself - in physique, in career, in confidence, - such that if your face and stammer are permanent.....it doesn't matter to you or anyone else. Do you understand what I am saying? There will never be a way to solve every issue. Perfection does not exist. But between broken and minimally viable is some space. And between minimally viable and perfect, there is infinity. Tend towards infinity, and that perfection is beyond anyone's grasp wi… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/15 04:04 PM |
| 78 | What's the outcome of the Western society? How can I as a 19 year old prepare for it?Their problems are not your problems, and only you can fix your problems All the systems of marriage and sexual fidelity that used to exist to pair even beta men off with a young virgin bride who would cook revolved around social stability and the promotion of labor for family to create labor for society so that societal problems were an individual's problems, no matter where they were on the food chain. This is no longer true. Hypergamy hasn't changed, birth control and women in the workplace a… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/15 03:58 PM |
| 3 | How to keep an alpha male?'Common' or 'base' is an older generation would say it. The brunch photographing, ugg boot, leggings, northface vest/big sweatered, dirty blonde highlights, creaky voiced abominations that still persist in Starbucks nationwide this time of year waiting to buy pumpkin spiced lattes are decidedly 'basic' | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/10/15 07:01 AM |
| 5 | Young male shooters and a solution western media doesn't want you to considerIve also never even asked a girl out. Fun fact: Life goes on after they shoot you down. There will come a point where you work up enough courage, think you've prepared enough, and make your first approach to ask a girl out - - could even be something like a semi-cute girl at a friend's party and something like "Hey, wanna get coffee sometime this weekend?" as you pull your phone out of your pocket with a smile. Totally normal, not weird, and entirely reasonable. And it's totally possible she'll … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/15 04:53 AM |
| 109 | 16-year-old grandson of a billionaire picks up women right in front of their boyfriends.Yeah, but he noticed he had to push her along, too. That's why he pushed her along - - he knows what they are. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/15 04:35 AM |
| 4 | Sluts are unattractive.I'm 28, I've been in two serious relationships, Ones that failed. You're not in them anymore; they failed - - you failed to keep them, or choose quality men, and you invested time with nothing to show for it. Also, your ovarian reserve is nearly 90 percent done. http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2811725/ The quality of children, and the quantity of children you can likely have is vastly reduced from what was available to you at 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, etc. So too is your attractiveness; th… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/15 09:05 PM |
| 5 | When work stresses him it seems sex is the last thing on his mind.Your mother felt the same way, her mother felt the same way, her mother felt the same way. The same is true with your husband, his father, his father, his father. Everyone is trying to do their best. You have to embrace this uncertainty and try harder. This isn't actually a masculine or feminine thing - this is just the basic human condition. All men, whether we knew them or not, are wearing our father's armor, and it's two sizes too large and incomplete and a little rusty. Our duty is to make d… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/10/15 08:02 PM |
| 0 | Ask yourselves why is there a crisis of rape culture on american campuses?"sexual social security" and then wondered if such a concept could exist in the SMP. That's literally what marriage was up until the birth control pill and women in the workplace. The Ancient: Indians, Persians, Scythians, Parthians, Hittites, Greeks, Romans, and likely Tocharians all had the same Indo-European religion and language linkage and marital traditions. But, weirdly so did the Amharic and other Afro-Semitic peoples (Europe would inherit a syncretization of Semitic Hebrew and Roman tra… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/15 07:53 PM |
| 1 | What do I do if a girl tells me she has a 6 month rule?Perhaps; but I am speaking to OP, remember? "Fuck or walk" is the mantra. I truly hope no matter what, he permanently nexts, whether he smashes first or not. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/15 07:51 PM |
| 3 | Multiple lovers and the ability to pair-bond: What is your PERSONAL experience? [LTR-Discussion]Have fun doing a shit ton of reading. (No, really; have fun reading the studies and looking at their implications in the lens of TRP ideology) https://archive.is/yIsfx You can just go to the URL directly (can't link it here) and navigate to the links directly, but I'm going to toot my own horn and say you should read it all. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/15 07:44 PM |
| 3 | Multiple lovers and the ability to pair-bond: What is your PERSONAL experience? [LTR-Discussion]Same reason I would argue the men of the past were in shape, and largely employed in addition to being far more likely to be married. It's a hand in hand, not a this then that, type arrangement. No one has ever found working in fields more fun than relaxing and enjoying free time. (I mean, maybe some of Teuton extraction) But letting down your wife? Your children? Your aging parents? Unacceptable. Entirely unacceptable. It is still like this in so many cultures: What is talked about by us in the… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/15 07:42 PM |
| 12 | Multiple lovers and the ability to pair-bond: What is your PERSONAL experience? [LTR-Discussion]The plural of anecdote isn't data. Nota Bene: No one should legally marry until the laws change, almost all should forgoe LTRs until they've had their fill of plates, and the problems of commitment are entirely those of women to fix. But young married virgins have more stable marriages, when you look at just that factor in a vacuum. And if you're asking does sex affect men and women differently, absolutely. If you want, I'll link you to literature later and you can read up on how hymen penetrati… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/15 07:21 AM |
| 1 | What do I do if a girl tells me she has a 6 month rule?I think you may misunderstand my position: see my other reply to OP. How should I make her desire me? You cannot negotiate desire. You should go demonstrate your value in front of her and make yourself even higher quality as a man (I'd imagine you're not a scrub on the SMV totem pole right now) and stop investing in her. If she asks you, literally tell her she's boring you and you're going to fuck the next time, or there isn't one. And be willing to walk. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/15 05:05 AM |
| 6 | The Doomsday Fuck ClockIt's just fitness. Some men produce lots of testosterone and have a great metabolism. They don't need to do much exercise or dietary regulation to look good and be healthy. Some of us need to put in a little work and be a little stingy with food every day. Some of us need a total overhaul in lifestyle and will have to keep up a drastic plan forever, even when we attain healthy, good looking physiques. Game is no different, in my humble opinion (and I believe the psychology and sexual success hig… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/15 02:36 AM |
| 1 | What do I do if a girl tells me she has a 6 month rule?How should I make her desire me? You cannot negotiate desire. You should go demonstrate your value in front of her and make yourself even higher quality as a man (I'd imagine you're not a scrub on the SMV totem pole right now) and stop investing in her. If she asks you, literally tell her she's boring you and you're going to fuck the next time, or there isn't one. And be willing to walk. There's always a hotter girl to fuck. There's always a less demanding girl to give to. There's never more tim… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/15 02:22 AM |
| 1 | What do I do if a girl tells me she has a 6 month rule?she always plays these games with men that try to date her. You know why? Unless a girl is going to wait until she's married to lose her virginity and keep a high screening standard for men and make herself valuable and high quality as a woman outside of sex, women who simply delay serial monogamy, and force men to wait for sex, are basically just stringing along guys to see if they can branch swing to something better. Full stop. Tell her she'll have sex with you or you'll go elsewhere. She eve… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/15 02:17 AM |
| 15 | Ask yourselves why is there a crisis of rape culture on american campuses?Not just that. Privileged white women whose families can afford to send them to college and who can look forward to white collar office jobs are catered to NY every facet of society from educational opportunities to social sexual value to security. Their lives are more comfortable, better lived, and with so much opportunity. The day laborer short Hispanic dude just trying to make ends meet and provide for his little cousins? A middle aged single black woman with no family because she couldn't fi… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/15 02:07 AM |
| 3 | Black Seed Oil was shown to nearly DOUBLE testosterone levels in rats, in just 30 days. Anyone tried this stuff?If there certainly are no negative health consequences, I can't argue with it. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/15 09:36 PM |
| 1 | RANT: Watched two friends have a mind-blowing conversationI feel so sorry for Tess. I don't. Neither should you. Imagine an overweight bookish man moaning and groaning about how women just aren't on his level, and he doesn't understand why they don't fall over themselves trying to get his attention and turn him down, and when his in shape, younger counterpart chimes in with a suggestion to compromise a little bit (not even actually sacrificing and improving himself!) in what he demands of others, responds with: 'not gonna cuz i am perfect lol' This is … | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/10/15 09:33 PM |
| 1 | I realize I'm about to get beat up, but I'd also like any advice to anyone willing- longtime lurker who has learned a lotHe's insecure because since I cheated with him, I could cheat on him and I don't blame him at all for that. No, you shouldn't because he's dating a cheater, might get engaged to a cheater, and could marry a cheater. He's not a moron. Whether you've talked about a permanent future or not, he knows what the endgame of relationships between straight men and women is, and he knows he can attract other women. Maybe the rope will never break, but it's broken under a normal load once already and been r… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/10/15 08:46 PM |
| 9 | DAE dread themselves?he just gives me this little smirk. It's infuriating in the best way! Because he knows what's happening, and he knows he's hot and you love him for choosing you. By the way, this is a mutual thing. Women and Men both want the kind of partner who could 'do better'/'cheat'/'replace' them, etc. That they then choose you is a huge amount of psychological validation for an indication of worth. The correct response to these feelings is to do everything you can to ensure he doesn't stray - making yours… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/10/15 08:28 PM |
| 38 | "Your ambitions are valid"Civilization is a result of countless generations of 'stay at home moms' whose devotion to strong husbands resulted in strong sons and daughters, to become good men and women themselves. Woman is the soil of the human forest, the male its seed; when she is nurturing and soft, he and his branches will grow tall and strong and unyielding. When she is cold and barren, he withers and dies. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/10/15 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Black Seed Oil was shown to nearly DOUBLE testosterone levels in rats, in just 30 days. Anyone tried this stuff?Why don't you stop being a pussy and just eat like a man and exercise like a man? | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/15 08:15 PM |
| 14 | Woman,25, used to go to sex parties and had tons of casual sex, now makes her boyfriends wait months for sexIt's not! Ejaculation lasts several seconds, herpes is forever | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/15 08:08 PM |
| 20 | Woman,25, used to go to sex parties and had tons of casual sex, now makes her boyfriends wait months for sexA good rule of thumb: If it's seriously weird and not just judged as unfortunate for an otherwise normal, average looking, personable guy to be a virgin at that age - - - that's the age a woman should have secured a long term commitment. A woman who has no prospects for a final relationship and long terms partner at, say, 30 basically threw away and neglected to cultivate opportunities to be a normal human being, over and over and over again. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/15 08:05 PM |
| 3 | The Triggerpocolypse!That there can be a business incentive/profit motive to men taking themselves seriously and building lives of value is entirely in line with our thinking on trp. Frankly it's the linkage between material and sexual desirability that gets ignored or unrewarded that has brought so much misery into the modern world. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/15 04:04 PM |
| 4 | How can I attract a guy online?and he accidentally stalked me, then added me to friends on facebook. wut We talk a lot now and I'm pretty sure he is the best possible guy I could be in a long term relationship with. That's fine. Whatever, you like this guy, you're not creeped out by how he found you, and you guys have made contact with each other. He's 23 and I'm 19. We're both Polish but I live in Denmark currently while he lives in Poland so there's long distance between us but of course it's possible for me to come to Pola… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/10/15 03:17 PM |
| 4 | How can I attract a guy online?Because he's talking to you and calling you cute and pursuing you; he's just being cagey in order to hedge his bets. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/10/15 03:06 PM |
| 2 | Sex and the City was a major cultural influence that caused so many post Wall 30 year old Spinsters to formSex and the City? Try Sex and the Single Girl, much earlier . | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/15 02:21 AM |
| 2 | What laws need to be changed to incentivise marriage for men today?The whole concept of marriage was developed because society recognized... And it can be so again. We must never ignore reality - - never. But we must never resign ourselves to mediocrity. Refusing to be advocates and be vocal about the plight of society to that society, and believing a better world is not possible is accepting mediocrity. You are a fellow man of mine, are you not? We do not accept mediocrity! | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/15 08:49 PM |
| 6 | What laws need to be changed to incentivise marriage for men today?I would agree - - this is what I mean where women should be choosing about their investment of time and money in the sense of sacrifice. When I think of how much of her own life has been devotion to her husband and her children, I am in awe of my own Mother (and I go call her and tell her 'I love you, Mom!') But where once this kind of dignity and sacrifice was common place, complementary to male dignity and sacrifice (What Father wouldn't rather stay home, away from his boss, to play with his l… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/15 08:48 PM |
| 85 | What laws need to be changed to incentivise marriage for men today?1) Paternal Abortion: Men need to be able to choose whether or not the conception of a child has any consequences for them, just as much as women. Whatever the window of time for an abortion is, whatever notification requirements, and however unilateral a woman may legally terminate a developing human life - - in that same way, a man should be able to terminate any parenting/financial responsibility to it. 2) Alimony: None in a no-fault divorce 3) Child Support: Commensurate with visitation righ… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/15 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Vulnerable, walking towards you brothers. Ready to take the pill.Be sure also to try and find some prospective roommates before kicking her out. No different from interviewing and getting offers before you give a shitty job their two weeks notice... That said - - you are capable of making rent without her. You are capable of living without her; emotionally, and materially. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/15 03:50 AM |
| 0 | Enjoy, another unbiased documented scientific report that reinforces TRP.That's a 30 subject study. That doesn't hold water. Why's that? Because you have a doctorate conferred from a research institution and publications in this field where you know what n is reasonable for drawing conclusions? we can't litigate our case to the public at large based off of a 30 person experiment. We can and do. Your criticism is absolutely facile: checking over how large a sample has to be to draw a statistically sound conclusion isn't something PhDs publishing studies in peer review… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/15 03:49 AM |
| 3 | Men Don't Care About Your Degree?when I tell a man one of my majors is French, they go absolutely crazy. They don't care at all about my other (more useful) major That you speak French and can hold a conversation and are worldly adds value to his life insofar as you are a partner. Whatever your other 'useful' degree is will be useful...to an employer. A girl's ability to do an Excel spreadsheet properly is irrelevant to being a good girlfriend. A scientist who can't change a diaper, do laundry, cook, or be willing to nurse a ch… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/10/15 05:22 AM |
| 0 | Agree or disagree? "Being a stay-at-home mom is not a job."Traditional womanhood; and all it entailed in personal sacrifice and deferment to the father, the husband, and son, to build the strongest possible men, and propagate the values and skills to produce the best possible women, mothers, wives and daughters, was and (though marginalized) still is an incredible lifelong undertaking and labor. The DVD tray fitters, McDonald's ferry-ers and babysitter employers of today are mothers in name alone, and often outclassed by working, non stay at home mother… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/10/15 05:15 AM |
| 8 | [FR] Lessons from a same day virgin conquestYeah, I feel pretty bad for most women like that. We're much luckier, as a sex - - time is slower for us, and falls less permanent. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/15 01:08 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Lessons from a same day virgin conquestWhat would work in its place is how well she gets along with her father. And does as he raised her to do ....right, but you do see how they can go hand in hand, yes? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/15 01:08 AM |
| 2 | Realising My Mistake All At Oncehttps://youtu.be/zHY93RaSWf4 Excellent movie, if just for this scene. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/15 12:25 AM |
| 22 | [FR] Lessons from a same day virgin conquestYeah it's a great predictor variable. A woman who is attractive, old enough to have been around lots of men, or even had boyfriends but who chose not to have sex without long term commitment, even a marital one, is still a woman. AWALT But goddman are they as high quality as they are rare. It's an accentuator and indicator, not a hard, axiomatic proof of worthiness. Conversely, I'm sure there are a few cock carousel riders who wake up well pre-wall to the reality of their mate choices and entitl… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/15 12:10 AM |
| 59 | [FR] Lessons from a same day virgin conquestAlso, a crucial lesson for those who don't pedestalize pussy, but do pedestalize virgins. Every slut was a virgin at some point. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/15 11:51 PM |
| 6 | Looking for some honest advice from some RPWmore of a commitment, and yes I would eventually want to be his girlfriend. What does being a girlfriend mean? What is "more" of a commitment? You realize you have literally zero commitment right now, yes? Do you understand that you're not even really getting sex, but being used for sex? He already has a child; a legacy in the world, and is living with the child's mother. The sex you have is for him, not you. Expecting "more of" a commitment when you've literally none at all astounds me. What do… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/10/15 09:44 AM |
| 8 | Looking for some honest advice from some RPWI'm not sure if I want kids At 26 your ovarian quality eggs are already nearly up. The extent and quality of proteins coded for by the alleles you can give whatever offspring you may have is reduced by environmental stressors, also. By 30 : 90% of your ovarian reserve is gone. I'll leave it to you to look at the fertility rates/miscarriage rates/birth defect rates/natal IQ effects of maternal age. Hint: there's a reason 30 matters for women. Think about how long dating takes in terms of years, h… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/10/15 09:41 AM |
| 2 | What consists of good 'breeding'?but what would actually make a girl a pleasure to bring to social functions? 1) She conducts herself like she was brought to the social function She is not there to branch swing and pursue other men; this is crucial - - it is the most disloyal thing a woman can do. The hard and nakedly apparent end of this scale would be a bride cheating at her bachelorette party, wherein a social function is used to exclude the man she is meant to be loyal to (by exploiting his absence), and pursue a thoughtles… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/10/15 06:26 PM |
| 90 | Time spent with women you aren't going to bed with is time wasted.Mostly, this is only true if women have nothing to give you, and all you believe you can get from women is sex. Then, yes; time you spend not getting anything out of something is time spent for nothing, wasted. Time spent talking to one's own family isn't wasted, time spent working with/working to impress corporate higher ups isn't wasted, time networking within your professional field isn't wasted, time practicing game isn't wasted, either. All of those interactions can be with women, sans sex,… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/15 06:15 PM |
| 2 | It's OK to be Male - A video addressing UCC shooting for your High School MenteesIt's not really focused for TheRedPill No it's not. While a lot of the sexual strategy here is derivative of and has intersectionality with lamentations of the modern anti-masculinity and the primacy of female desire over all ruining society, the point is still sexual strategy. You're getting the response you're getting, because what you're saying comes off as concern trolling. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/15 08:16 PM |
| 14 | Women recognize what they are doing on the ccBecause you've never been an addict; you're lucky - there are a lot of hard to soft addictions that keep the world's men and women trapped in mediocrity, sold to them as anything but. By the time they're in, it's too late for many of them. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/15 06:32 PM |
| 16 | I'm a university student, how can I come across as more feminine?I find myself wearing skinny jeans, knitted jumpers and converse everyday. Blouses, skirts, and pumps are totally out of the question? Your regular clothing can look feminine, it's true, but it it's best suited to that. A reasonable rule of thumb is: "Is there a male version of this that most guys themselves would wear?" If the answer is no, then it's a specifically female garb, and you should incorporate it. I also don't drink alcohol or go clubbing. High marks. You should be willing to go 'out… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/09/15 09:05 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with intense and irrational jealousy?Every relationship, literally, parent-child, teacher-student, investor board-sales pitch is what it is because each actor has a particular role they fulfill in order to constrain the set of actions they take and options they offer the other actor. Mutually doing this is ideal, but sometimes one party has an interest in forcing the relationship (an elevator pitch is effectively pushing someone into the buyer role) or else heightening it. A woman surprising her man with steak (cooked food) and a b… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/09/15 06:40 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with intense and irrational jealousy?This is happening because he is a high quality man And you innately recognize that he has options if only circumstances present themselves. This is the basic premise of 'dread game' wherein redpill Men are supposed to live so well and be so fulfilled that they inspire dread in a spouse who has not fulfilled her end of the bargain. This is basically the advice we have for men: Wife not giving you sex? Lift, eat right, cardio, clean up well and dress nicely and don't initiate sex with her. Spend s… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/09/15 02:40 AM |
| 3 | Ladies, how would you deal with your man's lack of passion?Literally sit down with him, not across from him. Say that you're not attacking him. You have to do these things, because the modern world robs men of masculinity and drive. It tells them that it is wrong to fulfill their roles as Captains. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/09/15 02:35 AM |
| 3 | Required college class wants me to learn about non-red pill values and I'm stuck!Predators and prey in nature both employ camouflage. The bonus of being a human is that we can do it physically, and socially, for both roles. Get the best grade/rec you can - extract as much value from this relationship with your professor and the university as you can. That's your job. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/09/15 07:23 PM |
| 5 | Ladies, how would you deal with your man's lack of passion?Have you tried speaking to him about it? I mean, directly telling him things like: You are considerate, kind and will make an amazing father one day. I am very excited for our future together....I won't make enough to single-handedly support the kind of lifestyle I want my family to have when we get around to raising kids. I'm not talking anything extravagant here, but there was a huge difference in how we lived our day-to-day lives when it was only my dad working versus when my dad and step-mot… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/09/15 07:18 PM |
| 1 | How to be more approachable? Or more flirtatious?meetup.com - look for your city athletic activities are definitely an option (dunno if you've shooting ranges around you) even just being approachable at a gym (which, if you've ever been over on theredpill is the prescribed temple and proving ground for a lot of men working on becoming high quality men) can do a lot for you. And don't forget to smile at people when you talk or make eye contact. It's like saying "hello!" silently. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/09/15 07:11 PM |
| 5 | How to be more approachable? Or more flirtatious?Okay; how often would you say you come into contact with guys two years younger than you, to 10 years older than you whom you do not know/are not longtime friends with/aren't related to (just a rough neighborhood; your personal preferences can skew in either way) in a setting where it is likely another one of your friends or acquaintances knows them(ex. going to Sarah's housewarming party, she invited guys and they invited guys too) , or you're both engaged in an activity that the space is meant… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/09/15 08:27 PM |
| 4 | How to be more approachable? Or more flirtatious?Are you a student? Are you working? Where are the places you go trying to meet men? We need more information. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/09/15 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Commitment is Way More Valuable than Sex—Why You Truly Are the PrizeUntil we're dead, we can always choose something, even if it has to be as small as how we choose to feel. Never give up. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/15 05:04 AM |
| 75 | Commitment is Way More Valuable than Sex—Why You Truly Are the PrizeThe great bonus to our sex, is that we can change this far more easily, and far later than can women. Even a 35 year old fat, welfare dependent man can get himself in reasonable shape, and earn some kind of income, and enter the pool with a different perspective. He may not be able to do more than tread water, but at least he won't drown. Women have it much worse than we do; the entirety of Western culture on sex, dating, relationships, children and marriage lies to them for the sake of selling … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/15 07:02 PM |
| 30 | #FragileMasculinity - For When Marketing Campaigns Targeted at Men Becomes a Sign of the PatriarchyDon't care. Go build something and provide for and protect those whom you care about. Let them squabble and expend their time on nothing. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/15 05:14 PM |
| 11 | Naive BB Proposes to CC-Riding Slootslut Just say and write slut. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/15 05:08 PM |
| 2 | Sun and fitness make you better at sex and more ambitious... according to DNAEverything should be taken with a grain of salt I mean, it is James "inherently gloomy" Watson | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/15 06:23 PM |
| 2 | Surprise: Most women on OKCupid are fat sassy momsEveryone should work as a machinist, men and women, for at least part of their lives. Maybe not actual machine shop work; but a class, or pottery, even. Not art; the technical side of it. Planning things, forming them from ideas into concretely existing and new things in the world, and being able to do it better next time because of mistakes and new ideas is crucial. There's too much waffling on quality that art classes allow. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/15 03:30 PM |
| 38 | Ann Sterzinger explains why male feminists and whiteknight gentlesirs disgust her. Longs for a confident alpha to casually "toss a pass" and ignite her tingles. Reads like an ad for TRP.And it's the low quality, whorish women who try to act like an exaggerated version of men: smoking, drinking, sleeping around, career first, rejection of domesticity, etc Confusion about gender roles, and trying to break down what humans are, is basically just leading to the alienation Marx talked about. Wall-approaching women act like they do because they see no one's put a baby in them, post-wall women act like they do because they know they cannot be mothers now and realize they wanted that. … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/15 12:06 AM |
| -1 | Sexbots: Why Women Should PanicThere won't be sexbots Way more likely, prostitution is just going to become legal, and with the return of the bordello and cathouse providing most men young, decent looking women to bang, women who want to lock down the average man to marry will have to start earlier and provide more value, once again. Seriously, some of you people are fucking talking about Mass Effect and AI here. Get a grip; looser and looser sexual morals are just going to lead to a proliferation of transactional sex, and on… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/15 07:08 PM |
| 9 | Guy is annoyed that his girlfriend forces him to become friends with her past fuckbuddies. AskWomen: "Ugh, man up and stop complaining!"The most strident slut shaming always comes from women. It's like getting angry at the cheap plastic knockoff dumped in quantity at a sale price when you're working on building the artisan crafted local sourced bespoke version. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/15 06:59 PM |
| 22 | Feminists calling for a ban on sex bots. Also: the future of dating/sex/relationshipsIt would just be societal wide result of all men having an abundance mentality. Withholding from women is what you have to do on an individual level to get them to behave. Being willing to walk and show them they'll lose something good is always powerful. It's like crate training a puppy. You want to cuddle and baby and feed it all the time, but if you're not strict with it, it'll keep peeing on the carpet. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/15 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Sexual history matters.With 7 billion people in the world, life is simply too short to not use heuristics to decide on the people you want to interact with. I just have this sneaking suspicion they just skipped straight over all the neurological research about animal pattern recognition and trait association that's served us so well it's innate. Kids these days | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/15 09:22 AM |
| 2 | Sexual history matters.I think it's a bit presumptuous that you can just judge without knowing the circumstances. Betcha I can make a pretty good guess. Yes I might of slept around when I was younger but it was with men who fooled me into thinking they loved me and cared for me, I could buy the story of a 17 year old girl smitten by her prom date, thinking that he really did love her as a 17 year old boy trying to get laid. But I bet your partner count isn't a high school hookup and three shitty college boyfriends. I … | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/15 03:24 AM |
| 8 | Various ramblings of a divorced 37 year oldDo you think I should show him this subreddit? It'd be weird for a guy in his 50s to peruse a subreddit with references baked up from The Matrix and with it's own particular cant and slang and example tropes. I cannot imagine explaining to an older man the Alpha Fucks/Beta Bucks paradigm with those words. Just be sure you're reminding him how successful he made himself, how he literailly made you and gave you a life and gave you perspective and how you get to enjoy and experience the world becau… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/15 11:25 PM |
| 33 | Various ramblings of a divorced 37 year oldRemind your Father, your Dad, each day how much you love him, how much of your own strength and ambition he gave you, and how you're proud of him. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/15 11:02 PM |
| 2 | Sexual history matters.TL;DR - welcome to life Think of all the things you use to describe yourself, to describe your identity as a human being; as a person - - are you kind? are you generous? are you talkative? or kind of shy, but around close friends you can be personable? Do you like sushi? etc. Not all of this is chosen. Some of it was written into your DNA, some of it was chosen for you (bet you didn't pick your own name or elementary school). But a lot of it was. Most of what makes you you is what you chose to b… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/15 10:42 PM |
| 3 | Sexual history matters.So then, are you also saying that men, if held to this standard, are "damaged goods" if they are spinning their commitment (aka plates) among several women? Sure - - - high SMV women will want nothing to do with a man who has lots of casual sex, and even more so than high SMV men, have their pick of the market. Doesn't mean it isn't the optimal strategy for men to stay unmarried and spin plates, given how the majority of women are. Traditional marriage is dead. Move along guys. A self determined… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/15 07:16 PM |
| 3 | Sexual history matters.you don't believe that women have the capacity to change themselves? Neither men nor women can change their past. Women who spent 15-25 having sex with boys and men who had no desire to commit to them, giving away their sexual prime and primacy, cannot take that back or become more youthful. Men can't take back sexual partners either, but it's not a coincidence women largely care about it much less (even conservative RP women. In fact, adult male virgins will be largely perceived to have somethi… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/15 03:45 PM |
| 3 | Sexual history matters.If you end up getting married (treat with extreme suspicion, and get a prenup. You have nothing to lose legally right now. You have half your shit to lose when married.) and end up having children (same, and perhaps entirely lost) - - make sure the daughters and sons learn from Mom and Dad. Because society is hellbent on them not. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/15 03:34 PM |
| 7 | Sexual history matters.a sordid past She was very forthcoming to me about her sexual past because she knew it made her high value. And because of the inherent guilt she felt over that sexual past now that she is in a relationship she appreciates more. Now that she's with you (and older -- she knows her fertile years are going, she knows her opportunities to meet more men are going), she sees a huge difference in what sex is as opposed to how she saw sex when she was losing her virginity to someone else. "You know, the… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/15 02:50 PM |
| 3 | Sexual history matters.tl;dr at top and bottom In some primate species females that have had offspring are more desirable than those who haven't because it shows reproductive success. Merely proof of fertility; female baboobs display this somewhat spectacularly. Doesn't change the male desire (in humans) to have their young be the young they care for. Human women have their own displays, and guaranteed; a barren girl will have a much harder time getting and staying married than not. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/15 01:42 PM |
| 2 | Sexual history matters.Totally. Partner count is just a really great predictor variable. The hows coupled with the whys are even better, though nothing is more totally sufficient than everything. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/15 01:32 PM |
| 4 | Sexual history matters.I can see the resistance and discomfort all over them when I start speaking of men needing to change our entire approach towards women/ gender relations. Conservative men, particularly of an older generation, are like this because they have to come to the realization as adults how low women have fallen in society. When they think of women, they think of: 1) The Mothers who raised them (a long time ago) 2) The Wives they married (a long time ago) 3) Their daughters and granddaughters (Now) It's s… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/15 01:23 PM |
| 16 | Sexual history matters.You're asking a central question; I'm going to give you a long response. Also, fuck the six train and the MTA. women are attracted to only Chads... That's not strictly true; they clearly all start favoring Billy Betabux at a certain age, no matter how repulsive he would've been before. then how do you build yourself as a father and get hot girls at the same time? You see? Men do have two breeding impulses as well, just as women. The comradery we seek in all male groups, the mutual respect, the a… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/15 01:05 PM |
| 8 | Sexual history matters.Men were much more mature also. I don't want to go back to 18 year old men storming beaches without close air and body armor in four feet of water, much less 13 year old men hacking up black as night phlegm after working day and night along side their 30 year old father. There are softnesses of modernity and civilization that are good. What we think of as "traditional marriage", the young, unique, and often lifelong pairing of men and women to build a future together was an innovation of civiliz… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/15 11:33 AM |
| 2 | Should I take Interest in the Ugly Girls hitting me up?If you were a tourist who had never eaten pizza before, in a city with Grimaldi's and Di Fara's and Totonno's - I would not take you to dollar pizza. Even though sometimes I'll eat that. Aim for quality, then quantity. And even then, be discerning and have a sense of worth and be willing to walk away. Cultivating an attitude of abundance means learning to accept scarcity. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/15 10:24 AM |
| 7 | Sexual history matters.We're all here trying to improve and move towards betterment. Why hold women to a different standard? Men and women are not the same Men and women are not the same Men and women are not the same ... They are complementary and have different roles. Women are the gatekeepers of sex. Men, of commitment. Women must choose to allow or seek out literal physical entry of their bodies to procreate with the best man they can attract. Men must work and invest in the relationship and offspring to have chil… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/15 09:33 AM |
| 10 | Sexual history matters.And just for your sake: Your plates can never be LTRs, I hope that's obvious. They're literally not worth anything more than being plates. If they were, you couldn't have plated them. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/15 08:59 AM |
| 8 | Sexual history matters.I would argue that sexual history doesn't matter. A girl who doesn't have that negative past will also cheat on you if the situation is right. if the situation is right. You know, I'm not saying there's any kind of formula or guarantees. Just likelihoods. Given the right situation, someone who buys flood insurance spends money year after year 'for nothing'. Given the right situation, someone who buys lottery tickets day after day wins financial security. Given the right situation, a slut grows u… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/15 08:55 AM |
| 13 | Sexual history matters.Whenever I start to fall for a plate and think about upgrading to LTR That's your brain not having evolved to understand birth control and modern sexual practice and only going on the psychological bonding that happened when you ejaculated with her. the thought of them losing it to some pimple-laden teenager in the back of a car or a public park makes me physically ill That's your evolution, too: "the children aren't mine! The partner is not real!" Neither are exactly relevant, nor are they exac… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/15 08:49 AM |
| 11 | Sexual history matters.Of course; if the future doesn't matter, and all there will be with a girl is a series of present, then for sure - the past matters very little. Plate history matters insofar as they won't give you gonorrhea, or try to steal your DNA and money for their own future, etc. But even then, I would argue that the reason they're identifiable as suitable to plate is because when you look at them and what they've made themselves into, you see bone china. The history of a person is what determines their r… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/15 02:28 AM |
| 4 | Guardian reader: "I can’t trust my wife, as she won’t tell me her sexual past". Paper's response.I understand it might be an issue for young guys who eventually want to marry and have kids, but for older people who just want to have fun, or even enter a no-kids, no-marriage LTR, n-count becomes insignificant. Well, obviously: If the future matters, the past matters. If the future doesn't matter, there's only the present. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/15 01:56 AM |
| 7 | [Rant]My current friends and my family are disrespecting my use of time being put more with studying and practice than socializing with them.My family and friends have been supportive of the idea of me going back to school. However, both sides of the coin are being disrespectful of the fact that I would rather practice math and accounting than go bowling, fishing, or go make a bonfire How many of them have degrees/professional careers? How many of them are in school for such a life? Ask this of the older and younger ones; even your own family. And you will see why they're upset - they see your absence and resent it because it lays ba… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/15 11:24 PM |
| 20 | How and what should I learn from my friends' girlfriends?Just genuinely cool chicks that are with my awesome mates, and im just happy with them all A lot of younger/angrier TRPers interpret AWALT (All Women Are Like That) to mean that all women are inherently the evil slut harlot who sluts it up and then connives to ensnare a weak provider male and attempts ruin men and whines about them not paying her for everything while she gives them nothing etc. That's not true. Most women are not the very worst of women. AWALT simply means that womanhood, femini… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/15 12:07 AM |
| 4 | LTR, something more important than n-count?I'm talking about a LTR, not about any kind of marriage. And I'm telling you AWALT. And if you think otherwise, then you still have to do the hard work of analyzing this person's history. The only real standard is being comfortable with the reasons they had for the actions they chose. Stop saying an LTR is equivalent to marriage, it's not. I specifically said they aren't. You should calm down and try to read a little more carefully without blowing your top and breaking frame (on the internet eve… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/15 10:25 PM |
| 6 | LTR, something more important than n-count?So what, you're basically saying sex is incredibly special and divine? That goes a bit against the RP mentality of fucking everything that moves and spinning plates Calm down. Breathe and think. There are plenty RP core members who would love for the hope chess/marriage 1.0/traditional marriage to be common again. The RP mentality is recognizing that this is absurdly, and vulgarly rare at present, and that a man's sexual strategy in the modern world must be once again what it was before civiliza… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/15 02:39 PM |
| 4 | Vegan ladies, I need some advice for my non-vegan husband.You need to talk to him about this. The central issue is not what you can cook, and whether you can simulate flavors and supplement foods with dairy/eggs sans meat. I'm a vegetarian myself, and I have had no problem building muscle and staying fit and being masculine, and am a vegetarian for moral reasons. But there is a difference in values and choices on a thing as central as what you eat together. What you cook for him. And you're not asking us about how to have a conversation with him about … | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/15 12:14 PM |
| 16 | LTR, something more important than n-count?Count is mediated by the reason for that count. A virgin at 24 who is so because she thinks sex is reserved for marriage and never found a man worthwhile to marry and had plenty of opportunity to have sex is very high on the SMV chart and likely higher than many TRPers. A 17 year old girl or 24 year old virgins of circumstances are respectively less impressive. You can play with the ages and reasons (religious views about sex, circumstances of having sex, types of sex, etc), people will create a… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/15 11:44 AM |
| 7 | Marriage through the eyes of an attorney.And what's more - I had the stay at home Mother, devoted wife to her Husband, who was my hardworking Father. I do as best as I can to live up to the standards set by men of my Father's generation. I see very few women who bother being anything like the women of my Mother's generation. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/15 03:44 AM |
| 6 | Met a former slut turned Red Pill mom while hikingThe mom opened up about her slutty past in her 20s, on how she was pumped and dumped and had traumatic experiences and relationships, without going into the details, in front of her husband. I wonder if this was the first time he heard it. The mom opened up about her slutty past in her 20s, on how she was pumped and dumped and had traumatic experiences and relationships, without going into the details, in front of her husband. How many men who respect themselves and have options would marry some… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/15 02:46 AM |
| 0 | Marriage through the eyes of an attorney.Just go to another country and live there instead It's mainstream socio-political culture having gone insane, I retain a pride in the ideals and history of the United States of America. My sons will be Americans, though they may have to be born to a surrogate abroad. Money goes further and the QOL is as good or better if you have any money. Sure, but the quality of life may not be the same, and I wouldn't want my own children to grow to be culturally alien to me. The US is a gynocracy Varies, va… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/15 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Why are women so hypergamousWhy are some women so strongly attached to their delusionally high smv ratings despite the fact that they have little/no chance to land a man who has those things they think they deserve in a man (because that man can do much better and catch a woman who actually has a high smv, not a mediocre women who has a delusionally high smv)? Look at the movie Trainwreck, look at Sex and the City, look at The Princess Diaries, look at Titanic, Sex and the Single Girl, etc. Feminism has been a full court p… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/15 02:15 AM |
| 5 | Marriage through the eyes of an attorney.If I've that much capital at risk, I'm still not risking it in marriage to save some of it from taxation. http://www.npr.org/2012/06/19/154860588/single-dads-by-choice-more-men-going-it-alone http://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2013/nov/02/men-single-dad-father-surrogacy-adoption http://news.yahoo.com/via-surrogacy-men-opt-become-single-dads-182314847.html http://www.nytimes.com/2007/02/06/health/06seco.html?_r=0 http://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2010/apr/03/sex-selection-babies http:/… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/15 01:57 AM |
| 2 | **The State of 20 Something Women**What exactly is the non-religious argument for caring one way or the other about the survival of a non-sentient being that has never experienced life, has no developed nervous system, can't think or feel, has no interests, and no one cares about it or knows it? Not being a selfish prick? What exactly is the non-religious argument for caring one way or the other about the survival of a non-sentient being that has never experienced life, has no developed nervous system, can't think or feel, has no… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/15 01:28 AM |
| 11 | You can learn from spineless betas as well as alphas.bahahaha, be sure to watch the video when they're fucking, guys Her facial expressions are genuinely hilarious; her body instinctively knows this is a horrible idea and some beta could give her shitty offspring. He manages to be bad at sex with a great looking whore all lined up for him. It's golden. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/15 10:13 PM |
| 10 | Being feminine with a shorter man.1) do not feel bad that your biology makes it feel strange ("less graceful") and yourself less feminine. 2) understand that a biological imperative to reproduce with a taller man to secure "good" genes for your offspring isn't quite relevant in modernity 3) realize that by being aware of this misfit, you're still miles ahead of the 'career women' who reach their 30s and 40s, still not yet having found a larger and larger pool of men as they push themselves into higher and higher socioeconomic br… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/15 10:03 PM |
| 6 | Colorado Congressmen argues that a 20%-30% chance of guilt should be enough to punish college men for rape.he's an old fashioned man with no context through which to understand current issues. This is typical of older conservative men: When they see men not marrying, but having serial monogamy they do not understand that women have long since already incentivized this. In their minds, it's a bunch of cads going around and abusing virginal women. The reality of Tinder hookups and girls sucking off strangers as an act of drunken empowerment is not something they can fathom: So they believe it is unchec… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/15 09:41 PM |
| 1 | **The State of 20 Something Women**Notice how he can only conceive of opposition as being religious opposition, what's more. A weak minded, but powerful hamster indeed. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/15 09:32 PM |
| 4 | **The State of 20 Something Women**You would have to define what the term "person" is. No, because 'personhood' is fucking nebulous. Is it a thinking being Are you when you're deeply asleep and only your brainstem is really turned on? If murdering you instantly while you're sleeping and unconscious and all those markers of personhood and persona and life-actualization apart from your biological potential to awaken and experience isn't something you accept, you shouldn't accept abortion as just the killing of a collection of cells… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/15 09:30 PM |
| 2 | **The State of 20 Something Women**Both; I'm pointing out to you how obscene elective abortion actually is. it is the ultimate realization of unchecked female hypergamy - the artificial unnatural destruction of her own children as an inconvenience to the incidental sensory rewards of the hypergamy she wishes to practice, now divorced from the actual intent (of securing the best reproductive material) | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/15 09:27 PM |
| 3 | Why are women so hypergamous'Fitness' is the likelihood of an organism's makeup to result in their survival in an environment, and their successful reproduction. From Darwin, we know that biological change is not entirely random (there is random 'genetic drift' too) but the interplay of environmental, and sexual selection (if a species has sexual reproduction) pressures on a population of organisms, not just changes in individuals, which are inherited - - that is to say, evolution is a species level phenomenon as a system-… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/15 09:25 PM |
| 4 | Our Biggest HurdleThe most clear result of this is the high economic attainment and low satisfaction of the Asian immigrants' male children in the US as any females of their culture get white dick for a decade or more before cashing in. They're still playing by rules that largely don't apply anymore. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/15 07:03 PM |
| 3 | **The State of 20 Something Women**There is literally no reason sex exists except because genetic recombination via sexual reproduction is vastly more superior in the schema of evolution and organism fit on a species level to the environment than just prolific (and largely identical) daughter cells. Only a scarce few multicellular animals are even capable of asexual reproduction, and none of them are only capable of it like single celled animals and bacteria. Go study cell bio. It's not a coincidence that multicellular, cell role… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/15 06:58 PM |
| 32 | **The State of 20 Something Women**A fetus is not a child. It is a grouping of cells, much like the many cells you kill in the shower and the many sperms you kill every time you masturbate. No it's not. It has the full complement of chromosomes from the male female gametes. The moment the acrosomal reaction happens and there is a diploid condition, there begins the transcription and translation of an independent human genome that is not the mother's or the fathers. The genome in every non-germ line (sperm or egg ) or RBC of your … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/15 06:01 PM |
| 6 | Our Biggest HurdleBut there will be high SMV girls out there that will take you seriously, and not ruin a thing with a good, strong man for someone else. This is rare, even in generality. Leaving their SMV qualified only as "high" is what you have to do because it allows you an out. What man in the 1950s would have married a woman who sucked and fucked from the age of 16-22: her hs boyfriend, a freshman year hookup, a college boyfriend? A woman who is supposed to bear him children, keep his home, be his companion… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/15 05:50 PM |
| 1 | I Don't Want to Be DominantFrom now on I will counch every single comparative and adjective with a full blown preface of the extent to which it was relatively so. Miss the point or don't. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/15 04:44 PM |
| 1 | I Don't Want to Be DominantI think maybe this thread is for white women and white men..I think ethnically and culturally the experience is different for people of color and this is just part of the white experience Go look at how American people of Chinese and Korean descent live. Indian descent. Arab descent. Eastern European (white) descent in the US if they're recent immigrants. It's red pill expectations, patriarch led homes, all the way through. They raise blue pill kids often enough because of the society those kids… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/15 10:05 AM |
| 1 | I Don't Want to Be Dominantso you're saying 36+ years ago no one had a kid out of wedlock Maybe you could go read the literature. Stop being defensive and resorting to hyperbole like this. "People used to work harder" "OH SO YOU'RE SAYING NO ONE EVER SKIPPED WORK?!!11" That's what you're doing right now. Obviously I'm not saying 35+ years ago, no one had children out of wedlock. You know why that's obvious? because it doesn't appear in what I wrote when I was citing CDC's statistics on the proportion of children born out … | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/15 10:01 AM |
| 34 | Feminists celebrate women being sluts.1) plenty of these girls are 16-25. 2) plenty of them will simply never share this sexual history with any guy they want commitment from. 3) plenty of them will find beta bucks and even normal non-weak men to marry 4) some of them will even snag a few self described alphas. 5) plenty of them are entirely, innately aware of the sexual market place and are still doing this, running up the miles on the car they'll sell later and know that if they mess with the odometer and give it a new coat of pai… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/15 04:33 AM |
| 30 | The Daily Beast confirms what we've known would happen all along.Because you can't criticize women. Notice the China example: Female choosiness incentivizes male production, stop the presses! It's not just the economy, either; it's everything. If men could get laid buying fire hydrants and installing them on the hoods of their cars, we'd fucking do it. Especially if we couldn't otherwise. But notice; this would require telling the aggregate of women that they have to be sexually choosy. Cue shrieks of slutshaming. If an entire generation of women said: "I wil… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/15 11:25 PM |
| 16 | I Don't Want to Be DominantOr are you saying that I want an alpha? The title of your post reads: "I don't want to be dominant." Most women, outside of instances of sexual kink, don't. That's not to say they don't want to assert themselves as an individual, but you know what it means to want to feel safe because a man has made you feel secure about the now and about the future. Are men that are secure with themselves only alphas? Men who manage to be comfortable (not anesthetized and in a rut; comfortable) with their own e… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/09/15 11:05 PM |
| 2 | A thought about risk taking, dangerous men, and wet vaginasbut who promoted feminism? Women who studied Critical Theory. who wants to destroy the classical family? The sort of women who became spinster-academics. These sorts of people: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Theodor_W._Adorno https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Michel_Foucault https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Helen_Gurley_Brown https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gloria_Steinem I am not ignorant of the cultural history. this are the questions you should ask. dig deeper. Brother I have been for a while. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/15 10:51 PM |
| 3 | Being RPW and having a careeralthough it does diverge from RP in that my mother runs finances, which has more to do with their respective personalities than anything else Ohhh, that's not a divergence! Notice: for a long time I resented this about her, I didn't understand why she didn't have a college education, why she doesn't pursue more. my mother runs finances, Even the word 'economics' comes from the Greek phrase for managing a home. We've been sold this lie that being lettered is the mark of intelligence, that it's on… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/09/15 10:47 PM |
| 3 | Being RPW and having a careerEven feminists are waking up to this: http://blog.chron.com/heartsandminds/2011/10/we-have-become-the-men-we-wanted-to-marry/ Read that and the linked piece. No one should deny a human being their political rights and choices. Down that road leads despotism. But the principle fault of feminism is that it refuses to understand that there can be equality without equivalence, and that the sexes and their roles are complementary. Even today, a woman aged 25 can remember her mother (or perhaps her gr… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/09/15 07:34 PM |
| 2 | A thought about risk taking, dangerous men, and wet vaginasThis is just the way it has to be. The point of civilization and things like marriage and requiring marriage for reproduction/sex, etc. was to move past the state of nature and create massive economic output shared by the collective instead of individuals all out for themselves by incentivizing that production by rewarding it with individual means. Go make another individual man rich (you and every other man you know), and you'll be paid enough for your constant work to obtain Two Ford Freedom a… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/15 07:20 PM |
| 1 | A thought about risk taking, dangerous men, and wet vaginasNature has “selected” for women who drip wet for dangerous risk takers in order to compensate the risk of an early death with greater and more immediate access to vagina. This of course is a significant factor in the development of female hypergamy. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ysnd0bsrb8Q These are men, America's Best. 100 men, we'll test today But only three, win the Green Beret. Back at home a young wife waits Her Green Beret has met his fate He has died for those oppressed Leaving her thi… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/15 07:14 PM |
| 5 | FR: Adventures in building a Hard Harem"I will constantly be on top of things, even with another human being I might reproduce with, so I can "keep" this decent woman who might otherwise stray" And all this to say AWALT is not true? Dohohoho | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/15 07:09 PM |
| 16 | She Keep Saying "Meal Ticket"Run you SOB, run like the wind. our society lacks women who only want to be good mothers and good wives to their husbands Yeah, this person you're dating will not make a good wife, and she'd make a worse mother. Run. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/15 07:03 PM |
| 15 | Man Flu...When men do turn off, they turn off Think about how he works when he's not sick, how he handles things when he's not sick. A lot of that time, when he outwardly appears fine he is pushing through tiredness, through irritation, etc. He doesn't tell you, because you don't need to know, and he doesn't need sympathy. He has shit to get done for his family, not problems to give them. It was accumulated at work, dealing with stupid people, dealing with all sorts of bullshit, and he works through it so… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/09/15 11:13 PM |
| 7 | What are some nice things I can do for my boyfriend?I almost get anxiety when I'm about to make something because I'm not experienced at it. Look at that, an opportunity to: 1) do something for him (pancakes) that he has volunteered to do 2) do your best 2a) if you can't, give him an opportunity to help and fix things for the girl in his life. Things that make men feel good: Sex, food, fixing/building/winning. This is it. This is the list. If you give men the chance to wrap up food, sex, competition/rescue all in one thing? You say you don't know… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/09/15 02:16 PM |
| 2 | Women love knowing that they can break up with you and crush youLaugh about your stammer. Lean in and out your hand lightly on their arm and say "you can tell what I'm saying right?", and grin Then go back to whatever you were talking about. Good luck, never stop moving forward. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/15 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Women love knowing that they can break up with you and crush youIt wasn't always slam a mag in, smack the bolt release, redcon one and hooah. Maybe it was shields forward, swords out, for King and Country. Or spears raised, and ooooogah! Part of our evolution rests on how well we can out kill the resource and mate competition. But the most crucial is reproducing. There is no evolution without reproduction (yah yah, there's epigenetic changes at species wide levels from environmental factos, but you know what I mean) It should make you feel somewhat nervous. … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/15 02:01 PM |
| 3 | Getting a guy to see you as more than just a hook up?Tell him with words. he makes me laugh and we have lots to talk about. Start there, even, to make sure he understands you are in fact attracted to him, but aren't interested in just hooking up alone. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/09/15 01:54 PM |
| 10 | "You are replaceable. Don't forget it."Yep - this is pretty much why I think feminism's third wave is crushing men. When they are their most emotionally vulnerable, just beginning to have sexuality, and crucially - just embarking on the most critical years of education and jobs training.... ....instead of being married by their early to mid 20s after a period of courtship, they're watching most women (blatantly sexually compete) with a minority of men. Instead of being young fathers strong enough and now obligated to work like crazy … | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/09/15 01:50 PM |
| 8 | Women love knowing that they can break up with you and crush youI become filled with fear Welcome fear. Become the one who welcomes fear. Go stammer in front of a pretty girl. Go get rejected. What are you feeling the fear for? Do you think your guts are going to spill out your stomach? Do you think you're going to watch a friend bleed to death? You aren't going to war - - -you're talking to a girl who wants to get fucked. She wants a man to fuck her. That's why she's in the bar. That's why she's in a club. That's why she's on Tinder. Look up the casualty nu… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/15 12:14 AM |
| -1 | GronkEveryone has some Gronk! in them, among other things. To make sure there's none inside, you have to let some of it out. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/15 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Why Do We Blame Women For Their Own Biology? (Slut Shaming and More)That's totally fair. I suppose associating with a community would be smarter for traffic - - there will be angry, reactionary press no matter what. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/15 07:44 PM |
| 0 | Don't let your anger phase make you hate all womenWhat you do should keep feeling angry about is how the negative sides of the feminine nature are allowed to run rampant in our society. Is that the women's fault? https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Scorpion_and_the_Frog | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/15 07:11 PM |
| 10 | "You are replaceable. Don't forget it."Both sexes have to give, in the end. Mothers and Fathers are people who give, give, give, give, give to their children. This is so obvious with men; what woman considers a man a grown-up if he has to get money and support from his parents? It's a certainty while he is a boy, acceptable while he is a student - - a shame when he is older. But the same goes for women - - it's the plates spun or the ones so horrible they can't even be plated who demand everything. Children cannot give, and how could… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/09/15 07:08 PM |
| 2 | Almost 25 and single for almost 3 years straight, need adviceI've found a solid career Men won't care nearly as much about this as you think. Especially men with careers who are providing for themselves and building their own future. Men who want hookups can't fuck a degree, men who want wives and mothers for their children aren't looking for a girl who can manage Excel pivot tables and present financial reports to management when they want to find that. What do you bring to the table as a woman? I'm in decent physical shape Not a bonus, especially becaus… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/09/15 06:10 PM |
| 0 | Don't let your anger phase make you hate all womenDid you check the New cue? Not hating Fish for Swimming is pretty much core RP. But, then again... ....perhaps this point bears repeating to guys who are close to the social-sacrifice-expectation-age and just recently woke up to what is waiting to enslave them after years of being denied. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/15 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Is this the new norm now? Letting strangers finger you on the plane? Times have changed...If there was a well known way to have biological children and raise them as a Father which was as doable and socially respected and legally not as fraught with nightmares as traditional marriage once was, I suspect a great many of them would neither lament nor cope with whores. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/15 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Why Do We Blame Women For Their Own Biology? (Slut Shaming and More)I have been personally writing (but not publishing) about a lot of this for a long time (raised in a very traditional non Western culture, born and raised in the US, so....) and had to unlearn a lot of the old rules (which no longer apply) the hard way. Some of it is still formatted as I had in my own journals (I was still reconciling the misfit between what I was raised to want and what is available), but eventually I realized the problem was bigger than myself and wrote afterwards for a genera… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/15 04:04 PM |
| 3 | Sex is Two Different Drugsbut be aware talking about owning women might draw the wrong kind of reddit attention. So the fuck what? Marriage, as traditionally practiced in a huge range of cultures was mutual ownership. No other woman owned the man other than his wife, no other man owned the woman other than her husband. Each was the other's only - - only sexual partner, only emotional confidant, only partner in making a home, only partner in raising and nurturing/providing for children. We still have no semantic means of … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/15 01:54 PM |
| 5 | Sex is Two Different Drugs> post about unicorns > was able to get sex without a requirement of marital commitment > is no longer in a relationship with her > she's in a relationship with some other guy who isn't getting a virgin > post is explaining that there are unicorns, extolls virginity > claims girl in post is such an example and unicorns really do exist dohohoho | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/15 01:45 PM |
| 28 | Why Do We Blame Women For Their Own Biology? (Slut Shaming and More)It's our nature to want to eat all the time, and for our bodies to store lots of fat, too. This was never really a problem until agriculture, then refrigeration, then the microwave, the corn subsidy, and refined processed food market in the West in the last 30 years exploded after millennia of improvements to create deficiencies - fat people everywhere, type two diabetes everywhere, etc. Same thing with sluttiness. The evolutionary branch swinging and shit testing of all women is a good thing fo… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/15 10:36 AM |
| 10 | Need help swallowing the pill? Chic on relationshits admits she used to fuck her ex's tormentor/bully, watched the bully break up his past relationship for fun, then locked him down as a beta while keeping it all a secret.Goddamn , is there any hope of finding a 20+ virgin? 1) religious (and a conservative culture) 2) good relationship with father 3) conservative politics 4) not ridiculously attractive/living in a large city/college town 5) lives out femininity; knows how to cook, knows they want kids (while young), doesn't act like a bitch as an ersatz for male independence. Then, maybe. And even then; AWALT to some degree. Trust, but verify. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/15 07:24 PM |
| 86 | Never stop approaching - even while in LTRDon't stop exercising and eating right, even if you've arrived at good health and physical capability. Don't stop working, even if you've earned yourself good money. Don't stop being kind to people, even if you've friends you rely on. Etc. Until you're in a LTR with a woman willing to sign a lock tight pre-nup, has a 0-low partner count, has a desire to be a wife and mother, and has publicly committed herself to being yours and you hers with her walking away from that being a destruction of futu… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/15 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Post Selectionvirgins who are saving themselves for marriage? I'm 24 and know of a grand 5 people doing this (saying so among friends, at least): three girls, two guys. The overwhelming majority of people in my social circle have been having sex since late middle school, early high school. All three girls have boyfriends (Also Christian - did I mention they're all religious), neither of the guys do. I would imagine most of the people who say they're virgins waiting for marriage are men claiming to be so for p… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/15 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Anyone paid any attention to this "#wokeguysmakemewet" BS on Twitter?Made an account just to say - nothing wrong with pretending. As a late bloomer, this is how I first fucked in college. Lots of head nodding, lots of copacetic outrage. Helped I was a minority and she was a nice WASP girl studying liberal arts. If it gets you in, it gets you in. So long as you're not spouting bullshit for longer than is necessary. If it's not going anywhere, as always, move on. Don't even plate these girls. Get in, get out. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/15 12:14 PM |
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