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Painfully Bluepill /r/Relationships Thread

MartialWay

May 5, 2013
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Title Painfully Bluepill /r/Relationships Thread
Author

MartialWay

Upvotes 11
Comments 14
Date May 5, 2013 8:18 PM UTC
(13 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1dqydb/painfully_bluepill_rrelationships_thread/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/painfully-bluepill-rrelationships-thread.234664
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Comments

[–][deleted] 15 points16 points17 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Read the first post:

Before I get into my concerns let me set the stage. -She is amazing and i adore her!

WHAT IS WRONG WITH THESE MOTHERFUCKERS.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Years of being told that anyone that doesn't worship women is a woman hating-bitter-virgin-rapist-asshole-loser. Say anything negative about a vagina owner and expect to get slammed no matter what she did.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Seriously. It's the relationship equivalent to "I'm not racist but Obama is a fucking asshole."

Aside: I read Obama's book before he was elected and the motherfucker has done nearly every single thing he said he would do. That is some impressive shit.

[–]telnet_reddit_8011 points12 points13 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Bluepill /r/Relationships Thread

Redundant at this point.

[–]theblatherskyte7 points8 points9 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

it's like that joke mark twain said. "Suppose you were an idiot. And suppose you were a member of Congress. But I repeat myself."

[–]iamme211 points 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Wow that first reply was such a beautiful piece. She's not feeling the intensity, that rush of new "love", but yet clearly recognizes what an amazing, beautiful man he is that she will now take a shit on and desires to continue to take advantage of without having to suck his dick or tell people she's with him.

If this isn't a tragic love story I don't know what is.

I guess I'm not someone she could fall in love with. (I can live with that, I had my chance) Our relationship was unsuitable yet is the model for a solid relationship based on honesty, respect and friendship (err). Regrets breaking up. (that's just a kick to the balls) Mentions pleading to be let back into my life (jokingly?) Says incredibly nice (and accurate!) things about me. Wants to be very closest of friends (very closest friends to a girl who dumped me, sounds awesome)

That male reason and common sense at work. Beautiful.

I personally think it would be better if we brought back the phrase "not man enough for her". Even though it's shaming language as a young buck I've used it to motivate myself to maintain a strong demeanor so a woman doesn't see me as weak. I think the phrase would do good for some betas if used properly. How else do you explain this shit to them?

[–]Faded1177 points8 points9 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

The whole time I was reading that I was expecting to look up and see that /u/TheUltimateBeta was the op, but unfortunatley it was real.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

lol i miss that guy, gotta go find his posts

[–]be_tru 6 points7 points8 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

lol the first thread they are falling over themselves to make excuses for her - "she's just hurting from her previous relationship", "she's scared", "doesn't want to get hurt again".

Nup. Hypergamy.

[–]RedHonest1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I hate it when they try to psychoanalyze strange women over the internet and conclude, obviously, she must have had issues with her parents.

Women are never to blame for anything.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This girl is masterful at manipulating this poor deluded guy. I can't stop staring at this line in particular:

(very closest friends to a girl who dumped me, sounds awesome)

[–]redsuppository1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It’s fairly evident to me that the “intensity” spoken of is the emotional high that all relationships go through in the first few months to years. Statistically speaking, most relationships end after 4 years. The hormones associated with romantic love typically bottom out at 4 years and slowly rise again, but never reach their former intensity. A lot of the same physiology involved in addiction is also involved in bonding. The woman in this story simply didn’t feel “high” anymore. Could the man have extended the life of his relationship with contrived drama and alpha-behavior? Possibly, but he’d be fighting against her innate predisposition to short-term relationships.

We’re all just animals acting on instinct; everything else is a rationalization.

Edit: Spelling

[–]RedHonest1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Most red pill comment in that thread: "Nice notes = guilt".

Bingo. She feels guilty. The nicer the note, the more guilty she feels. There's a whole lot going on that the OP is totally oblivious about, the wool is heavy over his eyes.

[–]well_timed_legolas2 points 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Why is there an entire thread trying to figure out/decipher what happened but its so obvious to us redpillers.

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