On the RedPill I constantly hear the complaints about the partner count. High partner count means the girl is prone to be more slutty. This might be the right sequence of thinking. I just want to show you a counterexample which is based on my interaction and my observation of typical russian girls.
Lets look at typical russian middle class / high middle class girl. At the moment of her settlement and marriage which is now approximately the same just slightly less then in american culture - 25-32 years, she has low partner count. Lets imagine a typical girl. She is 28 years old, she has found herself a fiance, they're planning a wedding.
She has started to date at the age of 16. Since that age she had 4 boyfriend with all of them she dated for approximately 3 years. Since she was from noble family she might even not has sleeped with the first 1. Which leaves us with 3 dicks which were penetrating her. Sounds like a great deal, doesn't it? Lets go deeper.
Now what was happening for real: She has learned manipulation from her diapers. She played with different beta-boys since the age of 12, probably kissed with them. Some of them were touching her boobs or ass e.g. petting but no real sex. When she met her boyfriend her actual 'non-sexual' partner count was around 10-12 guys.
Since all the girls are nuts about relationships and marriage even while she was dating the 'official boyfriend' she was constantly looking on her friends boyfriends. She also tried to get some alpha boys but just hadn't had a lot of luck with them. Now she might use social networking or Tinder analogies. Her relatives tried to fix her up with some marriage candidates because they hadn't liked her boyfriends. So relatives set her up with 5-10 guys. She went with friends in nightclubs where they were teasing other boys. She also might have been participating in some blind dates. Or the typical situation - her girlfriend found herself a guy, this guy has a friend, so both girls decide to go and probe the guy while she was still in relationships.
Relationships is also not so easy part of her personal life. Girls in Russia are much more scared of being called a slut. So in order not to be a slut she made herself a beautiful story 'I was in relationships with this guy for 3 years' but actually for first half of the year he was running circles around her, next 2 years they were meeting each other once a week tops and finally for the last half a year she was slowly growing a distance with him until the moment when she has dumped him. Girls in Russia typically delay sex for months because of their ingrained slut shame.
So let's summarize: 1. Her sex-partner count is equals 3. 2. Her real partner count is 200-300. Including alpha guys with who she really wanted to fuck but couldn't find a luck.
Conclusion: Stop giving a fuck about partner count. Look at personality. Partner count is just an evidence. Girls will lie about her actual number if she has this opportunity.
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