A theme we regularly grind in here is that it is, in fact, NOT a double standard that promiscuous men are players, but promiscuous women are whores. But this goes beyond the simple lock and key analogy. This "double standard" exists because men are totally rewarded for fucking as many women as possible - mentally, romantically, and socially. Nothing will ever make you happier than knowing you are well and beyond the Top 20% threshold.

Mentally, your confidence will go through the roof. Women think there is nothing less attractive in the universe than a needy man. Even blue pill subs admit this. Yet how are you supposed to have an abundance mentality if you only have a couple of notches under your belt, so few you can count them on one hand? You will never not need the high-value pussy until you can either get it with ease, or have so many encounters that losing a chance on another one isn't a real big deal. You can tell yourself to be confident all you want, but we are not machines who change on command - you actually have to numb your brain with experiences yourself.

High partner counter men are insanely attractive to women. Pre-selection is part of PUA 101 - all women want to fuck men other women want. So not only will women almost never player-shame, they will go out of their way to gain his attraction. Women dry up at taking a man's virginity past his teenage years, and are certainly not impressed if you only had a couple of long-term relationships. But if you snagged dozens of pussies through sheer charm alone? That fact alone, without anything else added to your personality, is a woman's dream.

Finally, promiscuous men even earn higher social value with their peers. Picture in your mind how a loser looks like. Short, chubby, introverted, petty...and a failure with women. Now imagine a successful man. Tall, great facial features, built, successful, dominant...and a slayer of whatever pussy he pleases. The man who struggles to get laid is a hero in nobody's story. The cocky alpha is the fantasy of man and women alike - the kind of man men want to be, and women want to be with, as they say.

Low partner count is always associated with low status. Despite weak attempts to change our culture, virgin/creep shaming will always be a norm when a man really freaks us out. A man is only creepy is he fails. If you're the kind of man who can allure women no matter what you do, you will pretty much never be seen as an outcast from any social group. In fact, they will perceive you as a leader, the life of the party, a guy whose luck may very well rub off on them.

Partner count is everything. If you are not satisfying your every sexual need, you will not be happy. Making six-figures doesn't mean shit if you are stuck in a dead bedroom with a single post-wall woman who recoils at your touch. Use your wealth, hobbies, and dominance to get passionately laid and slowly build up a portfolio of pussies. Marriage is dead and buried, and nobody will respect a flailing beta. The real path to Nirvana is filled with fuck and chucks.