I have a close Friend who is a Brother to me, who was worried about losing his je ne sais quoi when revolutionizing himself as a Red Pill Man and I want to post here as I've seen other people worried about coming across as an "Asshole" or worried that they're doing too much work on their personality and losing themselves during this struggle.

The Red Pill is a struggle and it is not easy to accomplish what we are trying to accomplish but that's the gift of masculinity, we're allowed to build our value as it doesn't come innately. We are gifted this amazing struggle of life, this kick-ass journey. We spent most of our journey climbing a certain mountain and we were told certain things about this mountain so we could navigate it. Along the way all of us in one way or another found a Guy heading back down the mountain and we stopped him and interrogated Him. He told us that this mountain sucks and there’s a different mountain behind us and we listened about what He had to say about the different mountain and we agreed, and started in the opposite direction.

That’s a fine analogy and all but the thing of note is the time we spent on that mountain. Our entire worldview, our personalities, our goals, are all shaped by the journey that we've all spent over twenty years plus (For any RP teens reading, you lucky fucks) on and the rules we went by during that journey and every social interaction that we had which occurred under the rules of that mountain.

I don’t believe that anyone's personality is unique or different or worthwhile or even matters at all, all that matters is results. My personality before? I got the shittiest results in the world. Right before I found TRP I had just gotten out of jail and I had thrown years of my life away for a fucking whore. I don't say that in the "women are whores" way, I mean I thought I found a whore with a heart of gold but really I had a whore with the heart of a whore. Those results? Shitty fucking shit. That's what you get for being nice all the time, that's what you get for supplicating women, and not having any ground to stand on like a beta bitch. That's the results you get from The Blue Pill and really I hope most of you didn't get as bad results, but I know there's even some people out there with worse.

Through time, effort, and dedication I am massively different as a result of many, many things when I contrast myself from 3-4 years ago and I don’t give a shit. Not all of it is different though, which I know is the part of my personality that comes from my biology, not my journey on the wrong mountain. That’s the thing though, is that you will never change that which comes from your genetic material because it’s written in your source code.

I've read a good analogy here that when we take TRP we are rewriting our operating system, but it's important to note that we literally mean we're changing the operating system only that and it’s important to know that we’ll never change the BIOS/Boot Loader beyond updating to the next version. So if you’re worried about losing your je ne sais quoi in an upgrade, don’t worry, it’s literally impossible. Everything else was coded while hiking up shit mountain towards a shit goal and needs to be reworked anyways.

Embrace the change.