This is an oldie but a goodie. The following link is about a Ashley a lifestyle/fashion blogger that disparages a fellow, more successful, lifestyle/fashion named Sarah Vickers.

http://mountainsandmode.blogspot.com/2013/03/reasons-why-i-will-never-be-sarah.html

Ashley so neatly numbers her grievances, so that we may all reflect on how petty and small minded the common woman is.

  1. She hates on Vicker's photos as being too polished. Recognizing that her photos aren't up to standards, instead of reaching out and asking for advice or self learning how to take better photographs, Ashley reaches for the low hanging fruit and simply mocks her adversary. This isn't the first salvo. The quip about looking like drunken pirate hookers is telling, keep that in the back of your mind.

  2. She, but seriously, hates that Vicker's gets all the fashion brand's whorish attention, and that she gets none. But seriously, those brands should lavish her with free shit because she spends her crap paycheck at Target. Envy, it's never a good look.

  3. Physical beauty. THE insecurity of any woman, from any era, for all time. She hates on her adversary's banging' body. She goes for the low blow and rationalizes that her opponent must be suffering in her sacrifices to maintain her figure while she gets to more fully enjoy life's delicacies. She may have a point here, as some moderation is required to not be a fat fuck. No doubt Vicker's has that lithe body, a body of light exercise and white wine. She carries it well. Ashley probably stuffs her pie hole with entenmann's donuts and fucking doritos. So that "trade-off", between junk food and desserts wholesomely made, is much bigger than Ashley thinks I'm afraid.

  4. "He's every girl's dream and also employs her". This is a big one. Projection much? Here, Ashley is so hating and at the same time wishing this Chad was pounding her out, she can't but list the qualities "every" woman wants. 6'4" ( she was so excited typing that she typo'ed the " ), young, charming and financially loaded he can hire his gf into his company. THIS is what women want. Work that really isn't work, just play, in a make believe fantasyland of leisure. Notice the contrast with her 5'10", seasonally unemployed bf. I hope he read this particular posting of her's for his own sake. Truth.

  5. This one is interesting. Ashely tries to discredit Vicker's efforts as too perfect, too coifed, and lacking anything substantial. Despite Vicker's omission and obfuscation into her "real" life, Ashley is nonetheless hooked and addicted. It doesn't matter that it's a beautiful illusion, and the puppeteer doesn't show the strings. She's crazy for more.

Circling back to #10, trying to keep it classy but rarely succeeding, just take a look at her about me page.

I believe this is one of the most perfect subtle examples of the worst aspects of women. The comparing of men, and the duality of both hating on and getting turned on by Chad. The envy and contempt for those that are "better" than you in life. The sour grapes. The rationalizations that you're better off anyway in the face of a clearly superior lifestyle or when someone is doing the same as you but are more successful at it. The lamenting and whining, the levels of self delusion and bitching about others.

These are just some of the reasons we are fundamentally different. We know that if we see someone further along the path we're on, men ask for help. Observe what they're doing that is contributing to their success. We use a focused contemplation and reflection about oneself. Seeing someone more effective than you breeds hope that you can achieve that level instead of resorting to envy. Not making excuses for failure or why you can't be your best version today.

Don't get me wrong, there are no angels here. AWALT. Both Ashley and Vicker's no doubt have taken it up the ass. Whereas Vicker's no doubt is better at putting her best social face forward, you can read between the lines with Ashley having been a slut for many. It drips in every word of her writing.

TLDR: One girl hating on another, revealing the nasty innate aspects of the feminine being in the modern social media world. Learn, understand and use the techniques to your advantage.