This one Plate is 28/29 yrs old but her mindset is really settling into getting a Beta provider. She's never gone out with a young guy like me (I'm 22). I already told her that I'm just having Fun, good times, and nothing serious. She says she likes my mindset (all she's had in life were LTRs) but when we have fun she gets into her head and tries to overanalyze and begins to tell me about how she's been through a lot and blah blah blah BULLSHIT.

Last night we went on a date, is was Awesome for me, had alot of fun, she had fun, I escalated we made out multiple times. Almost went up to her place to Fuck but she told me that her sister is currently Fucking too upstairs, and she didn't wanna Fuck too soon. So instead she wanted to go on a walk with me (It's 4am) I told her Nah I'm tired, today was Great but im gonna head home, had a great time tho. PEACE.

I Avoided having a "walk" with her because I didn't wanna have serious convos with her. I used to be that guy but FUCK that. I'm not the Beta Provider that she's looking for, and never will be

WHAT I LEARNED was that this proves that she was trying to break my frame to enter her frame. In her mind she was already trying to put me into a beta provider Category and talk about our feelings and Kiss passionately and other bullshit and get serious. I made my intentions clear, I wanna have a good time, Let's have Fun, not looking for anything serious. And we did but she was trying to self-destruct so I BOUNCED before the time bomb went off ( I drive so I dropped her off).