Intro Men and women do different things because of their biology. As Rollo has said, Women Talk, Men Do.

Report Girl from social circle was into me. Told her to meet me at a place a while away(no good places where I stay). She said it was far for her, so I just invited her back to my place for drinks.

Shit Tests

She told me we weren't having it, just wanted to be a friend, etc. Before I met her I'd decided that I was only going to show her what I wanted through my actions. Every time she shit tested me, I only did one simple thing: I looked away towards the side and didn't look at her again until she said/did something which moved the action further. Only gave ambivalent reactions when she tried to talk. I've noticed that naturals tend to do this(mostly) when confronted with shit tests by both men and women(men also shit test you to determine hierarchy). When we got it on, she would sometimes push me back and say no gently. I would simply say 'ok', and move a bit away from her. I didn't get perturbed because I was only looking at her behaviour. Still, I couldn't get her to take her clothes off.

Teasing

Since merely acknowledging her objections and continuing wasn't working(tried for about 25-30 minutes), so just as an experiment I decided to tease her sexually.

I would give her 2-3 short, quick kisses and then wait for 2-3 seconds before giving her a bigger kiss. Sometimes I would just put my lips on hers and wait for her to kiss me. Still other times I would just pull back and she would reach for my lips with hers. Mixing and matching this led me all the way. At every level, I just teased her and made her want it more and more. The sex was amazing.

Conclusion

  1. Girls love the conflict of emotions. The confusion that arousal and LMR brings is delicious to them, but they won't ever tell you that. Its not so much Will He/Won't He, but Will I/Won't I? When they're squirming in the throes of indecision because they want to be both Madonna and the Whore, you step in and take them to a place where such things don't matter. Understand what drives their behaviour so you understand them, you'll find that you will be naturally persistent after that, in a good way.

  2. Teasing is just magic when the physical escalation starts. Make her want it by giving her a just a little bit and then withdrawing.

  3. Play the game you're evolutionarily designed to win because that will give you the result you want. Women will always win an argument by twisting words, using illogic and/or becoming the victim. Men are designed to take action. Try to minimise words and maximise actions. Even if you're intelligent/witty, winning the argument will just get her irritated/turned off - which is not the goal. Don't play that game, play your game because you win 100% of the time. Lead by taking action.