INTRO: So you decided against marriage and having kids, your plan is to head into your 30s as a single man. Well, what are you going to do in terms of women, friends, and other things? I talk about that here.

The life of the red pilled bachelor:

So unlike the many men who will get married before they enter their 30s, you decided against it. Most of your friends are getting married, starting their families, and to an extent there is pressure on you from society to mostly do the same. You don't want that though, you want something else. You want to live life as a bachelor and the truth of the matter is, mostly all of us need social interaction. You're no longer in school meaning social life isn't throw at you, hot girls that are single become more of a commodity rather than the norm, and you're out in the open meaning that isolation and loneliness can become an issue.

Now you've read all the theories about human nature and how women act but, this time you need to put it all in action. Here are things that need to be dealt with:

  1. Location!

In some areas, society WILL judge you harshly for being a 30 year old bachelor. Unfortunately this isn't your typical erotica novel where you can "be alfa and hold frame" against everyone living where you do. If mostly all of the people in an area see you as bad news, then that will pummel your status and work against you in so many ways (legal, social, etc.).

So, a red pilled bachelor would have to pick a location where being a 30 year old bachelor is not that taboo. He would have to pick locations where he can be the 30 year old that wants to party, hang out, and spend fun nights with hot girls. A location where society won't be breathing down his neck and telling him to get married. Outside of major world class cities, I cannot think of such locations.

  1. Hobbies and lifestyle choices.

A red pill bachelor will have to create the lifestyle that grants it all to him. He will have to create the lifestyle that makes it possible for him to "spin plates" but first he has to meet them then be appealing to them. To create that kind of a life, well, we need to have that discussion more. Knowing the game and human nature is one thing, using your knowledge to create the lifestyle you want is something completely different. He would need to pursue lifestyle choices that not only peak his interest but also make it possible for him to meet and spin plates. Unfortunately, videogames and blogging about game are not those lifestyle choices.

  1. Getting rid of possible distractions and barriers along the way.

Parents that want you to get married, old friends that think something is wrong with you for being a bachelor, and others that oppose your lifestyle. Lets face it guys, being a Dan Bilzerian isn't exactly something society likes in men. American society wants men to get married by 30, start a family, and start paying taxes to Uncle Sam. Along the way, you will encounter a lot of traps and setbacks for being a bachelor past the age of 30. The people your surround yourself with and associate with have a lot to do with this, in some cases such as your profession, you don't really have much of a say.

We can talk about theories all day

But the truth is, at some point, we need to take our knowledge of the theories and start applying it. Anyone can claim how they're a 35 year old sleeping with a 20 year old HB9 but unless someone can prove how they are doing it, it may as well be an escort they're dishing out serious cash for. In the end, once you've read the sidebar and all the theories, it is time to start talking about applying all of it into creating the lifestyle you want.

Lessons learned:

Being a bachelor ain't easy and it requires a lot of key lifestyle choices in order to enjoy.