It just occurred to me that you should give girls VERY little thought. Say whatever the FUCK you wanna say. It doesn’t matter because IF she does have an interest in you, she don’t mind and she’ll actually like it (your attention). If she doesn’t like you, who the fuck cares? Move ON with that hoe.

Say whatever you want. Talk to her like you would to your guy friends. Don’t be sweet and lovely and beta. Do you talk to your guy friends like that?

Would you talk to your friend like this (via text?): “hey do you want to go to the beach and grab dinner afterwards?” NO.

You’d say something like “beach and dinner today?”

STOP sugarcoating just because she’s a girl. Guys (as well as me in the past) have had this preconceived notion that girls should be treated differently than guys, shown respect and talked to in a different and kinder way.

They’re FUCKING HUMANS GUYS. They aren’t some fairy tale species. They don’t need shit to be sugarcoated and dipped in caramel. Be REAL with them. Keep it raw. Why do you think the guys who talk to girls in a “condescending” way end up with more girls than guys who sugarcoat shit? They feel like they’re on a pedestal. It’s like you’re brown nosing the fuck outta them. They can sense it. ANYONE can sense when they get treated “differently”.

Imagine you’re a hot girl. You get praised by betas on the DAILY. In line at cashiers, waiting in line for stuff, walking down the street. YOU CAN SENSE IT FROM A MILE AWAY. And you HATE it now. You just wanna be treated the same as everyone else. No special treatment. No bullshit. Just a regular human being.

TL;DR- Stop putting girls on a pedestal and treat them like normal humans. Girls can sense brown nosing from miles away.