Summary Red Pill and Marriage are literal opposites. By staying in a marriage after swallowing the pill, you are following their rules, not yours.
Why get into a Marriage?
I'm not going to go into a long historical record of why Marriage is around. In today's society, being in a marriage is the goal, the target, the holy grail. It is what your peers are lauding you for, and the dream of every woman and every blue pill man.
But we are not Blue Pill in this forum. Marriage is a binding slave contract that all of your production and resources be given to the woman. The woman can work as well, but there are plenty of studies showing the perfect marriages where both members fall under gender roles, haven't had previous partners, haven't lived together before marriage, and worship a god together.
Let's be straight: Marriage doesn't work under our current societal map. Secularism is rampant, men and women are having waaay too many partners before marriage, and the globalism of communication is letting everyone see how much better other people are having it (or at least, the mirage of having it better).
So ask yourselves, why the hell would you think being red pill is about listening to what society is telling you that marriage is what you should be striving for?
The red pill is about ridding yourself of the corruption of blue pill and feminist theory, not picking and choosing. You don't get to look back and say yes, I liked that, that can stay. Your blue pill mind is corrupted, and everything you thought was a lie.
Marriage is a social contract for the woman to have everything you own. The courts and laws in this land do not favor you, and you will lose everything if you do not perform to the woman's expectations. If you have kids, even if she's CHEATING on you, you will lose everything, because the courts will say "we do not want to change the kid's environments."
But I'm all ready in a Marriage
I am truly sorry for you. I was also in a marriage. I laughed at the red pill at first, and slowly, at night, while laying next to my fat wife, being forced to rub her legs for the thousandth time where she refused to rub mine, the ideas began to creep into my mind. What if I'm wrong? Is that possible?
I'm not going to tell you that divorce is the best option. I don't know your situation. It was for mine. The arguments started. She began throwing things against walls, slamming doors. I began to be shunned by her parents and mine. I realized I was all alone, and my life was worth something.
I am one year divorced now, and I've never been happier. One day she'll realize that the fat beta she got engaged to the day after we divorced is going to make her happier as well.
I go to the gym when I want to. I go out when I want to. I fuck who I want to. I eat what I want (healthy food, not her bullshit she used to cook). I have complete freedom over myself and my future.
I love my kids. I am bitter that they have to grow up in a world where slavery is an emboldened ideal. Me staying in a loveless marriage for their sake is the ultimate slap to their face.
You cannot raise a kid red pill while living a blue pill life they see everyday
My kids are smart, and I write to them in a journal everyday. Someday it might bite me in the ass. They may take it to their mother whenever I decide to give it to them. But staying in their lives, pretending that I have an effect on their mentality growing up is a lie. Peer pressure and society are what shapes and molds a young person, not my upbringing.
When they are free of their mother, or even before then if they contact me on e-mail, I can start their real training. My daughters I will show them with my life what a man they want should be like, and how a man will never love them like they wish and what society has told them is a lie, and how to secure a successful man. My sons I will show them with my life what a man they want to be like is, and how a woman will never love them like they think they should be loved, and how their lives and success is the most important factor in bringing in a high quality woman.
Yeah, I think I'm gonna stay in my marriage
That's fine, BUT STOP FUCKING LYING. You are not red pill for making that choice. You are taking a blue pill stance and accepting that society is more important than your life. Do not lie to the young men on this forum trying to swallow the pill. Marriage is slavery.
Hamstering away that marriage is some red pill ideal is the ultimate unmasking of your beta ways.
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