I'll keep things short, I've been reading things here for a while, and my opinion is mixed between completely agreeing with some points and having some reservations about others, but generally speaking I get the feeling that the whole emphasis of this sub is oriented towards single guys or guys who aren't into long-term relationships.

what are some main pointers that could be helpful & constructive regarding a wife or a long-term partner, in order to keep things balanced and healthy. without gradually letting the whole marriage erode away at your manhood.