Recently the story that has occupied the headlines in Chinese media is one about the announcement made by a famous actor (Wang Baoqiang if you want to look him up) to divorce his wife (they are married for years, and have two kids), because she has been cheating on him with his agent.

This is an excellent case of the detriment caused by a scarcity mentality, ONEitis, and how ruthless feminine hypergamy is. This actor came from a very poor upbringing, not educated, and he does not have the looks. He hustled with sweat and blood to make himself a very famous actor. He married this woman, who is just a good looking student at the time (he was not that famous back then). He has always been a dedicated husband and put her on a pedestal, while she has no special talent at all, he once said, "I want to be a good husband to her because she chose to be with me despite my looks". He basically still thinks very lowly of himself despite being extremely rich now. He feel he owes the woman because she is beautiful and she chose him. He displayed affections for her publicly, buying her all kinds of stuff most women dream of, and yet look at what happened. She cheats on him, because feminine hypergamy simply does not care. Hypergamy only knows, that if you put her on a pedestal, she is going to despise you, take you for granted, and use you. Hypergamy wants to get married to the beta guy providing stable monetary income, and fucks the taller, more handsome alpha at the same time. Feminine hypergamy does not care about you being a good provider, because that is a given.

It also proves again being alpha has nothing to do with money, status, or bargaining power. It is all in your mind. This actor is richer than most, and yet he cannot kill the beta within. Program your mind to be alpha, don't let a woman take advantage of you. Cultivate the abundance mentality.