I wrote this to help my friend whose son didn't go to University (unlike my son) and plays Video games all day. His mother warns him against seeing his father even though he provides for him. It is all inconceivably broken, and unbelievably tragic.

Part 1 - The Why

Have you ever wondered why there have been 25 James Bond films for over 60 years?

No other character has been able to sustain these many remakes, unless they're evoking some deep and universal archetypes buried within our species.

See how Bond deals with people.

Bond never begs, negotiates, cajoles, requests, pleads, makes deals, bribes, sweet talks, tries to win favour, ask nicely or get on their good side, etc. These positions are all from a position of weakness and 'socially negotiated contracts'.

Bond has 2 ways of dealing with people - Kiss them or Kill them. That's it. No other gray areas. That's the Ultimate Alpha. And it endures forever because it echoes in our psyche.

In fact at the core, life for a man is just this simple.

Kill your enemies, and Kiss your friends and lovers.

Animals live exactly like this, and this is buried deep within the human psyche. Animals don't socially negotiate...they dont beg, cajole, request, ask nicely, make deals, bribe, sweet talk, try to win favour, etc.

They Kiss or Kill.

We like to tell ourselves we have evolved beyond the animal, but in reality the animal hasn't gone anywhere. Being human is just at most 1-2.5 million years, while we have been animals for vastly longer. The animal lives deep within our psyche - guiding all our outer behaviour, the source of the original urges which arise within us, then get filtered through our mind and 'civilizational modifications'.

The Animal has only 2 responses to other animals. Dominate the Weak and Submit to the Strong.

By 'Kill' I don't literally mean 'Murder', it is a slang word for acing it - like we use the phrase 'you killed it' urban slang for "you rock", "you're own it!", etc..

You will see this reflected again and again in popular art. Take the hugely successful Terminator films. No one can beg, cajole, request, ask nicely, make deals, bribe, sweet talk, try to win favour with the Terminator. He kills or he saves.

Black and White.

Friend or Foe.

Kill or Kiss.

Our gynocentric society is full of propaganda about how a Man should Behave. Don't believe any of it, because it will never work for you. You will end up in soul-splitting pain and suffering.

THAT MY FRIEND WAS YOUR TEST.

Can you see through Propaganda to the Real Truth?

The Alpha Asshole is a Stone. His convictions are cast in granite and do not change depending on his surroundings or which situation he is in or how beautiful the woman on his arm is or how much your son wants you to do something (like buy him the latest video game console).

You might not like what the Stone stands for. It might not fit your conditioned narrative or what you have deluded into believing what is civilized. However your assessment will in no way impact that Stone.

You can yell at, rave at, criticize, complain about or kick the Stone. The stone will remain unchanged.

In contrast, a Beta Nice Guy is a moist turd. Beta Turds take the shape of whatever stepped on them last. Their entire existence is contextual and guided by 'Civilizational conventions' (in our world the woke conditioning of the West). Molded by convention, sculpted by reaction, altered by fear, the Soft Male’s destiny is to crash & burn repeatedly.

Guess who wins?

Even within the ensconced 'safe space' that is the Family, a man is always and every day tested by his wife and his children and they do it unknowingly, unconsciously. All day long they shit test the Husband or the Father with frivolous demands and self centered whims. That's the outer reason. 'you should make her happy'. Leave logic at the door, nothing women or children in the West today do makes any sense at first but if you dig deeper you realize every action they take is to test and filter between weak and strong men. They don't consciously know why they are doing this, it is a subconscious need - evolution bred this within the species to always select for Strength. Is my husband or father a Weak Man or a Strong man? Can he protect me when the hour arises? Will I be safer with someone else - the eons behind us are asking.....that time is gone but the psychology remains, psychology doesnt change anywhere at the rate of society.

Women and children's task of demanding and filtering between alpha men and beta men (husband or father) is a little more complex and naturally they developed a mental schema called a "shit test" to filter through these men. Just like when men were in power we demanded the most beautiful women and used our logic to get them. Women and children in power demand the most alpha men and use their intuition to get them. Every action men and women take comes from the point of view of what is best for their survival and replication. So for that reason feminism is subconsciously just a grand scheme for women to get the most alpha men, even if it seems illogical your right, women don't use logic but intuition.

Shit Tests are best understood as a Congruence Test where men's wives and children are daily testing them to see if they're alpha or beta. Expect it.

This is in reality, the Test of Feminism. "Feminism is a method where women shame men for pursuit of overly masculine behaviors, with the goal of weeding out the men too weak to disobey the women. All the guys who ignore the rules, win and get laid."

They make the best fathers and leave behind the best genes.

The inner reason is they desperately are searching for a Protector who is unswayed by what she wants and enforces his Will. (But this Will is not born out of Ego but from Truth).

Beta males (both husband and father) are unreliable, undependable and actually dangerous. They'll let their wives and daughters slide deeper and deeper into degeneracy while pleading 'helplessness'. A Beta will not shut down his daughter cam-whore or twerk herself on OnlyFans than protect the dignity of the family with a firm No! This dynamic creates a crisis of authenticity. Not only is it difficult for people to definitively know Beta Turd but Beta Turds don't even know who they are themselves. They are always 'Helpless' because they were never in Power to start with. (The deep psyche of the wife and son or daughter is actually asking - will he run away and submit when the danger comes knocking? Can he be relied on to really protect us?)

Beta Turds are not men or even gentlemen. Men have thoughts, convictions and values that are held ETERNAL and are carefully clarified inside with meditation. Betas are nothing more than what their environment or current situation have conditioned themselves is “common sense”. But the more you examine “common sense” - you will find it is always a guide on how to behave in the presence of stronger forces.

Beta Turds end up always suffering. Only suffering can teach a Beta to stand up for himself (hopefully) and say: No! Until you learn that lesson the stomping will go on indefinitely.

But finally -

Remember your true power comes from knowing what is Right, not your Ego. Your Ego is Vaporware, examine it within yourself through meditation. Your True power comes from your Values, and they cannot be bent. James Bond believes in the Civilizational values of the British Empire. You and I believe in the values of the Family. And raising my son right.

Part 2 - The How

Now I wrote something very inspiring inside but is it practical? Can you behave like Bond or the Terminator and take your guns to solve family problems?

No you cannot.

Society took away fists and guns from Men (their real power for ages) because a few men using those could control all the power and it has resulted in uncounted tragedy and concentration of power across history. A few egoic men ruined it for the rest of us men. Men were emasculated by other men as this dynamic was so toxic and so runaway it had to be controlled. Even when you are right you had your main, go-to tools taken away from you. Like the slap and the physical domination. It is widely practiced in the rest of the world which is not so 'Civilized' as the Western world (which is actually the most woke and degenerate society in the history of the world).

Your toolset was always severely limited. You let it slide and slide (misunderstanding niceness) and it has got away this far from you. Now hanging by a mere thread....

But it is NOT LOST.

Deep inside your son or daughter yearns for the example of a Strong Father. Believe me.

You have the tools of Law and there are undefined and creative areas you can operate in.

Again see in films how strong characters behave when they are bound, conquered, incapacitated and rendered 'powerless'. They growl, they hiss, they spit, they insult and they threaten again and again. In the beginning you laugh but strength always communicates viscerally and subliminally. These temporarily powered always break free and win.

Strength Always Wins. The World is Dying for a Winner, a Real Man.

You have to understand the most important separation of being a Man in the Degenerate West. That is an Iron Fist in a Velvet glove.

The Inner and the Outer and they are both different.

Todays Strong Man doesn't get rattled, doesn’t get angry, doesn’t stumble.

Develop the Bi-Cameral Way of Communication, the Inner Message different from the Outer Messaging Style.

Understand humans process communication in two different layers of the Mind, the outer neocortex for the usual phrases congruent with what is learned through life and conditioning and the inner animal, which is always a need to either dominate or submit. The source of thought or urge is the Animal, which then traverses the later and weaker conditioned mind to manifest as words or action.

The inner message usually always wins. (The best outcome is both are coherent but that is rarely the case in the incongruent modern society)

The Iron Fist is the unarticulated but original need in the psyche which addresses the need for Resolute and Unbending Strength. You need to demonstrate in no unambiguous terms your responses come from your Unbendable Spine.

There will be times when you will come under fire; the temptation is to return fire. You could do that, you even could prevail in that particular firefight, but longer term -- you will lose, first the battle, then the war, then the daughter or son.

I know this often is hard to do, but when things run hot – but it is best to remain cool without giving in or conceding, serving instead as the proverbial iron fist in a velvet glove.

You have to keep your wits about you; but develop this difficult skill:
keep the mad inside and the smart outside.

In a moment of high stress, you have to remain soft and silky BUT RESOLUTE.

The soft and silky addresses two separate layers in the mind and the psyche.

The soft and silky addresses the conditioned layers of the mind that is seeking to be seduced and charmed. Today it is expected.

Some of the qualities that define an Iron Man in the modern West are – consistency, resilience, judgement, ownership and reliability and excellent Communication Skills that will leave no doubt as to the outcome if disobeyed (this has to be unspoken).

Your son /daughter (whatever he says with his words) is deeply influenced by these values.

Read the books of Robert Greene.

Yes you are always tested. See the test for what it is and how to express your strength even when your main tools are taken away from you.

Remember there is a Crisis of Men in the Woke West.

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Underneath all the shit they say, the World is Dying for a Real Man. They have never been in shorter supply. I hope you can see that is your real Trump Card. It holds a visceral attraction.