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| 1 | Moving Beyond RedPillhere is my take on it. When i first started training with weapons, a sword was just a sword. But then I became an expert and suddenly a sword was not just a sword, but philosophy, life, the way. And now I am a master, and a sword is just a sword. Shit is simple, then complicated, and returns to simplicity. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/26 05:39 AM |
| 1 | Moving Beyond RedPillIts easy to strawman and dismiss than engage in difficult talks. I've done it too. The redpill has a lot of truth, but it may not be the right time for some. But its here for when people need it. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/26 08:08 AM |
| 1 | Moving Beyond RedPillRocking and rolling with a touch of transcendence. Also im sorting some ideas out atm. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/26 08:01 AM |
| 2 | Moving Beyond RedPillWhen Davids wife was talking shit, he refused to touch her from then on. When Jacobs women were starting shit, he layed down the law. Yeah its perfectly biblical. The modern church is cucked for the most part. Wives obey your husbands as unto the Lord. For just as Christ is the head of the church, so the husband is the head of the wife. There it is in black and white. Though I doubt any pastors will call it as it says. They will rather focus on the "husbands love your wives" which you referenced… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/26 07:11 PM |
| 5 | Moving Beyond RedPillReturn to the basics. When you were a kid, did you try to do what girls were doing to make them like you? God no! You pursued your hobbies and interests and she took note. If you are a man about your business she will want to come along. Your purpose comes first. Reframe things. The relationship is her job. But I will say this, the time you do spent together be present, not in your head. Dont take yourself so seriously and dont take her seriously either. Treat her like a little girl. That is wha… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/26 06:43 PM |
| 3 | Moving Beyond RedPillYou are correct on that, I wont say that is not a factor or consideration. It may be that at the start. But that emotion is a quick burning fuel. Love, the action, and the decision to love is better fuel. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/26 06:12 PM |
| 7 | Moving Beyond RedPillLove is not an emotion. Its action. Loving is not something you feel but do. Just as you discipline your children because you love them. You do the mundane and difficult tasks for the same reason. Contrast that with doing things because you have to, or because its the law. Its like your wife giving you star fish sex because of her wifely duties. You may equally have things you dont want to do, but you remember who you are doing it for. There is no positive feeling in paying bills, taxes and grin… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/26 06:00 PM |
| 2 | A Rant from an ExLoser: Do You Want Results? or to be "Right"?Dont beat yourself up over it. In fact practice making errors and carrying on. Its kinda like asking girls out with the sole intention of getting rejected, after a while rejections dont sting as much. Just say "oops" next time you fib something and dont explain yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/26 02:45 PM |
| 3 | A Rant from an ExLoser: Do You Want Results? or to be "Right"?Welcome to the club brother. Now go pick up some weights | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/26 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Light Yourself on Fire to Keep Others Warm: Moloch, Boomers and Frame🧃🙊 | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/26 07:01 AM |
| 7 | Light Yourself on Fire to Keep Others Warm: Moloch, Boomers and FrameI believe in enlightened self interest. By taking care of your needs you inadvertently are more competent and able to do for others. But if you neglect yourself for the sake of society, you are then sacrificed and not able to give. Love yourself as your neighbor means taking care of you first | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/26 12:24 AM |
| 1 | You Cannot Buy Love: The Final Red Pill My Own Mother Gave MeNightmare? sure. But I am not sorry it happened. This needed to happen and I am grateful that it did. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/25 05:32 AM |
| 4 | You Cannot Buy Love: The Final Red Pill My Own Mother Gave MeThey make you doubt a lot of things. Especially because the cult is tied to religious fate and all that. So its not just leaving the cult, but also your family and possibly God; atleast thats how they present it. If anything leaving the cult was an absolute expression of Frame. Because by leaving I made my self a priority before the cult, my family and other manipulations. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/25 09:03 PM |
| 1 | You Cannot Buy Love: The Final Red Pill My Own Mother Gave MeYou are so Fantastic Amazing and Generous | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/25 10:00 AM |
| 1 | You Cannot Buy Love: The Final Red Pill My Own Mother Gave Mehmmm I'm pretty sure they don't need anymore snacks. Seems to me like they've eaten too many! Im sure the reasons is part of cult retention 101, ie how to isolate and keep members working. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/25 06:45 AM |
| 3 | Pedestalizing Women and Bringing Them Down to EarthFinally a man of culture! | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/25 03:52 PM |
| 12 | Pedestalizing Women and Bringing Them Down to EarthIts true! Women will cry how this statement objectifies women one moment: and ask you to pull her hair the next! | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/25 06:35 AM |
| 16 | Pedestalizing Women and Bringing Them Down to EarthYou are right! its not that theres anything wrong with them, its just how they are built. Thats what the bros are for! | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/25 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Beauty is the Absolute Value: Fucking Up and LearningI did not consider that, good observation. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/25 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Beauty is the Absolute Value: Fucking Up and LearningI feel kinda weird right now, Ive been in a quite a few situations like this in the past, and I never feel quite right afterwards. The feeling is always something like I should have done more, or why didn't I do something sooner. I am not even really mad at the crazy lady but at myself. I should know this by now. Well I guess thats my tip for the day, im sure other veterans and first responders can attest to the psychological effects after something like that. Anywho with regards to the redpill … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/25 06:18 AM |
| 8 | Beauty is the Absolute Value: Fucking Up and LearningI came there for coffe but stayed for the humble pie. Im good buddy. Just doing some monday night quarterbacking. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/25 03:01 AM |
| 21 | Why You MUST Pay for Everything: Understanding the Phases of Redpill and Buying CoffeeIf you are here for a bit, then you pay with time. But if you lurk here then you pay with your Soul! And wasted potential! That and you got to deal with the reddit people. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/25 11:22 AM |
| 2 | Pain, the Best Teacher You've Ever Had: On Regret, Guilt, and GrowthI think it has to do that he's young and a practicing Christian, hence the whole crisis of faith thing. Thats why I wrote about being incongruent. Whether or not its moral, or practical in his eyes its a failure, and not just that but its a destruction of his identity | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/25 09:52 PM |
| 0 | Pain, the Best Teacher You've Ever Had: On Regret, Guilt, and GrowthI will check it out. As for my story i've posted it on the redpill sub. heres a link, check it out I would appreciate your candid feedback. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1dja3yn/from_normal_kid_to_wimp_how_i_unlearned_neurotic/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button | /r/RPChristians | 31/05/25 06:55 PM |
| -1 | Pain, the Best Teacher You've Ever Had: On Regret, Guilt, and GrowthI was going to put it in the post but decided against it, but after reading your response I will add this. I met a young man recently and he was in the doldrums crying over visiting an escort. I could feel the pain in his cries and self loathing. Im not trying to come down on the guy, or why he feels bad about it, but it struck a cord. He failed himself. This post was a bit of my response to him, and its some of the things I wish he would internalize. He was asking me "what do I do now that I fu… | /r/RPChristians | 31/05/25 04:42 AM |
| 3 | Pain, the Best Teacher You've Ever Had: On Regret, Guilt, and GrowthExactly right! The truth is that many things in life are counterintuitive. Seeking comfort leads to stagnation, pursuing pain by working out leads to gains, chasing the girl leads to loss, etc. I met a young man recently and he was in the doldrums crying over visiting an escort. I could feel the pain in his cries and self loathing. Im not trying to come down on the guy, or why he feels bad about it, but it struck a cord. He failed himself. This post was a bit of my response to him, and its some … | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/25 04:38 AM |
| 1 | Pain, the Best Teacher You've Ever Had: On Regret, Guilt, and GrowthI appreciate the candid response | /r/RPChristians | 30/05/25 05:02 PM |
| -1 | Virtue, Virtue, VIRTUE!: How to Get What You Want Out of LifeOkay what is the heresy? Job 35 * 5 Look up to the heavens6 and think! Do your sins hurt God?7 Is any good you may have done at all helpful to him?8 The evil or good you do only affects other humans. Prov 9 11 For by me your days will be multiplied, And years of life will be added to you.12 If you are wise, you are wise for yourself, And if you scoff, you will bear it alone.” The message is simple even Ecclesiastes makes the same point about the wise being greater than the fool but both still di… | /r/RPChristians | 13/05/25 03:55 PM |
| -1 | Virtue, Virtue, VIRTUE!: How to Get What You Want Out of LifeIs God pragmatic, or is the wisdom of the Bible just feel good dribble? Or is it fit for instruction? Either its useful which is my argument, or its not useful. Rather than take offense at the pragmatic view of scripture give an alternative to the issues men face today. What does this have to do with Jesus? You show me your faith without works and I will show you my faith by my works" Paul says that if there is virtue or anything good, it produces results. And sure purely physical things will no… | /r/RPChristians | 13/05/25 03:07 PM |
| 2 | Virtue, Virtue, VIRTUE!: How to Get What You Want Out of LifeA lot of their observations are not objectively wrong, but their prescriptions about what to do are self-defeating. We make the same observations but how we respond is 100% different. I say bemoan when I describe them because for them it's bitching without action. Whereas if you observe a shitty situation, understand it and improve your lot because of it, you've done more than the former | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/25 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Life and Fortune are a Woman: A Symbolic RantYes she does! | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/25 11:09 AM |
| 1 | Son Husbands and the Mothers That Castrate ThemThanks buddy! | /r/RPChristians | 14/04/25 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Life and Fortune are a Woman: A Symbolic RantThank you! | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/25 10:26 PM |
| 24 | Realizations: I figured it out.You do have to be the main character in your story. And sometimes you must be the main villain in other peoples stories too. You can be many things in life, but the one thing you must not be is boring. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/25 06:34 PM |
| 6 | Isolation, Globo-Homo Speak and Actual Progress: Why Monk Mode is the Magic Bullet that Never WasThats hillarious! | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/25 12:19 PM |
| 5 | Isolation, Globo-Homo Speak and Actual Progress: Why Monk Mode is the Magic Bullet that Never WasIt comes back the idea of building your own stuff, writing your own books and making your own clubs. If these things are frowned upon in normal society build your own. And the purpose is not to make this mainstream, and proselytize ( a fools errand) but to find like minded people and pursue your self interest. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/25 06:19 AM |
| 8 | Isolation, Globo-Homo Speak and Actual Progress: Why Monk Mode is the Magic Bullet that Never WasI get you buddy! The idea does sound romantic, and lonewolfish but in actuality does not work how we think. Being forced by circumstances and going monk mode because of some ideal are two different things. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/25 06:04 AM |
| 4 | Isolation, Globo-Homo Speak and Actual Progress: Why Monk Mode is the Magic Bullet that Never WasYou have said it well. Whether its the trans women bs from the left or the trans human bs on the right its equally worthless. Whether they be tradcons or leftist they all oppose speaking the truth and saying you just want to a man left to your own devices. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/25 04:15 AM |
| 2 | Isolation, Globo-Homo Speak and Actual Progress: Why Monk Mode is the Magic Bullet that Never WasIts something like that but more black pill. I think that at this point there is very little difference between the cucks and the globo homo. They all advocate for the current thing | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/25 04:00 AM |
| 9 | New Netflix movie coming out about how evil the manosphere is. Big surprise, we turn boys into monsters! It takes place in the UK where a swat team of 30 fully geared up dudes go to arrest a teen boy for posting online. Fuckin UKOh my God you actually believe that? Go ahead then Guvna, go and criticize your parliiiment. Or call some on a fat wanker. Better yet go and say "its okay to be white:" see how quickly your freedom of speech disapears ' | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/25 05:28 AM |
| 4 | My first ever approach in almost 30 years being aliveGood job sir! Do you have stuff to work on? Of course, but you took action which is the right step. You stopped the mental and did something. Fuck everyone telling you to go monk mode. That's retarded. Live life, keep going out and getting experience. Eventually when you go somewhere new and people don't know you they will just see the experienced guy not you trial and error | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/25 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Son Husbands and the Mothers That Castrate ThemI met a fellow who was convinced by his mom that: He was part of the 144k in revelations and therefore had to remain a virgin. Also that if he felt sexual desires, he was sinning. It took months of teaching him scripture and how to game to come out of that. Not surprisingly now he has almost zero contact with his mother and she doesnt seem to understand why. | /r/RPChristians | 20/01/25 06:06 PM |
| 5 | Son Husbands and the Mothers That Castrate Them"No More Mr Nice Guy" is worth it's weight in gold for the recovering nice guy | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/25 07:22 PM |
| 5 | Son Husbands and the Mothers That Castrate Them100% BTW the previous comment was sarcastic | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/25 05:37 AM |
| 5 | Son Husbands and the Mothers That Castrate ThemAs a man you must do the right thing, she must do what's right for her | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/25 05:19 AM |
| 15 | Son Husbands and the Mothers That Castrate ThemA confrontation is not a requisite. But separation is. And the separation must be decisive. If subtlety and and continual manipulation got you where you are at, more of the same is not going to get you out. This is not a good place to be at. I am in no way suggesting to burn bridges and salt the earth. And as far as compassion goes, this is compassion. Its compassionate towards you and her. Being co dependent does not serve her either. It stops her from building healthy relationships. And your n… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/25 04:18 AM |
| 9 | Son Husbands and the Mothers That Castrate ThemOne step at a time. If you havent done so look thru the sidebar here. You will learn to take care of yourself, eat right, train right, and learn game. This may seem simplistic but its the right path. At first you may just do these things as a chore, but eventually you learn to do them because they are good for you, and because these things will get you ahead in life. This teaches you to value yourself and to establish boundaries. Start there. Grab a one thing from the sidebar and go and practice… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/25 03:45 AM |
| 21 | Son Husbands and the Mothers That Castrate ThemI know that it sucks my guy. We do not determine what hand we are dealt in life. But sometimes it is wholly appropriate to flip the table, say fuck this game and play one that you want. Ive seen quite a few guys in this predicament, but no one was really talking about it so I thought I would get the ball rolling. I also have a bit of a background with the whole religious bit. So I can tell you that it was a process coming out of that life, but one that can be done. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/25 03:14 AM |
| 1 | How to Galvanize Yourself into Taking ActionLove is like a drug, and that crash you experienced is the withdrawal symptoms. In order to get out of this rut, it's helpful to find an Enemy or rouse yourself up. But some where along the way you must learn frame. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/24 04:36 PM |
| 27 | Book of Pook Deleted from YouTubeRemember that a Pook is a Pook! Do not argue about the Pook, but rather learn from the Pook. I believe you can still download the PDF on redpill archives. https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/the-book-of-pook-free-audiobook-and-website.288408 | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/24 10:48 PM |
| 4 | How to Galvanize Yourself into Taking ActionBoth fine points gentlemen. There is no shortcut for discipline and mastery. If you live just for the sake of getting back at someone, that runs its course soon. My post was about starting the process. You may start off to "teach that bitch a lesson" or prove that your parents were wrong etc. But somewhere along the way you learn frame. You learn to do it for yourself. Lets not pretend that emotions are not powerful motivators, and that our primal drives are base. With out emotions and our anima… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/24 07:42 PM |
| 1 | The reality check some of you needCompetence and toughness is not something that is about bravado. Here is an experience I had which I think sheds some light; it is worth adding that at that project I was the most ripped guy. I started working on a new project recently with a bunch of guys ive never met before. And there was a bit of tension in the air that caught me off guard. As the days started passing by and I got to talking with some of the guys, I got asked some seemingly random questions. One guy came up to me and asked “… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/24 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Why Fast Food, Masturbation and Entertainment are Not Enough: The Masculine Spirit and Youto be honest, imperial sounds cooler! | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/24 08:49 AM |
| 1 | Why Fast Food, Masturbation and Entertainment are Not Enough: The Masculine Spirit and YouWhen I refer to chaos and order its not so much good and bad vs natural and unnatural. Natural things can be cruel as hell. Unnatural things may bring comfort, but all of civilization that strays too far to the unnatural will eventually return to a more natural state. Take Rome for example. They started off masculine and ethics based at their beginning, and towards the end of the empire they became egalitarian, decadent, stopped having children and defending their own borders. Nature or the way … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/24 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Why Fast Food, Masturbation and Entertainment are Not Enough: The Masculine Spirit and YouYou make a disctinction between gender and sex. These are inherently linked across culture. Is there different expressions of masculinity and femininity across cultures? Sure. But the gendered differences are parrallel to sex. I used the Bible as my reference point to God. The terms Father and Son are constantly used throughout scripture. The Bible itself makes this distinction between the spirit of God being that of Love, Strength and a Rational mind, and the spirit of disorder being that of co… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/24 10:22 PM |
| 2 | How Do You Know You Lack Frame? And the Signs That Give You Away (Part I: Speech)If you are talking and someone interrupts, or tries to, you either let them speak and continue what you were saying when they are done. Or you finish saying what you were as they try talking over you. What you must not do, is stop without finishing what you were going to say. If you have something to say, its worth finishing. But talking fast is a symptom of other problems, how you do one thing is how you tend to do all things. See yourself as a man who's time is important, be slow, deliberate, … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/24 09:05 PM |
| 6 | How Do You Know You Lack Frame and the Signs That Give You Away (Part III: Decisions)What that means is that the formerly religious repressed types like mormons or evangelicals that fit this pattern if they break away tend to over indulge. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/24 11:07 AM |
| 10 | What to do When You are Lost or in a Rut?You are right about success being a positive loop. My point is that failure is unavoidable and necessary. You are not going to get things right all the time, embrace failure and turn it into something good. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/24 03:14 AM |
| 8 | Logistics, Logistics, Logistics: Why Desi Guys Need to Move OutWell said As a man, planning is your prerogative. Your job is to make interactions flow as seamlessly as possible. Obviously nothing in life works that way, it requires planning, logistics etc. What Sr. Desi said is key not just for Indian dudes, but anyone that still stays with mom and dad. Its not just about bringing a girl back home with you. Your entire mindset changes when you are independent. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/24 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Shattering Stereotypes: Redefining the Modern Desi Man in the Dating WorldOkay I've got some Indian friends, and here are my two cents. This post is good because its specific for Desi men. And one off the biggest turn offs for women is self doubt. If you are the type of guy to cry over women not finding you attractive, this post is for you. NO ONE, and I mean no one gives a fuck about you! Its not about how you feel, its about how you make others feel. Get out of your fucking head and be fun to be around! The indian guys I know have no trouble getting girls, in the U.… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/24 07:26 AM |
| 24 | Passing shit-tests 101 (the fundamental principles)More than anything, amused mastery is the way to go. Look at her and see her as a little girl. Do you take children seriously? Of course not! You'd probably laugh and say "that's cute". You should not think If A then I do B or some bs like that. Your responses should flow from your frame. Your frame should be such that passing shit test is not even on your mind, you just do because its who you've become. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/24 09:46 AM |
| 3 | How Do You Know You Lack Frame? And the Signs That Give You Away (Part I: Speech)It was Sheriff's department | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/24 12:46 AM |
| 2 | Altruism, Manipulation and Mental Point of OriginI think the Beta rule follower types are the worst. Its not that they suck with women, no sir, they are just holier than the average man. Its not that they cant get women, its that theres only bad promiscuous women in the world. They have some virtous excuse for their failure. And in some regards I pity these guys the most. I am sure they were gaslight into believing that, and at some point they gaslight themselves. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/24 12:37 PM |
| 3 | Them Grapes Are Sour! Why Self-Deception is Holding You BackAction will help you far more than reading ever will. This forum is a toolbox, but you must go outside of here to go use the tools. Affirmations (telling yourself things or positive messages) do not work unless they are paired with action. You must do something till it becomes the default stage, and natural. For me, I am a fit guy, I was not always so. But after eating right for a long time, it is second nature to me. Also for me skipping the gym feels terrible. I have to force myself to take re… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/24 12:07 PM |
| 2 | Altruism, Manipulation and Mental Point of OriginAh yes brilliant! They found a loop hole God never thought of huh? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/24 09:49 AM |
| 4 | Altruism, Manipulation and Mental Point of OriginThis one does require a bit of thought but here's my opinion. Virtue cannot be compelled, it does not matter what it is. If you out of the kindness of your own heart give to a poor man, or provide help to someone, that is good. When the government forces you to do something, either by taxing or coercion, they have robbed you of virtue. Consider slavery, some defended it, others abhor it. But the rule here is perhaps this. Any man if he were a slave would agree that slavery is wrong for himself. … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/24 09:46 AM |
| – | Altruism, Manipulation and Mental Point of OriginYou will find that as you pursue what you desire, getting a better job, becoming physically fit etc, you become more attractive and capable. You cannot help anyone if you are weak and incompetent, this is true physically and spiritually | /r/RPChristians | 05/08/24 09:22 AM |
| 4 | Should Men Approach Women Directly or Indirectly?I have not been back to that meetup group in a while, but I have gone to other groups in the area (they are related). I have not run into that girl again. but wouldnt you know it? Lots of the other girls in other locations got really friendly with me. I am not sure who or how but word traveled. This is prob above my pay grade. But I am going to assume that my response, lack of thirst or behavior made the girls interested. I had a few girls from the club call me, ask for me to stop by or host an … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/24 01:47 PM |
| 28 | Should Men Approach Women Directly or Indirectly?Well organized and insightful! If you dont have time I would go direct game, add some urgency to the conversation. Talk about something that makes it natural to ask for contact info. I asked a few girls in a city I was visiting if they knew any good bars, they did and they talked my ear off. After a few minutes of talking and me teasing them for being boring I said that sounds fun we should totally go. The girls wanting to show they were not boring and happy to be approached agreed. I gave my ph… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/24 10:37 AM |
| 5 | The Lies of Happiness, Gratitude and Understanding: Why Self-Deception is Holding You Back (Part II)I am not sure its something that can be taught but here goes nothing. Have fun always, seek to enjoy yourself wherever your are. The priority when going out is to make sure you are enjoying yourself before others. If you are having fun, then others will have fun. But if you are worried about others having fun, you in contrast are not having fun, and this makes it harder for others people to enjoy themselves. I invited my friends to go to a maid cafe this Saturday. Why? because it looked cool. So… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/24 09:22 AM |
| 1 | This community is for losersGood judgement, comes from experience. Experience comes from bad judgement. There's many different phases in gaining experience. Some people come here in denial, others in rage, some try to bargain their old beliefs (purple pill) and others learn to accept. This forum is a tool box, but you are right, you are not meant to stay here. You are to grab a tool, go out and use it. Then through trial and error, you non longer need this toolbox because youve gained your own tools ( good judgement). Redp… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/24 11:29 PM |
| 2 | The Lies of Happiness, Gratitude and Understanding: Why Self-Deception is Holding You Back (Part II)Heres the link to the Part 1 https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1d42jij/them_grapes_are_sour_why_selfdeception_is_holding/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/24 08:12 AM |
| 1 | The Lies of Happiness, Gratitude and Understanding: Why Self-Deception is Holding You Back (Part II)okay then | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/24 08:12 AM |
| 1 | The Lies of Happiness, Gratitude and Understanding: Why Self-Deception is Holding You Back (Part II)its keeps telling me I cant link to the same reddit sub | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/24 08:10 AM |
| 1 | The Lies of Happiness, Gratitude and Understanding: Why Self-Deception is Holding You Back (Part II)Not sure what you mean by aura, are you referring to how other people perceive you? or the energy you give off when entering a room? | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/24 07:08 AM |
| 3 | The Lies of Happiness, Gratitude and Understanding: Why Self-Deception is Holding You Back (Part II)Thats rough buddy! Balls in your court now, the question you have to answer is what are you going to do from now on? | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/24 10:50 PM |
| 3 | The Lies of Happiness, Gratitude and Understanding: Why Self-Deception is Holding You Back (Part II)The 1st post is called: Them grapes are sour: why self deception is holding you back | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/24 09:04 AM |
| 3 | The Lies of Happiness, Gratitude and Understanding: Why Self-Deception is Holding You Back (Part II)The post is called: Them Grapes are sour | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/24 09:03 AM |
| 5 | The Lies of Happiness, Gratitude and Understanding: Why Self-Deception is Holding You Back (Part II)Your welcome buddy! | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/24 03:40 AM |
| 5 | The Lies of Happiness, Gratitude and Understanding: Why Self-Deception is Holding You Back (Part II)Thanks my guy! | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/24 11:56 PM |
| 6 | Self Improvement Won't Get You More GirlsThanks buddy! I get what you are going for, trying to convey the need for inner game. I dunno if people will get it unless they are in the right frame of mind to understand it. I came across something recently that I think demonstrates frame, enlightened self interest and inner game. I recently read the works by Fredrick Douglass and something he wrote really struck me. For those unfamiliar ,he used to be a slave, ran away and the worked on a shipyard for sometime before becoming a writer. He wr… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/24 09:39 AM |
| 53 | Self Improvement Won't Get You More GirlsThat is true my guy! There needs to be more to you than outer metrics of success. What you believe about yourself shows in how you walk, talk and carry yourself. A few days ago I went to a different gym than I normally do. On this day I was feeling really social so I just started small talking everyone. I saw some guy with an Anime shirt and said " hey man, thats a sweet looking shirt." He stopped, was puzzled for a bit, and then his face lit up! He thanked me and said I made his day! At the loc… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/24 09:09 AM |
| 31 | Field Report - First lay in almost 5+ yearsThat is how it is my guy. You can read the side bar and have people tell you things, but until you learn them for yourself, they are useless. The first one is always the biggest hurdle. Its harder to get a plane off the ground than to keep it flying. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/24 07:51 PM |
| 1 | From Banter to Conflict: How a Debate on Men’s Emotions Evolved into a Showdown Between Vulnerability and UtilityDark humor is supposed to make you a bit uncomfortable, at first. Then when you learn not to take it so seriously and jab back, that is when the mood turns positive. They jabed, you hit back in good spirit; it means you passed the test. Now there is a difference between people talking shit just for the hell of it, this is nuanced. You have to be able to read the room, if not you come off as socially inept. Imagine some guy is trying to be friendly and lighten up the mood by making some banter bu… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/24 07:19 PM |
| 2 | From Banter to Conflict: How a Debate on Men’s Emotions Evolved into a Showdown Between Vulnerability and UtilityIt really is annoying talking to soft spoken, docile men who are always saying things like:" Are you okay?, how are you feeling? Is there anything I can do to help you feel better? They are trying to be sensitive and praise everything to high heaven but it just comes of as disingenuous. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/24 06:51 PM |
| 5 | From Banter to Conflict: How a Debate on Men’s Emotions Evolved into a Showdown Between Vulnerability and UtilityI've noticed that whenever an annoying liberal is in a conversation with a trad guy, they always summon a liberal woman for help. Of course, they don't realize that this behavior isn't going to get them laid. That is poetry good sir! And a very astute observation. As for the not getting laid part, HOw Dare you assume his intentions were crass! He just wanted to be an female ally! I am sure she will repay his feelings with twinkies and chocolate covered bonbons and glazed donut holes! | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/24 06:48 PM |
| 4 | From Banter to Conflict: How a Debate on Men’s Emotions Evolved into a Showdown Between Vulnerability and UtilityIt sounds like you are the problem from what you write. If you get emotional/overly serious that is highly feminine behavior. As I stated above Nice guys hide their emotions, trying to be the sensitive, caring type. But masculine men? They show emotions differently Your response in cold approaching and talking things out sounds very cringe. Also if someone talked shit you brutalized them till they lost their cool? That sounds like you are the one that lost your cool. Life has a lot of tough shit… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/24 06:44 PM |
| 8 | From Banter to Conflict: How a Debate on Men’s Emotions Evolved into a Showdown Between Vulnerability and UtilityThat is the point of this post, to emphasize the need for utility, and that bantering is not mean spirited. And yes jabbing each other absolutely is masculine. Most young men are so starved of male energy that they perceive normal male joking as offensive or mockery; it is far more than that. Women affirm each other by complementing each other, men affirm others by challenging them to rise to the occasion. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/24 03:01 AM |
| 11 | A Beginner's Guide To The Gym: The Fundamentals of Building MuscleThanks for putting in the time to make this guide | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/24 01:43 AM |
| 6 | Being Disliked Requires CourageI thought the same thing when I read it, good at first but it got really gay at the end with the social feelings bit | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/24 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Soy Boy Cucks, Preaching and Pussy ParadiseSoylentgreen is made out of people! | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/24 01:44 PM |
| 11 | Soy Boy Cucks, Preaching and Pussy ParadiseWell Fuck you too buddy! | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/24 08:40 PM |
| 65 | Where Does One Find Quality Women?I think part of the reason for faulty beliefs, and logic is that people want there to be a secret. Whats easier to swallow? You suck with women, and there are actually good girls everywhere? OR "10 places high quality women hang out! Location #3 will shock you." Everyone wants the cheat codes to life, no one wants to grind and get xp the right way. There is good girls and bad girls where ever you go. Its your job to find and make a woman that works for you! | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/24 09:35 AM |
| 1 | Savior Complex and Blue Pill Thinking Destroy a Mans LifeThats a good suggestion | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/24 09:53 AM |
| 48 | Fuck this ! It's all a shut show!Shut up. these misguided gurus are only going to push you towards nhilism That is you! YOU are the one being Nihilistic. How dare you talk about higher virtues, if you do not take care of the basics? Money, Muscles and Game is where you start! You talk about passion and feelings; Fuck your feelings, go cry me a river. Discipline is superior to your feelings. You complain about men not having conversations and improving? Thats exactly what this forum is for! Instead of bitching, contribute someth… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/24 09:49 AM |
| 3 | Slept with another girl, I am in a 5 year LTR, I really liked it, confused AF.Not saying your analysis is wrong, my point is you need to build an abundance mindset | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/24 05:57 AM |
| 6 | Slept with another girl, I am in a 5 year LTR, I really liked it, confused AF.Where you fucked up is by dropping all your other plates. When you only have one girl in your life you tend to simp and act beta. But when you got another girl, you felt like a champ right? If your woman is a drag then I would expand my options. Learn your lesson with your current GF, use her as a sparing partner. If she follows your lead, then great! If not, spin more plates and get women that will follow you. Also getting a new girlfriend will not solve ur problem, unless you kill the beta shi… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/24 05:31 AM |
| 2 | Savior Complex and Blue Pill Thinking Destroy a Mans LifeI hear you buddy. I am not against religion, or spirituality. I believe that being disciplined and practicing faith comes with all manner of benefits; salvation and all not withstanding. Yet I see the problem you've outlined about elders meddling in peoples lives. I am not sure if I've mentioned it here, but in one church group Ive been to, the women are encouraged not to sleep with their husbands, as this will force the husbands to "come closer to god", whatever that means. Ironically all the w… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/24 05:23 AM |
| 2 | Savior Complex and Blue Pill Thinking Destroy a Mans LifeHmmm now that you mention it, I have noticed something similar. i.e old man making a soft landing for a hooker. But I have also seen a lot of Church elders and pastors trying to pair up single men, with single moms | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/24 05:57 PM |
| 3 | Savior Complex and Blue Pill Thinking Destroy a Mans Lifehow is it Christian hate? | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/24 05:31 PM |
| 3 | Savior Complex and Blue Pill Thinking Destroy a Mans LifeTHANKS BUDDY! | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/24 10:44 AM |
| 2 | Savior Complex and Blue Pill Thinking Destroy a Mans LifeThough I wish you kept the 165 days of editing bunny's post, that part was funny! | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/24 10:51 PM |
| 2 | Savior Complex and Blue Pill Thinking Destroy a Mans LifeI can appreciate that. I actually took your comments to heart. You might not think so but I've trimmed a lot of my writing. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/24 10:50 PM |
| 7 | I converted a incel into a betawould bet money he's going to be very interested in MGTOW in a few years This^ Yeah, some people just arent ready! Remember he's grown up his whole life believing bs, no matter how good you are, you cant undo that in a few months | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/24 10:36 PM |
| 49 | I converted a incel into a betaYou did good buddy! You gave him the material, but its not your job to make sure he gets it. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/24 10:07 PM |
| 2 | Savior Complex and Blue Pill Thinking Destroy a Mans LifeEvery man in his life did fail him. I think they all meant well, you know what they say about good intentions. They were just repeating what they heard, and that was essentially set yourself on fire to keep her warm. They used his altruism and instinct to protect against him. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/24 10:01 PM |
| 2 | Savior Complex and Blue Pill Thinking Destroy a Mans LifeYou know, for a guy who acts all annoyed, you always read my works. I think you are being a tsundere! Plus you always summarize my post for others. Thank you! I've always wanted a secretary! | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/24 09:29 PM |
| 4 | Savior Complex and Blue Pill Thinking Destroy a Mans LifeI get it buddy, not saying that your wrong, but its amazing what people will believe with enough gaslighting. My big one right now is seeing so many women preachers teach BS. Yet somehow people can do enough mental gymnastics to okay something plainly prohibited in scripture. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/24 08:47 PM |
| 2 | Savior Complex and Blue Pill Thinking Destroy a Mans LifeThe sad thing is that they are so plugged in, they dont realize you are trying to help them. Thinking is hard work, and they would rather regurgitate dribble and feminist talking points, than be their own men | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/24 07:28 PM |
| 4 | Using Hypergamy to Your AdvantageI enjoyed your post. A woman wants to be part of your story! If the story and narrative you present is crap, then she will go elsewhere. Be the best option, not for her, but for yourself. Live a good story and have her be a set piece in it!! | /r/RPChristians | 03/07/24 06:21 PM |
| 12 | Savior Complex and Blue Pill Thinking Destroy a Mans LifeIn Scripture we read that " My people perish for lack of knowledge" it is also written that " those that should lead you have caused you to go astray." I believe that every man must go through a phase of having believed something in error. Its like listening to a love song when you are a kid, sure you understand the words, but until you go thru heartbreak you dont really understand what is being talked about. In the same way in the book of proverbs, King Solomon talks about A whorish woman who s… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/24 03:15 PM |
| 7 | Savior Complex and Blue Pill Thinking Destroy a Mans LifeWell said buddy! Your religious background, upbringing or race does not give you a pass on human nature! Perhaps you've heard this one "Godliness is sexy!" or "Women are attracted to a righteous man." Before women are Christian women, muslim women, Mormon etc, they are women! | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/24 01:49 PM |
| 18 | Savior Complex and Blue Pill Thinking Destroy a Mans LifeWhat you say is on point, but Its hard to think that applies when the person is someone you trust. They say betrayal hurts because it is always from someone you love | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/24 11:29 AM |
| 2 | Why Pleasing Yourself is the Best Way to Get the Girls!commanded multiple partially nude buff men around in costumes Thanks??? | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/24 08:58 AM |
| 1 | Savior Complex and Blue Pill Thinking Destroy a Mans Life: UpdatedThere is no insulation against being pathetic. Faith does not give anyone a pass to be naive although it feels as if the church promotes this. While we are in the world we ought to be wise. | /r/RPChristians | 02/07/24 03:24 AM |
| 5 | Why Pleasing Yourself is the Best Way to Get the Girls!Damn straight! Wait till you hear what happened when we held hands! | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/24 12:10 PM |
| 83 | People only treat you as poorly as you allow them toI saw this phenomenon in the military. I was a bit younger than my peers, but did training courses , had excellent shooting scores and physical performance scores which are factored in for promotion. When I got promoted many of the guys who knew me as a Private could not believe or respect that I became a Non Commissioned Officer. New guys that came along, or transferred from other units treated me well and as the PT stud that I was. Some of the old crew always gave me attitude because I was "pr… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/24 02:14 PM |
| 3 | Why Pleasing Yourself is the Best Way to Get the Girls!That is a good observation, I think I implied the necessity of not supplicating. I can see your point about diminishing her importance | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/24 11:02 PM |
| 5 | Why Pleasing Yourself is the Best Way to Get the Girls!Attention sure I can see that once you are married or in an LTR, but simping? Never! | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/24 01:35 AM |
| 8 | Why Pleasing Yourself is the Best Way to Get the Girls!I know shocking, isn't it? | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/24 12:11 AM |
| 12 | Why Pleasing Yourself is the Best Way to Get the Girls!I do enjoy the work of Pook! | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/24 11:17 PM |
| 2 | From Normal Kid to Wimp: How I Unlearned Neurotic GaslightingFor me after a few fights, the bullying stopped and past my first year in highschool I did not fight again. And similar to what you mentioned one of the guys I fought with, I ended up becoming friends with. "Friendship doesn't happen without fear I would agree. The way I understand it is that you cannot be friends with someone you do not respect! And if someone stands up for themselves, that is worthy of respect! | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/24 08:46 AM |
| 25 | Always Trust Your Gut: Expect People To Become Envious of You Once You Level UpWell I can think of a few reasons why they hate you You are Buff You are Black You are buff and black! I am not being facetious...well maybe a little. Truth is most men are uncomfortable with masculine talk, energy, and bantering. They are so lacking in male interactions, that any male form of socializing or joking is perceived as violent and aggressive I, as a man on his journey of becoming more masculine, am very direct, confrontational (when necessary), and logical with other men I interact w… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/24 10:50 AM |
| 6 | From Normal Kid to Wimp: How I Unlearned Neurotic GaslightingAppreciate that buddy! | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/24 09:11 AM |
| 7 | From Normal Kid to Wimp: How I Unlearned Neurotic GaslightingThanks my guy! Killing that "altruism" and need to please is very hard. I know in particular that Indian guys have a hard time with idolizing their mothers. Blue pill thinking is very dangerous. I believe that redpill (seeing things for what they are) saves lives. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/24 09:11 AM |
| 6 | From Normal Kid to Wimp: How I Unlearned Neurotic GaslightingShe is my mom and I still love her in spite of it all. And there was a time when I tried getting her to see her errors but that went no where. So I learned to not reward her bad behavior with any attention at all. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/24 05:15 AM |
| 6 | From Normal Kid to Wimp: How I Unlearned Neurotic GaslightingYeah, that happened. Looking at it when its written down make me realize how fucked it was. But hey Silver Lining! | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/24 04:49 AM |
| 1 | Better the Devil You KnowYou have said it well good sir! I know people like to say "dont judge a book by its cover." But we all do! So if people will make judgements, how you present yourself determines much of that! A very astute observation. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/24 09:20 PM |
| 6 | Better the Devil You KnowIs the pain of your own choosing? Does this lead to some benefit for you? Or is it hoisted on you by others? If the pain comes from trying to improve, like getting in shape or learning a new vocation or discipline this is a good pain. If the pain comes from dealing with family or co workers that disrespect you, that is not one you should bear with. That sir is the pain you should move from. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/24 11:56 PM |
| 3 | Better the Devil You KnowYour welcome | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/24 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Instead of best you can get for baby mama, what about worst?This is a strange post Redpill is about seeing things for what they are. From your post you've clearly an idea that raising kids is challenging and that interference can stifle you ( both of which can be true). You've got a plan which seem overly complicated and very covert contract like. Lets say you do manage to get a child via your methods then what? Is the idea that if you dont have a woman in the childs life, the child will grow up well outside the influence of an evil woman? This is a mass… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/24 04:16 PM |
| 4 | How To Find Your Purpose In lifeYou've got a lot of insight here good sir! I would agree for the most part, but there are a couple of areas I where I think a bit differently. The things that bring men purpose, have to do with identity. Thats why the number 1 killer of men is suicide when that identify is destroyed. You go from being a father to visiting once a month. If you get divorced, you loose the identity of being a husband. If you get laid off you go from being a police officer, doctor, lawyer, engineer etc to just being… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/24 05:54 AM |
| 2 | You Do Not Talk About Fight Club: Rabbits and the Bonobo Masturbation SocietyWell said! Thats is a well put observation! | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/24 09:11 PM |
| 3 | You Do Not Talk About Fight Club: Rabbits and the Bonobo Masturbation SocietyRock on buddy, thats a solid point! | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/24 03:15 AM |
| 7 | You Do Not Talk About Fight Club: Rabbits and the Bonobo Masturbation SocietyAvoid DEERing, Defending, Explaining, Excusing, Rationalizing. Logic does not get you laid. Personally I would use it as an opportunity to be a bit vague. This leads to people wondering about me. Be playful an mischievous about it and you'll do fine. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/24 12:57 AM |
| 1 | You Do Not Talk About Fight Club: Rabbits and the Bonobo Masturbation SocietyLOL WTF!!! That gave me a good laugh! Well done sir! | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/24 11:32 PM |
| 2 | Them Grapes Are Sour! Why Self-Deception is Holding You BackIve head good things about that book, I will definitely check it out | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/24 04:16 PM |
| 2 | Let's Talk Triage, Because You're Killing MeI enjoyed your post good sir! Way to call them like you see them | /r/RPChristians | 30/05/24 11:30 PM |
| 9 | Them Grapes Are Sour! Why Self-Deception is Holding You BackIt would be interesting to discuss how to really integrate these beliefs in our lives, because in my case I noticed that being aware of them is not enough, especially the deepest beliefs we have about the world. Well said. I believe that knowing and reading something is different from actual integration. My two cents are that unless you apply or actively implement a new practice, you will never integrate the belief. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/24 08:22 PM |
| 3 | The wife wants sex but I don’t feel attracted to her anymoreIf your wife is overweight, she is not high smv. Part of moving forward is being honest with yourself, brutally so! Your wife is going to respond to your emotions, and how you feel. She takes her cues from you. Think of a child that fell down, when the child falls, the first thing it does is look towards it's parents. If the parents over react, the child starts crying. If the parents carry on or even make light of the matter, the child sees crying is not appropriate. In the same way your woman i… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/05/24 09:23 AM |
| 1 | The wife wants sex but I don’t feel attracted to her anymoreWell good sir, I am not certain about many things from what you've written. But I would like to pose some questions that may give you clarity. Do you want that behavior (your wife initiating sex) to continue or not? If yes have sex with her if not, ignore her. Do you care about salvaging anything with your wife? Remember you are on a journey of change and it took you a while to get there, so your woman will lag behind you if she decides to change as well. Her being anxious seems to be because of… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/05/24 08:32 AM |
| – | The King is Dead, Long Live the Amalgamation!Well said. its not all doom and gloom. There's much worth fighting for and pursuing. But to your point, it takes a lot of hard work and discipline. | /r/RPChristians | 24/05/24 11:28 AM |
| 8 | The King is Dead, Long Live the Amalgamation!There used to be some pretty based people in the early church and throughout the centuries. These people were the most red pilled. What is more red pilled than Elijah walking up to the king and queen, calling them hypocrites for leading Israel astray, then having a showdown with a bunch of child sacrificing degenerates? Red pill is not so much about the morality bit though. Red pill is about calling things for what they are. And calling things as they are is highly offensive, hence why people pu… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/24 09:23 PM |
| 8 | The King is Dead, Long Live the Amalgamation!Jack Donovan writes some good literature. In the book " The Way of Men He makes the point that a man needs a gang to belong to; the way of the man is the way of the gang. I would agree. As to your point about not red pilling people, that is also solid wisdom. You cannot redpill people, rather you musnt, not until they are ready. And the best way, to your point is by living out red pill principles. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/24 09:14 PM |
| 2 | In her frame, needing assistance.Do what you are going to do. Do not explain why! Avoid DEER-ING (Defending, Explaining, Excusing, Rationalizing). If you have to explain yourself to someone they are de facto your superior. Its good to have her wonder about you. I would avoid further research on this topic for now until you apply what you know. If not it just leads to endless mental stimulation( read masturbation). | /r/RPChristians | 25/04/24 01:22 AM |
| 1 | In her frame, needing assistance.When something bothers you bring it up immediately. Bringing it up later, a few minutes hours, or days later makes you look petty. Go to the gym. This time is non negotiable. You do not answer calls or compromise on going to the gym. This is you time only. This will help you start setting boundaries. Start with these 2 things and you will do well. If you don't apply what you learn then you can only blame yourself. | /r/RPChristians | 24/04/24 11:41 PM |
| 73 | One of the most eloquent Red-Pill truths I've ever seen expressed... and it comes from a woman.Women want to control a man that cannot be controlled. If she test your frame and you fail the test, although she wins and proves you are a beta, What did she win? Nothing other than confirmation that she is with a beta. If she tests your frame and looses, she wins because you did not succumb to her whims, and she is with an Alpha. Women do not know why they are often dissatisfied with a man that appears successful by societies metrics. But they feel it. Ever notice the celebrity bros that get c… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/24 02:54 AM |
| 2 | Church elders White Knight! Simps appear and try to prevent young men from getting red pill truth! Recently a few young men at church asked me for advice on dating, and "getting da girls", unbeknown to me church elders eavesdropped and lost their minds!That's a fair point | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/24 03:42 PM |
| 5 | Church elders White Knight! Simps appear and try to prevent young men from getting red pill truth! Recently a few young men at church asked me for advice on dating, and "getting da girls", unbeknown to me church elders eavesdropped and lost their minds!I did not know what the Mr Smith effect was till now, but it totally fits. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/24 01:08 AM |
| 3 | Church elders White Knight! Simps appear and try to prevent young men from getting red pill truth! Recently a few young men at church asked me for advice on dating, and "getting da girls", unbeknown to me church elders eavesdropped and lost their minds!I think you've added clarity to this topic; Thanks my guy. I also have done coffee dates precisely for the reasons you've mentioned. There is no one way to do things, that was just my recommendation to the boys at that time. Also I was encouraging them to do manly active stuff. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/24 11:30 PM |
| 11 | Church elders White Knight! Simps appear and try to prevent young men from getting red pill truth! Recently a few young men at church asked me for advice on dating, and "getting da girls", unbeknown to me church elders eavesdropped and lost their minds!Ty good sir for your input, not sure what close friend route is but mainly I recommended action dates. Going and doing something physical, like walking in the park, hiking, going to the beach, playing volleyball, shooting, bowling etc. Are you doing interesting things? if not, change that and make it a part of your life. You cannot invite people to your life and have them stay if your life is boring. Also inviting people to what you already do makes dating more casual, rather than some grand eve… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/24 10:29 PM |
| 4 | Girls will be... girlsThat is right good sir! Many men make the mistake of giving themselves over to easily. You must not rob her of the opportunity to win you over. She cannot enjoy something that was easily gained, including you. There is no fun in having a tamed dog. But taming a wild animal or man? That is what women wants. To tame a wild man. That's what beauty and the beast is about, that is what Tarzan is about, that is what the Twilight series is about. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/24 10:19 PM |
| 12 | Church elders White Knight! Simps appear and try to prevent young men from getting red pill truth! Recently a few young men at church asked me for advice on dating, and "getting da girls", unbeknown to me church elders eavesdropped and lost their minds!Seignior Rp you have written that well. Apart from getting royally screwed, I know of no other method that makes men seek the truth. Only after men have been utterly defeated, are they susceptible to contrary points of view. Only then will they question the narrative they have believed. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/24 10:10 PM |
| 1 | King Ahab and Jezebel: A Modern Example?You hit the nail on the head. Church worships the divine feminine. Jesus is transformed to whatever best serves the feminine. In this case they say "Jesus was a nice guy, and he does not judge". When scripture says says all power, authority and judgment is his. They make and shape God into whatever is convenient to them. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/24 09:03 PM |
| 4 | On the importance of building your tribe and strugglingNo doubt, what I draw attention to is the idea that " godliness is sexy" preached in churches is false | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/24 01:38 PM |
| 1 | King Ahab and Jezebel: A Modern Example?That was my thoughts too. That's why I asked the question if she was not a type of modern Jezebel. Like the Bible says you will know them by their works. Or in redpill speak don't believe her words, believe her actions | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/24 01:37 PM |
| 42 | Girls will be... girlsPeople become bored when they think they've figured something out. As a man you must have dept. Also dont lay all your cards on the table. Let people figure you out as opposed to you disclosing yourself to them. But what I mean is more like you must become the game. It is not enough to play games with her, and do larping. Its the difference between going on a diet vs eating well because you ARE a fit person. You do not play games with her because you are trying to pick her up or keep her enterta… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/24 12:59 AM |
| 58 | Girls will be... girlsThis is absolutely the way of the world. Remember you can do a lot of things with a girl, but you must never bore her. How many wealthy men have been cucked by their wives? Being successful by societies metrics is no guarantee your woman sticks around. Women are many things, but I do not fault the woman here. She is merely picking up on his simping behavior and acting accordingly. She probably still "loves" her husband but does not understand why she is " not in love with him" Just as the price … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/24 12:31 AM |
| 72 | Women Love Mysterious Men. Here's How to Do ItThis post is on point. Once I revealed to a girlfriend the story behind how I got many of my scars; the story was quite horrific and full of drama. But it did not matter, I screwed up by revealing that info. No matter how good or bad the story was it was different from what she had in her head. In the future with a different girl I got asked about my scars again, that time I just said " it's a painful story and one I don't want to talk about " She loved 😍 that response! And she became more curio… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/24 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Blog article requirements open discussionI'm guessing you refer to people like pearly things, that have no ideas of their own but jump on the bandwagon? | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/24 07:32 PM |
| 3 | Blog article requirements open discussionThere's many ways to skin a cat. it's a given that some ideas will be rehashed. But I think coming to old ideas through different angles is useful. For example when Rollo talks about frame for 4 hours he looses some people, however When Pook says Oooh la la, it clicks with some one else; on the same note, Pook is super metaphorical and flowery and Rollo not doing tldr's helps the autist amongst us understand. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/24 07:28 PM |
| 4 | Do we really need to do this?Part of frame is owning your shit! I think Op is right! If you still operate by someone else's rules, you are in their frame. When you learn to operate in a way that works, even if it means disregarding conventional (ineffective)wisdom from church, culture, and family, then you have become your own mental point of origin. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/24 02:35 AM |
| 25 | Discipline is overrated. Here's how to NEVER procratinate again. (seriously)Very well written. When something becomes part of your identity, it becomes set in stone. For Red pill stuff, you must not run pick up lines and memes, it's not about larping, you must become the game! You must become the guy who games women, the man who is physically fit, masculine. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/24 07:20 PM |
| 7 | Swallowing the pill of securityWell said. You must not obsess on a single woman, if you do then you start behaving as if she were a wife. Abundance helps you keep things in perspective | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/24 04:10 PM |
| 19 | Your Girl Does Not Want You to Be VulnerableNoooo vulnerability is a strength! Reeeeeeeeeee! | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/24 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Why the Church Loves A Weak And Timid ChristAh, I see you are a man of culture! | /r/RPChristians | 05/03/24 02:18 PM |
| 28 | The Cost of Simping: A Deep Dive into Modern Dating for Desi MenSigh, I wish this was just satire but I have seen it all too often. I once counseled a guy in a similar situation where he was funding her lifestyle and loans without getting any; his response was " love is paying her bills and not expecting anything in return. " | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/24 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Is you, or is you aint gonna forgive?Here's Mathew 18 Matthew 18:15-17 KJV [15] Moreover if thy brother shall trespass against thee, go and tell him his fault between thee and him alone: if he shall hear thee, thou hast gained thy brother. [16] But if he will not hear thee, then take with thee one or two more, that in the mouth of two or three witnesses every word may be established. [17] And if he shall neglect to hear them, tell it unto the church: but if he neglect to hear the church, let him be unto thee as an heathen man a… | /r/RPChristians | 29/02/24 08:15 PM |
| 4 | To what extent do I need to not red pill my woman?Learn what broken record means. Use the skill and you will succeed. Look up Manuel Smith " whenever I say no I feel guilty" here's an example You: we don't yell in front of the kids Her: why? Explain ! You: we don't yell infront if the kids Her: bla bla blah You: we don't yell in front of the kids, we're not that couple Eventually she'll follow begrudgingly at first. It's not sexy but it works | /r/RPChristians | 29/02/24 05:14 PM |
| 2 | On Debilitating DesireNothing wrong with desiring. Not desiring and being a sexual mannequin is counterintuitive; letting your desires rule you makes you no better than an animal. The Bible says Greater is a man who rules his own spirit, than one who takes a walled city | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/24 10:25 PM |
| 2 | Is you, or is you aint gonna forgive?I'm sure he was sooooooo sowwy | /r/RPChristians | 28/02/24 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Is you, or is you aint gonna forgive?There must be a change of mind in the person, striving to overcome. Not to say you won't fail again but as the Bible says "Therefore bear fruits worthy of repentance." | /r/RPChristians | 27/02/24 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Is you, or is you aint gonna forgive?Alpha 🐰 is multifaceted. Sometimes I am more Bunny than Alpha, at other times I go by the moniker Seignior Alphaeus Buneticus | /r/RPChristians | 27/02/24 05:09 PM |
| 3 | Is you, or is you aint gonna forgive?"Somehow the church warmed up to him" sounds to me like they did not take him back until there was proof of his change of heart. But I'm still sure he said he was vewy vewy sowy with a cherry on top | /r/RPChristians | 27/02/24 02:37 PM |
| 3 | Is you, or is you aint gonna forgive?Unfortunately I've seen the aforementioned example happen way too times, I wish it were not the case | /r/RPChristians | 27/02/24 02:05 PM |
| 14 | To what extent do I need to not red pill my woman?The reason why is that you must demonstrate, not explicate. You can mention what your beliefs are, but what you must never do is DEER your beliefs. Defend Explain, Excuse, Rationalize. | /r/RPChristians | 27/02/24 04:42 AM |
| 11 | Sad State of Fatherhood in the Woke WestBeing a beta male has to be taught. The natural behaviors of men are deemed toxic. When left alone or out in the elements, men are naturally masculine. The new male or soy boy can only be a product of indoctrination and gaslighting. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/24 05:28 AM |
| – | “First let me Bury my father” Old order ways in an Old town. An Old man dies on a hill called Insanity.Thank you for the feedback 😊 | /r/RPChristians | 22/02/24 02:37 PM |
| 6 | I get worried about...You are committing the sin of thinking "good girls" ie Christians, are different than "bad girls" ( read women who love sex). If you think that way, it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. And no! Women are not more "spiritual" than you, they are more emotional, sure, but do not mistake that for being more in touch with God. | /r/RPChristians | 06/02/24 11:02 AM |
| 1 | Most Christians are Blue Pilled White KnightsStraight up! I am glad I was not the only one to notice! I also got the impression that the women generally had more faith than the men or were more spiritual. | /r/RPChristians | 04/02/24 04:24 AM |
| 2 | King Ahab and The Jezebel Spirit: A Modern Example?Oh, I really enjoyed the book of pook. I think there's a bit of that in there | /r/RPChristians | 30/01/24 06:39 PM |
| 0 | Weak and Timid Young Man is Confounded: No one believes him when he speaks the Gospel. Apologetics Speaker does???I do not disagree with you for the most part. I have taken young men and taught them how to speak, both in terms of game and spreading the gospel; there's quite a bit of overlap. I have also taught fitness and lifting to quite a few men, I believe in one of my earlier post I mention as much. I'm not here for the sake of bashing. If my description of the young man seems insulting that's not the intent at all. Now with other people especially the religious types that should know better, I am mocki… | /r/RPChristians | 30/01/24 05:53 PM |
| -4 | Weak and Timid Young Man is Confounded: No one believes him when he speaks the Gospel. Apologetics Speaker does???It is not the metrics of success that I judge him for, but rather the spirit in which he came. If we look at the fruit of the Spirit, the non physical, we learn that God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of Strength, Love and a Sound Mind. Had the young man been filled with The Holy Spirit his demeanor would be different than what it was. There was no boldness, strength or a sound mind. He talked about killing himself. Many of you mentioned John the Baptist. But what manner of man was he? S… | /r/RPChristians | 29/01/24 09:50 PM |
| 1 | 💊 Therapists are Modern-day Religious Leaders 💊 A Girl's Friends are now her Family 💊Well said | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/24 05:42 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on "Lies men believe, and the truth that sets them free"Well said, your wife is not your therapist! Modern men have been fed the idea that you must share everything with your woman. It's the open communication lie. Vulnerability is not a strength | /r/RPChristians | 28/01/24 12:54 AM |
| 5 | Thoughts on the "Christ Pill"?I think calling it Christ pill is inaccurate, they seem more like traditional church pilled than Christ centered | /r/RPChristians | 28/01/24 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Speakers at Christian Men's Conference Pretend to be Men! Go for the conference expecting hope, come out with Thirsty women!....okay dude | /r/RPChristians | 28/01/24 12:26 AM |
| 7 | Churchianity Hates King David! Pastor's question leads Nice Guys in crowd to virtue signal. Women are not impressed.Well said good sir, if you notice in the genealogy of Jesus Christ they refer to her not by name, but call her the wife of Uriah; clearly the writer did not hold her in high esteem | /r/RPChristians | 27/01/24 08:42 PM |
| 3 | Speakers at Christian Men's Conference Pretend to be Men! Go for the conference expecting hope, come out with Thirsty women!Being masculine all the time, and owning your sexuality does not necessarily refer to doing sexual acts. What I mean by that is that sexual energy must not be confined to just the bedroom. For example flirt outside the bedroom, and not have it lead to sex. Acknowledge the 60 year old cashier woman, she will appreciate it. Banter with the barista, let her know you notice her. If you only game when you are trying to get laid, you make a big deal out of sex. If you see an attractive woman, let her … | /r/RPChristians | 27/01/24 01:36 PM |
| 4 | Speakers at Christian Men's Conference Pretend to be Men! Go for the conference expecting hope, come out with Thirsty women!okay buddy, let me brake it down a bit. I am absolutely sure you will not understand what I am going to say. You may understand what I am about to write, but until you come up with similar ideas on your own, you will never apply it. You must be sexual all the time. Being masculine, and flirty all the time should be part of your life. Also before you are a christian man, you are a man. Before a church girl is a christian girl, she is a girl. Do not make the mistake of treating her like some holy … | /r/RPChristians | 27/01/24 05:30 AM |
| 5 | Church Retreat for Spec Ops goes wrong! Ministry Leader is More Concerned with Crying and Venting than Ministry. Soldiers CringeI think he is just responding the way the general culture has taught him i.e " showing your vulnerability is a strength" | /r/RPChristians | 25/01/24 04:00 PM |
| 3 | Church Retreat for Spec Ops goes wrong! Ministry Leader is More Concerned with Crying and Venting than Ministry. Soldiers CringeWell said, if you are familiar with Jack Donovan's book "the way of men" he outlines that men need gangs. And that the way of men is the way of a gang or tribe. | /r/RPChristians | 25/01/24 02:47 PM |
| 6 | Speakers at Christian Men's Conference Pretend to be Men! Go for the conference expecting hope, come out with Thirsty women!HEY HE IS NOT THE STEP FATHER, HE IS THE FATHER THAT STEPPED UP! | /r/RPChristians | 23/01/24 03:49 AM |
| 3 | Most Christians are Blue Pilled White KnightsSorry to hear that. Foresight teaches softly, hindsight painfully. | /r/RPChristians | 20/01/24 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Blue Pilled Simps gonna Simp. Gummy Bear "Christian" doesnt know jack! Young man thinks he is godly but hes just a nice guy!Only a courageous man can be so honest! I think weve all been there at one point or another, they key is not to stay there. I am not sure if simping has gotten worse over the years or if it is the same. But oh well, all we can do is speak truth but know when you are casting them before swine | /r/RPChristians | 20/01/24 01:10 AM |
| 2 | Most Christians are Blue Pilled White KnightsOur bodies are the temple seems to mean that they believe the temple should be fat and lazy. 100% We should honor our bodies for what they are, the temple of the spirit. But good luck trying to convince the fat soy boys at church to stop simping, drinking sugary drinks and stuffing their faces. | /r/RPChristians | 18/01/24 12:35 AM |
| 3 | Gentlemen I Need Your Advice! How do I help a young man get over his Oneitis? Young Man Receives Prophetic Words About his Future Spouse at Pentecostal Church.Just checked out that link, Holy smokes, that's on point! It fleshed out a lot of ideas I had but could not articulate as well. In a nut shell false churches are about experience and emotion vs doctrine. Look at the avatar series when Kora took over she undid all the work of her predecessors. Same thing with star wars etc | /r/RPChristians | 17/01/24 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Gentlemen I Need Your Advice! How do I help a young man get over his Oneitis? Young Man Receives Prophetic Words About his Future Spouse at Pentecostal Church.I think he just liked her, nothing to do with dating evangelism. Although in my experience girls I go out with end up wanting to convert. It has nothing to do with me pushing them to be Christian or anything like that. Perhaps its more of when a girl likes you, she starts liking the things you like and she wholeheartedly believes in her new faith. | /r/RPChristians | 17/01/24 01:06 AM |
| 3 | Gentlemen I Need Your Advice! How do I help a young man get over his Oneitis? Young Man Receives Prophetic Words About his Future Spouse at Pentecostal Church.Thanks for that I will check it out! The Bible spell things out clearly the problem is most Christians dont know, and so they practice their faith in ignorance. God has rightly said my people perish for lack of knowledge. | /r/RPChristians | 17/01/24 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Gentlemen I Need Your Advice! How do I help a young man get over his Oneitis? Young Man Receives Prophetic Words About his Future Spouse at Pentecostal Church.Well there's the whole bit Jesus said that in the latter days many false teachers and Christs shall appear....and in judgement day I will say to them depart from me, I never knew you. But they will say Lord did we not prophecy in your name, and do good works, and cast out demons in your name? The book of 1corinthians is full of how to tell phonies from legit people. Seem to me that if God put instructions on how to tell false prophets from legit ones it is worth considering. Paul also mentions t… | /r/RPChristians | 17/01/24 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Savior Complex, Single Moms and Church Extortion: How blue pill ideas and simping destroyed a mans life.True though it be and tragic indeed. This tale is but a drop in the sea. More warnings I bring and lessons indeed. Don't follow the lies, to death they shall lead! | /r/RPChristians | 16/01/24 05:39 AM |
| 4 | Most Christians are Blue Pilled White KnightsI have this theory about the end times, in the end times as we read in revelations, there is an organization called the mother church. This organization has made the kingdoms of the world drunk, etc etc. The mother church is in direct opposition to the Father. So all the things that the Father promotes, they would promote the opposite. Facts vs feelings, doctrine in scripture vs feels and new revelations. | /r/RPChristians | 16/01/24 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Church elders White Knight! Simps appear and try to prevent young men from getting red pill truth! Recently a few young men at church asked me for advice on dating, and "getting da girls", unbeknown to me church elders eavesdropped and lost their minds!Keep rocking and rolling brutha! No one is a natural. Game and relationships are a skill like anything else. | /r/RPChristians | 14/01/24 08:10 AM |
| 5 | Church elders White Knight! Simps appear and try to prevent young men from getting red pill truth! Recently a few young men at church asked me for advice on dating, and "getting da girls", unbeknown to me church elders eavesdropped and lost their minds!It does not matter where you are to make a date romantic per se. Demonstrate your sexual interest gradually through the tone of your voice, the way you look her in the eyes the way you touch her and increase the tension etc. And I would not aks her if this is a romantic outing, thats shooting yourself in the foot. Show your interest dont speak it. Its like hanging out with some guys and asking " so are we friends now?" Its cringe. | /r/RPChristians | 14/01/24 06:37 AM |
| 7 | Church elders White Knight! Simps appear and try to prevent young men from getting red pill truth! Recently a few young men at church asked me for advice on dating, and "getting da girls", unbeknown to me church elders eavesdropped and lost their minds!I am new to this sub reddit; so I do not know how well leadership has been discussed on this sub, but I would highly recommend checking out the redpill sub on Frame. Also the reading list on the side bar. I will simplify a couple of points but by no means will I do it justice. Take ownership for your choices, and your needs. No one else is going to meet your needs but you. Do not ask for permission to do the things that you must; many men say things like " I want to lead but my wife won't let me… | /r/RPChristians | 14/01/24 06:30 AM |
| 8 | Church elders White Knight! Simps appear and try to prevent young men from getting red pill truth! Recently a few young men at church asked me for advice on dating, and "getting da girls", unbeknown to me church elders eavesdropped and lost their minds!You have hit the nail right on the head good sir. I have come to the conclusion that most Christians do not even know what the Bible says, and if they do, they don't care. I've seen a church with a female pastor that actively encourages the women in her church to divorce their husbands, and withhold sex from them; this practice is to make their husbands submit to "god's" authority. In doing so they contradict scripture. But like you've mentioned it is nigh impossible to tell them they are wrong. | /r/RPChristians | 14/01/24 06:10 AM |
| 4 | Church elders White Knight! Simps appear and try to prevent young men from getting red pill truth! Recently a few young men at church asked me for advice on dating, and "getting da girls", unbeknown to me church elders eavesdropped and lost their minds!Good point buddy, you are right that dates must be romantic. I told the young men what I did so they would not see asking girls out as a big event, but just as part of course of their lives. Later on I would teach them about kino and escalating boundaries. | /r/RPChristians | 14/01/24 12:39 AM |
| 11 | Singleness (How to Do I Keep My Sex Drive From Tormenting Me??)Start talking to girls, its that simple. Your desires are God given, there is nothing wrong with them. Praying for God to take away your sexual desires is like asking him to take away your hunger for food; He is not going to do it. Both desires are natural and are indicators of what your body is craving. You do not get upset when your body tells you that you need food or water. Neither should you be upset when you feel horny. Now there are good ways to sate all your desires, ie eating meat, low … | /r/RPChristians | 03/01/24 09:36 PM |
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