So I've never posted before. I mostly lurk and make smartass comments. Just thought I'd share something as a reminder to manage your expectations and not get sucked in by female lies. Don't expect this to be some mind-blowing innovative post or a grand field report.

I'm an asshole, but sort of a nice guy about it. I don't deceive or use women. I'm very honest about where I am at. I prefer relationships, but know when to stay or get out. I'm also game for whatever else because life is short.

So there is this cougar at work, yes I'm game for Cougars - whatever - and she's been eye fucking me for weeks and physically escalating during small talk on work breaks. Now I've been on the fence because I don't know what I'm getting into.

All I know is that her kids are older and she's never been married. So I've just been making sure I'm not putting my dick in the kind of crazy I'd rather avoid altogether, and just flirting and hanging out after work.

Her coworker totally blew up her spot today when mentioning "her man". She never once did a boyfriend drop and has been shooting me vibes, flirting with me, asking me stuff, giving me looks, and touching me when no one else is looking. Apparently she has a boyfriend, who she has been with for years and lives with. Which is why when I asked her out for a beer last week she was so keen on keeping it around work and not where she commutes from. So essentially I would have to bring her back to my place. I made a rain check because I was gunning for another time where I would go to her. I don't bring new women to where I live. Fuck that.

And it's obvious she wants to just get a piece in the side now. Because this guy probably supports her financially and is her tampon.

So just keep this shit in mind when you get sucked into an LTR at any age men. It wouldn't be hard for her to make up some bullshit about working late and getting overtime when we get out early and "letting" him go have a bro night so she can go poach a cub.

AWALT gentlemen. And this is why you don't live with and support women who have another man's kids. There is a multitude of reasons why that dude ain't But remember that when she does cheat on you, it's not going to be on FB, and it's going to be something you'll never know. Women learn real quick. And the hamster gets stronger every year.