Screening

Every day on TRP we see endless whiny comments about how awful women are. Yes, they can be awful but there are many things you can do about this. Firstly read the sidebar and implement it. Women act far less shitty when they are in the presence of an alpha man. In fact they are capable of acting wonderfully, they can be an absolute delight and make your life better. I like someone to clean up after me, cook for me, empty my nutsack, listen to me explaining life, laugh at my jokes and generally look to me for guidance and protection. So being alpha is the first step in really enjoying women. This is dealt with at length in here so I will move on to the next step for how to truly enjoy women, and that is screening.

I have not seen any good posts in here about screening so here is my attempt. If you are alpha enough and you screen the women in your life carefully then you are well on your way to a happier life. What you need to decide is what are you screening her for? Is she going to be bounced around your bedroom for one night only? Will she be a recurring guest star in the sitcom which is your life? Will she become a friend with benefits? Or will you actually bestow on this woman the greatest honour that you can - the role of significant other and the incubator of your mighty sperm? The categories here are pretty much the same as in u/HumanSockPuppet wonderful post on managing your bitches (of course you have all read it, it's on the sidebar). This post will only look at screening. Re-read that post for management, this is about the interviewing process only, not how to handle things after. Let's break the screening process down into headings:

• RED FLAGS:

The most significant factor in screening is red flags. I will just copy and paste my complete list of red flags from my previous LTR post. The ones in capitals are DEALBREAKERS for anything except a ONS. All women have at least one red flag (there are no unicorns), so here it is:

SIGNIFICANT CRIMINAL RECORD

PREVIOUSLY DATED/ HUNG WITH GANGSTERS

CHILDREN TO MULTIPLE DADS

SIGNIFICANT MENTAL ILLNESS

SERIOUS DRUG OR ALCOHOL ADDICTION

CLAIMS TO HAVE BEEN ABUSED MULTIPLE TIMES

full on party girl

high n-count

Daddy issues

Mommy issues

excessive tattoos and/ or piercings

minor mental illness

traumatic childhood

single mum

very dysfunctional family

financially irresponsible

has significant debts

does not behave in a feminine manner

drug/alcohol abuse

feminist (with a small f, genuine feminazis are a dealbreaker)

extremely needy

too independent (she has been brainwashed into thinking this is a good thing, she is a strong independent woman!!)

Add your own to the list, put some in capitals, or feel free to add or rank in comments. Each guy will have different priorities and to some guys certain red flags are attractive (anyone for a needy/ tattooed girl?). Also some red flags can be fixed or ameliorated (financially irresponsible, too independent, drug/ alcohol abuse, bad childhood), a strong masculine man who holds frame makes those nasties go away. So let's take a look at how you screen women for different roles in your life.

• ONS - well this one is really a no brainer. Does she make your dick hard? Is she fairly sane (they are all crazy)? Are you sure she is not a relative? If the answer to all of these questions is yes, then you should probably just nail her. We could get very technical here but I do not think that is necessary. Add some extra screening criteria if you like, but for a ONS, your list should not be that long. Even some of the dealbreaker red flags are fine for a ONS.

• PLATE - Now we need to start exercising more caution. If this girl is going to be making semi-regular appearances in your life. She will get to know you, she will know your address, she may know about your job or where you hang out. She needs to be vetted more carefully than a ONS. Now we know that all women are crazy and it is just a matter of degrees. We also know that you should not stick your dick in crazy (they are all crazy so we are talking about degrees here). So you should not consider a girl with any of the dealbreaker red flags. If you find out she has any major red flags after you get into the relationship then you need to NEXT immediately and go nuclear and delete any contact details. Remember she can hurt you, she is dangerous and she snuck her way into your fortress. As for how many of the other red flags you are willing to put up with, that is up to you. She is just a plate, you should not really be concerned if she is fucking other dudes or if she has debts and issues. You are ready to end this relationship at any stage so as long as her issues do not become your issues. It is caveat emptor. She may be a very dented can, but maybe you really like the creamed corn inside.

• FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS/ STR - You have decided that this woman is worthy of a friendship or a short term relationship with you. You tell her about your life and share a lot of fun times with her. In many ways this relationship is far more dangerous than your male friendships. Your mates are not as emotionally invested because you are not fucking them. They are unlikely to get butthurt by your actions. Due to her proximity to you and your lifestyle (maybe even she even knows some of your friends and family) she has the potential to do great harm to you if things go bad. As a result the screening for this girl requires a higher standard than a plate or ONS. I would say that any girl with three to four red flags as a maximum is suitable as a friend with benefits. If she has one of the dealbreakers, she is out. A girl in this category may even be ready for the final and ongoing screening process that precedes an LTR.

• LTR/ Significant other - This is where you have to screen like they are about to defend you against a jail term or do surgery on you. You want to be damn sure she is qualified. The screening process for an LTR has to be long and intensive. If you were to compare it to a job interview then it involves a long process of application, many interviews, psychometric testing, aptitude tests, physical and endurance tests and a very long period of probation. The job is subject to continuing key performance indicators. Also this is the one type of relationship where you need to do substantially more than just screen for red flags. For a woman to qualify as your significant other she should ideally only have one or two minor red flags. Again there are no unicorns and happily ever after is a blue pill fantasy. In western society if you can find a girl with only one or two minor red flags, then you have done well. This means she is qualified to be a significant other, but is she the right fit for your particular company? This is where we need to look a little deeper when screening for such an important role.

• COMPATIBILTY

We do not talk too much about compatibility here. It smacks of blue pill programming like "chemistry" and "happily ever after" and "the one". However it is relevant when you are screening for an LTR. Let's say you have met three women who have low red flags, are good looking and in your age range. You will have a preference, maybe you prefer Melissa who is wild in the sack but not that bright, maybe you like Jenny because she likes the same music as you do, but she gives ordinary head, or perhaps you are into Mary because she is immaculately groomed but a bit opinionated. There is always going to be preferences. If you have slept with more than 10 girls you also know there are some big differences when it comes to sex. Some girls are just more voracious and insatiable than others. Chad always gets the best out of any girl but even amongst Chad's girls there are differing libidos, skill sets and proclivities.

A lack of compatibility is a major reason why so many guys at married red pill are upset at the amount of sex they get. I have no doubt some of these guys are jacked and alpha yet here they are on reddit talking about how to get their wives to fuck them. We hear a lot about everything being the guy's fault, and in some ways they are right. It is my contention that they failed in the screening process rather than by being beta. Sexual compatibility is super important for an LTR. Unless you are extremely happy with your sex life, then you cannot even consider an LTR with a girl.

For an LTR screening goes well beyond red flags and sexual compatibility. You really need to enjoy this person's company and you need similar goals. Personally I could never have an LTR with a woman who was not good with domestic duties. Even if the sex is great and she has few red flags, if you spend a significant amount of time arguing, then she is not for you. If you do your due diligence, and be true to your role as the keeper of commitment, then only someone who is suitable will stay in your life.

So screen very carefully to avoid particularly shitty behaviour. If you allow substandard women into your life then you are asking for trouble. Screening very carefully can help make all of your experiences with women better. So depending on how deeply she is going to penetrate into your life, make sure you are satisfied with how often and how well you are penetrating her, and how deeply you have screened her for issues.