Good Morning,

Based off a comment from my previous post I decided to pitch in on this subject.

Outside of money, I have observed TWO reasons for why men and women seek sex with one another.

  1. Libido/ Genuine Desire
  2. Sexual Validation

Now for many people it is a combination of the two. You want to have sex with him/her, and in addition you can choose to feel good about yourself for having sex.

There are a select few that have sex with just about anyone, regardless of where they are on the HB scale. They just like fucking.

The ones I want to focus on however are people who PRIMARILY have sex or pursue sex with someone who they may not be compatible with but instead validates them and boosts their self esteem.

I have an issue with this. The reason is that if you don't enjoy anything about the interaction or them as a person, if you don't internally get anything out of it.... it's a waste of time in all honesty.

Now that doesn't mean you should settle for someone physically unattractive, just that you should genuinely enjoy being around her.

Thank you for reading 🙂