Should I call/text her?

_the_shape_ · 2017-01-07T12:55:10+00:00

The general rule is that if you produce a wall of text over any one girl then your next best move is to begin distancing yourself or to move on from this very girl as this post was clearly borne from a scarcity mentality - the lengthier and more descriptive the post, the deeper the scarcity.

You're still operating from a scarcity mentality ("shit, I hope I didn't mess this up! Guys! Help me out here! Don't want to lose this one!" etc.) Keep reading up (TRP) but keep acquiring prospects. Even if you do get her, the anxiety of losing her will eat you up until the relationship finally implodes, mostly because your neediness will overwhelm her to the point of causing her to break up with you and/or cheat on you ...then break up with you anyway.

Back to the basics, friendo. You need to truly bring yourself to believe that life will go on swimmingly without her not only for the sake of being that cool guy to her specifically, but for future women as well!

vampiresareposeurs · 2017-01-07T12:23:32+00:00

Maybe they're just not interested in you and you read the signs wrong. Just because a girl is nice to you doesn't mean they want to fuck you and if you demand a kiss from them or something like that, it's gonna turn them off more.

Title	Should I call/text her?
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Date	January 7, 2017 12:15 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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