Something often not considered, but quite possibly very important to some of us here.

friendlysociopathic · 2015-03-07T14:05:20+00:00

For the love of god do not view this subreddit as an absolute gospel truth that is right 100% of the time in all respects. One thing I learned in my youth is that EVERY GROUP has a fair share of idiots, from the back kitchen at a McDonalds to the students of an elite university. RP is extremely useful, very insightful, and has concretely changed my life for the better - but some of the posts and people on here are fucking stupid. Always, always, apply critical thinking. The single most important and defining Alpha trait is thinking for yourself - everything else stems from that. Except working out. Which you should be doing. Go do some pushups right now.

50pluspiller · 2015-03-07T19:26:31+00:00

To answer your questions directly.

Set up a home gym in your basement, garage and/or backyard. I am in my 50s and still love exercising outside. I have a sandbag for lifting, my water base heavy bag and my bokkens. This covers most of what's needed, on top of my lifting and cardio at the base gym. Inside I can move my stuff indoors and also use my exercise bands.

As a teen I got a 110 lbs weight set and bench. Cheap but effective. I also took to the woods around my house and built a trail with rope swings, hand over hand, climbing and also got logs and tires to flip. I also worked a farm bailing hay, digging holes, working with horses, great way to get fit. Use your imagination.

Next, don't focus so much on the girls at your age. It's a waste of time for you. Focus on bettering yourself and read, study, get GOOD grades.

At 16 get a job, bus tables, deliver newspaper, work a farm, mow lawns, whatever. Learn how to work and ACT in front of people. I think chick-fil-a is a great place because they teach low level workers real customer service and ethic. At 16 I bussed tables at a fancy restaurant, then at 17 I was a technical illustrator for Raytheon!

I will add in this edit, that I always dressed nice so even adults complimented me. I also had mentoring from older men who taught me how to dress, eat, speak, eat, act. Find Real mentors.

jamoni22 · 2015-03-07T21:44:48+00:00

Number one: You will never get rich working for someone else. Learn to start and run a business, any business, and you can write your own ticket. The skills you will need to do that will directly translate into strong skills with women: Networking, cold selling, pitching your business plans, leadership, high pressure decision making, etc etc etc. As for meeting girls, start a band. You can get into bars underage when you are in the band. Anyone on the stage has already opened with every girl in the room.

rporion · 2015-03-07T20:01:58+00:00

The single most important thing is that you should learn how to fail.

Pick yourself up, learn from it what you can and move on.

waitfor_ittt · 2015-03-07T13:30:18+00:00

Assuming your in high school, large congregations of girls at lunch. Go get laid at house parties, make new friends. THINK ABOUT WHAT YOU ACTUALLY WANT TO DO AND GO TO COLLEGE FOR IT. There's also chance that you don't know what to do, but that's fine, but just don't let your parents make that decision for you.

That being said, start little by little making life decisions without your parents consent. I'm not saying get a tattoo or do drugs or something stupid. But maybe start secretly saving up for a paddle board and buy it one day. Find a job without them. What you're doing is showing them that you can make decisions on your own, and that you're an independent person.

Learn to stop complaining, shit happens to all of us. It's the complainers that go no where.

Some people in your school with die of heroine overdose, some will die in a car crash, people die, we're not in some fantasy world. The clock is ticking for all of us, now consider yourself a bit a head of the game. Set strong goals for yourself because for you the world is at your fingertips, and during your limited time on this Earth you need something to work towards.

Start hitting the gym, stop playing videogames, stop watching porn, shoot for the real thing. Read, a lot.

Zackcid · 2015-03-08T06:09:34+00:00

That gym room they open up every day at lunch time? USE IT. Free gym membership right there (depending on how well equipped it is).

Dude, self-improvement ALWAYS comes first. Don't even think about chatting girls up and bedding them until you learn to love yourself and have solid inner game. You'll know you're ready to begin when walking up to a cute, random girl is stress-free and somewhat effortless.

If you hesitate or think of excuses, then you're not ready and gotta build yourself up more. Lifting, reading books, staying away from video games and computer (i.e. going out in nature or getting a hobby) You're clearly not important enough in your mind if you let the image of a hoe tear you down.

CruiseCruise · 2015-03-08T04:16:34+00:00

Practice hobbies, skills and sports that are relevant to your social market value.

You have the opportunity to learn a little something about a lot of things. It would be handy to know a little woodworking, a little about cars, etc. A foreign language or two.

there's a ton of stuff you can invest your time into. Prioritize the interests that will add to your future social value. That is a piece of advice i wish i had in high school.

Dont be afraid to start businesses and fail. Fail often, but do it at a small scale.

The other suggestion I have is: Take the time to observe how things really work around you. I think a lot of us get an idea and we work of that idea without really evaluating how things work in the world around us. But you can learn a lot through simple observation. Really look at things and come to your own conclusions.

Also, pay attention to older men and really identify the specific qualities they have that you want to emulate. There's not a lot of great role models out there. But there are lots of men that you can learn specific qualities from.

Those are some pieces of advice that would have been useful to me in high school and college.

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