Spontaneity and date rape. Are these two things linked? Does female desire for spontaneity actually play a role in enabling rape to happen to girls?

no_game_player · 2013-09-20T20:43:39+00:00

Louis CK had a joke along these lines. He got points from some for making an "acceptable" rape joke: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b4hNaFkbZYU

In statistical terms, it reminds me of Type I vs Type II error: either you're going to upset some women by not being "spontaneous" enough, or you're going to upset others by not having asked explicitly for consent enough times during each and every sexual interaction.

Edit: Also, in before this is taken by our beloved sister subreddit and presented as blaming rape victims for being raped.

Zackcid · 2013-09-20T13:23:27+00:00

I like the note you wrote at the beginning of your post. You're well aware of feminist hyper-sensitivity and how blue pillers are so eager to jump at any occasion to frame us as rape-endorsers.

In a way, I still find it almost sad that some subscribers like you have to go this far just so you don't get judged negatively. We're not MRAs, you don't have to prove anything to anyone or adjust our image to be "politically correct". Most of us who are reading know very well that you're not a rapist or a "rape-apologist". Some folks out there just need it spelled out explicitly or their hamsters go on overdrive.

As for your question; I think so. But at the same time, a woman knows when she's being raped and if she isn't attracted to that person, she won't even care if it's spontaneous, she'll stop it immediately. My guess is that a lot of attractive guys actually do "rape" women by being spontaneous, but women love it so much when it comes from these guys that they don't mind it.

TRPsubmitter · 2013-09-20T08:38:50+00:00

I feel like that if rape is to ever be really examined the roles females play in enabling behavior needs to be examined.

100% agree with you.

However:

If both people were guys they'd have no problem just asking "do you want to fuck?" and the problem would be solved.

That's the rub. Women aren't logical, especially in matters of attraction and sex.

You have to transcend your frustration about women not living up to your expectations. You have to transcend the hypocrisy of how women want a spontaneous/dangerous guy, yet cry rape if it's "too" much. Ultimately, it's up to you to construct a sexual frame that eliminates this possibility.

Whereas most guys might whine that girls aren't being straightforward regarding sex, you need to recognize their true nature and take advantage of it. Make them want you to fuck them all tied up and shit like that.

Title	Spontaneity and date rape. Are these two things linked? Does female desire for spontaneity actually play a role in enabling rape to happen to girls?
Author	911carreraS
Upvotes	7
Comments	18
Date	September 20, 2013 4:39 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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