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| 3 | Spinning Plates and Tight FrameThis is when she pounced with a direct assult! "Are we ever going to date????" "Where is this going????" "Do you even like me?????" She's not necessarily trying to break your frame here. She may very well want you to commit, but the motivation behind her asking this is not to try to get you to cave, but to figure out where she stands with you. As you note, you've treated her throughout purely as a fuck buddy: you never take her out on dates and you tell her straight up you've been fucking other … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/15 09:39 PM |
| 3 | Social Experiment: I tried to confirm to myself that women look for money and success.It's not really about money. Wearing a suit to class is a form of peacocking--it makes you stand out because you're different from the other guys, and thus makes you seem more interesting and confident. If you were to wear that same suit in your city's business district it would do you little good, since a bunch of other guys would also be walking around in suits. In this area you'd probably do better with a vintage leather jacket and combat boots. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/15 03:02 PM |
| 3 | First four dates go well, she goes completely cold on the fifthif you don't fuck her by the third date, hard next | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/15 10:55 PM |
| 3 | TRUE STORY = GF on vacation has threesome with two guys as her drunk BF passes out on the same cruise (FR)Don't date a slut. I hate to say it, but AWALT. If she wants to cheat and thinks she can get away with it, she will. It's not something a man can control. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/15 05:17 AM |
| 2 | The Greatest Post Of All Time: Be Relentlessly BoldWho cares about "good" or "bad". TRP is about sexual strategy. I'm pointing out that even though it was effective in this particular case, it's a poor strategy. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/15 02:13 AM |
| 1 | The Greatest Post Of All Time: Be Relentlessly BoldYes, the guy got laid, but that doesn't mean asking a chick to fuck over and over again is a good strategy to follow. The guy probably would have gotten better results, more quickly and more easily, if he just invited her into a room to "show her X" and started escalating. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/15 02:11 AM |
| 5 | RP:GF wants to explore her bisexual sideOP, you really shouldn't be arguing about this. You're validating her, rewarding her bad behaviour with increased attention. Instead you should have soft nexted her--gone radio silent for about 3 days. That's the proper way to punish her for trying to overstep your boundaries. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/15 05:58 AM |
| 2 | The Greatest Post Of All Time: Be Relentlessly Boldthe dude just kept coming up and saying "have sex with me." to which she would say no, then 5 minutes later the guy came back and asked again and she said no. After like 15 times she was like "Fine. Lets go." They go into the bathroom and fuck for like a couple minutes and then she goes back to what she was doing before. Game can literally be that easy. He was annoying her and she fucked him to get him to leave her alone. This is terrible "game." | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/15 05:53 AM |
| 2 | To the "Game doesn't really matter that much" crew: You've all been brainwashedOP has a good point. Having value for yourself is good, but women don't perceive your objective value. Like everyone else they perceive what you present to them. Presentation is the product, so game will always be paramount. CH has a good example of this: https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2010/07/29/chicks-dig-jerks-game-is-its-own-status/ | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/15 11:19 PM |
| -3 | AWALT: My unicorn betrayed meDef. cut ties with her and seek legal advice becuase she betrayed your trust. But in the future, think about having open relationships. Neither men nor women are well suited for long-term monogamy. I don't see why so many TRPers think that a monogamous LTR is sustainable. Your marriage will be stronger if you're both free to (discretely) get a little on the side. A good resource for non-monogamy is http://www.blackdragonblog.com/ | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/15 04:51 AM |
| 7 | I just went out with a woman "my age", and you should too... but not for the reason you might think.Mark Manson has a good point about situations like this, where he says you should be prepared to walk immediately if a woman doesn't cease rapid-fire shit-tests after a volley or two. The example he gives is literally him getting up and leaving in the middle of a conversation, just because a woman insists on calling his hitchhiking road-trip irresponsible (after he's swatted away her first comment about it). He just says "clearly we have different values" and fucks off. Remember that shit tests … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/15 03:24 PM |
| 2 | I just went out with a woman "my age", and you should too... but not for the reason you might think.I don't know why I didn't end it after the annoying dinner You fucked up in the first place by taking her to dinner. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/15 03:20 PM |
| 2 | Become the Man who Turns Down SexThis is a good point. Women's offers of sex are often limited-time offers. She might be itching to fuck your brains out one night and won't even text you back the next. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/15 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Become the Man who Turns Down Sexwhen you have the sex served to you on the golden plate doesn't it becoming boring at some point? Good point. For me, no. I have a very high sex drive so I would be happy having sex 2-3 times a day most days. Beyond that, yes, it would probably get boring. Roosh has a post on how spacing things out lets you appreciate them more: http://www.rooshv.com/you-must-space-out-the-things-that-make-you-happy | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/15 02:46 PM |
| 6 | There is no better validation of SMV than from someone you alpha-widowedRoissy explains what you should do with Widow-chick: Lean back, reap your bounty, and if you’ve got the balls calmly tell her after the post-breakup violation of all her holes “Eh, you know, I shouldn’t have taken you back. This isn’t going to work.” | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/15 04:33 PM |
| 1 | fucking married womenI just put respect of peers is more important than a married tramp. Agreed--if the man is indeed one's peer. But keep in mind: if you don't fuck the cheating slut, some other guy will. In the long run, it doesn't matter, it's the woman's decision to cheat and she's the one who's responsible (despite her eventual protestations to the contrary). | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/15 07:33 PM |
| 3 | Distance and its effect of SMVThis is exactly why long distance LTRs are retarded. To qualify OP's point: what you're describing isn't exactly a matter SMV, it's a matter of what a man does in a woman's life. John's SMV hasn't changed, but his place in Sarah's life has, and so she gets less out of her relationship with him than she would if he saw her & fucked her more frequently. Because of the distance he has less of an opportunity to provide her with benefits (provisions, sperm--see Briffault's law). | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/15 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Aspiring alphas, men shit-test too.Important distinction to keep in mind: while it's true that men test one another's frames with shit-talk or banter, they don't do the "favour" or "servant" shit-test as often as women do. Women will shit test men by asking men to do something that they don't really need done ('hold my drink,' 'hold my purse,' 'fetch me that,' &c), whereas men (when being friendly/not assholes) generally don't do this kind of thing. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/15 08:02 PM |
| 3 | A moment of RP-TIER frame control from my best friend with his LTROP, why didn't you approach the redhead 8? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/15 07:09 PM |
| 3 | Sex is not that goodSex is not worth having you[r] time and spirit sucked out of you. Quite true. And this is why it's important to have high standards and expectations of the women you allow into your life. Train them well and make them work hard to please you, and they can provide much more than just sex. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/15 01:40 AM |
| 6 | I want to bring up the elephant in the room. Rejections that truly attack you as a human beingYour mentality is flawed. Just because a woman fucked a man of lower value than you, doesn't necessarily mean that she thinks you're lower value that he is. The guys a woman fucks are determined often by random happenstance (e.g., she happens to be horny and drunk at the time) rather than a rational calculation of the man's SMV. Likewise, a woman will often fuck you like crazy one day or night and then never want to see you again--doesn't matter that you're still the same man. Women are fickle e… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/15 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Rich Athlete Lives A Spartan RP Lifestyle1) Obviously he was interviewed and photographed by professionals for the article. As a pro athlete he's already a minor celebrity. 2) Doesn't matter if it's true or not--we can learn from the principles regardless. Having a lot of money is generally awesome, but happiness comes from living your own lifestyle, and minimalism and independence can lead to a kind of masculine freedom. Show me a man who is happy living in a van and writing his thoughts in his journal, and I'll show you a man with an… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/15 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Comfort tests outside LTR (and FR)If you haven't fucked a girl, it's not a comfort test, Not true. It does depend on the stage of your relationship with her, but some girls will comfort test you before sex (though it usually occurs later on in the interaction, not upfront). Roissy gives an example: “I bet you’re a player.” If you get this early on, it’s a value shit test. She secretly wants you to be a player who is loved by women. That’s male mate value. Your reply should adhere to the amused mastery format: “That’s what your m… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/15 03:14 PM |
| 1 | I started working on not being a nice guy at the age of 24, and started seeing results. 1.5 years later, I am starting to realize that I am consciously exploiting women for what I want. I am still not happy.Your problem is you want women to want you based on who you are authentically, your "self" that is to say. But the issue is that one can never get at the inner self. Everything people believe and do in this world is based on appearances. And, as you have noted with your examples of work and dance class, people appear differently based on the situations in which we observe them and based on the behaviours they display. You need to accept the harsh truth that everything is based on appearances. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/15 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Is being "good at sex" overrated?You're correct when you argue that the status of the man and the way the woman perceives his value is crucial for her sexual pleasure. This is because for women, the psychological elements of sex are more important than the physical technique. That said, there are physical techniques that have psychological effects: spanking and hair-pulling for dominance, for example. So it's not just about status. See The Sex God Method for guidance on the psychological elements of sex. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/15 04:54 PM |
| 3 | Live-in girlfriend becomes respectfulIt was your fault that she misbehaved in the first place, as you let her take you for granted. It would have been possible to turn this situation around without having to go nuclear. E.g., simply by flirting with other women and coming home late a few nights with no explanation in order to instill dread. Her bad behaviour was a result of your weak frame and letting her walk all over you. That said, you've learned a valuable lesson in realizing how easy it is to become betaized when you live with… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/15 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Reminder: DO NOT TALK ABOUT THE RED PILLDo you really want to be friends with someone who won't accept you for who you are? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/15 05:49 PM |
| 2 | [FR] - Tinder Close Full details from tinder convo through overcoming token LMR - an example for beginnersDo you didn't talk since Nov and she replied to your text in Feb? I'm baffled. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/15 02:36 AM |
| 12 | Newbie Traps: The Problem With Direct OpenersI wouldn't say these are "plausibly deniable." Rather, I would say that they are direct openers that include a challenge/tease. You hit on her but you show that you're not completely sold--she has to qualify herself to you and invest in the interaction. Complement+tease is quite similar to Krauser's direct day game opener. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/15 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Advice on building your social life and network in your mid 20s and onwards.Go out and do things that you like to do. You'll meet guys who like the same thing. Introduce yourself. Don't be a social retard. That's it. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/15 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Overcoming Anti-Slut DefenseDude she's practically a lesbian and she's just not that into dick. And you didn't even fuck her yet in four dates. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/15 05:52 AM |
| 2 | There's no PC way to phrase this and I feel like this is the only subreddit that will understand this- just tell me how to be a jerk.Being too timid and shy to talk to strangers. The way to fix this is to treat it like any other aspect of self improvement--you need to get out there and work on it gradually to increase your confidence. You can do a program like the Good Looking Loser Approach Anxiety program, or The Rules of the Game. These programs both involve steps of drills for you to do to expand your comfort zone in interacting socially with strangers. Since you're already into music, consider starting a band. This is a … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/15 03:57 PM |
| 4 | I don't have my card.Don't take a girl out to dinner unless you're already fucking her regularly. It's just stupid. Make your intentions clear by getting her over at your place and making out and having sex with her. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/15 05:51 AM |
| 1 | Uninterested in women.You may be depressed. Seek medical help. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/15 05:31 AM |
| 1 | Approach anxiety seems to be gone. However, replaced by approach apathy.1) Unless you really care about SNL's, there's not much point approaching in clubs. Not only do you have to compete with all the other dudes, but you also have to deal with cockblocking friends and shitty logistics. 2) Hey there. I don't want to dance with you, but I'd be OK if you sucked me off or something. Deliver this entirely deadpan while looking her in the eye confidently. Open enough girls and some of them would dig it. 3) Just can't seem to justify walking into a jewelry store and askin… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/15 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Man wins right to sue rape-accuser for defamation after he was cleared of rape charges.Unfortunately the guy's life is probably still ruined. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/15 04:25 PM |
| 2 | Valentine's EffectYou did the right thing in sticking to your guns and refusing to agree to exclusivity with this chick. I can't see when such an agreement would ever be to the man's advantage. But you failed in a number of respects: 1) As you said, you should have been seeing other women. Remember poon commandment VII: Always keep two in the kitty. Also, poon commandment II: Make her jealous. Neither strategy worked 2) Your paraphrase of your discussion with her makes it sounds like you were too supplicating. Yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/15 04:34 PM |
| 6 | My Roommate and His GirlfriendShe's acting that way because he allows her to get away with it. Her behaviour is a result of his failure to set firm boundaries, not necessarily because she's a cunt. Hard Next is not the proper course of action in this kind of situation. Soft next is: he should cut contact for 3-7 days to punish her, then resume the relationship as if nothing happened. One she realizes he's willing to ghost and won't put up with her bullshit, she'll act much sweeter, trust me. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/15 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Do you tell your plates about your other plates?Lying when spinning plates is never worth it. Just make it clear to all the women that you aren't exclusive and leave it at that. You don't need to tell them the details. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/15 07:51 PM |
| 30 | Beta Bux is a real sexual strategy - Tinder Experimentget her to my house for one night stand only to have her looking at artwork on my walls or piano or furniture or pool in the backyard or whatever and I go to close and suddenly she closes up and puts a TON of anti slut defense up. The strategy if you run into this problem (girl is back at your place and it's so nice she pegs you as "Boyfriend material" and wants to make you wait) is to suggest disqualifying her from romantic intimacy. E.g., when she gives you resistance, say something like "you'… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/15 04:50 PM |
| 2 | Beta Bux is a real sexual strategy - Tinder ExperimentI didn't actually hook up with any of these girls So you're saying it doesn't work? It's better to screen for girls who are into you because they are attracted to you & want to hook up than girls who will grudgingly spread their legs after 4 dates because they like 150$ bottles of wine. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/15 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Girl Reports Me for Inappropriate Behavior On Match.com for Getting Her Naked !A few points: 1) Normally, you should already have been fingering her before you even try taking her pants off. If you haven't been, you keep kissing her/making out with immediately after removing her pants so she doesn't think about it too much. 2) Another option, when she asked if you had a condom, was to pull back by disqualifying from sex. E.g., "Not so fast, missy!" or "Rather presumptuous, aren't you?" Such disqualifications are an effective way to deactivate her ASD. 3) Another option, af… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/15 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Girl Reports Me for Inappropriate Behavior On Match.com for Getting Her Naked !so I say I respect whatever you want to do and sit back and stop Not necessary to verbalize this. In fact, it's probably a bad idea since it implies that you're going to push for sex and thus might set up her ASD. Would have been fine just to back off (without saying anything) and then try again a bit later. Using words also engages the logical part of her brain which is the last thing you want to do at this point. as I go for a condom I realize I don't have one and she wants a condom You're an … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/15 08:32 PM |
| 3 | Going after girls from wealthier/more affluent backgrounds.Two main options: 1) Get enough experience with these girls that you vibe with their culture/scene. Get to the point where you just "get them" so you can instantly connect with them on the kind of topics that relate to their lives. 2) Play up the edgy badboy factor you get from being a lower class than she is. Use your own swears/accent/slang/fashion to set yourself apart from her male peers. You'll need what Krauser calls an r-selected look to pull this off (e.g. leather jacket, combat boots, d… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/15 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Need Advice - Am I an Orbiter? A Fill in BF? One of her plates?She's just using you for validation. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/15 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Need Advice - Am I an Orbiter? A Fill in BF? One of her plates?You haven't stated what your objective is. Are you actually interested in fucking this girl? If you are, you fucked it up by never making a move with her when you were "hanging out a lot." You should have made out/escalated the first time you were alone with her. If you hang out with her a bunch but never make a move, you're guaranteed to get friendzoned. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/15 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Self Defense / Martial Arts TRP would recommend?The OP specifically mentioned fights in groups of people (i.e. against multiple opponents). If you take the fight to the ground you could easily end up kicked in the head. As for fighting multiple opponents: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YGkxZ68fIg8 | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/15 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Reading Models by Mark, some stuff puts me offThe other thing that came to mind was an example he gave about Daniel, a guy that has gotten laid because of some PUA principles but turned needy afterwards. What if, to some extent, some people just want to get laid foremost and develop themselves further down the road to be prepared for a serious LTR? The point is that you can get laid but you can't retain high-quality women without being a high-value man. It's that simple. Your mission should be your priority in life, not women. Continually c… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/15 10:07 PM |
| -2 | My woman of one year wrote me a love letter. Very positive, very good... very telling. I have work to do.You need to make her jealous and keep her guessing. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/15 09:59 PM |
| 1 | How a single night confirmed my theory on women's sexuality and violence.Physically defending yourself against a woman? You're lucky you didn't get kicked out by the bouncers or charged/arrested. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/15 05:59 PM |
| 4 | Diffused Tense Situation With Savage-like SexWorth noting that it's not really the sex which defused the situation as your title suggests. Rather, it was firmly stating your boundaries and then going out and ignoring your gf as punishment for her childish behaviour. The sex was just the end result of her increased attraction to you when you refused to tolerate her bullshit. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/15 07:29 PM |
| 2 | "You don't open up to me""I want you to open up to me" This isn't a problem, just ignore and proceed as usual. Women claim they want you to open up, but in the context of an LTR where you already have a decent emotional connection with them, it's better to remain somewhat mysterious and keep things back. Women never want full disclosure. Keep her guessing (poon commandment 6) and trying to figure you out. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/15 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Avoid women with debtIf they're hot and sweet, they are fine as plates. Just don't move in with them or marry them. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/15 06:42 PM |
| 3 | Spinning your first plate after a long dry spell - discussionThe only way then to find out if you are doing your job is ask, but when and how. It's better not to ask her about it. Asking about her satisfaction in bed betrays insecurity and a supplicating attitude. Applying the techniques in the book is important, but you should be doing them to have fun yourself, not in an effort to please her. Use DEVI, but never worry about how a woman thinks you are in bed. Being concerned with your own pleasure and satisfaction is a turn on for submissively-inclined f… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/15 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Reading TRP makes me depressed, if it's the truth then it makes me hate everyone.this world view where nothing is genuine, everything is a calculated act, as a man you can't expect to be loved if you're not living life like you're on meth but healthy The realization that a woman won't love you for just relaxing and being yourself is quite tough. So, as you say, this leads to the notion that a man has to be calculating and manipulative in order to maintain a woman's affection. But if you work hard enough on yourself and attain high enough SMV, eventually it will no longer be … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/15 02:46 AM |
| 4 | AWALT-hypergamy in realtime, on video (kiss-cam edition)It's not hypergamy, it's just slutty attention-whoring. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/15 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Self Defense / Martial Arts TRP would recommend?Grappling is useless in street fights against multiple opponents, because it leaves you vulnerable. Focus on boxing or a striking-based martial art. Don't fight unless you absolutely have to. In any real fight you risk suffering serious injury or death. Rule 1. Do not fight unless your life or health is at risk. Rule 2. Proceed with extreme violence. Rule 3. Get the Hell out of there as soon as it’s over. http://www.dangerandplay.com/2014/02/02/survive-street-fight/ http://www.dangerandplay.com/… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/15 05:51 PM |
| 3 | Alpha male Tom Cruise dominates Matt Lauer on his own show.Lots of people in the comments are missing the point. Of course Tom Cruise is batshit, the point is not to think like him, but to own what you think and who you are, whatever that happens to be. If you're comfortable in your own skin you'll never have to get defensive in an argument. That kind of unshakeable confidence is attractive to women even if your opinion is misplaced. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/15 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Those of you without access to squat racks and barbels, what excersises do you do?1-legged dumbbell squats Dumbbell deadlifts (if they have heavy enough dumbbells). Dumbbell Romanian deadlifts. Dumbbell overhead press. Dumbbell bench press. Dumbbell bent-over rows. Lat pulldowns. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/15 05:38 AM |
| 1 | [FR] IM winner - How I turned an HB9 through IMDecent text game. But nothing's accomplished until you actually seal the deal, so you didn't really "turn" her IMO. The other thing to keep in mind is that it wasn't really your IM game alone, but involved a great deal of your status. You were a speaker at a conference whom she asked for advice, which gives you instant social proof. If she's available and physically attracted to you that's pretty much all you should need. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/15 09:02 PM |
| 7 | I'm on my period.You did well. Best thing to do when you encounter any resistance is to stop, back off/pull back, and then try again later on. Sometimes the chick will actually be on her period, in which case (if you still want to bang her) you just make it clear to her that you don't give a shit and want to fuck her anyway. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/15 08:59 PM |
| 5 | Serious question - I started to think that women are not main thing in life. What is it then?Some of the religious guys around here will tell you that you need to turn to God/spirituality for a higher meaning in life. While this works for some people, the harsh truth is that's total bullshit. There is no main thing or meaning in life. No one can tell you what it is. The sooner you realize this and accept it, the better. So how do you attain happiness or meaning? You invent it, you make it up for yourself. Decide what is important to you in your life and why: what are you goals and your … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/15 08:54 PM |
| 2 | (FR) Lesson Learned: Pre-Game feeds your GameAny reason why you didn't try for SNL on any of these chicks? Were the logistics shitty or something? One strategy you can use if you meet a girl and get her number early in the night is to text her a around closing time to see what she's up to. You can then just invite her over to your place. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/15 09:41 PM |
| 2 | Rather bizarre story about an ex gf...was I being gaslighted?First question - was this an example of gaslighting? Yes. Second, what would a redpilled guy have done in that scenario (other than dumping her and moving out, which I eventually did)? If your gf ever gaslights you, you must dump her on the spot. Gaslighting is pure sociopathic manipulation. This is not the kind of girl you want to be in an LTR with. If a plate gaslights you, you can soft next her as punishment (cut contact and ignore her for 3-7 days, then resume as if nothing happened--can't d… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/15 08:07 PM |
| 3 | Advanced Red Pillers, please advise: Safe sex question as it relates to game, etc...When the time came, I pulled it out and she (sigh, predictably) got weird, "what, you came her expecting we'd have sex?" This shouldn't happen because you shouldn't whip out the condom until you're right about to fuck and she won't be thinking logically at all. You should already have fingered her so she's dripping wet and taken off her panties. At this point she should be practically begging for you to stick it in her. Other techniques: 1) After her panties are off and while you're fingering he… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/15 08:02 PM |
| 31 | [FR] She doubled down on polyamory and has been summarily nexted.For exclusivity to work at all, the girl has to want it a lot more than you. She should be the one trying to lock you down with mateguarding. The second she isn't, it's done. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/14 05:12 PM |
| 6 | [FR] Unplanned meeting of two platesAs Roissy writes, Embarrassment is a beta emotion. These feelings faded away to uselessness once I realized that I have no obligation to ensure the peace of mind or social ease of any woman I have gamed or am considering gaming. What’s more, with experience came the understanding that “awkward” situations which would make betas cringe and search for the nearest exit are in fact opportunities to increase the attraction voltage, and that they work on almost any woman. Devil-may-care nonchalance in… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/14 05:04 PM |
| 3 | How do you talk to the police?It's easy. Don't talk to the police. Ever. Especially not when you're accused of something that you're innocent of. Use your right to remain silent and if you're arrested request legal council. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/14 05:30 AM |
| 5 | GF of 2 years cheated on me. What steps should I take moving forward?I feel totally betrayed. Think about what happened. Then think to yourself, "What if it was a gift?" It's actually much better for you to have found out now and ended it with her after two years than to have ended up marrying her and gotten cheated on or cuckolded later on. Could have gotten divorced, lost your kids, and had to pay out the ass. Take what you've experienced and become a stronger man because of it. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/14 03:10 PM |
| 2 | GF of 2 years cheated on me. What steps should I take moving forward?Some guys here are going to tell you to focus on yourself for a while and stop chasing new tail. It is of course very important to continue working on yourself and following your mission. But withdrawing from women entirely because of a break-up doesn't do you any favours IMO. Approach women, fuck them, spin plates. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/14 03:07 PM |
| 0 | Just dumped gf of two months. Feel pretty good.One of the guys is the classic cocky asshole type and my gf started flirting with him a bit but he seemed like an ok guy. You should never tolerate this kind of behaviour from a gf. For a plate you might just ignore her and flirt with other girls (deny her attention and show you don't care), but for a gf to do this is very disrespectful. You can't hang around and let her do this--you need to punish her immediately. The first time she ever does something like this you need to make it clear that i… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/14 04:48 PM |
| 1 | You have to be kidding me. White Knight feminist group design educational flash game "dating simulator".Silly how there's no option to walk away from the bitch--she's ugly and rude. After I negged her 8 times the game bugged and wouldn't display options. Fail. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/14 04:08 PM |
| 2 | What music do you listen to while you lift?Pin Up Went Down--Pussy Worship Heidevolk--Vulgaris Magistralis Stolen Babies--Mousefood Polkadot Cadaver--Slaughterhouse Striptease (can't find good version to link) | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/14 06:12 AM |
| 6 | Hanging with a chick tommorow night for the "first time"Here's what you do: Her: "We're not having sex." You: "Ok." Make out with her, escalate to sex. Always judge by actions, not words. Obviously if she stops you, don't force her, but don't take her prior declaration at face value, either. What it means is, "I'm thinking about having sex with you but I don't want to commit to that yet." If she's into you and you bust a move, she will probably change her mind. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/14 05:48 PM |
| 2 | Don't be like Tom. Or, what it must be like for girls to deal with needy betas...I'm confused. Why didn't you just tell him directly that you're straight and not interested? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/14 08:57 PM |
| 3 | "The boat is a boat. Let it float."- A lesson on giving your masculinity the push it needs without burning yourself out.That doesn't mean don't work out. That doesn't mean embrace your vices. It means see your life as a serious of hard pulls, when you give yourself momentum, followed by necessary intervals of relaxation. This is essentially the point of the book The Power of Full Engagement. We are used to hearing people say life is a marathon, but a lot of evidence shows that it's better to treat life as a series of sprints interspersed with rest periods--hard work and full engagement for a brief space, followed… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/14 04:04 PM |
| 0 | Whenever I (30m) make decisions for us, ie, where to go eat, my gf (29 f) gets frustrated.If you're not trolling, the problem is you're taking her too seriously. If she's throwing this kind of crap at you, your frame is seriously fucked up and you need to turn things around to get her to respect you more. Here's how you handle something like this: Her: "Yeah, I've seen that place. Where else could we go?" You: "I want to go there tonight. Get in the car." Then you start getting ready and don't discuss the matter any further. If your relationship isn't totally fucked, she will go with… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/14 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Modesty, how does it work?I am being humble and it works. Why? I never brag, I don't even say much. I just let them go "bla bla bla I am so amazing". I am literally not doing anything and I get laid. What the fuck is going on? It's simple, by adopting that attitude you show that you aren't trying to impress them. The fact that you aren't trying to impress them communicates confidence and a high SMV. Often the best approach on dates is to just let the women talk as if she is one being interviewed. You should be the one ev… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/14 08:29 PM |
| 3 | How To Approach And Get Contact Details Or An Instant Date: Part 3 [/r/trpgame repost]Direct Interest is the most popular with direct openers. You like her and you want to go out some time. End of story. It's also possible to open indirect and proceed to direct. The way you do this is you open indirectly, build rapport by talking to her, and then use a contrived hook point (i.e., pretend in the course of the convo that you have an "ah-hah" moment and realize that you are attracted to her for X cute/cool thing she said or did). After this, you can express your interest directly an… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/14 05:11 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Curious what a bad FR looks like? Here you goif they didn't already clear their schedule when we confirmed a couple days prior then they aren't worth my time or they weren't interested These texts are not meant to try to convince her to show up. The purpose is to figure out ahead of time that she's not going to show up so you can do something else instead. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/14 05:48 AM |
| 2 | Guide to ConfidenceWhen you approaches a girl, your intentions are to 1)talk, 2)win her over, 3)seduce and maybe 4)make her your plate/girl friend. A better goal to have in mind is: 1) talk, 2) find out whether she's interested in taking the relationship/interaction further with you. You can't control the outcome, so having the intention to "win her over" is misguided because it suggests that if you don't, you've somehow failed, even if you've done your best. An approach is successful as long as it forces the wome… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/14 05:33 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Curious what a bad FR looks like? Here you goShe arrived early and things started off as usual with some jokes and kino escalation. Jokes may have been too try-hard/rapport seeking. Better to convey the attitude that she's the one who has to work to win you over. It can be very effective just to let her talk, ask leading questions, and do a few cold-reads. As this goes on, occasionally her based on the qualities she reveals. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/14 04:52 AM |
| 9 | [FR] Curious what a bad FR looks like? Here you goAlways make sure the date is confirmed that day. Anti-flake defence strategies for doing this: 1) Leave the arrangement of the meeting details up to that day. E.g., set the time ahead of time and then text her the venue that day. Or at first tell her the venue, and say you'll text her the time on that day (pretend your schedule is variable so you won't know until the afternoon). 2) Send a rescheduling text that day changing the meeting time. E.g., set meeting for 8:30, text her that day to resch… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/14 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Say What You Want, Do What You SayI'm not shifting on a whim, I'm doing what is best for me. It's best for you to blow off your friend and work on Sunday? I guess we have different priorities. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/14 05:00 PM |
| 7 | Say What You Want, Do What You SayAn insidious poison in your advice is the potential for people-pleasing. Keep in mind that the point is that one follows through with one's own decisions. Deciding ahead of time on what you're going to do, based on your own interests, and following through with it is not about seeking validation. It's taking responsibility for the choices you have made. If I am looking out for myself then other people are going to be disappointed on occasion. Yes, but then you ought to have said "no" in the firs… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/14 10:08 PM |
| 2 | Girl told me she wanted to know what we were, because she didn't want to "cheat." Thoughts on the conversation exchange?It's always impossible to know why a chick decides to drop off. Might be that you were too aloof and didn't give her enough emotional progress to keep her hooked, or it might be nothing to do with you. Seems to me that it's mostly likely a long soft next for temporary exclusivity (LSNFTE): http://www.blackdragonblog.com/glossary/ Whatever the case happens to be, you can't do anything about it so it's not worth dwelling on. You'll never know the real reason, so you just have to let her go and the… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/14 04:23 PM |
| 3 | Girl told me she wanted to know what we were, because she didn't want to "cheat." Thoughts on the conversation exchange?Me: Good luck with everything. Her: You don't care about me, you never did, you don't know me blah, blah. Your writing "Good luck with everything" is the end of it. Should have cut contact here and not replied. Then you send her a feeler text in 2-4 months. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/14 04:17 PM |
| 50 | We Land on a Goddamn Comet - Women Care More About ShirtsFeminist logic: Don't shame women for how they dress. Shame men for how they dress. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/14 05:36 AM |
| 8 | Never Take the CouchOP is indeed right although this is a rather simple example. The principle to keep in mind is poon commandment 4: IV. Don’t play by her rules If you allow a woman to make the rules she will resent you with a seething contempt even a rapist cannot inspire. The strongest woman and the most strident feminist wants to be led by, and to submit to, a more powerful man. Polarity is the core of a healthy loving relationship. She does not want the prerogative to walk all over you with her capricious dema… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/14 05:32 AM |
| 1 | Woman drops boyfriend because he lives frugally. Later finds out that he's a heir to a fortune based on oil.This dude is fucking brilliant. He knows he could flash around his wealth and score easy pussy, but instead he screens hard for a woman who will be satisfied with him alone. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/14 05:37 AM |
| 2 | I caught my girlfriend of 2 years cheating on me, so I converted her into a plate, am I fucking up?So brothers, should I stop sticking my dick in crazy and move on? Or keep spinning her like mambo no. 5 is on the record player? I'm not sure why you're asking, for a couple of reasons: 1) It seems like you've already made your decision since you've been fucking her for a couple of months after dumping her. 2) There's really no "right" or "wrong" decision in this case. It's about your values and about what you want to you. Personally, I don't think I would want to have any sort of dealings with … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/14 05:31 AM |
| 1 | The reason why TheRedPill shouldn't cite to fictional works as examples of TRP in action.Fictional works are examples of different expressions of RP ideas. They are not proof, but they are examples that can help to bring across certain points, so they can still be valuable. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/14 03:47 PM |
| 2 | What advice would does TRP have for guys in Western society who missed out on young love (high school and college) and want to mentally recover?Your problem is that you're relying on sex for validation. Not having had sorority girls throw themselves at you in college undermines your sense of self-worth. The solution is to work on your inner game by increasing your value to raise your self-esteem. Your goal should be to eliminate as much as possible your need for external validation, especially from women and sex. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/14 04:23 AM |
| 2 | Do men in Western society who miss out on young love (high school and college) and sex ever mentally recover?That said, I wonder if guys who miss out on love, sex, and relationships during their younger years ever mentally recover even if they get a lot of it as adults. It seems like to me that even the guys who really turn it around and get laid like crazy as adults always feel that anger for not getting it while they were younger. Depends on the person. Yes, some guys will allow that experience to define their attitude and remain bitter and vitriolic as a result. They will never admit it but they do … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/14 10:36 PM |
| 6 | [FR/NSFW Language] No Longer a Virgin; how the fuck does sex work?Tell her, "get on your hands and knees" Kneel behind her. Stick your finger into her pussy to feel exactly where it is. (It might be "higher" than you expect, it's pretty much just under her asshole) Grab your dick and line it up with her pussy, then push in. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/14 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Drugs and Their Effects on Your Poon Plundering ProwessWeed - Absolutely terrible if you want to get laid. Not necessarily true. I forget where but I remember reading someone claim that asking a girl "Do you want to smoke some weed?" is one of the best pick-up lines. Chilling and smoking weed with a girl can easily lead to sex. Also, some of the best sex I've had has been when I was on weed. It seems to heighten the sensations and make sex more intense for me. YMMV | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/14 02:23 AM |
| 1 | How to handle plates that are cheating with youhas fucked me once and enjoyed it thoroughly Only having fucked her once is a precarious situation to be in. She can easily walk by rationalizing it as a "mistake" or a "one-time thing." I probably wouldn't even consider her a plate until you've fucked her on several separate occasions. I can tell she is in some emotional turmoil about her situation and hasn't reached out to text me recently. Need more info. How can you tell she is in emotional turmoil? Describe particular behaviors. By "hasn't … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/14 02:18 AM |
| 1 | When asking a girl out, use the Brad Pitt ruleIf you're asking a woman in person or on the phone, this works fine. If you ask her "Want to get drinks Thur?" and she says, "I can't I have spin class", without suggesting an alternative, it's likely she's not interested. If you're asking her out over text message, however (which is quite common now), it's not nearly as clear-cut. Women sometimes won't suggest another day even if they are interested. So it's better to send another suggestion yourself to see (if she's not interested, she likely … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/14 06:55 PM |
| 1 | OP from /r/relationships catches best friend (now-ex) and girlfriend (now-ex) having sex. Holds frame and respects himself.In any way it would have been a totally alpha move, and would have left the cheated guy more satisfied with himself. Would probably have felt good at the time, but in the long run would have gained him nothing and cost him a great deal. Childishly giving vent to our emotions by lashing out at those who have hurt us is not alpha. Why is that the case? Because it shows that others have emotional power over you, and therefore betrays your weakness. Elliot Rodger was not alpha. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/14 06:11 PM |
| 7 | FR: Failed badly on second dateshe suggested I meet up with her and her friends on Saturday night. She also suggested I bring friends since there would be a group of girls. Friends are the ultimate cockblockers. It's impossible for you to escalate when they are around. Never agree to such a "date." So there was this weird sexual tension between them throughout the night, and it made me really anxious. So I drank more, and could never recover my composure / frame. The solution of what to do in this situation is simple. You ign… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/14 03:46 PM |
| 2 | Sleeping over after sex ?There are two schools of thought on this. One says that leaving after sex is the best way to keep her chasing you. E.g. http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2010/07/16/why-you-should-leave-after-sex/ The other says that sleeping together will help build a deeper emotional/comfort connection. Regardless of what you choose to do, what's important is that you maintain the frame that you're doing it for your own reasons. Don't stay over just because you are afraid to upset her by leaving or in an effort t… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/14 03:50 PM |
| 1 | My GF turned me into a beta and just dumped me. Please help.cut all contact with ex approach women spin plates | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/14 02:58 PM |
| 11 | How to tell whether a girl is being friendly vs interested?There's only one way to tell: try to escalate and see if she accepts or not. E.g. try to escalate kino or progress the interaction in another way, by inviting her to move to another location into isolation with you. Often you simply can't tell without busting a move. You have to just go for it and see if she accepts. Roosh has a good post on this: http://www.rooshv.com/theres-only-one-way-to-know-if-shes-attracted-to-you | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/14 05:51 AM |
| 7 | My girlfriend is eating too much, and is starting to get fat.What can I do about this? Advice? Dread game. Poon commandment II: Make her jealous. Flirt with other women in front of her. Admire other women's tight asses. Make offhand comments about "your friend's hot gf." She knows she is less attractive when she's fat. If she's allowing herself to get fat it's because she feels comfortable--she isn't worried about your leaving her. So the way you fix this is by showing you have options and you're considering using them. Make her aware of your higher value… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/14 05:39 AM |
| 2 | Natural alpha (aka Alpha 1.0) versus RP Alpha (Alpha 2.0)There is another important point. According to Blackdragon, Alpha 1.0s will often settle into exclusive relationships with women, whereas alpha 2.0s see multiple women concurrently without the expectation of exclusivity. The "needy" and control-freak oriented shortcomings of the Alpha 1.0 go hand-in-hand with his commitment to an exclusive relationship with a single woman. The sexual abundance of multiple partners is a large part of what allows alpha 2.0s to remain outcome independent. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/14 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Warning: Do not fucking waver!After this I will definitely take up lifting. Don't make excuses. Just start light on compound exercises and work your way up. Try something like Stronglifts 5x5. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/14 02:58 PM |
| 2 | A Legal Primer to Common Law Relationships (Canadian Edition)Just don't move in with her. The risks and drawbacks far outweigh the meager benefits. The only time it makes sense to move in with a woman is to raise children together with her. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/14 09:12 PM |
| 1 | I'm addicted to straight talk.Unless you go and live in isolation as a hermit, you cannot escape the web of social relationships which is defined by power. Every social interaction is based on certain exchanges and mutual understandings. Powertalk doesn't necessarily mean lying and manipulation--it's just a different level of communicating exchanges with other people. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/14 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Just got threatened to have the cops called on meTreat your wife like a child. Be firm with your boundaries (don't let her overstep them, enforce consequences), but never let her anger you. When you let her get you all riled up, you give her power to manipulate you emotionally. What else could you have done? Calmly take the box of cereal and throw it in the trash. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/14 09:48 PM |
| 2 | My girlfriend says no to everything I want to try in bed1) Don't ask her or try to convince her. When you're in the bedroom, take charge. Order her or move her into whatever position you want. (obviously don't force her against her will) 2) If she doesn't follow your orders in the bedroom, tell her straight up: "It would make me happy for us to try/do X." Don't elaborate on this or try to convince her. Just tell her what you want. If she's into you, she should want to please you. If she doesn't work to please you, she's not worth it. 3) If 1 & 2 don'… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/14 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Need some advanced preg avoidance trickshttp://www.returnofkings.com/42046/how-to-use-and-obtain-testosterone-for-male-birth-control | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/14 03:56 PM |
| 7 | Need some advanced preg avoidance tricksWhy are you starting an LTR if she's looking for kids and you're not? An LTR where you have to wear condoms and are still worried about her getting pregnant? Especially when you only want it to last 6-12 months. My guess: laziness and complacency. It's pretty obvious that the situation you've described will spell bad news for both of you. There are plenty of fun, young, attractive women out there who aren't looking for kids anytime soon, and will gladly go on the pill or get an IUD. Find women w… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/14 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Why Women Are Rejecting “Perfect” MenIf you read the article closely the author actually makes a few useful points: unmoderated accommodation [by the man] eventually damages relationships. RP truth. Men should not strive to stay out of trouble. We should strive to be the best men we can be. RP truth. Something astonishing happened on a Saturday morning when Jen instructed him to accompany her to a baby shower: he declined. “No thanks,” he said. “I’m going golfing. Give my best to the mother.” RP example. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/14 02:49 AM |
| 2 | Five Daytime ApproachesGiven all those pros, why would anyone want to game in clubs? There are a number of disadvantages to day game: 1) You can't screen as quickly and effectively to weed out time-wasters. Often a girl will bite on your bait but you find out when you go for the number that she has a boyfriend. You have to sink more time into the approach before finding out if she's interested, whereas in a club/night game environment you can escalate kino right away to see if she's into you or not. 2) You won't get l… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/14 12:22 AM |
| 2 | FP: RP Tinder Game with Screenshot CommentaryTinder numbers are nearly worthless. How many actually met you? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/14 03:36 AM |
| 2 | Being Brutally Rational With WomenThe next time some dude pulls a knife on me in the street, I'm going to be rational with him! | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/14 07:30 PM |
| 3 | Need first date help.You can do activities like take a walk in the park, check out museums or art galleries, &c. Any activity where you are both standing up provides great kino opportunities. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/14 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Applying TRP when you have 0 dates, plates, and LTRsAssuming you're in phase three and you've got your shit together (working out, income, friends, hobbies, &c), here is how you get women: 1) approach women 2) approach women 3) approach women 4) get into isolation with a woman and escalate toward sex 5) after you fuck her, don't be needy. follow the 16 commandments of poon: http://heartiste.wordpress.com/the-sixteen-commandments-of-poon/ Guys have to accept that you can't attract every woman. You have to screen for women who are available and are… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/14 02:03 AM |
| 3 | Girls who are "one of the boys" and generally very touchy, physical and "slutty" - WHY? How the fuck do I read IOI's, then?She's a superflirt: http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2010/07/15/shes-a-superflirt/ To see if she's really into you, you need to escalate more aggressively. Hand on face/hair behind ear, hand on lower back, &c. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/14 03:29 PM |
| 2 | When in a LTR, what does a redpiller do to prevent the relationship from getting boring?The light side: Do fun new things together: e.g., trips to new places, new activities (rock climbing, hiking, skiing, w/e), experiment with various forms of kink, different places to have sex, mff threesome, &c. Don't be predictable; surprise her randomly. The dark side: Inject drama into your relationship: e.g., randomly go no contact/radio silence for a few days, have a fight over something, flirt with and/or fuck other women. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/14 10:19 PM |
| 0 | showing interest without the bluepill methods?Keep escalating with physical contact. You show your interest by working up physical intimacy and moving toward sex (emotional intimacy should go along with this too). | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/14 09:52 PM |
| 2 | How to Maintain Frame and Avoid Beta BaitIndeed. Every shit test is designed to force you into a frame where you depend on her for validation. You reject the frame by showing that you don't give a fuck. The best way to do this is often by not treating the test seriously: hence, A&A. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/14 02:26 PM |
| 2 | One of my best friends said the most BP beta bucks thing I've ever heard - don't be this guy9th law of power: Win Through Your Actions, Never Through Argument Get ripped yourself, fuck hot chicks, and hope your friends get the message. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/14 03:08 PM |
| 2 | So with a lot of young men moving off to college, what are some general college tips that TRP can give that generally others will not?Prioritize what matters to you in your life and structure your days so that you're always working toward what you care about. (hint: it shouldn't be binging NetFlix) Be social. The social experience is a huge part of college if you play your cards right, you should end up with at least a few friendships that will continue for years afterward. Don't neglect your studies. It's foolish to spend thousands of dollars and years of your life if you're not going to make the most of that education. Colle… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/14 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Gender studies scholar, advocates women to cheat as a celebration of the collapse of gender roles.Unlike men, whose cheating often follows an impulse, these women had considered their affairs. They had reasons for them. Women are becoming more confident about making choices. Sexual exploration -- and, yes, at times infidelity -- is just one example. Is this a good thing? It sure is. For a woman, the ability to realize that she's not happy -- and she's going to do something about it, rather than be passive and accept whatever comes -- is empowering. She is claiming her right to feel fulfilled… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/14 10:50 PM |
| 3 | Feminist reviewer flips out over the use of "bitch" in Guardians of The GalaxySurprised she didn't bitch about the part where muscle dude calls the green chick a whore. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/14 04:24 PM |
| 3 | A "Divorced Man" Wrote These 20 Epic Marriage Advice He Wished He Could Have Had.Interesting that with a number of points RP truth creeps through, or is implied: NEVER STOP COURTING. NEVER STOP DATING. Never stop gaming. Never get lazy or complacent. Never let her become comfortable being able to predict your actions. Boredom and stagnation is relationship death. SHE DOESN’T HAVE TO STAY WITH YOU Quite true, actually. Her love for you is always conditional and never guaranteed. And 50% of the time she won't. It’s not your wife’s job to make you happy . . . You are responsibl… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/14 04:18 PM |
| 2 | How do you deal with being an introvert?You obviously don't understand what it's like to be a shy introvert. Actually, I do. And as you say, the best way to overcome social anxiety is to push your boundaries by forcing yourself to interact with people outside of your comfort zone. If OP can't order a cup of coffee, he should seek professional help. If he's just the average "shy introvert" (like me) he should stop making excuses and force himself to go out and talk to people. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/14 03:53 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with being an introvert?Why not? It's a good way to meet people. Just make sure if you do invite her to a party that you don't follow her around the whole time. You can also try asking her out with more isolation involved. For example, invite her to get a drink in a bar (if you're both of age) or grab a coffee. If she knows you better (e.g. you sit next to her in class) she will be more comfortable in isolation, so you can invite her to hang out at your place and watch a movie/study/drink/smoke weed/&c. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/14 03:51 PM |
| 1 | How do I reveal my HSV+ status to a new plate?No woman has ever cared. Some of them are surprised that I even mention it. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/14 03:47 PM |
| 1 | The Problem With PUA/Seduction Explained Pretty WellThe author has a very limited definition of "game" as a series of lines or techniques. Bloggers like Roissy and Roosh embrace a concept of "game" which includes aspects like style, social skills, and swag factor. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/14 01:10 AM |
| 3 | How do you deal with being an introvert?Do you want to have a large social circle for itself or do you just want to do so for the purpose of fucking women? If it's just women you care about, it's not really necessary to get a bunch of fake friends who annoy you in order to improve your game. You don't have opportunities to meet women? Bullshit, you're at a university. They are all over campus all the time. Talk to them. Opening a conversation with a woman when she's a student at your school is painfully easy. Chat a bit, drop a couple… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/14 03:53 PM |
| 5 | How do I reveal my HSV+ status to a new plate?I usually mention it mid-way through the first date if it's going well. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/14 04:06 AM |
| 2 | GF has to go on a 1 month family trip to South America this winter. Should I be worried?There is always a risk a woman will cheat. Unless you are literally monitoring her every single second, you can never be sure she isn't cheating on you. If you can't accept that there's a possibility of her cheating, you shouldn't be in an exclusive LTR. So, breaking up with her because she might cheat is stupid, especially when she has a legitimate reason for going on the trip (e.g. she's not going to a fuckfest location with female friends, backpacking places in hostels, &c). So, based alone o… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/14 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Don't Date A Single MotherIsn't this a red pill example? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/14 06:53 PM |
| 5 | 23F: "I decided to use a new approach to my current relationship. I decided to be completely honest [with her current 23M boyfriend about her sexual history]. I have now learned this was a mistake."he loves to throw things in my face, such as how I won’t try something with him in the bedroom that he knows I did with someone else Why does this make him upset? Because deep down, he knows it means that she doesn't desire him as much as the men she's fucked in the past. Rather than whining and trying to guilt her about it, he should fuck another woman on the side who will give him what she won't. Then I guess it will be her problem to get over how she feels about that. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/14 02:25 PM |
| -1 | Signs That A Woman is Loosing Attraction and How to ReactChill out dude. I already admitted I made a mistake. No need to flame me and go on a grammar nazi rant. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/14 01:28 AM |
| 2 | Advantages and Disadvantages of an LTR as opposed to spinning platesOP, the issue I have with your claims is that you seem to suggest that you can only have close emotional intimacy with a(n exclusive) gf. But it's equally possible to form emotional relationships with plates, so a lot of the "benefits" you discuss are not confined to LTRs: Constant sex with little to no effort. A decent harem can also provide constant sex, and arguably requires less effort than maintaining a gf. Just text girls to come over when you want to fuck them. Girlfriend does cute things… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/14 01:22 AM |
| -3 | Signs That A Woman is Loosing Attraction and How to ReactShould have been "Losing"; mistakes happen. Why don't you try usefully contributing to the conversation instead of pointing out typos? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/14 10:22 PM |
| 3 | "How Much Is Your Cost Per Orgasm?" [RoK]False premise because your girlfriend isn't "saving" or "giving" you any money; she is simply paying her share of the rent. You could just as easily have a roommate and save the same amount of money on rent. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/14 10:18 PM |
| 3 | "How Much Is Your Cost Per Orgasm?" [RoK]http://heartiste.wordpress.com/ http://heartiste.wordpress.com/the-sixteen-commandments-of-poon/ | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/14 06:56 PM |
| 2 | "How Much Is Your Cost Per Orgasm?" [RoK]c. 400$ spent over the last 4.5 months for 155 fucks: $2.58 | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/14 06:55 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Quick TRP Example In The Real World: Power Of Saying No & How She Wants A Man, Not A Bitch. [PIC]You don't even need to tell her that it's because you're stressed out. Just say that you're busy and keep her guessing as to what's more important to you than fucking her. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/14 04:07 PM |
| 1 | LTR - Agree (don't amplify) experiences (Fogging)yeah, I shouldn't really have run the dishwasher if you wanted to take a bath Too placating. You're folding to her frame and you're admitting to having done wrong when you didn't do any (because as you said, you're not a mind reader). Better response: reframe by teasing her for acting like such a princess: "My poor princess will have to take her bath later." "Wow, you need to wait for hot water to have a relaxing bath--first world problems." | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/14 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Should I lie about being a virgin?1) You shouldn't need to lie to girls about being a virgin because it really shouldn't come up; it's none of their business. If they ask you your number of sex partners, say that it's none of their business/you don't kiss and tell. If they ask if you're a virgin, Agree & Amplify: "Yes, and so is my mother." 2) From what you've said it seems like you need to work on your inner game (self-confidence) in order to avoid projecting unattractive neediness. (that's why the girl said she wouldn't fuck y… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/14 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Example of Dread GameYour distinction between her pleasing you out of fear and her pleasing you out of attraction is a false dichotomy. What you're missing the the fact that dread itself builds attraction. What is the best way to get a woman attracted to you? To fuck a woman hotter and better in bed than she is (or at least to give the first woman the impression that you are). | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/14 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Step by Step Guide to getting her number off TinderThat's the point, though. You can't build attraction through text. It should be purely logistical--attract her with your pics and give her a couple of details so she can pretend she can be sure you're not a serial killer. She'll either agree to meet or she won't. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/14 05:01 PM |
| 0 | Questions about LTRs and SexThe best thing to do is just to spin plates and fuck a lot of women for the next 15 years of your life. (since you're not looking for an LTR now, don't worry about it) After this much experience dating and fucking so many women, you should be able to screen them pretty effectively. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/14 02:07 PM |
| 2 | Why isn't dread game working for my friend?Your friend's frame sucks. He's too much of a pussy. Even the fact that he was considering dropping this client because of his wife's hostility reveals that he has abdicated his role as leader and is letting her emotions run the show. When his wife confronted him in the first place, he should have agreed & amplified instead of getting defensive. The fact that he had an argument with her about this is ridiculous. What should he do about his wife's behaviour? Ignore her, starve her of attention by… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/14 06:46 PM |
| 4 | Looking for a deeper understanding as to why this bothered me.if i don't she will be offended now because i have no reason not to because im free. You really need to work on your frame, OP. If you're worried about her being offended because you're not calling her when she asks you to (while she's refusing to call you) then you're letting her walk all over you and she'll soon have zero respect for you. If you worry about offending her in little ways like this, you're putting her on a pedestal. The next time she gets offended about something trivial like thi… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/14 05:49 PM |
| 7 | Can spinning plates or even LTR provide a lasting kind of satisfaction?A man should never look for satisfaction through romantic relationships or sexual relations. Your satisfaction should come from pursuing your mission and improving yourself as a man. Nevertheless, if sex doesn't feel amazing, you're doing it wrong. Try reducing the frequency and you might enjoy it more ( http://www.rooshv.com/you-must-space-out-the-things-that-make-you-happy ) | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/14 05:23 PM |
| 2 | I'm a fucking pussy. How do I become a man?Lift heavy weights (try Stronglifts 5x5) Study a martial art Pursue your mission in life Improve your clothing and style Prioritize your perception of yourself rather than other people's perception of you. Keep plowing; there is no quick fix--it takes dedication and hard work. What this comes down to is investing in improving yourself and your life so you become higher value. Inner game should follow. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/14 06:42 PM |
| 2 | I can't tell women what I do. I'm a physicist.Seinfeld classic, where George does the opposite of what he's normally do in order to succeed with women: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6R03BVIyAdY | /r/askTRP | 26/07/14 06:37 PM |
| 4 | Holy shit, it worked.You discovered the power of DGAF and the Apocalypse Opener: http://www.bristollair.com/2008/outer-game/pua-routines/shock-and-awe-the-apocalypse-opener/ | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/14 03:41 PM |
| 3 | How To Punish Women For WithdrawingTextbook dread game/mixed messages. A certain degree is always necessary to keep a woman guessing: Cook her a romantic candlelight dinner at home. Make it a memorable experience, complete with jazz, chocolate, and rose petals. Then, do not talk with her for four days afterwards ( http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2008/03/27/dread/ ) | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/14 06:06 PM |
| 0 | Women just don't understand their gameIRL the men do the approaching. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/14 05:39 PM |
| 6 | If you are having trouble dealing with shit tests in a LTR look up advice for "Dealing With Teenagers".Arguing: this rarely never works for parents or teenagers dealing with women. Being defensive: this is very rarely useful the death knell of your relationship. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/14 03:15 PM |
| 3 | How often do you get rejected?Your inner game would benefit from changing the way you define "success." Keep in mind that most girls are simply not available, or will not click with you for whatever reason. Part of approaching is screening for girls who are into you (you don't want a girl who isn't into you, right?). Your goal when you approach should be to polarize a woman, which means to put her firmly in one camp or another. As long as you make a move and force her to make a decision, you are screening effectively and you… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/14 05:02 PM |
| 0 | What can short guys do to raise their value?OP, your thread title should be "What can short guys do to heighten their value?" | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/14 03:58 PM |
| 2 | (20F) What can I do to demonstrate my LTR potential?I would like to date sluts. And I do. I let them know straight up that they won't get fidelity from me so I don't expect to from them. The OP says she wants an LTR. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/14 03:56 PM |
| 1 | (20F) What can I do to demonstrate my LTR potential?1) Show your responsibility. In particular, demonstrate that you have the ability to see your own flaws and be held accountable for them. 2) Be emotionally stable. 3) Don't harp on feminism. Show that you value family. 4) Cook for him, buy him thoughtful gifts, do him favors. 5) Don't blab about your sexual history. 6) Be kind, sweet, and submissive. 7) Respect him. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/14 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Pook's Lesson 14: zero or two. Having issues with it. I don't feel comfortable sleeping with 2+ girls at the same time.Are you an older guy? What you're talking about might be a generational/cultural thing. In modern dating in the West, it's assumed that both parties are allowed to date other people unless you've explicitly discussed being exclusive/monogamous. In fact, this is why it's best to assume that any woman you begin dating is already fucking another guy on the side. There is never anything to feel guilty about in having multiple partners unless you've agreed to be exclusive with one. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/14 03:46 PM |
| 7 | I can't tell women what I do. I'm a physicist.A few options: 1) Drop the real answer in an offhand fashion, then change the subject immediately if it's clear she's not interested. 2) Make up funny, bullshit answers: "I'm a stripper." "I'm a professional pantyremover." "I'm a hitman." "I'm a ninja." 3) Claim you're not allowed to talk about it. "I'm not at liberty to discuss that." "I'm bound by a non-disclosure agreement." | /r/askTRP | 23/07/14 03:40 PM |
| 9 | I Don’t Regret Cheating On My Boyfriend, Here’s WhyIn case we needed more proof that women can rationalize any action, no matter how clearly immoral. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/14 03:00 PM |
| 3 | How can I get rid of a one night stand?A few options: 1) Lie and tell her there's another woman. E.g., "I'm getting back together with my ex now." (this is probably the easiest/simplest excuse to use) 2) Tell her having sex was "a mistake" and thus a one-time thing. 3) Act super needy to drive her away. Text her constantly with smiley faces telling her how you're thinking about her, she's beautiful, you love her, &c. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/14 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Text Game "GUIDE" with examplesReply time stuff is just stupid juvenile games. It is a stupid game, and it shouldn't matter, but it does. If you reply immediately you destroy any possible suspense or intrigue on her part. Leaving her wondering, waiting for your reply engages her emotions and gets her thinking about you. Taking longer to reply also shows that you are busy--you have other things going on in your life and other options. The less available you are to her, the more a woman will respect you. But of course it depend… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/14 07:09 PM |
| 3 | Text Game "GUIDE" with examplesOP is right. Tight text game is boring, laconic, and logistical. Texts should be used only to convey information and to organize a meet-up, not to build attraction. Setting up second date: Her: Hey, how's it going? [Thur, two days after first date] Me: [1h later] Ntb. You want to come over for dinner mon night? Her: [5h later] Yeah, that sounds great. I'll bring desert. :) Her: What time were you thinking? Me: [the next day] Come over at 6:30. Address is ___________ One thing that OP didn't note… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/14 03:43 PM |
| 2 | Family situation. Potential divorce. Details within. TRP help would be much appreciated.1) Amp up the dread game. Also, if Betty is legit crazy, make sure he takes video footage of everything to use as evidence if necessary. 2) Don should move as much money as possible from joint accounts to assets only in his name. Since they are joint accounts, either account holder can access them. (If they do get divorced, then the settlement would be made, usually in the form of a lump sum payment from one party to another.) In the event of a divorce, his personal financial interest would best… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/14 03:18 PM |
| 1 | He had 14 mistresses on his personal payroll (“If it floats, flies or fucks,” he once said, it was better to rent than to buy.)He could afford either. His publishing empire, by his death worth hundreds of millions of pounds, started when he turned up at the office of a backstreet rag called “Oz”. He was penniless, having sold his drum kit to pay for a girlfriend’s abortion. Minds met, and he became co-editor—only to end up in jail, briefly, on an obscenity charge when the “schoolkids” issue featured Rupert Bear, a children’s comic-strip character, deflowering “Gipsy Granny”. The judge sniped that the scruffy youngster w… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/14 02:59 PM |
| 9 | Women using emotion as a weapon in arguments.Would you argue with a child? Women are like children: never argue with with them. Either lay down the law, or refuse to debate the issue. Arguing will get you nowhere. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/14 04:16 AM |
| 1 | RP insights being straight at a gay partythe only guy who got my number was the one who liked my video from last year and wanted me to offer me work with his company. He probably just wants to fuck you. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/14 08:01 PM |
| 5 | If you could add one article to the sidebar, what would it be?http://heartiste.wordpress.com/the-sixteen-commandments-of-poon/ used to be on the sidebar I don't know why they got rid of it | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/14 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Honesty, Diplomacy, or Emotionalism with WomenIt depends on the particular situation. In your case, hide a camera and film her interactions with the kids and then confront her with it. It will be harder for her to argue with the evidence before her eyes. But in general, it is better to lay down the law than to argue with women. Reason and diplomacy will not usually get you anywhere. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/14 03:50 AM |
| 2 | So, when does it start to get easier?You have your life together, what you're missing is game. Pure value alone is not enough. You have to bust moves. Study game and approach women and practice. Read Models by Mark Manson. Can also take a look at Roosh V's Bang Read the Chateau Heartiste archives and 16 commandments of poon: http://heartiste.wordpress.com/the-sixteen-commandments-of-poon/ From what it sounds like, your inner game (confidence) needs a lot of work, and you need to work on approaching women directly. Like anything els… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/14 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Confidence is not the right word. The word you are looking for is DOMINANCEPeople describe confident men or give examples of confidence, but they can’t define the essence of what it is to be confident. It usually comes down to “I know it when I see it.” Mark Manson has a good definition of "True Confidence": True Confidence is being less invested in other people's perceptions of you than in your perception of yourself. This is a really simple definition but carries many ramifications. If you care more about your perception of yourself than other people, you should be a… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/14 08:54 PM |
| 3 | Is there *a* Red Pill book? Just one book you could recommend to a friend that would gently open his eyes and explain TRP.Single best book resource: Models by Mark Manson. Simply read this along with the 16 Commandments of Poon: http://heartiste.wordpress.com/the-sixteen-commandments-of-poon/ | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/14 04:41 PM |
| 6 | My take on the spreadsheet husbandBest part of the wife's story is how she freaks out when her husband won't return her calls & emails. No-contact dread game hits her harder than any BP style verbal communication ever could. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/14 05:07 AM |
| 1 | A Man's Job is to Make Things HappenI've been hit on a number of times by women, but this is the exception, not the rule. Most of the time I have to make the first move. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/14 09:12 PM |
| 0 | A wife has constantly turned down her husband for sex because her work leaves her tired. The wife then says she is going on a business trip for 10 days. The husband responds with an e-mail before she goes away listing the amount of times she denied him sex charted in an Excel spreadsheet.Best part is the effectiveness of the dread game where he doesn't reply to his wife's attempts to contact them. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/14 04:42 PM |
| 3 | [Discussion] Why do women deny their desire to be dominated?Your answer is in The Sex God Method. Women want both dominance and emotion. When they ask for "passionate love-making" they are asking for emotion. (it's also important to include variety by mixing things up) Perhaps some women might be more shy about asking for dominance, but not all of them are. "Do whatever you want," one of my plates told me. This is a girl I tie up and spank on a regular basis, and she describes her sexual tastes as "pretty standard." After a really rough fuck where I span… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/14 04:20 PM |
| 3 | A Man's Job is to Make Things HappenAd hominem more pls. Of course women have sex because they want to. When I fuck a woman, there is no doubt in my mind that she wants me to fuck her. But women almost never initiate/escalate in the early stages of a relationship, just like they almost never approach men. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/14 04:00 PM |
| 1 | A Man's Job is to Make Things HappenWomen do make the decision to have sex, but usually only in response to men's advances (early on in a relationship that is). When I fuck a woman, there is no question in my mind that she wants me to fuck her. But the first time I fuck a woman, I'm the one who has to take off her pants (or tell her to take off her pants). Women decide to go along with it (consent), but they feel that they avoid responsibility because they didn't make the first move. The man is active, the woman is passive/recepti… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/14 03:01 PM |
| 1 | A Man's Job is to Make Things HappenAre you trolling? I'm not saying that women avoiding responsibility for sex is a bad thing and should be changed; I'm simply saying that's the way things are. What is silly is the fact that women see these things as simply "happening" but what really takes place is the man makes a move and she goes along with it. That it "just happened" is a woman's way of hamstering. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/14 02:26 AM |
| 5 | Emergency Measures to Salvage a RelationshipCan also simply cut off all contact: http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2009/11/23/the-easiest-way-to-revive-a-flagging-relationship/ | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/14 02:19 AM |
| 2 | Thoughtcatalog posts TRP confirmation on the same day they post "5 reasons why being super alpha leads to an empty life"The day your girlfriend left you because you wouldn’t watch a single episode of My Little Pony, Friendship is Magic when she told you how much it meant to her. Alpha Trans: The day your girlfriend left you because she walked in on you fucking her hot friend in the ass. You tried to make yourself care, but couldn't. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/14 04:48 PM |
| 1 | I don't even know where to begin with this...Demonstrate Clear Consent He forgot to mention you should ask a woman before you glance in her direction. Glancing at a woman without her consent is a form of harassment. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/14 04:07 AM |
| 2 | Step by Step Guide to Text Game with Side Chick/PlateI don't think you needed to make the initial suggestion to meet for drinks at the cheesecake factory. When she asked you "Ok where do you want to meet up?" you could have just said your place or her place and left it at that. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/14 10:59 PM |
| 0 | I found a "good woman" now I'm in dilemmaI guess this depends on the legal jurisdiction. Where I live (Canada), the law recognizes common law unions, but does not give nearly as much financial payout upon the breakup of a common-law union. The prof in my law class made it very clear that common-law status does not give anything close to the financial rights of legal marriage in the event of divorce. The point is, if you decide you want to raise children with a woman, you're taking a risk. There are ways you can minimize this risk (care… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/14 05:27 PM |
| -1 | I found a "good woman" now I'm in dilemmaOut of all the women you've fucked, have you found any who would make a better wife? TBH it's probably better to have a solid 7 who adores you and caters to your every need, than an 8+ who is harder to manage (more hypergamous, less accomodating). 25-year old virgins who are ready to settle down are a rare thing. Remember that you should choose your wife from a logical standpoint like in a business endeavour. Her personality and her behaviour are far more important than her looks. My advice: if … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/14 04:15 PM |
| 2 | A few reflections on Alphaness and approaching. And a question.News flash: women behave differently toward men they're attracted to. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/14 04:27 PM |
| 8 | Roissy Shivs Robin Korth with Harsh Truthshe did nothing to deserve that kind of treatment from him. He should have just ghosted on her after seeing her naked. No need to crush her spirit. She asked him why he didn't fuck her and he straight-up told her the truth. There was no maliciousness involved, just brutal honesty. The guy suggested clothes that hid her wrinkles? wut. That is some serious scarcity mentality. If he likes everything else about her and he could enjoy fucking her in certain clothes, why not? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/14 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Spinning a few plates. How do I avoid the eventual relationship ultimatumTwo options: 1) Tell them straight up that you aren't looking for anything exclusive at the moment. 2) Wait for them to bring it up and say the same thing. Here's a good article that addresses how to retain plates: http://www.goodlookingloser.com/entry/get-laid/retention-fuck-buddies | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/14 04:09 AM |
| 1 | What is the best way to handle the bill on a date? Pay or Split? And how do you go about it?I prefer to set the frame where sometimes I will treat her, and sometimes she will treat me. My default rule is that whoever invites the other person is assumed to be paying (unless clearly stated otherwise). It's important to get her to invest in you. I try to adhere to the golden ratio and give her 2/3 of everything she gives me, thus making her chase me and instilling her belief in my higher status. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/14 10:09 PM |
| 2 | What is the best way to handle the bill on a date? Pay or Split? And how do you go about it?Lunch can sometimes give off too much of a "friend" vibe, though a lot depends on your game and your frame. I would not recommend a meal for the first date. You can arrange to meet for coffee in the evening. Just be sure to sit beside her, not across from her (so you can kino without being awkward). And of course I would just pay for both coffees, since it's not expensive. With coffee as first date you are less likely to fuck her, so a good idea is to play it somewhat aloof and set up for the se… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/14 10:01 PM |
| 13 | 10 Things I Want My Daughters To Know About Marriage (from a Beta)Don’t let your husband pressure you into sex Translation: You will not desire sex with your husband, because you won't respect a man without balls. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/14 03:35 PM |
| 11 | What is the best way to handle the bill on a date? Pay or Split? And how do you go about it?1) Offer to meet for drinks. When you order, say "I'll get this round" and pay for both. This implies the next round is on her. 2) Meet at a dive bar and pick up the tab for a couple rounds of cheap drinks only. Shouldn't cost you much. For the first date I think it's better off simply to pay and not make a big deal out of it. Of course you shouldn't invite her out to anything expensive like dinner until after you've fucked her. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/14 04:36 AM |
| 7 | FR: Went Dark Triad with the Ex After 6 Months.Don't see why you spoke to her on the phone for hours. Btw, what you did is called "going caveman." | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/14 04:29 AM |
| 13 | My use of Dread Game in a LTRI’ve been with my girl for 4 months You're calling this an LTR? I don't see why you'd become exclusive with a girl so early on, especially when you haven't been having crazy quantities of sex. IMO, date for at least 6 months before becoming exclusive. Make the girl work to chase you and lock you down, and she will gain a greater appreciation of your value, making her much more loyal and committed when you do become exclusive. It's also important that you take a good deal of time to screen her to… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/14 01:09 AM |
| 9 | FR: First Success since taking TRP- The Before/After mindsetA strategy to try for future dinner dates: http://www.thumotic.com/the-guaranteed-second-date-ban/ Basically you make a curry with her which has to cook for 40-60 minutes. She's not expecting you to make a move until after dinner, so you defy her expectations by escalating hard while the curry is cooking. Both times I've tried this I've fucked the girl before dinner. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/14 04:01 PM |
| 5 | FR: First Success since taking TRP- The Before/After mindset"see you when I see you" Depends on your own frame and style, but I'm not sure I like this line. To me, it seems awkward, like you're trying to hard to act nonchalant. I much prefer a simple "goodbye"; it's brief and ambiguous ("will he call me?" she thinks). | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/14 03:58 PM |
| 1 | So, MGTOW's get a lot of hate. Why?why are women so hateful when men GTOW? It's simple supply and demand economics of the SMP. The fewer men who compete for women, the lower women's SMV collectively falls and the harder is it for them to land a high-value man (this is a problem for middle-aged women). | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/14 02:14 PM |
| 5 | Any book recommendations on improving your game and being more alpha?Models, by Mark Manson. IMO this is the single best resource by far. Mode One, by Alan Roger Currie. Bang, by Roosh V. The most condensed guide to game: http://heartiste.wordpress.com/the-sixteen-commandments-of-poon/ | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/14 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Beta falsely accused of rape. Instead of standing up for himself, he writes whining blog post about how helpless he feelsSo you're saying you're a social retard? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/14 03:45 PM |
| 2 | Which to do first - lose ~50 lbs as quickly as possible, or lose weight slowly and focus on weight training?which would get me laid fastest? This is the wrong attitude to have. The truth is that you are considering taking on a significant lifestyle change that will take a lot of discipline and will pay off in the long run, not with quick results. Lifting weights will improve your confidence in ways that walking and dieting do not (in addition to the physical payoff). It also burns calories and stimulates your body to produce muscle mass which uses calories to build and to maintain. It is possible to l… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/14 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Shut Down the Male Hamster and ApproachStreet approaches aren't for everyone. You might want to try day game venues that give you a captive audience: coffee shops, public transit (stops or en route), clothing stores, foodcourts in malls, &c. In these environments you can strike up a conversation more indirectly with a lower energy style of game (see Roosh V's Day Bang). | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/14 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Things that TRP is wrong aboutFat people are fat simply due to poor self-control It's true that sometimes there are medical issues in play. That said, I have seen too many fat people make the effort and loose a lot of weight to believe that most fat people are simply unfortunate victims of medical conditions or biology. Several of my family members have gone on weight watchers at different points in their lives--and guess what? It works. They counted the points for their food intake, stuck to the system, and they lost weight… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/14 10:06 PM |
| 8 | WARNING- We will tell you the truth.Utilize PE PE, aside from the horrific plastic surgery one might get, is a bullshit scam. That's the truth. Size does not matter nearly as much as most men think it does. If your dick is long enough for you to fuck a woman, it is not too small. The best solution is not to worry about it. The appeal of a larger penis is almost purely psychological, not based on greater physical stimulation for the woman, since most of the nerve endings are located toward the entrance of the vagina. Solution: read… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/14 08:54 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with a flake?she has agreed provisionally Wtf does this mean? We need full details on the situation in order to make a judgement. What exactly did she say? Usually a provisional agreement is not a real date. If she flakes by text, either ignore her text for a while (several days to a week), then re-engage with a non-sequitur "feeler" text to gauge her interest. If you instead want to reply to her flake text directly, you could wait a couple of hours or a day and text back "gay," "pfft," or ". . ." The more a… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/14 07:50 PM |
| 40 | Nerdy wife streamer cheated on her husband at a streaming event "SGDQ (Summer Games Done Quick)"It's not her fault; she's just confused. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/14 03:17 PM |
| 6 | "Do any other older ladies (40ish) find the double standard of not being able to date down in age ridiculous?"Woman who won't date older men complains that men don't want to date older women. Solipsism at its finest. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/14 02:58 PM |
| 0 | Starting senior year of HS in a few monthsIf you're cool at your school, date chicks from your school. If you're not, date chicks from other schools. Follow the 16 commandments of poon: http://heartiste.wordpress.com/the-sixteen-commandments-of-poon/ Easiest way to get laid is to play in a band. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/14 05:41 PM |
| 7 | [FR] New guy trying to improveDon't rely on alcohol to approach; it's a crutch. You need to psyche yourself up so you can cold approach while stone sober. The key to this is confidence and outcome independence. Focus on your actions and realize you can't control her response. Your opener, as you probably know, is terrible (you shouldn't be apologizing for talking to her, and calling her "beautiful" right off the bat frames her as the prize). But at least what you've learned is that the opener itself is really not that import… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/14 05:22 PM |
| 3 | Request for RP advice on upcoming 2-plate situation1) Just tell her truth: "going with Girl 1" 2) Assuming you run into girl 2 and her group, just relax and be friendly. If girl 1 & girl 2 must meet, introduce them to one another like you would any other two friends. Maintain the frame that everything is normal (don't project awkwardness). Remember that you can't control how they react to the situation, only how you act yourself. Roissy has some relevant commentary: These feelings faded away to uselessness once I realized that I have no obligati… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/14 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Asked a girl out while on a date with another girl...Poon commandment number 2: Make her jealous. When one of my plates arrived at my place for a date I answered my phone and set up a date with another plate right in front of her. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/14 04:16 AM |
| 1 | My tragedy.You made the right choice nexting L for doing heroin. Someone who makes poor decisions like that is not a suitable life partner. That said, if your goal is getting married and raising children, thinking about this from the perspective of "love" is the wrong approach. See the following on how to pick a wife: http://boldanddetermined.com/2012/01/21/pick-the-right-wife/ I think your problem is that you've bought into our BP cultural narrative of companionate love with the whole idea of a "happily e… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/14 05:01 PM |
| 5 | Crippling OneitisFollow poon commandment number 3: You shall make your mission, not your woman, your priority Forget all those romantic cliches of the leading man proclaiming his undying love for the woman who completes him. Despite whatever protestations to the contrary, women do not want to be “The One” or the center of a man’s existence. They in fact want to subordinate themselves to a worthy man’s life purpose, to help him achieve that purpose with their feminine support, and to follow the path he lays out. … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/14 04:45 PM |
| 3 | I just slipped into beta mode...HardIn case OP isn't trolling: 1) If you actually have a romantic/sexual interest in a girl, don't agree to hang out with her together with her friend. This makes it impossible for you to escalate physically and basically relegates you to the platonic friendzone. You know why they talked about guys the whole time? Because neither perceives you as a potential romantic interest. 2) Have you even fucked this girl yet? Until you have sex with her, there is no way you have a relationship. It doesn't make… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/14 05:03 AM |
| 23 | The anger/bitter phase of red pillHating a woman for being hypergamous makes as much sense as hating a man for wanting to fuck a hot 18-year old chick. Men and women have these desires because we've evolved to be this way. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/14 03:29 AM |
| 1 | I feel like my entire social network is turning on meIn case you're not trolling: 1) Pursue your mission in life. (probably entails getting a job or going to school; but if you have money you might go backpacking, write a book, or w/e you want to do) 2) Pick up a social hobby. 3) If you friends refuse to respect you, cut them out of your life and get new ones. (stop worrying about how much your parents rent to them for--it really doesn't matter) 4) Lift 5) Read books | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/14 03:15 AM |
| 9 | Awesome, concise advice found on /b/... of all places.You should cut all contact. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/14 03:52 AM |
| 7 | How to weed out sluts from LTR material?what tactics to use to filter sluts at the time when I want to start looking for an LTR The same way you screen for any other quality. Just talk to her to find out her opinion on female promiscuity. Rather than asking about her past directly (e.g., her number), casually mention your slutty female friend went home with a rando the other weekend and see how she reacts. Look at the attitudes and behavior of her friends and her social group. once I'm ready to settle down with someone, she'll need to… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/14 06:40 PM |
| 4 | Most day-game approaches end in "Oh that is so sweet, but I have a boyfriend..." What tips can you give me?how I can tackle such situations better with girls that may just be using this as an excuse It doesn't matter whether it's "just an excuse" or not. If it's an excuse it's just another way of her phrasing her rejection. It's not unlikely that many of them really do have boyfriends. You haven't mentioned your age/demographic but I recall reading a study that said something like 40-50% of college-aged women report being in relationships. | /r/seduction | 03/07/14 04:28 PM |
| 1 | How can I approach a sitting set at a bar where most people are sitting down at the tables?Walk up to a table and open the whole group. Give a false time constraint following your opener. (e.g., "I'm waiting for my friend to get here", "I have to get back to my friends in a few minutes") This alleviates their anxiety that they will be "stuck" with you for the rest of the night (until you reach the hook point and they want you to stay). If they are receptive to your entry into the group conversation (you get to the point where you've somewhat hooked them), take a seat at their table (u… | /r/seduction | 03/07/14 04:20 PM |
| 0 | Women love to fuck just as much as menYeah, see, in my book that's called "wanting sex less." This is like saying a more discriminating wine connoisseur, who is extremely selective in the wine he drinks, likes and enjoys wine less than your average Joe who consistently picks the first bottle at hand. Joe will drink and enjoy a larger number of wines but it’s silly to claim he’s the one who likes wine more. Wanting sex with fewer partners does not mean one wants sex less. To say otherwise is to confuse the quantity of the objects of … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/14 09:32 AM |
| 0 | Women love to fuck just as much as menIt's not just about raw testosterone levels. Men and women have different hormonal biology. A woman is not like a man with a low testosterone level. In women, testosterone may be linked to sex drive. But for women, interest in sex is much more complicated than just testosterone levels. http://www.webmd.com/women/testosterone-for-women | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/14 09:27 AM |
| 1 | Women love to fuck just as much as menEither my plates are a lot less inhibited than I am, or they really do enjoy it more. I've never experienced multiple orgasms that caused me to loose control of my body--women do. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/14 09:24 AM |
| -1 | Women love to fuck just as much as menWhen I talk about "sex," I'm including the psychological element. I don't mean "just the physical act of sex." The psychological element is very important. This is why women like it when you tie them down, use dirty talk, &c. Conceiving of "sex" as purely about physical stimulation is a masculine error best corrected by reading The Sex God Method. Perhaps I should have made this clearer in my original post. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/14 09:19 AM |
| 7 | Gay dude here. Not trolling but actually lol'ing in delight.(this might sound crazy - but when you can get any ass, any time, with no work, no effort, no worries, no confusions, no hurt feelings - it can lose some of its appeal...some, not all) This is true but much more applicable to gay men. <1% of heterosexual men have this issue. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/14 07:05 PM |
| 0 | Field Report: She Just Couldn't Get Enough.I tell her no, I'm not going that far when I live about 3 minutes down the road, either get in the cab with me or I'm just going to go home. C hesitates and is still arguing with her friend, I just get in the cab and go home, not a single shit given. Good job with the ultimatum and the outcome independence. Another tactic you might have tried here is physically guiding her into the cab, for example by using your arm around her waist (don't force her, just lead like in dancing). If she doesn't co… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/14 06:30 AM |
| 3 | The EMSK "Red Pill will kill you" post is just Nirvana fallacy.There are two ways to guarantee a healthy relationship. By healthy, I mean the girl is in love with you and there is no threat of her leaving; you have all the leverage you need to assure yourself peace of mind and a steady sexual outlet. Meet your soulmate If you are extremely lucky enough to cross paths with your soulmate this is the easiest way to live the kind of romantic bliss that Hollywood movies exalt. A soulmate connection is the Golden Ticket to happiness and a dreamlike existence. But… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/14 06:17 AM |
| 23 | Woman posts craigslist ad asking to be beat up - then tells the police she was raped, sparking an 11-day manhunt and needlessly scaring everyone on campusDon't be too hard on her: all she did was "make bad choices." | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/14 05:31 AM |
| 15 | "Worrying about your body just isn't manly"Worrying isn't manly, period. What's not sexy is a man who expresses concern about his looks, or exhibits insecurity by talking about calorie counting, &c. So act like you're already the hottest guy a woman can get. And keep hitting the gym. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/14 05:25 AM |
| 2 | The most attractive trait you can have is happiness. And I'm serious.Is happiness attractive? Certainly. Should you pursue happiness? No, because that's the least effective way to become happy. Happiness cannot be an aim in and of itself; rather, it should stem from a man's overall satisfaction and enjoyment with what he does with his life (his mission). Pursue your mission, work toward your goals in life, and happiness will follow. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/14 06:09 PM |
| 7 | How to Pick the Right WifeGetting married is a business decision. Marriage is a contract between two entities. You’ve got to enter into it with the ruthless mind of a determined businessman for it to work. Marrying a woman almost never makes sense from a business perspective, unless she is far richer than you. If she's not, the risks vastly outweigh the benefits. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/14 08:05 PM |
| 5 | RP Truth in Seinfeld: Don't tell women you like themThere's a difference between directly pursuing a woman in a way that expresses your interest, e.g. asking a woman out, escalating kino, and so forth, to actually telling a woman you like her. Telling her you like her kills her tingles because it eliminates the guessing game; she no longer has to wonder what you're thinking about her. The 6th commandment of poon is to keep her guessing. As Roissy says, Ambiguity is, to women, the essence of seduction. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/14 08:01 PM |
| 12 | RP Truth in Seinfeld: Don't tell women you like themYes, there's also a point in the first season when George tells Jerry he should always do the opposite of what his instincts are with women. Jerry asks George if that's what he does and George says "I wish!" | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/14 01:27 AM |
| 1 | "A man doesn’t NEED a woman, he HAS a woman."I'm not saying I agree with everything on that list, but there's quite a few things very much in tune with redpill ideas of masculinity: A man does not need approval from others. A man doesn’t need anyone to help him live his life. But the overall thing to take away from the article is that masculinity is about defining for yourself the kind of person you want to be as a high-value man, and putting your self-development and your own values/priorities ahead of any women in your life. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/14 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Two or none.http://heartiste.wordpress.com/the-sixteen-commandments-of-poon/ | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/14 10:46 PM |
| 8 | Two or none.VII. Always keep two in the kitty Never allow yourself to be a “kept man”. A man with options is a man without need. It builds confidence and encourages boldness with women if there is another woman, a safety net, to catch you in case you slip and risk a breakup, divorce, or a lost prospect, leading to loneliness and a grinding dry spell. A woman knows once she has slept with a man she has abdicated a measure of her power; when she has fallen in love with him she has surrendered nearly all of it… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/14 06:32 AM |
| 2 | Some of you are missing a vital point.Nobody likes a tryhard, know that you're the shit so intimately that if one of your friends pokes fun of you, or a girl is trying to shittest you, don't go all hulk-rage and flip out, play along, because you know you're just that much better. This is where attitudes like "amused mastery" come in. CH has some great points about the playfulness of natural alpha behaviour. If you overreact against every slight you come off as butthurt; often it is far better to smile and laugh it off. This is why i… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/14 06:23 AM |
| 15 | Tinder Game Field ReportSince you met her & got the bang, good job. That said, it seems like some of your text game could use work. You come off as somewhat try-hard in that you are typing a lot more than she is and using a great deal of punctuation. I would suggest trying to be more breezy and laconic. Critical commentary follows: Just wondering how much tinder crush is up to this fine Sunday ;) Calling her your "crush" seems too admiring. The smileyface is rapport-seeking and should be removed. "Sunday" should be "su… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/14 05:46 PM |
| 3 | FR: Always keep frame, passed the ultimate shit test with flying colors.Possibly turning this into a LTR because she seems very worthy. You're thinking of an LTR after only one date? You barely know her and you haven't even fucked her yet. You should keep it cool and take things as they come. Building up your expectations will cause unattractive neediness. If you do cheese to go for an LTR, it should be after dating casually for months. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/14 04:54 AM |
| 6 | First semi relationship after RP just ended today.Where's your fallback girl? Always keep two in the kitty. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/14 07:37 PM |
| 15 | ROK on The 41 Commandments of P*ssyThe 16 commandments of poon are far more useful: http://heartiste.wordpress.com/the-sixteen-commandments-of-poon/ | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/14 06:36 PM |
| 2 | OKCupid: The Case For An Older WomanDespite the fact that the article ignores the reality of the drastic plummet to a woman's SMV as she ages, a salient point to take away is that it would pay for many men to widen their age search range. Unless you are looking for an LTR, it's probably more fun to bang a hot 35-year-old than a mediocre 23-year-old. If you're just spinning plates, it can pay off to go for women you find attractive regardless of what their age is. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/14 10:32 PM |
| -5 | One Hole or Many: To spin plates or to pursue a LTRWho says you have to choose between the two? If you're a high-value man and you play your cards right, you can get an LTR gf who will be cool with you fucking other women. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/14 06:09 PM |
| 6 | One Hole or Many: To spin plates or to pursue a LTRTime investment. Lots of going out, doing the chasing. TONS of flaky girls. Not sure this is a "con" of plate spinning. It's also a huge time investment to acquire a high-quality gf; perhaps just as much as it would be to pick up 3 or more plates. Another thing to consider is that plates tend to be very low maintenance, so once you have them the time is pretty much confined to how much you choose to see them. An LTR gf, on the other hand, will probably make greater demands on your time in terms … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/14 06:05 PM |
| 16 | Juggling Plates: How to do so honestlyin the context that she assumes we're exclusive right from the start even though no one has said anything on the matter. If this happens, she's an idiot who doesn't understand how dating works. How do you do it? It's easy, just use brutal honesty. After you've fucked her a couple of times, tell her straight up: "I like spending time with you. Just so there are no misunderstandings, I want you to know that I'm not looking for an exclusive relationship right now." | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/14 08:18 AM |
| 1 | Women will refuse to tell a guy they don't want a relationship.All of the poon commandments are important. So yes, maintain your state control and keep her guessing. But if you fuck a woman and she's not coming back for more, you're doing it wrong. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/14 08:02 AM |
| 1 | It's Effort to Pursue, Text, Convince, Date...I'm bored of itAnything valuable in life takes effort to achieve. Laziness and apathy do not get panties wet. That said, seems to me like the kind of pursuit you're describing is too tryhard/supplicating. In most situations, texting a girl every day is way too much. Just DHV and be more aloof and less needy--engaging in that dedicated a "pursuit" is neither necessary nor effective. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/14 06:44 AM |
| 1 | Going nuclear with your SOHad I known about TRP at the time, I would not have put up with Sarah for nearly as long. The red flags would have been apparent within the first month. Part of taking the red pill is accepting that you are in part responsible for her bad behaviour. Women will always try to test your frame by seeing what you'll let them get away with. If you had set firmer boundaries earlier on in your relationship, the nuclear breakup might not have been necessary. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/14 08:56 PM |
| 0 | Oneitis prevention and cureStocks can go up or down in value; a woman's SMV only goes down. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/14 06:23 PM |
| 29 | Going nuclear with your SOWomen are like pets. It's much easier to train them properly if you start with a strong RP frame at the beginning of the relationship, rather than to try to re-train a woman you've let run wild (BP frame) in an existing relationship. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/14 06:21 PM |
| 3 | Women will refuse to tell a guy they don't want a relationship.Just when she has you interested enough that you think something might be happening, either a short fling or an LTR, she goes cold. You didn't fuck her good enough. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/14 06:16 PM |
| 17 | Chick goes from size 10 to 14. Boyfriend finds her unattractive and rarely has sex with her. Instead of trying to lose weight and make her man happy, asks for a different way to resolve the "issue"Grade A hamstering: "My fiancé should love me unconditionally but I can't love him unless he fulfills my sexual needs—even if he doesn't find me attractive." | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/14 03:17 PM |
| 2 | Just remembered this from a few years ago and thought you guys would enjoy it.Likely apocryphal. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/14 05:43 PM |
| 13 | My gf says she wants to date others.A woman wanting to open up a relationship that was previously exclusive is a huge red flag. Her explanation is grade A hamstering. Obviously she doesn't care as much for you as you do for her--and you need to accept this, the sooner the better. Also you need to accept that she will never be marriage material. If she is shopping around after 4 months, what do you think she will do after 4 years? What should you do? It will be difficult but you need to pull away from her--not just to avoid getting… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/14 04:57 PM |
| 10 | RadiumOne CEO speaks out: My Girlfriend Was Having Sex With Other People For Money And I Didn't Beat HerIf he did hit her, he's an idiot. Always maintain state control and never give a woman emotional power over you. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/14 11:01 PM |
| 2 | "Thoughts On Being An Excellent Man"Excellency is not flashy or exciting—it’s the tedious, boring, and hard work you do every day. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/14 08:24 PM |
| 4 | Is your dad blue pill or red pill?When I told my dad I broke up with my gf: Meh, there's lots [of broads]. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/14 06:33 PM |
| 1 | What's the best relationship and or life advice you give to a 17 yr old kid(me)?relationship advice: http://heartiste.wordpress.com/the-sixteen-commandments-of-poon/ life advice: http://www.cracked.com/blog/6-harsh-truths-that-will-make-you-better-person/ | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/14 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Sexual tension while gaming women and effect on arousal.It's true that attraction should precede comfort. But you still need to build comfort as part of the later stages of the seduction process. The girl needs to be comfortable enough that she will be willing to go into isolation with you. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/14 03:42 AM |
| 1 | My female "friend" asks for a favour, goes ballistic after I ditch herYou expect to pay your friend the painter if he paints your house, your friend the mechanic if he fixes your car, your friend the electrician if he wired your hot tub, your friend the doctor if he heals you, your friend the lawyer if he counsels you, etc. Not if you're an attractive woman and your friend is a man. Hot chicks get guys going out of their way to do them favours all the time. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/14 02:52 AM |
| 7 | Please help me understood aloofness and how to be aloof - examples appreciated!Being aloof is the opposite of being needy. It demonstrates that you are a confident, high-value man with options because you don't act in a supplicating way. So how do you be aloof? Roosh explains: End conversations early. Cancel dates. Be late. Appear disinterested. Don’t lean in. Stop trying to kiss her all the time. Don’t tell her when you’ll contact her. Don’t say you’ve been in love. Don’t talk longingly about your exes. Don’t console her. Take days to call her back after first time sex. D… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/14 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Don't fall for the "busy" bullshit women throw at you. Its a scam.I had a girl agree to come over but then flake, I assumed it was more "I don't want to seem easy" than anything. If she had balked at the initial suggestion of coming over, this might very well be the case. But the fact that she flaked after already agreeing suggests that she simply wasn't eager enough to see you. So, while I would need more contextual information to tell for certain, I would guess it's more likely that you haven't built enough attraction or comfort. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/14 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Be GenuineRecently there was a post about not saying sorry. This is one of the first things I realized was incorrect about my behavior when I "took TRP" (which incidentally was when I lost 100 lbs and noticed the difference in the way women reacted to me). What is more important to remember is to BE GENUINE. If you are dealing with a plate or your girlfriend, you should definitely avoid saying sorry if at all possible. If you apologize to her on a regular basis, she will lose all respect for you. VIII. Sa… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/14 12:19 AM |
| 2 | Be GenuineA great man does not have to sell himself. Not true. What you mean is a great man does not have to lie in order to sell himself. We must all sell ourselves, in work, life, friendship, and the SMP. Selling oneself comes down to demonstrating one's own value or worth. A man does this by projecting a high-value, confident personality with his appearance and behaviour. In the case of a great man, his value is real rather than fabricated, but what allows others to recognize that value is precisely th… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/14 12:11 AM |
| 1 | What qualities constitutes a "good woman"?First of all, never get married. Even if you wish to commit to a woman and raise children with her, don't legally marry her (possible exception: she is super rich). Marriage is a legal contract that in most cases has very little benefit for the man to outweigh its risks. Most important quality to look for (courtesy of Mark Manson): The ability to see one’s own flaws and be accountable for them. Very few women will possess this trait. Other qualities to look for: Kind Loyal Trustworthy Respectful… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/14 09:27 PM |
| 7 | Don't fall for the "busy" bullshit women throw at you. Its a scam.If a chick is genuinely into you, she will go out of her way and rearrange her schedule in order to spend time with you. Unless the girl is gaming you in a calculated fashion, her being "busy" when you try to make plans isn't a trick or a shit-test so much as a simple indication of her lack of attraction. What are the practical ramifications? If you try to make plans and a woman says she's "busy" (without suggesting a time to reschedule), soft next her. Cut all contact. If she's into you, she'll… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/14 05:43 PM |
| 3 | Responding to the "You talk to other girls" shit test?Agree and amplify: "How am I supposed to seduce them without talking to them?" | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/14 06:09 AM |
| 2 | "I'm so bored, Entertain me"The best reply is no response. Don't try to build attraction or rapport over text. Set up a date so you can go for the bang. Endless texting simply feeds her validation/entertainment and gets you nowhere. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/14 06:06 AM |
| 1 | You are a teenager again, with everything you know now. What do you do differently?Isolate girls and make moves on them. There were at least three girls in high school I definitely had opportunities to fuck but I never even tried. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/14 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Desire for sex vs. desperation for sexOP's point is a corollary of poon commandment III: You shall make your mission, not your woman, your priority. Women should always be at most an accessory or complement to a man's life, never his main focus. By altering his life for a woman or sacrificing for her, a man demonstrates that he values her more than he values himself, and thus declares his worthlessness as a man. A high-value man, on the other hand, makes his own life his priority and requires that his women fit into this picture. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/14 10:04 PM |
| 5 | "I feel really good about my number and I'm happy that I've had the experiences I've had. I learned a lot about myself through sleeping with a ton of people."I've never worried about whether or not I was getting laid enough. It just happened when I felt like it. I have never been without sex The female-skewed SMP at its finest. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/14 07:46 PM |
| 0 | My Quick OKC Thoughts: Short version, Don't bother, but if you do inbound leads only (with examples)Obviously your chances of meeting with an inbound message are much higher, but you're limiting yourself unnecessarily if you restrict yourself them. Just like women will rarely approach a man in person, they will rarely make the first move online. It takes little effort to play the numbers game and send out a bunch of creative copypasta. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/14 07:36 PM |
| 1 | You need pussy in order to get pussy.Yup, it's called "fake it till you make it." | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/14 05:33 PM |
| 14 | You need pussy in order to get pussy.More options=more power. The more women in your harem, the less you need any single woman, giving you the upper hand and boosting your confidence. If you aren't getting laid regularly, you have to at least act like you are. Nothing kills tingles like neediness. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/14 06:17 PM |
| 10 | Confidence is NOT key and wishful thinking won't turn you into an alpha.Why would it? Because if you're rich and successful but don't have game, only gold-diggers are going to be attracted to you. Being a good-looking nice-guy doctor is a recipe for dating disaster. Confidence and game are about being a man with balls who knows he's got options and will set firm boundaries to make sure that women work to fulfill his needs. True confidence is not a mask; it's the foundation of masculinity because it is the manifestation of your knowledge of your power to affect the w… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/14 05:25 PM |
| 76 | Confidence is NOT key and wishful thinking won't turn you into an alpha.Confidence and game are crucial, even if they aren't the end-all be-all of a man's SMV. Being a high-value man without confidence and game will get a man cheating gold-diggers who walk all over him. The distinction the OP makes between "game" and "Male SMV" is a false one. The two feed into and reinforce one another. Gaining confidence and improving one's game is a form of hard work in improving one's self, because it involves a great deal of practice and rejection. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/14 04:02 PM |
| 16 | I don't really want to have sex every other day......The problem is that sex has become too routine/boring/predictable. You need to mix it up to keep things fresh and exciting. An example of one technique you can use occasionally: Escalate hard and finger her or eat her out to get her really turned on, up until the point where you are about to penetrate her. Then, without explanation, simply walk out of the room leaving her for about 20 or 30 seconds, after which you return and immediately fuck the shit out of her. This technique is very intense a… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/14 04:47 AM |
| 1 | On the TRP and LoveEven Roissy admits the necessity of surrendering to love: http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2007/07/06/love/ | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/14 04:34 AM |
| 5 | Friendzoned Beta Orbiter tries to get me to fight him over a girl, I refuse and get her to ditch him later to fuck me in his room.Do you not need condoms for a blowjob? The risk of STI transmission for oral sex is less than for PIV. Nevertheless, if you want to be as safe as possible, you should use a condom. In practice, almost no one bothers to use barriers for oral sex. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/14 01:13 AM |
| 12 | The Rising Epidemic Of Cheating Wives Who Want “Freedom”Some highlights: wife recently told me that I have been in an “open marriage” for three years . . . Open marriage, as in, you date who you want and I date who I want, but let’s just keep it on a “Don’t ask, Don’t tell” basis. The only problem is that I was never apprised of the new, now 3-year-old, status of our marital arrangement. How did I just recently find out that I was in an open relationship you ask? Well my wife told me so. my buddy found that his faithful wife of ten years, whom he had… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/14 06:56 PM |
| 3 | The New Math On College CampusesThe solipsism of these women is astounding. Every single one of them believes she deserves an attractive, devoted boyfriend without needing to do anything to earn him. What they need is three simple steps for attracting a man: Be hot. Be nice. Cook him delicious food. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/14 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Catholic Christian man gets cuckolded, asks forum whether he should stay with his wife and raise their illegitimate, interracial childI smell a troll. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/14 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Shit test bootcamp"I don't sleep with guys on the 1st 2nd or 3rd date." "What makes you think we're going to sleep?" or "That's cool, I don't sleep with girls until I've been fucking them for a few weeks." "What do you think I am some kind of skank?" "I think you're a dirty skank." [deliver this playfully] | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/14 05:41 AM |
| 1 | Shit test bootcamp"I don't sleep with guys on the 1st 2nd or 3rd date." I'm not sure you need to treat this as a shit test. It's possible just to agree and then game her as usual: isolate and escalate. When she says something like this it gives her plausible deniability so she doesn't feel like a slut if you do end up fucking. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/14 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Maintaining Frame (a short vignette)The principle behind these actions is that women only care about how they feel in the moment. Our instinct as men is to try to address what they say with logic, but this is a useless strategy. Here is what Deida writes: As soon as you see she's upset, immediately assume happiness. Shock her with your love. Make her smile and laugh with your humor. Lick her neck, or lift her off the ground and pretend you're King Kong. Surprise her in some loving way, and the emotional slate will be wiped clean. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/14 06:21 AM |
| 6 | Never Commit to a Women Who Can't Take CriticismMark Manson has a good post on this. He argues that the most important character trait to screen for is The ability to see one’s own flaws and be accountable for them. ( http://markmanson.net/one-trait ) | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/14 06:05 AM |
| 1 | Maintaining Frame (a short vignette)It really could have been anything else that was seemingly irrational. In which case, you shouldn't cave by agreeing to her demands. If you agree to irrational demands that you don't believe are justified, simply to placate her, she will lose all respect and walk all over you. If she's bitching at you about irrational stuff, you shouldn't engage her complaint at all. Your response should indicate that you don't take her complaint seriously (this is how you maintain your frame against the "you fu… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/14 07:51 PM |
| 4 | TRP and your empathy levels...Relationships are not a zero-sum game like poker. Getting what you want out of women doesn't mean taking away from them. You just have to screen for women who want the kind of relationship that you do--one that is satisfying for both partners. It's possible to spin plates while being totally honest with them, so that's what I do. Not because their needs are more important than my own, but because honesty is something that I value in myself. Honesty is part of maintaining my frame as a high-value… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/14 05:49 AM |
| 1 | I really need some advice here...If you're actually thinking about suicide, seek professional help. Lift weights and eat right Get involved in a social hobby that you enjoy Pursue a long-term goal in life Read Models by Mark Manson and approach women | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/14 05:27 AM |
| 7 | A year and a half without sexI'll give you the benefit of the doubt and assume you're not trolling. Just drop a serious ultimatum: tell your gf you're not happy in a relationship without sex, so if she's not willing to put out you'll have to move on. If other girls want to fuck you, you'll get over her pretty quickly. And yes, stop pampering her and treating her like a goddess. Such behaviour causes her to lose all respect for you. You don't have to be an asshole, but you shouldn't put her on a pedestal. Playfully tease her… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/14 05:16 AM |
| 10 | Maintaining Frame (a short vignette)I used the wrong pan to cook a meal for my son . . . I told her I wouldn’t use that pan any more. How exactly can you "use the wrong pan"? This needs explanation. If it really doesn't matter which pan you use, you should not agree not to use that pan. Don't budge unless you think that you legitimately made a mistake. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/14 05:11 PM |
| 2 | A note on carousel-ridersOP is wrong; it's not easy for post-30 women to find good men to settle down with: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H-gfxjAaZg0 | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/14 04:06 PM |
| 2 | Escalating when she's overwe talk like friends Firstly, the talk should get more personal, intimate, and emotional later on in the date. You should be talking to her like her lover, not her friend. I don't know how to escalate when she's over at mine. Sit beside her on a couch or bed, as this makes kino easier and less awkward. You can watch a movie/TV or put on music. Begin with light kino such as putting your arm around her shoulders, or resting your hand on her thigh. (you should already have done ligher kino like tou… | /r/seduction | 01/04/14 12:16 AM |
| 8 | My Girlfriend Tried to "take a break" Last NightBetter response is to break up with her and make it clear that you're emotionally unaffected: Her: We need to take a break. I’m just not sure about us and need some time to figure it out. You: "I agree, let's both see other people." hang up Then you cut off all contact. If she calls back, don't answer. Her hamster will go nuclear. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/14 11:51 PM |
| 16 | Eight Signs She Is In LoveSigns that she is into you: -Replies to texts and phone calls promptly -Rearranges her schedule/cancels other plans in order to be with you Basically, a woman who is genuinely into you will act in the chasing and supplicating manner that you should avoid. They will do the opposite of male game. CH has a good post about this: http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2011/03/04/love-when-women-turn-into-beta-males/ | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/14 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Cooking and Male IdentityCooking with the woman is a great way to secure the bang on the second date: http://www.thumotic.com/the-guaranteed-second-date-ban/ | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/14 04:40 AM |
| 1 | The state of AbundanceTLDR: The first law of the Tao of Steve: Be desireless. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/14 04:20 AM |
| 67 | Hold on, I got another call on the other line...Probably would have been better not to answer when she called back. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/14 03:37 PM |
| 3 | Dating: The Text-Based RPGGreat stuff. Let's see level 2. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/14 03:31 PM |
| 6 | Just Passed My First Shit Test Since Swallowing TRP.The truth is she's looking for the rational answer. This is a good point and relates to the difference between the masculine and the feminine. One of the strengths of the masculine is to be able to analyze an issue from different perspectives and to weigh these perspectives logically in order to come to a decision. (Whereas women make decisions based on their feelings/emotion). If you don't give her the rational answer then you're failing in your role as a man. never apologize when you weren't w… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/14 04:02 AM |
| 1 | As a beta, should I fuck fatties, single moms, post-wall women, divorced women, and ugly 4-6 butterface women to keep the ole penis in action?Fuck whatever women you want to fuck. If you find a woman you think is attractive and she is DTF, go for it. What matters is that you're pursuing women you actually want. That said, your post seems to suggest that you have limiting beliefs about your capacity to attract truly attractive women. Don't allow the fact that you are working on increasing your SMV prevent you from approaching beautiful women. The idea of "leagues" is a form of pedestalization. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/14 01:38 AM |
| 10 | Find The Thing You're Most Passionate About, Then Do It On Nights And Weekends For The Rest Of Your Life [The Onion]Unfortunately that's not satire, that's just a fact of life Truly good satire exposes the truth. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/14 09:10 PM |
| 3 | Beta husband falls for the "polyamory trap" lets other men fuck his wife. Guess what happens?Opening up a previously-monogamous LTR is almost always a bad idea. That said, it seems like this guy has major issues. If his wife doesn't respect him and isn't sexually attracted to him, it doesn't matter whether they are "poly" or not; either way he is going to end up sexually frustrated and unfulfilled. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/14 08:59 PM |
| 7 | OkCupid statistics, compare the answer rates of female sender vs. male sender, xpost /r/dataisbeautifulI do read profiles and draft my messages accordingly. No replies. I used to do this too; reading profiles and writing personalized messages is a waste of time. Just scan a bunch of profiles (pics, stats) and send copypasta to the chicks you'd fuck. Then, if a chick messages you back you can take the time to read her profile. Here's a list openers: http://delicioustacos.com/2013/03/26/44-okcupid-openers/ | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/14 06:03 PM |
| 1 | 25M here, I went through lots of mess earlier in life. Now i'm trying to sort things out, i want your advice on how to move forward with my life.First of all, you didn't mention your job situation. If it's financially possible for you, you should consider moving out of your parents' house to a more independent living situation--this will give you more freedom and increase your confidence. what are the first practical steps i need to do to walk this path? To be a better man than i am now? The truth is that no one can tell you what you have to do. You need to decide what you want and then figure out how to make that happen. That said, here… | /r/askTRP | 23/03/14 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Do I wait for her to call/text? (Long text)You really don't need to say anything to a woman you want to fuck. One you are isolated with her, kiss her and go for the makeout. As you make out with her, start touching her more and more intimately and take off her clothes. Pay attention to her body language--if you try to escalate to a stage at which she is not comfortable, she will stop you. Eventually you get her pants off and go for the condom. At this point, she should be practically begging for you to fuck her. It seems like the best op… | /r/askTRP | 23/03/14 07:41 PM |
| 2 | I know Kung-Fu...Report and request for further guidance.http://marriedmansexlife.com/ Good resource for married game, in case you're not aware of it. There is a blog and forum and the book is worth reading too. If your wife still isn't putting out you need to raise your SMV higher and/or implement some dread game (you don't actually have to cheat if you don't want to, but you should do things like stay late at work without calling her, &c, to get her hamster spinning) | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/14 06:42 PM |
| 1 | RP Truth in "45 Tips For Men"Not being boring means being interesting. Roosh has a couple of posts that deal with this: http://www.rooshv.com/the-two-things-that-tight-game-comes-down-to http://www.rooshv.com/two-types-of-night-game-to-run-on-american-girls | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/14 12:52 AM |
| 2 | I've become too critical of girlsI am on the hunt for a girl who is different in a way, but my depressing realization is that essentially all girls are the same at the core, more or less. Essentially all people are the same at the core. But that doesn't mean none are interesting or worth spending time with. If you're a straight guy, with enough screening you should be able to find chicks you vibe with. enlighten me on how I can fix this. If most of the demographic you normally encounter doesn't meet your standards, you can try … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/14 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Stop chasing happinessBecome great. Or at least try. What's important to realize is that attaining your goals will never make you happy for more than a brief moment of triumph. Every goal, once achieved, ultimately becomes hollow. That's why it's important to ensure that you enjoy the process of pursuing those goals; life is about the mission and the chase, not the final achievement. The point is to structure one's life such that one finds happiness through the chase. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/14 04:16 PM |
| 7 | Billy's Guide to EscalationYou escalate on her high points in the interaction. Another good time to escalate is when the two of you "connect" on something. Like, say she mentions she likes a particular band/movie/city/&c which you also happen to like, or she expresses a point of view on a certain topic which you share or you can relate to. This is a point at which it's quite natural to express your agreement with her along with some light kino like a touch on her shoulder or upper arm. | /r/seduction | 16/03/14 06:03 AM |
| 5 | What's TRP's advice on a live-in FWB?Do whatever you want and accept the consequences. If the chick's not crazy it seems there's little that could go wrong. The worst thing that happens is it doesn't work out and you have to kick her out. The one consideration you didn't mention is whether she's a good roommate or not--this is something you should think about. Will she do her share of the chores, pick up after herself, &c? Bonus points if she cooks for you. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/14 06:47 AM |
| 5 | Ever since starting to take the pill, women interest me less and less.Because of the culture of the place where I live, day game is not something that is really done, and while I speak the local language I don't speak it well enough to be smooth. I can converse, but not eloquently. You are rationalizing and making excuses for yourself not to approach women in person. Work on your language skills and approach women. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/14 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Redpill and man as a "success object" really hitting home.Stupidly told her immediately without thinking because I was super bummed. She doesn't want to hear about your failure. She doesn't know what to do with your failure. She just wants your success. I think the problem is not so much the fact that you didn't get the funding, as the fact that you exposed your disappointment about it and thus appeared emotionally vulnerable and weak. If you had told her that you didn't get the funding but had remained completely unfazed, her reaction would probably h… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/14 08:02 PM |
| 0 | I'm starting to resent my girlfriend after learning she isn't the unique flower I thought she was.I'm noticing her disloyalty, rationalization, hamstering, attempts to manipulate with emotion etc. If her behaviour bothers you, you need to set firmer boundaries. All women will test you and they will treat you how you allow yourself to be treated. Since you started your relationship before swallowing the pill, she is probably used to walking all over you, and it may take some time and effort to assert your new frame and train her properly to adhere to your expectations (you may also need to tr… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/14 07:58 PM |
| 4 | Ever since starting to take the pill, women interest me less and less.OP, you have to decide what the overall goal or framework for your life is going to be. If you aren't interested in women, don't bother with women. That said, it seems that your issue is that you aren't interested in most women: they don't really have anything of value to me. They aren't much fun, or interesting, usually not that smart. In this case, your issue is that you need to screen them mercilessly in order find women you actually enjoy spending time with. Embrace your own high standards a… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/14 04:31 PM |
| 7 | How should I respond when she says "I'll let you know"No response can help you here. She's not interested because you didn't create enough attraction in the first place. The best thing to do is just not to respond. | /r/seduction | 02/03/14 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Nervous about going on a date with a girl who's SMV is much higher than mineI feel like, if she's in such great shape she can find somebody who isn't....me. How do I get out of my own head? Couple of points: 1) Remember that looks are not as important in the determination of a man's SMV as they are for a woman's SMV. Your frame and your behaviour are much more important. 2) Thus, be secure in the awareness of your high value on the basis of other qualities which you possess (doesn't matter wtf these happen to be, just retain an awareness of your awesomeness). Inner game… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/14 09:48 PM |
| 2 | Proof-gaming your SO before deciding on LRYou don't need to do this kind of thing. Just install a keylogger on your computer and get her password(s) | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/14 08:53 PM |
| 5 | Post-wall hamster wheels spinning; nothing to see here, folks. "What you learn in your 40's"There will be unforgettable people with whom you have shared an excellent evening or a few days. Now they live in Hong Kong, and you will never see them again. That’s just how life is. This is actually quite true. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/14 08:45 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill vs. Blue Pill ThinkingYour prose needs work. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/14 05:51 AM |
| 8 | Surprisingly Reddit is full of sexless marriages, 8 year droughts and depressed virgins.Ever heard of sarcasm? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/14 07:46 PM |
| 2 | Hello fellow Red Pillers, what is the general consensus in this subreddit of what makes a man attractive?Will, confidence, and power What is also important is dominance--taking the initiative and leading. Making decisions and taking responsibility for every escalation. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/14 07:17 PM |
| 1 | One of my plates asked me a good question last night, Redpill how long do you wait??My rule now is if she doesn't fuck by the end of the 3rd date, I next her. Personally I would not rule out a girl for an LTR for fucking me on the first date. That said, since some guys would it's probably in her best interest to make a guy wait 1-2 more dates before giving it up (if she's looking for an LTR). A possible compromise for her is giving up a BJ or two early on but saving sex for later. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/14 05:37 AM |
| 11 | Treating Women Like ChildrenAs stupid as its sounds you can completely avoid a lot of arguments by ignoring everything she says and going for the underlying problem. Exactly. This is because most of what women say is the expression of how they feel at the time. That's why it's pointless to argue with them on the basis of logic or to try to address "issues" that they bring up. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/14 02:54 AM |
| 10 | Slut shamingOP needs to read more in evolutionary biology. Marriage or "monogamy" is not just a human, cultural mating pattern. The same sort of mating arrangement, in which a male and female partner "exclusively" and raise their young together, is found in many species of birds. Humans and many birds form monogamous relationships for the raising of young by both parents yet also frequently cheat. And of course the birds try to cheat secretly while at the same time their partners will try to prevent them fr… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/14 06:50 PM |
| 8 | Girls love conflict. Perfect time to escalate.Roosh has a good post about this: http://www.rooshv.com/anger-is-an-aphrodisiac-to-women | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/14 09:12 PM |
| 15 | Women have no sympathy for men that were "raped"This is why you must never allow a woman access to your semen (unless you're actually trying to get her pregnant). Always dispose of used condoms so she can't get them. This is the only way to prevent her from exploiting your reproductive material at whim. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/14 09:05 PM |
| 2 | I "passed" my latest shit test with flying colours.A case study in the 8th commandment. As Roissy says, An apology is basically a self-betrayal, and no woman respects that. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/14 08:54 PM |
| 1 | My storyI will say one thing for sex, it really isn't that great. Thinking about it is more pleasurable than doing it that's for sure. You're doing it wrong. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/14 03:09 AM |
| 3 | Should I change my career path to something more "alpha"?a conclusion that you're a Beta if you're an engineer has been drawn. Correlation != causation. Just because many engineers happen to be beta, doesn't mean being an engineer makes you beta. Why are engineers often "beta"? Probably because nerdier men are often more introverted, and thus less dominant in social situations. On the other hand, people in the business world are often more extroverted and interpersonal, so they generally have a greater degree of social confidence and charisma. But non… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/14 10:51 PM |
| 1 | The Beta As Slut AnalogyThis will only increase her perceived value. Her actual value will still suffer as a result of her number--that's why she has to lie about it. A slut who lies about her past is tricking the man will false advertising. It's like a man lying about his career or his income--it's pure show without substance. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/14 06:25 PM |
| 5 | The Beta As Slut AnalogyExcept: a woman's number will always stay with her. It's not just that she gives away sex easily, it's that each man she fucks decreases her value. A beta, on the other hand, can work to reform his mindset and become a high-value man. It doesn't matter how much free emotional validation he's given away in the past as long as he is able to change his ways for women he meets in the future. His value can go up while the slut's value will go down. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/14 10:54 PM |
| 8 | Women of OKC discuss riding the cock carousal and general hypergamyI went on a sex binge and didn't make most of the guys use a condom. And this is why you always wrap it up. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/14 08:46 PM |
| 7 | Girl truthfully answers the question, "Why do some girls say they want a nice guy, but ignore them and lay down for jerks?" Gets met with indirect condescension and hostility.From the comments: Dude, If i am out looking for a man, I'm looking to have sex, not have a conversation, not a "meaningful relationship" but for some reason when I tell a guy that (and i always do) they freak out. A strong intellect is nice but to me it is on the bottom on my list of qualifications that decides if I am going to be sitting on your face that night. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/14 08:17 PM |
| 3 | An interesting quote from Goethe"Romanticism" as a literary phenomenon is not characterized by naive idealism as you suggest. Its thinkers were incredibly diverse and complex, but it is fair to say that Romanticism as a whole frequently exhibits skepticism, doubt, and disillusionment. What makes Romanticism interesting is the self-reflexivity by which it calls into question the association of art with idealization. So "Romantic" in the literary-historical sense has a much different meaning than the modern English vernacular us… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/14 08:13 PM |
| 3 | Wife punishes husband who doesn't want to have a baby immediately by withholding sex for months. Husband says "Fuck this noise!" and hires a prostitute. Dread game works its magic and she becomes the perfect wife. r/relationships can't pull their white armor on fast enough. It's a side-slapper.I haven't once turned him down for sex since we made up, even when I'm totally not feeling it. Perfect example of how the wife must put out more when she realizes her husband has higher SMV. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/14 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Dating and the Myth of the Patient MaleMy rule now is if she doesn't fuck by the end of the 3rd date, I next her. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/14 03:29 AM |
| 1 | i feel really bad for my GF after swallowing the pillYou've been together for 3 years, so shit or get off the pot. The purpose of an exclusive LTR of that length is to make babies. Either knock her up, or break up. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/14 03:05 AM |
| 10 | Field Report. escalation; The first attemptStarted to fingering her on the dance floor. Never done that before. time to escalate again. I find it interesting that this worked out and she ended up going home with you, since traditional advice (Mystery, DiCarlo Escalation Ladder) suggests escalating no farther than light kissing until in a secure sex location. Sounds like the chick was really horny and you ended up with "fool's mate." Nevertheless, your FR certainly shows how assertively escalating can pay dividends. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/14 09:48 PM |
| 2 | LMR at just underwear remainingHard to give advice without more details about the situation. You might want to consider the following: 1) Make sure your game is tight in the first place. I.e., build enough attraction and comfort, and remember Mystery's 7-hour rule (most of the time, it takes on average between 4-10h of interaction with a woman before she'll be comfortable having sex. So make sure you aren't going for it too soon.) Another thing is that if you tease her effectively in order to build anticipation and sexual ten… | /r/seduction | 18/02/14 08:19 PM |
| 1 | How to break up with an LTR?By "sense of closure," I mean that it's one of the ways to make it clear to her that things are over between you, thus facilitating a clean break. If I recall correctly, when I wished my ex the best, she said something like, "Well, that sounds [pause] final." She got the message that there was no point arguing with me, even though she wanted to. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/14 06:02 PM |
| 9 | How to break up with an LTR?1) Plan what you're going to say ahead of time, so that during the conversation you don't have to think about anything other than the delivery. 2) Be a man and do it in person. Avoiding confrontation is cowardly. 3) Get straight to the point. Tell her you want to break up with her, then explain why (don't need to be soul-crushingly brutal, but should give legitimate reasons). Then tell her you think you should both take space (i.e., no contact for a while). 4) Let her vent. Don't argue with her.… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/14 06:34 PM |
| 2 | TRP seems to apply less to less attractive women. Thoughts?As OP says, dynamics of the relationship change based on the SMV of one partner compared to the other. This is because whoever needs the relationship less (i.e., has more options) has the upper hand. So this is actually a reflection of TRP ideas, not a refutation of them. A wife who is significantly below her husband in SMV doesn't require as heavy game to keep around because she knows he has way more options than she does. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/14 05:42 AM |
| 4 | Checked my girls phone, found exactly what i was expecting....She's almost certainly cheated. The proper response: fuck her best friend. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/14 08:04 PM |
| 8 | Monday FR: The Red Pill WorksBeing is a band is the easiest way to get laid, hands down. Why? Playing in front of a group of people instantly makes you high status. As Tony D puts it: If you don’t want to approach hundreds of women, just start a band. It doesn’t even matter if you suck. They just care that you’re on stage. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/14 07:50 PM |
| 2 | Doing it right vs. doing it wrong.Have an affair. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/14 06:49 AM |
| 1 | I've been dubbed King of All Betas, teach me.Have an affair and make sure your wife finds out. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/14 06:11 AM |
| 0 | Let's list movies operating in TRP theorySOI&F is a contemporary work. Just because it's in a medieval setting doesn't prevent it from portraying RP truths. Just a few examples: Tyrion's experience where he marries Tysha when he's young is an example of blue pill idealization/pedestalization of women. Robert Baratheon gets killed by Cersei because he fails to keep her in line, as a direct result of his weakness of character. Khal Drogo is super alpha and Danny loves to submit to him and work hard to please him. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/13 07:13 AM |
| 1 | Self-Improvement is MasturbationObviously, it's important to work on both self-improvement and approaches. Anything can become procrastination once it serves as an excuse to avoid what one is afraid of. A man who has strong inner game and a solid frame shouldn't fear failure or rejection in pursuing any of his goals. Self-improvement should involve the focus on becoming that man who does not rely on any form of success or validation for his sense of self-worth. Only by reaching this pinnacle of inner game can one become fully … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/13 02:22 AM |
| 3 | Self-Improvement is MasturbationJust do it: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2uFH0NCMY4 Schedule at least 2h/week and do ten approaches. for more detail see my reply here: http://redditlog.com/snapshots/38325 | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/13 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Does this really work?I am scared of changing into one of those cocky assholes that I hate. You don't have to be an asshole, you just have to stop putting women on pedestals and be honest with them about your needs & desires. Refusing to be "friends" with a women when she doesn't reciprocate your sexual desires doesn't make you an asshole--it just makes you realistic. Women much prefer a man who is "real" with them than a man who is "nice" (i.e. acts nice out of the ulterior motive of getting into her pants, which do… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/13 08:09 PM |
| 8 | I just want to clear up some things before I finally swallow The Red PillThe frame is the structuring set of assumptions in which we judge an interaction. So a simple example of frame can be who is the chaser and who is the chasee: If a man puts a woman on a pedestal and supplicates her, being "nice" and doing her favours in an effort to gain her approval, he accepts a frame in which he is lower value and she is the higher value "prize" which he has to work to earn. The opposite frame would be a man being secure in his own higher value and aware of his own status as … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/13 09:18 PM |
| 6 | I just want to clear up some things before I finally swallow The Red PillThen I saw this image and it blew me away even more. Apparently there IS this secret code/language to getting women. I would be wary of some of the claims that guy makes. Any legit PUA advice will tell you that there are strategies to maximize your chance success but it's always a numbers game. Thus, I can pick her up in front of all of her friends (with 80% efficiency for each approach.) This is a bullshit claim. Nowhere near 80% of women will be open to your approach, no matter how good your g… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/13 08:28 PM |
| 2 | If you were homeless and unemployed what would you do with $15,000 to ensure future success?First, give up on the idea that "success" can be "ensured." This is simply not the case--at least not in the way that most people use the word "success." As georgedonnelly has said, think about where you ultimately want to go with your life, and then begin to proceed in that direction. Accept that you cannot control the outcome, only your own actions. You should ensure that you act in accordance with your goals, and enjoy the process of working toward them. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/13 10:35 PM |
| 8 | Is this a shit test or is she simply not interested.I actually ask for the date rather than asking for the number. Once we've agreed on a time and place to meet, then I message her my number. The point is to get dates; numbers are irrelevant. If chicks are not interested in meeting up normally they will just not reply to you. The fact that she replied saying that she was busy for a certain time frame suggests that she is interested. So, in your situation I'd just accept her claim at face value and message her trying to set up another date in a we… | /r/askTRP | 06/12/13 08:41 PM |
| 0 | Mark Manson on expurgating our own insidious feel-good bullshitDid you actually read the article I linked or just the title? | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/13 08:32 PM |
| 3 | Craving the approval of womenTLDR: the third commandment, "You shall make your mission, not your woman, your priority." | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/13 08:20 PM |
| 6 | Craving the approval of womenyou want to make it your goal to where your own approval is worth enough to that although you want the approval of others, you refuse to behave differently/change your standards or boundaries to get it. Exactly. This is what Mark Manson calls "true confidence," which he defines as "being less invested in other people's perceptions of you than in your perception of yourself." So when you approach women, you shouldn't be seeking their approval--just express yourself and your intentions in a straig… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/13 05:44 PM |
| 3 | To Meet with Flake at House Party?Ok, makes sense; guess I was overthinking things. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/13 09:06 PM |
| 5 | To Meet with Flake at House Party?Wasn't stalking her--I just looked at the list of attendees for the party, because I was considering going, and noticed that she happened to be on it. I realize that this decision isn't a big deal, but isn't it the purpose of this sub to seek advice? | /r/askTRP | 04/12/13 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Should I tried something else ? Problems with physical escalation and lmrYou can have sex with her sooner, it's just much more difficult and unlikely, requiring a great deal of luck. Hence why it's called "fool's mate." Sometimes it just happens. But "fool's mate" almost always occurs in the context of a one-night stand, and it's unlikely that the girl will be eager for a repeat with a guy she barely knows. Most girls, most of the time, are simply not comfortable having sex with a guy they just met, and you need to take this into account when gaming them. So, solving… | /r/askTRP | 04/12/13 08:14 PM |
| 2 | How did you sucessfully keep a booty call?see the reply here: http://redditlog.com/snapshot/28966/35573 | /r/askTRP | 30/11/13 11:30 PM |
| 2 | Should I tried something else ? Problems with physical escalation and lmrSeems to me that you probably got LMR because you didn't build enough rapport with her. Mystery has a concept called "the 7-hour rule," which is that it usually takes between 4 to 10 hours (avg. 7) of time spent with a woman before she'll be comfortable having sex with you. Banging a girl in less time is the exception rather than the rule, and is considered "fool's mate." Also even if you do get the bang earlier the girl will often have "buyer's remorse" and you won't fuck her again. So in the f… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/13 11:21 PM |
| 3 | Kiss-Close Resistance - What mistakes did I make?If she avoids the first kiss close (by turning and giggling, as you say she did), you keep talking longer and then try again later. If she keeps talking and you want to produce an opportunity, just say "wait," pause, make strong eye contact, and then go in for the kiss. Another thing you can do is put a couple fingers underneath her chin to gently draw her face toward you. If a girl goes into isolation with you with a sexual vibe/frame established, she expects you to make moves. Unless she makes… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/13 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Day Game, need advice.For indirect day game, see Roosh V's Day Bang. His basic principle is that girls during the day are like cats--you want to approach them indirectly and get them comfortable talking to a strange man, then obliquely drop hints at interesting aspects of yourself to get them interested. A key principle is don't give up/walk away until she nexts you; pretend your feet are encased in concrete and just keep rambling/talking. As long as she maintains eye contact and continues the conversation without le… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/13 07:38 PM |
| 6 | How do I force myself to approach women?The "Just do it" approach is basically the case, but there are various strategies you can use for mentally preparing yourself. They involve changing your attitude and actually practicing/doing things to build/work up and become more comfortable. -remember that you're screening for women who are into you (and who meet your own standards). The purpose of your approach is not to get her to accept you but to see if she's interested or not. Your approach succeeds as long as find out whether or not sh… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/13 07:10 PM |
| 7 | Got a date or something tmrw night, no idea wtf I'm doing.Just relax and don't worry about the outcome. Have fun and enjoy the process of getting to know her. Make sure to kino and build sexual tension. Remember that you're screening her as much as she's screening you. You shouldn't be worrying about trying to impress her or win her over--make her work for your approval. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/13 05:09 AM |
| 1 | What was the biggest hole in your Red Pill knowledge or "Game" that once overcome yielded far better results with women?Once you've built attraction and comfort, isolate the girl by bouncing to another location with her. Or make plans to meet up with her alone at another time (time bridge). If you make your sexual intentions clear, her agreeing to be isolated with you indicates her receptivity to your making a move by escalating. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/13 03:47 PM |
| 2 | FWB [F19] wants to buy me [M19] a £500 watch.FWB spending that much on a gift with you seems kind of odd, unless she's quite wealthy. But as long as you make sure you're on the same page concerning your expectations for the relationship (i.e., she does not see her performing such an act as an assertion of "girlfriend" status or some other sort of imposition of obligation on you), I don't see any harm in accepting the gift. If she wants to do nice things to chase you, go ahead and let her--it reinforces the notion of your higher value. I wo… | /r/askTRP | 17/11/13 10:34 PM |
| 5 | What was the biggest hole in your Red Pill knowledge or "Game" that once overcome yielded far better results with women?Several things you can do: 1) Change your life so you actually become higher-value. 2) Change your behaviour and attitude to act as if you are high-value (commandment XI, "be irrationally self-confident"). You can base this attitude on skills/talents that you actually have which other people may not necessarily value. You will get results as long as you know that you're the shit. 3) Gain social proof even if you don't gain value in all areas. e.g., join/start a band. Broke-ass mediocre musicians… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/13 03:59 AM |
| 1 | What was the biggest hole in your Red Pill knowledge or "Game" that once overcome yielded far better results with women?Do you aggressively escalate kino on your dates? | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/13 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Lost libido?Since you see your diminished sex drive as a "problem," you should probably talk to your doctor about it. | /r/seduction | 16/11/13 11:41 PM |
| 2 | Any Red Pill OKCers have any tips on profile building and messaging.Here is a good post on writing a profile: http://delicioustacos.com/2012/04/08/reader-mailbag-how-to-make-a-good-okcupid-profile/ As far as messaging goes, based on my experience don't worry about "escalation"; save that for when you actually meet her in person. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/13 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Why you should use Tinder to expand your gameThe key is low investment. If you don't invest much time into it, it's low-cost with possible high reward. So why wouldn't you do it? Most of these chicks you'll never have met in person otherwise, so it's an easy way to expand your pool. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/13 02:38 AM |
| 2 | Pill on the counter... Glass of water staring me in the facePhysical prowess won't make or break you, nor will disabilities. What matters is that you're a high-value man with a solid frame. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/13 11:01 PM |
| 3 | The Surprising Game of James Joycebetter link: http://www.arlindo-correia.com/joyce.html | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/13 04:22 PM |
| 1 | ELI5: Removing women from a pedestal.Treat her like your bratty little sister. Your frame needs to include your own superiority and higher value. You build this frame by being/becoming an awesome, high-value man with options. Thus, remember that you are the prize and you won't feel the need to supplicate her. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/13 04:13 PM |
| 3 | Escalation after flirtation, with high kino and sexual contentIf girls don't want to move to an isolated location with you, you need to build more comfort (since you say the flirting is going well, you already have attraction). Open up with one another and connect emotionally--as the interaction progresses it should become less light/playful and more intimate. (the book Models is a good resource for this). As for going in for the kiss, you can always try Mystery's line, "Would you like to kiss me?" If she hesitates you go in for it. If she says she's not s… | /r/seduction | 10/11/13 12:12 AM |
| 19 | [FR] Attempt at a Second Night Standshould have fucked her on the balcony | /r/seduction | 09/11/13 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Woman decides that she wants to ride the cock carousel before she hits the wall and ask her BF for an open relationship. BF responds like a boss.I'm not going to bore you guys with huge blocks of text so here goes. LIES! | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/13 04:20 AM |
| 2 | My first field reportRight, you need to attract first, and then build comfort afterward. But you can still come in "under the radar" with negs at first--just DHV until she starts giving IOIs. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/13 05:17 AM |
| 4 | Naked in her bed, only girl I couldn't closeDrinks at her house and we have a few, by the time we head to the bedroom she is sober and I get too horny/can't close/ get a little beta. I think we need details here. If you had a few drinks how was she sober, and how exactly did you fuck up the close? The manner in which things went wrong at this point is quite important for analyzing the situation. Everytime I reconnect she hooks, but as soon as I make plans she doesn't reply again. She's just not interested. Next her. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/13 02:21 PM |
| 2 | My Situation: Not being able to drive is playing a huge role in dating life. What can I do?Either get her to pick you up, or arrange to meet her places. | /r/seduction | 27/10/13 02:55 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Just do it. Thanks seddit.There's no magic text follow-up. Just send a text that night/later the next day with your name. Then later (prolly 1-3 days) text her to set up a date. Whether she flakes or not will depend on the connection you made with her when you first met her in person. | /r/seduction | 27/10/13 02:52 AM |
| 3 | Being shit tested in male groups. How do I stop it?You need to set boundaries and stand up for yourself. Tell your friends that that sort of behaviour is not acceptable. If they continue to disrespect you, stop hanging out with them and move on. Another thing you can do is start lifting weights to become bigger and stronger. I don't think it will fix all your problems instantly as you suggest, but it will help improve your confidence. Remember, it's partially YOUR fault for how they treat you because you LET them treat you that way. If you have … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/13 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Completely lost my frame with this girt and went all out beta. How do I recover?Re-establish your frame (inner game) that you're higher value and you don't care what she does. Cut and run/no contact-zone her. http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2009/11/23/the-easiest-way-to-revive-a-flagging-relationship/ http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2007/04/10/how-to-win-back-an-ex-girlfriend/ | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/13 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Started online dating, what the hell do I say to a woman I fancy? On a 3 year dry spell, really need some help with this one.Just open her based on common interests. For example, if you see in her profile that she likes X book/movie/music/tv show, tell her something about your thoughts about that topic and ask her a question about it. This is very low investment--we're talking 2-3 sentences. She will check your profile and if she's interested she'll message you back. After about 3-4 message exchanges ask her to meet in person in a public place. | /r/seduction | 25/10/13 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Loneliness is a POWERFUL force. Getting laid can be so difficult. Getting close to leaving TRP, please tell me I'm wrongTLDR: Continually seducing new girls is hard. Commitment to the available girl is easy and tempting. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/13 09:34 PM |
| 2 | FR: Anyone care to deconstruct where i went wrong?Game cant work if you literally don't get more than 2 words into your first sentence when they dismiss you or walk away Your frame and/or your body language is the problem if this is what happens. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/13 12:29 AM |
| 2 | "A Letter To A One-Night Stand: A Take On Modern Dating, Slut-Shaming"I am completely indifferent about your existence. She claims in the course of writing him a 2000-word open letter overflowing with butthurt. The hamster is strong in this one. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/13 07:05 PM |
| 75 | You can now slut-shame without ever calling someone a slut. All you have to do is not become a woman's ideal boyfriend after a one night stand.I am completely indifferent about your existence. She claims in the course of writing him a 2000-word open letter overflowing with butthurt. The hamster is strong in this one. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/13 06:58 PM |
| 1 | I'm a girl and I recently started visiting here to see what TRP was all about and I guess I have some questions.Do you think marriage is ever worth it? TRPers differ on this. Some will say that modern marriage, from the man's perspective, has too many risks built into it without enough rewards/incentive to counterbalance these risks. Others will say that with the right woman and the right frame it can work, and that the opportunity to raise children in a family makes it worthwhile. Something we probably almost all subscribe to, though, is that marriage has evolved to a point where the woman is usually put… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/13 10:24 PM |
| 2 | Being direct can be a good thingThis is an excellent example of the power of "Mode One" behaviour--expressing your sexual intentions with women confidently and directly. This forces her to make a decision about whether or not to accept your advances, and saves you from wasting your time pursuing a chick who isn't interested. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/13 09:41 PM |
| 4 | Abusive woman tries to extort ex-boyfriend via text message [x-post from /r/CreepyPMs]Is it possible to have no warning signs, but still have a woman turn into someone completely different? This is some scary shit. Usually there will be at least some warning signs if your LTR is deteriorating. #1 sign to look for is if the sex is lacking or lackluster. Nevertheless, things can go downhill pretty quickly: http://no-maam.blogspot.ca/2004/03/bonecrcker-85-its-very-difficult-to.html | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/13 05:16 PM |
| 3 | False Accusations?Am I right to be pissed? Absolutely, this woman is besmirching your good name with nasty lies. I know for a fact some of them are begining to beleive her, what do I do? especially if she tried to take this further?! HELP You need to set things straight by getting your own story out there. When people bring it up to you, go ahead and tell them, "No, that's not true; what happened is X." Don't get angry or defensive--just be matter-of-fact about it. Your calm delivery of your own story will carry … | /r/askTRP | 10/10/13 02:26 PM |
| 0 | How to Spot a Gold digger [Infographic]Yes, gold diggers exist all across the political spectrum. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/13 02:33 PM |
| 1 | How to Spot a Gold digger [Infographic]A good gold digger will know how to hide her true nature in order to manipulate you. The only way to smoke her out is to hide the true extent of your wealth, or to trick her by claiming that you've taken a large financial hit. Edit: Also, you must make sure never to marry her. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/13 02:31 PM |
| 4 | Sex As Be-All and End-All of Relationshipswhy is consistent sex so important to you guys? Simply put, because most of us want it all the time and think about it constantly. The desire to mate is a hard-wired biological imperative produced by thousands of years of evolution. From the perspective of natural selection, every organism's purpose is to successfully pass on its genes to the next generation. Biologically speaking, sex is as important for the continuation of one's genetic material as eating and drinking. The survival of the orga… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/13 02:15 PM |
| 2 | Re-Defining the Alpha Male1) Ding misrepresents Heartiste. It is disingenuous of his to present the 3 pursuits of self, money, and women as a counterargument to the sexual definition of "alpha." The 3rd commandment is "You shall make your mission, not your woman, your priority." Heartiste does not claim that women should form the primary pursuit of men or are the only markers of a man's value in life. 2) Ding basically defines alpha as "high-quality self-actualized man," and this does violence to the term by stripping it… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/13 04:37 PM |
| 11 | how to finally lose v-card?Work on inner game. Read Mode One and Models. Approach hundreds of girls. You will become comfortable interacting with them and overcome your fear of rejection and anxiety. You don't have to bother with routines and scripts--just be in the moment and have a solid frame. Once you hit the hook point make your sexual intentions clear through kino and subtly guiding the conversation. Instigate, Isolate, and Escalate is most of what you need to know. Practice kino until you are good at it. It might b… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/13 04:49 AM |
| 2 | Shakespeare dropping some Red Pill truth in Much Ado About Nothingand the fine is, for the which I may go the finer, I will live a bachelor. Then he ends up married to Beatrice at the end of the play. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/13 03:15 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Total beginner in a club - K/# close - She thought I was a PUA + The importance of high energy.She had huge resistance to my advances as she believed I was some sort of pick up artist who prayed on first years, she said I've done this a thousand times, that there was only one thing i was interested in. I had convinced her I'm not some sort of casanova This was probably a shit test. Sounds like you got defensive here and tried to qualify yourself to her. It probably would have been better to agree & amplify ("ya, I've fucked thousands of girls") or reframe ("why are you so attracted to PUA… | /r/seduction | 02/10/13 05:45 PM |
| 1 | New to this whole Red Pill thing, read the FAQ, intrigued as to what I've done with my life so far.Start with: http://heartiste.wordpress.com/the-sixteen-commandments-of-poon/ http://no-maam.blogspot.fr/2012/06/woman-most-responsible-teenager-in.html Good books (which you can read away from your computer): Models The Way of the Superior Man No More Mr. Nice Guy Mode One | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/13 05:29 PM |
| 2 | Forgiveness and TRP.She definitely cheated. Once a cheater always a cheater. You'll never be able to trust her again. Best to cut and run now, before you have kids (or you end up raising some other guy's kids). | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/13 01:17 AM |
| 14 | Guys girl becomes distant after returning to uni, he rolls out the feels cardnow, all of a sudden, she doesn't really talk to me, won't really touch me or let me touch her (not even talking about sexually, just holding hands, or rubbing her back or neck). Most likely, it's completely over at this point no matter what he does. He should next her. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/13 05:58 PM |
| 1 | How to get better at sex ?Experiment with new & unusual positions. The novelty is exciting and sometimes the sensations are quite different. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/13 03:00 PM |
| 2 | How to get better at sex ?I don't believe in female orgasm! You're obviously doing it wrong. Anyone with enough experience will tell you chicks come all the time. Female orgasm is well documented in the scientific literature since Masters and Johnson. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/13 02:42 PM |
| -2 | How to bail on an expensive date?Never "wine & dine" a woman early on in the courtship. No dinner until you've at least had sex, and probably best not to treat her to big things until you've been dating for a few months. She should have to earn this stuff from you. If you give them away early on she won't respect you. My suggestion would be to keep things to more casual dates at this stage. What did you do for your first date? This is important info as it sets the tone. Either bail on the play and suggest a more low-key, casual… | /r/askTRP | 29/09/13 04:17 PM |
| 20 | Did I do thr right thing or what?It's your fault that she called you gay. How do you expect her to respect you if you orbitted her and didn't make a move on her for 2 years? If you'd been upfront about your interest in her in the first place, you wouldn't have gotten into this situation. I suggest you read the book Mode One, by Allan Roger Currie. Basically you were too nice/ambiguous/asexual towards her for a long time (mode 3 behaviour) and then she pissed you off so you didn't care what she thought and you lashed out (mode 4… | /r/askTRP | 29/09/13 04:06 PM |
| 1 | [FR] What. The. Fuck.Was there ANYTHING I could have done there? Grab her arm or hand, tell her, "let's go to X cool place that I know," and walk her on out of there. | /r/seduction | 29/09/13 02:30 PM |
| 2 | How to screen out the 50% of women who have sexual hangups:"Do you like the taste of beer?" No matter their gender or orientation, beer-lovers are 60% more likely to be okay with sleeping with someone they've just met. ( http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/the-best-questions-for-first-dates/ ) | /r/seduction | 29/09/13 02:24 PM |
| 5 | Dealing with girlfriend living abroad.If you haven't already, seek professional help to deal with your depression and anxiety. Getting your own shit together should be the #1 concern in your life. what can I do to make myself more independent Pursue your own hobbies/interests/mission, hang out with your friends and have a social life. Live your life for yourself. I feel like she is going to sleep with someone, grow used to being away from me and hate me. You have to internalize the mentality that if she rejects you, it's her loss. Y… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/13 02:01 PM |
| 3 | A peek into the hamstering mind of a post-wall feminist who cheated on her husbandbefore I started fooling around with M, I’d genuinely thought that things were fine in our marriage. So what if we were, on a fundamental level, completely and utterly bored? As Athol Kay says, "If you're boring, she's whoring." Tolerating sex twice a month isn’t the same thing as actually having a real physical connection with someone. She thought her marriage was fine having sex twice a month! She certainly hamsters like crazy but this is basically a red pill example in women's biology. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/13 12:09 AM |
| 1 | How you guys get a girl qualify herself to you?See the section "Use Qualifications" in this article: http://www.doctornerdlove.com/2012/07/chemistry-emotional-engagement/all/1/ | /r/askTRP | 28/09/13 11:56 PM |
| 3 | How to handle passive-aggressive bitching?Kino the one you want and they should both get the picture. In the future you can try using a wingman to distract the other chick so she can't cockblock. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/13 11:54 PM |
| -7 | How do I make dominance less boring? Dominance feels like being a babysitter.Man up and accept that it's your job as the leader. If you don't like it find a dom and become a sub. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/13 11:51 PM |
| 9 | On day 5 of becoming a manIgnore her and cut her out of your life. Fuck other girls. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/13 11:50 PM |
| 5 | Buddy is having a breakdownHe should have kept his promotion and raise a secret from his ex. What kind of advice do you expect would help? This is basically a financial/legal problem. The best you can do is support him as a friend by adding value to his life. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/13 11:47 PM |
| 5 | Not sure how to date in a TRP mindset.IMO, there's not really as big a difference between dating and pick-up as your post seems to suggest. Dating is basically a more formal/organized version of pick-up where you already have an "in" because she agreed to meet you in the first place. So: DHV (be interesting and cool, not needy and fawning) Kino Build comfort Don't talk too much Always be closing | /r/askTRP | 28/09/13 11:41 PM |
| 2 | How to discipline women?Just ignore her. Punish her by withdrawing your attention and affection when she behaves badly. You can either just ignore her for a certain period of time, or for more serious infractions you can "soft next" her as described here: http://www.pua-zone.com/showthread.php?5492-How-To-Soft-Next-Step-by-step-instructions-and-answers-to-questions | /r/askTRP | 28/09/13 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Help with social lifeMeet people in your classes and occasionally suggest you meet for study sessions or grab lunch/dinner after class. Join a student club/organization/group at your uni. This is a great way to pursue an interest and build value in your life while meeting people and expanding your social circle. | /r/seduction | 28/09/13 10:46 PM |
| 0 | I'm not shy but I tend to stick to myself. How can I make friends?Read How to Win Friends and Influence People. Here's the first four chapters in four points: Don't criticize, condemn, or complain. Give honest and sincere appreciation (for people's good qualities and actions). Arouse in the other person an eager want. (see things from their perspective and persuade them why it's to their advantage to do something) Become genuinely interested in other people (and express/demonstrate this interest in your interactions with them) But srsly just read the book it w… | /r/seduction | 27/09/13 11:14 PM |
| 4 | The super-romantic game (or) How I started being really confidentYour criticism of the OP being disingenuous is unwarranted. Opening a girl with a variant of "I want to marry you" is not lying because you're clearly not serious--it's joking and playful, like a form of role-playing. It's a colourful way of communicating your feelings ("I'm attracted to you") through hyperbolic exaggeration. | /r/seduction | 27/09/13 11:03 PM |
| 2 | [META] We need some required reading here. Most of all of your problems could be answered in depth with just a few books. If you actually want a dramatic change, you need a serious foundation. Let me start:You're right that some of his stuff has to be taken with a grain of salt. Obviously most of us are not going stop ejaculating. You have to think critically about his perspective rather than blindly following it to the letter. For me, the main point to take away was that sexual relationships are rooted in polarity, and how to maintain that polarity from a male perspective. Deida does an excellent job explaining the masculine/feminine dynamic in terms of behaviour and communication. | /r/seduction | 27/09/13 03:02 PM |
| 1 | New to Seduction and PUA. Need advice on avoiding STDs.Tbh I don't see much point in asking about STI status (in the context of a one-night stand). Anyone with an STI knows that they should disclose to their partner before sexual activity. If a chick knows she has an STI and she doesn't tell you, asking probably isn't going to get her to spill the beans, so it's pointless unless she happens to be a really bad liar or you're a gosu face-reader. Also, aside from jerks who get STIs and go around fucking people because they don't care, lots of the time … | /r/seduction | 27/09/13 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Blow me or blow me out; deny the FriendzoneOP is right on. For more detail on this see Mode One, by Alan Roger Currie. Another point to add is that when it comes down to friendzoning, it's not just about how you act towards a woman, but about how you allow her to act towards you. If you're overly accommodating because you're afraid of her telling you off, you allow her to string you along without making it clear what her interest is. You can't allow her to operate in the "ambiguous zone" for very long or it will quickly default to the fr… | /r/seduction | 27/09/13 01:46 AM |
| 0 | How can I be *that* girl?Girl game: Look nice. Be nice & do nice things for him. Sex him like crazy. If you want to land a high quality guy and get him to stick around, you'll need to add value to his life in some way. Thus, be fun, interesting, and intelligent. Edit: It also helps if you cook. | /r/seduction | 26/09/13 10:27 PM |
| 1 | New to Seduction and PUA. Need advice on avoiding STDs.Always use condoms unless you're in an exclusive monogamous relationship with a woman you trust (and in that case, you both get tested together before you stop using condoms). In addition to using condoms, it's a good idea to get a vaccine like Gardasil which protects against the more commonly problematic strains of HPV (HPV is extremely common, highly contagious, and condoms don't reliably prevent transmission). | /r/seduction | 26/09/13 09:25 PM |
| 12 | This is a good one: Self described female "writer" (gossip blogger) blogs about freaking the fuck out via text message over a 'insecure man' who had the audacity to politely decline another dateWhen Quin Woodward Pu—an overweight, insecure barfly from Georgia with a penchant for Twinkies, daytime TV and visually challenged and desperate men—receives her acceptance to Weightwatchers Institute, she is forced to make a decision between giving up her 8-designer-cupcake-a-day, sloth-like ways and pursuing a more sanctimonious and less caloric intensive path. Type A Diabetes is the memoir of her transition from feeling-eater to outspoken advocate of puerile, self-obsessed blogging. Like many… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/13 02:32 PM |
| 3 | What should I do if my girlfriend's dad caught me performing cunnilingus on her?Keep going until she comes, then fuck her. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/13 04:06 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Growing pains continue. No close but smashing through my AA like a boss but dancefloor game is killing my confidence.for advice on dancing see here: http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1mpnwe/why_you_should_learn_to_dance/ It's up to you whether you decide it's worth working on your dancing or not. It's always possible to avoid your weakness and focus on your strengths in other areas by going to bars without dancefloors. | /r/seduction | 26/09/13 01:49 AM |
| 20 | Some girls you will have chemistry with and some you won't. Take the pressure off yourself and enjoy the process.Seduction only works if the woman wants/chooses to be seduced. The OP's point is not that chicks will fall over themselves to fuck you on the street, but that there are certain chicks out there who will be receptive to your game. Thus, if any given chick isn't digging it, it isn't necessarily because "you're doing it wrong." His point is that you shouldn't aim to be able to make every chick want to fuck you because that's not how game works. There are plenty out there who will so you approach in… | /r/seduction | 25/09/13 08:51 PM |
| 6 | Some girls you will have chemistry with and some you won't. Take the pressure off yourself and enjoy the process.If you make a move and she's not interested you're better off nexting her rather than wasting your time. | /r/seduction | 25/09/13 08:47 PM |
| 8 | Some girls you will have chemistry with and some you won't. Take the pressure off yourself and enjoy the process."game is about screening for women who want you as much as you want them.” "Females know within the first few minutes of meeting a man whether she wants to have sex with him or not." -Tariq Nasheed | /r/seduction | 25/09/13 06:20 PM |
| 3 | What's your routine once you brought the girl home?How do you perform the "double legs swoop"? | /r/seduction | 25/09/13 06:09 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with The Question...By turning the question back on her in such a vulgar way you show her how unreasonable it is of her to ask this question of you in the first place. In most cases she won't be willing to answer this, and then she can't expect you to answer her question. Takes some pretty ballsy asshole game to pull this one off though. You can't back down or apologize if she reacts with indignation. | /r/seduction | 25/09/13 05:46 PM |
| 0 | How to deal with The Question...There are loads of options for this. Basically just avoid giving a straight answer. Your responses should show that you don't take the question seriously. "I bet you get girls all the time." Your response: "Sometimes they're lucky enough to get me." "How many girls have you had sex with?" Replies: -"I don't put notches on the bedpost." -"Are you hoping for a notch on the bedpost?" -"I only have sex with women." -"Two-thousand-seven-hundred-and-nine." -"Only the worthy ones." -"How many cocks hav… | /r/seduction | 25/09/13 04:22 PM |
| 13 | "Lesbian" gets gamed, ends up pregnantFake & gay. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/13 05:04 PM |
| 0 | Advice for a guy with a girlYou shouldn't have waited a month to ask her for drinks. You've been friendzoned hard. If she's making legit "flirty" gestures at you when you're alone together, try kino/escalation and see how she responds. But from what you've said it seems unlikely. You're better off moving on. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/13 01:33 PM |
| 2 | Trying to develop online game, not getting much resultsI remember reading a post that said that the key in online dating is to say something out of the ordinary to get their attention. (I think it was on CH but I tried looking and couldn't find it again) Anyway the example was messaging a chick and telling her something like "my buddy and I were looking at your profile and he swears it was written by a guy." Then you tell her you bet your buddy 20$ she's legit and get her to meet for drinks to prove it. The other example was putting outrageous thing… | /r/askTRP | 21/09/13 09:13 PM |
| 2 | I am a frustrated male who is ready to swallow the red pill. Where do I start.IMO the single most informative/comprehensive post in the sidebar: http://no-maam.blogspot.fr/2012/06/woman-most-responsible-teenager-in.html To avoid getting friendzoned, I'd particularly recommend the book Mode One by Alan Roger Currie. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/13 02:27 PM |
| 0 | Random situationMake a move on this chick ASAP. To avoid getting friendzoned, you need to make your intentions clear (i.e., let her know you want to date her or fuck her). Don't fear rejection. Either she's interested or she's not. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/13 02:23 PM |
| 6 | You really can't make this shit upWhen she comes over you escalate. If she stops you, laugh and kick her out. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/13 02:12 PM |
| 2 | Spontaneity and date rape. Are these two things linked? Does female desire for spontaneity actually play a role in enabling rape to happen to girls?Pretty sure she wanted him to forcibly disrobe her, but she didn't give a hint like this chick did: Suddenly, out of no-where, she gave me a massive shove. I didn’t know where she’d mustered the strength, but I ended up a respectable distance away from her. I looked up, only to see a huge, smug grin on her face. Figuring this was her odd, abrupt way of halting things, I sat up, ready to call it a night, only to be kangaroo kicked in the chest with both her massive legs. She sat up on her knees a… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/13 08:43 PM |
| 4 | Spontaneity and date rape. Are these two things linked? Does female desire for spontaneity actually play a role in enabling rape to happen to girls?Exactly. Women want the following things: 1) They don’t want to feel pressured to have sex. They have to feel that it’s their decision to consent--but they don’t want the guy to ASK for their consent straight-up. Their consent is almost always non-verbal or implicit rather than stated explicitly. 2) They want sex to “just happen” and the guy to be so turned on for her that he “can’t wait any longer.” They want sex to be an event or an occurrence, not a transaction. Consent in sexual interactions… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/13 03:12 PM |
| 8 | Woman who has lived as a man for 18 months say that being a woman "is more of a privilege"Either you have incredibly high standards on what constitutes "good porn," or you're doing it wrong. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/13 04:31 PM |
| 2 | That time lf our Life ... What should be my next move ?I'd be wary about the painting gig; I know people who've done stuff like that and been scammed pretty hard. You need an overall mission or direction for your life. This can't be given to you--it has to come from your own desires and drive. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/13 03:54 AM |
| 7 | Rather than commandments can we have rules please?Here's my best shot on 4 rules for how not to be beta in an LTR: Don't take her shit. Don't supplicate her. Don't put her on a pedestal. Don't play by her rules. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/13 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Rather than commandments can we have rules please?game in four lessons: http://badgerhut.wordpress.com/2012/03/21/game-in-four-lessons/ | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/13 09:56 PM |
| 5 | I'm done with female gamers for now: or how a pair of tits ruined my D&D campaign.(venting!)The problem actually isn't the chick, but rather the DM allowing her PC to do this. There are very few kinds of situations/campaigns where one PC should be able to turn on the rest of the group and kill them all. Tell the DM you aren't willing to put up with this shit. See if you can arrange a compromise and/or an understanding on how this kind of thing will be handled in the future. Otherwise, quit the campaign. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/13 03:14 PM |
| 33 | My experience with the red pill.The difficult truth that you don't wish to accept: http://no-maam.blogspot.ca/2002/02/zenpriest-59-most-important-lesson-man.html The conclusion doesn't necessarily have to be as bleak as you've suggested, however. It's possible to have a fulfilling and loving relationship rooted in polarity. (just not the kind of soul mate "love" many have been led to expect). Make your mission your priority rather than looking to your relationship. Have you read The Way of the Superior Man? I want women to be … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/13 02:05 PM |
| 2 | Red pill on a budget?If your schedule allows it, run day game. Hit up coffee shops, parks, malls, bookstores, &c. Expand your social circle and attend house parties. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/13 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Ever wondered if learning pickup actually works? I wrote everything down. Take it. Free for Redpill.I'm Canadian and I had no problem accessing it. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/13 10:06 PM |
| 1 | What should I do in this situation?I'm not sure I'll be able to date her now that she's fucked another guy. You were both dating other people. If you weren't OK with her fucking another guy, you should have asked her to be exclusive again or ended it. I don't think I could find another girl like her Stop believing that. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/13 05:04 PM |
| 3 | Time constraints, how do you manage?Start by scheduling every hour of every day. Then get into a routine and you'll start to do it all automatically. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/13 04:47 PM |
| 3 | What is TRP's take on this article?Researchers have long known that high-school dropouts like Crystal are unlikely to live as long as people who have gone to college. But why would they be slipping behind the generation before them? The answer is obvious. Being a high-school dropout in the 50s/60s/70 simply wasn't as bad a sign of problems with an individual woman's situation as her being a dropout in the 80s and 90s. The influence of socioeconomic factors on life expectancy is huge, and being a high-school dropout in more recent… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/13 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Beta realizes his GF is only interested in money, RP saved my life.OP removed post. So here's a summary based on what I remember from reading it earlier today: -he's 25, been dating 21 yr old sorority chick, with whom he was in love -he inherited 2 mil cuz both his parents died -to test her, he lied to gf telling her he only had gotten 150k cuz of other relatives &c -she started epic bitchmode for a period of time (forget how long; think 1-2 weeks) and said that they should take space or some bs -he called her a whore and then told her that he'd lied and he rly… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/13 11:06 PM |
| 8 | Beta realizes his GF is only interested in money, RP saved my life.If the bitch is only interested in you for your cash, she will cheat on you at the first opportunity if she hasn't already. By taking her back you gave her the message that she can get away with the kind of shit she pulled. If you insist on continuing to see her, you must instill dread: http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2008/03/27/dread/ | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/13 04:40 PM |
| 16 | Beta realizes his GF is only interested in money, RP saved my life.We are basically happily back together now. Um, why did you take her back? | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/13 03:42 PM |
| 4 | The whole "bisexual" thing and psuedo-bisexual behavior in females.A friend of mine who studies neuroscience told me, "All women are bisexual. Some just choose to fuck men only." I know a number of women who are bisexual but they prefer to date only men. The reason they give: "Women are crazy, and therefore not for dating." | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/13 02:42 AM |
| 4 | Has learning about hypergamy made you start resenting other dudes?This may be rather cliché, but I think part of your issue is that you see the "destination," rather than the "journey," as the goal of any LTR. If you adjust your frame so that you realize that the point of the LTR is your day-to-day happiness and satisfaction while you're involved in it, you won't worry as much about your girl moving on and ending it. What's already happened can't be taken away from you. In a sense, the relationship has already been fulfilling and served its purpose. And rememb… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/13 08:52 PM |
| 3 | Why do I keep defaulting to give-up/beta mode?Why are you lazy? See harsh truth number 1: http://www.cracked.com/blog/6-harsh-truths-that-will-make-you-better-person_p2/ The solution is to change your lifestyle and get into a scheduled routine that involves all the things you want to do. As for the actual "stop watching TV and start doing work" moment, either don't turn on the TV in the first place, or follow some kind of "ritual" that helps you get into the zone to do work. For example, I might make myself a cup of coffee and then after I … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/13 02:26 PM |
| 6 | TRP for married men?For discussion focused on married game you might want to check out http://marriedmansexlife.com/ , which includes a blog and forums. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/13 11:57 PM |
| 5 | Davos man discusses sexism in gaming in The EconomistYou're right that "nerdy" isn't exactly the right word for the kind of game we're trying to identify. I think the intensity of competition of the game, and the intellectual component of this competition (as you say) is an important aspect. For those who have it, see The Way of the Superior Man ch. 35 "You Are Always Searching for Freedom," where Deida argues that masculine activities such as sports are a manifestation of the desire to break out of constraints into the experience of freedom. It's… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/13 11:43 PM |
| 7 | Davos man discusses sexism in gaming in The EconomistI'm in agreement with you here. A couple of observations based on my personal experience: Generally, the "nerdier" a game is, the more it tends to be male-dominated (and I mean "nerdy" here in terms of the complexity/competitiveness of the game). If you go to a Magic: The Gathering tournament, for example, probably <5% of the players are women (often there might not be a single female player). Similarly, you'll rarely hear a woman's voice playing a competitive online game like Dota 2. In hundred… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/13 09:06 PM |
| 12 | Davos man discusses sexism in gaming in The EconomistMaddox comments on the issue: http://thebestpageintheuniverse.net/c.cgi?u=sexism_videogames | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/13 05:13 PM |
| 8 | Davos man discusses sexism in gaming in The Economistthe original strip: http://art.penny-arcade.com/photos/965474677_7etTF-L.jpg the "apology" strip: http://art.penny-arcade.com/photos/967761811_miT38-L.jpg | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/13 05:00 PM |
| 1 | "I miss you terribly" need TRP input on how to proceedYou might want to take a look at this post: http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2007/04/10/how-to-win-back-an-ex-girlfriend/ | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/13 01:46 PM |
| 3 | "I miss you terribly" need TRP input on how to proceedAs others have said, you are better off forgetting about her and moving on. If you insist on trying again, don't take any of her shit. You need to let her chase you and beg to get you back. You need to DHV and make it clear that you don't need her. So even if you want to give it a second shot, don't respond to the e-mail--just ignore her. If she's really in to you she will come crawling back--and if she's not, chasing her won't get you anywhere. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/13 08:09 PM |
| 3 | Balancing a relationship and educationAs a current doctoral student, here's my advice: 1) Don't bet the farm on an academic career: Tenure-track jobs are almost impossible to get in the current economic and political situation. There's plenty of info out there on this, so I won't get into details, but basically please please please have a back-up plan/alternative career in consideration for when you graduate. Planning on landing a tenure-track job is the career equivalent of planning to retire on lottery winnings. Yes, some people w… | /r/askTRP | 08/09/13 01:36 AM |
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