This is some advice for beginners based on my own experience. When you go on dates, just relax. Seriously, don’t worry about what to do, what to say, &c. Just focus on relaxing and being in the moment, and you will naturally appear confident and secure.

Remember: as long as you progressively kino and escalate, there are very few ways you can seriously fuck up on a date. So just breathe, relax, and go in for that kiss. It’s no big deal. Don’t take things too seriously. Have fun.

It’s too easy to get caught up in game theory and read endlessly thinking you need to internalize all sorts of techniques. Remember that dating isn’t rocket science and even guys with zero game do get laid eventually. Relax, have fun, and escalate. Assuming you’ve arranged logistics ahead of time, that is really all you need to do. She’ll either fuck you or she won’t, so just go for it.