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showing interest without the bluepill methods?

enjoylifedude
August 24, 2014
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Title showing interest without the bluepill methods?
Author

enjoylifedude
Upvotes 5
Comments 17
Date August 24, 2014 7:49 PM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2egtr9/showing_interest_without_the_bluepill_methods/
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Comments

[–]NoLongerSisyphus 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What do you want from her?

Go do that.

[–]Lreme4 points 11 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link

Keep eye contact, touch her, read the side bar. In that order.

[–]CaptainWanWingLo 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Read the sidebar, while you keep eye contact? Them are some mad skillz!

[–]McRedMan 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Escalate, escalate, escalate.

Body language and touch are MOST important in making a girl know you're interested. Look her in the eye when you talk, hold her hand, move closer/pull her closer, start touching closer, go in for the kiss, etc. It doesn't even matter what you're saying, the physical touch should either turn her on or turn her away.

Make her FEEL your presence. Either she's interested and you move on to sexy times or she ain't and you're on to the next.

[–]Doomsday_ -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Keep escalating with physical contact. You show your interest by working up physical intimacy and moving toward sex (emotional intimacy should go along with this too).

[–]leodoestheopposite -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

A compliment is not a way to express interest. Try this "Just to be clear, I find you attractive enough to want to have sex with you, now the only variable is to see how interesting you are to gauge how good the sex would be and how long I would keep you", or something to that effects.

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[–]itsarusko 6 points7 points8 points 11 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Wrong.

There is nothing wrong with complimenting a girl, it just depends on your frame for complimenting her.

If you compliment her just to flatter her so that you can have a better chance at getting in her pants? That's beta behavior and that's wrong.

If you truly feel the need to compliment her because she deserves it, then go ahead. You need to reward her good behavior. So if she shows up at your house dressed up like a fucking hottie, then you tell her she's beautiful and then make out with her. But if she shows up at your house with some PJs and a random shirt on, and then you tell her she's beautiful (just because you want to fuck her) then you are rewarding her bad behavior.

Also you should rarely if not ever call a girl a bitch or a slut even in a playful tone. Alphas don't name call just to make them feel better. The only time I ever call my girl my bitch or my slut is when she's bent over on her bed, face down, screaming as I fuck her into pieces. Then I call her my little slut and she is just so happy from that. But if we're just chilling around, having jokes, messing around and then I call her a bitch? That's just dumb.

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[–]itsarusko 5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Your post isn't really helpful when you have no reason or opinion to back it up.

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[–]itsarusko 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Your reasoning make me believe you either don't have a lot of experience with girls, or the girls you have experience with are the super druggie used up whores.

Yes, if a girl shows up at my door and she looks beautiful, I will tell her she looks beautiful. If I right then call her a slut she'd be like wat. Girls don't want to seem obviously trashy. And if she comes over and the first thing you say to her is she looks like a slut.. well that's fucking trashy. A girl likes to hear that she's your dirty little slut when you both are naked and she's practically begging to please you.

[–]Iupvoteforknowledge 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Disagree. I watched my boy pick up an HB8 last night while saying stuff omg you are so beautiful and shit like that. I couldn't believe it but its about frame. He wasn't really falling over himself for her, he has abundance mentality, so she was blushing and shit and ate it up. The sub text is there. "I want to fuck you".

[–]level_e11even 3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link

Lol Seriously? You can't "ever" compliment a woman?

How about: you can do whatever the fuck you want under the right frame.

The kind of compliments women respond to are "bitch" and "slut" when said in a playful frame. Never "beautiful".

http://media.giphy.com/media/aXPf2Ggwlkl44/giphy.gif

This is some serious red pill overdose my friend.

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[–]level_e11even 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Oh, we're listening. We just don't agree.

And I quoted that sentence because you're actually proving our point: anything flies under the right frame, even calling her "slut." You on the other hand, seem to want to compartmentalize what can be said and what can't due to outcome-dependence. That's not Alpha; that's not TRP. Alphas say whatever they want at the right time and under ironclad frame.

[–]vissil 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

That's so totally wrong. Don't compliment someone when you're expecting something in exchange. Compliment them because you sincerely believe what you're saying to be true. I think you need to take a closer look at No More Mr. Nice Guy.

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