It has been a month since my last post. Just an update before diving into the post. I dislocated my knee a month ago in a rugby game and have continued to work out and lose weight. I’ve been feeling ever more confident and was excited to embark on a spring break trip as a growing RP man.

This is what I noticed after spending a few days reflecting on what was experienced. I am not a guy who enjoys clubs or loud parties. I like cocktail lounges and quieter bars because I enjoy conversations. I feel more comfortable when I am able to hear and I enjoy going around and merging groups. Over spring break I was subjected to a non-stop club environment and I felt extremely out of my comfort zone. When it came to going out and getting numbers and texting girls and getting them to come party on our house boat, I excelled compared to my more fit friends. Unfortunately when they arrived, I failed to thrive in the environment. I suppose my “excuse” of not liking clubs is my attempt to stay in my comfort zone and not develop the skills for that type of game.

Although I did not have the success that week of some of my friends, I did have some and learned a few things. What I noticed is that during spring break, you get to see women in the rawest form. This is the one time they can go out and not feel judge because “hey, it’s spring break!”

1.) It’s impossible to reason with the women. Even though I was far more attractive than a majority of the guys, I would lose out on prospects because they don’t care what you have to say. 2.) Women like to be guided. No point in reasoning with them because what they want is that Alpha Bad Boy to grab their hand and lead them to a bed room. 3.) There are options everywhere. It really helps demonstrate that you can pull women even after being rejected. Just because you got shut down, the chick doesn’t really give a fuck and the other women there don’t really pay any attention to it.

All in all it was a great trip, but I guess the point I learned is take what you want. Women like it like that. Just be Alpha and lead the way and they are likely to follow. Anyone else have any comments about club game or other spring break experiences. It would be ever more helpful to keep collecting data from others’ experiences.