Stinging pain

MattyAnon · 2017-06-10T18:34:42+00:00

d I sometimes think It would be less painful to stay in the matrix

It's less painful in the SHORT term. In the longer term you are protected from betrayal, disappointment and financial evisceration.

it. I'm 18 and I never had GF or been kissed by a girl (that shit stings quite badly)

You're fine. Many men were much older than you before they got anywhere with girls (me included). It's hard for men because:

Her SMV is sky high and yours is rock bottom
Women understand and feel all this shit instinctively, you don't
Women have 100% social support and excuses for everything they do, you have 100% responsibility for everything.
It's you that has to do the work, take the risks, and often get rejected, not her.

Plus you're horny as hell, and it MATTERS.... which makes it all the harder.

But... you just need to get on a path to getting experience and getting the hang of it. It takes a while. Stop beating yourself up about it and start progressing and you'll be fine.

what should I do I dont even want to go out anymore because the next morning I feel depressed af for a whole day

Get social. Do everything you can to be social with everyone. Separately to that, cold approach as much as you can in any way that you can. Social progress is a mixture of both these things, and they work well if you work on them both at once.

futmut · 2017-06-10T18:49:20+00:00

Dont read too much in TRP dude...You can learn a lot here on how to treat women without being a mangina but in the end you have to improve yourself with your own forces...

I believe the best way to improve is doing daygame, or nightgame if you prefer...it is hard as hell but thats the best way to improve yourself...you can read this SubReddit 20 years and wont learn as much as 50 approaches...

You will start improving your social skills, you will get women, a lot of women and that helps you get better on every aspect...when you have abundance you dont give a fuck about a girl cause you go to the next one...

NeoreactionSafe · 2017-06-11T11:37:34+00:00

I'm 18 and I never had GF or been kissed by a girl

Begin with language.

Girls do not kiss you... you kiss girls.

You as the male are the active partner, she is the passive.

You approach, she submits.

Until your mindset is one of dominance you are still running in default Blue Pill beta male mode.

"Kill the Beta"

"Kill Passivity"

blackedoutfast · 2017-06-11T01:10:36+00:00

are you getting thousands of IG followers just by posting pictures of your life, or are you paying for them and stealing popular memes and doing SEO bullshit? if it's happening organically bc real people being interested in you and what you're doing, that's very good. but if you're just a loser trying to get rich from IG and getting validation from having thousands of fake folllowers, that's fuckin lame bro.

PillTheRed · 2017-06-11T01:25:57+00:00

Are you really trying to give people advice here, and you have never so much as kissed a girl?

Here is your advice. Quit being a little bitch, lift more weights, and make some money. You are completely focused on the wrong stuff. Go read the sidebar, it's clear you haven't. If you have, you didn't internalize any of it. No amount of cold showers will change that until you change your attitude.

max_peenor · 2017-06-10T21:25:27+00:00

Matty was good cop, so I'll do bad cop.

Gives you a bit of confidence (feels awesome when you hit first 1000 followers)

That's really, really fucking sad. I don't want to kick you in the balls here, but you really need to punch yourself in the balls for a good solid hour. It stings? You want to understand pain? Get punching. Repeat this over and over until you finally crumple into a pile: "Online is not real. Online is not real." If you end up puking all over the floor, that's normal--give your self two more punches and call it a night.

potential big reward

Aim high. Like somewhere around the ankle joint...

popular niches

Yes, fucking retards and broken people. You don't want to be these people. You do not even want to be their king. They don't have personality. They don't have money. They have nothing for you.

Get out. Turn off the computer. Get out and go. Talk to everyone. Take interest what they are doing. Out. Not in this hellhole of electrons and virginity. Go out there. That's where Chad is. That is where real people are. Go be with them. Don't know what do say? "Hi. I'm Mister Hurty Balls." Start there. Then ask them about what they are doing, why they are there, what they think of the color scheme--fucking anything. Doesn't go anywhere. Good, they were probably losers anyway. Next. Next. Next. Next. next. ne... n...

Title	Stinging pain
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Date	June 10, 2017 6:25 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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